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"Wait, no, we only meant restrictions for men... you know... because... equality." Careful what you wish for.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/16 03:34 PM
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Which is why, I just realized, Last Crusade is one of my all-time favorite movies... two RP masters duking it out
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:12 PM
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Lol, as if the law would ever be enforced against them... though if this law did exist, its irregular enforcement might actually be egregious enough to expose the whole shebang.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:21 PM
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I recite this poem to myself often, having it memorized. It encapsulates, to me, that moderation is the essence of masculinity. I plan on having it tattooed.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:28 PM
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I used to hang around Washington Square Park a lot, and a homeless musician there told me, "If you're not too ugly and you've got a guitar and you can play, you'll have a home every week or so."
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:11 PM
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Yes. Why would I want to slack or act up? I know how to work hard and I know how to behave myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 12:49 AM
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I think you're either misunderstanding his point, or you actually think that "unicorn" refers to LTRs or that LTRs are Inherently bad... unicorns just refers to the idea that one girl can be "special" or "she's not like that, she's different". RP theory doesn't reduce all women to pussy, dude. It's not inherently against long term relationships, either... if she can fuck, cook, nurture, support and communicate well, if she's trustworthy and has proved it... give her a shot. Always be ready to dr…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:42 PM
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Not for three years. OP described the situation at "temporary." Three years is not "temporary" for a relationship between a young couple... it's 5 he entire relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 10:20 AM
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Dead on. If you're not constantly in the same physical space, fucking constantly, you're either being cheated on or torturing someone. End it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 11:08 PM
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I get the references. When trying to persuade the public of your agenda, knowing your audience is key... this campaign gave it's opponents ammunition to discredit it, and thus failed its goal just to be clever.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 09:04 PM
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The "pretty" and "fat" jabs didn't help their cause, it just made people hostile to the message and made it easier to dismiss. Bad tactics in service of a good cause.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:16 PM
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Not gonna share or post pics... that would be quite disrespectful. She's my partner, not my trophy. One of the most important things this sub has taught me, and her words and actions have reinforced, is that disrespectful behavior has no positive purpose. I think what a lot of us forget is that disrespecting women isn't what attracts them, it's a man who respects himself. Sadly, too many women have too little self respect to insist that their partner respect them, and so they'll put up with disr…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:06 AM
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That's okay man, the disbelief is natural. Doubt all you want. One of the reasons you don't think you've seen hot women in their 60's is that if they're hot, they won't look like they're in their 60s, and she doesn't. Compared to a much younger woman? Sure, she's not as objectively hot. But isn't that what this whole thread is about? She's way past fertility and her SMV is lower than it was, but for me it's working out well. At this point in my life I'm not looking for my long-term partner as I'…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:09 AM
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I'm in a LTR with a much, much older woman (me in my 20's, she in her 60's) who's grown out of her bullshit but is still smoking hot... think less Bea Aurther and more Helen Mirren. I still see the younger chicks on the side for flings when it's convenient, but... honestly, she's much better. Just less hassle, more experience, supportive instead of combative... At this point in my life, it's working wonders.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:11 PM
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As he said, he just finished eating there. "Work girl" is actually "place-i-used-to-work girl".
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 08:43 PM
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One of the best scenes in the entire series, so far... and perhaps my favorite episode. Such coiled tension, such high-level politcal maneuvering. But this is one hell of a stretch, r/gameofthrones exists, dude.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:26 PM
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"Being a jerk" is what the BP sees through the BP lens... to someone indoctrinated into the idea that women must be worshipped and treated as infallible gods whose needs and feelings supercede all other consideration, prioritizing your own needs is "being a jerk." Teasing women instead of groveling to them is "being a jerk". Speaking your mind instead of what a woman wants to hear is "being a jerk." Reaping the rewards of focusing on yourself, as opposed to their unsuccessful strategy of focusin…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:38 PM
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I remember the "snap" very well. Three years ago... I stomped around the streets of New York City, (hammered out of my mind after I found my unicorn blowing some dude she just met in the bathroom of the classy party I'd brought her to) screaming "That woman is the Devil! That woman is the Devil!" at the top of my lungs, through a stream of furious tears. The beta me died that night.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:49 PM
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Sillyness shows them that you don't really take them seriously. Which means they have to keep trying, if they want to be taken seriously. Which is good. The saddest part of the whole ordeal is, they may actually truly believe that they want to hear more, that they want you to be more vulnerable... it doesn't occur to them that if you were, they'd get bored and leave. Every time it's happened to them, they've explained it to themselves in other ways.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:22 AM
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It sounds like you learned a very valuable lesson about using physical force of any kind against women... especially women you don't know. There's no tactical or social advantage to it. It doesn't factor positively into any game plan, doesn't win you any points, will ruin your night, and theirs. Brushing your shoulder into them as a show of dominance? They're not men. They're not going to brush that off. They're not going to assess the situation reasonably and realize that they were in the wrong…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 05:45 AM
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Yes, but the "work" the prince appreciated sure wasn't scrubbing floors...
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:32 PM
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What work did Cinderella do? Her fairy godmother snazzed her up with a wave of the wand... that's the fantasy itself! Cinderella went from thankless schlub to graceful debutante without any of the work.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:06 PM
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Word. I'd delete this video, this is cringey stuff that you don't need to be sharing and certainly wouldn't ever want anybody to see. Internalize your lessons, hide your process, learn privately and act publicly.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:16 AM
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So how long did it take you to write what this "girl" wrote?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:15 PM
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I think biology is more the applied science here. My take? If we invented and marketed this right, we could make a killing before this society inevitably lashed out against the product. Most women would simply never consent to being tested and would claim outrage if their date/boyfriend asked ("why don't you just truuuuuuust meeeeee, You're making me feeeeeel like you don't trust me. If you loved me you wouldn't need this test."), and so we'd mostly be selling it to men who foolishly thought the…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:02 AM
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You're welcome... It sounds like you're in high school or early college, and boy, I wish I was even anywhere close to these sorts of realizations in high school. Any luck I had back then was by accident... I think you'll do fine if you keep at it. Here's another eye-opener for you to mull over: "When I "pull" I have great success, but it is just not my personality" It's not that it isn't your personality. It's that it's difficult. Once you accept how difficult it's going to be, and especially ho…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:53 PM
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Wait... you may really be on to something there.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:38 PM
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Okay. I see your point. Here's my take: One thing that struck me as interesting was the way you said: "the reality of the situation is she chose and its her decision of who she wants to fuck, and that's perfectly okay with me." In truth, you chose. You chose by not being the better man, you chose by not being worth sleeping with. You chose, by being too generous and too available... You said all these people were smoking your weed... and that you'd been flirting with her for a while. My immediat…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:32 PM
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I did not let it effect me at all Then why did you write this run-on sentence here about it? This girl has you bad, man. Let it go. Stop strategizing what you're going to do when you see her next, that's already a sign that you give a shit. Women are highly intuitive... they can tell when you care, even when you're pretending not to. You can't play-act not caring. You have to actually not care.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:08 PM
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I was a real douche when I was in high school, so was he and we douched it up together. We were never really that close of friends, and I haven't really seen him much since. I saw him again a year ago and he just wouldn't stop trying to make fun of me, I think the greatest act of friendship between us was that I refrained from telling him. Also, wait, was this the friendship and rainbows subreddit? No, that's right... this is the subreddit where we discuss how sexuality is completely divorced fr…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:48 AM
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What I look for, in a nutshell, is the willingness to follow... to trust in my leadership and enjoy and support the choices I make. I have my own particular skill and my own scene in which I am dominant... I'm a swing and salsa dancer, and I take girls out dancing to my friend's shows. If they're already excellent partner dancers, we're all good... old-school dances like swing are all about women following men, so all I have to watch out for is whether or not she follows well. If she doesn't kno…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 02:54 AM
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meaningful tattoos? Feminije hobbies and manners? Those are green flags, indeed... and it seems like she's into you, too. The "no unicorns" theory isn't about no woman being good enough... it's about no woman being perfect. So go for it. Take the lessons you've learned here, and apply them... take charge, stay in the leadership position, don't break frame, and give that good woman the good love she deserves, for as long as she continues to deserve it. Don't dive in too quickly or too eagerly, bu…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:19 AM
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A woman like that will NEVER believe that she fucked up. Her mind will write it off, some way, some how, to preserve her own illusions. But this... this could actually be big enough to be a wake up call.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:14 PM
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DAMN. That's true as shit. Holy crap... I guess I better give him another shot, grain of salt in hand.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:55 PM
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Please tell me you plowed her eventually, she figuratively brought it out to you on a platter. I'm curious what the "better" thing you milked it for was, sounds like the start of a great story. Benjamin Franklin was right: For flings, nothing beats an older woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:25 PM
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I had an ex who was a horror movie freak, and she liked getting choked (which has always been my fetish) and she liked to fight. Oh man, she loved to provoke me into play fighting with her, in bed or in public... She and I once had a fight for fun on a rooftop at the end of a party, she kept taunting me all night that she thought she could take a punch better than me. She was postulating a theory that being capable of giving birth meant she had a higher pain tolerance. So late at night when all …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:27 AM
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Amen. Its not about hating women. It's about loving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:06 AM
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I definitely went through a Stefan Molyneux phase a couple years ago, to the point that I would play his lectures and watch his videos while I drifted off to sleep. He has a lot of great truths and eye-opening revelations, and he's very charismatic, intelligent and well-spoken. But he's an ideologue, truly... a free-market zealot. I think at his core he makes a simple mistake, which is that he believes that just because an idea or theory is good, it will solve all problems... i.e., World Peace? …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 06:29 AM
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I see this kind of shit posted here all the time, and it's always bullshit. Part of choosing good friends is that you don't stay friends with someone who doesn't reciprocate your friendship. My friend Charmaine has picked me up at airports, cooked for me, I've done the same for her, we talk about relationship issues with each other, we just hang out and watch movies. She's also an excellent wingman, we have each directly gotten each other laid several times. You can have female friends, if they'…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 09:41 PM
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I am constantly finding patterns in my old behavior... it's fascinating to reevaluate. I realized a while ago that I bounce back and forth between the same two archetypes, essentially... witty, sharp-featured brunettes who aren't interested in me but drive me crazy with lust, and kind, submissive blondes who adore me but I'm not crazy about... the latter always seem to be the better relationships, and this time, within one, I have realized that I can get the interest and adventure from within my…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 07:08 AM
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Fair enough... I was given that analogy by a close turkish friend, I suppose I never really examined it myself. A lapse in "Trust, but verify."
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 04:45 PM
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Erdogan is a corrupt, Islamist autocrat, and shouldn't be exalted in any way. The massive protests in Turkey recently were a response to his naked attempts to bulldoze one of the nation's greatest parks so his business associates could build a mall there. The man is a stain. A broken clock is right twice a day, but it's still broken.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 06:48 AM
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Agreed. For me, this is a place of learning and self-improvement... It's that exact bitterness and vengefulness you describe that prevents it from being a community I'm proud to be a part of. For me, this awakening happened on its own, and it wasn't until I found this place that I had any words or terms for it, or confirmation that others had discovered the same thing. It was never about hating women, or degrading them, just realizing that, as humans, there's a way in which their minds and bodie…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:35 PM
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Who the fuck builds a mountain?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:43 PM
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I mean, the echo chamber is still pretty solid, no need to ban... we've never pretended to be anything but shallow, biologically driven men. We are here trying to figure out how to get women we are attracted to, beautiful women, to be attracted to us. Your claim that we never went after the ugly girl is valid, and will go unchallenged. Why would we? Never claimed to be nice people who were willing to "look past all that." Now, the revalation here in the sub, for us, is that girls wouldn't go for…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:41 PM
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And to think, all her life she must have been surrounded by "better" men, according to our society's way of thinking... but she "thought" with her body, and she got what she truly wanted.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:36 AM
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You know he charges money for those seminars, right? That's all still within the realm of self-interest. Selfishness is fine... self-centeredness is fine. Not giving your energy for free? Great. But when you cross the line into assaulting strangers? I'm not talking about touching, flirting, horsing around... dude was grabbing women on the street because he didnt think there would be any consequences! Are you really suggesting that the "good" he's done gives him a right to behave this way, as if …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:41 PM
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Yeah... in order to grab stranger's heads on the street and just pull them towards your crotch, you have to have no empathy for them. You have to essentially be numb to other people's humanity.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:27 PM
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Agree 100%. Utterly heinous behavior, there's a difference between "bold" and "aggressive" and he goes even further beyond that unnaceptable line. Man is a psychopath.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:30 PM
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I have female friends, that are friends based on similar interests and actual honesty... but you can't be friends with a girl you have feelings for, or in a LTR with a girl you don't. Example: Charmaine is actually my friend. How do I know? Cause she'll come over and cook dinner and catch up when I'm having a chill night, and she's picked my ass up at the airport at 2am when I was broke. I talk about my girls and she gives her advice, she talks about her boys and I give my advice. We're both get…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:15 AM
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Hey u/abdada, on the off chance you suspect that this guy's wrong and he's alone in his opinion , he's not. You sound like a tool. Redpill isn't a series of lingo and slang you can start to use that make yourself automatically cool and fuckable. It's a mindset, a lifestyle, a slow awakening that you'll have to walk the rest of your life. No shortcuts. Just because there's a lingo in here, doesn't mean the rest of the world stops existing. You know damn well what a "Girlfriend" is, that passive a…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:40 PM
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Yup. I was just discounting the notion that older virgins must necessarily be secretly attracted to men... a lot of the truth on this sub is politically incorrect, but that tidbit happens to be both politically incorrect and actually incorrect.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:40 PM
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It doesn't matter how a girl says or believes she wishes a man to act, because she would never truly be attracted to a man weak enough to obey her wishes.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:32 PM
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I think some of them have an idealized or infantalized version of women that withers upon contact with real women, who scare him. He scurries away, thinking he has found some outlying "monster" because he cannot accept that that is normal behavior for a woman. He may believe that there exists a perfect woman for him, out there, but in reality she only exists in his head.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:02 PM
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Fair enough... that's true. Same arc [and relationship to main character] that Jack Sparrow has in Pirates... I suppose the point is that it you're remembered for what you were like at your lowest, and if your foolish, whining youth is visible to people, it won't matter what you grow into. Luke is always known for being whiny, even though he changed... the lesson is, keep any weaknesses you had under wraps, and if a girl has seen you at your weakest... move on. She won't go back to respecting yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:46 PM
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Main characters are often weak and easily influenced by others, because they need to start there in order to have the character growth that leads them into becoming "the hero". The other characters can be fully formed already because they may or may not have character arcs. What's luke's character arc in Star Wars? Wimpy little idiot transforms into bold, assertive knight that vanquishes both his father and the tyrant of the galaxy. Most people don't remember when Luke just marches into Jabba's …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 08:41 PM
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But they did. The Nazis considered non-aryans to be a step above mentally retarded people, slaughtering them at a similar rate. They were "life undeserving of life", and therefore in their eyes death was a positive change from the shameful existence of being a Jew.
/r/MensRights24/07/11 03:23 PM
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How horrible to live your life trying not to cause the slightest offense, real or imagined to any person or group. Hey, watch it! Being hysterically oversensitive to the feelings you think other people have is a lifestyle just as valid as any other. Don't be so offensive and judgmental. And don't compliment people for their writing ability. It could be construed as implying that there is a difference between people who can write well without using vulgarity and people who aren't even able to fuc…
/r/MensRights04/07/11 04:48 PM
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Because not having a word for it implies that it's normal, which implies that everything else isn't normal. Calling it Cisgendered makes heterosexuality into just one lifestyle out of many, as opposed to the biological norm from which everything else is a departure. However you feel about these departures from the norm, [I personally see it as a "to each their own" situation] I don't think that trying to reclassify heteronormativity as anything but the biological and mathematical norm of our spe…
/r/MensRights03/07/11 06:07 PM
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I read the same article and thought the same things. I think what this episode and the other examples you've shown signify is just how far down in the dungeons of this society men's issues are. Seeing these legitimate grievances from sources I used to find utterly disreputable has led me to feel like I've been thrown into a mental prison and discovered what other sort of inmates they lock up in here.
/r/MensRights26/06/11 03:27 AM
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So what's the issue? Why should it have even been in the paper at all?
/r/MensRights12/06/11 10:54 PM
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I think you may have just proved my point accidentally... you say you don't do much activism, and neither do I... but have you talked about this with your liberal/feminist friends? Have you brought up the idea of doing activism? I have, and I even lost a friend in doing so, not a great loss really. But the general feeling I got was that the soil is rejecting the seed. There's a massive outpouring of women from college, especially from the liberal arts, they are underemployed and raring for a fig…
/r/MensRights28/05/11 05:35 AM
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It's starting to skew that way though, it seems. Men's rights aren't simply not on the liberal radar, it's on the liberal radar under the heading "threat". I think there's a growing sense of "beggars can't be choosers" as far as allies go.
/r/MensRights28/05/11 03:17 AM
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Well then, this is for the other 60%. The knife is for the rest. Hey, I don't believe it will work either. I'm just speculating what the intent of this pointless device might have originally been.
/r/MensRights21/05/11 01:15 AM
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I think the idea is that if it's used enough, there might be a word-of-mouth backlash where men started to think twice. This won't actually happen, however, given that it won't ever be popular enough to wear one that it would make a difference. Also, if you have both a rape-axe and some other form of defense, you have a double-chance to fight back-- gun/knife to take care of an enraged and probably ineffective attacker. Not sure how effective this might be, but as a product, it's never a bad thi…
/r/MensRights20/05/11 11:46 PM
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No, this seems like a valid way to protect yourself. Particularly in the Congo, where as I recall it was originally marketed for. I'm pretty sure if you fuck someone who has one of these inside them, chances are you shouldn't be there. Or at the very least, you should have figured it out while you were fingering her.. "Hey honey, has your vagina been feeling dentada-y lately, or is it just me?"
/r/MensRights20/05/11 09:02 PM
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Bingo! It's repackaged Christianity. The Patriarchy is Satan. An invisible force that is out to oppress people all of the time, and that has agents everywhere.
/r/MensRights20/05/11 06:59 AM
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Deal. As a straight man and open ally of gay rights, I couldn't agree more. I find government regulation of speech to be an abhorrent tool no matter how or why it's used. I mean, these die-hard religious folk are already sexually repressed as it is. Let's not kick the hornet's nest by forcing the age of aquarius on them. Love doesn't have to steer the stars everywhere.
/r/MensRights14/05/11 05:12 PM
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"Our weapons will be principles and values" "Good!" Replied the Cartels. "Our weapons will be weapons."
/r/MensRights11/05/11 09:06 AM
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I agree with you, and it wouldn't bother me unless I intended to marry the person and have children with them. In that case, it would be pretty important that they didn't have a functional womb. There actually happens to be a secondary function to a vagina, in addition to "it feels good." In fact, some people even like to think of it as the primary function, and think of the pleasure bit is sort of a natural failsafe, a built-in automatic override just so otherwise clueless animals won't acciden…
/r/MensRights08/05/11 06:23 AM
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It was calm down "dear". You have to be willfully overlooking the context if you think he would have said "dear" to a man. It made me laugh, for sure, but there's no denying it was sexist.
/r/MensRights27/04/11 09:10 PM
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Oh no, I think the best one was this one, Pierce. "I agree, Bev. ‘Innocent until proven guilty’ is just not reasonable in a world with the sort of rape statistics that we have (and are finally starting to admit that we have)." Hear that? We have to abandon the central tenet of our civilization's legal system. Special circumstances. It's for the greater good.
/r/MensRights20/04/11 06:00 PM
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Whoa there. Way to make Men's Rights proud, brother. I'm more inclined to say that I do care about it, and that's why I don't think women should be in active or combat duty. Especially on submarines, a choice so mind-bogglingly stupid that it raises fatal doubts about the sanity of the human population as a whole. Men and women trapped together for months on end in an inescapable uncomfortable tube? What could go wrong? It's not that I don't care about rape. It's that I care more about the effic…
/r/MensRights12/04/11 07:30 PM
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Though I usually agree with a good deal of what you say, Reluctant, I have to side with colOrado on this one. When analyzing the terms an opponent uses, it is not wise to overlook what those terms mean to them, in their context. While I agree that trigger warnings shouldn't spread beyond the confines of feminist websites, I don't think the origins are malign. They represent a protective instinct, a need to shelter those who have truly been abused and neglected from feeling as if they are alone a…
/r/MensRights09/04/11 06:06 PM
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Agreed. Accuser is unneccissarily harsh, has a negative connotation-- both "accuser " and "alleged victim" are accurate, but only one is nuetral
/r/MensRights07/02/11 06:59 AM
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This is the part of her argument, worldview, and perspective that I find most troubling... A law by which men must gain written or recorder consent for each individual sex act is a practice so obviously impractical that it boggles the mind that it is even contemplated, much less lauded. How would you document and file such claims? How would you keep track of multiple consent forms for separate acts, and differentiate them from forgeries? Does this mean that sexually active youth who fail to have…
/r/MensRights14/12/10 06:21 PM
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Correct. The male here is interchangable at any time... actually, her income will increase for every switch.
/r/MensRights22/04/10 12:08 PM
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