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| 15 | Do alphas attract more hate, too? | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:00 PM | |
| 12 | Scorned whores | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 11:36 PM | |
| 11 | question for guys who cold approach a-lot | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 01:50 AM | |
| 9 | How to mentally move on from a damaged chick | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 04:25 AM | |
| 6 | Have you no shame, mam? | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:20 AM | |
| 2 | Ex BPD chick I work with | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:12 PM | |
| 2 | how far do women go with their orbiters? | indianajonesindiana | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 07:47 PM |
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| 3 | Ex-GF spreading all kind of shit to 1500 followersYeah women know whats up.. Any time some ex gf is going out of her way to defame you, especially when you dumped her, you can be damn sure other women are thinking “damn...that guy must be great in bed..” | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | So I hard nexted my ltrThis is an excellent response and really hit home with me, personally. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:55 PM |
| 14 | So I hard nexted my ltrI've experienced this. Dumping a woman only to have her persistently try to get in my head for months only to get a reaction out of me. And then if you give them a reaction, they shut it down hard like they're rejecting you. Pathetic. And it's means to an end type shit. There's no low a rejected woman won't stoop to to try and mindf*ck you after you've dumped them. And what's really sick, even if you end up reaching out to them simply to say "FUCK OFF" they'll flip it and act like they're dumpin… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 7 | So I hard nexted my ltrThat "then we have an open relationship" bullshit infuriates me. That's not a sh*t test, that's a disrespectful, emotionally abusive person who deserves to get kicked to the curb. Good job man. At the very least, she'll remember you as a man who acted like one. 90% of guys can't do what you did. Most men are so weak and blinded by poon it's pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Scorned whoresYeah see that’s the kind of stuff I’m talking about. Threats. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Scorned whoresI’m talking about when these women actively seek you out to fuck with you. Vandalizing your car, stalking you, etc. I guess it’s probably the MO of a crazy person as opposed to a whore, but who knows. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Scorned whoresThere was no blowback after you nexted her for good? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. What an IDIOT. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Guy making jokes in my expense to impress a girl in our groupYeah? Are teenage girls not the most ruthless, cunning creatures around? If OP wants this dude gone, he'll consider it. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Guy making jokes in my expense to impress a girl in our groupWhy not? It’s clearly bothering OP. Why not handle it in a way that’s unique and effective? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 08:31 PM |
| -1 | Guy making jokes in my expense to impress a girl in our groupPull him aside in private and tell him if he does it again you're going to kick his ass. When he tell your social circle about this, and he will, you act shocked and say "What?! I never said that". Up the ante and make sure he confronts you about this in front of mutual friends. Act shocked and repeatedly tell him you didn't say that and you're worried about him as to why he would accuse you of this. Then when he's not around, spread rumors about his "erratic" behavior to social circle. Do i… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | LTR is friends with a co-worker who has high SMV. How to handle jealousyFind a way to get in the same room with her and him and AMOG the sh*t out of him. A-lot of these pretty boy types that women fawn over are actually gigantic betas. If I'm dating a woman and some guy like this hits the scene and try everything in my power to get invited to or be a-part of some event they'll be at together and then I go, covertly, on a seek and destroy mission. Nothing gets your gf more worked up, in a good way, than AMOGing a guy whom she is comparing your SMV to. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick yourself back up?The passing of time is the only solution I've ever found that helps improve a dire situation, long term. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?I’m in awe at what some men will put up with just to get laid. Totally pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 01:47 AM |
| 3 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?For me it was getting the very last minute before I actually did it and realizing I didn't want to go through with it. I'll never forget that feeling. Life is too precious. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?This response mirrors more of the experience I'm describing. Thank you. It's like this feeling of people loving your alpha vibe for awhile until the day comes where they try to control you. And if they aren't able to do that, then they must destroy you because I guess it makes them feel shame that they weren't good enough to tame you. Now, there are few and far between folks you'll meet that will continue to like and respect you but this is very rare. It's like every single person in your life i… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?I didn’t, no. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?Can't say I agree with that. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?I hear you. I know it isn't healthy but sometimes when I've been drinking heavily, as this is rare and was mostly in my younger years, and someone started talking sh*t or was looking for a reaction and you come at them with that real confrontation and you see the look in there eyes like "Oh shit this dude is for real", such a satisfying feeling man. There are so many fake tough guys in our society and I love seeing them break when shit gets real. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?I scared one of them bad. As in sitting there at the bar my work colleague and mine each get a drink. My work colleague says “this is going to make me sleepy”. One of the beta regulars, trying to amog me, looks at me and asks “what does drinking make you want to do?” I looked him right in the eye and said, and I quote: “Makes me wanna fight” That was the end of that dude for the evening. He gave me a nervous giggle but he back down. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 7 | Do alphas attract more hate, too?Your story reminds me of a one of my own. This happened about 4-5 months ago. I was playing golf after work with a co-worker of mine and afterwards we decided to go into the bar at the golf course and get something to eat. The woman behind the bar was a Latina milf with a big ass and we both immediately noticed. I was in a real relaxed mood and decided I'd make playful conversation with her. The "regulars" at this bar were acting like children. 4-5 guys were quite literally gathering around me a… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 02:14 AM |
| 3 | So my ltr of 2.5 years just pretty much asked me if she can have orbiters in exchange for letting me have sex with other women, what do you think?Almost impossible to do because you're attached emotionally, but it'd be awesome if you just went ghost, permanently. Say "I've been thinking about what you said. I agree. I'd like to see other women, too. Let's call it quits and move on". Then don't ever talk to her again. Give it a few months and she'll be a mess. But hold your ground and refuse to speak to her ever again. Only exception would be if she showed up on your doorstep sobbing and APOLOGIZING. Again, not easy to do but it would be f… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menOP- It's not even relevant at 19. 18-29 should be building yourself into a high quality man. It starts kicking in at 30. Trust me. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Field report - Avoid women with daddy issuesSavage way of handling things. I did the same thing. Dumped her after 4 months when the crazy stuff started happening the first time. I'll warn you though, a chick like this won't leave you alone for long. First it'll be the "can we be friends" stuff and if you don't bite on that she'll go to plan B which is to potentially try and f*ck your life up. So be on the look out for that in the upcoming months -years. Also, make no mistake about her agenda in wanting to be friends. Daddy issues women wi… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Field report - Avoid women with daddy issuesYeah bro. I dated a BPD recently and have spent months since trying to process what happened. They are untamable. A-lot of guys think if you're alpha enough you can handle these women but that's not true. In fact, gaming them just makes them more insecure and causes their erratic behavior to increase by leaps and bounds. Also, the common story with BPD chicks is they'll up and leave you and never talk to you again. That's what happens if you're a Beta. If you're an alpha you'll kick her to the c… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR probably cheated with someone I knowDid she break up with you or did you break up with her? Did she bang this dude post breakup or before? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone smashed a 10Banged a Jamaican girl I met on tinder when I was still living in Brooklyn. She was easily a 9-10 and could have done porn. First date I had with her she was an hour late. I went for the heavy makeout after the first date. Second date I took her back to my place and did the deed. Now, I've had enough sex to know when a woman is genuinely enjoying herself and when she's faking it. This chick generally had a good time. Left my back scratched up and a big hickey on my neck. Never heard from her aga… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:22 PM |
| 0 | The hardest shit test of all timehit on women who are less attractive and a beta like you should eventually start seeing better results. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 08:50 PM |
| 4 | The hardest shit test of all timenot a sh*t test IMO. More of a beta tell. Not saying you're a beta but for women to say things like that to you I'd be inclined to think that's how these specific women you're referring to view you. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I've allowed myself to become an orbiter, any advice on breaking free from this?You say she found someone else. Who? Another co-worker or some guy outside of work? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 02:25 PM |
| 4 | UW Madison: Another innocent athlete cleared on rape in threesomeincredibly sad. Happy though for this guy that he made it out. Pour one out for the thousands of other men who have been falsely accused who are in prison. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | The beauty of red pillyeah observing office dynamics between men and women is very interesting. Basically like a controlled environment, a microcosm if you will, of the sexual marketplace. If you come across as alpha at work, it's like shooting fish in a barrel but the other side of the coin is when you get sexually involved with a co-worker, you're potentially leaving yourself out over the middle to get into some very awkward and messy drama. Best advice would not even to think about game at work. The red pill is us… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:03 PM |
| 7 | Ronaldo cleared of rapeIf it can happen to Ronaldo, it can happen to YOU. Back in my blue pill beta days, I remember thinking that getting laid was the ultimate success. If I could figure out how to get laid consistently then life would suddenly transform into a wonderful time for me. Well once you've had enough experience, you know there are some women you don't want to touch with a 10 foot pole. And it's usually the women that come on very strong and act very ditsy and cute AND loving that can become your worst nigh… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Co-workers being flirty in the officeI made this mistake about 8 months ago. I broke it off with her 4 months in and the last 3 months have been a living hell. So yeah, definitely don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 05:43 PM |
| -4 | Ex BPD chick I work withAs I've said before, I'll write as much as I fucking want in order to help my mind process it and ultimately get through it. Couldn't give less of a fuck what you think about it. And for the record, she's attempted multiple times to get back with me but I've stayed NC. Venting on reddit and looking for answers on here is cheaper than therapy. So while I appreciate your input, you can also take it directly back and shove it up your ass. Lmfao, 10,000+ asktrp reddit posts in 3 years? Do you even w… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Ex BPD chick I work withI have been getting laid. I've got another chick I've been seeing for a few weeks. BUT I had no idea that even that wouldn't be enough to prevent me from tripping about this chick at work. It's hard to describe | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:02 AM |
| -3 | Ex BPD chick I work withgo fuck yourself. I'll write a fucking book about the bitch if I want. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:34 PM |
| -2 | Ex BPD chick I work withHere's the thing..I did just that. There's a chick who works with her in the accounting office who had straight up told me in front of the BPD ex while we were dating that if I ever wanted to fuck her too, I could. So I sent her a text one day, the other girl not the one I dated, telling her to hit me up if she was ever in my neighborhood. 2 days later I find a large silver spoon from our kitchen jammed behind my license plate. I know for a fact that crazy chick did that in retaliation. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:30 PM |
| -1 | Ex BPD chick I work withI agree that a-lot of guys wave the BPD flag when the chick actually wasn't but this one legit was. - hit herself in the face when she was angry - amazing sex. She blew me in the office parking lot one night. - Rages. lost her voice screaming at me because I threw away a piece of a poptart she gave me one day. Also said there was no reason to live anymore because of the aforementioned. Since the breakup she has done quite a bit of ridiculous shit. Initially it was just trying to get my attenti… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:28 PM |
| -3 | Ex BPD chick I work withbecause. I. have. to. see. her. every. day. at. work. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | 21yo. No social circle, no confidence, shy, maybe depressed and no purpose/direction. Where do I start?stop watching porn immediately. You'll go though withdrawal symptoms and first but give it up permanently. Once you do get a chick, you don't want your overly porn sensitized brain to prevent you from getting wood during sex | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I litreally don't know how to think or act anymoreI'm at that point myself. Reading this stuff is good for you but it can become overkill after a while. I think once it's internalized the key is to just go out there and live your life. Red pill concepts and principles are something to keep in mind, not dwell on. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 04:38 PM |
| 2 | question for guys who cold approach a-lotThis is an excellent comment and I know exactly the dynamic you're referring to. It's so unfortunate that in the media (movies, tvs and magazines) the total opposite is preached - i.e. beta supplication. I feel like a lot of women don't even have a concept of what it's like to be around a confident masculine guy. That may factor into some of the responses I get when cold approaching BUT that's not an excuse. Just gotta get out there and keep doing. What would you recommend in terms of volume? I … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 04:20 PM |
| 20 | Ever since I started seriously lifting and getting big, my alpha friends respect me more, and my beta ‘friends’ do anything they can to compensate, put me down, etc.This was one of the biggest mind f*cks that I have experienced since I've become red pill aware and started improving myself. The more successful you become, the more hate you'll get from other people. This is especially true with women after a relationship ends. The biggest mistake you can make is perceiving these insults, putdowns etc. through a blue pill lens. People only hate on and go after, for the most part, people who they think can take it. No condoning their actions but you've got to n… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 16 | How to respond to this shit test/thread | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel great difficulty in staying disciplined when not eaten food or not slept well?of course. food and sleep are essential. Everything else is an after thought if those two needs are not being met. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | "Don't touch me" - coworkerWhen in my response did I say she was a sociopath? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 01:08 AM |
| 5 | "Don't touch me" - coworkerYeah except for the fact that the dude MAKES MONEY at the place this woman is at. Good lucking not ruining your career by thinking you shouldn't sweat what women say about you at work cause "30% of em are insecure" | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 12:39 AM |
| 30 | "Don't touch me" - coworker"that I'm usually flirty with" Welcome to reality son. You've been flirting with her, huh? More like you've been manipulated by a woman who knew she could get you to respond that way in front of management so that she could say "Don't touch me!" Be more careful who you flirt with, touch, talk to or associate with. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Ltr denied sexI agree but I don't think a "next" of any type is in order. I think OP showing any kind of upset attitude about it at all comes across as insecure here. If there's other shit going on like a new male "friend" at work or more time spent with her girlfriends on the weekends, etc. a next does absolutely come into play. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Ltr denied sexThat's jumping the gun a bit. The guy's dated her for a year. People have off days. Her stopping him the past couple times is certainly something to keep an eye on but I wouldn't immediately next a chick I've LTR'd for over a year. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there any reason why a girlfriend would hang out with a friend who is a guy besides fucking?disgree with this totally. Women have such agency these days that they'll still screw around on an alpha. Lots of crazy women see banging another guy as a way to bring back leverage into the relationship. Want to avoid those types big time. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Is there any reason why a girlfriend would hang out with a friend who is a guy besides fucking?depends on the guy. If he's a beta she'll hang out with him to use him for resources, i.e. buying her stuff, emotional support. I wouldn't be jealous of that but it is a major red flag that she's no good for LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing in breaking up with GF, or did I jump the gun out of insecurity?I know it really hurts but understand that through this pain will eventually come a new understanding of reality. You're right. The guy is not your friend. If anything, this should do two things for you: raise your standards with whom you choose to associate with. Our culture force feeds us this idea that having a-lot of 'friends' is the way to be happy. But reality is that you'll probably only have a handful of real friends your entire life. My grandfather told me this. He was a tough WW2 vet… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Failure to Launch - What should be my next course of action?How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Did I do the right thing in breaking up with GF, or did I jump the gun out of insecurity?she sounds pathological. Women that flirt like that with other dudes and have a ton of orbiters are legit dangerous. With women like this you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you call them out on their b.s. you look insecure. If you don't call them out on their b.s. they'll lose respect for you over time. But their behavior never changes. That's the key. An emotionally healthy woman would to a certain extent fall in line and respect your wishes after one time of calling her out. An e… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill RageIn order to understand how you'll get over this I need you to run with me on an idea. So for example, at 10 years old you believed things about life that weren't true. This was for both big and small stuff. Small stuff being something like I KNOW that candy bar will taste good. I KNOW it will. Well as a ten year old you don't. I remember when I ate a mounds bar for the first time. I found out then I didn't like coconut in my chocolate bars. But as a 10 year old kid, my brain at that point in m… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Shattered confidence and frame after rape allegation, having a hard time regaining momentum. Incredibly weak right nowYou're a victim of circumstance. It just so happens that one of earlier experiences in your life with a crazy woman has become a formative experience. Until you get new, real evidence that you can do better, then you'll continue to doubt yourself because your experience is all you know. Understand you're not alone. There are tons of cool motherfucking dudes out there who have been hit with a false rape or false abuse claim by some vindictive woman in the wake of a breakup or if she's really nu… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | how far do women go with their orbiters?What do you mean by top tier? Looks? This guy who my ex was spending a ton of time with legit looked like an Asian pee wee herman. When I heard that he had helped her move to her new apartment I got legit angry for a minute. I also think some women out of spite would bang a guy like this just do f*ck with their ex bf's mind. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 4 | How to mentally move on from a damaged chickExcellent response. Thank you for this. Interestingly enough I was thinking about this just today. I was thinking about how to get over another one of these women and realized that my paradigm literally has to change and part of that is going to involve realizing that I'm not a special snowflake. I'm not above another person's personality disorder. I mean f*ck, if it happened to Brad Pitt it sure as f*ck can happen to me. Doesn't matter how good of a man you are (looks, money, status, etc.) thes… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 08:29 AM |
| 2 | How to mentally move on from a damaged chickHoly shit man... So what's your plan? Are you going to try and contact the kid or just let things be? I can't imagine how rough of a situation that must be for you. Reading stuff like this is actually what helps me move on from these type of women more than anything. I actually am pretty good at remaining firm in my decision to completely cut them out of my life for good. I know a-lot of guys get suckered back in by these women time and time again. But after reading about just how bad things can… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How to mentally move on from a damaged chickCongrats on finding what sounds like to be a diamond in the rough type woman to marry. I've practically given up on finding a chick like that. I live in LA though, so there's tons of crazies out here compared to other parts of the country. What you've said about focusing on things I can control sounds right. I have to realize that people who are legit cluster b and or bipolar aren't going to change on their own accord. That's interesting you still talk to her. Both of these types I dated pretty … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Losing hair at 23.Google Jason Statham. You think he cares if he's bald? Lot of bald dudes who enhance their other assets (physique, personality, earning power). | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:10 AM |
| 13 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?There is no such thing as a happily married woman. The happiest a woman can be is in the honeymoon phase with an alpha (usually lasts around 3-6 months). After that she'll blow it up because of her own insecurities. In fact, I'd argue that if a woman stays with you long term, she considers you a beta on some level. I'd rather be the guy that gets hit up for sex every 3-6 months by some chick I used to date than a guy who gets pushed around and brow beat by his wife. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Should I cuck this guy?SO what? You and 5 other dudes who think they're her "main man" for sex got the same videos bro. Getting dumped by or breaking up with an alpha and immediately rebounding with the complete opposite with a beta is textbook crazy girl and or hoe behavior. She's playing all of you while feeding her narcissistic ego. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I cuck this guy?LOL, she's setting you up. Go ahead and take the bait and watch her claim that you can't move on or that you're harassing her. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:01 PM |
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