indie_man_in_canada Archive

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12	Suicides among Canadian males considered a ‘silent epidemic’ Listen guys, I get the anti-feminist sentiment but you can't blame this discrepancy on women. It's no different than women blaming men for things like pink taxes and pay gaps. Except men aren't going around actively preventing women getting help. Men's organizations aren't going around actively hurting women in order to make men better. Feminists are actually doing all this! How the fuck do you just ignore it?!? Men tend to be set up to have less social networks and support. Never mind trying to…	/r/MensRights	26/07/16 01:06 PM
101	Suicides among Canadian males considered a ‘silent epidemic’ It says volumes when Canada's top Feminist PM just last month went on tv and openly stated that the biggest problem men in Canada have is their own toxic masculinity. Obviously, there was no mention of the fact that there doesn't exist a single suicide shelter for men in the entirety of Canada. Obviously, there was no mention of the fact that men are turned away from women's shelters, and then commit suicide. Obviously, there was no mention of the fact that the only man who opened a suicide shel…	/r/MensRights	26/07/16 12:21 PM
-1	Canadian Judge Quotes Feminist Literature as He Convicts a Man of Rape Without Any Evidence False rape accusations are not primarily a race issue. Who said they were? I love how the only response people have to false rape accusations is to strawman. I don't care how you choose to subjectively and arbitrarily label something, that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Non-white males are falsely accused of rape in numbers that are order's of magnitude higher than white men. I believe the statistic was something along the lines of almost HALF of non-white men have been falsely accused of rape …	/r/MensRights	25/07/16 07:02 PM
2	Canadian Judge Quotes Feminist Literature as He Convicts a Man of Rape Without Any Evidence Virtually all of the false rape cases I've read of happening over there involve white males. lol wat? You must be high. Jian Gomeshi -> not white The guy in this news story -> not white. Now sure, I'm not saying white guys don't get falsely accused, but if you think they get falsely accused at even a fraction of the rate that non-white guys do, you are fucking smoking something. 'Brown' guys are pretty much open season for false rapes, since even the police (who are mostly white guys) will autom…	/r/MensRights	25/07/16 05:51 PM
7	Canadian Judge Quotes Feminist Literature as He Convicts a Man of Rape Without Any Evidence Canada is a wonderful country, that has no feminist assholes Horseshite. Canada is a fucking feminist wasteland if you aren't a white male. One of the first things that happened to me when I arrived in Canada (am not a white male) was that I got falsely accused of rape by a girl simply because I refused to go on a date with her. I was literally never even in the same fucking room as her, yet still got accused of raping her, even though we had never even been alone together in the same room. That…	/r/MensRights	25/07/16 03:08 PM
1	Sex with betas is not always duty sex I have sex because my husband wants to and I want him to feel pleasure and love Yes good. This is what is known as 'duty sex'. Its good to see you admitting to it. The point folks are making, is that if your husband was an Alpha, you would never feel this way. The entire point is that sex with Alphas are not 'duty sex', whereas sex with betas is. You, literally, just proved that point with your anecdote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 05:30 PM
0	Sex with betas is not always duty sex So if a woman has sex with a man for pleasure does that automatically make him alpha regardless of his other qualities? Even if he's skinnyfat, low dominance, etc? Asking this question is nonsensical, since not only is it a pure hypothetical, but its a hypothetical that tries to redefine well established words. Its as nonsensical as a question that asks: "IF blue light had the same wavelength as red light, then would it still be blue light even though it was red!??!" Its even worse when you then…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 05:28 PM
1	Sex with betas is not always duty sex I just wanted you to explain why women would date "betas" if these betas don't even provide beta bux. And I just did! I responded to your question clearly, right here: Also, you are wrong that she 'doesn't get anything'. In such types of 'loser relationships', the woman basically gets all forms of support be it emotional as well as support in the form that she can openly abuse her bf and nothing will come out of it (i.e. ego support for her). Your assertion was shown to be flawed. You asserted s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 05:21 PM
0	Sex with betas is not always duty sex But, like, what if he doesn't have any resources? What if he's this dweeby stoner who plays video games and she is constantly loaning him rent money? What if the beta doesn't have any resources? How do those relationships work? The mistake you have made here is assuming that every woman is capable, but also deserves an Alpha man with resources. Just like you feel that the 'dweeby stoner' is a loser, so is the woman who is in a relationship with him. In short, she ALSO has an extremely low social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 04:00 PM
8	Sex with betas is not always duty sex Is it? Then how come some men are into BBWs and there's even porn about it? You are really failing at logic in this thread, aren't you? Here is some basic logic to correct you: Just because some men may have a sexual fetish for 'big women', that doesn't mean all men like fat girls. You keep committing the same fallacy of over and over and over again. You keep taking one anecdote, and trying to say that is a general rule. That is the complete opposite of a rational position. In short, your analys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:55 PM
1	Sex with betas is not always duty sex Ah yes... abject and unrepentant hyperbole. Such a mature and well reasoned response. /s Please come up with rational counter arguments. Its pointless to have a debate where your only tool for discussion is an overabundance of hyperbole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:46 PM
-1	Sex with betas is not always duty sex my friend likes girls to be slightly chubby and curvy but I like flat girls women are the same way dude. Umm.. you might have missed this but we are talking about Alpha and beta MALES. There is absolutely no parallel to this for women. i.e. saying "betas aren't real coz my friend likes chubby girls" only goes to demonstrate that you haven't grasped the basic premise of the discussion. IN short, we are talking about men, not women here. So calm yer tits. :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:22 PM
6	Sex with betas is not always duty sex You can lead a horse to water, but you can't force someone to use their eyes. If you stand around a shoe shop with your eyes closed, its no surprise that your response to someone saying "Look at all the shoes!" is "I can't see any". The point being, that the evidence has been provided and for the most part, is universally accepted. Heck, even feminist 'theorists' have spoken about this 'dualistic nature of women'. I mean ffs, they have even done ted talks on the subject! where it is clearly show…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:20 PM
2	Sex with betas is not always duty sex No, they don't. Yep they do. I mean, just look at how the posts in this thread are voted. I mean, again, your only defense is to play the "I can't see it" even when its put right in-front of you, you are just being dishonest again. At this stage, you are starting to remind me of this meme: http://i.imgur.com/2sOw7GL.jpg?fb Where the proof is all around you, but you choose to ignore it since your need to maintain your false narratives is more important than facing facts. People have presented you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:11 PM
3	Sex with betas is not always duty sex So you agree that some betas might have good sex with women or not? Its more telling when you have to retroactively change your question to appear 'right'. Your question was about 'duty sex', not whether or not the sex was good. Its pretty clearly shown that women only have sex with betas (or below) out of 'duty' in order to 'keep access to resources'. Pretty much everyone in the thread and on this sub agree with this. Realizing this, you then change your question to make it seem like you were t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 03:04 PM
16	Sex with betas is not always duty sex Sex with betas is to keep maintaining access to the resources the beta provides. Sex with Alphas is for pleasure. This is basic logic based on what those words mean. Women will be with betas due to what they provide. Women will be with Alphas due to the man himself. This is pretty well understood and are quite easily observable in everyday life. I actually have a friend who is in LTR with a guy that looks like a loser to me and it's not like she doesn't have any other options (she's 20 and prett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 01:59 PM
1	Aren't the alpha/beta definitions too narrow? I also don't see any facts That is what I'm saying. You are literally provided facts on a plate, but you don't even acknowledge them. Kind of like Hillary Clinton replying "Oh I wiped the server with a cloth?" The fact that you are ignoring facts provided to you throughout this thread and then saying "oh there are no facts, I can't see any" is only putting your intellectual dishonesty on display for all (this is why I said its pointless to say you want to have a debate, then behave in a dishones…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 01:51 PM
1	Aren't the alpha/beta definitions too narrow? I don't think sex with betas is always duty sex... 99.9% of the time, it most definitely is. The only time it isn't is when the woman has had close and recent contact with an Alpha and is now sexually revved up. At this point, she will have sex with her beta male, while thinking of the Alpha, and hence, using the beta male as a proxy to project her sexual appetite for the Alpha. Under all other circumstances, women having sex with a beta is considered a 'duty'. Heck, entire sections of modern fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 01:42 PM
1	"Women don't love men, they only love the way you make them feel" How is this not also vice versa? "Women don't love men, they only love the way you make them feel" How is this not also vice versa? Rofl... are you serious? Men are willing to die for women, en masse, and in droves. The entirety of fucking history is littered with examples of this. By contrast, a woman won't even lift a finger to save a man, in fact, the vast majority of womens' response to their man having a problem is to abandon him. In short, when the going gets tough, men step up for the woman. Women on the other hand, simp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/16 06:19 PM
2	24F SO has hot friend she hangs out with and sometimes mentions lol... you are being cucked and you don't even know it. She is banging 'Jim' dude. Pretty consistently too. You are completely depressing for sticking around with this girl. Dump her to the curb and move on.	/r/askTRP	03/05/16 08:01 PM
-1	Bachelorhood, men going their own way are saving lives You keep making those generalizations. I love how the only rebuttal you have is to call a peer reviewed scientific study a 'generalization' (I mean ffs, I even linked to the study in my previous post). When you have to resort to strawmans, 'word games', and ignoring science all in order to simply even have a point, all you actually end up doing is illustrating just how much of an point your point of view lacks. The irony to think a person who doesn't even know what a MGTOW is goes on to make bla…	/r/MensRights	02/05/16 06:33 PM
1	Bachelorhood, men going their own way are saving lives I think that is a very narrow mind set of women as well as saying all X people are the same Its not a 'narrow mindset' if its describing an observable, provable fact. You are basically making feminist statements - all men are rapists. I was going to write you off as simply naive, but this false analogy leads me to believe you are just another blue piller trying to, yet again, push the women are so wonderful and can do no wrong! agenda. Saying 'women are hypergamous by nature' not like feminist s…	/r/MensRights	02/05/16 05:20 PM
1	Q4Men: If you absolutely had to, which woman would you choose for a LTR? Neither, they both sound like classic grade A sociopaths. Furthermore, there will never be a situation where a man absolutely has to date/LTR a woman. Folks who think this are just giving into the bluepill/feminist propaganda. The man could just walk away, not dating either woman. was just wondering how much someone would be willing to accept infidelity if their partner was beyond perfect otherwise. If this is actually the question you are trying to answer, the answer for it is really really sim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/16 04:38 PM
5	BluePillers hate TRP because it forms it's strategy based on the primitive and animal-like sexual characteristics of humans and people don't like being compared to animals because we like to think we're "above" that but at the very root level we're still animals. we cannot, as this is not an intellectual area to begin with. Just to clarify, it is not an intellectual area yet. Intellect can easily solve the 'problem of attraction'. The problem however, is that society doesn't want science to solve the problem, since the existence of the 'problem' allows people to abuse any system put in place to 'manage the problem'. It is the exact same reason the USA is in a state of perpetual war. War gives the warmongers power. The lack of scientific study around attr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 07:07 PM
-14	if it wasn't for sex do you think men would look for physical intimacy with women? I'm talking of cuddling, caressing, touching, sharing personal space etc. I think this would depend on the man. Some men see these as 'things they want', most men I know do not. /shrugs if it wasn't for sex do you think men would look for physical intimacy with women? I think the real and much better question is: What do men even get out of relationships outside the sex? I mean, I cannot think of a single thing a man gets from a relationship nowadays outside the sex. Women nowadays feel that sim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 05:27 PM
2	How do you define male 'success' when it comes to sex? Instead of Western women, why don't they go for brown women? Oh they do. They vehemently try, but there is a natural blowback from how 'brown men' are perceived in society today. Brown women actually find brown men more repulsive than other (non-brown) women do. It is a strange phenomenon but one that very tersely expresses the power or the female groupthink. In short, 'brown' men are seen as subhumans by most of western women (this includes 'brown' women who have been 'westernized'). The only p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 04:43 PM
-1	How do you define male 'success' when it comes to sex? Brown guys are the new short guys. Pretty much, though I would say short guys still have it pretty bad even today, i.e. the 'stigma' surrounding short guys still has not lifted. That said, brown guys are also, on average, shorter, and so, brown guys are the short guys lol. But yea, if you are brown and under 6 feet, you can pretty much kiss your chances of having a normal, healthy relationship with a western woman goodbye. And the trend is only getting worse. Oh well /shrugs	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 04:32 PM
0	How do you define male 'success' when it comes to sex? It's not much help for Omar, because if Omar hasn't at least had a little girl experience by age 25, something is fundamentally wrong with him. He's too ugly, too autstic, too depressed or whatever the mental disorder of the day is. Or... you know... its because he is "Omar", i.e. the obvious implication being that he is either 'brown' or of 'brown' descent. TRP does not 'work' for 'brown' guys. A few TRPers will deny this, but that is because they apply incorrect effort metrics. In general, bro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/16 04:01 PM