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Resourcesincognito3107/r/seduction22/05/22 09:45 AM
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I totally understand and support new policy of getting rid of broad or dull topics, but now this sub only consists of crowded and popular themes, where there is very little place for discussion or direct communication. I believe people are craving these, and not only reading broad essays of theory and field reports. Your escalation game seems quite off-point.
/r/seduction03/11/22 12:44 PM
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It's some kind of girl's defensive mechanism. She is not ready emotionally to go all the way and she doesn't want to be perceived as easy to get. But from your perspective you can just ignore it or make up some funny riposte. Take a step backwards and continue your gradual escalation if there is a time for it. Her mentioning sex indicates that she was thinking about it, which is usually a good sign. You should text between meet ups, but not for doing the talking, but to keep positive emotions an…
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:27 PM
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You should mirror her engagement. Apparently her emotions dropped, but it's not the end of the case. Being persistent will most likely turn her off. She knows that she played you two times. You can show that you are not easily offended, but she needs to make it up to you. You can give her some bits of attention if you want, but don't play for the next reschedule.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:07 PM
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"but you can change this by pushing right buttons in her biology and psyche" <-- that's just being exploitative with extra steps. If someone wants you to back off, then don't start trying to coerce and manipulate them by literally manipulating physical and psychological barriers. Respect them.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:03 AM
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Sometimes something may feel cringe from men's point of view, but women find it really amusing. I would suggest to look at popular profiles to get some inspiration. Something funny, simple, unusual, mysterious, interesting, ambitious. Something to trigger positive emotions towards you.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:16 AM
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Well, point is that you are not congruent. You had her already in the bed and then freezed with escalation at the goal range. So what is the point of the game here? You need to somehow smoothly and naturally go from that. It just happened, no big deal, life is strange. Just next time make sure to give her what she wants. If she will still be hungry for you.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:10 AM
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Apart from direct signals from her, you should also pay attention to mood and emotions. If you feel empowered, happy and calm, there is much bigger probability that you will succeed. If you feel anxious and drained, it's better to somehow change your plans or wait a bit.
/r/seduction31/10/22 06:50 AM
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Usually you just mention some mild sexual story casually or make some ambiguous statements in a playful way. If the girl is bold and mood is very good, you can go more straightforward and savage.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:26 PM
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She was probably jealous. It's very unlikely that girl just accepts to be third wheel. You would like to get her another guy or isolate your target girl from the beginning or shoot for the threesome.
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:45 PM
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It's up to you to escalate and shatter her social barriers. She may seem cold, because she needs to put on stranger mask or her hormones are spoiling her mood or she is coming through a rough time in life, but you can change this by pushing right buttons in her biology and psyche. If you won't, her emotions will drop to the level of indifference, and you will be perceived as no more than a friendly stranger. If you want her more as a lover than friend, you should make some moves to confirm if yo…
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:33 AM
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Because escalation is really what you are going for. You are not investing, you are taking what you want. Failing with kissing a girl usually stems from inappropriate mood and inappropriate stage of escalation. It's like you would get hand in her pants because she said she likes you. You should prepare circumstances that kiss just happens naturally, not surprise her.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:22 AM
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"Thanks for the notice. But it's better than my manners to smell like shit"
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:13 AM
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"I can make it look like it"
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:07 AM
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I guess it's a good move to acknowledge what she says, but frame it to show your upper hand. "We can do that, if I will be only in charge of counting the money afterwards" "Harsh odds, you have to be really sure about your robbing skills" "No way, I would get better odds by corrupting police. Oh, it might be an idea, thx for suggestion" And then continue like nothing happened.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:44 AM
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It's not so clear if she is making an excuse or honestly have other things to do for now. As you have made a proposition to meet, now it's her turn to show a good will with this new context. Leave it for now and focus your attention elsewhere. When you will get in touch next time, remember that you are at the point to potentially set a date, so it should not be just dry talking.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:30 AM
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Well, point is to get her hot and then suggest innocently to change places, of course for some more private environment. Keep eye contact, lower your voice, get close to her, make that natural gentle touch, turn her on with funny/exciting/sexual topics. Getting sexual is always in the air, you just need to push proper buttons to make it smooth and natural.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:20 AM
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Just practice. Firstly don't run away with your glance. Maintain contact for 1 second. Then 2 seconds. Then always be the last to break eye contact. Then make an eye contact and smile. Then make an eye contact, smile, and come closer to her. Then make an eye contact, smile and approach.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:12 AM
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It's more like a foreplay.
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:00 PM
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Sure. Embrace the fact that you are not there really to talk.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:53 PM
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Make use of silence. It's a good time to look her deep in the eyes. Or to make some touch escalation. Or to focus more for a moment on your activity. Or pause to feel emotions and mood better. Or change environment. Or take some other action. Relax, you should enjoy your date. On the other hand, if she is not cooperating with holding a conversation and you seem clearly not compatible, then maybe you should not make it longer than it should be?
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:11 AM
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Balance yourself. If you hit a hard wall, back out, slow things down, replenish your energy elsewhere. Don't dwell in your myseries, return to present moment and take some pleasurable action. As it comes to social awkwardness - remember that relation and conversation should be double-sided. Make some space for the other person to put their effort, listen to them carefully, feel emotions, enjoy the moment. Don't force things, don't stay too much in your heard. Keep it casual and natural, and let …
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:03 AM
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I would say that she will not get persistently dodgy and don't make it hard for you to escalate most of the time. But she may of course be very passive and her reactions ambiguous. Either way, she needs to show some sign of good will sooner than later.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:48 AM
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I believe it is about what you can provide and what you represent with yourself, that is appreciated by opposite gender. Take care of your physical appearance, lead an interesting lifestyle, empower your finances and job career, have an ambitious goal and hobbys, rise your social skills nad communicativeness.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:24 AM
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Probably she got annoyed, because you were dead passive with escalating. It's like you don't see her attractive. Maybe she has given up, and is seeking interest elsewhere by now. Why have you not tried to put your toe beyond friend zone even once, even just for fun? Dry talking is good to pass time with friends. I bet she will be very happy if you make some move now. Just don't only talk.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:31 PM
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I would say that you need to lay out topics that are relatable and trigger emotions. Pass on all generic questions. Ask her how she feels about something. Many girls crave talking about relationships, sociology, psychology, daily life. Make your conversations easy-going and topics pleasurable. You don't have to hurry to get to know things about her, they will get uncovered naturally with time. Focus on finding connection between you and get that energy high. As it comes strictly to texting, I fe…
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:22 PM
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Sure, but I guess it slightly differs, as they have different brain and hormonal system. Don't know about any such video, but I guess you can deal with it like any other addiction. You need to somehow fill the gap, avoid triggers, put your mind to something else, rebuild your reserves in different ways. Realise that your judgment is hijacked by drug-like substances.
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:36 PM
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Hormonal addiction. You don't want to lose that pleasurable high when she is around. It usually comes when you are starved from female attention. You need to realise that you can meet much more compatible person who you will have much less struggle with. Clinging to someone too much can only hurt you more eventually. It's also kinda like fear of losing your progress.
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:50 AM
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Pay more attention to your non-verbal communication. Talk slower. Use deep voice. Take proper posture. Smile. Look her in the eyes. Listen to her carefully, don't interrupt. Don't be hasty with answering. If you feel anxious about talking about something, approve that emotion and change your focus. Talk only when necessary, to escalate emotions, keep that high energy and don't look desperate. Little bit of silence is a good moment to look at her or absorb your current vibe.
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:43 AM
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Well, it's natural that you may feel anxious about it, as you have been meeting so much without any romantic context. No reason to wait any longer, you need to break this barrier and do things that platonic friends don't do. Especially if she seems to be confused about your intentions. Look her in the eyes. Smile. Get close to her. Touch her naturally. Breaking the physical barrier is crucial in escalating towards romantic interest. Dress up and take proper posture to show that you are an attrac…
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:32 AM
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Keep in mind that you can always do this next time in the future. Just don't force yourself like starved animal, keep that push-pull attitude and enjoy the moment. That means don't go with something like "I had a great time", "I want to meet you again", "You are beautiful" etc. By keeping that energy and tension high, you will make her think of you and your mutual experience will feel clear and real. It's about your actual interaction, not talking about it. If you manage to keep that exciting em…
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:23 PM
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I guess just any place that is not strictly public, meaning that you won't be constantly observed. That may be bench in the park, empty street, very deep corner table in some coffee shop. You can briefly kiss at bowling's, make out somewhere more private later, you can then escort her home and maybe she will invite you for a tea. Leave her with some hunger, don't overdo your cuddling and don't confirm your feelings.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:03 PM
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Not sure about speaking openly about it, then waiting with it and treating it like a gift. After all you have done it already. Just make sure to end up kissing and have lots of intimate time.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:30 PM
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It always goes differently than planned. You can keep in mind many scenarios, but it's better to stay in present moment and pay attention to actual emotions. Don't hit her, if you jump from nothing to kiss she will most likely flinch. You have kissed already, right? Then you can go with "Who wins, can make one simple request from the other one", and then "I want you to remind me how we kissed some time ago". But before that you need to warm her up, keep the tension and get touchy. It's male and …
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:14 PM
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Don't know any current sources in English. Just find information from different sources and test techniques that seem the most promising in your opinion. Escalation, like the name suggests, is about going from zero point to the highest point, slowly but surely. Bowling seems like a good place to get touchy and experience emotions. But if you are coming with other friends, you need to game around that. Form a group with her. Get some drinks going. Show her how to position herself. Whisper some ad…
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:41 PM
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Lack of progression is usually bad, you are wasting time and she keeps getting colder and may put her attention elsewhere eventually. You can do such stuff if you are already sitting close to each other, looking deeply in the eyes and you can literally touch sexual tension. You need to escalate gradually. Start small and keep getting more direct and intimate. Play along her reactions. Maybe you were close before, but now it seems like you are disconnected. No jumping on deep water, start from sc…
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:21 PM
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You need to realise why she is doing this. And the answer is to get some emotions and action going on. That's why you should play along and rise tension and passion between you. Putting that in the context of your current progress, she may just provoke you to make some move to establish your relation. As you kissed and danced sensually, but then nothing more really happened, it feels normal that she is confused and thirsty, right? But I would suggest to make your progress in private environment.…
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:02 PM
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Sure, you seem to know what's good. Do that and maybe whisper in her ear in deep voice "Behave, you sexy devil". EDIT: Concerning what you described, that is not really a roast, more like playful friendly teasing. But your reaction was good nevertheless, playing along with funny exaggeration is a nice move. As it comes to "dominating", it's about showing your power, which both turns her on and provides comfort. It's an old female instinct. Handling such situation, by showing that you are strong,…
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:37 AM
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Seems like she lost her drive, but Japanese dating culture is kind of different and escalation is usually a lot slower and subtler. Either way, you should keep it cool and casual and don't pay her more attention if she doesn't reciprocate. Don't act insecure or clingy. Maybe get some drinking going on for ice-breaker next time?
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:08 AM
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If there is no sexual tension between you and no touching, you are drifting towards being good platonic friends.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:49 AM
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It's natural that girls are testing your frame to extract more strong emotions. Set a border, challenge her, tease her back little rougher, ignore her, leave her with her cockiness, make her laugh instead, be playfully aggressive. Maybe she needs to get dominated, she wants you to punish her as a bad girl or other emotional play. Just don't let her get on your head, it is not necessarily a red flag.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:45 AM
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Absolutely, finding your matching style can rise your attractiveness exponentially, make yourself distinct.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:32 AM
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First thing is not to get harsh on yourself. You are creating unnecessary tension to act, when proper circumstances and vibe may not be there. Encourage yourself instead to make just that one litte step further. Smile at a girl, come little closer to her. Then you need to figure out some legit scenario, most of your anxiety comes from the simple fact that your plan is too vague. For example, come to her and say "Hi, I have spotted that you are really cute, and I want to meet you". Don't neglect …
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:25 AM
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Well, like you said, it was a ONS. Girl was not necessarily connected to you enough to behave like you are in a relationship already. Give her space and time to process things and build up some comfort with you. It's normal to get hormonal storm after being so close with a girl, but acting clingy can make her uncomfortable and you less attractive. Keep it cool and laidback.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:13 AM
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Approach, exchange some glances, dance nearby. Then you can go with some really simple stuff. "You got really nice moves", "I like your earrings very much", "You seem like having time of your life". Then maybe ask for her name, if she likes the music, if she have fished some boys yet, yada yada yada. But often you don't have to say much, if anything at all. Alcohol, loud music, crazy atmosphere, dimmed light, strong scents can make her hot and eager very quickly if she fancies your moves and you…
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:27 PM
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That's why you are doing it gradually and evaluate if girl may be interested in the first place. That's how it is done in clubs. Girls are rejecting guys over and over and nothing really bad happens.
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:57 PM
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You can mix things up. Point is to escalate gradually to check if she plays along. Make "social touch" confidently and naturally, but "erotic touch" brief and hidden.
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:20 PM
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Not sure about UK, but generally in clubs you usually just come to a girl, exchange some brief words in the ear and simply escalate your touching by dancing together in place. No room for proper conversation or crazy acrobations, you just get straight to the point.
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:06 PM
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Basically anything that concerns your current circumstances and makes sense. Look her in the eyes, smile, induce some emotions, ask her for her name. Find something that connects you and talk with her by any minor excuse. Context of getting to know each other is always in the air.
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:57 PM
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Well, I can give you some general advices about touching. First you need to make sure that mood is good and appropriate to escalate. Then you can start with some "accidental touch" or "friendly touch". It shows that you are confident and you know cheats how to touch a girl in any circumstances, if you want. You can tease her with deep eye contact and get closer to her. Then you can escalate something called "hidden touch". You exchange gentle touches very subtly, not being noticed by anyone. It …
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:49 PM
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Well, you can't really choose your hobby, right? It's all about that natural passion, right? I think sports are pretty exciting hobby to have. Shows your dedication, competitiveness, trains both mind and body. Any unique hobby that you are exceptionally good at is also fascinating for girls, as that emphasize your true character.
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:56 AM
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Indirect approach is ok, if your whole body language and vibe is indicating sexual desire.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:44 AM
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Well, she may want to get some action going from your side, as she is not convinced about being attracted to you. It's a good moment to get some emotions going and sexual tension to rise, but it's not like you have to do this. "I sense some potential in us" "Just my moody whim" "I thought you wanted to date me"
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:15 AM
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I think you should follow your intution on this one, it may depend on circumstances and differ from girl to girl. But if you follow subtle path, you should keep that sexual tension in the air anyways.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:08 AM
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Smell center is strictly connected with emotions and memories. You can release lots of hormonal activity if you deeply react with a scent.
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:58 AM
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It will get better. You will learn how to get yourself and her aroused more, you will have less pressure to perform, you will get to know what works and what does not, your technique will improve. First time usually feels somewhat incomplete, due to lack of experience and inaccurate expectations. From now, improve your sexual attractiveness, learn and test things to become a real sex machine. Get her to the highest heavens, fulfill your sexual desires, make yourself more excited and last longer.…
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:39 AM
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To form a lasting relation, you need to spend a lot of time together. And potentially get some unique and exciting experiences. It's not like it can be done by force, it takes two to tango, some sort of initial spark, deeper understanding and connection. Many people just want to have people that they enjoy spending time with in college circumstances. I would suggest to keep looking in many places, where you can form that meaningful bond, don't try to create close friendship from simply being at …
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:28 AM
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She can have a boyfriend and be attracted to you at the same time. Signs of interest don't indicate that she is eager to cheat. Most of them are instinctive.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:47 PM
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Girls may have bad humour for whatever reason. They are much more likely to get carried away by hormones than we do. You just didn't manage to click proper buttons. It's not like it is so clear and obvious, especially from men's point of view. Next time in such situation you will do things differently. From my experience you could "shake her out" from such state by making her laugh, funny teasing, comfort touching etc. Connect with her mood and transform it. But maybe she was just cold and defea…
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:23 AM
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I think you should react to it somehow, with emoji or like. Unless she likes to spam such dry messages frequently, then you can pass on it and reach out to her later with some more specific subject.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:17 AM
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Asking for a kiss when the mood is bad is like a last nail for the relation coffin. Maybe you should have got heating up and some drinks going. She needs to get hot, relax and into good mood. I believe you should have escalated more touch than just rubbing a shoulder, also, you should look her deeply in the eyes. Have some flirty talk with deep and quiet voice. Maybe she was not there to strictly deny you, but she was testing how will you come out from this current stiff vibe of yours. Well, it …
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:06 AM
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However shallow it may sound, extraordinary girls usually hunt for extraordinary pleasures. That being said, they want to get with guys that are exceptionally good looking, exceptionally good in bed, exceptionally popular, exceptionally interesting, exceptionally powerful etc. Choose your path. And then find yourself in social situations, where you will interact with girls, and your strongest advantage will be exposed.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:56 AM
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Stop paying so much attention to other people. Realise that there are so much things that you can't control in life. But at least you can control your own behaviour and reactions. Don't give up on such power. Realise that there is no legit judge. It's about you empowering yourself to reach for what you want.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:46 AM
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Most of the time you try to pick up some interesting detail in present moment and build your conversation from that. Point is to provide comfort and induce emotions. Your objective is about getting sexual eventually, so you need to keep that potential romantic context between you all the time. That being said, don't focus on generic or informative subjects. Look her in the eyes, stay close to her, smile, keep proper posture, lower your voicetone and enjoy exchanging oral sounds. Literally just h…
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:09 AM
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Well, if you feel that it is really about your age gap, then just show them that you can operate in a society like an adult already. That you can handle social situations, prepare and organise things, lead, have high communication skills, have grown up body, that you are composed and confident, that you have some plans with career and finances. For the rest, just play it like a normal seduction, it's all about you being male and her being female after all.
/r/seduction23/10/22 07:53 AM
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I think that you are crossing border of simping when you are going with being nice to a girl much further than it feels natural, just to feel hormonal rush when she is thankful.
/r/seduction23/10/22 07:37 AM
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Been doing social circle and hobbies and I seem to encounter some issues. The moment I find a girl who seems interested I will ask her out/make moves quickly in fear of another guy getting with her before me. I have been told I move too fast by a couple of girls. Any suggestion on fixing that? ​ Also what do you mean by hard attractive features?
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:55 PM
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I think it doesn't particularly indicate anything. Just that she probably won't get very drunk in your presence. But the vibe seems pretty high. You can dig little deeper there. 3 months with no sex is pretty slow if you are both grown up adults. She may need more stimulation.
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:42 PM
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Why would you not get innocently flirty with him as well? You are in a workplace, it is not a good place for open pickup. Play along and maybe your barriers will shatter spontaneously some time.
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:27 AM
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I've said some suggestions in the first response. Find yourself in situations where you can naturally interact with women. Help your luck.
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:17 AM
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It's not as bad as you think, you are also not that old either. Girls won't care about this, just read how to touch girl properly and what she would like you to do to her. Get yourself out there in dating market and do your thing. No one is judging you more than you. The main reason you haven't get with a girl till now, is that you have not been much active in that area. Your emotions indicate just this, that you should put more attention towards that at this time in your life.
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:06 AM
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It is understandable that you miss girl's affection, but there are also other aspects of your life that you should enjoy and thrive within. Also, even these small interactions with all these girls that you have had till now are not without some value. Don't get obsessed with scoring, it's not a school exam. Girls would love to be with a guy that enjoys life, not be his remedy for misery. Embrace it all and keep going. There were so many guys that were struggling with love life, but they eventual…
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:28 AM
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Dating game is getting pretty harsh nowadays, don't get discouraged so easily. I think you need to find appropriate circumstances for yourself. Attend some local events, join your social circle parties, join hobby groups, get some casual job. You need to enjoy your seduction quest. If you feel desperate and depressed, girls will catch it very quickly and back out. Test new kind of approaches, expand your seduction knowledge, work on your hard attractive features and have fun. You will get there …
/r/seduction22/10/22 07:08 AM
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Sometimes the mood is just bad. It's perfectly normal. Accept it and don't push through. Use your feelings to figure out proper circumstances for yourself. Also, there is no such thing as getting girls for anyone. You can set proper vibe, you can be a good ice-breaker, but everyone needs to put game on their own. You are not some circus monkey.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:56 AM
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Well, you can figure out casual meeting outside of your job. Just ask him to join you to some fun activity or place. But also, you need to somehow indicate that you are interested in him romantically. Dress up, look him in the eyes, smile, be close, touch him, be friendly and sweet. As you don't know if he reciprocates, just keep it laidback and hold down your emotional engagement.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:38 AM
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Yes. Escalate some comfort and connection via texting and set a date. Just do it casually. "I am planning to visit this new place to try out their food, wanna help me?" It's really up to your intuition, you have just met her.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:29 AM
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Play with words, induce emotions, get personal, lay out pleasurable topics, get some tension between responses, have fun yourself.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:19 AM
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I would say that you don't need to hide it, it's not like you have to discuss about your viewpoints before to set or spoil the mood. Many girls would also get turned on by such adversary energy, too. You can hide it, you can keep it, just don't get too elaborative about it.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:01 AM
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Well, maybe she will break the contact or maybe she will gradually get affectionate towards you. Point is not to force anything and not to chase her. Just do what you were doing with her that was working and you enjoyed it. Maybe some opportunity will surface in near future by itself.
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:13 PM
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Your "study date" was obviously like a normal regular date. If you now set things for the "real" date, she may feel pressure to reciprocate to your romantic advances there. These are not proper dynamics, she got pretty defensive about it. I would suggest to forget about that way, make one step backwards and continue naturally from the point that you were interacting. Now it's mainly up to her to adjust to this new potential context of yours.
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:41 AM
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Not necessarily. Her social barriers just thickened for some reason, which is not that uncommon. But they may melt once again, with the little help of alcohol, favorable circumstances etc. She won't forget that you cuddled and sweet talked, trust me. At least not until she finds another object of romantic interest. Nevertheless, I believe it is better to play it cool for the moment. Stay close to her but not force anything. It was only one time so far after all.
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:58 AM
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If anything, you can talk to your friend about it. That this girl is most likely not reciprocating his feelings, but seems quite interested in you. If he is normal, he should suck it up. What's he doing anyway, locking a girl for yourself to implement his 1-year seduction plan?
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:52 AM
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Well, I guess sitting in front of each other drinking coffee weren't exactly ideal circumstances to escalate touch. I guess it may have been not the best choice for a date with a tourist. But as I said, she may have been locked for a casual coffee with a local from the beginning, it's not like you can easily change such attitude.
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:34 PM
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I would say that it would be also a compliment from the other side, guys like girls with strong natural instincts in bed.
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:59 AM
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It's of course a compliment, women absolutely love wild sex with strong animalistic desire.
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:54 AM
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Yeah, you didn't hit right spots. It looked completely like a casual activity with a stranger. Probably not much of your fault, as she was clearly not cooperating. Next time I would suggest to embark on something more suggestive and emotional than coffee and conversation. And you need to escalate touch no matter what, it's very tricky to melt social barriers just with words and body language.
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:17 AM
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"Yeah, I am so much dope, that it is very hard to embrace it with a simple mind"
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:07 PM
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It all comes to providing girls with pleasure, mostly emotional abundance and the best possible sexual high. It's pretty straightforward. Many guys are overestimating sexual relations, as they are very deprived of affection and sexual satisfaction. There are obviously more important matters in life than your ability to satisfy women's sophisticated desires.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:27 PM
3

Try to be more "aggressive" with your sexual escalation. Girls want to get turned on with confident and powerful male. Dates may have gone cool and smooth, but there was clearly something missing. Something that will make her think of you and crazy for getting sexual with you. Get more of that passionate and dangerous male self into your dates next time. Dates are all about emotions between you. Girls may say different things, but once you provide her with ecstatic sexual experience, she can't h…
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:13 PM
1

Well, problem usually lays in connection. You are kinda "from different world". You will struggle with doing common activities, planning common future, holding plain conversations. Most likely you will turn to different girl spontaneously, sooner or later. You are more the type to "get such experience" rather than to "live life with". I guess you have two ways there. Either find that specific girl that suits your vibe, or come closer to being more of a relatable person.
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:34 AM
2

Basically when she feels like it. Making strict rules about escalating is pretty pointless, it highly depends on circumstances and differs from girl to girl. You should get better with reading the mood and her body language. If you don't catch that she is eager for more or fail to escalate for it smoothly, she may become really frustrated that she didn't get the candy. But don't worry about it too much. Nowadays girls may do everything they want and get laid sooner than later. You need to adapt …
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:19 AM
2

Checking someone out is not a big deal. You can keep some eye contact with her and smile. Maybe mood will change for better some time. Don't try too hard.
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:47 PM
1

There is really no reason to wait. Smiling is promising, but it is not that much to ask her out, out of the blue. Having some simple conversation with close proximity and smiling will certainly make her mood for further escalation.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:34 AM
2

Well, if you will aproach him with smile, friendly attitude and cute outfit, he will enjoy it for sure. You can be of course direct straightforward - "I would like to get to know you", but you can also have some generic but constructive conversation. If he is smart enough and he likes what he see, he should catch the vibe. Leave him some space to ask you out, or simply ask for school social life that he attends.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:28 AM
2

It's their biology. They may fancy you, but they prefer not to break their current romantic relation. They would enjoy conversation with you or activities with you, but they still want to be loyal to their partner. I noticed that girls in relationships are more eager to socialize, as they probably have much less pressure to deal with potential pickup.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:14 AM
1

Most likely, guys usually don't pay much attention to girls that they don't fancy. If he indeed has a girlfriend though, then probably he doesn't want to cross the line with you. I believe you can play along with him, maybe at some point he will just mention his girlfriend and you will stay as friends that share sweet emotions and physical contact.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:06 AM
2

Girls are not used to having spontaneous casual conversation with a stranger. In addition, if you are a male, there is a decent probability that you will be persistent with escalating some romantic context with them, when they are not really in the mood or not really into you at the first sight. Next time try to be more casual, natural, gentle and give them some space to smoothly get out of the situation if they seem not eager to connect. Girls developed some pretty high standards due to revolut…
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:54 AM
2

It seems rather positive, she is just overwhelmed with emotions. It's like you are scanning through her, which may tingle. I believe your situation is yet unclear for both sides, so just keep escalating and have fun.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:49 AM
1

There is really no point in getting any information from her. You can exchange some warming up talk right to the ear, but for most part you are meant to dance with her, look her in the eyes and gradually escalate your touching until you passionately make out.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:37 AM
2

I think you are overestimating people. Most of them have no clear goals apart from collecting as much money as possible, climbing social ladder with new possessions and job career, and feed on generic forms of pleasure. Nothing wrong with it, but they just seem to give up on passion for life, and just adjust to current environment, having fun while they are still here. As it comes to women, I feel that you need to specify what you are looking for. Princess Charming does not exist. Instead of loo…
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:20 AM
8

As you are now somehow connected, that would be strange to be totally silent for couple of days. Like you are not interested in texting with her as you have already managed to schedule a meeting. You can write with her naturally if you feel the need, just don't make any major moves.
/r/seduction16/10/22 08:43 PM
1

Watch people that lead some witty talk shows for a living. Also, find yourself in situations where you need to talk a lot to a lot of people.
/r/seduction16/10/22 08:40 PM
9

There is usually really nothing to talk about. You just should have some fun with exchanging words and experiencing emotions. It's a skill, trainable.
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:13 AM
2

There is no such thing as "not having time", it's the matter of priorities. If she responds after few days, then probably you just went up in her Tinder line. Try to set a date now, even short one. She needs to make that little effort from her side too. Otherwise she may flake at any point anyway, if better male model will arrive in her area. Also, don't ask for permission or approval. Man-woman relation should look equalish, even if they are not. Most of the time, she will benefit from your mee…
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:58 AM
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Kiss should happen naturally. You are leaning very close to each other, touch each other frequently, your conversation are sweet, your eye contact is extremely tense and your surroundings are really pleasant. Did such circumstances happen in your case, or you were just trying your luck to sneak kiss out of the blue? If you didn't set up proper mood, that's on you. If she was not cooperating at all through 2 dates - move on.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:41 AM
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Yes, that is a very common action. Innocent and they can check if you are smart enough to catch such subtleties in normal social situations. If you want to confirm this, just continue conversation for a few moments. If she clings to it, there is a good chance that she likes you.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:34 AM
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I believe that in the end women seem to seek extraordinary male genes. They usually land with popular guys mostly because these are the most common types in their feminine world.
/r/seduction15/10/22 05:43 PM
0

I don't think so, her emotions just dropped to low level and she may not see the clear way of continuing your relation. Of course no reponse from your side may have been one of the factors, but it was surely not the only one. You need to rebuild that comfort and attraction between you. And get some breakthrough date.
/r/seduction15/10/22 07:22 AM
1

All such challenges are meant to show you that great most of the people will react positively if they can make simple social interaction. And that includes attractive girls as well.
/r/seduction15/10/22 06:52 AM
3

If you want to approach it from that way, I suggest to use some ideas from Demonic Confidence program. Approach attractive girls in some place and simply ask for time or how to get to certain place. Keep an eye contact, proper posture and smile. Don't be surprised if some conversations get much further than you expect.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:27 AM
1

Language barrier may be a pretty tough hurdle, keep in mind that you need to maintain clear communication to work something out. You might have gone into wrong context indeed with this short convo. There is no point for her to help you with a job or work with you together there. She is clearly not cooperating after this, you should set yourself for direct romantic context, not for some cozy orbit. Next time remember that you should make your conversations exciting and playful. Don't get into gen…
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:14 AM
2

It's quite possible, girls like sending such innocent subtle suggestions. And they like it even more if you catch this up and play along with "Sure, I like this too. Wanna join forces?" It shows that you have good couple dynamics and you are smart.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:01 AM
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No, but you should keep these minimal formalities. Girls are risking pregnancy and spreading bad opinion about her sexual habits, so you just need to show that you are a reliable and smart male that understands social dynamics. Also, they often need some natural foreplay to warm her body and mind to get out from cold schematic stranger self.
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:39 AM
1

I think that you should just be friendly and smile, dress sexy and don't be shy. If a guy fancy your looks, you just need to prove that you are a good match together, get that comfortable and exciting vibe.
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:32 AM
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If you have a decent self-esteem and maintain good relationships with other women, rejection doesn't hurt that much. When you face a hard rejection, I believe it is the best to return to the phase of being polite strangers. Don't reach out forcefully to a girl in any way, neither get offended by it or gracefully accept it. Just take the information, close the door, get involved with something else. You can interact with her again, but you should not pursue her by any means.
/r/seduction13/10/22 10:59 AM
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Look at her as a female. Play with words and mood to provide her with exciting experience. Keep that subtle sexual context in your conversations, mention sexual stuff casually or make up some ambiguous responses. Keep her close to yourself, implement some "innocent" touching. Play with push and pull escalation: sometimes behave like she is already your girl, sometimes focus totally on yourself, sometimes be very kind to her, sometimes relentlessly take her down (in a funny way though). You need …
/r/seduction13/10/22 08:41 AM
1

Well, most likely she was not hot enough to make it all the way, but it was not necessarily your fault. You need to create that tension and sexual desire that will just melt all barriers and make transition to sex natural, sometimes it may be really troublesome. Next time make yourself comfortable at one place, focus on one laidback activity and keep decently high temperature in your room. Raise the tension very slowly. When she puts some hard objections, instead of saying "Good, I won't do anyt…
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:57 PM
1

"Keep dreaming"
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:29 PM
4

It depends highly on the company and circumstances. You should be more supportive and cooperative with your friend, if he is escalating an extrovertic vibe, you should also show your witty, energetic and positive self. That way your effect will be multiplied and you will be viewed as a well working duo. In different environment, you can show more of your mysterious, intelligent, composed side. Don't get entangled with non-sexual mindset though, keep your frame as an attractive and interesting ma…
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:22 AM
1

In that context it doesn't matter how you start. Just don't get into conclusions and passing information. Play with your words, induce emotions, lay out pleasurable topics, build up comfortable, laidback and energetic vibe, get personal. Don't talk for too long, leave her with some hunger.
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:07 AM
4

Imagine her telling you "Because I want you to make move on me". She is obviously trying to make you feel that she is a hot deal. The question is why you won't escalate things with her already.
/r/seduction11/10/22 09:59 AM
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She is thirsty, she wants you to pin her hard to the wall. She is making such statements for you to feel the hot ground to make something happen. I wonder why guys often don't assume that, lol. That doesn't mean of course for you to be dull straightforward. Make it an exciting game nevertheless.
/r/seduction11/10/22 09:08 AM
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You can still enjoy a party as an introvert. Get involved in some activities, take a girl for 1 on 1 conversation, simply relax and enjoy your time. You can leave any time if you don't feel the vibe anymore. Also, spend time with people that empower you. Many girls may not keep their attention for an introvert, but they definitely may enjoy spending a personal time with you.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:29 AM
4

Yes, I believe most women are very perverted in a good way and crave wild sex with a guy that just knows what to do.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:23 AM
1

Have fun with your texting. Induce variety of emotions. Relate to your real life situation. Make some flirty comments. I feel that many guys are just too obsessed with making each conversation perfect, when it all is really about maintaining emotions and spending good time texting together. Real game is in real life.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:18 AM
1

No, maybe you made her attraction and hunger for emotions even bigger. It's all foreplay, getting her excited and wanting more is a deal maker. Just remember that next time you should make something different, go at least one step further.
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:07 AM
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I assume that she does not reciprocate. You should stop idealising her and focus your attention on other women as well. You may make far better relation with some other woman that you don't know yet, it's an illusion that she is so perfect. She does not feel the same about you, do you want to be with a girl that needs constant convincing that you are a good match?
/r/seduction11/10/22 07:55 AM
1

Get into more private 1 on 1. Look at her intensely while listening to her. Escalate touch. That's your point in your interaction after all. You should not force any funny situation. Just show you can handle mood with your good sense of humour if necessary.
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:06 AM
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I see no reason to be discouraged. On the contrary, you are making something happen, it's the matter of time until you will be able to easily create proper mood and smoothly break through social barriers. Believe me, girls want to get intimate even more than guys, you just need to make your moves gradually and smoothly, like minesweeper. Make that very gentle erotic touch to her, then slowly keep progressing if she reacts positively.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:16 AM
1

It could be different if you would tell her that you will come shortly. She may felt abandoned and her emotions dropped significantly. You broke the mood. Also, you should escalate some touch, you are not there to dance. No big deal, just keep it like that. Have some brief conversation, but overall just make your body speak.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:07 AM
2

Play with words and induce variety of emotions. Make it double-sided. Your goal is to test if you have common chemistry and dynamics. Follow your intuition, don't get repetitive or schematic.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:54 PM
2

Then I wonder why he doesn't consider you his girlfriend. Good question to be asked. Probably he just enjoys to sleep around.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:49 PM
2

I get a feeling that many guys think of "going for a kiss" like rolling a dice, whether she likes me or not. Kiss is like a last stage of romantic context, ultimate sign of a feeling. Should not be treated carelessly. There are plenty of extremely important stages with your inner and outer game between getting comfortable with each other and kissing. You should stay in zone and enjoy every moment of shattering your barriers, in a most natural and authentic way. Kissing out of context is weird, n…
/r/seduction09/10/22 08:40 AM
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For now, you are just sleeping and hanging around, which looks like a textbook friend with benefits. Being in a relationship requires you to get involved in his private life, being supportive, deeply intimate with thoughts and feelings and having that special connection. I feel you need to reframe your context big way, but I wonder how you plan to do it smoothly when you have not really made any commtiment for such long time. I guess you should talk this through with him.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:18 AM
1

As long as you are taking lessons and adjust your game accordingly to match your personality and preferred dynamics.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:11 AM
3

Do you think that girls just casually go to someone's place for 1 on 1? As I can see, many guys are scared of "making a move", because in their context it feels like a leap from a friend to lover in one gesture. You should create proper mood and feed her with lots of "innocent" escalation to check if she is playing along, give her some space. Maintaining eye contact, "accidental" touch, staying close to her, playing interactive games, changing your voicetone, push and pull with your interactions…
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:07 AM
1

Well, her emotions dropped after some time of your meeting and she sees no clear transition for further escalation. You need to potentially make her think about you by creating unfinished matters and hunger for intimacy. First date is not supposed to be a deal maker, it's rather a gate to check if there is something more between you. Also, you would rather not want to date with someone who is playing cold with your emotions.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:51 AM
8

Simply describe what is going on. Wild, hot, beautiful sex. Maximize her pleasure with your words. Use proper intonation and match talking with your moves. You should also ask her which words drive her crazy.
/r/seduction08/10/22 09:22 PM
9

Interact with them like you would interact with a good friend. Being friendly and smiling female goes a long way with guys. Don't forget also to dress cute and don't be too shy. You need to make their task little easier. Also, if you want a relationship, you should focus on being comfortable with each other and share important life moments.
/r/seduction08/10/22 09:09 PM
1

I don't care too much. I ask if his convo game was good enough or if it would be possible to get some free drinks from him. If she gonna cheat she gonna cheat, I am just doing my thing.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:59 PM
1

First some activity where you can release lots of energy, then take her to some peaceful place where you can give her lots of intimate attention. Play with her. I believe she likes you quite much, as she is giving you lots of space, but it's totally up to you to make it smooth. Touch her gently.
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:41 PM
2

I would suggest not to plan any romantic scenario, but rather focus on your sexual dynamics and connections. Activities and places are just but a background. Everything important is happening solely between you two. If you struggle to make a move, make a smaller move. Friendly touch is good for a start, you need to keep getting closer, get pleasure gradually higher. She needs to feel like you are riding towards a couple scenario. I feel you miss much eye contact with her.
/r/seduction08/10/22 01:18 PM
3

Yeah, if you are in a potential pickup context, then surely game is a lot more open, if you know what to look for.
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:06 AM
1

Sure, girls don't do such things with guys that they don't fancy. Next time, if you feel the barrier of making a move, just make a smaller move. Small moves are extremely important for girls as a foreplay. Even coming a little closer to her, slightly touching her hand for a moment or looking at her little more than necessary may bear a big significance in your relation and change the mood completely.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:26 AM
1

Well, your behaviour is surely not unfounded. I believe you should treat this more like a play, stop being so serious. Time for deep intimacy and connection will come much later. You may get your heart broken, so you should keep it for someone that may be worth it.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:20 AM
1

Of course. But as he is your fiancee, I believe you have completed seduction part already. Heartbeat is a really special signature of us, it can provide lots of information, even subconscious, so checking it may tighten your connection even more.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:13 AM
3

If you are positive that this may be about your looks, I assure you that there are usually many things to improve to get more attractive presence. Taking care of hygiene, proper posture, building healthy muscles, clothes, perfumes, grooming, hairstyle is just a lead start. The point is to develop your own style, unique hair, unique posture, unique clothes, exceptional body features. Girls absolutely love to get with guys that have that interesting and outstanding appearance. Most guys don't real…
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:08 AM
0

Yeah, she is acting pretty suspicious. But you should deduce this from her behaviour. Don't go through anyone's private correspondence, unless it is very important.
/r/seduction08/10/22 07:57 AM
1

As long as there is nothing sexual or romantic happening between you, you have just got yourself a girl-friend.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:22 PM
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IOIs tend to be very subtle most of the time. I believe you should rather focus on feeling the mood around, if you feel empowered with confidence to shoot your shot.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:15 PM
1

I guess the answer is playfulness. You need to learn to handle any social situation. Be present and pay attention to the mood. You can react to that in many different ways. depending on the actual dynamics between you, Just don't get offended and keep your casual frame.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:11 AM
1

Every pickup man has plenty of stories of failure and awkwardness. Game changer is treating them as a lesson to improve yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:05 AM
1

It's all about what will be happening between you. Touch, conversations, emotions, unique moments. Figure out how to use your activities and background to build high connection and sexual attraction between you.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:48 AM
1

From my experience, almost every successful interaction with woman went pretty smoothly and fruitfully from the beginning to the end. You should concentrate on your natural habitat. But always look for solutions rather than excuses. Instead of elaborating how the mountain is so steep to climb, you should focus entirely on finding and following better route.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:46 AM
2

Girls are very aware emotionally, you just need to make moves that are socially acceptable. Prepare proper mood, build enough sexual attraction and comfort and then just simply take her to more private place under any innocent pretext.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:38 AM
1

You engaged your emotions too early, there is no confirmed affection between both of you, right? Chill out, common interests and cute face are not a deal maker, you would rather not idealise your potential partner, for your own good. Also, don't bring school topics too often, it is clearly sending a friendly vibe and is completely non-sexual most of the time. Focus on your deeper connection and sneak some sexual content to your conversations. You need to somehow take you out from "college friend…
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:21 AM
2

Just as the name suggests, you need to escalate. From innocent and brief friendly touch, slowly but surely towards more intimate and romantic. Play along her reactions and seize your opportunities.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:48 PM
1

You need to create some extraordinary experiences between you that trigger emotions. For her to think about you when you are not there. Then you should push for something more. If you have flat interactions/conversations, it's no wonder that you struggle how to progress.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:41 PM
6

No reason to ask her that, you should choose yourself whether you want to pick her up or meet her at the place. It is pretty weird question from a guy, maybe that's why she wonders about your dating experience. If that is just some random shit test, just answer like you won't be playing into her game, "Only when I feel some potential".
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:54 AM
2

Obviously it may be some flirting, it is both subtle and exposive, and girls love such ambiguity. But it definitely does not mean that some random guy can just approach and hit on her if he likes. You need to be smart with your game regardless of your intuition and IOIs.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:50 AM
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Creepy usually comes out from disregarding the mood and clinging to your desires despite all inner and outer signs.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:14 AM
4

Compliments work when they are honest, personal and congruent with a vibe. The best you can do is act casual and natural, pay attention to emotions and present moment. Don't come with some premade moves, learn to play along her reactions and transform what is already between you and the girl.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:50 AM
1

Your interaction will be always different from what you have imagined. Instead of making it the way you want, you need to feel the vibe and emotions between you and play along with the flow. You have known this girl for a year and now you want to ask her out, you need to soak with that context and act accordingly. Awkwardness come when you are disregarding the vibe to push forcefully towards your dreamed out scenario. Act casually, let life surprise you.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:44 AM
1

It is really just a background. You can literally go for a perfect date to a theatre without watching a movie at all. It's all about dynamics between you that you will test and expand. If you are going to a theatre to watch a movie with a girl, you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:32 AM
1

Because you don't stand out among other males. You need to develop that strong, healthy self-esteem with solid foundations. It's not about the girl, that will come later.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:28 AM
2

Apparently she loved a situation when it was unclear, but once you stood on the ground of formal relation, magic has gone away. Girls are very much emotional and intuitional beings. Don't neglect their power to predict the future. We are more constructed with thinking with 0-1 system (no relationship - relationship), when girl can be very much satisfied with a relation that can only work properly with it being unclear. I suggest just to embrace such peculiar feminine viewpoint.
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:31 AM
2

You should work with what you have. Any detail from your inner state or outer surroundings that can empower your conversation and connect you to a girl. Don't defy anxiety, use it wisely to get into proper context smoothly.
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:14 AM
1

Such situation should come up naturally once again. That way you can establish that attraction between you triumphs over "feeling of mistake".
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:04 AM
5

Unless you want to play some constructive pickup game with it, then you will be only serving as her attention pawn. By why would you do that instead of speaking to her directly. Following/liking/commenting is not a sexual game at all, on the contrary.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:47 PM
7

Remember to get her hot gradually. You have lots of bases to accomplish from making out to wild sex. Prepare yourself for a long play. And use protection.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:18 AM
1

Don't fight so much with your anxiety. Figure out next opportunity, where you will just do before thinking. You can also pinch yourself or something to get out of freeze state.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:13 AM
1

It's more about your body language and non-verbal communication. If you want to say something to her, you can speak it directly into her ear. You can have conversation later somewhere else. Just look at her and dance with her.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:06 AM
2

Slow approach only makes sense if you are making progress. The more you act completely as friends, the more she is willing to look for romance somewhere else. Next time you will be in a "mistake" situation, you should say something like "I know it may be a mistake, but it is a very nice mistake". You need to reframe that context. And work more with natural sexual attraction between you.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:00 AM
1

What you really feel in this context, that you can't present your behaviour as rational when you will finally approach her after so much hestitation. But you can. It's normal to hesitate. Anxiety doesn't come from nothing. Girls would like to see guys as other human beings, vulnerable like them. You can casually mention that you were exchanging glances when you will talk, which will release the tension, end of drama.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:50 AM
4

Most likely you have not provided enough comfort and sexual attraction between you. Work on these during your second date and maybe then she will make pause for you to ask her to watch stamps at your house.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:39 AM
6

As you probably realised, it's somewhat complicated. Next time in some flirty context you can say something like "Is it normal?" There is also a decent age gap between you, so I doubt she thinks of you as her potential partner. Women have no problems with being flirty and sexual with no commitment, it takes time to develop deeper feelings. If you really feel that there is some potential for romantic relation, you should think of circumstances how to get with her outside from "client - service pr…
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:47 PM
1

Taking risks is very important aspect of being a man. Just be smart about it.
/r/seduction02/10/22 08:01 AM
1

You can convert it into something funny, boring, game of teasing or ignore it meaningly. Girls like to provoke, but their goal often is not to make you mad, but rather make something more extreme to happen, so you should keep that context. If she constantly tries to roast your value, then you should rather pull away, but it indicates end of the game most of the time.
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:51 AM
1

Not necessarily. But you should stay aware of your emotions and mood around.
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:43 AM
2

Casual and sincere "romantic shit" can be really powerful in developing strong connection and emotions between you. Many guys just treat it as some obligation and try to build sexual attraction with it, while it should be rather natural, playful and flirty. Learning to be naturally funny is of course always desired. It's like a life hack to have a good time regardless of circumstances.
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:40 AM
4

Well, restraining yourself from compulsive masturbation/pornography has some really interesting effects. You maintain higher level of energy, you are more bold with your actions, you perceive women more as a whole person rather than just sexual object, you are more invested in activities, your voice changes etc. Conserving your seed and sexual energy may have really positive effect on your pickup crusade, I recommend everyone to take some little test with it.
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:31 AM
1

Fucking will be pretty troublesome if you won't be able to treat the girl properly and manage emotions. Two parties are nothing, especially if you didn't have bigger opportunity to shoot your shot. You don't need to fancy such meetings, but you need to learn to handle basic social interactions to have a chance to develop normal relation with a girl. You have such defeatist mentality, many guys need to improve themselves very much to have some edge in constantly rising bar of dating market. Treat…
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:19 PM
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Unless the baby is greatly handicapped by fate, it will eventually learn. Socialising and romantic interactions with women are not rocket science. Many guys are just mislead by society's plushy norms in their development.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:09 PM
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I guess just about anything. Join activities, take part in basic conversations, sit casually among strangers. You need to help your luck to get circumstances where you can comfortably develop some connection. Smile, have fun yourself, dress well, have some alcohol or something else to relax. You need to enjoy your socialising, this is not contest, this is life. One time you may not make any progress, but second time you may make progress that far exceeds your expectations.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:51 PM
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I guess women are less eager to take risks and go against the mainstream. They have much less struggle with finding a partner, society is kinda protective towards them. I think it stems from biological and psychological predispositions that were developed over the big years of our civilisation system, but it may change with the shift of climate and rules.
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:32 PM
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Very true. Add rich descriptions of emotions there as well, and she will feel like you would have intimate, wild sex already. Of course you should gradually add the heat not to burn a woman but to melt her with pleasure.
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:20 PM
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Good start is to keep closer to her than you would be to a friend, look at her little longer than necessary and smile. All in all, you need to work out your own style anyway. Keep walking towards intimacy, but don't rush, play along her reactions.
/r/seduction01/10/22 10:03 AM
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Imagine baby that surrender its struggle to walk because it seems hard and it is constantly failing. You are harshly judging yourself for no reason. Next time just make this little step further, if you can. No one is watching, you are your own worst enemy.
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:55 AM
1

I believe it is crucial to surround yourself with people that will positively support your pickup effort. With this, you just need to slightly manage your mindset.
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:48 AM
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Act like you have no interest of convincing her or receive approval. If you are frequently talking to a girl, it is an obvious option that you are interested in her. Focus on enhancing a pleasure from your conversations, inducing emotions, connection, mutual activities etc. Don't push for establishing a relation, it will appear naturally if the world blossom around you.
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:15 AM
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Focus on your game, don't get caught in wishful thinking what she may or may not feel for you. Keep balance with your moves and engagement. Have a good time yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:09 AM
1

Someone once said that alcohol is the reason why our specimen still exist. Don't get carried away by it though, there is time when you can drink and there is a time when you should not, regardless if you like you drunk personality more.
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:05 AM
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Well, you were fed with such fairy tales as a child, so it may take some time until you start to look at the reality with clear mind. Women may be humans like us, but they are also very different than men in many aspects. That's why it is normal to feel anxiety and wear "politeness mask" if you are dwelling into unknown territory. Once you get more familiar with true nature of women, you will be much more conscious with your behaviour.
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:49 AM
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Well, you have quite committed yourself for a guy that just want to be friends with them but you know very well that they may play different game for you. Be nice with your honesty, not with your lies. I guess if you don't want to be open about your feelings, you can just be much less responsive or talk about hanging out with different girls around them. If they would do something that go beyond friendly relation, you can then make it clear that you are not interested. Sincerity and politeness g…
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:33 AM
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I believe that hairless body appears more sexual, just leave eyebrows and your crown hair.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:19 AM
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Yeah, I have heard something like this before. Girls want someone who is "bad boy" for others and good for her. Either way, it's all about emotions. Lots of extreme emotions from the whole spectrum, except that which diminish your value.
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:59 AM
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Well, it was really like direct offer of sex, which can be pretty overwhelming, especially for a virgin. You need to pay attention to emotions and read the mood to scale your moves with her engagement. Try to be subtle next time, many girls like such pervy-dodgy games.
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:49 AM
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Probably there was nothing interesting going on between you. You got cozy in low-emotions relationship and she just lost her drive. You need to progress and feed the girl with thrills and chills, to get your relation to function properly. In other case, she just see no bright future with doing repetitive activities with "lousy boyfriend".
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:32 AM
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You are focusing too much on the outcome that is hundred steps away from you. That is a good way to get chronical anxiety or depression. Be in the present moment and firstly make moves that are within your reach. Get simple social interactions with women, improve yourself step by step, enjoy time without responsibilities. Future you will mainly regret that you were worrying too much.
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:03 AM
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Well, I can give you some specific advices to your current situation, seduction is hella big of a subject. Don't engage your emotions too early. Don't wait without a reason, you need to make some progress in a long run. Don't treat it so seriously, play it as a game. Don't try so hard, play along with her responsiveness.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:37 AM
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I guess it comes when you love the game and yourself enough to simply enjoy your interactions with others. Also, restraining yourself from compulsive masturbation and porn will allow you to see women as much more than just sexual objects.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:29 AM
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It's not like women will come to you, unless you have some extraordinary presence. You need to help your luck and find yourself in situations where you can naturally interact with women. Stay casual about it, you need to get familiar with simple conversations and social situations first. Then you should learn a lot about pickup game to change your mindset and try out different styles of approaching in practice, learn from your mistakes and improve quality of your conversation and presence. You s…
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:46 PM
1

I believe you can figure something out. If you can, invite her when your parents are away or come to her place or rent some room. If you cannot, you can also simply go for it with your parents in home, but with keeping some safety measures: lock your room, turn on some music (not too loud), make sure you don't have squeaky bed, cover her mouth when she climax.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:35 PM
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She is behaving like that because you relation is getting stagnant, you are not making much progress with escalating your physical and mental intimacy. There is a pressure to make some clarification move, but apparently you have not established proper emotions and mood for it to look natural. My word would be to release the tension of these awkward emotions by revealing that they are there, and smoothly and gently start progressing towards your desirable goal, which is sexual intimacy. Little st…
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:31 AM
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You should embrace it, "cute" may have a potential to be your valuable asset if you would go properly about it. If you behave like you are offended by it or start behaving like a cute person, then it will definitely snowball towards a dark side of "cute". Masculine guy with a cute face can be extremely attractive for girls.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:24 AM
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It's all about changing your mindset and enhance your sexual attractiveness. You have a lot of things to learn, mind and body to transform, and get a lot of practice in real life. Start with learning about basic pickup theory, there are plenty of information here.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:07 AM
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There may be definitely some genetical prejudice here. It's not a bad thing at all, it's just how our nature works, to preserve valuable traits. I guess if you would come closer to their culture, you would receive much bigger rapport.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:01 AM
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I believe that most of these blocks appear, because you try to make too big of a leap in escalating your intimacy. Your next moves should be congruent in some way with your current progress. You can always come little closer to her, you can always touch her little more, you can always look her in the eyes little longer, you can always share little more personal information, you can always go somewhere little more private, you can always talk to her little sweeter, you can always induce little mo…
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:57 AM
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Focus on inducing different emotions and keeping high energy in a conversation. You are not meant to exchange any information, you are meant to have pleasurable and interesting experience.
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:39 AM
1

It's definitely not worth becoming permanently bitter because of it. Dating game is one of the most shallow and rigged things in social life. You should stop exposing yourself to stories about "easy sex", oversexualized women's portraits and putting sexual affairs on life pedestal. You should improve your sexual attractiveness just to attract a good partner for you, that will mirror your sexual dynamics and be a good company for life circumstances. I believe most guys are capable of that, but so…
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:15 AM
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There is a difference between shooting your shot and mindlessly collecting rejections. Rejection is fine if you can make something out of the situation. If you stay oblivious to emotions, not learning from mistakes and force yourself to handle the impossible - you will do yourself more harm than good. There are plenty of good opportunities to have positive interactions with a woman, you don't have to expose yourself for thousand blunt rejections, you should be smart about your approach.
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:05 AM
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That's a good start for now. It will take time to learn how to manage the mood, read emotions and start believing in your value. Just continue with small steps and enjoy your interactions with women. Anxiety appears because you want do do something that you can't really manage, in improper circumstances. Start casual, have a simple talk, experiment with different seduction techniques.
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:30 AM
1

Well, you should not approve sabotaging or diminishing your success, but try not to boast too much about it when your friends struggle.
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:01 AM
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Anxiety is not a bug in a system, it is protecting your self-esteem from receiving heavy mental blows from mindless actions. Before you start approaching, you should maximize your confidence level and feeling of high value. By receiving positive feedback from yourself and environment, it should eventually snowball towards a success. It is not good to approach indifferent girls when you feel down.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:55 AM
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You should work with positive odds, that there are some sings that you won't be rejected. Rejection is pretty common, you can't really imagine that everyone is reciprocating each other's feelings, right? That's why you should test the ground before you make major move, to minimise awkwardness of misinterpreting the mood. You can handle rejection by simply realising that it is normal and unavoidable sometimes. Would you like to force any girl to like you? Also, it is very important to have a posi…
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:38 AM
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Intent and desire is always in the air, you just need to make it smooth and natural. Paradoxically, not by making detailed plans but by paying attention to emotions and dynamics between you in present moment. Set a good background for intimate escalation and just make these very little steps forward. It's more of a play, not an exam.
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:43 AM
1

Take a step backwards and check what important steps in escalation you could have missed. Or maybe you missed that she just doesn't like you.
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:35 AM
1

Maybe she was in your league, but she didn't feel the vibe for pickup at that moment or she was not reactive to your type of attractiveness. Take a walk and look at every girl you pass, if she would be your instant turn on if she would come and talk with you.
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:25 AM
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In that context it is part of your game. You show confidence and establish intimate emotions with such words. It's not like you are begging for permission to make a move, it's more like you are complimenting a girl and she may take it further if your directness and desire would turn her on enough.
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:50 AM
1

We just want to break the code of women's nature, which eventually prevails in dating preferences.
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:43 AM
1

You can go with "If you go for third strike, there will be a change of batter".
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:03 PM
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Of course they do, but they may be very tolerant about it, if they have already locked their interest in a guy they really want to fuck.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:47 PM
1

You should incorporate such emotions and make some use of them in your communication.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:41 AM
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In the end, it all comes to the blunt truth. Girls want to have wild sex, true connection, high status relationship in a society etc. No made-up rules or convictions will change how nature works. Seduction is about discovering that you can potentially provide all of these too.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:31 AM
1

"Lame excuse, 3/10".
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:59 AM
3

It's like "I am so confident with my attractiveness and value that I don't really need anyone's approval". Which is a BIG trait in a life partner for women.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:00 AM
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Yeah, it's a very important difference. Men react to a specific trigger that want them to share their seed with a fertile ground. Women need far more time and specific actions to get to know the properties of a partner and prepare their body to achieve the best possible result of a sexual union.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:56 AM
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There are plenty of other traits that women find very attractive in a male: body posture, voicetone, hairstyle, muscles, smile, eyes, hands, composure, intelligence, high energy, assertiveness, managing risk, physical strength, high communicative skills, leadership etc. etc. etc. It is better to find your own style and enhance and highlight your strenghts rather than trying to teach the fish how to climb a tree. Girls often don't know what they like until you show it to them.
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:06 PM
2

Look her straight in the eyes from very close distance.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:48 AM
1

Well, you need to cultivate that specific trait in you that would make women chase for you. I think that you are doing all the work, and girls seem low energy invested in your potential relation. If you make them eager to make moves on you, game will flip and you will just slightly manage to "naturally" get in bed together.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:29 AM
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I believe it only works when you are not telling these as "jokes" but rather to tease or make them flinch for fun. But I would save it when a girl already knows that you can be funny if you want.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:51 AM
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Well, apparently nothing memorable happened during that meeting for her. Her emotions dropped quickly afterwards, and she concluded that you won't meet her expectations for a partner. Girls follow social code stricly, most of the time, you need to read between the lines and pay attention to emotions. She needs to desire so much more from you or it will end after first date, her words don't matter much if feelings won't follow. If you had a girlfriend before you should know by now that communicat…
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:41 PM
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I believe those are his natural subtle traits that press right buttons in many women. Even if you would find out and copy them, I doubt they would cause the same efffect with another person. It's better to find your own sexually attractive traits and use them actively for your game.
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:36 PM
1

Intelligence is only effective if you can transform it into power. Calculator or encyclopedia won't impress girls much, but an attractive male that can manage a situation or solve unsolvable problem definitely is. Most likely you are just stiff. You need to take things cool, relax, stay aware and adapt, make a connection.
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:06 PM
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I guess you should pass on every generic topic and focus on having fun in conversation by yourself. Try out different kind of approaches to check what your actual partner enjoys. Stay simple, stay unpredictable, don't get into conclusions, keep positive attitude, play with words and inducing emotions. If your date is not responsive or cooperative, despite the fact that you give her much space and opportunities to bounce the ball, you should leave before her.
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:13 AM
1

How would that be a rejection? She seems eager to break more words to establish emotions and context between you. Also, isn't she right that you can't really apply for this job as non-graduate?
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:58 AM
3

Was it really THE MOST awkward? You approach a girl, break couple of words, find out she is not that responsive, said smooth goodbye. What is so bad here?
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:48 AM
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I guess it just boosts his ego and he enjoy these feelings. He seems not to care about your perspective at all. And girls like what they like. If you don't enjoy the game, don't play it. It happens frequently that you are not destined to like some people or thrive in certain environment. Invest you attention and energy somewhere else.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:35 AM
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Talk with her there for a bit to establish some positive emotions and potential romantic context and then ask her out. Don't get into any generic topics or come out with your feelings. Simple, you have a good talk, you would like to get it in real world.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:25 AM
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Sexual tension is always in the air to some extent, you should just escalate it, but not release it. Mention some slightly sexual topic in casual context, tell a story that would present your high value in non-artificial manner, make some very subtle compliment about her sexual feature, use your voice and intonation like you would be in intimate situation etc. Just go straight to the point, but make very little steps. And give her space to maker her moves on you.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:14 AM
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It is important to adapt to the situation and potentially transform any vibe into pleasant one. I guess you should learn it by interacting with many different people in many different circumstances. There are couple of rules that you should follow there: don't force humorous situations, keep conversation reactive, don't come into conclusions, keep high energy, step gradually with spiciness, try out different types of humor to check what your partner enjoys
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:03 AM
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If you feel she likes you, she will most likely make it clear during that meeting if only you won't act totally uninterested. If you established some sexual context before, things should go smoothly on their own. Just don't rush, play along.
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:06 PM
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There are many beginner guys here, there is usually no point in presenting any specific technique if protagonist has little clue about context and purpose. Human relations can be very complex and counterintuitive, it's not hammering nails, it's not like learning and passing a test in school. You need to work on certain skills and improve your assests to even get some edge, most of the time. Think of it like a comprehensive game that has no simple solution, it's better to emphasize basics rather …
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:34 PM
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If she would be really interested she would probably explain herself big way for you to keep waiting for 2 weeks. It's more like she just doesn't want to meet up, for whatever reason. Either way, would you like to get with a woman that can't make 1-2 hours time in 2 weeks for a potential boyfriend/lover?
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:47 AM
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Whatever lol Brain is different, hormonal system is different. There is clear biological and psychological distinction that affects perceiving the world and expressing. There is big difference between discrimination and distinction. Surely woman may fancy informational/logical conversation, but they seem to be more reactive towards context that triggers emotions ON AVERAGE.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:12 PM
1

It's pretty much ok, I guess there are still positive emotions and sexual tension between you, but why would you give so much attention to the other guy if you apparently didn't want to.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:03 AM
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You are getting flooded with hormones that you were lacking for a long time. It is very similar to a drug addiction. And the best cure for a drug addiction is to have other "stable" activities that would provide you with lots of positive nourishment.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:55 AM
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I don't know how having a "mental disorder" would change a game for you. Either take pills and follow the code, or try to use your traits as an advantage of some kind. Girls love extreme emotions, but you should have them in your control and adjust to a situation. Play with positive odds and signals and just treat it like a social game, don't take it too seriously.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:49 AM
2

Well, dates are meant to be meetings where you get to know each other and escalate your intimacy. If you haven't make any significant progress for 2-3 dates, then there is a big possibility that you are just not compatible and you will not make a good couple or good lovers. Girls need some foreplay, that's all. Some foreplay may take 1 hour, some foreplay may take 3 dates, but there need to be some mutual chemistry that will lead you in common direction and some signs of synergy between you two.…
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:35 AM
1

Intelligent conversation rarely induces emotions. Girls love emotions, they perceive world by feelings.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:10 AM
1

I would suggest just to start behaving differently, they will surely not approve your words. Don't get extreme, keep it cool.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:03 PM
1

Talk it through with you, don't make you look at his triumph if it makes you upset, take you away from place that is draining you, make up circumstances that would satisfy you too, HE WOULD NOTICE THAT YOU ARE DOWN. Friend is a person that make you feel like a better person. In another environment you could be much more satisfied, but you should choose it on your own with clear mind.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:57 PM
1

You are forming a group, because that way you should all win. And situations are turning up that you are absorbing all the shit, and your "friends" just are minding their own business.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:43 PM
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No good friend would leave you with such emotions. It may sound extreme, but if you would not fight for your dignity on your own, you will be dumped into abyss by the whole world very quickly. All these anxieties, fears etc. are screaming that you have to take charge and set borders or your self value will be devoured by sweet voices of friends, family, beautiful women etc.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:33 PM
1

I like to say that approaching women should be natural and casual. Natural because you want to have as many positive odds as possible that would support this interaction. Casual because you don't want it to be like war for approval or fight for love, but just the most normal interaction between humans that may turn different ways depending on many uncontrollable circumstances and you just want to do it because you like it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:17 PM
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I think you are too nice enduring these hard rejections, cheeky overtones and social circle that places you last for the meal. Drugs are making you numb, but really it will be much better for your mental health if you will dump such company and retain your pride.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:09 PM
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Why you repost this? All previous advices turned up to be invalid? Once again, you need to present yourself as a girlfriend material. Be social, be friendly, embrace your femininity, present some value.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:54 AM
1

They just receive so many messages that they have no necessity to be creative or exceptionally receptive. If she havs no specific targets at the moment, she will just let the contest for her attention stay opened.
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:21 AM
1

Theoretically it is only the matter of knowledge how to please a woman and controlling your ejaculation. Most women seem to not have any kind of fetish for high body-count male. You don't have to confirm that you are a virgin or not. Just remember that girls like it slow and indecent and you need to prolong your orgasm as much as possible.
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:05 AM
2

That you both can induce desired emotions in each other.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:55 PM
1

You should appreciate these visions, but focus on reality and actual moves. Long distance relationships are pretty tough and usually pointless. Don't engage yourself into relation that have really no foundations yet. Also, this history about getting with ex's sister is pretty unusual. There may occur some awkward emotions and vibe. I would not give in myself for that.
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:25 AM
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As I see you are very pessimistic and bitter about yourself. You can always make progress with your attractiveness level and potentially get with some decent girl. You just need to take some work into improving your sexual traits and changing your mindset. If you are not putting any effort towards improving yourself as an attractive sexually male, you are not learning about women's nature and dating game basics, and you are not helping your luck to meet many women - how this is supposed to work?…
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:20 AM
1

You should keep it correspondent to your current relation state. If you have not broken any significant physical intimacy barrier yet, and you are not engaged in each other's lives very much, then texting much will present you only as some online friend, highly unsexual. If you are really into each other and thirsty for going intimate, but you start playing games with responding once every 2-3 days, girl may get very confused and potentially frustrated and just move on to someone that will make …
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:06 AM
1

And why would you let girls decide about your self-worth? Girls tend to have very different wild preferences, also you may just not notice their interest, or they are just not in the mood to check anybody out. You should know your own advantages best and radiate with your high self-esteem by your own wish. Girls are very good at recognizing if someone is unsure about his value or confident with himself no matter what. Take a guess, which one they would like to interact with.
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:49 AM
2

You need to excel in other aspects of male attractiveness. Enhance your advantages rather than struggle with unimprovable downsides. There is a lot to improve pretty quickly with your appearance and mental, most of the time. You need to present yourself as a high-value male, that girls would like to reproduce with. Once you will get to the decent overall level, you will attract some decent women or women that have an actual preference towards your sexual traits. You need to look realistically at…
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:41 AM
1

It probably means that you have not generated enough positive emotions between you, and she doesn't feel comfortable and appreciated to escalate physical intimacy. You rushed too soon for a kiss, when she clearly didn't feel a couple vibe. It will be pretty difficult to get smoothly out of this awkward hurdle. You should clarify this immediately, you can't agree on a relation where "she does not like to be touched". It's probably a burned ground though.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:34 PM
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Keep close proximity, talk about more personal stuff, get new mutual experiences, take some part in each other's lives, touch her casually, look her in the eyes, spend regular time together, actually care what she says or do etc. Thing is about starting from scratch and gradually and smoothly moving your borders, try out new things. Of course we assume that she likes you in the first place, so you should keep your frame as attractive and interesting male.
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:10 PM
1

What's the biggest issue with her being so young compared to you?
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:36 PM
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I believe girls are not looking at relationships by 0-1 system as much as men do. She may just really like your company, but not thinking about anything more intimate at the moment. You should take some time 1 on 1 to escalate and get more clearance. Take part in some class parties or just casually meet her outside school.
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:29 PM
2

No, girls are much better at it. I would rather say "Ok, I like you a lot too".
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:28 AM
1

Good sense of humour indicates that you can handle different emotional states and different social situations very well, to transform potentially everything into enjoyable and simple experiences. The most important thing is not to force it in any way. It's all about adaptation, playfulness and natural joy.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:06 AM
1

Imagine that girls can be even more thirsty for sexual interaction than men, you just need to make it smooth, subtle and non-awkward. It's a skill, it takes time to grasp the concept, no one is really teaching this in mainstream schooling situations. It's really not that easy for someone who have never seen the proper way. If you already manage to make some simple casual conversations, just make a little step forward, mention something slighlty sexual casually and try to accomodate conversation …
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:59 AM
1

I guess you just lack practice. A little bit of alcohol should help you overcome these barriers and not care so much about random social encounter. Anxiety is pretty normal thing, as public sexual affairs are rather unusual and delicate matters. I think you just need couple of small wins, don't go out for the final base crusade, just take part in casual and natural interactions with opposite gender and slowly built from that.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:16 AM
1

You rather need to embrace anxiety, don't fight with it. You approach a girl, not because you want to win over anxiety, but because you want to interact with her WITH your anxiety.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:59 AM
1

True, girls are swarming leaders like bees around a honeypot.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:35 AM
1

Look at her back, maybe even smile sometime. If she fancies you, she will become ecstatic. If you receive many positive signals, you can casually come to her with something like "Hey, I like your gaze, I'm XYZ. Wanna take a walk?"
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:29 AM
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Just don't show it, most girls would be intimidated that you are so thirsty as you potentially can't control yourself while she is not ready yet to go intimate. You need to press many correct buttons to go from social strangers to intimate couple. Even if a girl fancy you, she usually takes some time to get hot and be ready to break physical barriers. High libido is not that unpopular, but you can manage it. Paradoxically, by greatly reducing sexual triggers and masturbation you will be more anc…
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:17 AM
1

I believe it's about being realistic. Don't assume that she is as eager as you, don't rush things that need time and specific deeds to grow.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:57 PM
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Girls will hardly ever initiate direct sexual context and usually she will be very drunk. You should just come to them confidently and escalate your physical intimacy little by little. Then you can take her out to chill out or drink something at the bar. Girls are very eager for sexual adventures od vacations but you still need to pass this little social game to be approved as smashable male.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:46 PM
2

It's about the realisation that women are different than men, and we should discover and appeal to this mysterious world rather than fitting women into frame of men figures and logic.
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:42 AM
2

They do, but it doesn't mean to be socially awkward or inept in any way. It rather means to not fight for anyone's attention or approval, don't babble unnecessarily and keep your context to yourself.
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:29 AM
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If you live an abundant lifestyle, you will get many opportunities to interact with ladies. Don't neglect your social life, just give it some space in your schedule. You seem to think of dating as work/duty, where it should be fun. You should have some fun, even if you want to work hard. Women's nature won't change overnight, you just need to stay open to the market.
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:55 AM
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You should induce emotions in your conversations. Play with the words, make her really curious and excited about your next message. Don't bother too much about generic topics, don't get specific. Just have fun with online interaction.
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:46 AM
2

"I need to know you better" means that you have not provided enough comfort and attraction for them to jump right into potential sexual context at your house. Girls don't want to play escape simulator when things would get awkward and weird in some stranger's house. It's not exactly your fault. Creating sexual tension, high positive emotions, intimate connection and comfort through internet app is obviously problematic. You can do it to some extent, you can leave the rest for typical first date …
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:36 AM
2

She hoped that maybe you will get intimate with each other, but you acted pretty much still like her friend. Anyway, it is pretty crazy story to wait for someone for that many years, I don't believe that she would be serious about your relation.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:17 PM
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I think "Looks don't matter" means that extremely sweet emotions that are the basis of attraction between genders are not generated exclusively by physical appearance. It's a complex combination of traits that deeply affects hormonal system at a particular time.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:13 PM
1

That there is nothing exciting or interesting going on between you and it won't be. Your traits are not synchronized and your relation would be fruitless.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:00 PM
1

You need to act friendly, affirm your sexuality and stay open to social life. As a boyfriend and girlfriend you will be doing many things together besides workout in a bed, you need to be compatible with your future plans, time schedules and preferred activities. Even if you don't fancy interacting with people, you can learn how to enjoy your time within a group and make some casual contacts from time to time. I would say that many guys like shy girls very much, but they don't really like when g…
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:25 AM
2

Smile and stay vulnerable. Guys will feel a lot more confident with you, if you won't act like sharp social expert, but rather like a plump female.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:58 AM
1

Most of the time, you need to take her down from her pedestal that was erected by the dozens of thirsty males. Get into context and circumstances that would present you in a very good way comparing to others, and where she would be little uncomfortable and wishing to learn.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:48 AM
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It's pretty interesting that many such stories where girl is constantly assuring you how great it was, ends in ghosting. I guess it stems from the fact, that you haven't made any real connection and hooks for future interactions. Instead it just went towards ONS story, but you haven't managed to close things. Her emotions dropped by the night, and it was just nothing left there, therefore she moved on.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:44 AM
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It's not like she will fall in love once you tell her about your feelings. Instead you should escalate your intimate moments, so everything would come naturally. She needs to do her part in this, too. Invite her to some other mutual activities.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:38 AM
1

You need to empower yourself. Take a shower, wear good clothes, get some small victories, workout, restrain from masturbation, eat good food etc. Then just walk around people, and you will get so much positive feedback that it will certainly make you more confident.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:32 AM
2

You are kind of catching girls off-guard, also you are presenting yourself as confident and competent in social interactions, also many girls have not that many interesting encounters in their schematic and safe lives. Most guys just don't have a clue how to treat girls properly. Also, girls are getting more and more demanding, so there is big possibility that they will embarass themselves or get straight rejected. You are in a big niche, most guys just get their women by chance and due to mutua…
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:10 PM
1

I guess it depends how much you are present in each other's lives. If you are only going on dates 1 on 1, then you are obviously not connected like boyfriend and girlfriend yet. You should come through a lot of different social situations together, be involved into many private matters, and share pretty much everything with yourselves. It should come naturally, many people don't need to have any conversation like that, it's pretty obvious without it.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:51 PM
2

Make an experiment. Sacrifice one date, one potential relation and just don't try too much. Either you will hit with it or not. Maybe you will get some enlightening feedback.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:19 AM
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I believe simple first date is more adequate, as you will discover if you have some natural attraction to each other's sexuality and some natural connection in the first place, without any unnecessary distractions. It doesn't mean of course that it should be boring or schematic.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:12 AM
2

She is afraid that you will dump here, once you will get your physical satisfaction with her. She will get emotionally involved, and you will move on. I guess you can sincerely say something like "I don't know yet. Do you see me as your boyfriend already?" Or just don't say anything in particular like you did. But if you really just want to smash and she clearly wants something meaningful, maybe don't break her heart for some meaningless pounding?
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:00 AM
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Of course, knowledge about woman's biology and how to get her to highest pleasures is one of the most crucial things to make her crazy about you and to build happy relationship.
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:04 PM
2

You need to escalate your physical intimacy a good chunk before you go for a kiss. Keep close proximity, touch her casually but frequently. Also you need to set proper mood and emotions, and get some privacy. Don't rush, make a decent ground before you attack first base. It should come naturally.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:52 PM
21

So basically you have paid for four dates, where nothing interesting in romantic context has happened between you. No idea what this is all about?
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:14 PM
1

In that context it is rather positive, it's the type of your charm. Just don't overdo it.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:54 AM
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It kinda is, because it shows that the girl has big need for changing partners frequently. Also, her mental and biology may be distorted by getting intimate with so many partners. Still, some guys may just want to have sex with her so badly that they ignore such aspects, also they may just give her a chance as she may seemingly have changed her approach towards relationships. I think you should pay attention if she has inclinations for easy lying and deceiving, if you want to deal with hyperacti…
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:52 AM
3

Dealing with borderlines is a pretty dangerous game, they may hardly mess with your emotions and brain without blink of an eye. If you keep that in mind and keep your frame at all times, you may find common ground. They usually prefer hard style of escalating a relation and solid conversations.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:36 AM
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Telling someone what they want to hear is very powerful seduction technique. It clearly differs from "nice guy" mentality, as nice guy appeals to social standards and shallow culture schemes, while you want to appeal to real emotions/vibe/connection.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:28 AM
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Yeah, it was typical casual approach by girls. It's ok to be shocked in such situations, it's not like it was destined to escalate immediately anyways. If you like the girl back, next time you can say something like "Thanks, yours are not bad either. Wanna eat with me?"
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:21 AM
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Start with reserved reactions and gradually move your borders. Stay natural and laidback. Don't get to the point, let the conversation flow by itself. Give space for the other person to elaborate and react. Don't get into specifics, mention casually several different things to check what the other person likes. Start with something positive and easily relatable, like current circumstances or some simple and funny detail. It's a skill, most important thing is to not force anything and casually go…
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:12 PM
2

Yes, but don't lose too much. Give it your best, but don't treat it seriously at the same time. It should make both of you feel good.
/r/seduction10/09/22 09:16 AM
1

Most likely she is jealous, either she is not being approached, or she wants to interect with her friend herself. The best solution is to also pay her some attention, or even better to find some handsome wingguy to potentially polarise her energy.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:44 AM
1

Probably you were too nice and passive and there was no smooth transition to romantic relation from that. If you want to see her again at this game, just be more casual this time, don't get clingy for no reason.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:37 AM
1

This can be learned, you should throw yourself into many different social situations where you need to interact with people. Also you should start exercising and limit porn to stay more clear.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:30 AM
1

You can get some practice in reading emotions and mood first. Walk around and make some eye contact and smile at girls. You should have some draft plan how you would open a girl when you approach, but many times you are just doomed to fail from the start as girl is not interested in interaction at all. Pay more attention to your intuition and pick wisely.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:24 AM
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You focus too much on your downsides. Dating game is pretty rough and obviously not the most important thing in life. Girls are very different than boys, seeking their approval may easily lead you into madness. You should treat your dating life like a casual game, with hit and miss, like a quest to become attractive male, not like a life battle. It may take some time until you get into decent vibe, that will attract some women to you. You are too harsh on yourself for no reason. It's understanda…
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:15 AM
1

I guess they get used to be entertained with conversation by boys all the time. Maybe they would like you participate more in group activity, as they feel you would provide some attractive value to the mood. You can step up a bit with your activity, but still do your thing. If they go with "why you are so quiet", you can go with "maybe others are too noisy".
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:56 AM
2

Well, in the end it doesn't matter. Girl are clueless about leading a relation, most of the time. Without progress, you are doomed to part ways.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:17 PM
5

Well, you arranged consecutive dates which concluded pretty much the same way as previous ones. It's just exactly as she said, there was nothing there for you. Next time you need to stay present and escalate towards your goal, which is mental and physical intimacy obviously. Women don't want an exclusive relation with kissing and talking, like 40-year-old good marriage with one month experience.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:21 AM
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Children are changing rapidly, digital media abuse, cultural regression, flawed education system, poor freedom and variety level etc. You need to speak their language and have some taste of their world. Older generation is often associated with teachers or family mentality, being all about school, rules, proper behaviour, generic conversations, being quiet and composed.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:13 AM
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There are girls who act really carefree as it comes to sexual dynamics, they love the thrill, they love the game. Maybe she is not interested to get with you the normal way like dating, but she would like to make some push-pull sexual dance with you until something naturally happen. Or she is never considering it, and she just messes around for fun. You decide, you can play along but subtly show that you are not so easily persuaded and you will play by your rules too.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:03 AM
1

And what went right? You were just talking, kindly and politely. This didn't seem to go anywhere, your context were more like online friends. Next time you should just get to the point after some time, it may be really impolite to mess around vaguely if someone developed real feelings.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:51 AM
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It's about the obvious thing that not every girl is meant to fancy you (and that is of course a huge understatement). Just like you don't find every girl attractive.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:37 AM
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Probably you were incoherent with escalating physical intimacy comparing to your real sexual dynamics and emotions between you. She didn't like the pace of these relation, that is your expectations comparing to her feelings. Not compatible, wrong buttons pushed. That happens.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:24 AM
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In most cases there is no talk about setting up a relationship, it's just obvious as you are highly engaged into each other's lives and deeply connected physically and mentally. Just keep escalating your relation, until it will be natural to say that you are boyfriend and girlfriend.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:19 AM
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It's not the most important thing in the world, many aspects of being an attractive male are not derived from living a happy and fulfilling life. Most people are getting their dates and sex by chance, nobody is teaching basic dating stuff in family or school. So, if you haven't got any luck, you need to rearrange and improve your mindset and appearance by yourself, to get you into dating mainstream.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:25 AM
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It's pretty basic stuff. You should keep sexual tension between you all the time, especially in the beginning. If you take something for granted, emotions will quickly become flat, and that is the killer of male-female dynamics.
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:43 AM
2

True, get your foreplay naturally.
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:24 AM
2

I don't have anything particular in English, but it doesn't really matter, most PUAs have pretty similar concepts, especially as it comes to foundations. Follow your intuition with finding materials, you should pick up the style that suits you the most.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:11 PM
2

There are really plenty of these things among the Internet, just the basic stuff for the start. About women immense sexuality, about their real view on ideal sex partner, about hidden motives behind their words. Just to grasp simple concepts that women want sex very much, what man you should become to get their interest and to look at their actions, not their words.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:13 PM
1

I guess it comes from an experience with dealing with different kinds of people. You just have many possible scenarios and you are adjusting to the specific person and circumstances. Also, you should really not focus on information, but rather on emotions and dynamics between you. If your target is elaborating about things that you don't really get, you can make funny comment about it and move to some more reactive context.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:19 AM
1

Well, just be like that yourself from the beginning. Also, many girls are not very good with casual interactions, take what you can.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:55 AM
1

If you haven't made any connection with them besides simple agreement to fuck each other brains out, why you are surprised that these girls are not able to make any contact with you. You need to set proper mood and context from the beginning, most girls will not be interested in being your gf just because you are very compatible in bed.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:39 AM
1

She feels tingled by your attention, but that doesn't mean that she will be DTF right away. You should do what you want, if you smell up a good opportunity.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:25 AM
1

I think you need to help your luck and play with promising odds, rather than investing your emotions right away into unknown territory. You need to pay attention to the mood and her emotions, if you think that she really may like you too. Don't force seduce girls that feel absent and unavailable, seize your opportunity if you feel that you have a good chance that she will like you back. First date is also for you, you may not really like her behaviour and other traits in person, be also somehow …
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:19 AM
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You haven't made really any progress with your relation for a long time, also he could be offended that you just stopped talking with him out of the blue. Your emotions and dynamics dropped really low, I don't think you will get anywhere from here.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:13 AM
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It's very unlikely that you will be directly approached by any girl. She can just wait a bit more if you are indecisive, and she will be approached by some other guy. But I guess your main problem is that you didn't really pay any effort to be attractive for females. Dating scene bar is getting higher and higher and you got just out of the main stream because you didn't care about rising your attraction level. I would suggest for the start to take care of your appearance (exercise, clothes, hair…
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:00 AM
1

You should deal with it yourself. Don't escalate and clearly set a border.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:48 AM
2

It's good to keep that sexual mindset. You are approaching girls to potentially make out and do other super lewd things with her.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:43 AM
3

If you feel good with yourself you are more likely to take action and to spread positive mood around.
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:16 AM
4

Well, you can end the meeting earlier, if you feel alcohol starts to overwhelm you. It's better to leave with some hunger than to randomly fuck things up. I believe you have burnt your bridges, just don't get back to that situation and bet with her. Keep your frame as high value male, don't enlighten normal people.
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:14 AM
2

I would rather say that pussy is overrated in the long run if you need to sacrifice a lot of your time, money, emotions, energy to get with the demanding girl that you don't really like. Of course it's an ultimate pleasure, but it should not blur your sober take on the life and sexual dynamics.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:49 AM
1

You don't need to be around constantly, but you should induce strong emotions from time to time, if you are in a relation. Meet up, listen to everything she wants to say, eat fancy food, cuddle a long time and fuck hard. She needs to deal with her own problems by herself anyway. Don't entangle in her drama, just be her male.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:47 PM
1

In that context "possibly" could meant some teasing, you could reply with "Well ok, possibly I can meet another girl there if you won't show up". You didn't write how you reacted to it, but I assume she could have been displeased with your reply. She may of course be playing some games, as she was not very interested in the first place anyway. You decide.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:21 AM
3

Well, I guess you have not been ever in romantic context with her, so she will probably just act as a friend. Romance is always in the air, but you need to make proper moves to set the mood. Stay close to her, look her straight in the eyes, lower your voicetone, have some moments of privacy, touch her gently but naturally, don't get entangled in emotionless topics. Don't get desperate and have a good time, things may go whatever way as you are not oficially on a date.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:38 AM
1

When she is stressed, low and down, she would like you to power her up the most.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:24 AM
2

It's more like they are attracted to the power that stems from grinding yourself in certain areas.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:16 AM
2

It sounds pretty manipulative, trading your pleasure (like she won't get hers) for relationship promise. Or maybe it is just her anti-slut defensive mechanism. You can go with something like "we are already in some kind of relationship babe, don't be greedy". If she keeps insisting with some more conditions to have sex with you, it would be probably better to stop reaching out to her.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:15 AM
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Normally you would like to wait for her to make a call, as she stated so, but maybe she got so exhausted with her initial move that she don't want to lead anymore for now. You can go up with something casual like "Hey, do you still want to call me? XYZ here."
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:51 AM
1

That's very true, you need to deeply believe that you are an extraordinary male that women should get familiar with.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:14 AM
1

Treat it like fun and adventure. Sometimes you just don't want to try, and that's ok. Rather throw yourself in situations when you just have to interact with others. Also, a bit of alcohol may help you big way in the beginning.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:09 AM
3

You don't need to hurry, you just need to make smooth progress. Guys need to understand what a kiss on the mouth means. It's like the ultimate base in public intimacy, which usually leads two strangers to opening deep private sexual experiences in near future. It's not something trivial like hug or kiss on the cheek. You are marking your deep romantic feelings. If your dynamics are not at this level yet, you can't be surprised that girl is feeling confused and awkward when you try to kiss her wi…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:01 AM
2

You can mix it all up, but I would suggest to get involved in student's life and social parties. Hitting too much on chicks from your main group may get you sometimes into pretty awkward situations.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:44 AM
2

I think you are giving too much effort in a conversation. Popular girls get plenty of messages, they will quickly just turn to the best option, mostly as it comes to sexual attractiveness. I think you need to work on your profile and photos. Then, be more laidback and casual with conversations, mirror girl's involvement.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:37 AM
3

It all comes down to sexual compatibility, but it means so much more than just putting dick into pussy.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:11 AM
4

You are overthinking, but take notice that you should focus on future moves on her, dogs are just background wingmen.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:12 PM
1

Like with an electricity, you need to balance and gradually rise the tension to be able to touch. Just play with it, get a little closer, make one step forward, one step backward, watch her reactions. If you want to make a "jump" to erogenetic area, you can touch her non-erogenetic area with such delicacy as it would be as sensible as erogenetic area. Or you can touch it very, very gently and briefly. Or you can touch it with "friendly" intent. Thing about escalating touch is that it should matc…
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:37 AM
1

Don't invest more in a relation than a girl. Pay attention to your sexual dynamics, if you are not making progress there, all your other efforts are in vain.
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:21 PM
1

It is a good thing to sometimes unplug yourself and get busy with real life. Women can sense if you are stuck in virtual reality. Get active, quit pornography and other similar content, start seeing women casually and you will see big difference very soon. Extreme measures are not the solution, most of the time.
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:10 PM
1

You should go to the gym, take care of every aspect of your appearance that you can manage (hygiene, clothes, hairstyle, posture, perfume), read articles and watch videos about pickup, get yourself in lots of social situations where you can interact with women, test and experiment with different kind of approaches and seduction techniques. It may take some time until you reach the level where you can be clearly desired by women, don't give up that soon. Treat it rather like an adventure and fun,…
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:59 PM
3

Ok, it seems that you don't appreciate your brother very much. It's not like you are tied to him for the rest of your life. I don't know why he would not help you get some girl, but maybe he is not doing these sex adventures to hurt you on purpose, he just don't care. I would suggest not to get involved in rat race so much, working for society and body pleasures is not what life is about. It's your own path to improve, experience and find your meaning. Comparing to anyone won't get you anywhere.…
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:05 AM
1

Anxiety is your truthful emotion that you don't accept or understand. Don't neglect or demonize it, include it in your inner game. Better to focus how you are gonna escalate your mental and physical intimacy, what moves you are gonna make. Rest is just a stage and background that are setting the mood.
/r/seduction30/08/22 04:54 AM
3

If you get too excited for her giving you an attention, then it may become an issue. Otherwise, just do what you want.
/r/seduction30/08/22 04:42 AM
1

I would rather suggest you to keep improving and try to meet girls other ways than cold approaching (by mutual friends, hobby meetings, vacation trips, casual jobs). I guess it's nothing wrong to hire a sexual service, but you are still very young and I think you would prefer to manage it on your own. Sexual bar is getting higher and higher, but I believe most guys have good chances of attracting some girl if they are at their best.
/r/seduction30/08/22 04:35 AM
2

Learn to accept and use silence. You are not on duty to flood her with interesting topics to fight for her approval and attention. If nothing comes to your mind, you can just look at her in silence, focus on your activity, stop for a moment and enjoy, or make a change and get some movement. Ideally you would like to engage her in a conversation, so choose topic which she can be very responsive to. Also, taking things slowly doesn't mean that you should not touch each other at all. If you miss ro…
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:39 AM
3

Kisses are not happening out of nowhere, most of the time. You need to be able to be very close to her, keep eye contact, hold her body. When you overcome these barriers, just find nice place to be little intimate where you can deeply focus on yourselves. Sit on a bench, shoulder to shoulder, look her straight into the eyes, lower your voicetone, start slightly flirty conversation, you can change position or play with push-pull body language and watch her reactions if she cooperates.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:54 AM
2

You should match girl's mood. If she feels energetic and happy, you can smile broadly and openly. If she feels closed and indifferent, you can just slightly wink with understanding.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:45 AM
2

I think you have illusive expectations from a romantic relationship. Girls are very much interested in having abundant relation with men, but you need to meet with them in common point which is sexual attraction. Play the game properly, real world usually don't resemble our imagination very much.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:40 AM
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Just do it very slowly and gradually. Get a little closer, gently touch her with the tip of your finger. She needs to react somehow on her part. (sleeping situation) Overall, you should start with so called "friendly" touch, that indicates no commitment to sexual context. Get closer to her, pat her shoulder, "high five", take a dust from her clothes, jokingly push her aside, check her pulse etc. It's a game, you should take time and enjoy pushing your barriers gradually. And adjust to her reacti…
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:31 AM
2

You would rather try to match her energy, mood and attention level. If she is not holding a conversation, her emotions are flat and her body language is "tense" or "absent", you will not get anywhere with her. Just stay casual and natural, you should make it comfortable for both of you by not making big of a deal from talking to random attractive stranger girl.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:21 AM
1

I guess she was not interested in casual coffee or food but she wanted to figure out why she even chose to be here. It is a common reaction from an organism when circumstances are uncertain. I guess you didn't manage to escalate much mental and physical intimacy?
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:08 AM
1

I guess you can just make some vague statement, if you don't want to elaborate. If she is being persistent about hearing your honest opinion and then she gets offended - you now know what you can expect in the future. Putting yourself in a position of pleasing woman may backfire really quick, you should be proud of who you are, not sell it for anyone's approval. Stay respectful but keep your frame, girls won't control their mood, why would you do it for them. I believe you will lose more time th…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:07 AM
1

I believe they will open up to you once you will show that you won't be aggressively persistent and won't make her uncomfortable or humiliated in any way. Gay men won't bother forcing anything on a girl, and they usually have similar temperament and interests as women. Straight male-female interactions may go different ways, that's why many girls are cautious. Love is war, in some way.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:00 AM
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I believe it's rather their emotional reaction to some touching thing/event. In my opinion men seem to be stronger empaths. That's just how this game works, thing is we were bullshited by parents and society that it's about true love, feelings and connection, while it is mostly just about straightforward sexual attraction game with winning and losing. Don't worry too much about it and go next. And don't engage your emotions too early.
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:34 AM
1

Relationships tend to be tough these days, most people don't know how to behave, how to open, how to choose, how to connect. It's mostly a pursue for pleasure with unreal expectations. I believe in the end it's better to be straight honest with yourself.
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:32 PM
6

Just stay casual and natural. Positive intent, paying attention to the mood and emotions, staying respectful. Nothing wrong with approaching, on the contrary.
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:17 AM
4

Usually it means that this time they would like not to get to final base of physical intimacy without proper love story and emotional connection. Still, every case is different and they may be very much open to quickie in certain circumstances with certain person. Just make a decision that is suitable for you, if you find such condition and waiting problematic, just leave before any commitment.
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:44 AM
3

Describe emotions.
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:35 PM
12

You were quite a fighter in the beginning. But really, just another story when the successful approach is going right from the beginning to the end with no awkwardness and anxiety.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:58 PM
2

Yes, you can. But I wonder how your relation with that girl would look like if you don't want to interact with others too much.
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:59 AM
1

How about inviting her somewhere? You will have more opportunities to escalate your friendly touch, getting more personal and connected, outside of your generic environment.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:48 AM
1

Pick wisely :)
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:37 AM
1

It's simple, you just need to be better sexual and life partner than any potential guys around. You should excel at everything. Looks are of course extremely important, but as a male you can get a lot of points in different areas. Also, looks concerns many attraction features, which you can potentially improve like musculature, posture, hygiene, hairstyle, clothes, healthy body etc.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:03 AM
2

Minimum words, maximum content. You should save your interaction goals for more proper circumstances. Play with emotions, don't get into conclusions.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:52 AM
1

It would be better to ask her ex about it, everyone has their own perspective, and especially girls tend to slightly twist the reality to match her point. You just need to pay attention to emotions, little details and see your potential partner in different situations, that's one of the main purposes of dates. Don't "waste" your time and money on dates, you should enjoy them and check your partner before any financial and emotional commitment.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:37 AM
78

"I want to go down on you, can you shave there cleanly for me?" You can play some word games, but really, we should be able to be straight clear in our relations.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:37 AM
1

It's pretty common thing, many people think of seduction skill as pathetic and unnecessary until you ask them to have a conversation with random attractive girl. I think you just misinterpret the mood, next time just stay casual and let the situation unfold naturally. Simply giving looks is not an invitation for straightforward approach, most of the time. Just smile at them and let the game flow.
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:32 AM
2

Maybe it's not about rejection itself but how you managed your whole approach? Maybe you took your shot where there was very little chance for positive reaction? Maybe you got entangled with "cultural" formulas instead of paying attention to emotions and speaking your heart?
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:07 AM
1

You haven't really made any move towards creating personal connection and emotional conversation. Exchanging information and generic topics are only start point to get into sexual context.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:18 PM
2

Well, you can get closer and closer to her to hold her hips and keep strong eye contact. Push her a little, get your leg gently between hers. You can whisper some flirting stuff into her ear, but not too much. Go for a smooth kiss if the tension is high enough. You can then tell her to chill for a bit at the bar or outside and start to build comfort and rapport, and further escalate your attraction. But I feel many girls don't want to go all the way with the random guy in a club, most of the tim…
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:31 AM
1

Simplest things possible relating to your snaps: "That's so funny", "Wow, that's really cool", "You look really good here" etc.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:45 AM
46

"You will know it pretty soon". And continue like nothing happened.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:32 AM
1

Well, you need to step up with your relation gradually, just a little short text. You can't cuddle and kiss via snapchat. Take your time and enjoy the process.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:30 AM
1

If you don't care about your physical appearance, you have improper mindset, poor social skills, depressing energy, you are hardly meeting any women in real life - no one can help you. It's a process. If you struggle with getting a girl, that usually means your attraction features are very low level comparing to other males around and you need to work on them to get any positive rapport to work with in the first place. "Seduction spell" is not some strict word formula that will get you any girl …
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:35 AM
1

After some time, when you get to the high level of mental and physical intimacy, comfort, mutual experiences, getting to know each other very well. You can simply ask "Are you seeing anyone else?", but it is not that obligatory, actions speak louder than words as it comes to relationships.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:25 AM
1

That's some rough game, you are exchanging glances and guesses for few months. Girls are usually very subtle and indirect with their signals of interest. You need to approach and take your shot to figure her out.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:17 AM
1

Women are far more responsive and immersed in a conversation if it is causing strong emotions in them. Also, they may find you as interesting and passionate person if you are abundant with your expressions and descriptions. Logical or informative conversations resembles school/television, which is plain, boring and non-sexual. Most women don't thrive for knowledge but rather experiences, that's their chemistry.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:01 AM
1

Yeah, but in materialistic-pleasure oriented society, this is hardly a thing. Hard times will come, hormones high will calm down and your connection will weaken dramatically. I believe it's more reasonable to be happy with yourself, really good relationships exist, but I have never seen something resembling divine connection of souls.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:12 PM
1

I guess people just tend to greatly overestimate a relation with opposite gender, even before any connection was really acquired. We are meant to get pleasure with each other, spend a good time, support each other, maybe set up a family. But that's mostly all, it is highly improbable that we would get some divine compatible being that will turn our universe and life upside down in positive way and fill our spiritual void. I would rather think of a sexual relation as a close friend with physical …
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:35 AM
0

I guess you should view a relation for what it really is. Not some life fulfillment and divine connection, but simple gender exchange when you both give and take. Until it maybe evolve in something more some day.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:26 AM
2

Most girls seem to prefer casual and simple interaction. Focus more on emotions, don't talk too much, don't complicate easy things, stay carefree but still passionate.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:18 AM
2

Do it slowly and not too long. Change tempo, change intensitivity, push/pull, use your hands, little baiting, some tongue, watch out for teeth.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:54 AM
1

You can just casually mention something sexual in any context, girl will feel that sex topic is in the air and it will be easier to direct your conversation towards flirting.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:47 AM
1

I think you need to exactly precise what you need from a relation. If you want everything to be "perfect", a long quest awaits you with most likely disappointing conclusion.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:40 AM
2

Apart from attracting yourselves with physical features, you need to form some strong mental connection and comfort. You need to feel very good in your company and be compatible with your future plans, viewpoints, interests, temperament etc. Just be social and look for that natural connection.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:37 AM
7

You need to turn her imagination on and bring variety of emotions. Be playful with your texting, get personal.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:32 AM
1

I guess you need to change your attitude for more casual. You are not winning girl over, you are only checking if you would be good together. You are not forcing your dates, you are waiting for natural chemistry and attraction to take over. Also take check if your close envirionment is not getting you down for your "loses".
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:22 AM
3

Not necessarily, maybe they just really want to feel their financial independence. On the other hand, they may use you to sponsor a free meal without any commitment. Pay attention to emotions.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:44 PM
1

Those who prefer to approach men themselves and initiate a relation, but you have to stand out somehow anyway to get them interested in the first place. Also, that is a very low percentage of women.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:39 PM
29

By talking to them like to any other human, but focus more on emotions than information.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:34 PM
2

Attractive physical features and proper sexual mindset.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:31 AM
1

I guess you need to present yourself as a person that don't judge or talk too much about their intimate adventures. Nothing wrong with being "a slut", I believe most girls have very strong sexual drive and that's very attractive about them in my opinion. You just need to prepare proper mood and circumstances to change the vibe from "social stranger" to "passionate lover". Escalate your mental and physical intimacy, get that strong emotions going, and you shall soon unleash sexual demon.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:28 AM
1

Don't give her the lead over your relation, many girls will just turn "take-only mode" and do what they want. If she doesn't care about your sexual needs and desires, you may be simply not compatible. Learn to set barriers, be assertive and honest. If you are not making progress with your intimacy for some time, you will probably never will. But still, sincere conversation about this may provide you with solution, if she is just not aware of your expectations, scared/anxious about dealing with t…
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:16 AM
1

Some of them may swipe right everybody and just pick the best ones to interact with. Most of them will swipe right only the ones they find superior on the first sight, and then just pick the best ones to interact with. Average girl has far more options than average guy, and her nature directs her to just pick the best male possible.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:05 AM
1

You can text her if it comes naturally, also to confirm your meeting. But otherwise, there is little reason to do so, date in real life will set your relation status in a big way anyway.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:52 AM
1

Simple trigger is usually enough. Good emotions are also pretty important. Show off more of your skin, get some private moment, create happy and abundant circumstances.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:42 AM
107

There is nothing wrong with having friends to share experience, right? If such conversations aren't that interesting for you, you can just slowly pay less and less effort towards it, and it should dissolve naturally. If the girl is still being persistant, you can gently tell her that she should not pursue contact too much as you won't meet again probably.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:02 PM
6

You can't really make something out of nothing. If you didn't hit with yourselves naturally, there is low chance that she will respond positively to asking for contact number out of the blue. Next time instead of focusing on forcing final outcome, just enjoy your natural interaction with women.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:58 PM
1

Cool answer, usually there is no bad thought behind such question. They are just playing around if the situation seems suspicious. I wonder why you get this every date :) You probably would like to provide her with some comfort - "Nah, I have more interesting plans in motion".
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:50 PM
4

I guess it is nothing bad to feel that way and not to take action that you don't want to take. But you probably would like to get your feelings straight with yourself.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:47 PM
2

It's perfectly ok. I guess you can mirror the girl's behaviour, if she looks away you can just walk without a word, if she is polite, you can make up some cheap goodbye.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:18 AM
1

You just ignore it, girls always say that they want superman, and later they find themselves with the guy that you would never expect them to. You can always hit on shorter girls, if that matters to you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:12 AM
0

Apparently you didn't deserve a kiss, but it was not necessarily your fault. You could done nothing wrong, but you probably did too little right. Or she just was not in the mood.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:10 PM
2

First thing is not to get harsh on yourself. Your anxiety is your guardian, it protects you from bad emotions of facing rejection. Next time you should not forget abour proper preparations, wear your best clothes, take a shower, deal with all your problems and duties beforehand, get into positive mood, focus on having fun, stay open to natural opportunities. Don't ever feel forced to do such things, you need to make yourself in such a way that you really want it and you enjoy it.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:49 AM
2

It usually indicates that what they see is giving them positive emotions, but it doesn't mean they will be all responsive to hook-up approach. Try to read the mood more, sometimes they will be open, sometimes they just smile to pass positive energy.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:27 AM
1

Nothing wrong with it, just make it come up naturally. Don't hide it, don't force it.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:15 AM
2

Touch her in a friendly way in the first place. High-fives, patting on shoulder, taking dust from her clothes, briefly taking her hand, leaning gently towards her, play some "touchy" game etc.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:48 AM
1

You escalate your physical intimacy gradually, don't be thirsty in improper circumstances, enjoy the real process not thoughts of the final outcome. Quitting porn for some time will help you to view girls in different ways and control your energy better.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:41 AM
6

Don't behave like a stranger, but rather like a close friend. Keep close proximity and make sure that you both enjoy your conversation. You just need to give the guy some subtle but clear signals that you seek some more intimate connection, invite him somewhere, keep direct eye contact, dress nicely and show some skin, touch him a bit, smile etc.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:30 AM
0

Well, the solution is pretty simple. You need to improve your attractive masculine features (working out, hygiene, clothes, posture, hairstyle), fix your mindset and learn social skills, and get into lots of situation where you can meet women. It's not like they will come to you, it's not like you will get the female by just being male. You need to realise that dating game is pretty tough these days, where girls are getting tons of guys' attention from multiple sources. You need to somehow stand…
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:16 AM
1

There may be a lot of reasons why they break the contact with you after meeting in real life. You don't expect to just get with anyone, do you? Most people are so invested with this "cultural schemes" that you can't be sure at all about their words and you need to trust emotions and intuition more. If you feel you created some genuine connection and there are big hopes for the future, you may engage yourself little more. Otherwise, if nothing "memmorable" happened on a date, it is very much prob…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:29 AM
5

Most girls just want to get with the best guy around, they don't seem to seek some deep personal connection. If you are nice to them, they may get the feeling that you are worried to lost them, as they belong to "higher league". On the other hand if you don't care about losing them and act however you want, they instantly see you as higher value, as it indicates you can get similar or "better" girl easily if you break up.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:11 AM
2

It is convenient for them, no confrontation, they just forget that you exist. I guess they don't care much about guy's emotions, as they think he can have another partner within couple of days, just like them. They care about their happiness, not yours.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:01 AM
2

Abundant with positive emotions towards the girl, sincere, wild, long, diverse, immersed, loud.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:14 PM
2

You really think you can just plan everything for the guy step by step to get a girl, even when he doesn't understand what he is doing and why? Tough. Proper mindset and convictions are the key to deal with the girl properly in any circumstances. Most girls are pretty good mind readers. If we demand from a girl to be sexy and attractive, then we should also present some masculine features to be desired sexually. Being successful in life and athletic are big turn on for girls. If you lack attenti…
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:08 AM
1

You need to help your luck to potentially make something happen. Or even better to make something happen yourself.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:22 AM
3

Because direct advices will always result in failure if protagonist has improper mindset and little sexual value. Being creative, confident, receptive is a skill, you can't just learn that in theory. You can't and you shouldn't get laid for someone, everyone needs to find their own way and style to achieve their goal.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:11 AM
1

It's pretty normal when you are still rapidly growing and changing with your emotions and mental. Just realise that you are greatly overestimating relation with a woman, because your hormones are storming for now. Get the best relation with yourself, that is some far more valuable goal.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:34 AM
1

She knows that you like her. You go gradually with escalating your mental and physical intimacy, building connection and comfort, spending more time with each other, then it will turn out naturally that you are acting like boyfriend and girlfriend.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:22 AM
1

I guess being tall is strictly connected with male dominance and feeling of safety in a girl, but you can achieve that in different ways also. You can try some tricks to look taller if you want, but overall you can barely do anything about it, so don't worry about it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:19 AM
3

I guess you should give him some subtle signal that you seek intimate relation with him. Many guys can flirt and appreciate your beauty but are not thinking about hitting on you at all. Show him some of your sex appeal to make him a just little excited about you, then it should snowball naturally. Little touch, close proximity, deep eye contact, very private moment, showing him much of your skin or hair etc.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:15 AM
3

I guess mostly among the Internet, as they find little understanding in common social environments.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:55 AM
1

We often say jokingly "It's all about the plot" about adult movies, but it actually really is.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:11 AM
1

If you already have fun and meaningful conversation, you can casually suggest that it would be even better to do some activities together in real life. Sex just happens, most of the time. If you enjoy touching yourselves, escalating your intimacy, then you will eventually release your sexual desire. Just do it gradually and naturally.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:49 AM
1

Well, you need to make them enjoy conversation as much as you do, and to get some interesting connection, so it would be worthy to pursue contact in the future. Also they need to feel comfort that you are respecting their time and opinions.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:45 AM
0

Apparently she plans to experiment sexually a lot, as she is still very young and pretty. She is ready to change her preference in right time for her. Keep that in mind.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:40 AM
4

There are so many "don't approach rules" that are not absolute at all. If you do it properly and respectfully, you may get away with everything. Women prefer to be approached in person, don't act shy, just pick right circumstances and right words.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:36 AM
1

Something is not right if you can't be sincere with your "friend". You can really just tell him that your wingman game is bad for you. If you are interested in a girl, you either take your shot or you forget about her. Waiting won't get you anywhere ever, you will only waste your time and get emotionally frustrated.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:29 AM
0

If she sees you approaching other girls after she have already made some personal plans with you, then she will think that she is only the part of your number's game, that she is not special or worthy to you at all. And most of the time, that will ruin her emotions towards you.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:16 AM
1

It's really more about the form. Giving details, building up background, describing emotions, getting immersed, creating a little bit of surprise/mystery. Try it out.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:12 AM
1

I guess it stems from that people are trying too much, as they get too few opportunities to get with decent girl. They forget that the outcome will be always an unknown and they should enjoy themselves and just find a girl that will be compatible with them. It's crazy to think that you can get along with everybody if you would try hard enough.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:42 AM
1

You probably keep overestimating them, think that you are not worth of them and they will hardly reject you. Don't be harsh on yourself, you should enjoy your dating adventures, not being forced to win over every girl you gaze upon. Just keep your cool.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:34 AM
1

I believe most guys have little clue about the game, but their looks, popularity, natural masculine features and decent social skills can get them many girls with little effort.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:23 AM
3

Well, being confident makes you able to do and say whatever you want, but still you need to know how to do it to succeed.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:17 AM
1

Reading girl's body language and feeling emotions is not that difficult, some approachers just want to ignore it. Many girls would find it pleasant to be approached by interesting male in proper circumstances and proper mood.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:11 AM
0

Well, of course there are not, unless you go to places which mostly adult people visit. Girl close to 20 years old may have all the traits of fully sexually developed woman. It's crazy that people call you a creep for accidentally hitting women in their 18-19s etc. Government is not God. If they turn out to be minor BEFORE you do anything "sexually indecent", you just go with "Ok, let's meet in several years then" and wish her a good day.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:37 AM
6

Prefering being quiet and steady doesn't mean that you can't be ecstatic and lively from time to time, in proper circumstances. If you struggle hard to come out from your behaviour habits, then it is a problem, you should work on your expressions and mindset.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:11 AM
2

I guess some people like to be straightforward and blunt with their friends, I doubt anyone would say such things around their potential love interest. Most people rather escalate gradually, building tension and attraction, which is the proper way to go most of the time.
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:59 AM
1

"Yeah I know, sounds like fun". And proceed like nothing happened.
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:47 AM
1

I believe women tend to be less personal as it comes to feelings, but rather they are following emotions and intuition. Girls have no problem with keeping relation "unclear", while men often seek some commitment. You can have no control over her, if she cannot provide you with anything you want, then why would you provide her with anything she wants. Just act natural, don't let her toy with your emotions.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:39 AM
2

I think it is strictly connected with building a tension and stimulating imagination. Don't be clear and committed, but use lots of emotions in your talk and get personal.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:32 AM
6

Dress, talk, act like you are a male that is desired by women.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:28 AM
2

If you improve your looks, mindset, social and verbal skills, you are very much likely to get decent girl even if you are not among top males in any aspect. I think many guys just expect to instantly receive a girl even if they have no clue how to interact with women and they completely neglect male sexual features. Don't pursue women from outer space, get to know some real girl from real world, imperfect and sex hungry just like you.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:26 AM
1

Demonic Confidence exercises are pretty cool, you just practice approaching pretty girls for simple social interactions.
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:18 AM
1

Well, you will miss out on decent part of your opportunities when you spot a pretty girl outside of typical social situations. I guess you should just follow some code to not look creepy or weird: - if woman looks very busy and turns her body away from you, don't approach - approach if you feel that you can succeed, don't bother people to get easy rejection (?) - approach girls that match your attractiveness level and energy, confidence is much appreciated in man but a girl may get annoyed if yo…
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:09 AM
1

Looks like you involved yourself in some drama. Where the thing is pretty simple, you rushed to the bed without building much interest and comfort and there is not much left for you after having sex. You are acting like you need her attention and her body, which is often a big turn-off for a girl, if you are not close to each other yet. You can always take a step back and start from scratch. No reason to keep hitting the wall. Sometimes you just have fun couple of times and there are no prospect…
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:52 AM
1

Probably she finds you as a spare option, also you may be scamed for free dinner. You can meet with her if you keep these things in mind, but probably she is not seriously interested. 2-3 weeks without a word can't be presented as some emergency or "being busy". After such period you should be engaged with a different girl who is more responsive and available, and coldly turn down this one. Still, theoretically it may turn up to be some happy ONS, but some disgust of this peculiar 2-3 weeks sile…
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:43 AM
3

She would prefer you to be more accurate with your words and more bold with your actions, rather than just excessively talking for little reason.
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:19 AM
1

Being simply direct and blunt is often considered as weird, you need to be rather focused on your goal and coherent with your actions. Sometimes the game may turn to some cat and mouse play, but overall you just shouldn't make circles and wait for her to approve you or make her move.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:03 AM
1

You give him the gaze of shock, next time the gaze of death. If that won't work, you just try to minimize contact with him. Converation is always an option, but that rarely helps if dude is tunnel-focused on his goal. You can also fight verbally/physically but I guess you want to keep the job.
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:54 AM
1

Excitement, tension, relief, happiness, surprise, admiration, peace, mystery. Usually the more the better. If you want to close your date with some erotic escalation, excitement is a must way to go.
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:39 AM
1

Well, playing mysterious should not be about avoiding any commitment but rather not being clear or wasteful without a good reason. Probably you look pretty incohorenet with your attitude, you change a lot when you start to care, and that may turn off many women. Find balance within yourself and try out different kinds of approaching.
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:22 AM
2

It's all about finding the proper balance and testing what is working the best for you. "Don't try too hard" and "Stop looking for a relationship and one will come to you" means more or less that you should not act desperate. It's not a simple task to find a good partner, you should stay casual and natural to find woman the suits you well and other way around without much artificial effort.
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:10 AM
1

I guess we search for different experiences and traits in a friend and in a partner. On the other hand, there are also some common things like being interesting, being funny, being casual, being adventurous, being present. Your behaviour depends very much on the people who are around you, it's very natural.
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:04 AM
1

I think this is the result of common upbringing, where woman is usually portrayed as spotless angel that should be respected at all costs. I believe you should firstly realise that women are different than men, it's not only about body. They are very attracted to male features, that you obviously have. Keeping that in mind, you should view yourself as a high-value and worthy to them. Then you shall be at common ground, working with your dynamics and connection.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:27 AM
1

I think you should save it when you are already very close to relationship stage. Firstly you should take more care about dynamics between you, sexual attraction, comfort, connection, mutual interests etc. It can be pretty weird to come up with some deep romantic gestures when you are just getting to know each other. Back to the question: proper music, dancing, beautiful views, flowers, 1 on 1 dinner, looking into the eyes without a word, whispering compliments in the ear, cuddling, setting up e…
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:14 AM
1

Only slightly closer is enough, if she likes you, she will be very eager to stay close to you. That doesn't mean taking someone's space but rather making her comfortable with your close presence, your scent, showing closely all your features etc.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:13 PM
1

Read her body language, if she keeps turning her eyes and body away from you, she moves elsewhere, she does not smile, she is very much occupied with what she is doing - it is most likely a lost battle from the beginning. Just stay casual and natural, and be respectful.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:07 AM
1

Probably not, treat her good, but also stay 100% open to making other contacts on the wedding as she has already cockblocked you with calling you "friend" and assuring separate beds.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:44 AM
1

Well, you should set some goal like "Exchanging numbers" or "Get some intimacy going" beforehand. Your questions should come naturally, depending on the situation and your current feelings. "Small talk questions" also should come naturally, most people don't react with enthusiasm to such plain conversation, make it also interesting for you.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:40 AM
5

You just accept her stance and keep going with your moves. Don't ask for permission or validation.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:28 AM
3

I would rather go with "If she likes you, she will make it easier for you".
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:25 AM
1

Touch should be naturally corresponding with emotions and dynamics between you. If tension between you is flat, escalating touch would be just out of the place. Remember to keep the game between you casual, natural and positive. Watch her reactions, pay attention to emotions and adjust.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:19 AM
1

Maybe you are overestimating the value of man-woman relation? We're not so similar as it comes to interests and life viewpoints most of the time. We are created to support each other, spend a time together, get pleasure and bring up new generation. If you both really like each other, spend much time together and have lots of sex, you will slowly acquire each other's traits and become more united. But it would be pretty troublesome to find a girl that will really match your character on the initi…
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:48 AM
1

It may be not an absolute rule, but girls are frequently making some cheap and safe excuses that many guys would not ever consider as polite "no". That being said, to avoid emotional struggle and waste of time, it is better to assume that she is not convinced to get into relation with you. You can still back out and maybe a situation will change some day, but pushing her will definitely turn her off more.
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:42 AM
1

"That's interesting, except for one thing" If she is giving one word answers, she is usually just not interested in having conversation with you. Or dumb, or confused, or you ask wrong questions. Either way, you should do something different or go next.
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:06 AM
1

"Cool, I hope he is good for you. See you around."
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:03 AM
1

That's why you should keep it casual and natural. It's perfectly normal to invite him for a 1 on 1 drink over a message, especially if you met recently. Don't overthink it, he may reject you for whatever reason, but it should not lower your value. Keep your expectations at bay. If you are really shy or scared, you can ask some friend to help arrange circumstances for both of you.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:42 AM
1

Don't waste time. You don't need to ask her out immediately, but you need to make some progress.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:32 AM
3

Always brutal, but most guys can manage to improve themselves and work with sexual magic to get a decent girl.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:30 AM
2

When a girl is approaching you for some petty and unusual reason, and you both look like you are in your "attraction season", you should assume that she is somewhat interested in you. Flirting is a skill, it comes with time and practice. Strong eye contact, open body posture, being casual and funny, keeping close proximity, leading emotional conversation. If you managed to make some connection and conversation went pleasantly, you can say something like "I really enjoyed talking with you, I woul…
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:28 AM
1

I believe women are hunting for extraordinary genes. If you are meeting her expectations of an exceptional male, she will see you as a good mating candidate. You may have attraction assets but the game is about how big effect you can extract with them.
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:48 AM
2

Yeah, the game changer is to enjoy your seduction quest. Get creative with trying out different styles of approaching and have a good time with girls, regardless of the outcome.
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:37 AM
2

No reason to be upset about size, also no reason to comfort yourself with "size does not matter". Make good use of it, try out different techniques, make her feel every inch, make her experience hardness and power in your thrusts. Women love brutal, indecent sex, think how you can satisfy her imagination while being confident with yourself.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:57 PM
2

I guess it depends on your dynamics. If you are both comfortable with each other, tension is off the roof, you both want to push further and you have proper circumstances for that - it's natural to get to some more private place. Sometimes the vibe is just not there yet, but it doesn't depend solely on you. No reason to rush, but all reason to keep it moving.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:49 PM
1

It is, but the most important aspect will be the natural change in you after such an experience. She may not miss you, but she will surely notice a difference in you, of course if she has any interest in you in the first place.
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:01 AM
1

Use emotions while you are talking about something. Men usually focuses on hard logic and information, but women prefer to enjoy a conversation with lots of relatable emotions and involvement.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:55 AM
1

I believe you need to be extreme in some attractive aspect to get the best looking girls. Extremely intelligent, extreme leader, extremely confident, extremely strong, extremely popular, extremely rich, extremely handsome, extremely interesting etc. Top women won't fall for just above average guy, because why would they.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:44 AM
1

If she keeps thinking about you during that period, then of course she will be more attracted once you become available. If she had no thing for you, then she will just become indifferent. But overall, such exciting journey with being unplugged from internet can surely change your vibe and can make you be perceived very different by women, in a positive way.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:29 AM
1

I guess it's more or less like substance addiction. Thing of an evolution, their brain and hormonal system developed in such a way where experiencing lots of different situations make them fulfilled and alive. Men prefer power.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:34 PM
2

Some chance of rejection is inevitable, you should just lower it to the point where you are comfortable with taking a risk and prize is worth the play.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:14 AM
1

Because they can't imagine a different way of approaching you that is not weird and socially acceptable. It is some kind of a norm, that man takes the risk of rejection and show his confidence, skills and courage with escalating intimacy with a stranger girl. It is a good starter when the girl is desired and man shows his dominance. There is always some risk of rejection, you should just lower it as much as you find it bearable.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:12 AM
1

Phone call is a little more ballsy and your voicetone may be a great tool for raising attraction. But some people may not like it that much and it can bother with their activities. Overall, you should pick what more suits you.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:04 AM
1

Phone number is more personal, whereas Instagram is more casual. Phone number will make you seduce her with text and phonecalls, whereas Instagram will show more of your social status and appearance. Pick what more suits you.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:01 AM
1

Yeah, but many girls struggle with it. Overall, woman can achieve several different type orgasms, vaginal orgasms usually require extra stimuli and trained muscles.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:59 AM
1

"So, why you want to meet with me?"
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:56 AM
1

Maybe he has also some other potential candidates for love interest. Don't get engaged too soon, keep close proximity, if he can't make any decisive moves, you should lower your interest significantly.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:54 AM
1

Then probably you hit wrong targets or present too low "first impression" value. Enhance your appearance features and strong masculine character, these are the main suspects why you receive little attention and effort from girls. Dating world is rather brutal and straightforward, no reason to get offended or search for tricks. If you lack results, you need to get better and start caring more about your attractive traits.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:47 AM
2

"Hahahaha" is a pretty positive reaction for your word game in this context. Anyway, is she taken? You want her to win you over? She probably wants to get some attention from you, but she keeps making circles. You can be little more direct, if you find her a promising love interest.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:40 AM
1

Drama usually involves something extreme going on within a relation between people. Women love emotions, you should provide her with lots of energy in your relation and give her some emotional food from your social circle, or she will probably focus on details between you, which most men won't stand for long.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:35 AM
5

Specific numbers can be pretty awkward for many women, you can figure this out later by asking some innocent indirect question: "So, where do you study?", "How long do you work there?", "You look so young, you are not a minor right?" etc.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:31 AM
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Maybe you took too long to return his interest. He felt frustrated and probably met someone else that is more responsive and with common temperament. Or he was just crazy and immature with playing such flirting games, men can be like that too.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:23 AM
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Just unlucky, maybe that's how it was destined to be. You did nothing wrong, this crazy chick probably just portrayed you as some "creepy, awkward, dangerous, crazy" because she can't comprehend an idea of a cold approach. You want to deal with a girl that is so easily manipulated? Move on, you will not meet them again anyways.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:20 AM
1

Women love emotions and indecency, they freak out with monotonous stability.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:11 AM
5

Your value should be mostly determined by your own feel of satisfaction and power. Women usually picture their dreamed man as a spotless superman. You would be better with natural flirting in real world circumstances, where magic of senses, emotions and connection trumps shallow Darwinistic calculation.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:05 AM
1

They differ depending on which of their effects you want to amplify. It's better to meet your doctor to choose the best one for you, they are regulated substances.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:59 PM
1

I believe benzos and alcohol are the most common drugs to get you more social, but overall you should built your own desire for socialization gradually from scratch, with your natural chemistry.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:14 PM
1

Maybe she was expecting you to go further with her, as you have already reached kissing base pretty quickly. Repetitive kissing could made her bored and dropped excitement.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:12 PM
2

It's better to start with one on one meeting, if you have not made any real connection yet. She is going for party to have a good time with her friends, it may interfere with getting to know you personally.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:58 AM
1

Well, I think you need to befriend your fears. Less virtual reality, more real meetings and conversations. Get involved in some social circles where you feel good with yourself. People are just people, with their own fears and liabilities that are often being covered by virtual layer or social structures.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:52 AM
2

Girls are hesitating about going all the way pretty often. I believe it is usually not a matter of a conviction, but rather lack of proper circumstances/mood/actions/emotions/attraction level etc. Sometimes you can get laid right after you accept her denial, sometimes you will not get laid no matter what without any specific reason.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:42 AM
1

You can smile at her if you want, but overall you should not seek her company.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:26 AM
2

Don't brag about your advantages, don't explain yourself or ask for permission, don't talk more than necessary, don't clarify all your words, don't talk about standard topics without a reason, reveal details about your private life gradually, don't reveal your opinion when not asked, control your emotions, stay subtle with your expressions.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:24 AM
1

I would suggest to fish elsewhere.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:14 AM
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I think holding hands is usually reserved for confirmed couple, although some girls may be open to touch like this in non-romantic way. Kiss on the cheek - pretty much mandatory on first official meeting Don't know about twirling, but hug is pretty cool as a number close Some girls may not like touching her hair, don't overdo it. Overall, you should keep close proximity to her, read her body language to keep your physical escalation natural. You should use casual touch before romantic. If she ke…
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:10 AM
3

Generally it means with leadership skills, strong character, serious values, confident with himself etc.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:45 AM
1

Each session should present specific value to your relation. You should not text just for texting, but to keep emotions and dynamics alive. You should enjoy it, do it with natural purpose and with no necessity to hold it forcefully. There is no recipe, sometimes you may go with 3 valuable and exciting conversations in a day, sometimes 2 short but concrete talks in a week may go a long way.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:32 AM
1

Teasing should be funny. If you like to be merciless, you need to build positive rapport before, so that she would know you like her even though you are being harsh.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:00 AM
3

Look her straight into the eyes, be close to her, get touchy, play with some flirting, keep the tension. Friends don't do that.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:27 AM
1

If you like her, why wouln't you just find out yourself instead of staying confused in silence. Women at 35 ar at the peak of their sexual awareness, but still they won't grab your dick out of the blue.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:23 AM
1

I would slightly rewrite these tips: Be confident -> enjoy getting into new and risky situations Be interesting -> love your life Be a good listener -> stay alert and grounded to the reality Be patient -> enjoy your quest instead of demanding instant results Be yourself -> love yourself and empower your own uniqueness
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:20 AM
3

It feels like you are making interview for some poll. If you like to ask questions, they need to be more personal, interesting and triggering emotions. Also, you need to set your mind for naturally leading to your sexual interest.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:08 PM
3

All good, but don't be sorry and I am personally not a fan of an early "beautiful". I would suggest to just be as casual as she was with her starter, but this time take a conversation a little longer. No need to mention previous day, unless something will come up naturally.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:42 AM
2

They like the feeling that they need to climb up to you.
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:08 PM
1

​ Sure Really? Having good financial sense and throwing money here and there are two different worlds. Definitely show that you can manage money well, but don't be stupid. Yeah, activities are cool and they are connecting you more than convos. Taking aside this protection slogan, women love to have sex with well-shaped man. And your confidence, which you often get by getting buffed up. True, many men don't realise that experiencing variety of strong emotions is extremely important for women. Obv…
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:57 AM
1

She apparently believes that she is not pretty enough to attract whoever she wants. It's better to be more specific about compliments and just say them by surprise in proper situation. "You are beautiful" doesn't mean much without context. You can respond with "I guess that's ok to be humble", and change the topic.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:40 AM
2

I think most men that have some sense of culture would treat them more or less like any other human, excluding any effort for romantic interest. They would pay less attention to them, don't make much effort to please them or hold conversation, it is perfectly normal to invest most of your resources towards a girl you like the most in social circumstances. Imagine that men are receiving close to none attention, and even often contempt from women if they are not among the best males around, that's…
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:52 AM
1

Can't you just say something like "I think you are taking this play too far, SISTER"
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:02 AM
1

You can respond with "Well, then prepare some hot welcome for him, as he is working so hard".
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:36 AM
1

"Yeah, I am trying my best to cover my dark side."
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:32 AM
1

Well, most of the time you should be popular among the girls and respected by guys. By being extremely handsome, extremely smart, rich, successful in sports, social with other high status people, cool, strong etc. etc. Just be the best around.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:30 AM
1

I think you should keep some casual contact if you agreed to a meeting. Just confirm it before you start making preparations and you would still have some options for the day if she flakes.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:05 AM
1

Yeah, but I believe a sexual relationship with decently hot and friendly girl is enough for most men. Imo it is not worth it to hard struggle to get the girl completely out of your world.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:45 AM
2

Women are more calibrated for natural ways of meeting your potential romantic partner on their lifepath, like at school, at work, at parties, at holiday trip, at hobbies meetings etc. Dating applications are ok too, because they are pretty "safe", women can choose whatever they want and ghost whoever they want. Whereas, they are completely not prepared mentally for cold approaching, that lack of control and instructions how to behave may make them feel threatened or embarassed.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:08 AM
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She is probably confused about your passiveness, she was making her moves and allusions, you were just bluntly receiving. Still, you can straight it out by naturally changing your attitude.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:01 AM
1

You can just casually mention him in any context. If she is interested in you, she will gladly tell you that she is single.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:17 PM
3

Nervous boyfriend that can't make any moves is hardly ever a desired figure. She can't force you to have sex. You need to somehow dance along with her from that context.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:35 AM
3

She may fancy you in some way, but it's hard to imagine that she will push this towards relationship.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:10 AM
0

Most of the time, it doesn't work out, especially if you are salty about your break-up. Unless you would totally get over her and find someone else for true love interest.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:00 AM
3

True, if you would appreciate their beauty and sexuality, she will become very available.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:58 AM
2

Sign of interest is pretty much nothing, you still need to build your attraction, comfort and connection from scratch.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:46 AM
2

Art, dancing, yoga, books, fashion, sociology/psychology, video games. But overall, I believe most women prioritize family and relationships over developing hobby.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:05 AM
1

It's not a good move for a first date, you are the only necessary thing for her. If you are long-distance, then reconsider if it is worth your time, money and emotional involvement to pursue a relation where you will be meeting only once in a while.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:58 AM
1

I guess most girls fall for guys from these four categories: Popular Handsome Powerful (money, strength, intelligence, authority) Cool/Mysterious Sometimes it may really depend on the circumstances and stage in her life. Anyway, you should still be the best version of yourself, it is really troublesome to keep the frame that you don't really like, and girl often doesn't exactly realise what is turning her on anyway.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:40 AM
1

Well, if she is walking down the street with head busy with her own affairs, then it is very much probable that she will instantly go for rejecting any approach. In my opinion it is better to look for proper mood and circumstances to shoot your shot. Most women seem like they were learning their social skills from a book or soap operas, so they are lost when you are hitting them by surprise. Give them some space to recollect their mind.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:10 AM
2

Not many of them, probably just some inexperienced, low self-esteem that can't control his emotions. However, there are plenty of guys that are angry at girls for wasting their time, giving mixed signals, playing with their emotions.
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:55 AM
1

Yeah, keep approaching. Don't worry about it, she deserved a solid slap in the face for such response. But to make something out of it, pay more attention to your appearance features, that is hygiene, posture, clothes, hairstyle etc.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:44 AM
3

If the girl is popular with guys, she will just pick the best one according to his hard attraction features like popularity/appearance/money etc. There is no room here for romantic story, just cold and shallow biological calculation most of the time. Better to try out your chances in real world situations, where the magic of senses can prevail attractiveness ranking.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:38 AM
1

Yeah, keeping high expectations is not helping you much, there are many variables concerning girl you approach, circumstances, your mood that can undermine and push your approach into different outcomes. Just get a liking to interacting with women and do it as frequently as you feel, and some of them may turn into romantic ones. Learn from mistakes, improve your social skills and appearance, enjoy your quest.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:33 AM
2

But is such girl a good person for LTR? To be a mother, to be a partner, to be a wife? You would have to keep your frame at all times to get what you want which is mainly sex.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:26 AM
1

I guess you should just learn to accept all your thoughts and emotions and all the situations that happened and may happen and do your thing regardless.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:20 AM
2

I guess postponing a date by one hour is not a big deal, you are not yet engaged in any way, she can meet anyone she wants.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:16 AM
1

It may often happen that you are just on different wavelenghts, maybe you did something that turned her off, whether it could be opening door for her (too nice and ancient), buying her stuff (low value, buying her feelings), holding hands (thing for couples, not dates), unattractive date places etc. I suggest to focus more on the mood and emotions, she needs to desire you as a man. If she agreed on a date, then she had some good expectations, but you pulled it in the wrong way.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:17 AM
1

I guess you should just have kept the tension for little longer. It's not like girl would invite you to sleep over and let you touch her thigh if she would not fancy you. Maybe she was somewhat uncertain about her feelings, but still you overheated and pressed wrong buttons. Good luck next time.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:02 AM
1

I believe you need to work on your hard masculine features to attract hard feminine features. Big confidence, big self-esteem, strong character, muscular and fit body, leadership etc.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:50 AM
2

Usually it's not the best to press these matters on her. If you really want to take it slow and have fun with your intimacy escalation, then you should not hit for the home run to the last base, but rather keep going for "just little more" until you will naturally go all the way together. On the other hand, she is 24 and you got six dates, if you are getting stagnant with your relation progress, you should think about what this girl is really about.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:43 AM
1

You need to stand out from the crowd. Nowadays, there is no problem for girls to "farm" good looking males for dates, so you should be one of them and something more to get their attention. I believe most average men have many things to improve to eventually get some successes in their dating life.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:27 AM
1

Yeah, they can be considered as some indicators of interest from a young girl, but that also means she acts pretty unstable. Watch out for it if you want to get closer to her.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:21 AM
3

Be emotional, be mysterious, be funny, engage other person into conversation, implement some tension in pauses between your messages, quality over quantity, enhance your messages with corresponding emojis or text format. But overall, if you don't feel like texting is your thing, just skip this part and take things to the real world or make a phonecall/videocall.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:15 AM
2

Just do what you want, you don't want to be attention slave to anyone. This whole thing with delying messages is so stupid. If you don't want to instantly reply to someone, think more about why you feel like that.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:10 AM
1

I feel that women struggle with being both polite and sincere. Their emotions frequently alternate their statements. They don't need to translate their feelings accurately, they can just wait for the next guy to do what they want by chance.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:03 AM
1

By giving in to her conditions, you are handing her big control over your relation, which usually doesn't turn out in a good way. Probably she is just not seeing herself in a relationship at this moment, or specifically with you. I would recommend to just keep it physical and casual, this whole story of "not believing in love" is something that will undermine your relation eventually. It is her individual problem, and you can't really fix it with deeds or words.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:53 AM
1

Someone once said that women do like stupid. You can be smart and playful without getting into intellectual games. Girls are looking for someone who can simply enjoy life in many different ways, they don't crave for schooling stuff in real life.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:34 AM
1

In my opinion it is better to be original most of the time, you will be more immersed and authentic with your flirt. On the other hand you can implement some staple elements of the game like eye reading, cold reading, palm reading, asking for an opinion/favour, creating some mystery and then making a joke out of it, playing some funny alcohol game etc etc, but still you should be natural about it.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:28 AM
0

It feels like some game that is turning her on.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:11 AM
1

Do it gradually and naturally. It's not like you can learn your game within minutes, you need to read about some concepts and test them in practice. Touch her first in some friendly and non-erotic manner, don't force the border.
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:29 PM
1

Behave like you would be on a date, don't touch emotionless topics, look her in the eyes, escalate some touch and proximity.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:19 PM
3

At your age, I believe home parties and night clubs are the most common places where such things get going.
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:49 PM
2

In that case, your appearance was approved too and your friend got you a positive recommendation. So your mission now is to stay relaxed on your date and get some flirt going. Pretty easy game, just don't overthink it.
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:15 AM
1

In that case, you should be more spontaneous and casual with her. Just suggest her to eat/drink something after your class. Also, you need to start behaving like you actually see her as pretty girl, not a friend. You are still very young, you have plenty of time to experiment and learn from mistakes.
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:11 AM
1

I would say be an unique person, in positive way.
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:05 AM
2

"Hi, I noticed that you keep staring at me, did I get something on my nose?"
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:02 AM
1

You are just texting, right? So what's the deal? Have you made any moves towards romantic relation?
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:14 AM
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Yeah, it is better to start a date in some public place for her to get comfortable with you. She would not like to be stuck at someone's place if she does not enjoy a company.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:06 AM
1

I think that most girls are placing far bigger importance and attention about their dating life than average man. She might just casually mention it, she may be checking your reaction, she may be thoughtful about her recent relation. Either way, you just acknowledge it and move on with your game.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:58 AM
1

It may turn very awkward if you happen to break up with bad emotions. But if you are serious about it, treat her properly and in case you won't be seeing each other anyway - then it may be worth a shot. This rule is not some saint law, people are hooking up with friend's sibling and they live happily ever after or break up and nothing really bad happens.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:45 AM
1

Most of the time, she just doesn't want to get into unpleasant turn-down conversation, making pitiful excuses is easier. Sometimes her attention may really be fixed on something else, or her feelings are unclear, but it's not something that you can change by pressing anyway.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:15 AM
2

Guys are not really considering that girl asking them a question is making some subtle hint that she is interested in them. Girls tend to be very passive or even rude when they waste their time with someone they don't fancy, while guys can usually actively small talk with pretty much everyone. That being said, if you want to have some confirmation, it need to be a little less subtle than simply a small talk with a potentially one-time-stranger. If your conversation is touching even slightly some…
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:12 AM
1

Maybe it was little cheesy, but nothing to be offended about. You definitely should not reach out to her now, she needs to explain her emotions further first.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:03 AM
1

You need to develop some rapport, connection, different kinds of emotions. If your whole frame is about escalating sexuality, then there is nothing else to do after scoring last base.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:00 AM
1

I believe it is about being congruent, why would you ask random questions that have nothing to do with anything and you are not even genuinely interested in the answer. Besides talking, you can make a pause sometimes, look her into the eyes, focus more on your body language, get into some activity.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:56 AM
5

Well, he may not be thinking about hitting you up at present, but still it is very much possible for him to get some interest in you. He just needs some more direct trigger or different circumstances.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:49 AM
1

Talking and talking, and how would this lead for you to have a sexual relationship? Talk friends are not getting offended for not responding to each other frequently, you are digging your own attraction grave.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:32 AM
2

I guess a big thing about not setting a next date immediately, is that a girl will be wondering if she made a good impression on you and will be genuinely interested how you relation will go next from that. You can easily set up a next date, be assured that she had a great time and smoothly get ghosted.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:29 PM
1

Well, that way we need to assume that OP is lying. Ignoring girl's evident attractiveness may be a cool concept to get her interest, but it is indeed pretty unorthodox game to pretend to be her friend instead of just getting your shot with such mindset.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:19 AM
1

Just need some decent comfort and attraction level for her to long for the meetup. Don't bother about abstract numbers, feel the mood.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:16 AM
1

Maybe you blew it, next time you can say something like "Thanks, I can show you some tricks how to get high intensity if you want". Don't worry about it and don't seek repetition, if you are meant to meet again, it will happen naturally. Learn to go with the flow, it is pretty important in a dating world.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:13 AM
1

Focus more on present circumstances and activities, and touch topics that trigger emotions. You need to make some rapport with the girl to get things going, standard topics are good to pass time with a stranger at the bus stop.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:06 AM
1

It may be some game, but you should have also some other potential affairs going on in the meantime. Still, your attractiveness level need to be at pretty high level for her to recognize you as a potential love interest in the first place.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:00 AM
6

If you treat her as your potential romantic interest, you need to make a move and ask her out, rather sooner than later. If she is not losing an interest now, she definitely will in near future if things would stay the same for too long.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:50 AM
2

There are non-zero odds, that it may turn against you. Better to do it when some things are already certain.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:57 PM
1

I meant that you should just use it when necessary, don't mention/joke about your potential downsides out of the blue.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:53 PM
1

I meant more of a political force as it comes to advertising and sharing common Internet space.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:45 PM
6

I believe there is some force that wants Asian and European nations to merge, and many men are very interested in Asian beauty and feminine character. Check it out, you will be probably positively surprised.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:50 AM
1

Look her straight into the eyes.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:32 AM
1

Your gut feeling is usually correct, you feel empowered and uplifted in the presence of people that fancy you. Also, the quickest way is to just take your shot.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:49 AM
9

"Yeah, I invested my perks at God's into more interesting things" You should use it rather to counter some potentially mean comments about it, not to demean yourself to show off that you don't care.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:21 AM
1

I would say that time is not working on your behalf. History of a love that is slowly growing from casual friendship is hardly the case in real life. You should express your intentions before she will invest her feelings in someone else. Mostly it's the touch and tension that makes a difference.
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:07 AM
1

She wants not to feel like some next easy girl to get won over with your seducing algorithm. She needs to feel that she is somewhat special and personal to you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:58 AM
1

Obviously you should go to some places, where you need to interact with other people, preferably with something interesting/exciting going on. But first, I feel that you should just practice talking to strangers. You may also meet new girls on parties with friends, if that is still a viable option for you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:37 AM
5

It's pretty unusual to suddenly ask out an old friend after 2 years of not seeing each other. She is not sure about her feelings. Anyway, you can go on a date, where nothing happens and you can go for "meet up" and get laid.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:43 PM
2

Take a shower, don't buy her any presents or expensive food, relax, make emotional conversations, escalate some touch and proximity, don't make it too long, give her some space to talk and lead, enjoy yourself with activities.
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:14 AM
2

So who is she for you exactly, have you agreed for "formalised" exclusive relationship? If not, she may have little feel of an obligation to inform you about a change in her feelings. You should not get totally dependent on a girl, both for your own and her sake. It is considered polite to clearly conclude that you don't want to maintain contact anymore, but there is really no reason to explain yourself thoroughly. Just don't sound like you were offended or you want her to change her mind. Also,…
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:57 AM
8

Who knows, you can ask to put away her mat next time and watch her reaction.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:33 AM
1

I mean the girl that you find attractive, you spend nice time with and have great sex, but she may not be top in some universal beauty standard. It's very much enough for most men, as you can see in real life. With girls that receive lots of attention for their extraordinary beauty features it may get a little tricky, but still you can get with each other if you suit her type at that moment and manage to press proper buttons.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:33 AM
1

I believe even if you are "average" you can get yourself a decent girl, if you would pay attention to basics of sexual attraction and focus on practice and solutions instead of whining. Have a shower, dress-up, forge nice body and mind, and get some interactions with women going.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:50 AM
1

I guess you were just so relaxed in their company (but not sexual), also you paid much more attention to appearance than average man, that it could be some logical conclusion. No reason to get offended, you can respond "I am not. I believe you are straight, too?".
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:40 AM
2

Girls are craving experiencing different emotions very much, makes them feel alive and fulfilled. We want what we lack, if the girl is surrounded with pleasant and nice people (often not honest or selfless), she would like a guy who is sincere, who will force her to change, who will challenge her, who will show her different side of life.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:07 AM
1

It's not like you can change your behaviour and mindset overnight. It's not one thing, it's potentially everything. You will not play the proper song just trying to hit proper notes by luck. Do your homework about basics of seduction. It is pretty much pointless to thoroughly analyse feedback from the girl, she is not able to fully grasp what is winning her over.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:17 PM
5

Of course, she was teasing you to get touchy and to check if you are a playful guy.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:24 AM
2

I guess it is a standard thing that janitor seems like a job for someone that can't manage to get some more profitable and interesting job. Low salary, no career path, doing things that other people are just too lazy/don't want to do. It's not very much suitable to fantasize about or boast about to her friends. As it comes to sexuality, girls are very much straightforward, shallow and indecent deep down there.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:49 AM
2

Implement space for touch escalation, create some tension in a situation, lead a discussion to express variety of different emotions (not necessarily all super positive and nice). Friends are not focusing on touching each other, friends are not playing emotional/sexual games, friends are not exposing their relation to a risk.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:59 AM
4

Important thing about approaching is that you should try out different techniques and words to check which work the best. Maybe cold approaching is not congruent with your personality or you lack some high-value first impression features. After all, cold approaching is like indirectly asking a girl if she would hook up with random stranger.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:53 AM
1

If you are really good at something and passionate about it, it can be viewed by many girls as extremely sexy. There is really no need to force yourself to like some mainstream manly hobbies, just don't show off with your skills, but rather "accidentally" give her a little taste of it in practice from time to time.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:40 AM
3

So I guess your question is how to get female friend without getting into sexual context? I think you can approach girls that you don't find very attractive, at least you won't be the one to turn down potential affection. Also you should only look for friendly and specific context, don't pay her too much attention, don't get into sexual topics too much and don't make attempts for touch. Just treat her like you would treat a male friend, but also a woman. I think it is good to show yourself as so…
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:26 AM
1

I believe woman need to keep such a frame for her own benefits, or she just so badly wants it to be true that she can't help but to apply some "make-up" on reality. I guess it has something to do with pressure of society's opinion, risk of unwanted pregnancy, "gentle" biology etc. Anyways, her reactions and emotions are so much harder to fake and she will definitely do what she really wants at some point.
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:06 AM
0

Yes, they can often sense clearly these subtleties in your behaviour that you have other options and you don't lack attention. Biology.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:57 AM
22

These days even moderately attractive girl has a lot of opportunities to get with high-value males. Probably you weren't the best candidate for longer relation in her eyes at that moment. Yes, women are picky, depending on level of attention they are receiving and quality of men approaching on them. But sometimes you may hack biology and just hit the right spot of the right girl in the right moment.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:53 AM
3

Most women seem to operate their mind accordingly to "proper society standards". But deep down there is their biology that is how it is, regardless of anyone's opinion. You should just not listen to words and pay attention to emotions and real effects.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:14 AM
1

I guess a rule of thumb would be to behave accordingly to the place and circumstances. It's somewhat impolite to disturb girl if she has some other important or serious matters to deal with at that moment.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:06 AM
1

There is really vast ocean of materials on the Internet. Do your homework, proper mindset is an important key. And don't forget to check your progress and ideas in practice. You should enjoy your seduction quest.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:28 AM
2

Well, you need to think of a broader context and control your urges. The same way you control eating sweets/drinking alcohol/being lazy/masturbation etc. There are proper circumstances and proper dose for everything, and with physical intimacy you should also think about the girl, who wants to experience different kinds emotions and deal with a guy that is independent, composed, high-value etc.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:51 AM
1

I think you acted pretty shy throughout all these meetings. Didn't make much physical escalation or flirting, ignored her sexual signals etc. Her emotions and attraction just dropped drastically from your passiveness. Don't worry much about it, as a beginner it is normal to not recognize emotions and don't know what to do. Next time remember that you should escalate intimacy gradually, these meetings are for you to make next step in your relation, not to spend good time together.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:30 AM
1

Not clearing pipes will definitely strenghten your mental and reduce anxiety. You will simply care a lot less of petty thing like other person's opinion in comparison to unsatisfied and delayed urge.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:37 AM
1

Well, if you really feel that something interesting may come out there, then I would suggest you to keep it as casual and natural as possible. You would not like to get turned down hardly or get into awkward sexual relation.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:21 AM
33

Sometimes one vivid dream can get you hooked up for good.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:50 PM
1

You may have some subliminal effect on them, and not necessarily in negative way. But it doesn't matter much if you are not making any interaction with them anyway.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:26 AM
2

Talking is really a feminine dimension. You should focus more on activities and real dynamics between you.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:51 AM
1

Focus more on present moment and your current situation rather than future or broad topics. You can go really far from small things, and you would feel natural and easy-going.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:20 AM
4

Apparently she was just not seeing you the way you see her. There is really no need to clarify your feelings, it is pretty obvious just from the nature of your relation: - no touch, no attention - she doesn't like you - no touch, some attention - you are more of a friend to her - some touch, some attention - yet unclear - big touch, some attention - most likely FWB or short relation - big touch, big attention - she is yours (for now)
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:30 AM
3

Find better wingmans then, apparently all your friends don't have a clue how to act with girls in such situations.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:24 AM
1

Women are emotional beings, they really mainly participate in life to experience variety of strong emotions. Toxic partner give them some thrill and make them feel alive, also he is presenting himself as aggressive/strong male which is a strong atavism for choosing a partner.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:22 AM
2

It seems like you are on a good path, her last response was indicating that she actually cares about your schedule like you would be tied together already, also she is apparently teasing you to extract more emotions. You handled that first flirty game very well imo.
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:19 AM
1

Probably she is not sure about her feelings as emotions and attraction between you are pretty low. She is not committed to give up on that relation yet, but she will most likely do it if nothing will change.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:56 PM
1

It's just you will get these sad moments that you want something more and she will never initiate anything towards sexual escalation.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:34 AM
1

I guess if you hook up quickly, it is just more likely that it would end up being one night stand or friends with benefits. Most of the time quick escalation just means that you have really good chemistry, emotions and comfort are strong and it is only natural to give in to biology.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:47 AM
1

It seems like you are struggling heavily with your emotions there. It's pretty rare case when you can stay friends with your potential love interest, and that would be if you both felt that your chemistry feels more like friends. If you engaged yourself towards romantic relation, it is better to just cancel your contact completely, stabilise your thoughts and forget about her.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:36 AM
3

You should just establish comfort and get some emotions going. Giving her instant control over the conversation may be seen as weak of you. You will know pretty quickly if she is interested or not anyways. But overall, openers are not that important. Just don't be dumb or weird.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:34 PM
2

Personally I think that openers in form of asking her for consent/permission are pretty poor.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:04 PM
1

I believe you are giving them too much attention and credit for simply meeting with you. You are going on a date to see if you are compatible with each other naturally and smoothly, so there is really no reason to "try hard" and work for approval. Girls can sense desperation very clearly and that is turning them off, as they want to date high-value man that has his firm standards and values. They want a guy, who can tune their life. Try to be more laidback and give them some thrill on a date. Sh…
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:45 PM
4

Most likely she has that hormonal wish to look sexy, but that doesn't mean she is open to any random pickup by any random guy.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:49 AM
1

It's really nice. For many people it is a sign to the public that you are closely engaged with each other, but some guys may not be so comfortable with it or don't feel that close with you just yet. Just don't be forceful, if he is a normal person you will find common ground without any problems.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:18 AM
3

I guess many cheating cases stem from lack of ability to keep relation healthy and vigorous, also couples are often mismatched and they struggle to deal with each other after few years when hormonal storm stabilises. They cheat as they find it difficult to quit their relation or repair it and they have still their needs for sexual highs which their partner cannot satisfy. I guess it is pretty natural for most relations that they are getting outdated, but nowadays cheating is considered not that …
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:02 AM
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I wonder if she would grab your dick you would still be confused. Girls would barely ever make a direct statement about her interest in you, instead they are making it subtly clear for you, without looking like a thirsty obnoxious slut for potential audience. She wants you to smoothly take it from there, such sexual signs are almost never accidental.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:53 AM
3

Yeah, their cocks are big metaphorically and it is driving women's imagination like crazy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:39 AM
2

I believe most women don't treat their relationships that seriously, they wanna have fun or set up a family at some point. They probably think that it is pretty easy to find new valuable partner for men too. They seem to form a connection basing on strong emotions and high value of their partner rather than deeper feelings or deeper bond. If they can't get over something, it would be their pride or missed opportunity for attractive male.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:45 AM
1

Well, they are clearly mentioning this to get sexual topic going on. That's their way to suggest you provocatively to deal with their objections and set up proper vibe. Don't treat it seriously and just play along in funny way. "I think today is a good day", "My sex forecast is not detecting any anomalies for now". And just continue to do your thing regardless.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:19 AM
1

Yeah, and it works very well. Women strive hard for some magical impulse of emotions in our logical and routine lifestyles.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:02 AM
1

Maybe they are just in no mood to have sex. Or you did something accidently that turned them off. Or they are testing you to see if you would do anything to get into their pants. Or they want something yet to happen to end this day with full on sex. Anyways, you should just try different approaches and don't be so forceful on the outcome.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:43 AM
2

Well, as you have spent much time with your brothers, you may have got an impression that guys prefer logical, straightforward, emotionless interaction. But that is definitely not the case for guys that are looking for a partner in a girl, we actually crave many feminine characteristics like slightly emotional, intuitional, bit irrational, kind, sensitive, gentle etc.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:26 AM
1

I think many girls are setting some mindset how they want this night to go. If you are not fitting these standards, you will be hardly ignored, especially if you are not matching her emotions. But really, does it matter that much from logical point of view? Many guys just think all girls in all circumstances can fall for them if they were good enough, instead of paying attention to the present vibe and emotions and creating some promising opportunities. I guess many guys just can get a liking to…
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:19 PM
3

I guess it is nothing bad to use such services if it may help you with your insecurities and sexual frustration. Don't get too addicted with it though, you should still preferably hunt for natural interactions with women, it is much more than just friction intercourse from time to time.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:17 PM
6

Or you may just not be considered an ONS material in certain circumstances. Or mood and vibe are improper. It really should come out naturally, if you are feeling like going all in, you should, but it is not the case for many situations.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:12 PM
2

I guess you should fit into her world. A guy that would not want to hit on her out of the blue, you have some common interests, common personality, you present some value to her and you are nice to hang around with.
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:29 AM
1

Some girls and guys are crazy as it comes to social interactions, as they get most of their experience from TV shows. Or they have just some mental problems with aggression, insecurity, paranoia etc. But overall, you should not talk to this girl anymore after "ok" and don't even smile. She kinda hard ignored you, why would you want to make any more contact with her.
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:16 AM
5

Watch her reactions and adjust. Touching should look natural and stay corresponding to the situation and emotions between you. Treat it like a play.
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:36 AM
3

Yeah, practice and opportunities are usually a lot more important than excessive improvement.
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:34 AM
2

That's actually true that women want to spend time and interact with you if you are abundant, whether it would be with money, intelligence, people, happiness, activities etc.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:37 PM
1

Well, maybe try to loose some weight, eat healthier, stop masturbation, take care of your skin? Otherwise, you just need to make up your value with your other attractive features. Pretty face is not that big of an attribute for many girls.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:54 AM
1

Well, there may be of course some times when someone is very busy or just don't know exactly how to respond. But if this is happening constantly, without any explanation, you can be pretty much sure that she is not very excited with your interaction. I would suggest to be sincere that you don't like it, or better yet to stop texting her and check if she want to invest in this relation.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:44 AM
2

It's natural, you are far from your routine environment, happy and free, meeting new people that you will most likely not see ever again, having exciting and crazy time. Perfect situation to go all in.
/r/seduction01/06/22 08:38 AM
2

I guess realizing that women love these aggressive, assertive, alpha, leader, "badboy", dangerous, high-value, confident, straightforward, independent, impertinent, strong, charismatic guys, in contrary to this soft bullshit that we are being told by superficial society.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:20 AM
9

She behaves asexual, she is mean or dull, she becomes aggressive for no reason, she puts me down "in good will" or "for fun", she plays some stupid games to start an argument, she is not cooperating with my initiative in very rude and stubborn way.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:10 AM
1

Try out new things, be brave and confident, express lots of emotions, be illogical and out of the scheme from time to time, don't force conversation or action.
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:53 AM
1

I would suggest to help them out a little with their approach. Be friendly, cooperative, big smile at them as a reward for their effort. Then slowly you can take an initiative.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:16 AM
9

Women like friendly teasing. Women are picky. Women admire a man that is not afraid to say "no" when he wants, speak up his honest opinion and go his own way regardless of environment. I guess many guys just don't want to get into "nice guy" zone, and they make it a bit too far. Or they were deeply offended by some girl's mean behaviour and they can't get over this bitterness. But overall, toxicity is the matter of the person, not gender. Also, there is no point in getting offended towards simpl…
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:36 AM
1

It's more about gradual progress than speedrun. You should definitely keep making moves to shatter more of your barriers, or emotions will drop and she will stop investing energy in this relation.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:30 AM
1

Take a closer look about your computer and masturbation abuse. It's often about what you do, not what you don't do.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:46 AM
1

Get yourself into new and uncommon situations, use lots of emotions in your interactions, focus more on activities and making a connection rather than logical interview and standard date schedule.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:43 AM
1

There is no need to ask the girl if she is single. If you are clearly approaching her to get some sexual things going, she will definitely do it herself until some "cheat move" happens.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:40 AM
1

I believe people should definitely get many skills and knowledge that are currently not touched by obligatory schooling system. But I guess it will be the most effective to just reduce greatly the amount of lessons for children, as most knowledge taught there is not useful to you in any ways ever, and you will have more time to self-educate and get skills and experience in real world. It is really no problem to get any information in present digital world. Also, personal lesson schedule and priv…
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:36 AM
2

Most people look better without glasses, according to some surveys. Contact lenses are extremely comfortable, I suggest you to research and try them out, if you feel insecure about your looks with glasses.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:25 AM
10

Ghosting is a pussy move, you should be clear about your interest. Sincerity and politeness goes a long way in any relations.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:23 AM
1

You should not really tease her about things that she is not able to change or she has some special emotional attachment to. Appearance is very delicate and important topic for women.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:19 AM
2

You need to pay more attention to emotions and be in present moment, you will feel when it's the right time to approach and how to escalate. It is normal to be turned down sometimes, without any reason. You are not meant to be desired or even liked by every woman instantly in every circumstances, right? It is not normal however, to push against all odds and take rejection so personally.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:16 AM
1

I guess many guys just want to get sex and relation with the girl with minimum effort. They don't want to realise that their current lack of sexual interactions derives from neglection of social skills, appearance, character develop etc. They want the girl to accept their little self, instead of getting over their pride and becoming the guy that will be sexually desired without some "nature hacks".
/r/seduction28/05/22 10:10 AM
1

I don't think it's true, most guys are aware that looks play one of the biggest roles in dating world. It's just you are not able to change many features about your appearance. You can get better clothes, get better muscles and posture by workout, get healthy body by healthy diet, take care of your hygiene, get fancy hairstyle. And that's mostly it.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:52 AM
1

Imagine that these people have also nothing valuable to add to your life.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:46 AM
1

Some girls have this fetish for aggressive sexual interaction. I think what she meant is that both of you were attending the college on "pretty asexual" faculty and now both of you are messaging with "pretty unorthodox" partner. She seemed to invite you to such nasty game, but maybe she was just little mean or missed her intention. If you don't like such dynamics, then maybe you are not good match anyways.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:36 AM
2

Yeah, that was a very cheap move to buy her something if she comes to see you. And you should not probably have your very first interaction at your place drinking alcohol, many girls may be scared or turned off by this indirect sex date. Also, she sounds like a bitch, dealing with such types even for amazing sex is questionable.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:24 AM
2

I don't think it is important or even helpful. Physical appearance is definitely not everything. If you think you don't deserve her, there is hardly any chance that you will succeed.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:36 PM
4

Treat her like you would treat any other girl that you find interesting. Also, don't praise her for her appearance much, she has already enough of it. Remain a challenge for her and present your value naturally.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:34 PM
6

That's why you should be congruent with your own style of interaction and don't let the girl control the situation too much. Many girl's behaviours are driven by instincts or social mind, and your role is to conquer them. Otherwise, your dynamics will become emotionally flat and asexual.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:14 AM
1

You can, but the closer and more intimate you become, the more it is probable that one of you catch some feelings or some kind of sexual frustration.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:06 AM
41

Girls sometimes make up some interaction scenario that will potentially excite them.
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:16 AM
2

Pretty nice game, but I think it was a bit too indirect to make her naturally interested. You followed your emotions, which is a good sign for the future success. Sometimes the odds are just against you. But overall, even if you are anxious, if you look a girl straight into the eyes, it usually turns out that she is much less confident than you.
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:13 AM
1

Remember that you need to also find proper girl for a relationship. It is not reasonable to pursue relationship just to be in a relationship, you are asking for trouble and huge waste of resources. Get to know a girl, make deeper connection of your private lives, get intimate mentally, wait for some "life proof" that you are a well-working couple.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:49 AM
1

I guess you should focus on loving yourself first. There will be always a possibility that the girl lose her interest in you. People are different, different needs, different temperament, different viewpoint. If you want to be taken for just what you are, you would have to accept anything that comes to you just as they are. You have little control over your external experience, but you have immense power to adapt and change your thinking.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:40 AM
3

Respond: "Ok, so what now? Friends?" Just move on and keep working on your hard attractiveness features. You cannot "convince" her or logically explain why it is worth to pursue relation with you.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:15 AM
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Get close to him, look him straight into the eyes in a sexy outfit exposing your attractive body features. Act friendly, smile a lot, show your sweet and flirty side, maybe even little crazy. This is so easy, because it is very natural for girls and super effective on men. Main reason it is not that common to see, is that girls are pretty lazy or afraid of mythical "slut shaming".
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:08 PM
1

Well, you need to be congruent with the situation. Proper place, proper woman, proper circumstances, proper time, you need also to emanate with corresponding vibe of a man that is confident and worth of direct sexual approach. Stay in the moment, pay attention to emotions and you may be able eventually to feel how to escalate in this certain case.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:51 AM
1

I believe women are pursuing relationships and sexual validation much more than men, which seems to be just incorporated in their biology. They think they need to be the prettiest to pass the genes of the best male they can. Which may result in tough and aggressive competition.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:46 AM
2

It's not about making women come to you. It's about boosting your confidence naturally when you truly feel good with yourself, as you have your attraction features at decent level. More girls will give you subtle positive feedback then, make your approaches smoother and less rejected, which will overall boost your confidence even more.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:36 AM
1

Don't show her your insecurity and don't talk low about yourself. You can sincerely mention about your anxiety in proper time and in funny way, but not too much.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:31 AM
1

Some girls like to talk very much, especially when they are happy and can talk freely. Some may even not pay attention and sail to some awkward topics.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:12 AM
1

I guess that many guys just need to give girls some space in interaction. Girl should engage herself actively in a relation, make some effort to get things going, make a balanced connection with you, improve her social skills etc. Most girls like talking very much as an activity, they are happy to express themselves freely and have someone around to listen to them.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:03 AM
6

Girls may sometimes do such "innocent" sexual activity for fun, but it doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to be approached at that time.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:55 AM
2

Probably you don't feel like a model material for quick hookup in these circumstances. It often takes a lot of attractive features to get a girl interested instantly and overcome "quick sex is slut" mentality. I think that many guys believe that there is some quick trick that can make your game instantly better, where it is sometimes a long way to go until you present yourself as valuable male. Take care of your hygiene, wear good clothes, get nice haircut, get some perfume, take care of your bo…
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:37 AM
1

Besides of statistically lower confidence of women, I think we are just taught to fake and avoid direct confrontation instead of learning how to be both sincere and polite in our relations.
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:23 AM
1

Like with any other "failures", you need to forgive yourself and keep going. Be your own best friend.
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:17 AM
1

I guess you were too "submissive" with her attempts for leading a relationship, which can be a big turn-off. But all in all, usually lose of interest happens, when you have done something that the girl despise, and you were still going around with such attitude. Now your vibe seems totally friendly, unless you will somehow show yourself again as independent, high-value, attractive male. But I guess it is better to just show it to another girl.
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:04 AM
1

Rather getting to know about her future, about her opinions, getting involved in her very private life, getting together into unique situations.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:35 AM
1

Well, it's perfectly normal that you want your girl for yourself, but it shouldn't stem from your insecurity about her loyalty. She will always have that freedom to do and to feel whatever she wants and you should still love yourself not less than you love her.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:27 AM
1

You did pretty good, she seems interested, you had fun and escalated intimacy. Just stay casual and play your next moves.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:21 AM
1

Be playful, experiment, watch her reactions. This is the clearest pleasure, do what you feel. Be passionate and cooperative. And watch out for teeth.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:12 AM
3

Well, you should form some kind of deeper connection, especially emotional. Common future, common interests, common experiences, natural chemistry and attraction. You need to create some intimacy and memories. If you are rushing to the last base, is it strange that the girl gets this attitude what it is all about?
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:59 AM
1

I guess most people just get into relationships by social approval of their social circles, they don't hard calculate attractiveness. Besides, I believe most men have some attractive masculine features that are revealed in proper circumstances. I think "normal" people are not placing so much importance on picking partners comparing to pickup community.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:48 AM
1

If you think about it, that is just quick natural way of saying "I was walking by, saw you, and just feel the need to talk and get to know you better", which is true. Cute sounds pretty harmless. Otherwise you will probably not meet this girl ever again in "normal" social circumstances, you are missing huge chunk of your natural encounters with women. I don't think there is a need to play some crazy mind games why you are approaching random girl on a street. As it comes to society - "public" min…
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:22 AM
2

It really doesn't matter much what you say, words are only the small part of communication. There is your voicetone, your posture, your gestures, your smile, your eye contact, your positioning, your emotional state, your whole appearance... As it comes to cold approaching, imagine you are just walking down the street and you see a beautiful girl and your intuition is just begging to get to know her. Why would that be considered weird?
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:27 AM
1

Neediness occurs when you are too emotionally addicted and can't adjust to current dynamic of your relation. When you are too much in your head, feeding yourself with illusive thoughts and emotions, instead of paying attention to reality.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:54 AM
1

She may be potentially dragging you into the pussy world. Whatever the reason, maybe even innocent, it's not the wisest to do things for her that you actually don't feel like doing. You may address this thing somehow, depending on your character and dynamic of your relation. Maybe like "Right away my Vain Princess, I hope I won't forget" and go to sleep.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:40 AM
1

You can find him potentially everywhere, but you cannot force a true connection. You are always risking a broken heart when you are looking for relation. Keep searching until you find someone naturally compatible with you, when you both making the other a better person and your relation makes your lives exuberant. Common character, common interests, common future, lots of common experiences. Just enjoy your sexual journey.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:29 AM
1

Yeah, you should set up a location that will allow some touching to go between you. As it comes to touch escalation, as the name suggests, you should gradually make progress with moving the intimacy barrier between you. Start with kiss on the cheek, holding hand for a second, high five, patting her shoulder, taking some dust from her clothes, "accidently" slightly bumping into her, complimenting and instantly touching her hair etc.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:03 AM
1

Focus more on activities, implement purposeful pause in your game, let her lead a conversation from time to time, say things that require some reaction from her. Also, you may be just not compatible and your conversation dies because there is not enough interest between you. You can really just focus on present and near past/future and see if the words will you take you somewhere far naturally.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:56 AM
1

Probably you scored strong shots in the foot with your cheap compliment and insecure question, or she found some better option in the meantime. It happens. Also, do you want a girl who is responding "Lol, k" to the compliment? Move on and do better next time, nothing to be concerned about.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:35 AM
3

You should still keep approaching while you making progress with your hard masculine features. Don't focus on this one specific girl, sometimes the game would turn out to be of no worth when you get to know her better anyways. You should get to the level, where you can score good first impression among the other guys that are available for her, to get a chance for further escalation.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:29 AM
1

That means you should not push her or treat this as an instant hookup. Different things may happen on this meeting, you should definitely just have a good time yourself regardless of the outcome.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:23 AM
1

Women have this "slut alert" implemented in their "social circle mind", which I believe is pretty outdated and unnecessary, but that prevents them from direct approaching guy for flirt. Also, they have almost no clue and skills how to do it, imagine the girl leading a relationship with their unstable emotional nature. Also, this is an opportunity to show them your social skills and confidence to gain lots of attraction points. But overall, it is not necessary for the guy to make the first move, …
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:21 AM
3

Get pretty and even slightly "sexy" photos, have your description that indicates you are quite brainy too. As it comes to texting, just be friendly, decently responsive and open to flirting. I guess you want to slide into top class male DMs, so physical appearance and signs of intellectual and flirtatious attitude in your first contact are of great importance.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:05 AM
1

I think women will always crave primal male features the most. Living in a society just produces different expressions of that. They wanna "soak" with plenty of different strong male genetics which can be found pretty much anywhere, but they are hidden until proved in different kinds of confrontation.
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:57 PM
1

Gym feels like pretty unorthodox place to meet women, as they are usually focused on their own training, dressed for physical effort, sweated and maybe feeling quite vulnerable among bunch of strong males. At least you should be even more casual with your approach than in other places and observe if she would be even interested in interacting with strangers there.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:55 PM
6

Well, many women crave young blood. Maybe your height/body type was the major issue? Firstly try to not dress or behave like a kid, and then maybe hit some gym to get more "adult" body? Keep searching for girls that actually fancy your style.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:50 PM
1

Of course, it is pretty cool for pickup story, but you should also make positive impression that will trigger her emotions and thoughts after you leave. 2 minutes are enough if you shock her enough and escalate quickly.
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:54 PM
0

There is always an opportunity to mention something sexual, take your time and make it look natural and "innocent". Also, it is really important how you talk about it, using lots of passion and emotions with words that engage imagination and different senses. It's enough to turn the girl on, even if you are just touching sexual aspect slightly. You just watch her reactions and continue with your physical escalation.
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:48 PM
2

Speaking sincerely is sexy af in some contexts. If you are normal, it is natural that you like and dislike some things. Being too polite and nice, when you are clearly not enjoying situation can be viewed as lack of confidence, character and social skills.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:03 AM
38

Most of random boy-girl approaches are about indirect pickup. Even if your intentions are "innocent" some girls would like to give their shot then if they consider your attractive, as you have already managed to break social barrier.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:57 AM
1

Maybe she was just drunk af and now changed her mind with remorse. If you are to make contact again, make sure to remind her that she should break up with her boyfriend if she likes you more.
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:14 AM
1

And what you actually want from her? You are not some texting slave, if you don't like the way you are texting, just stop. You should not get your emotions about it on her, but still you can be sincere that you are not enjoying your text game much. Don't give her more attention than she gives you and focus on your direct seduction moves there if you want to get something going.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:48 AM
0

Well, this is certainly a good point to have a pleasant relationship. Dunno if it is a game-changer for seduction if you know how to listen though. Anyways, definitely a true statement.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:34 AM
1

It means aggressive, high-value, confident and assertive man is making her private parts tingly.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:25 AM
2

Not necessarily. Breaking touch barrier should be congruent with current mood and emotions. It's not like you should place a hand on her knee when you are talking about dinner with your grandma. You just play along and make gradual progress.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:56 AM
1

My take would be to improve yourself in your individual seductive aspects, not look towards some vague absolute model.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:49 AM
2

Apparently she was in a bad humour and you were not viewed at that moment as some Prince Charming that will elevate her self-worth. Look at it like you dodged a bullet, interacting with girls with such nasty manners can frequently cause troubles.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:42 AM
1

Probably the mood was inappropriate and emotions low after she declined your invitation. She was not feeling like kissing you at that moment and you may have just looked like your thirstiness take control over your game. I guess it is game over, at least you should not push her as it will prove her point.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:37 AM
2

Maintaining self-respect is far more important in the long run than some single opportunity to score juicy pussy with no manners and nasty character. She has literally dumped you before your date and just made you pay for her meal. Whatever was her reason, you should just end this "date" prematurely, split the bill and part with her in silence. This is the proper behaviour, good both for you and her.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:29 AM
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You just agree with her that she is not that type of a girl and continue to do your moves. Girls are saying different things, but it is the emotions and sexual attraction that drives their choices. She needs just some space to make up her logical mind.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:40 PM
3

Probably you were too straightforward in common public situation, if she would agree to that she may just have looked as some easy girl that fell instantly for cheap text, and she was at work. Next time be more subtle, build some rapport, and just wait for her when she finishes her job. It may probably be a lost case now, you can just tell her that you didn't mean to take her hostage with that question.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:13 AM
2

Apparently she was surprised that you have not concluded this approach differently. It's not like you are making random conversation with a stranger girl, hold strong eye contact and then just walk away. She wants more, but you should not assume that she has already fallen for you.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:55 AM
2

Being called "sweet" is often not bad at all, but you seem to just talk through topics that had little to do with escalating your physical and mental intimacy or increasing attraction and sexual tension. It is no surprise that she lost her interest if you invited her for a date and then behaved all the way like a talk friend, right?
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:47 AM
1

Well, you seem to give only friendly vibe to her, how would she be not confused about your intentions where there is nothing sexual going on between you till now? You need to slightly break physical and mental intimacy barriers with her. Also, you've met already 3 times in the park, is it a good idea to repeat these circumstances once again? Think more about your moves and read the actual emotional situation, leave the past in the past.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:34 AM
1

Pause is also an immanent part of your interaction. Learn to use it and play with it, it's good moment to increase tension and use some seductive non-verbal action. You should be looking at her a lot on the first meeting, it's very right thing to do.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:59 AM
2

Texting is of course a great tool to build some comfort, attraction and connection. Nevertheless it should always be turned in a direction to eventually have a meeting and escalate your physical intimacy, because that is your ultimate goal, right? Which implicates that excessive texting is pointless and may just confuse the girl about your intentions and lower her attraction with low-emotional interactions and friendly vibe.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:51 AM
2

It's true that you are far more likely to attract girls if you are abundant with energy, optimism, money, satisfaction, good physical fitness etc. That you are in a good place in your life.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:41 AM
3

You should leave some unfinished matters. Make her think of you, make her think of what your words and actions meant, make her thirsty for your next move, make her long for your next mutual activity. Don't conclude, don't be clear. Also, sometimes you are just not compatible and there is no point in pursuing further.
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:30 AM
1

Creating high tension between you, experiencing new emotions and deep connection.
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:24 AM
1

In the end it won't matter much what you did. Stop treating life so seriously, enjoy yourself. If you want to meet people, you need to throw yourself in many different social situations, where you can enjoy yourself and be happy. If you want to make friends, you need to create mutual memories and plans for the future. If you want to be loved, hugged, kissed, first you need to love yourself. I feel you can use some therapy, reorganise your life and cut off toxic aspects of it, take care of your h…
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:05 AM
1

I guess that she can just treat this as one time adventure and she has not connected with you much. You completed your quick race to final base, not clear how would you go from that.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:26 AM
1

It's usually a good sign, she is open, full of energy and enjoying your company. But I think she would prefer you to make her speechless in positive way :) You can say something like "Nah, that's pretty cool you can speak so much, I crave your openness". And then take her hand.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:16 AM
8

You can get laid, but most women won't respect you and they can easily manipulate you to lose much money, time, energy and emotional balance for hopeless relation.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:09 AM
1

Yes, but you can still get accustomed to it and it can make you feel very drained afterwards. I guess you just miss what you lack, there is no straight receipt for happiness.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:50 AM
1

Confidence and fun are key ingredients to living interesting life with lots of emotions. Girls crave that too.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:01 AM
2

Check out Demonic Confidence course.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:17 AM
1

Talking is more of a feminine dimension. You need to be precise and straightforward, not just passing time.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:15 AM
1

I feel it is somewhat automatic response to not look as easy, low-value sex hunter. Girls are very afraid of being abandoned or losing their high social status. While it is often unnecessary and you may just continue like nothing happened, it may also mean that she is not attracted enough to you or prejudiced towards casual sex.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:59 AM
17

Women are slutty horny for the best, aggressive, alpha male around in the most undecent way whatsoever. None will ever approve this, but they are the most shallow, straightforward and picky as it can be in sexuality aspect. Their relations are based on tolerance and compromise. It's competition, no one gives a duck about your emotions or deeper connection.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:04 PM
6

It may be or it may be not, as it is usually with women's flirting. Also, she may be turning her ass towards some other guy or just for fun to look sexy. Anyway, there is only one way for you to find out, and that is making your move.
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:08 PM
2

Dance with her. Start touching her slightly and watch her reactions if she would enjoy a little more intimacy. Enjoy the process, slowly and gradually make your progress to potentially make out passionately at the end.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:23 AM
3

Is there any scenario where it would benefit you? If you manage to get to the last base, just remember about decent foreplay, going gradually through her intimacy points, watching her reactions, changing and experimenting with your technique and USE SOME CONTRACEPTION.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:19 AM
2

Women are genetically hard-wired to society's evaluation. But they are even more prone to reproduction with male with superior masculine features.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:08 AM
1

They are just playing. Woman have usually several other good options and she may just go with her emotional flow.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:02 AM
2

Apparently she liked your approach better, your friend was orbiting and waiting. No reason to feel bad, there are plenty of other beautiful girls out there.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:10 AM
1

I guess most PUAs job is about changing your mindset and showing that many things are possible. You need to adapt things that resonate with you and work on yourself to get your compact seduction personality.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:04 AM
2

It's about your personal boundaries. What's cool with you and what's definitely not, developing strong character.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:01 AM
2

Imagine that you are just approaching girl to find if you would be cool together instantly. How many people you get the liking for within first few minutes? Not much, and so is the case for her. No reason to get bothered much about it then.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:50 AM
1

I guess you should play along her game. If she is not giving you much response, then you should not give her much attention either, but still not conclude this approach.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:38 AM
2

Women often seek for some sort of ground confirmation after first date. It's good moment to NOT release tension between you. With something like "Yeah, that was very nice meeting".
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:26 AM
3

It seems to her that you know what you are doing. Don't care much about it, you can deny or confirm it, she will be further interested anyways.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:19 AM
1

Dating with the stranger is always risky, you should just meet in comforting public place to build some trust. Bringing a friend is kinda weird, it is not some meeting of a group "spend time with random people". If she has trust issues, then maybe it is better that she would work this through before going on tinder.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:13 AM
1

I guess it depends how she said that. Also, I think that it's better to give more specific compliments.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:05 AM
1

Yeah, dress smart, take a shower and enjoy your duckdate. Very unlikely that she invited you just to pass some time with friend, but you need to make your moves. Relax and slowly but surely take down consecutive barriers of intimacy.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:01 AM
1

I just found myself in a situation where I am in command.
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:32 PM
2

More oral, more sexual teasing, more moaning, more slutty moves, playing different kind of scenarios and games that "go sexual"
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:13 AM
5

It may happen, improper mindset, poor emotions, low vibe. It's not like you can make something out of nothing. Make your whole story different next time, don't feel terrible, it won't get you anywhere.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:59 AM
1

If you think that it will suit you then sure. Do it for yourself, if that makes you feel more comfortable and desired. Everyone has their own standard of beauty and there is always a space for some improvement.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:41 AM
1

First you create purpose and natural need, then you set up a date.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:01 AM
6

Talk slower and look her in the eyes.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:50 AM
1

High status in my current social group.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:37 AM
0

Paying for the girl is considered as soft move, and it may make you look like some nice big-heart sponsor or slave of dating conventions. It may make some sense if you catch girl off-guard and insist to buy her some small thing to just fit into the plan. Otherwise, you are breaking the conception of your meeting, it's not about proving that you can be a provider but a material for great sex.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:32 AM
3

It's not so illogical, quite a lesson for you there :)
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:22 AM
2

Friends don't touch themselves that much. Also, you need to present high value as a male in your social circle, don't treat her better than yourself and keep sexual vibe in the air (that means it is not impossible for two of you to have sex). Looking at your words, I think you are way too much involved in analysing petty things. You need to be straightforward to get intimate with the girl and open to different outcomes and new possibilities. Don't let women grab you into their pussy world, they …
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:14 AM
1

It's very normal for most guys, girls are always looking to elevate their status by hunting for higher value man. If you want to get an interest from more attractive females, you need to upgrade your status significantly. Be an alpha among your group of males. Work on your character to not lean towards woman even if she is your 10. Fix your life in a way that you will be abundant with energy regardless of women's attention.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:03 AM
1

Come close, look straight into the eyes, smile, straight your posture to expose your female shapes more, look for 1v1 situations, tease him with touch.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:45 AM
3

They are trying too much, engage themselves very quickly and evaluate her as better than she really is. They are nice, "respect her boundaries" and try to please her at all cost.
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:01 AM
7

Unlike most men, women are pretty attracted to feeling all kinds of emotions, including nasty ones. If you are sexually attracted to each other, there is no problem with converting fight vibe into smash vibe. Also, you may subconsciously present that you are high value aggressive man that can express however he wants to. Some girls that are usually surrounded with politeness, compliments and servility may get really turned on by such attitude.
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:16 PM
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Don't get down, it is pretty common story that you feel you missed your life relation when you engaged yourself much, but you will see in some time with the other opportunity that you can get into even better relation pretty easily. Learn your lesson, don't look back and keep improving yourself.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:13 PM
3

It is not mandatory to make out on the first quick meeting, but you should definitely touch her in some intimate way.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:08 PM
1

You should call her, at exact time that you mentioned (not too specific though). More important of getting the number is bulding good rapport and attraction during your first talk. Girls can easily just give some contact and ghost you instead of straight rejection.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:58 AM
2

Don't put her on pedestal, think more of yourself than of her, don't give her more attention than she gives you, demand things of her, tease her a little if you are superior in some aspect, laugh off her mistakes (not too much), feel free to feel bored in her company or make her insecure of confused...
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:53 AM
1

It's pretty important, hair may be a vivid sign of health, that you know how to take care of yourself and that you have some character and style. Anyways, you should assume that girl is measuring all your characteristics.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:11 AM
2

When a girl is interested, she usually gets sparkling eyes, she produces more smell, gets into "feminine posture", start speaking louder etc. But it doesn't matter until you make a contact with her, right? You should give your shot anyway, sings of interest doesn't mean that she is ready to duck, lack of interest doesn't mean that she will not change her mind within seconds if you make your confident approach.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:06 AM
2

Imagine that most people don't like to be on their intelligence toes all the time. Especially women, they prefer to have some simple/carefree fun, like you would have with children. You need to just relax and let it flow, life is not like that you will succeed if you are stiff and controlling all the time, you need to find your balance.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:59 AM
1

I make other people envy of me.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:45 AM
1

Sure, it's more about her perspective.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:54 AM
2

It's usually better to forget about typical dating place and take her for some unusual experience. Get her out of her comfort zone a little, visit multiple places, search for some unpredictable situations, create circumstances when you will create some connection and get touchy, do different activites. And really important thing is to have fun yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:00 AM
2

I am looking for something that will bring up strong emotions and possibly new and memorable experiences.
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:46 AM
1

Confidence, strong eye contact, good posture, deep voice, leadership, smile, appropriate touch, strength, intelligence, slightly confrontational and arrogant etc. Think more of yourself as sex material, not conversation partner.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:02 AM
1

Talk about any simple/funny/everyday stuff. Include lots of emotions and reactive responses. Don't get hooked on any theoretical, boring and non-sexual topcs. You need to develop your man-woman connection.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:16 AM
1

Sarcasm is pretty cool, but it can also be annoying. Try to expose more of your sexual nature than funny one.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:12 AM
3

Well, most people are not seeking some deep soul connection but rather straight physical and emotional pleasure. In this era of instant connection, you should meet some standards to catch an attention in the first place. Everyone is different, but you can always improve yourself somehow to hop into dating player's world. I think it is important to not place so much value on this game and just enjoy if you would be able to get along with someone's sexual standards. Also, real life sexual "magic" …
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:53 AM
1

Some people may have negative view about pick up, but it comes most of the time from ignorance, social stigma or jealousy. You are doing nothing wrong, on the contrary, you provide women with high quality interactions and spreading positive vibes. It's your private world, it should not effect your career if you just do your work right.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:30 AM
1

You can leave her with some intimacy hunger, but you definitely should break the touch barrier especially on the first official date. Maybe they meant that you should not escalate too much in public and wait for more comfort in your private place, as you may scare the girl or release too much tension for her to thirst for more.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:05 AM
6

This is pretty common story in romcoms and other fairy tales. Girl can eat fancy food, show yourself in rich environment, pass some time in nice company. And then maybe she will fall in love for all the good things that guy did to her. But in reality, she usually flakes like snow in May.
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:32 AM
1

You shouldn't care about such things, just take your shot.
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:38 PM
1

It helps to deal with certain emotions by naming them. Say something like: "You can relax, I am just me". If you are sure about your mutual affection but still you are both paralyzed, maybe go for a little kiss? :) Find some circumstances when you are both positively highly emotional.
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:32 PM
2

Someone has to initiate proper context, and men are usually better with doing it naturally. They are bolder, more creative, better leadership skills etc. It doesn't mean of course that women should not start some flirt going or that you should be the only one to make an effort, on the contrary, you should eventually both strive to develop your connection. It's just how our current dating game works now, girls are just choosing best males to copulate, men are hunting for potentially any decent gi…
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:19 AM
6

I think it is normal. You need to get yourself together again to be ready to enter new healthy relation. You just got wiser. As you have said, you risk wasting much effort, time and emotional engagement to get potentially some unknown quality relation and uncertain physical intimacy, which is not the best deal for you for now. It's better to just focus on empowering yourself and getting yourself a relation in right time with right person with little effort.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:06 AM
2

It does not matter much, unless girl has like really high body count. Nevertheless, you should start caring about your psychical and physical women's features to get sexual interest from males. Besides getting healthy body, you should stop being shy, start to smile and be friendly among men's company.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:37 PM
12

It's pretty true for most cases. Women have genetics to always seek for better mate, they are very susceptible to emotional fluctuations and they rarely feel some deeper connection and respect for partner. No reason to be offended towards nature, their desires are unlimited cause main concern is bringing up the best offspring.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:30 PM
23

Actually there are two coming to my mind right now: - Girls like teasing regardless what they say - Girls want high value male regardless what they say
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:20 PM
2

You need to make approaches and take your chances somehow. Help your luck and throw yourself into social situations where you can meet woman. It's not like women will come to you out of nowhere. If you have some height complex, then just hit on girls that are much shorter than you (for now). Still, you should keep learning about pickup game and work on upgrading your physical and mental attributes.
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:38 AM
1

Well, I think it has only to do with the weird law that is protecting women who are "too afraid" to oppose if they don't want to get intimate with the guy. If you are making your intimacy progress gradually, and you are not the only one to escalate, there is really no need to ask. It may be part of your foreplay game of course, but most girls would like you to take initiative and not ask for permission to shatter their barriers.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:03 AM
1

He may be uncertain to go for more rough or unusual sexual experience, as you may not like it. You need to be straight about your preferences (why not?).
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:13 AM
1

Most likely he want to chill out for a moment as he is close to come. Also, it may be just part of his technique, as an act of initial inserting penis is very pleasurable for a girl, am I right?
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:58 AM
1

You can lean gently on his shoulder and look him into the eyes.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:53 AM
1

You need to bring out topics that would make her feel many emotions, you would also want to make some sexual vibe in your conversation eventually. You should speak quite differently than with guy friends, make your talk passionate and create a connection between you. Also, making seduction approaches without escalating at least minimal physical contact may be strange and confusing for the girl, you need to first break this barrier to move for more.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:50 AM
1

She probably has some other options and she seems far less engaged in your relation than you. You should not take offense from a girl, it does not look cool and it will serve you no purpose. Girl may just tease you to get some emotions going, no malicious intent behind that. If it is bothering you, then maybe you are not compatible for future relation anyways?
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:38 AM
1

I guess you have some clue how to open a conversation, but still you need to make it reactive. Ask some question, ask about opinion, make some statement that she should react to. Girl needs to invest something in your contact, making too much effort is hardly ever a way to go.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:29 AM
3

Strong emotions can be like a drug, and women possess very potent hormonal system. They treat relations more like fun and game, not some sacred spiritual sex connection. Still, you can find a girl that is slightly different, in the way you like :)
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:41 PM
1

Word "nice" doesn't have quite positive connotation in women's world. Also, buying women's attention with cheap compliments is not the way to go, most of the the time. Besides straight causal opening phrases, the best opener seems to be so called "shock opener". You just figure out some very unusual, situational, reactive but still quite funny and smooth saying. Example: "Hi, your hair is black and I have black eyes. Coincidence?"
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:48 AM
1

What do you mean by "try harder"? Most girls won't give you direct rejection, they will just pretty much ignore you and say whatever just to pass some time. If the circumstances aren't right for her, then it is even better to stop making an effort and let the situation settle out naturally.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:41 AM
1

Most likely she is not seeing any future with you, despite your date thereotically went pretty smooth. You didn't hit the right buttons, your vibe is not on point with her, you are not compatible biologically, there is no natural chemistry, your duo is uncapable of breeding strong emotions and interesting experiences. I believe that dating for girls is mostly just like collecting memorable, pleasurable experiences until they want to calm down, pass their genes and play family game.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:16 AM
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Probably it means something. But if you will be all passive in playing this game you will never find out.
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:57 AM
2

Well, I suggest you to be proactive in making connections. Don't get down if you won't click with someone, regular relation requires similar personality, similar lifestyle and future plans, memorable mutual experiences. Throw yourself in social situations where you can meet those conditions.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:56 AM
3

How it can be automatic? Next time you feel you want to be nice to girl for no reason, just don't. Be little arrogant and teasing, girls love that. They may say different things, but their emotions and feelings still work how they work.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:44 AM
1

Well, if they are not that successful in that aspect, then hearing this can naturally make them a little jealous, sad or annoyed, especially if you are talking frequently about it. Adjust to their situation, and just talk through your sexual adventures with people that are on the similar level and want to discuss such things.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:22 PM
32

Well, I guess it's more of a polite way to handle your relations. You don't force her to figure out some stupid stories or ghosting, you just give her that freedom to choose. It won't probably improve your results, but it may improve overall man-woman relations, make things more clear and smooth.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:05 PM
32

Good stuff, girls would be so much more open to socialize with stranger guys, if it was not only about straight hitting for number out of the blue. You went there casually, chilling, checking the ground, had nice time, smooth goodbye.
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:04 PM
3

There is some pretty valuable stuff that can be learned from people that specialize in pickup. But for me, it is mostly about changing your mindset: - women strive for sex, they may be even more interested in it than men - women love manly, strong, confident, passionate men, not polite, shy, nice, regardless of what they say - women are emotional beings, focus on that not what they may say or think - women seek for high value men, you can't buy them with your money/compliments/engagement - you n…
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:07 AM
2

Why can't you just meet casually? You can both have some fun time without struggling for making something happen. If she won't meet your expectations, you can just say "Well, it was nice meeting you, but I think we seek different things, wish you best"
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:42 AM
1

Girls tend to be more and more picky. Still they rely very much on the opinion of their close and large social circle. Not gonna change that. If you feel that is the case, approach girls that are much shorter than you. And stay casual, you really don't need to deal with such shallow expectations, just feel if she is interested in the first place.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:35 AM
1

Well, you pretty much proved my point :) You can always turn away your attention if you are aware. I think you get some liking towards such stimulus, but these are improper circumstances for that.
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:39 PM
3

If you make your approaches more casual, then you will not get so immense rejected feelings. You should more catch a situation when it is hot, not hop into deep water without experience. Use your emotions to feel the vibe and try to be chill with your socializing. It is bad idea to give your worth at a stake whether some random girl will get instantly interested in you out of the blue. Relations need proper circumstances and mutual chemistry.
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:33 PM
1

Maybe you are getting too many sexual stimulus? Try to not expose yourself to even slight sexual context, just turn away your sight. Also, don't induce yourself with substances that can enhance your sexual desire like coffee or alcohol.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:48 AM
1

You should not tell her that. Just create circumstances where you can escalate your intimacy in privacy. You can firstly do some activities to increase sexual tension, attraction, comfort, get some emotions and energy going, then things should naturally go towards getting hot.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:40 AM
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You have nothing to lose. She is also human just like you. You need to learn things in practice. Just stay casual, pay attention to emotions, don't be intrusive. Most people seek social contact. Start small, make little steps with your progress.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:27 AM
3

I think that women usually get turned on when men are expressing their deep emotions. However, they pity men who are consumed by their low emotions like hatred/politeness/sensitivity/fear/grief etc.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:53 PM
1

True, I think that many people just seek for some cheap trick to win over their current love or vent about their behaviour. Pretty shallow and repetitive, but is it against the rules of this sub?
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:36 AM
1

It subconsciously implies that a guy is from higher league, that he doesn't want to invest effort in seeking relation. Also it presents some challenge to make connection with such person, it may indicate that he is strong-willed and aggressive, he knows his and other's potential value, it's pretty mysterious etc. Overall, it's the matter of psychology of desire.
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:28 PM
1

It's mostly the matter of practice and listening to girl's reactions. Remember about proper foreplay.
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:22 PM
2

From my experience, all female have very similar desires and needs, regardless of their profession and character. I would even guess that such logic-thinking intellectual girl is secretly dreaming about getting in touch with blunt, straight, strong male from another world (still you probably should be intelectually close to her).
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:20 PM
1

Well, you should clarify what do you want from this girl. FWB? Girlfriend? Whether it is life or her that is sabotaging your progress, you should adjust your engangement. Relations with women can be very different, no reason to prove anything. Maybe you are not compatible for committed relationship. If she is not meeting your expectations, why would you try harder? She needs to strive for that connection, too.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:41 AM
2

Sometimes such actions as taking long to respond is done to strenghten attraction and sexual tension between you. Even if you think the date was "great", girls are often looking for something extraordinary in it, flawless date with sweet ending is pretty indifferent for the girl with some dating experience. Give it some time. It usually takes a lot of thinking, deep intimacy, great sex, experience big spectrum of emotions for the girl to fell in love. Treat this as a valuable experience and a ch…
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:22 AM
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Yeah, some people call it "white knight" syndrome. Many guys at rock bottom level of seduction think that women should be blindly treated with reverence, they are always innocent and sincere, they need to be protected, they fell in love by hearing compliments etc. Just like their mother would say.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:46 AM
1

No reason to tell her that. Just remember about protection and think about her pleasure. If you are unexperienced you may get some issues but you shouldn't worry about that, you can't really take control of it and normal girl won't have much problem with it. You just do it, like any other first time thing, it's pretty intuitive too.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:35 PM
9

Probably pretty unstable girl that thinks that she can get many guys, because she is so popular. I don't know what you are expecting from her, maybe seek some clarification?
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:27 PM
1

I guess it has more to do with change in social interactions in modern times. You can connect to anyone and find new people just everywhere. You should embrace it and focus on real emotions.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:05 AM
1

Being introverted is more like a preference of spending your time and expressing yourself, you should still take part in some social interactions from time to time. You can develop some anxiety if you cut yourself off your fears while still feeling in need to face them. You should still find your compatible way to meet women just like any extravert, just start small. Focus on 1 on 1 interactions, learn to make short casual conversations.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:49 AM
2

Most women would think that you are at the bottom of social ladder if you are playing on the street, which is most of the time a big turnoff. Unless girl is some hippie, she is not expecting to meet her love performing music on the street.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:41 AM
2

It's more about her attitude, do you really think that she thinks of you in similar way that you of her? Probably not. It may be tough, but usually it is not worth pressing if your vibe struggled to become sexual for some time. Maybe you are just not compatible, no reason to prove anything.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:35 AM
1

You are meant to make something happen. It should look natural, but such things are hardly ever natural.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:29 AM
1

Usual outcome is that you will get ghosted, as she has not committed to anything and her emotions will drop with time. Don't give a girl a lead in a relation, it is so easy for her to just keep you on standby and wait for another candidate. Forget about it, keep going.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:27 AM
1

When you get some experience, you will realise that having second thoughts and getting nervous usually means that you will hear "no". When you are getting positive vibe and interest, you are relaxed and empowered.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:15 AM
1

So, what is the reason for setting up these dates? For her, it may be just to pass some time in nice company.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:13 AM
1

Doesn't matter much what she is thinking, you should do your thing straight to escalate physical and mental intimacy. I think that you missed your chance here by becoming too passive and she is much more attracted to this unavailable guy of hers. You play too nice and engage too much comparing to her.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:09 AM
1

It may be even true, sometimes if chemistry is not going the right way, your body or life circumstances are reacting to your state accordingly. Don't get offended, play along casually.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:33 AM
2

I guess it happens to everyone, you are worrying too much. Sometimes it is even better to not get into "ideal" scenario, just to show that you are a normal humble person. Embrace your choices.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:29 AM
1

Lol, she was hot, mood was perfect and you just did nothing. She felt offended.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:21 AM
3

You are on a good way to becoming her emotional towel. Either there is chemistry and you are gradually progressing with your intimacy, or you are just waiting for her to clearly say "no".
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:09 AM
1

Sometimes unexpectable life circumstances may mess up with your relation. I think it is going its own way, go with the flow and do what you can. You shouldn't force true connection.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:30 AM
1

Learn to make some play with silence. Many people make this mistake to get locked on their ideal scenario in mind, instead of enjoying and paying attention to the moment.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:21 AM
1

It should come out as naturally as possible. Theoretically it is not necessary for the relation to progress, but you will create some connection and make your context more clear. You want to make lots of physical contact in the future, right? It needs to start somehow.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:19 AM
2

Why would you be embarassed about it, you are going there to have fun and meet people, not to show off that you have some social connections. I feel some inner game is waiting for you to be played :)
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:04 AM
5

Smile, be friendly, listen carefully, stay close to each other, be relaxed, expose your feminine behaviour and body features. You just need to pretty much reduce the stress and barriers on the guy to hit you up, you can also lead an interaction but not too much. I am sure I was answering pretty similar question here recently.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:55 AM
2

Touch her. Show where you would kiss or touch her (in polite way). Make her sit on your lap.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:49 PM
2

Well, I guess it stems from that in the past men have had extreme respect and treated women in a special way, because of the role they fulfilled in the community. But now, women are getting more and more into men's order of things in civilisation, but they are still receiving special treatment while they seem to not learn about giving it back. Anyways, I think this sub is mainly for changing mindset about pickup and women's nature. There are plenty of dull posts here, but that's just how it is.
/r/seduction07/04/22 06:07 AM
1

Best advice for someone who knows nothing is to read some fundamental theory on his own and get just any practice before asking for any instructions.
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:39 AM
1

I think both corny pick-up lines and aggressive compliments are not doing their job in most cases. It looks like you can "enchant" her with some commonly-known phrase or buy her attention for some sweet words. You can start a conversation by making some question or statement about what is going on around or with her. You can also go with simple "Hi, I've just seen you and I found you pretty interesting, I felt I just need to introduce myself to you, I'm...". If she is interested she will play al…
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:36 AM
1

Yeah, it could be switched with "get through". It this context "forcing" was meant to mean that you are confident enough to straightforwardly, smoothly go for what you both want.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:29 AM
1

Play along that game if she likes it. Many girls don't like to be blunt and clear, they wanna have some fun with flirting, uncertainty and relation progress.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:55 AM
117

I once read that some top level PUA was asked how many girls approached in a club he manages to get sex with eventually and he replied: 11%, and that's about top performance for top PUAs.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:38 AM
1

Being dominant means that you know exactly what is the best for you and the girl in the situation, and you can easily force through her artificially created objections.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:29 AM
1

If you are making eye contact frequently but waiting, that's kinda creepy. If you come up as casual and charming, you won't look like a creep. You can smile, say hello. See if she is even interested. Then really, any non-awkward conversation will pass as a start.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:27 AM
5

Imagine that you are playing a role in her fantasy sex scene.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:21 AM
1

Dunno about your actual dynamics, you may seem pretty young for them to consider in the first place. Don't act desperate, maybe you will find there some other interesting girls. When you will get more comfy and buzzed, it will turn out what is possible.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:17 AM
1

Maybe they are not prepared to act logically in such a situation. Of course you are a stranger that find her interesting and want to make some connection. If you won't find common vibe in next few phrases, you can just smoothly go with "Ok, not bothering you anymore, have a nice day" and forget about it.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:10 AM
1

Well, maybe she was not aware that she is making herself vulgar and rude. Not that much time passed since "N" word became such an offense towards black-skinned people.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:05 AM
1

If you handle rejection like a pro, girls seems to really like that. I guess you can now do whatever your want, if you feel that you will not try to force things.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:00 AM
2

That's pretty good for you to have had such experience. It's often impossible to hold that idyllic relation for a long time anyways. Your taste will change with time, females are much more than appearance and character (?).
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:57 AM
1

Hard to imagine this situation, you can make more parallel thrusts or take her legs onto your shoulders if she is stretched enough. Missionary is pretty vanilla, some girls don't like it that much, try doggy or smth. You will be hard if the girl is wet and tight.
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:31 AM
2

Who knows, you could reply with "Will he come as your personal chaperone to watch if everything goes appropriately?" Probably she was playing with you, you can play along if it is not against your dignity.
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:20 AM
1

If you are moving gradually and stay natural with your progress, she will give you a subtle/delicate sign if things are going too fast. Then you can back away and she can make her own moves if she feels comfortable with that. If you don't like the pace which it is going, you can always seek for another girl. Common dynamics in a relationship are really important.
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:08 AM
1

If you know nothing, you should make plenty of your own studies before approaching for detailed conversation. I guarantee you there is more than enough theory material to learn really crucial info about picking up women easily available throughout internet.
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:03 AM
2

I guess you looked too thirsty and intrusive which could turn her off. You should keep it cool and casual next time till the very end, but still be respectful to yourself. Or maybe she was playing some silly games or had some real issues so it is good that it ended that way anyways.
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:59 AM
0

Of course three of them are really important, I guess the ladder often depends on the age of your prey: looks for young female, social status for grown-up female, money for "experienced" female.
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:55 AM
1

Gentle sliding touch, kissing different parts of her face, strong grip, firm touch non-sexual parts, kissing with slight biting, slightly pulling up her clothes, "accidently" sliding on her sexual parts, gentle sexual petting, more intense rubbing, getting rough with touching/moving her, blah blah blah... Mix it up, be creative and teasing.
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:33 AM
3

Asking is not good, but a kiss may happen if the mood is very good.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:04 PM
2

You should play back and forth with the tension, but make gradual progress overall. There are plenty of bases from kiss to sex.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:30 AM
1

Well, many top quality girls look for top quality males. You should become really extraordinary in some masculine aspects, let it be leadership, money, job career, appearance, competition successes, unique skills etc.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:27 AM
1

That's true. Girls are much more connected to so called "social mind", they usually don't like to stand out or take risks. Well, at least she should be open to new experiences and new knowledge, it's nothing worse for vital male than to be hooked with a female that only thinks about work, eating and household activities.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:22 AM
1

And why you can't find a way to reach to her somehow?
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:13 AM
1

There are plenty of pretty girls out there, you should just not focus on particular cases, not get emotionally engaged. Keep on improving your masculine features, shift to proper mindset and take your chances.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:07 AM
6

Not caring much about the result, but more for the process and experience itself. Silence a bit that shadow self that is judging and evaluating your choices.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:56 AM
0

Don't know about PUA bootcamp's philosophy, but I guess it should be more about changing your mindset about women's nature and shatter your false image about approaching. Still you need to find your opportunities and take your chances by yourself.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:40 AM
4

Maybe he thinks that it is the right way to do and he likes it that way. If you are cool with each other, you can straight tell him to "grab your face and start making out".
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:36 AM
1

Probably you will chill a bit and then get hot. Go with the flow and relax.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:34 AM
1

Check out what interesting is going on in your town. Maybe join some hobby club?Maybe some qualifications course? Maybe some social trip? Maybe some short-time job? You can use internet to get some first contact. Besides, it is possible to find your partner while clubbing if you click with your characters and future plans.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:14 PM
3

That means force fixing your way at this moment may be tough or even make things worse for you. Giving it a little time, maybe she will reach out first, or emotions will get down to a point when you will be able to start over naturally.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:07 PM
2

You need to get familiar in real life. Get some privacy and intimacy going, and touch her casually. Good way is to invite her for doing something new for both of you, where you can get touchy and need to cooperate.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:54 AM
4

Most people find their partners around their social environment. Get yourself involved in as many social situations as possible to crack your ice of socialising. But before, I suggest you to get some info from professional pickup artists to set a proper mindset for your approaches.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:50 AM
1

Reserve thinking for pleasant and valuable matters. As a man, you should be upgrading your value, doing your thing and learning from mistakes. Girls are different creatures, logical thinking may not get you to your destination here.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:34 AM
1

Well, maybe you blew it, maybe she was not into making out anyway. Next time don't ask for permission, just go with touch gradually from the beginning and watch her reactions.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:27 AM
1

Pretty much that's how it is, but you need to pay attention to the exact circumstances when she is starting to make you wait. If it is some crucial moment of your relation or time for evaluation what the two of you can become and she is not responding - pretty much you are on different poles in that case.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:22 AM
1

It's mostly about non-verbal communication and escalating touch. But I guess you miss a lot of theory and experience in that, so I suggest you just need to get some information and practice before you can get any answers here.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:17 AM
1

Sometimes it may get to some awkward or even unplesant situations, but that is rarely the case from my experience. This rule is definitely not some fundamental law.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:14 AM
6

Well, you should dress-up like no one else, but still smart and cool. You should be non-conformist more often. Find your own specific behaviour and catchy phrases. Stop being clingy to anyone.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:12 AM
2

So just learn to smoothly set up a quick date. It is not that hard, you just need to practice to learn how to be playful and attractive through texting. Get to know what works and what is not.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:02 AM
2

Any place that resonates with good vibes. Where girls are enjoying themselves or doing their passion. For most people, they are finding their partners through mutual friends or at parties.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:59 AM
3

Well, there maybe was something about your behaviour that didn't click with her, or she had some other mind objections that she couldn't speak about directly. Anyways, you didn't act clingy, you gave up on pursuing lost case, managed to keep cool, I would not ever consider this as "loss".
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:49 AM
8

Well, she may be thinking that your only goal is to get to her panties, as you are mostly mentioning going to your place. It is not a good way to logically persuade girl to get in bed with you. Sometimes it is better to leave things just as they are and not hit the wall with your head over and over.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:46 AM
1

If any, you pulled too much. Such transaction as buying her a ticket for date with you may be a real turnoff if presented in improper circumstances. She should want this date before you ask her, she is meant to fall in love with you as a male, not as provider, it's not about winning her over.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:37 AM
1

Most likely you miss many points for your physical appearance and hard masculine features like confidence, intelligence, strength, leadership, aggressiveness etc. Also, how about your touch escalation, are you leading your conversations and actions towards breaking your physical barriers? I suggest you to read some materials from professional pickup artists, you need to change your mindset.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:28 AM
2

Turn on the mindset that you will have fun regardless of the events that will happen there. Make some casual short chit-chat, be open to games and drinking, stay relaxed.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:21 AM
3

Well, it just should be effortless for you. If you are trying hard or asking for some magical phrases to turn the tables of girls' emotions, you are already lost. Whole interaction should naturally come out of your high-value male personality.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:18 AM
3

You should go straight for touching after brief exchange of some flirty words. If you want to make some meaningful conversation, take them to the bar or outside.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:12 AM
1

I think that these kind of men are just more corresponding with highly emotional world of women. Many women are attracted to a relation when they are constantly fed with strong emotions, and they find their place in such dynamic and emotional rollercoaster. This image of a good girl being in a tough relation with strong, aggressive male is something that fulfill their soul.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:10 AM
8

It is a common story that you are going through similar situations with your consecutive life partners, which means that there may be something incorrect about your choice patterns or some permanent sabotaging trait of yours. Rejection should be something that surprises you and not bother after some time, not slow agonizing death of your emotions. Listen more to your intuition and pay attention to emotions.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:02 AM
1

Well, decent looking girl with social character can have really rich history of hookups without making much effort. It is rarely talked about, but that's how it is. In my opinion it's better to be that way in comparison to someone that is extremely shy, awkward or impotent. Just be yourself and make your play regardless of her experience, that shouldn't mean much for you. Maybe she was giving you a hint by saying this, it is not considered normal to talk about your sexual experiences on first da…
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:52 AM
1

If you feel sexual tension is on the board, "meeting as friends" can end up in passionate sex. No need to be mean for girls, they are different. But your vibe has probably dropped to at least awkward, I guess it's better to let it go its own way.
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:45 AM
3

It is possible that she feels making a contact with you can make her nervous or embarassed. Why would you care, you should make all your approaches casual, it will turn out rather quickly if she is interested or not.
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:38 AM
1

She was probably drunk af, and got the courage to make some contact with you. Why overthink this, you can always make some casual talk to further check the ground.
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:35 AM
3

Firstly you need to change your mindset and expand your hard masculine features. Read tons of information about pickup, work on your character, cut off cheap pornography drug. Then take care of your hygiene/clothes/hair, implement some workout routine and get busy with your passion. No reason to desperately throw yourself on deep water when you don't know how to swim and have a weak body.
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:26 AM
2

It's not a big deal, but you should have cut off her right after your breakup, especially if she messed up with your head.
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:19 AM
2

This is mainly what society is expecting from us, get proper qualifications and get busy with earning money. Women usually just care a lot more of keeping such social appearance. But yeah, their sexual game is totally different than men's, but still as the human being they are seeking more meaning, more pleasure, new challenges, new experiences etc.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:24 AM
1

What about your moves? Sometimes it may look like she is not interested in a way you think, but sometimes she may just be confused about your passiveness and give up or even get little mad.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:20 AM
1

Yeah, girls are turned on by clear sign of power, strength, intelligence. Merciless nature and moderate indecency are waking up their hormones like crazy.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:06 AM
1

No need to make a marriage confession out of a blue, you should just make little steps to deepen your connection and intimacy and see if he is eager to cooperate. Remember to implement some touching, because that is the ultimate target, right?
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:59 AM
1

Of course she wants it to happen naturally and smoothly, but there is not much you can do to deepen your intimacy in these circumstances. You can try also to give her back some deep look and slight touch, but overall you should think of some situation where you will be able to talk privately 1 on 1.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:54 AM
1

It's some strongly borderline behaviour, very bad indicator for a relationship in the future.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:48 AM
6

Well, you of course need to stand out from others. Being original and playful, but also simple. You need to have a pretty solid background too, she will surely check you up thoroughly if you manage to catch her attention a little. Rest is mainly practice, establishing some connection, building mutual attraction, blah blah blah...
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:26 PM
2

Waiting just should serve a purpose to get some more emotions going and increase your value/attraction level. If you feel that you clicked up well and there is much room for making further escalation, there is no reason to wait. Just do it naturally and casually of course, keep the tension and move slightly your borders.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:36 AM
4

Nightclubs, friend parties, vacation trips are the most fruitful from my experience.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:29 AM
1

I guess you may feel like a person that makes sex sacred or too reserved as it comes to intimacy and touch. Place too much value on traditional values, etc. Try to turn more into a direction of naturalistic alpha male with sexual desires and hard masculine features. If you feel unattractive, try hitting the gym or simple working out, take care of your clothes and hairstyle, upgrade your hygiene routine etc.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:12 AM
2

Well, if you want to do something about it, then I guess you have no reason to wait. Naturally, but gradually. It should be fine for her and her family, unless you put her into some awkward situation. Give her some space to make her moves.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:04 AM
1

As people are saying, things may get awkward as you are constantly getting pretty girls as clients, she is not expecting to get picked up there and you put her by the wall if you just straight hit on her during a ride. I guess if you really look for your chance there, you can casually talk with her to check if she is interested in you, then at the end you can ask to get some contact to innocently hang out.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:46 AM
2

One time my friend casually talked to her about some petty things, then simply asked at which hour she finishes her job and that he will pick her up then. She agreed, so I guess that's one way to go.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:32 AM
4

Many people have practiced talking in front of the mirror or recording themselves to good results.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:27 AM
3

Well, I think you should make your approaches and overall social contacts more casual. In the end, you want the girl to chase and make an effort for you, no reason to try hard and get serious about her opinion of the moment. Sometimes you are somewhat self-sabotaging yourself, because you should look more into other aspects of your life and yourself, but you tunnel-focused into a bad gateway. Take care of your health, take care of your physical fitness, take care of your hygiene, take care of yo…
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:04 AM
2

I guess his statement basically meant that he is not down to get into any FWB pact as he prefers to go for true relationship. It was a One Night Stand for him, that's what he has said anyway. It doesn't mean that a situation won't change, but as for now he is not eager for pushing your relation in any direction and you should not either. Sometimes it is the best to leave it just as it is.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:27 AM
2

I guess by being too interested in her affairs for no reason, too many questions, too much engangement for a stranger, prolonging conversation. Overall by trying too hard.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:19 PM
2

Fish's tail instead of pussy.
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:24 AM
1

Well, that's similar to the situation when you ask her when you will go on your first date. You should make an impression that you know exactly what you are doing, and don't give her a flirting baton in the crucial moments :)
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:21 AM
2

Probably you just give them too much attention, you are nice for no reason and place too much value on them without any foundation. Try to fix your attitude towards being more casual, sincere, teasing, mysterious.
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:07 AM
3

"Hey, it is really nice talking to you, but I need to go now. Give me some contact to you, we can hang out sometime. I'll give you a call when I get done with my stuff".
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:54 AM
1

Touch.
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:59 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:58 AM
1

Yeah, that may be some green light for you, girls often implement such subtle, innocent signs into your relation. However, it is up to you to show that you can lead your relation smoothly and naturally, she has not commited to anything. You need to show that male energy to get things going, give some proof that you are the man that she wants.
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:32 AM
1

I think you place too much value on such relations, sometimes you just don't need anybody around, especially got in such forceful way. I guess you should firstly take care of your own physical and mental health. You don't need anyone to validate your value except yourself.
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:13 AM
1

Some girls often come up with a shit like that to look better in the eyes of her friends, if your gossip would potentially hurt her. Don't worry, you wouldn't be convicted, but still you should be careful, girls can be nasty.
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:08 AM
18

Women often prepare some so called "shit test" to check if you have some value code and character or you will be nice and pleasant to her in any case, just to potentially get pussy in the end.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:42 PM
1

Well, at least you now know that they don't necessarily bite or spit poison :) It was not a hard objection from her imho, but what would you do next anyway, if she would say something that you couldn't treat as excuse?
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:40 PM
6

Probably she wasn't in a mood for some awkward talk about past times at that moment, I doubt it had to do anything with you personally.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:27 PM
1

Well, you should respect yourself and not seek validation of your value. Some girls are "created" for douchebags, some are created for models, some are created for gangsters, you should seek for your corresponding "target".
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:53 AM
4

Girls can be so cruel and rude if they won't like someone's approach, which is not an easy task if one has little experience with women. Most guys get their girls at some casual parties/life circumstances, not from straightforward pickup.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:46 AM
1

Sometimes you just get unlucky. That also boosts your confidence and thick skin in the long run. Take a lesson, adapt and good luck next time.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:31 AM
1

It relieves her of the pressure of her environment to have a partner providing financial security and status, which is a huge advantage. You get rid of this common objection. Still, you need to provide her with emotions and be attractive sexually and psychically.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:43 AM
35

Well, I can give you some general clues: - use different emotions when you are talking about something - talk about something interesting/funny/exciting - give up on some theoretical or complicated topics, talk about simple and relatable things - talk about what is going on right now, or recently - make conversation two-sided - challenge her to give her opinion or react to little tease
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:31 AM
0

It's that you have incorrect mindset about what women want, because of tons of bullocks that you have been hearing from your family, friends, television, school etc. There are different techniques/strategies for anyone, you just need to realize some facts about women's nature and you can be freely yourself :)
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:34 AM
1

Internet is full of very accurate advices on that topic. I can give you some general tips: - remember about long foreplay, insert your P when she will be all wet and begging - take care of every part of her body - don't forget to use your voice - be both gentle and rough - play with your touch - change the pace, be slow and fast - experiment with your techniques, look at her reactions - many girls like to be dominated by fierce male in bed - push/pull with giving her the pleasure
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:23 AM
2

Were you expecting of her to say yes though? Almost all stories that come like "I made the decision to finally ask her" end in sweet refusal. I think it is not proper approach, to fight for lost case. But at least you have some experience of it now. You were nervous and hesitant because you felt how it would turn out. It is better to ask her when all signs show that it is the right thing to do.
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:17 PM
1

Maybe it's too much of a cultural shock to them as it comes to casual talk? Try to feel and adapt more to their emotions, stay little more laidback and reserved in the beginning.
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:14 AM
1

Probably, just stay natural and casual and gently push the context for some close relation to see how she is responding to that.
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:00 AM
2

Yes, you seem a bit like you want to just use her body to get pleasure without even getting to know her, make some connection or emotions. Which is not that bad in itself, but by making it obvious it can be a real turnoff.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:47 AM
7

Please realise that if you are really nervous about making a move on her, she will almost always decline your approach. You need to learn to read emotions and feel the vibe to set proper mindset.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:44 AM
2

I think "creepy" occurs when she is clearly not interested in getting to know you, but you still insist on having sloppy conversation.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:41 AM
1

We have an image implanted in our minds that man-woman relation is something sacred and meaningful. Most such relations are not. It has more to do with having fun and getting pleasure.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:15 AM
4

Well, you have very little real control of society's trends. You need to somehow adapt to it to achieve your goals. Tides are shifting already, but that is a slow process. People may have very different perspectives. The saddest thing is that most relations are very shallow or hurtful. But maybe that is supposed to work like that for the time being?
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:05 AM
2

Just set up a meeting and make the theory come true. Pointless messaging can kill your attraction vibe.
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:27 AM
2

Well, by leading a conversation for some time and not being intrusive/aggressive/demanding, giving her space to talk and not judge it, by valuing her time, emotions and words. And of course by making her laugh.
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:23 AM
2

Well, you should become more of an "ass" then, and that doesn't of course mean that you should become puppy killer. Girls like if the guy is somewhat cold, aggressive, mysterious, high valued etc. Don't give her an attention and favours "for free", you should leave her a space to pick you up, other way you are just a provider that she can have nothing to do with.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:33 AM
1

Apparently it was not a smooth transition from making out to having sex. Or she had some weird feelings after getting buzzed. Or your were too straightforward with your intentions. Or she was not expecting to get in bed with you in the first place. Anyways, your vibe most likely just died. Appreciate your experience and move on.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:29 AM
1

Asking for/Giving a number should be a natural way of things, you want to spend some more time together in the future because your initial connection was so fun and smooth. Ideally, you should make the girl chase you and make an effort to get you, but it's also fine to take the matters in your hands too, especially in the beginning.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:22 AM
2

Either they really have a boyfriend, or you just made a bold jump for pussy, without establishing some comfort, escalating attraction and intimacy, which made the vibe snap.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:19 AM
1

Well, don't overdose it and rise spiciness gradually. You need to check if the girl is corresponding with this and make space for her to make her flirty moves too. Anyway, I believe that escalating physical intimacy is more important, it connects you, break barriers, polarize your energies. Flirting without it is like passing theoretical exam in driving.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:16 AM
1

I think you went a little too straightforward with your intent, maybe you should step on a brake a little. She seems pretty attracted to you and craving on your characteristics, you just need to make things smooth and natural. Get some plesant emotions going and escalate physical intimacy and you are set up.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:11 AM
1

Yes, she was of course interested, just needed you to lead things in a smooth way. But I guess you can still make it work, sometimes it's just not the vibe to hookup despite comfortable circumstances.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:03 AM
7

They have watched too many soap operas instead of diving into real life.
/r/seduction22/03/22 05:54 AM
1

Many girls like fat and tasty food and wine. Also, she may not have visited such place yet, which can be also big plus for you. Also, if she agrees to drink with you, she is most likely down for deepening your intimate contact, don't drink too much though.
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:48 PM
1

You should be enjoying your approaches and have fun regardless of the attention of females. If you are radiating with positive and confident energy, girls are more eager to open up and validate you, so your approach and opener shall be smooth whatever it would be as she will be cooperating. If you approach unsure, scared, sad, you will be shut down before you open your mouth.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:54 AM
1

Both cold approach or dating apps are not suitable for many people. Try to meet some girls doing the things you like, look for common hobbys/topics, get invited to some social meetings by your friends, go on vacation and meet new people etc. And quit whining, it is not helping you in any way. It is not necessarily because of your appearance/character that you are not getting success. You need to find yourself in good circumstances and good vibe to attract women.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:46 AM
2

If you don't like some part of her behaviour, you should warn her about that. If she continues doing that, forget her and never look back.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:40 PM
2

One time she thinks she would like to have some male friend to give her attention and one time she thinks that your are pretty irrelevant. You need to progress in your intimacy and make some nice emotions to get connected.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:38 PM
6

That's how most non-verbal flirting goes in public places for girls. Innocent, unclear, excusable. Just stay casual and innocent with your contact, too.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:32 PM
5

"Oh, so you are doing everything together? Anyways, 'she' looks more reliable to me" Either he was douche for no reason, or he protected girls from seduction for him/his friends.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:30 PM
2

Read the signals if the person is interested in having a conversation. It's more of a skill, you need to rise your alertness and recognize emotions. Don't waste their time, get to the point. Read their emotional state to prolong or smoothly end the conversation. Feel the vibe if the person is eager for long/short talk or even to get approached.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:25 AM
5

Pretty good game. I also think that walking, visiting many places, not investing too much money, and focusing to get intimate is crucial for first date.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:50 AM
1

Ignore their beauty.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:43 AM
1

Well, definitely you should obtain an approval from her group. Dress nicely, keep proper posture, use proper voice. Don't make your pick-up longer than it should, especially if they have some plans. Try to not make other girls jealous, huge spotlight is fine only for short time. Don't pay much attention to them, but don't ignore them either.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:41 AM
3

I guess we will return to the roots of man-woman relations. Be among alpha males in your postapocalyptic group, own some nice shelter and be able to gather food rations.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:22 AM
0

Then get a bit more cold, arrogant, unapproachable. Don't please or give attention to women for free. Turn into more of a douchebag mode, but still give her some of your pleasant side.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:24 AM
1

By choosing the right partner and not engaging in their world too much for the cost of yours.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:19 AM
31

Smile, stay approachable, listen carefully, dress nice, be friendly, get closer to guy, find some time for 1 on 1 interaction. Your sense of humour may be your great attribute, just try not dominate the male too much and keep things chill.
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:01 PM
1

You should focus mainly on personal and sexual aspects of your relation, and use playful/emotional subjects. Don't get distracted with theoretical topics, get progressively to the point, which is your physical intimacy.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:12 AM
7

Waking up from a dream/fairly tale is not a pleasant experience for most people. However, you should find joy and acceptance in existing in "real" world, you will know what is the most important and you will hold no grudge for anyone.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:09 AM
3

Well, you are probably not on the highest demand ladder for these girls. I suggest to improve your social status, get popular or meet famous people, post some photos that present wealthy and interesting lifestyle and you should get more attention. However, are you sure that you want to attract such girls?
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:07 AM
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