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oh duh. yeah thanks for the explanation. I hope I can find a long-term FWB, I'm not fit for a relationship.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:07 PM
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Typically lasting a few weeks to months. There is no pressure to keep them going. Huh! So you basically have to keep finding new ones?
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:50 PM
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2 - you should expect a be with women on your level and you seem a bit down on yourself. How can you expect to be with someone who you value higher than yourself?? It's a recipe for disaster. Know your self worth and act accordingly.. This is excellent advice. If the top 10% of men get the top 10% of women that's basic math, not a reason to give up. If OP is top 20%, he has the potential to get a top 20% woman, plus or minus, and be very happy with who he finds.
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:35 PM
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At least you know the problem isn't the photo quality! Maybe a new photoshoot with some more active shots would help.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:26 PM
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Just online? Not sure what exactly you want from this since I think I'd only want that kind of thing in person. Is it something you can't find in person / need to keep more secret? My suggestion would be online dating apps local to you, or r/r4r with enough description of what you want that doesn't break their posting rules.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:09 PM
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I mean for a one night stand, sure. For a relationship you gotta let it build. I have a job and I can get very busy. I've never had a conversation with a guy where I always responded within 24 hrs, unless the whole convo from hi to bye was done in a day.
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:02 AM
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Can you say more about 4? Any specific examples or stories? I'm unsure what "confused" looks like, vs me just being clueless and insecure/disbelieving that someone could like me.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:09 PM
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What is oneitis?
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:29 PM
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opportunistic great word, that and "jaded" -- thanks for the feedback, it makes a lot of sense.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:38 PM
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Hm, you make a really good point. How should I find guys, then? I do meet people in person but I don't like going to bars. And it's the same deal that if I approach a guy they expect sex or something when I want to keep it more casual first.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:36 PM
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A lot of rejection, being ghosted,indifference, feeling invisible and never good enough. That feeling of hitting the gym in the morning, fresh haircut, clean clothes with car washed, then you're met with total disinterest for 45 minutes on a date. A lot of this is familiar. I get a lot of "matches" in online platforms, then they don't send a message or send something very low effort, and I respond and they don't respond back or they unmatch or we talk for a bit and they stop responding or they b…
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:18 PM
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and all from guys 10+ yrs older than you...
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:03 PM
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social dance events. what kind of dancing do you do? or does it work with all kinds?
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:54 PM
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ah! so it's a sign she wants to make a good impression
/r/seduction03/04/22 10:43 PM
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while standing up she crossed her legs…. All good signs can you explain this more?
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:59 PM
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How far away was she? Could be she literally didn't see you, her phone buzzed, and she was just passing time.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:42 PM
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what a boss answer
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:47 PM
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lol it's not the words he used but that he asked using his gorgeous lips while looking at them with his dreamy eyes
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:52 PM
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How much? That sounds like it could work.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:53 PM
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Rookie mistake -- you don't give enough details so I'm going to assume you break eye contact when you pull of your shirt, and lose dominance. Gotta just shred it with your muscles when you flex instead of getting it caught over your ears. Very tight button-downs can be good for this. You'll get 'em next time, tiger.
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:38 PM
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I can get 30-50 matches with a boost I'm curious - what happens then to these matches? How many have a conversation, how many lead to more? And what setting were your pictures taken in? Like if your profile is outdoorsy then a bar isn't gonna highlight that.
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:32 PM
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