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| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.No one said it was impossible, just very unlikely. And if you value genuine physical attraction, it's even more less likely. We already know men can buy attention and intimacy at any age so if you don't mind being with someone who's only with you for resources and not because they truly desire you, then have at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.I knew a gorgeous girl back in high school who was 23 and married a 32 year old guy. They are still married to this day. Wow one whole girl?? I think that's what we would call an outlier, mate Yes I have been on dating apps (in a major city) and attractive women have the pick of the litter. There are very hot 20-something men with their own places, budding careers, and that are still young enough to have an ample social life. Why on earth would a young women pick an older guy over that for casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.But I'm really not though... I know you reallyyyy want to believe it, so that the future doesnt look incredible bleak to men who have had a bad time dating in their 20s but... you're just setting you and them up for massive disappointment. The reality is the vast majority of young women do not want to date men way older than them. Especially the attractive ones. When younger women say hot older guy, they're talking about men max 30. Never in my life have a seen them pine over a 40 year old lmao.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.Sureee you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.Lol delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 22 | Q4W: Female sexuality: do you need to get off?And it decreases if he doesn’t. If he continuously fails to make me cum I lose all attraction to him and start finding him repulsive. Sameeeeeeee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | The more physically attractive a woman is the more shallow she’ll be in her mating choicesno your funny personality or your hobbies won’t interest her. This sounds like your talking about the 'mean hot girl' from a movie and not attractive women who are also human and value different things lol... I'm confused why they wouldnt want a partner who's interesting? Especially considering that when you're a hot girl, you have the pick of the litter in dating. How else would she sift through suitors? Just pick the hottest- the end? Youll quickly realize after being around plenty of "hot" pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?Yeah I could see that. Two different life stages - different needs/wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 13 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?I've never dated a single father but I'm not opposed to it. If anything seeing a guy being a devoted, loving father would potentially be a plus for me because a man that's kind hearted and good with kids/animals/elderly is pretty appealing. I don't want children personally but I dont hate them and I think it's weird when people do by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What should an RP dad tell his daughter about sex and relationships with men?I'm praying to the lord up above that he's trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceNot seeing how waiting equates to not caring about it at all. In my experience the guys who gladly waited actually prioritize it more because they don't treat it as some commodity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceHigh-Value Men won't wait 3 months or 6 months to have sex I know you want to believe this sooo bad but many amazing men have and will continue to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Hahaha women are dumb crazy bitches!!!both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?Basically, FDS are fugly women trying to LARP as hot ones. Kind of like how TRP are betas trying to role play chads There's hot people in both subs obviously. Delusional to think not considering how many people are in them but ya I doubt they make up the majority, as hot people don't make up the majority in general. I'm sure it makes you feel better to think they're all ugly though. and lol a strategy doesn't have to be manipulative but even if it is something that's slightly leaning towards the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?Different problems dude. Guys have a hard time securing dates in general, women have a hard time sifting through the guys who just want to fuck/plate/whatever. "Also, how much of a low value train wreck of a woman do you have to be to have a strong online presence on such a site?" That just sounds like you spend all day on reddit. A lot of people just pop in here and there to read posts/comment then carry on with their actual lives. crazy right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Why don't FDS users realize that 90%+ of their "70,000 subscribers" are non-FDS people who are fascinated watching the trainwreck?you don't think that someone who is attractive and has many suitors wouldn't maybe need some sort of "strategy" to sift through the lame dick/pussy being constantly thrown at them to find people who are genuinely interested in them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:32 PM |
| 11 | Hahaha women are dumb crazy bitches!!!You realize this tweet doesn't necessarily mean a lack of options. It most likely means she can't find anyone SHE wants, which could be the complete opposite of what you consider a "decent" boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Hahaha women are dumb crazy bitches!!!not really. "Tinder thots" find decent boyfriends literally all the time lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | PPD Purge Picture Threadthank you! and don't be, i'm sure you're beautiful and lovely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Sysbm black men and swirler black women on social media are all toxic attention-seeking clownswow some people on social media are attention seeking??? ya don't say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women complain about their husbands/BFs going to strip clubs?Because I don't date thirsty losers. I don't care about the one off trips to the strip club, i've been to strip clubs a couple times in my life too. But if that's his idea of a "good time" then just no. My bf hasn't even been to one in his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | PPD Purge Picture Threadthanks :") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men pedos?I don't know but a guy I went on a date with casually mentioned that he has thought some of his students were hot. He teaches grade 7/8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | PPD Purge Picture Threaddon't down yourself. you're vvvv. pretty! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 5 | PPD Purge Picture ThreadI already have pictures on my profile but https://imgur.com/TVDN3tP Nice to see not everyone here is as ugly as their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man?lmao. I'd be a black "chad lite" probably. Not everyone's cup of tea but do mostly good for myself. Without the unwavering thirst of guys though, I wouldn't do as well as I do as a women unless I was gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 5 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenright. And as seen by the downvote of my comment, in a sub that's literally made for opposing ideas, half of you are just butt hurt and here to stroke your damaged egos. There's healthier ways, I promise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 11 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenFor the average person, male or female, I think dating gets harder every decade. How much harder depends on the person. If you are attractive in your 30s you can definitely date people in their mid 20s. This applies to women too, not just men. You see it less with women though because they typically just don't want to. Like I had an attractive 21 year old guy try to take me on dates and I just...couldn't lol. FWB maybe. Once 40s, 50s hit I think noticeable difficulty takes place, and this is whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:11 PM |
| 4 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenI'm not 30 yet but almost 29 and same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 8 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenShe's really not though. Her experience is not rare and when some of you refuse to see the other side of it, it almost confirms that you're just here to talk shit and make up stories about how soOo successful you are with the hotties. Yeah, okay lmao. Try going outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:02 PM |
| -1 | What acts do you count as sex?lol so aka you really have no idea. gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 08:36 PM |
| 0 | What acts do you count as sex?How do you know that.. they show resistance and you automatically assume high n count? Either way, that has not been my experience or observation. I've been in long term relationships my entire 20s and most definitely care. Women do care when they aren't interested in entertaining a guys weird hang ups especially when it's due to their own lack of success on the market and little to do with me. Like I'd personally have no problem with dating a guy who hasn't had much luck for whatever reason but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What acts do you count as sex?all I've gathered from that long-winded tactic is that those are relatively normal ways to feel out if someone's compatible with you in bunch of ways that matter for relationships, not just their n count. Everyone does this to an extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What acts do you count as sex?lol right.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | What acts do you count as sex?yeah unfortunately men have dug themselves a hole and now have made it a glaring red flag when they try to dig up dirt on n counts. High and Low count women know this. I've never been asked in my life but if it ever happens or if he tries to play the 'nice guy who's seww cool with casual sex, let's share our dirty deets" angle, i'd be like damn, I found a redditor in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 04:42 PM |
| 0 | What acts do you count as sex?lol this is so naive. kinda depends on what you consider a high n count, but pretty sure this way only allows you to pick up on extreme cases. Does nothing to help you with the women who live other wise normal lives but have swiped through tinder here and there through the years when they're bored/single. Most would probably fall into this category unless we're talking the 20-30+ numbers. And in the end it's all just speculation. I have a friend who was a virgin till her mid 20s but sucked mad d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Unless you are a minor celebrity, its overlol I second this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Since this is a debate sub, what are some common fallacies or poor arguments you see people on here making?And in general, do you think people here tend to be competent at participating in debates? Do you think when interacting with others it feels like a genuine insightful debate from which you actually learn and digest? No. I find that many can't look past their biases. Either blinded by their sexual frustrations or too burned from past experiences to be able to participate in an insightful debate. I think very few are here to actually entertain having their mind changed and are just more so lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 04:01 PM |
| 14 | Q4Women Why do so many women cockblock a guy when he’s talking to their friend?Didn't think I'd have to mention that it obviously isn't 100 percent of the time. Also "less attractive girls" can want to look out for their friends too... But also if the girl was that in to it and her friend is just being a wet blanket like OP has claimed, the friend stepping in during the convo really wouldn't be that much of a deterrent. Why would it be? Unless she's dragging her away in a headlock, if the "hot girl" decides to run off after being "interrupted by ugly friend", then she wasn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women Why do so many women cockblock a guy when he’s talking to their friend?gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 33 | Q4Women Why do so many women cockblock a guy when he’s talking to their friend?My friends and I have only done it when our friend is giving us "save me plz" eyes from over the dude's shoulder. Could also see girls doing it to look out for their friend and guide them away from a guy they think is just trying to weasel her out of the bar and end up a regret bang on her part. They know her better than you so, could just be looking out for her best interest. If it's alwaaays happening to you though, that might just be a you problem. Most of the time people are down to chit cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 61 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?I think these guys interact with women mostly at clubs and raves and the like, and hookup apps, so they meet a disproportionate number of women who are looking for hookups I think even that's a stretch. Based off what I see here, I don't think a lot interact with women in real life at all really. They've got all their info from echo chamber subreddits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 07:47 PM |
| 47 | Many Women's Dating Profiles are Missing the Point?Why do you think bad dating profiles is a gendered issue? Ask a female friend to see her tinder and you'll see 80% of guys profiles are so insanely bad it's almost odd that they don't realize it themselves. Or better yet, change the age preferences to 35+ and you'll either die from laughing or die from second hand embarrassment. Awkwardly zoomed in pictures, blurry webcam selfies from 2001, picture of just a dog, movie quotes from the fast and the furious. It's not really shocking to me that som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 11 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?unless you live in a rural ass town, where everyone works out in the sun all day, it's really not that rare. I meet both men and women in their early 30s that I'm shocked that they're not like 23-24 all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 21 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?lmaoo. I think this comment right here is a perfect example of why both young AND older women find it weird. Because many guys MAKE it weird..like "give you her prime years" as if we're talking about some show horse. The men who actively go for younger women almost always have some weird ass complexes. And 99% of them are not even successful at it so it's just cringe to see to be completely honest lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 11 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?how exactly do you know? Does everyone walk around with their ages written on their foreheads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 15 | What's the lamest shit you heard some guy say to you?"I don't normally like black girls but you're an exception ;) " Ya starting off by downing my race is always a great way to be blocked and ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Don't go for the women spending their "prime years" going for Alphas. Why is this so hard for guys to do?Dude you're coming off beyond neurotic. Even if you somehow landed a relationship, sounds like itd be hell to maintain. Just save everyone the trouble and don't date, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Don't go for the women spending their "prime years" going for Alphas. Why is this so hard for guys to do?I’m sorry that I represent the smart men that won’t date you. Lmaoo as if. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: Is it uncommon for men to date/hook up with younger (10+ years) women?It's not that common in my experience. I have a large social circle and almost never see it/hear about it. Also don't think people would make such a big deal of it when you do see it, if it was so common. I did recently see on reddit a 22f and 55m in a relationship but the 22f was morbidly obese. Does that still count because age>looks? Not sure.. but seems to be because online, all an anonymous guy has to post is " me 38m banged a 22f year old last night 😎" and all the guys start cheering in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 5 | [Q4RP] Why is the anger phase directed at 4 billion women?I would think that the reaction is to laugh at yourself for believing something so silly and easily disproved . "Lol I was so naive . How did i believe that? Did I not have eyes?" You'd think, huh? But that would mean doing some self-reflection and shouldering some of the responsibility, which a lot of people in general just won't do. In this case, putting the blame elsewhere is easier and hurts less. Everyone has been lied to about how the world works to some extent. Fucked over systematically,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 17 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?Ya .. is it it not a debate sub lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 09:53 PM |
| 10 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableNot necessarily. Guys getting cocky and thinking just because they were able to land you, they could do it again is definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: (Online dating) If a person lies to you and turns up much better looking than what's on their profile, would you walk away?So like used old pictures of themselves and have since become more attractive? Still very weird to misrepresent yourself on an dating profile... Defeats the purpose but ya I'm sure people would overlook "the lie" because they clearly found the person attractive enough to match in the first place, so it's just a pleasant surprise. My answer still stands though. If they have a legit reason why, that's one thing but otherwise people already displaying weird behaviors super early in dating is a deal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: (Online dating) If a person lies to you and turns up much better looking than what's on their profile, would you walk away?Wait so, lied as in used someone else's pictures but they turned out to be more attractive than the catfish? Uh yes .Walking away. How is that not extremely weird behavior regardless? Unless they have some legit ass reason why (which I cant even think of one) then no, I'm not interested in people who clearly have something mentally wrong with them despite how hot they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Men: do you find sexual rejection/disinterest to be an insult?That has not been my experience at all. More often than not the guys who have the most guts for some reason are some of the least attractive. And then there's online where anything goes. Old, fat, married, ugly - all will try it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 15 | Men: do you find sexual rejection/disinterest to be an insult?It’s very rare that a man will openly hit on women much more attractive than himself. So, so not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Why do older guys think younger girls are attracted to them?Lmao @ this entire comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 06:24 PM |
| 6 | "Money is to women what sex is to men""Masses of men" aka reddit. I have never encountered guys in real life that make suuuch a stink about paying for a date that you asked a girl out on. In my experience and other women I know, guys won't even leave a window open for an attempt to split or let you pay if you offer. Now I can only assume the guys who do all this complaining are either men who arent going out on dates with women they genuinely want to pursue (for example no man would say no to paying for the meal of a Victoria secret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 12 | [Q4W] When looking for a LTR/marriage material type of guy, is his N-count important?I doubt I would marry either extremes of the spectrum. Usually indicative of two lifestyles that dont match with mine. That being said, it's not that cut and dry. A guy could have a low n count but not for lack of trying. There's guys who have been with only 2 or 3 women but if they were attractive enough, would have jumped on the opportunity to have been with 200. 5, 10 or 20 doesnt reallly make that much of a difference to me. I'm more concerned with his behavior/actions, beliefs and treatment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 08:51 PM |
| 58 | I start to think that There is actually no recipe for relationships. It’s more a matter of luck, hazard and good timing than anything else.A lot of the people here have disorders, a multitude of mental illnesses and/or zero social life so yes, this notion is quite foreign to them. If you actually go outside and live your life, OPs point is pretty obvious and the closest thing to reality as opposed to the majority of "knowledge" spouted here lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | What are your physical deal breakers?Lol sure. For most people though, holding out for their standards typically won't risk leaving them alone for life and are actually obtainable so settling isnt an issue but best of luck to youuuuu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 3 | What are your physical deal breakers?But if you do anything to hide your flaws, it would still make you a hypocrite. That's not how attraction works. And what happens if you start dating a guy and he tells you he's been hiding his hairloss, assuming you didn't notice, do you just break up? Probably exactly the same thing that would happen if I found out any unfavorable thing about a new guy I just met - lose attraction and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | What are your physical deal breakers?If you have preferences for things you can't really obtain then that's just called self sabotage but you're free to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What are your physical deal breakers?If it turned out looking natural, then no not a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 7 | What are your physical deal breakers?I didn't say he can't. I'm all for people doing exactly what they want to do. What I said is I'm not attracted to it. Which isnt something that can be forced or negotiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | What are your physical deal breakers?obese or skinny fat shorter than me balding and trying fight it or hide it. If he has a 8/10 face and a good head shape, a shaved head can be fine. bad teeth bad skin (dry patches, white heads everywhere). If he has acne but is doing treatment that's potentially a soft dealbreaker very long or unkempt facial hair bad overall hygiene obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?Um if the last girl was more attractive than or a better catch than their new gf they most definitely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?No where did I allude to the fact that I'm unaware other adults abuse their authority and take advantage of students. And even if I had, that doesn't change the fact that the person I responded to sounds like a creep. But ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?Failing to see how this is relevant to my comment or changes anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?Lmao yeah because celebrities represent the general public. Delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?Shaming? Loll. I don't know you or what goes on in your head but I'm telling you what it appears like. If as an adult, you are looking at adolescents, people who are a couple years out of childhood, as fellow adults than I'm not sure what to tell you. In my opinion that's likely a sign of emotional and social immaturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?Because you sound like and are most likely a creep. I'm also sure parents would just be thrilled that an older authority figure is referring to their 16 year old daughters as "women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?Lol is this on earth or?? I'm a pretty observant person when I'm out and about and this is just not true where I live (a major city). The average man does not take care of himself and is losing hair, not wearing sunscreen and creasing up by his late 20s. Of course men can still be considered handsome 30-50 imo but if we're talking HOT guys? The 25-30 take that by a landslide. I tried dating older at one point just to see if "more maturity" would make for a better relationship but I was very hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Do the majority of guys agree with this graph?You need to not be working with high school students.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: There's no way women hit the wall at 30I can be with a 29 year old who is like, "I wanna ride the Dragon!" That's right... yep.... got that dragon power. Very doubtful lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 07:23 PM |
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