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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	"You can't know what someone is like romantically if you're just friends with them!" - the most idiotic argument You can never truly know people until you live with them tbh. Being friends might make you avoid some red flags but some are impossible to detect outside of a relationship. I also know way too many people who are great friends but terrible partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 12:48 PM
–	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Which bullshit ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:47 AM
3	Men of Reddit, do you think a man should have an opinion of how his wife is dressed? I have dressed slutty, I have dressed modestly. It changed the type of men who approached but not the amount.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 02:43 AM
3	Women's insecurities are considered "cute" and endearing, but men's insecurities are called toxic. Exactly !See also the obsession with the toxic latina trope	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 03:00 PM
1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' It’s for pay, you're not supposed to enjoy it, it’s a job so it doesn’t matter. I don’t need to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:16 PM
0	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Then why are you even here spewing hate on random women who are not your issue to deal with instead of showering the good one that you have at home with love ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 08:50 PM
0	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Then don’t pursue those women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 08:33 PM
2	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Men are seen as rational people and onmy get dismissed for sexual stuff. My mother, like most mothers was very rarely wrong on this. Wise doctors know to listen to them as they know their kids patterns very well. They even teach it in medschool now. So we agree. Those privileges are only the privileges of a select few women. Not the average woman. The average woman is 35+ and slightly overweight. I'm not complaining about losing privilege. I'm pointing out you are focusing on a minority of women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 07:20 PM
3	Women's insecurities are considered "cute" and endearing, but men's insecurities are called toxic. It is toxic. But women don’t exactly like stoic men. They like a toxic men who will be so in love with them that he'll open up. That’s a foolish fantasy. That being said, men love rage baiting women	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 07:00 PM
0	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' By older I mean 35+. The age where you are no longer hot but not a grandma. Now that they’re no longer hot, every request is seen as nagging and neurotic. Ex No one would listen to my mother when she said she felt my sickness was worse than a flu as a kid. Well turns out that it was some rare disease that I coumd have died off had she not insisted. And yet when my dad voices a concern, people first investigate then dismiss or validate his concerns based on what’s actually happening. Women become…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:50 PM
-1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Nope older women are constantly disrespected. Young black women absolutely do not get treated better than average men so there is no way they are treated better than them when they reach old age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:30 PM
4	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? She is also conflating likes and attraction. I need reasons to like a dude. I do not need reasons to find someone attractive. It’s just unwise to fuck someone you don’t like just because they’re attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:32 PM
3	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? If it were the case, we wouldn’t have this thread. Men are lonely pecisely because women also prioritize attraction now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:29 PM
-1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? It was. Just having a job used to be enough. Now good women also require good behavior and most men are incapable of it. As for the bad women who think theyvare priceless, why even focus on them ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:24 PM
1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Don’t know what to tell you quite frankly. I live in a country where you need equal amount of time worked to get your retirement. Our draft is gender neutral. The men are still unhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:15 PM
0	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? It should have never been this "cheap" to have a good woman. We saw how they were treated and acted accordingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:12 PM
3	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Hell no. That was true for our mothers and grandmas not this generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:10 PM
2	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 02:58 PM
-2	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' There is no comparision though. Those laws were made with the idea in mind that women bear and take care of children. Now they don’t. But for the longest time, they did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 02:39 PM
-1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Having a man around is one more thing to be afraid of	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 02:15 PM
0	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? That’s not useful in daily life	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:57 PM
1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? What should we value ? Your kind souls ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:51 PM
3	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Well, ideally men should engage with women the way they need and vice versa. I see way more women willing to go to their partners sporting events for example than men actively listening to their partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:50 PM
8	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? You're conflating liking and feeling attraction. Those are different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:45 PM
0	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' On the women side, it’s not. It’s just as repulsive to get fucked by a dude you are not attracted to. Obviously, the dude would get groomed and cleaned first. Just like women who get into prostitution get themselves pretty they don’t get fucked out of street usually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:44 PM
1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' At this point, I think men will simp for any body type and any age. Quite pathetic tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:14 PM
0	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' And yet they still pay gay prostitutes. Male pornstars are also highly sought after. It is the same though, you need to fuck someone you're not attracted to in exchange of money. There is alsso market within the old ladies demographic. Right now they have to go the Dominican Republic or Africa to sooth their desires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:13 PM
-4	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' That’s a recent occurence. The law was put way before they didn’t I'm assuming ? And it doesn’t change the fact a society with 10 women for 3 men is way less fucked demographically speaking than one with very few women.Look how China is panicking as opposed to Senegal. They can. But do they ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:10 PM
1	Ladies, "Formal connection" is just code for using sex as a bargaining chip, and it's a total passion killer. People tolerate a lot of things they would not admit in front of their friends when the partner is hot enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:04 PM
2	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Isn’t she postwall and uninteresting for OF now ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:33 PM
-1	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Well we can turn this around and ask why homeless men won’t prostitute themselves ? Lot of gay men are willing to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:25 PM
-7	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' Most of these are caused by biology though. Women are exempt so they can pop out more men to draft. That age is 60 because they stop working to pop out kids/take care of grandkids. Because women misbehave way less in prison to begin with due to less testetorone induced behaviors. Women can’t carry as much as they have weaker body strenght. The food thing is weird tho. Would make more sense to swap it. The loud thing is also weird. That’s to make sure women feed their kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:20 PM
-4	What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?' That’s only true if you're young, hot and white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:13 PM
1	If you could run one rigorous study on modern dating/gender conflict, what would you test and what do you predict? I think there is a lot of overlap between the 3. I think for example many men now are back to 1 because they were at some point believing 2 and 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:06 PM
7	Women's insecurities are considered "cute" and endearing, but men's insecurities are called toxic. Because contrary to red pill beliefs, liking toxicity is in fact a male tendancy. Men feed off of women emotions and do not like stoic women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:53 AM
3	Women's insecurities are considered "cute" and endearing, but men's insecurities are called toxic. No, my partner likes possessive women and does not like the fact that I find it funny when women hit on him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:51 AM
5	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? He is here daily, spewing hate. That’s barely functioning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:45 AM
6	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Then be super handsome	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:38 AM
12	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? This is true. Most men agree to some degree with the red pill which is why many switch up on women when they believe they have leverage in the relationship. Which is why not entertaining men is the best option for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:37 AM
2	We should try to convince women to appreciate non-financial value in male partners. The idea behind the example is false. It’s based on an over simplified view of economics. Women did not double the job market. The amount of jobs has increased way more than double over the past decades.Also, it’s not only women who have joined the market but people of color and immigrants. The idea suggests that women should let men have the well paid jobs for the greater good which is quite frankly silly.Would you argue that black men should go back to doing mennial work exclusively since it c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 07:28 PM
9	We should try to convince women to appreciate non-financial value in male partners. Women have always worked for a pay. Being at home doing only house chores was the privilege of rich women. Washers, cleaners, nurses, governesses, weavers, midwives, waitresses, receptionists, etc were all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 05:55 PM
4	🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀 Do you share your views with women irl ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 06:11 PM
2	Why do we have a generation of "weak" men? How does that stop you from improving ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 12:14 PM
4	Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market? I' m a black lady who's been in Korea. Yes they hit on everyone. Because they want sex. What they say means nothing if it’s not followed through with tangible actions. Usually there aren’t. And casual sex is worthless to most women as it usually doesn’t feel good. I would also say that being skinny, long legged with the X body shape makes the race thing quite irrelevant. If your friend looks like that, she'll be seen as way above average in most countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 11:47 AM
1	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. Since it has happened to you, you understand why giving a false excuse like "I have a boyfriend" is the easy way out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 10:40 AM
6	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. The problem is not violence but annoying assistance. The truth is women shouldn’t even have to explain xhy. No is enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 08:32 PM
–	Why do men think there are so many good men A good friend/coworker/father/whatever is not necessarly a good partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 07:54 PM
5	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. We don’t care about that. We want the interaction to end quickly. Wether men deem it respectable is irrelevant. No should be enough. But for some reason it isn’t for a lot if men. Hence the lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 07:49 PM
9	The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back. The truth is "No" is a full sentence but too many men won’t accept it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 07:47 PM
4	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children As it should be considering it all happens in her womb only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 04:08 PM
12	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children A woman who abandons her child is no longer that child’s legal parent. If she wants a relationship with that kid again she will have to ask to the legal parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 01:15 PM
1	Age gaps can have a power imbalance that favours the younger person The only time where that may be true is when the wife is like 28 with a job and the dude is 60 and not that rich. That’s when he is acutely aware he is not getting a young woman anytime soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 05:31 PM
10	Women logically are the cause of most dating problems First off, this comparision makes no sense as it’s way easier to be good at sex than winning the lottery. Being good at sex is a skill which can be developped. Secondly, it doesn’t change the fact it’s a false dichotomy. It’s very telling you ignored the rest of my comment.Most men are neither nice nor good in bed. So might as well get the mean one that’s good in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:29 PM
0	Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations? People on this sub are on the spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 10:01 AM
2	Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations? Im not old yet I remember how old media was full of women wanting relationships and men priritizing casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 09:56 AM
26	Women logically are the cause of most dating problems You are creating a dichotomy which doesn’t exist. A man can be a good guy and exciting. A man can suck in bed and not be a good guy. The way I see it most men are not that pleasant to be around as woman so might as well pick the hot one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 09:35 AM
1	Where do women want to be hit on? By on the spectrum I mean "do they have a hard time with indirect communication and struggle in high context setting?" Because quite frankly, in popular media, women are also fed the "love conquers all, looks don’t matter, health at every size" bs but we noticed that somehow the people involved are always hot and women immensely invest their money into their beauty despite all of that talk. By the same token, men all claim they want kindness and submission in a girl but you can get away with any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:48 PM
3	Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually Said Men do this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 01:03 AM
3	Where do women want to be hit on? Then the solution is to recreate venues. I think women like warm approaches more. No need to become friends or whatever. But seems like we need to organize more dinner parties and whatnot. For the rest, I cannot speak for other women but I have tried to ask out men before. It ended up being a turn off. They all said yes tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 07:27 PM
3	Where do women want to be hit on? Are men on the spectrum ? This is a genuine on question. Because to me it’s quite obvious that most social conventions are just that conventions. So asking an exact guidebook that will work all the time is quite useless. Beside taking a "no" as it is there is no rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 05:02 PM
1	Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left single Well tends to be true even if the guy is higher value. For some reason once committed men will not leave relationships. They’d rather cheat/be abusive/tolerate abuse but they really don’t want to go back on the market. When the woman wants to leave they always start to cave in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 11:37 AM
1	Men either have to accept the major advantages women have over them in a relationship or be left single I'd say most men cannot pull dread game. Most women can leave and not be alone. So the guy needs to be outstanding for this to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 11:30 AM
5	Where do women want to be hit on? I guess unless I'm ovulating, the answer is just don’t do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 11:07 AM
12	Where do women want to be hit on? Some women are just not open to dating and you need to make your peace with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 10:56 AM
–	What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"? They don’t evdn want us to remove ourselves from thr dating pool. They want us to take a man who is slightly better than the one before and worship the ground he walks on	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:46 AM
–	Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questioned How do they treat them ? Getting sex is not what women value as it is easy to get since men will fuck anything. Do they get the special treatment most women expect from romantic partners ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:41 AM
–	Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questioned This is not true. Early 2000's was all about abmnormally skinny and 2010 was about the Kim K body. Also men just underestimate the effort looking "next door cute" requires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:37 AM
–	Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questioned The issue with dating apps is that everything that could compensate looks can not be showcased on them. Get off dating apps, and try to organize events where people can meet in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:15 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Same treatment ? I do not know what you mean by same treatment as women don’t expect to be treated like men while dating. Your whole paragraph relies on the premice that finding someone is inherently good...and to women it’s not. Finding a woman is harder for men. But being in relationship with men is tiresome and a net negative...so to us it’s okay if it’s impossible as it worse thzn being with someone we don’t like. Women used to alter their attraction and still do though but men are unhappy a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:37 AM
2	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Oh Im not denying the advantage Im saying it’s blown out of proportion	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:53 AM
2	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology I empathize with this as I have been the fiancé shoes before. Told a bf of mine to do "whatever he wanted" over a specific issue and I simply did not like what he wanted Sometimes you want the person to act a certain way but you want it to come from him not because you tell him to. Some choice reveal a deep incompatibility. Where we fuck up though is that we should just break up when that happens or call it out. In hindsight I had been out of the relationship ever since that day. I agree I don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:51 AM
0	Most High Value Men will cheat, and if your Husband doesnt cheat, hes most likely not High Value, and u claiming he is doesnt change the fact that he isnt. I agree. That’s why I don’t feel guilty cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:34 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology I see too much focus on lenght and I think this comes from porn. When i talk about it with my friends we all prefer thickness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:32 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology I think it’s just the way men go about it more than the thing itself. Basically men àd women do what they would like the other gender do. Men would prefer if men simply avoided dating unttractive old women without commenting on it. Because they’re used to indirect communication and will get the clue if dudes mostly date young women. Which is why despite the fat acceptance movement most women use beauty enhencing products and trwould prefer to be thin. But men would prefer women to straight up s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:27 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology I was merely challenging the "women only need to deal with men leaving the toilet sit up". As for the deflection thing, women quickly learn that women who have too much of that trait should simply be avoided. But y’all judge us for cutting people of. You don’t argue or reason with people who refuse to be reasonable. The trick is to figure out if she is unreasonable before comitting too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:21 AM
1	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace It would be easier for men if you take away women’s rights in a monogamous, conservative society...With a gender ratio heavily favouring men. Polygamous societies shifted to monogamy because men actively rebelled against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:06 AM
5	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace Absolutely not. Especially with polygamy being legal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:50 AM
11	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace My point is that even if there is a backlash it won’t help men have better sexual prospects. Like, Afghan men are not drowning in pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:34 AM
2	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Women struggle with uncomfortable truth that men don’t like them that much but still want them around. At least, misandrist women are coherent and actually avoid men as much as possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:30 AM
3	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Yout comment illustrates Op's point. You eloquently explained why male behaviors are tied to biology but failing to realize female behaviors are also based in biology and just arbitrary and messy. The women imperative is not to be accessible, it’s to weed out. To find a delicate balance of someobe gentle enough that he will stay with you during the vulnerable time of pregnancy while strong enough to defend you. And he has to be attractive. A delicate balance that quite frankly, most guys don’t h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:27 AM
2	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology It does prevent women from getting the head over heels, super romantic behaviour that men give only to women they find super attractive. And this is what women value over your useless/pleasureless random sex encounters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:15 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Looking at this graph is that my theory is that when men complain about women, they are mostly talking about womé in their 20's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:12 AM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Men do not want to hear the truth from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:01 AM
10	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace That overturn didn’t do shit to improve men’s sexual prospect or improve birthrates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:52 PM
-2	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace We're enteringWWIII. Single lonely men issue is about to get solved the old fashioned way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:51 PM
1	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology All I have to say about this is lenght don’t matter that much if it’s not lower than average. 7 inch is inconvenient. Thickness tho, feels better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 02:32 PM
2	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology Your dad and bros should teach you this to be honest. It’s my mom and girlfriends who taught me how to flirt. Not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 02:21 PM
–	Policies/ideals/laws don't have to explicitly mention sex in order to be sexist What’s wrong with being single and childless ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 02:06 PM