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Honestly, chances are I WILL be alpha widowed again. He’s just as much of a player as the last. It was a dumb idea really
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 11:07 PM
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This is beautiful! Thanks for sharing :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 11:06 PM
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I’m taking my classes online. I know you’re 100% right. I’m just wanting to take the easy route (getting over him by getting “under” someone else). I’ve actually begun learning a new language and it’s kept me pretty busy. So that’s something. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 01:15 AM
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Man, I don’t know if my pride would allow me to do that. I’m not saying you’re pride-less but it’s definitely difficult to do the pursuing when I was raised not to ever do so. I could learn something from you
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 01:18 PM
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How could you be better than your competition as a 4? Not trying to be offensive just genuinely curious
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 10:27 AM
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I forgot to say that even high smv men of my own race ignore us.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:32 PM
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Learned something new.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:28 PM
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It isn’t? I thought hypergamy was wanting only your best choice. He was my best choice so now I only want men on his level (which is above my own).
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 08:44 PM
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Man, is this true. I can’t fathom a guy choosing me over other girls. The only way I can fathom it is if He has no other girls to choose from He’s a sadist looking for someone to cheat on or abuse There’s something wrong with him. Part of the reason I have no friends/no desire to make any is because that’s been the pattern with all of my previous friends. They end up choosing someone else/replacing me as their friend. Guys pretty much stop being friends with me when they realize I won’t sleep wi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 07:29 PM
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I feel like just being involved with him affected my ability to feel attraction to other men. Sex, kissing, hugging, smelling his scent. The whole painful roller coaster of knowing he’s with other girls and will never be able to want me how I want him. It’s so sad but at this point, I don’t even want a man committed to me. I don’t want a relationship of any kind and definitely not marriage. I feel nothing at the thought of being loved and wanted by a man, of being someone’s “only”. It’s a life I…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 06:13 PM
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I know you’re right about being viewed as boring because of my lack of friends and hobbies. I can put myself out there more but man, it’s become quite the chore after previous failures. Maybe I’ll try a friend-making app. I replied to someone else saying that due to my depression, I’ve lost interest in the hobbies I used to enjoy. Those have become chores as well. My first step is therapy (I really don’t want to get medication) and once I get a decent job, I’ll get on that. Thanks for the detail…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 06:06 PM
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I don’t like sounding conceited but I’m honestly the best that I can be without surgery. I take great care of every part of myself (and enjoy doing so) and never leave the house not looking good. I’m not awesomely fit but do guys even like that? I’m petite yet curvaceous and I feel like that’s the ideal body type. I would feel undesirable if I lost weight as that would lead to losing curves. I guess growing my hair longer would help (it’s very curly and shoulder-length) but only time can make th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 05:04 PM
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22, turning 23 soon. Is an alpha widow a woman who’s left by a high smv male?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:56 PM
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I had crippling social anxiety throughout high school but I don’t think I have it anymore. I’m introverted for sure but I’d still like the acceptance of my peers. Once I get therapy for my depression, I’ll start diving into my hobbies again (haven’t had much energy for them). You’ve made a good point with being so focused on your own goals that you don’t mind being alone.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:35 PM
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Yeah I felt really wrong about saying that but I do a lot of research and it’s clear that we’re the least desired of all women. I’m not going to pretend like race isn’t a big deal and prejudice isn’t prevalent even in dating. I’ve just kind of accepted my place. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:28 PM
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I’m still in university (my last semester) so no money for therapy. That’s DEFINITELY the first thing I’ll do once I get a job in my field, though. I guess I feel like I can feel better if I find someone. However, this is hard to do when my standards have skyrocketed as a result of being involved with this guy. I don’t want to get involved with a new guy and not be able to give him my all or be truly attracted. Not at all fair to him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 04:24 PM
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I know this isn’t an excuse but I’m naturally shy and it’s never been easy for me to make friends. The friends I have made ended up getting tired of me (or trying to screw me if male). I’m also clinically depressed and the things I used to enjoy feel a little like chores now. Working on changing that, though. Well, he was also very attractive and out of my league. I used to not even look at guys like this because I knew they wouldn’t commit but this time I was just bored enough. Backfired.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 03:55 PM
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