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imtiredofmysself/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:22 PM
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They are like +$1000 tough
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:37 AM
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damn this is perfect
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:49 AM
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Can you talk more about your own monk mode journey in detail?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 12:12 AM
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No I mean shouldn't I purchase a keyboard or piano? Which one should I start with?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 12:11 AM
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Oh. What should I start with?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 02:50 AM
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But monk mode does not mean that you are going to have no social life. Enjoy your hobbies with other intelligent (nonfaggot) people and you will have a good time on your journey. I know that. I just don't have people in my life whose company I enjoy. Endorphines, they are really good. My endorphine system is fucked up. I control myself but it gets really hard to not use junk food and junk internet after a few days. If you feel like it, enjoy some tea with a good book, by the beach or in the fore…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:48 PM
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Piano? Can you link the keyboard?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:33 PM
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I have nerd friends who really like what they do and they slay in their small communities of whatever they're nerds for lol
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:31 AM
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It's something about that extreme self discipline toward yourself and your goals sustained over time that is more pleasurable than any kind of immediate gratification. When would one get there? From 0? What's the timeline like?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:03 AM
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Can others confirm?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:52 AM
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oh
/r/askTRP14/03/17 09:17 AM
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what
/r/askTRP14/03/17 09:16 AM
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One observation. I have been bitching like a fucking piece of little I don't know what here asking stupid questions. While kids shit years younger than me was doing things I would never imagine. I am ashamed of myself.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 09:11 AM
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Btw who cares if they feel rejected if you're not interested, dont try to be that nice guy. If I am responsible for making them avoid me, I can change my behaviour. I don't acknowledge their femininity. Should I?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:08 AM
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Nope. Most of them think you are clueless or not interested. To get rejected you have to put yourself out there. I'm only talking about the women I built rapport with.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:55 AM
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Do girls take what I'm doing as rejection? Maybe they are meeting me only for my D and when I'm not escalating they take it as an insult to themselves? Maybe I remind them that they are not beautiful and that's why they avoid me. If I was a Chad, they wouldn't care. I'm not that good looking. So I'm basically like an insult to her because even I find her unattractive.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:46 AM
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I like all attractive women. With some I escalate to fuck. With some I don't escalate and I just enjoy their company. So you have no answer to this phenomena?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:34 AM
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okay .
/r/askTRP14/03/17 01:21 AM
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very desriptive, 10/10 comment
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:19 PM
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How
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:18 PM
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Well I don't how to pinpoint it but I got hurt whenever I made myself available to connect with others when I was younger. So I became shut. I built a wall to keep people away. So I have few to none friends or women. Let's say I'm talking with a girl I find attractive. I can tell feeling is mutual. I am welcomed to escalate but I don't want to ruin it. I don't want to get rejected or not accepted. I don't be myself when I'm around people, except if I'm doing something I'm really passionate about…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:08 PM
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Why are you even here on this thread if you had no intention to be helpful
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:54 PM
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I didn't ask that question so you could say deal with it you dumb fuck.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:54 PM
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What is that mean? And she is not
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:47 PM
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Another way would be to be aware of what "hurts" you What is the next step after being aware of what hurts me?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:29 PM
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How to do that? By getting hurt regularly?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:48 PM
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Use this technique: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz9T27rtBPE
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:33 PM
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this is for text?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:19 PM
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this is for text?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:16 PM
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of course not dude just practice
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:16 PM
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I meant to say getting hurt. I avoid people so they can't hurt me. I keep them far. I try to avoid being in a position to be vulnerable. So I stay away from people. If there is no one in my life, no one can hurt me. So it means I'm not vulnerable, in a sense.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 09:55 AM
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Not likely
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:13 AM
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I made a new post. Check it out.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 10:15 AM
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Does it answer how to stop accepting validation? I don't want to care about validation I get from women or men. I'm pretty new to validation tough. Maybe I should care about this later?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 09:54 AM
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2 years, how much of your food? Did you get your kidneys tested in this process? Do you use protein powder? How do you take your protein? Soylent is soy based which is estrogenic, which is not ideal. What's your observation on this? Do you use regular soylent 2.0?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:22 AM
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It is like currency. When USD in the market increases, value of USD drops. When you give yourself to her too much, your value drops. Difference is it never goes back up.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:03 AM
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Dude I'm already losing weight. Calm down please.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:02 AM
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Well :D That's why I'm fat.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:44 AM
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Damn yeah Care to explain the personality part?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:43 AM
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Yeah throw everything there and magically a meal will pop up. Bruh
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:34 AM
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Well I'll pay you $100 a month if you prep all that for me.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:19 AM
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Just curious. What are your numbers? Number of cold approaches you did.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:12 AM
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You will have to do a lot of soul searching to find the reason why you are so negative towards other people. Holy shit. This is very familiar. I know my reason. Where do I go from here ?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:07 AM
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100 cold approaches -> 10 numbers- > 5 dates. Optimistic. To get 5 dates, I need to spend 1500 minutes (25 hours) cold approaching 100 times. vs. 100 conversations -> 20 meetups at least. To get 20 meetups, I don't have to spend my time. This is the whole point of this post.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:05 AM
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I usually don't consider their needs well.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:53 AM
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Hey check out my edit.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:41 AM
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Just research. There are college chicks here obviously but 70% of them are Asians and Indians and they date within their ethnicity. I'm not really attracted to them either.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:04 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:55 AM
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And 1 kg a week is too slow. Try losing a pound a week. 1kg = 2 pounds.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:54 AM
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I'm stuck here because of PhD
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:38 AM
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Probably not but my lack of experience weakens my frame and I'm overweight. Only women I interract with are the ones I find by cold approaching. Which sucks because I have to work for every single goddamn interaction I have with women. There are few women to cold approach here. It's not like NYC or London. Dating sites are bad for me as well but I never gave a real shot. There are very few attractive women there. Most of them are fat af.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:17 AM
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I am not really selective but I prefer white, not so slutty, not attention seekers and overally healthy ones. As long as she looks good in jeans, her body type doesn't matter. Why are you asking? I get more IOIs from latinos tough.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:16 AM
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?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:10 AM
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Kindof yes. Why?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:56 AM
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Start going on a diet and lose weight I wrote in the link that I'm rapidly losing weight. What is the point of lifting heavy when you are losing 1kg per week? When you are lifting you eat at a surpluss right? Like 250 calories or 500 calories. I am taking 1000 less calories than my TDEE. That's how I lose 1kg per week. Should I still lift? I don't have any significant muscle to worry about their loss. You are the equivalent of a fat land whale woman whining because high value men won't commit to…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:42 AM
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Okay, my bad. I'm doing body weight exercies to strengten my core. I'm not lifting anything heavy yet. I have no debt because I've been on scholarship. I have about 25 body fat %. I'm reading A guide to the good life, the ancient art of Stoic joy by William Braxton Irvined. No more nice guy before that.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:13 AM
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You are hopeless because you are so desperate for a relationship that it has become your mission. There is nothing red pill about the way you are going about things or want to go about things. So do you suggest me to wait 1 year to get ripped then wait in my corner so women would approach me and take me on dates? Read the link before shouting me. All due respect but I'm probably doing more with my life than you do.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:05 AM
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talking to women and feeling inadequate but not showing it I do this when I'm doing cold approaches but it doesn't go away completely. Is there a way to fix this besides having sex enough times? Be ok with going on dates So keep doing cold approaches? Do you know a better way to find dates?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:02 AM
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Why settle for average. I want to start from somewhere. Learn how to be happy with just yourself. Dude I was okay being alone for 26 years. Isn't that enough? I don't mind loneliness but I want to experience a relationship. To cross off my bucket list. You are trying to make a girlfriend the source of your happiness. Not really. Even if that's the case, I'm totally okay with losing her. I want to cross it off my bucket list. what do you have to offer? Why do you deserve a woman in your life? htt…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 12:55 AM
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