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money is literally the only difference between buying and stealing. yes, the whole point of buying is getting consent. what you wrote is essentially, you can't get consent by getting consent. but sure, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:19 PM
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transactional relationships is the only thing out there. it really doesn't matter that nobody wants to hear it, but it is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:17 PM
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how much do you think it will cost?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 06:54 PM
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it's all business. she was just asking about getting things from you, and pondering what's going wrong with the business proposal.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 03:38 PM
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exactly. when you cave, she gets what she wants. but you're still not going to get what you want.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 03:40 PM
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what's interesting is that the marriage contract actually used to specify requirements on the wife. For one thing, it says the wife cannot cheat, otherwise there's consequences like divorce where she is considered at fault. but gradually, all items of the contracts that's even remotely beneficial to men are simply removed. so now it has 0 benefits. as in, I challenge anyone in the US to find one. but men still sign it, b/c it's there, b/c it's a "status" thing. b/c it's sth to do in life. even t…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 03:40 PM
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honestly, this is the reason men's only card is walking away. And women's greatest, and really only fear, is that the man walks away. because as long as he's there, she's just going to keep on arguing, arguing, until she both 1) get 100% of what she wants 2) gives up 0% of what the man wants. Now I understand and accept this. TBH, it seems marriage is impossible for me now. Ultimately, you have the power to walk away, or you don't have that power. Nothing else matters. You cannot "argue" a fair …
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 05:00 PM
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Good response. Just say no, do not argue.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 04:56 PM
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ofc, that's what she wants b/c that's what's beneficial to her. She doesn't care about anything else.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 06:02 PM
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by comparison, just how cheap are prostitutes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:51 PM
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ofc not, the court can just order money from the man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:51 PM
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wow and this is without kids.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/23 05:56 PM
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women want a husband, except, funnily they don't want to be the wife. you might say that's impossible. well, how can it be impossible when many women have actually done it? how many divorced ex-husband still have to pay/protect after divorce, but the divorced wife does not need to do anything? how many married wife have no responsibility in the house, while demanding the husband do everything?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 02:56 AM
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funny when women accuse men of not committing, when they themselves are not committing either. they may say they're committing. But that's like writing a check with pencil on toilet paper with a wrong bank name. "Sure, you wrote me a check"
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 02:53 AM
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6 years of litigation. tsk, tough to go thru for sure. i can't imagine.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:52 PM
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that's great man. lots of men never learn from it at all.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:51 PM
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lol, fwiw, I think what you're doing is pretty much the sweet spot. it strikes a balance in the power relationship between you and the girl. which is actually good for both you and girl. you have to admit tho, I fished out that you're not married, just from the tone of your text.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:32 PM
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lol you're preaching to the choir here. wait, so are you married? lol, I actually totally agree with you. but this forum usually talk about marriage related things. it seems you're not married?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:23 PM
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all I'm hearing is, "don't get married if you're a man and wants sex in marriage".
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:10 PM
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if that's your view that's totally fine. do you also think if a woman expects the husband to take care of taking out the trash, and expect the husband to take care of all car maintenance, then she doesn't want a husband, she just wants a garbageman and a car mechanic? after all, there's no law stopping her from taking out the trash and taking the car to auto shop right? again, you can have whatever view you want. I just want to point out, somehow, the rule is, women can have a laundry list of ex…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 12:07 PM
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Of course, her money is hers. His money is also hers. I really don't see what's unclear.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 01:25 PM
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notice what you didn't say. which is to suggest the husband leave her. which is precisely what is said, whenever any complaints about husbands come up.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 10:15 PM
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yeah the best solution I have thought of is to not take it seriously. but the problem is women are not happy with that. Their goal is to make you mad and unhappy. If you're happy, they just can't take it. I mean, what a statement, but I think it's true.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:22 PM
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hey, she has a point
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 02:08 PM
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tbh, this is why I'm very unsure about ever getting married. even sex does not require marriage, only dating. I can only choose what I do.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:57 PM
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I think most married men don't understand that's what they're signing up for when they marry. If I marry, I would do it knowing that's what I signed up for. So in your example I might say sth like "okay" and basically ignore her and look at her like she's a emotionally immature child. No, there's no other type of relationship, but from what I see, this is what marriage/women means. It's par for the course for marriage/women.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:44 PM
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The point I'm trying to make is not that men shouldn't marry women or be with women, b/c they're emotional. The point I'm trying to make is, they are how they are. If you marry them or is with them, accept that's how they are and deal with how you can.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:21 PM
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So. She'll scream "why aren't you taking me seriously, you must take me seriously. I'm your wife, you must take me seriously". The day after. "I'm allowed to be emotional. You shouldn't have taken me seriously yesterday. You're dumb if you don't realize that". Again. It is what it is. They behave how they behave. Up to you how you react.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 01:19 PM
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you make a good point. They care so much more about satisfying their emotions. It is just what it is. what I realized is. In a way, you can't take what women say seriously at all. Because it's just emotional dumping. But then they say "you must take me seriously, you must believe what I say", but then again, you can't take that seriously either. Because again, she's just emotionally dumping. It is what it is. I have mostly decided I'll never marry. So they can act however they like.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 12:43 PM
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if the previous post was made by a woman. And she described how she wasn't feeling loved despite her contributions, and then complained about lack of contribution from the husband. And then asked what else she could have done. would you really have said "maybe you can help your husband more, instead of doing 3 month check-up". I mean, I honestly don't even see the hypothetical happening. But really, what's the point. If you think there's no double standard, ok, fine.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:15 AM
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Hey that's totally fair and it's totally fine if it's your perspective. But I also described my perspective in my post. What I'm saying is that depressed husbands get less sympathy than depressed wives. You're free to disagree.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 04:48 AM
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ok, allow me to ask you. Would you say, in general, are men told more often they can be better husbands? Or are women told more often that they can be better wives? Would you say, do women get more of a pass by society when she treats the husband like crap? Or do men get more a pass when he treats wife like crap? So which is it? If you think men gets more of a pass. It's totally fine. I don't know the statistics and I don't know everyone's situation. So it's absolutely possible that men gets mor…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 04:36 AM
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have you, in your life, ever suggested a woman help her husband? yeah, no double standard from you at all. Absolutely none.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 04:30 AM
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to any men reading this. this comment completely reveals women's thinking process whenever men and women are involved in a relationship. if the man has any faults, big or small. It's completely on him. He should do better. now if woman has faults. however numerous and serious. somehow it's also on the husband, because it's on him to help her with it. because the husband is her "life partner". As in, if she has depression, then it's totally on him to help her get better with depression. there you…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:25 AM
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the level of cowardice, can't even be truthful, in a random reddit comment. To total stranger.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:18 AM
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you wouldn't have, but you don't have the guts to admit it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:16 AM
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maybe it's her fault that the husband doesn't have anything positive to say about her? in this post, the husband listed his stellar qualities. Imagine this, a wife complains there's no positive quality in her husband. As in, the husband makes minimum wage, the husband is not social, the husband doesn't do chores. Would you then say, "I noticed you didn't have anything positive to say about ur husband. Maybe you can try to help him? Like a life partner" ? Would you have said that?
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:01 AM
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If you don't have kids, just divorce now. What are you waiting for.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 02:59 AM
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if there's nothing a man can do to uni-laterally make the marriage successful. Then why does the man all too often get all the blame?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 07:32 PM
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Doesn't want to lead. Doesn't want to be led. Total trouble.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 04:44 PM
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oh god, go big or go home I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 12:01 PM
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It's such a common pattern, men moving to their wife's hometown, where the wife has home court advantage.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 11:36 AM
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what were her 4 business ventures?
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 11:13 AM
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why did she choose to be with you and then mock you? she could have said no or broke up with you? plenty of men choose girls with no money. but you don't hear these men mocking those girls for not having money. it's almost ludicrous.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 09:30 PM
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Did you move back to her home town after getting married?
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 09:26 PM
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It's all good. Sounds like familiar story. they can all behave well when they want something. when they think they already got you, no need to keep up with the show. i really think it's that simple. but why complicate if men fall for it 100% of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 11:11 PM
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so what happened in the end with the accusation?
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 06:09 PM
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not to kick you when you're down. what made u want to get together with her to begin with?
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 06:07 PM
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interesting take. much truer than most people dare to believe.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 05:37 PM
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When women claim she was raped months ago, the legal system somehow doesn't say "it's in the past". Well, is it not in the past.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:30 PM
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Women want to marry "chad of an actor". They do not want to stay married to "chad of an actor". That's all.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 12:51 PM
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thank you
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:17 AM
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to torture them of course. what other men are they going to torture? their male boss?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:29 AM
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it's because in their heart of hearts, they agree with the idea that when men have faults, it's the men's job to fix their faults. When women have faults, it's men's job to tolerate and work with their faults.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:29 AM
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first time hearing this, super interesting!!!
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:26 AM
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I went out of my way to say only when the double standard gets ridiculous. The opinion I was talking about was that when women cheat, it's men's fault. When men cheat, his throat should be slit. I mean, at some point, I mean, I guess it's the sub's call.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:25 AM
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thank you for not having double standard on this.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:55 PM
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these trolls are absolutely insane.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:54 PM
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Maybe she shouldn't commit identity fraud? Maybe she should just break up? Does society have the same standard on women? Why do women get to cheat?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:53 PM
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What makes you think they care? Your ideas are very true and very noble. But in reality, the court system ill-intentioned to begin with. They're not incompetent, they're evil.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 02:52 PM
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