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Additional difficulty for women though. Liars If you say that very early on. All men, the abusive or not, are going to say of course I’m not like that You’ll only know through subtle clues early on and then later when you are in deeper with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:19 PM
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It’s become a popular talking point on Reddit and become actually political issue in some countries like Columbia and Thailand It is a very real phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:54 AM
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To be fair he did mention using fingers and he’s admitted to his current not finishing. Some women do finish quickly and sometimes multiple. I’m inclined to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:31 PM
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It’s a long running concept used in most major religions especially the Abrahamic ones. And it’s kind of infiltrated through to media and in the past few decades men’s online spaces. I used to just believe it was a completely real thing. That penises caused obsession and ownership and unbreakable emotional connection for women. It was only as I got older that I realised that it was mostly bullshit. The idea though of sex creating pair bonding is so deeply entrenched through our world view both i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:24 PM
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It’s only 2026 mate !?
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 04:17 PM
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Exactly. I find this repeated situation to be fairly ridiculous. Especially in the US, the only reason why a Gyno wouldn’t operate for cash is if they were being repeatedly sued or taken to court by women who changed their mind. ‘Misogyny’ is way too simple an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:51 PM
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I don’t know much about the situation. are these posts just ‘banter’ or is she actually having sex with other guys. If it’s just disrespect from her (still bad) but a big line from actually doing it. His strong reactions tells a story though
/r/MensRights20/03/26 01:08 PM
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She sounded like a nightmare before pregnancy. And then was the one who asked for it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 04:16 PM
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Nah that’s actually a very good way of phrasing it. She wants the sex to be part of a balanced life. Without a lot of constant pressure . Without trying to ruin other aspects of life. The examples of cutting a fun adventure late at night short are very good examples. Even as a man. If you already have an active good sex life you wouldn’t/shouldn’t be desperate to go back all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:22 PM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/26 03:58 PM
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The problem is that the original purpose of the group is borderline acceptable. It was intended as ‘is this guy’ a threat , criminal or patently abusive. But as you would expect it has just descended into a catty gossip column. With completely unacceptable posting and tearing down of random men. For any reason.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 09:20 AM
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Good take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:27 PM
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Yeah I just mean accumulative knowledge about a persons past naturally comes up over a duration. Not necessarily specifics . But a vague idea of number of ex’s and/or whether they did casual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:28 PM
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How though ? It usually comes up organically and causally at some point in a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:40 PM
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Arguably a heavy heavy heavy part of Islam is ensuring that most men have complete access to at least one woman. So much of the religion is geared towards this With more powerful and conquering men allowed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:22 PM
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Not really . What I’m saying is that just because they don’t have that role in courtship and attraction. Doesn’t mean that when the right circumstances are unleashed it can’t be activated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:28 PM
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I don’t think that’s a fully logical step. They probably are. But there’s still a social expectation that men make the moves and also , often overlooked, women are attracted to men who pursue well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:31 AM
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that’s part of the responsibility of womanhood . There are so many ways to vet a man before having a child that can increase your odds of success. E.g. family history, employment , known to your friends as a respected man, religious community , Charity work , your own individual read of the man and your compatibility . All kinds of things . It doesn’t always work out and some people can hide in the shadows. But there are plenty of options a woman has to increase their odds of obtaining a reliabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:07 AM
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In my limited experience , it’s not common for a couple with current active great sexual chemistry to be divorcing. Was there cheating or some other really bad shit going on ?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 12:58 PM
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Dude this is a PU board . Part of the process of being young is learning the charisma and actual picking up part. It’s not the place to tell him just to focus on long term stability .
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:47 AM
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The long standing argument from that side is that social and legal freedom leads to casual arrangements, promiscuity, hypergamy and a large chunk on unpaired or unhappily paired men. they argue it’s a social problem leading to individual effect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:53 AM
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Yeah . I’ve experience big One O and done . In a similar way to men
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:45 AM
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Aren’t the stats showing that Gen Z and younger men are far more likely to be religious, follow “incel” and red pill content etc
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 11:26 PM
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No because being attractive in all senses of the word (physical, character , charisma , status etc) will always help in a relationship. Once you are in one it doesn’t mean guaranteed anything. Attraction still has to be maintained for it to be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:12 PM
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Private room is really key. Logistics is half the battle. You could get lucky and she has her own room. But imagine the disappointment where you pull and there’s nowhere to go.
/r/seduction09/09/25 10:15 PM
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eh. It is quite wife centred. But I had quite a good time, more guests on my side, big speech, religiously and culturally very important for me too .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:56 AM
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An ideal red pill type man should hold the view that if he she gave him purity and youth then he will be honourable and protect her during motherhood and age. Of course a lot of these people are hypocrites and won’t follow through
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:53 AM
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Always been the case. Not a new phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:06 PM
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Nah I was given the advice of being somewhat polarising well before the social media age . People like a bit of dynamism and uniqueness . It feels like a breath of fresh air in an otherwise boring day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:05 PM
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Yeah it’s a much much lower bar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:47 PM
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Agree (often) Wife asks me what is ‘wrong’ or ‘ are they gay’ for some of my single male friends. Makes no sense imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:32 PM
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Not if there is a substantial length of business and rock solid legal contract backing it up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:47 PM
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Wut? Some women are boring, some women are shit stirring drama queens , some are needy and annoying. But some are absolutely wonderful. It’s odd to blanket opinion entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:37 PM
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Men that blanket label women as boring is a huge red flag for actual misogyny Some women are legitimately boring but if you find the problem keep coming up, then you are likely the boring one or you have a general distain for women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:09 AM
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You are seriously confusing being socially defunct and being quirky. Plenty of men can be atypical and quirky but still know how to run social situations. You are right , in that socially defunct men are treated far more harshly than socially awkward women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:06 PM
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What’s the limit of this. And what if there is harm to your biological child
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/25 10:41 PM
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Gotcha. My wife was looking at my phone with me for other stuff and had raised eyebrows when the notification came up 😭🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:26 PM
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Wait talking to me? Or a sarcastic response to the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:17 PM
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We live in a service and exchange society. This has been the case to a certain degree for 1000s of years. I am a man. I still ‘rely’ on others to fix the boilers, the roof, sort out complex tax affairs, represent me in court, I rely on Chinese women in a factory to make my sneakers and clothes , I rely on pilots to fly me to vacation spots. People rely on me to diagnose their medical conditions, inject their joints and biopsy their cancer. That’s how the world works. This is just being in a soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:08 AM
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Personality and charm matter. If you spend 2 hours on a first date with a woman. What you talk about , what you say, your body language , your humor, your ability to escalate. That shit matters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:54 PM
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To be fair on a re-read. Fuck points 4 and 6 But I still maintain somewhat of a trad gender balance in a house hold is fairly good and worth grinding for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:01 PM
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But within most successful organised societies . I.e. ancient Egyptians onwards. Strict monogamy , often with social and penal infarctions have been enforced. Also no reason to say ‘she was upset’ when there was nothing to suggest that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:23 AM
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And it’s not some grand goal like you are making out Edit : you as in the OP
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 10:07 PM
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You made the claim that women are loved unconditionally. Certainly not those
/r/MensRights25/05/25 06:31 PM
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Say that to the countless women being trafficked for prostitution or abused in the porn industry
/r/MensRights25/05/25 05:02 PM
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Zero to 100 Cray cray
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 04:04 PM
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Thing is I don’t mind doing all of that. Just as long as the woman meets somewhat trad expectations The semi trad dynamic is a healthy state of equilibrium
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:13 PM
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In prone with hips angled forward Not the nicest view !! 0_o . Certainly not true IME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:23 AM
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I think the idea that the OP is trying to convey is that getting quick easy access to sex via hook ups , one night stands and quick flings is actually way more difficult than perceived. The main comparison being fiction all of tv, movies , songs and books. And popular culture narrative. Also compared to women’s experiences. If they wanted to they could have an ONS instantly ( with the obvious risks you described) Getting this as a guy requires a heavy amount of skill, luck, situational awareness…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:09 AM
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That’s so fking scary. How could that happen that Mirror switch. At least for a lot of people it’s months or a few years or a stressor like kids or being laid off Tell more of that story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:48 PM
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I believe the shared experience and I’m not so quick to dismiss it. It probably isn’t that easy to sniff out bad potential . However it still is primarily their responsibility and can be done. In the same way courting, eliciting attraction is often the man’s job. It’s not easy but still their responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:18 AM
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Nobody said it was easy. But it’s still a responsibility for women in most dating dynamics to actually make that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:21 AM
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Very perceptive and interesting way of looking at it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:55 PM
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He’s having a laugh And making a joke which probably shows he’s socially fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:29 PM
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Um no? People would generally prefer not to deal with previous marriage and children if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:42 PM
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That’s the thing there is no true replacement. It’s like a fun expensive and exotic way to get off. It does not replace mutually wanted experiences at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:44 PM
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Nah it’s just so different. In most normal sexual interactions the other person wants to be there. They kiss you and say nice things that they mean. There’s usually some chemistry and desire. It’s a completely different ball game with a hired gun. Almost obvious that they don’t want to be there despite acting (if they can bothered). Very jarring for someone to get kicked out straight after. You’ll probably get off but it really is like using an expensive dolly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:43 PM
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There’s zero intimacy and sexual validation with using escorts. It’s like expensive masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:48 PM
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Brother with his ex-wife. Both had intense day jobs. She was just pampered and relaxed at home when not working. He had to cover most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:02 AM
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Demote her to friends with benefits or hook up buddy Have fun and casual sex but do not make her permanent girlfriend if she does not want to be around your child
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 11:36 AM
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Maybe I shouldn’t have included it in both comments But there’s a difference between financially responsible and secure vs wealth and luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:39 PM
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It’s two very different sides of choice. I think most people saying choose better mean choose better in terms of agreeable personality, responsible, emotionally and financially stable. Most people are saying be less picky in terms of attractiveness, wealth , status and/or superficial charm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:34 PM
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Rob the savings would surely make a difference . As that makes a clear change to marital savings . I’m probably (and very sadly ) wrong but what’s the story
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 02:22 PM
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OP is saying to avoid the faux commitment from those women who were previously hypergamous. They will look at the average guys as a fall back I don’t necessarily agree with OP but his point is reasonably clear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:41 AM
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A dating life lasting 7 years suggests not great. Although this is variable depending on your goals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:13 PM
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The subtle physical contact when they think/know a woman likes them is a good smooth thing right. It’s surely better than clunky over familiar contact or doing nothing (getting a no spark text).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:48 PM
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2 billion active users . Is that fr?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:07 AM
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r/latebloomerlesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:47 AM
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Spending time in female centred spaces (e.g: twoxchromosomes) will help shift that mental plague. Sometimes scrolling where you shouldn’t be can really hurt your headspace.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 02:17 PM
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That’s the beauty. Not your problem anymore You owe her no comfort or explanation
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 08:13 PM
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Meh means average or unimpressive. ‘Mid’ as the kids call it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:01 PM
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Not worth it in the long run. Enjoy the experience and the memories you had with her but time to sail onto adventures new
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 12:26 AM
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As a max number month or two is reasonable. Sometimes it happens much faster . How do you expect to find a low body woman (like you say you want) if everyone puts out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:05 PM
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Again valid point thanks for the discussion. I think the bottom line is do not settle for someone who doesn’t show active effort and attraction towards you. E.g. low sexual interest from the get-go , low effort for planning dates, or insert any other feature that you find important. (I don’t agree with OPs first date malarkey for the record)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:52 AM
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I agree to some extent. People change, circumstances can be specific, moods can vary and relationship dynamics vary. you shouldn’t take every slight personally. However I think you’ve taken it way too far with this. “If you’re truly bothered by the idea that someone once did something with someone else and your relationship with them is different—you are not yet in a mature headspace to start a relationship. This isn’t even gendered. Both men and women need to understand that you are not in comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:42 AM
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I’d change that to within the first month or 2 and I’d agree. First date is a bit wild imo. (As an expectation) obviously it can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:30 AM
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if we accept your evolutionary psych premise. The answer is that the hypergamous behaviours you describe would have been formed over 100s of thousands of years/ pre human and early human mating behaviour We’ve only had societies that actively control mating and monogamy over the last 10,000 which wouldn’t impact base desire or change those primitive instinct. Just the rules. I.e. death and ostracising women who didn’t obey
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:47 PM
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What I did. Was pay for first but then expect second or at least parts of it to be paid for by her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:50 PM
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But that’s my point. It doesn’t matter. Sometimes it just ends bad because you aren’t meant to be. Just throw in experiences folder and move on
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 12:16 AM
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Why? Just on to the next one. Not everything ends great. Sometimes you get ghosted, sometimes it’s awkward, sometimes it’s fun but not serious other times you fall in love. Enjoy the ride. Life is random. No need to get butthurt
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 10:17 PM
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I think resorting to violence only describes a small amount of men and usually it’s paired with poor economic opportunities. But it does happen, not necessarily with school shootings; but with many instances of civil unrest. But I personally would not bother contributing to society without any hope of being with a woman. There just isn’t any incentive or point to me. I might do a bit above bare minimum so that I wasn’t bored and could afford basic luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:08 AM
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I know you’re joking. But Reddit is slightly different in that it’s semi anonymous and mostly involves people you don’t know. It doesn’t have the same validation and ego seeking behaviour of uploading your pictures or thoughts to your personal fanbase (followers)
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 04:19 PM
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How often do you hear things like ‘crazy chicks are the best in bed’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:20 PM
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Fair enough. I’m married so have no stake in it. If I remember right my bio was kind of vague and the wife had quite a few No 🚫and musts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:24 AM
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I’m not on the apps. But filters were not a thing when I was. That actually seems sensible. I still think that stating a few preferences in a gentle way is not an awful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:20 AM
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What about a few simple things on the no list. For example prefer non smoking, no women with kids already and non religious matches. (Example)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:13 AM
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women actively checking bios is true in my anecdotal evidence and from what I’ve seen on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:11 AM
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He did though. He found a wife who doesn’t abuse him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:40 AM
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You make a good , well written point. But the last paragraph is not what happens in the real world. You’ve inadvertently highlighted a serious inequality. Vast vast majority of men , especially if they have resources are not going to be content let alone truly at peace if they don’t have a woman. They need a woman for sexual intimacy and often also want a woman for the added social status, companionship, organisational and emotional support that comes along with it. And maybe that’s the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:34 AM
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There’s a massive elephant in the room when it comes to women’s safety in Germany .
/r/MensRights14/11/24 10:54 AM
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Depends where you go.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 10:53 AM
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Which one? I thought FDS stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:11 PM
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I disagree with OPs premise. Horny and having standards are not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:38 PM
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She’s just making reasons because she is unhappy now. Shitty people do this sadly. It doesn’t mean there was anything wrong with you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 03:48 PM
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I understand why you feel like that. But people often lie and change history to make themselves feel good in their decision making. If my own wife walked out on me and told me that she never loved me or wasn’t into me. I would not believe her. She is likely saying and doing this just to hurt you or twist her own emotions. Stay strong man
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 03:21 PM
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People lie and backwards rationalise all the time unfortunately. Don’t let what she tells you know invalidate the previous happiness that you had. You chose each other. It has ended now. But what happened before was real
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 03:10 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 07:39 PM
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Which episode is that ? The memory one
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 04:56 PM
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Good post but in addition to this , at the high school stage, is the savage competition for women. Not to mention the social shaming and pressure if you don’t get with a girl.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 08:08 AM
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2 months and 1000 dollars. You are very lucky
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 12:40 AM
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For social media game. Not all PUb
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:15 PM
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Don’t meet the bar to date a normal woman. Tf man lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:14 PM
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And number 2 is very well worded. Something many people in general don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:21 PM
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On number 1 it’s funny how all of that has mostly evaporated from the internet . Partially due to demand and it being deleted with pressure. There used to be a positive community of people sharing thoughts , ideas and stories .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:20 PM
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That’s bullshit. Compare a shut in on minimum wage to a guy with above average salary and some mixed friends groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:19 PM
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Agree for the most part. But going on multiple dates / successfully picking up will do wonders for someone’s skill and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:52 PM
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Anecdotally I’ve seen many guys that never dated in their youth . Get much much better late twenties early thirties. A combination of self confidence, money, social skills, taking opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:25 PM
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Highly highly debatable . I’d argue that a cardinal sin of many RP gurus and the crowd in general is the mantra that if you make money and go gym then ladies will just magically appear out of nowhere. Whereas I think that developing social skills, dating skills, circle of friends and emotional stability are extremely important. They don’t just come out of nowhere once you have a good salary and fit body. At the very least both are important. But the social development is highly neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:23 PM
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A man chasing a girl with poems and flowers for a reluctant kiss on the cheek is also a grown man being himself. Having awareness to change and alter behaviour depending on what is in front of you is a key part of success
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:33 PM
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How did you piss off the therapist. Did she side with her
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 04:14 PM
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It does widen the pool though. Just when it becomes your only outlet and option I think it may become a problem
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 09:45 AM
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Can I just check your wording. Do you mean if the woman lays the man right they can walk over them for life. Or vice versa
/r/TheRedPill11/09/24 07:33 AM
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It shouldn’t be that surprising. Think about how huge the diamond, wedding, sex tourism, porn industries, designer brands, advertising are . Trillions of pounds . I’d say for most men securing sex is their primary objective. And if they are dry will do anything and spend anything
/r/TheRedPill11/09/24 07:32 AM
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Chicken and egg scenario. Probably the other way round lmao
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 11:16 AM
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Do you genuinely think that every guy that falls within acceptable attractiveness is a suitable date for that woman. (Edited for clarity and removed unnecessary question)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:56 PM
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That’s not what I said. Obviously that will be part of it. But the amount of uncultured , awkward, shitty behaviour is quite high. And then there will be natural incompatibilities e.g. religion , politics, race, personalities to add in as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:41 PM
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21 BMI limit you have there is pretty extreme. Any woman with a bit of butt or curve is going to fail that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:01 AM
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I actually don’t agree. A lot of women don’t find success on dating apps because they deal with a ton of low quality. Not necessarily ‘ joy mr Uber chad’ but rude behaviour, dry chat, over sexualisation , crap profiles, not the right demographic (e.g. racial /religious)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:58 AM
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I was having a convo with my wife when we were dating. I essentially told her that without my libido and drive for reproduction. I wouldn’t have bothered with my high stakes career. I would be doing the bare minimum to survive and occasionally treat myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:52 AM
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Very very cold. But I can’t deny what your saying; the logic holds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:22 AM
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Good response. I’m generally with the women on this one. Even as a gamer. I cringe about times I straight up ignored exes to play
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:48 AM
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On a dating app where little other information is available and filters exist. Could get tricky online
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:56 AM
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Shit testing is a form of flirting for women and a quick test to see if you understand the game or not. Your post is correct in that some women will barely/ never do it ; particularly the quieter, less social and nerdy ones. Others , usually , more out going , social and (often) attractive ones do it more . When I first started dating her , I thought the shit tests were fun, exciting flirty challenges. I passed them and it spiked attraction. Now we are married I didn’t realise that it would just…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/24 07:18 AM
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Very well put
/r/TheRedPill22/08/24 07:14 AM
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You’re probably lying to yourself if you think people don’t post on red pill subs for validation/ ego. And knowing there are people just like them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:15 PM
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I’m going to delete my comments anyway. Fancy a chat over DM?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 03:24 PM
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One can acknowledge a struggle without quitting
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:45 PM
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Solidarity / validation . Increase interaction on the sub so it doesn’t die. I can politely fuck off. If it’s not welcome
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:40 PM
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Understood. I literally meant my post to be like ‘ yes I have to get my shit together’ . Rather than debate. Can delete and observe for now though
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:31 PM
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This. But with an important additional point. Don’t admit the struggle/ difficulties to anybody else particularly a woman you’re dating. They won’t understand or have any sympathy for your numerical disadvantage.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/24 02:11 PM
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Is general commenting, sub interaction not welcome?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:06 PM
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Porn sickness and cultural grooming. It’s not a natural occurrence whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:37 PM
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Holy Shit I’ve been married for 1 month (previously did not live together) This is not easy and I now understand why this place exists. What a culture shock from dating once a week to this. Gotta start with good foundations. Though the idea that this battle goes on for the rest of my life is a bit daunting
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 10:15 AM
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OP is confusing the ever living hell out of personality and morals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:57 PM
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OP is confusing the ever living hell out of personality and morals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:57 PM
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I wish more people understood that you can improve social skills. It’s also a win win situation because it just means more people having a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:28 AM
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To an extent yep. But set yourself some mini goals E.g. talk to 5 new people, keep a conversation going for 10 minutes, tell an interesting story to more than one person listening, exchange social media/phone number with one person. Etc Treat social skills like one would approach the gym or a grindy video game. It sounds autistic but it actually works. Develop a mindset where failure to hit a goal isn’t the end of the world just give it another go. See Real social dynamics/ Owen cook for some mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:27 AM
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I did something similar and it paid off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:23 AM
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It’s not though. You cannot grow 5 inches. You definitely can change your outlook and behaviour by consistent practice, therapy, self development etc. even though it isn’t easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:57 AM
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She’s not his gal . She is everybody’s pal. Jokes aside it’s just never worth it even if it is technically amazing
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 02:05 AM
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Mediocre BJ from a traitor never worth the shame
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 01:28 AM
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Seven months Bruh that’s not a long time
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 10:41 AM
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The charisma and social skills point especially the rejections along the way ; is a very valid perspective. This just isn’t understood by enough people. And it can change your life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:19 PM
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My Arab Dad (a non sportsman but successful guy) once told a famous pro footballer at a party: “ I bet the feeling of the ball hitting the back of the net is better than ZA ORJASM” Completely irrelevant to the gist of the post but I love that man dearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:01 PM
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Agree with this as well. But that is partially an attraction thing but also related to mate/offspring safety. Not many people understand the internal confidence and attractiveness aspect. You phrased it quite well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:15 PM
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The difference here is safety. A random female hook up is unlikely to cause damage to most males. Whereas a random guy hook up could abuse, rape, stealth contraception, hit, impregnate the woman. So at least a basic screening for safe and stable personality features is usually necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:00 PM
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10% really? Thought lower
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:26 PM
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What? I’m not a woman. I’m just saying you can advise your daughter to be safe but also not victim blame someone who has gone through assault
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:11 PM
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Question askers care about your answer though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:05 PM
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I think it’s a different thing advising someone on sensible precautions and safety vs blaming a victim for what they were wearing. There’s a hole in that logic somewhere but won’t get into it now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:30 PM
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I didn’t read the article . It’s just one persons experience / a small amount of data. As opposed to millions of real life experiences. Being short sucks. Most of us realise that. I’m just sharing my experience that I’ve always hated it but made the most of life and not let it get in my way
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 05:05 PM
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I think it’s just something you have to accept and live with. Most people have some kind of flaw or deficit or problem and you just have to make do. Similar height to you and it’s never reallly really held me back in life. Maybe wasn’t in the A team for sports as a kid and maybe was quietly rejected for it. Maybe the occasional comment every now and then. But like you I just kind of think about it a lot. Occasionally run into a group of people or be in a crowd and feel like a child. And get down…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 10:41 AM
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You can meet up for your place normally after a few dates. Just a bit of perseverance and patience. Imo it’s an unfair expectation of women to have them just come over without knowing you. And also think of the safety issues surrounding it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:30 PM
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They have. The sexual drive is overwhelming for some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:10 PM
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Correct. Divorce is part of Islamic tradition whilst not encouraged it is not considered innately forbidden like in traditional Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:51 AM
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It’s a full trade off though. The dowry is there but the expectation is full traditionalism. The woman isn’t expected to contribute to household income, the man is not expected to contribute to any domestic labour and sexual consent is deemed permanent. I don’t like it either way but just explaining how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:28 AM
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The second paragraph is horseshit. It’s not difficult strategy to have a good conversation and even flirt without leading with weird sexual shit. You learned how to talk to people politely in pre-school
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:53 PM
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That’s my trait (at my best) that has landed me success fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:06 PM
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Agree. And there’s a very thin line between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:41 AM
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Committing to someone else emotionally and physically is the deepest relationship one can have. There’s nothing else as deep and nothing to compare it to. Note that I said deep. It’s a deep relationship that can cause immense pleasure or pain. Usually a mixture of the two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:43 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:35 AM
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It’s the phrasing. Cold approach = creepy psychopath Talking to people in public or at events = social personality But really they are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:34 AM
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it's still very possible to just organically meet someone suitable for you later in life rather than just settling for less
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:55 AM
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Some do. Especially when they are younger. It varies . But one of the things I will add is that men who cheat on their partners are often ugly, weak socially or have other problems they are deeply insecure about. Which leads them to seek validation through cheating
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 11:12 PM
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Exactly lol. at best performative which still kinda sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:03 PM
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I don’t know why you’re arguing with me. I’m trying to say that living simply would be cheaper than a marriage. At least for me. But the benefits are worth it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:18 PM
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Cambodia, Vietnam and Thailand. Though it’s significantly more expensive post pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:17 PM
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You could also live out in Asia like a boss for a few thousand a year. If you wanted to mix it up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:07 PM
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But that’s my point. I could live on very little money and still enjoy myself. If I was single and happy remaining single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:06 PM
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I would just stick myself in a cheap house share or single apartment and chill. I could have a very low cost of living if it was just for me and not a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:14 PM
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I disagree. Living and managing by yourself is very easy. But most of us want companionship, a social life, sex , romance , someone to talk to, children, etc If I was happy being single and living by myself I would. It’s the easier option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:35 AM
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Majority of places now in socially acceptable/ liberal world. Completely outlaw transphobia of any degree. So OP until that’s addressed anyone who says they are a woman is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:38 AM
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I’m sorry man. especially as you had a date and then she essentially tricked you into a fake out of court settlement. Just learn the lesson and never believe a good word coming out her mouth ever again. And thank God every single day that you don’t have kids with her. Once the financial settlement is over it is truly over. I have a cousins who had kids with an emotionally unstable woman. And YEARS , 100 thousand odd in legal fees, multiple family and children court hearings later she is still an…
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 07:01 PM
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Here in the UK. A very large number of young men and women go to Thailand/vietnam/cambodia in there late teens and 20s. We do raise eyebrows at single men over the age of 30 going though. Slightly situational
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:32 PM
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Your perfect woman who also lets you do it inside (with reliable BC) but doesn’t swallow is a deal breaker fr ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:25 PM
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A bit like ‘at the end of the day’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 PM
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I went to Thailand for a medical school exchange I wasn’t chasing sleeze. Very common for normal young people to visit asia around my parts ; bit of a blanket on that part of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:23 PM
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Hmmm interesting. Life is much easier when there’s money. What about relatively ‘down to earth’ wealthy people; still a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:20 PM
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People willl hate on you for this. Particularly on Reddit. But relationships and friendships that don’t revolve around politics and instead focus on other aspects of life are so much more fun and stress free
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:19 PM
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Making is completely different and so much better in terms of creativity and function. I would adore someone that makes media but agree with the original comment about consumers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:17 PM
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As in they are fairly independent factors. You can be a morally good person but not attractive to a certain person. You can be a person with poor behaviour and morals and yet still be attractive to someone. See grandma example
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 12:28 PM
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You still haven’t internalised that being a morally good person isn’t the same as being sexually attractive. You don’t want to fk your grandma golden girl friend just because she made you tea and called you a lovely sweet boy .
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 08:24 AM
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You joke. But I was 19 years old when I came to this realisation. And it blew my mind. I wandered around my flat repeating “ women are people” ; “women are just people too” “ women are people just like I am a person” “omg I figured it out” For a good few hours lmao
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 08:21 AM
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You are still conflating moral goodness with attractiveness. Both genders are generally attracted (especially short term) to physical traits, confidence, excitement, fun and carefree personalities. Being a morally good person or supportive on women’s rights is pretty independent of whether they want to sleep with you
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 08:18 AM
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Yeah just bin her. I can tolerate someone who believes in social injustice and wanting to rectify it But to base her identity and first date conversation on the impact of patriarchy is an immediate trash bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:17 PM
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😳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:10 PM
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. But it seems like the issue with OPs wife was that even though he was challenging her and pushing her towards goals she was too lazy and obtuse to follow through.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 12:56 PM
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Yeah I more or less agree with you. But I’m on the red pill side of the spectrum rather than representative of society as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:06 PM
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Yes. You’re still pretty shitty but they are ultimately responsible for their actions. They are adult members of society’s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:49 PM
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I have very little sympathy for placeholders. Women have the majority of choices and benefits in this system; if they fail to make the right ones it’s also on them yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:53 PM
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Agree with the first bit. The onus is largely on you to make the effort and keep the good vibe. I disagree with the reddy black pill take that women are sniffing around for a better option constantly . But I would meet you halfway and say that if any man allows the relationship to become boring or tense then she is much more likely to go monkey branching
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:02 PM
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They are easier to pull but will damage you in the long run. Humans tend to go for the lowest hanging fruit and end up poisoned
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:07 PM
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Yes for sure. But it’s still worth trying. Being honest I have no real childhood trauma. But A lil bit of bullying , physically small and an isolation from girls when I was 0-18. I basically spent 18-21 really really trying to fix it. And it worked and set me up for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:05 PM
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This is a lovely story. But for guys reading. Long term relationships are not a breeze. It still requires active dating and an attraction between the partners. Getting complacent and allowing the relationship to become stale is probably the number 1 thing that will end in pain for you. Especially/ usually for men in particular. It’s always going to be some level of effort if you want a quality relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:02 PM
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That’s not true. If you manage to grind out some self improvement in social skill, looks, money and attitude. You can go from a forever alone type guy to having a modest mid type wife. Or go from having a relationship with low levels of attraction to a higher quality woman who actually wants you. Self improvement is always worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:40 PM
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What you’ve written is objectively true. But on a personal level each man must do what they can to the best of their ability otherwise nothing good will happen. A person who was dealt a shitty hand and didn’t have many positive social experiences growing up has two options. A) Do something to make it better even if it’s diffficult and b) painful or do nothing and give up. Option A is always going to do better unless it is a severe anomaly or mental illness like the OP mentioned. Doing is better …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:37 PM
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I think the theory is that sexual liberalisation has allowed people to date and get a flavour for everything. Sometimes people get a taste for people outside of their ‘league’ ; maybe a hook up but cast away for commitment If they were never exposed then they would be content with the person in front of them (Not saying I fully buy into this; but that’s where they are going with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:50 PM
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I think the point they are making is that the new world of online relationships is pushing people with completely different lives onto each other. Sometimes it ends at date 1 as there is nothing enjoyable to talk about. But worse is that the relationship can ride out through the honeymoon and ugly incompatibilities start to surface Edit: I should say the more interesting point they should be making
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:04 PM
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I was at a wedding today. And I’m getting married myself in 2 months. But I come from a culture where the value of family, religion and community isn’t completely shot to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:56 PM
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OP’s point is a very poor one. In the sense that the hypothetical question was about a randomly selected man not the partner that you have chosen to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:27 PM
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The question never states grizzly bear. It just says bear. I still think it’s fecking ridiculous and deliberate obfuscation of the truth. But the question just says bears and in a forest (not trapped with) . 70% of bears in North America are black bears which do not specifically predate on humans. And would still leave you alone especially if you ran, didn’t provoke it, or made some noise. It’s still a bit stupid but not quite as bad as your making out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:25 PM
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Yes to an extent. But I wasn’t really having that debate. A lot of guys I know have done this to women with perceived lower value
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:00 PM
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Ehh to be honest I do kind of agree with you. Especially if the simp is taking her out and acting like a boyfriend without any physical stuff at all. But I’m consistent in that I don’t have much sympathy for either. Both the simp and strung along woman need to sort their shit out themselves. And should take responsibility to remove themselves from that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:47 PM
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Women are more likely to just reject you or laugh at you. Or at worst keep you as a friend and let you be an orbiter. They are unlikely to fk you and fake promise a relationship. Or promise marriage and babies then bail. Obviously my opinion/ anecdotal but the whole board is IG
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:42 PM
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Yeh . It’s pretty standard dude behaviour to keep below par girls on the down low. Seen from myself (only occasionally) and plenty of men I know. I only loudly and proudly declare a woman as mine if she is worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:36 PM
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Oh no honey. even if that’s state policy hopefully you agree that’s it’s seriously immoral. Especially if the named father wants to contest it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:28 PM
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That’s an absolute bullshit statement to make about men. Men are notorious for not committing, future faking , low effort , hiding from friends/ social media to women they want to bong but don’t want to have a formal relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:04 PM
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The 2% number is the lowest estimate I’ve ever seen. It’s much higher I thought. Like 5%-15% depending on the study. It’s supposedly much higher in France but now difficult to prove because of their horrible laws
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:28 AM
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In general they aren’t so bad. Very weird with their paternity rights though. I’ve heard it’s because cheating and extra marital affairs are rampant in the country. And they can’t be bothered to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:26 AM
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I would stick to your boundaries. You’re being more than reasonable and just weeding out the wrong type of guys . Or at least the type of guys that won’t take you seriously. 1 - 3 months for the full act is very reasonable if the guy suits your long term goals. It’s a tricky balancing act for women. And most men won’t understand the struggle you face. almost every single guy will stick it in if you let him. So I’d say give some physical interest but only go all the way if the relationship is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:15 PM
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Fair counter point. My view is that there are steps before sex to show interest. If there is some physical intimacy like hugging, kissing and a bit of touching there is no doubt of your interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:04 PM
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Can you do it by yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:59 AM
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It’s not that complicated. Their advice is to Date appropriately and then choose a guy who suits you best. Avoid giving yourself away physically unless it’s committed. That’s their advice. You obviously don’t have to listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:57 AM
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I don’t understand how this is possible. Work out how to O by yourself then ask your husband to follow the same technique. It’s not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:55 AM
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That’s men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:06 PM
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Why would he pay your bills if he doesn’t live with you?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 03:07 PM
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Being selective about who you have sex with is not the same as being low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:32 AM
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I agree with your ‘most brain dead’ take. Being selective is different from raw drive. Just like you being unwilling to fk guys doesn’t mean you are not as high libido as gay men for example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:37 AM
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I mean that would be a shit position to be in. Your woman turns on you after stopping BC
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:46 AM
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Ugh he was a beta all this time. Get me OUT of here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:20 AM
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Imagine the reality of that. How shit would that be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:20 AM
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Anecdotal isn’t it. I’ve seen my fair share of happy relationships and miserable ones . Decided it was the right thing for me with the right person. There’s obviously a lot of talk of women’s spaces online and a massive movement in places like Korea. But haven’t witnessed that many happily single and loving it women above the age of 25 in my own personal limited experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:12 PM
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As I said the married women I know range from delighted with their life and husbands to miserable. Most single women I have known are actively seeking relationships and marriage . Obviously anecdotal but this is my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:02 PM
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A mix. Some husbands dislike them and take them for granted ; others adore and cherish their wives. But that’s not really what I was going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:42 PM
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I think this is a massive female COPE. I’ve met very few women who are long term happy single or have no desire to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:39 PM
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A lot of People are fucking idiots half the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:18 PM
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It’s an interesting question. Answer is I’d hope not . I want all intimacy to be based on attraction not fear. But the truth is probably yes at least a little bit whether that is spoken or unspoken. A man who is well nourished like that is extremely unlikely to cheat unless he is a total piece of shit. Whereas you can empathise more with a man in a dead bedroom who is desperate be more likely to turn at any half opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:17 PM
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Hmm it does sound like a deep incompatibility. Particularly if you have broken up already. That usually doesn’t end in success. We of course don’t know all the details of your relationship. But I’m curious about that point. Would you not allow your ideal man who made everything just work out for you; have say 2 or 3 days in a year where he could have his friends and just have a guy day. I’m a big proponent of rewarding a partner who is good to you. It’s conditional; I’m not saying always be a do…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 10:24 PM
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Do your ages play a role here? Have you allowed yourself to hear his inner reasons for not wanting to make the next steps. If you really belief he is practice gf-ing you or future faking from the bottom of your heart then you gotta leave. If he’s just a bit young and unsure then stick it out
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 09:57 PM
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That’s the only way it works well. Sounds like a happy relationship. It going one way for either man or woman would not typically end well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:06 AM
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It depends. Going to another country to date is totally fine and probably should be encouraged at this point. Breaking the law or engaging in the trade is different and I would frown upon that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:23 AM
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Can you explain why you think a low maintenance person would be marked as boring. (I have some theories). But wondering if you think it for the same reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:46 PM
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To me that’s wild. But at least it filters out matches for you. It’s a good thing to be clear about what you want in a partner. Have you gone to an all inclusive and just chilled out and be taken care of? I don’t understand how anyone could not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:42 PM
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Some women are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:34 PM
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This is a funny ass conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:33 PM
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Thanks for putting in a human perspective and showing how absurd some of these posts can be. Also well done on having boundaries; which to be fair to the OP some men do lack
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:05 PM
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Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:56 PM
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Why are you saying this like it’s a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:48 PM
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In my experience , nobody beauty shames women more than their own mother and sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:47 PM
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Wife wouldn’t even pee with the door closed and me nearby in the first few months
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:13 PM
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If he’s faced an entire life of rejection with no success then yes sure. But if you live an active life in a city/ community/ college; you run into hundreds of women a year. Just because you don’t date them for whatever reason doesn’t mean you are fundamentally unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:35 AM
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I don’t speak for the sub. But I mean that there are guys that can absolutely attract women/ have quality relationships that hold deep held red pill beliefs. The best seducers are those that go undetected. But there are other guys that will hold red pill beliefs and come across to people and women as bitter , weird and desperate.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 08:01 PM
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Do they say this stuff to you and then don’t mention it to the women they’re dating. Because that would make most sense.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 07:49 PM
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Superficial rejections don’t mean anything and you should not take it personally. They are rejecting you based on an initial impression and could be due to a million different factors. From race, to not being single, to not wanting a relationship, to job , to not being a type, because she was tired and wanted to listen to music. If you formed a romantic connection with every single woman you encountered life would be absurd. It’s not supposed to be like that. What would hurt is forming a bond wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:29 PM
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Coffee and walk is fine for an initial meet up. The switch and bait is weird.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 03:42 PM
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It’s a fine balance between being mysterious and a boring guy with nothing to say. Play the chill approach but if there aren’t enough rewards along the way don’t be surprised if she loses interest and finds something more shiny to play with instead
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 02:36 PM
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Obviously our samples are just anecdotal. But I’m not sure I agree about the geography or at least your angle on it. The age gap relationships I knew that broke down were because the guy was older and more settled but the woman was still young. The woman wanted to go out and explore and dance. The lights of the city got them. But the guy was unable to keep up. And you could blame both parties. But ultimately they were incompatible in part due to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:39 PM
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The age gap relationships I know ( 6+ years ) haven’t worked out. Due to change of the younger person and lack of commonaility mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:00 PM
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I vaguely agree. But I think you a simplistic in viewing it as some kind of sudden death or one hit KO. Over the course of a long term relationship you WILL make mistakes and have moments of weakness. It’s just inevitable over that period of time. And if it was sudden death then there would be no functional attraction or relationships that exist. However persistent: weakness, insecurity, indecisiveness and inability to bounce back is certainly a relationship killer. And I wish the mainstream wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:01 PM
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Oof you made me think of one more male example. One of the unfaithful women’s father was a serial cheater for years. I guess bad people are just bad people. All the recent examples in my life of cheating forming new relationships were women. Men have been more often caught being sleazy like porn addictions and strip clubs. (All anecdotal)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:30 PM
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Are there studies . Especially more recently because I think it’s definitely at least even’d out. In my own circle of family and friends ; I can think of 5 infidelity examples and 4 of those were when the woman was the one in a relationship. The other unspoken truth is that if a women wanted to it would be so much easier than for a man. So many sad stories on Reddit of men being caught on dating apps empty handed or with hookers. So maybe the intent still lies more with men but a similar number …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:06 AM
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Was about to say the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:20 PM
1

Only know of one person who plays with that kind of thing. He’s done it all his life and it’s normal for him. I know of a lotta people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:06 PM
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Hate to be that guy. But are you dating far outside of your age bracket and/ or below your intelligence and experience bracket?
/r/seduction17/03/24 12:49 PM
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It should be. But the world isn’t a fair place
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 03:23 PM
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A lot of people live in a grey state of semi boredom. Over-confident , expressive people and even assholes offer some variety to life. Which is why they attract people. It’s a reason why there is a lot of contempt (sometimes subtle sometimes not) for quiet or plain people. Because they don’t participate in that social contract of alleviating the communal boredom.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 01:50 PM
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No sorry disagree. We will both agree that respectful kind behaviour is always good. But men or women who truly simp and I class that as : always sacrificing his own needs, putting well above 50 % into the overall relationship, not calling her out for her mistakes, having no boundaries , tolerating disrespect and public mockery. Will end up being ‘dog walked’ as you eloquently put it. Imo I think men are more likely to suffer but that’s debatable. But im convinced that an unequal relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:11 AM
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No sorry disagree. We will both agree that respectful kind behaviour is always good. But men or women who truly simp and I class that as : always sacrificing his own needs, putting well above 50 % into the overall relationship, not calling her out for her mistakes, having no boundaries , tolerating disrespect and public mockery. Will end up being ‘dog walked’ as you eloquently put it. Imo I think men are more likely to suffer but that’s debatable. But im convinced that an unequal relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:10 AM
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No sorry disagree. We will both agree that respectful kind behaviour is always good. But men or women who truly simp and I class that as : always sacrificing his own needs, putting well above 50 % into the overall relationship, not calling her out for her mistakes, having no boundaries , tolerating disrespect and public mockery. Will end up being ‘dog walked’ as you eloquently put it. Imo I think men are more likely to suffer but that’s debatable. But im convinced that an unequal relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:10 AM
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There is a prime for men. A man usually gets into their stride late twenties and early 30s. Usually have more financial independence, social confidence and direction that a younger version of themselves. I know quite a few guys , anecdotally, that are so much more put together and also successful with women in their late 20s compared to 18-25. Your mileage may vary of course; people take all kinds of trajectories for better or for worse I don’t necessarily agree with their perception of the wall…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 12:31 AM
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Disagree. Game/ social skills need working on at the same time. It’s like a muscle group being neglected at the gym. No doubt it will help in obtaining bags also.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/24 02:32 PM
2

lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:44 AM
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The onus in a typical situation is still on the man to put forward the moves. Even if she is into you. Only the most the brazen of women will ‘launch’ themselves . Most receptive women will just match your advances. The other thing is that office parties there’s likely to be background comfort and trust. They know each other and have some history. I wouldn’t worry about it . Just evaluate your situations. Did nothing happen because you didn’t make forward moves or did you get explicitly rejected…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:59 PM
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A young adult man and a woman who like each other and are alone will almost inevitably end up doing it. The key factor you’re probably missing is being alone. If after the Christmas party they went for an extra drink or food or check something out at their home. Then that’s how it happens .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:20 PM
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Most men are hypocrites with porn. They would probably not tolerate their woman watching it. Imagine if they spent considerable time picking categories and could only get off if there was a variety of body types and chose specific dicks to get their rocks off when in the mood. Most men would not tolerate even 10% of what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:53 AM
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Man from Africa could be a good idea for maintaining traditions and culture. Nigerian immigrants are also amongst the higher earners. It’s an option
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:26 PM
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I used to be into pick up; more so the strats and the skills rather than anything too heavy and red pill. a long time ago when i was a young adult. But actually forming deep female friendships around that time probably did more for me in terms of growth than anything.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 09:51 AM
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5 is not crazy. At 19 it’s slightly high. But just be more selective from here on out
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 11:37 PM
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People will always look out for their in group. And want to advantage themselves against others. It’s the simplest and most logical explanation for most human behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:01 PM
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Best friend absolutely not. Friends in group settings, colleagues, family friends, Husbands of their female friends etc are completely normal. Having a best friend of the opposite gender that is not your partner is not an acceptable thing in our world. We basically adopt the Michael Pence rule. Generally no 1 on 1 time with non family opposite gender. With reasonable and obvious exceptions. Like work, driving, service encounters (plumber, doctor etc) It amused me how he got ridiculed for that du…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:33 AM
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Would potentially avoid. Especially close ups of a gun or any military attire Not a bad thing to be into ; played it a couple of times and it was fun. But might give off accidental warning signs online. Online is unfortunately not like real life where there is a chance to show your vibe and character before they swipe. Other hobbies are a good idea to broadcast. Edit: by all means bring it up later after matching. Just might give wrong initial first impression.
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:39 AM
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If you’ve been in a good LTR you know that the libido gap isn’t as unequal as you think. There’s many reasons why women don’t act like men. Aside from possibly slightly lower levels of desire. The other 2 big factors are: Safety. Women live in fear of assault and coercion. There’s a risk with an unknown man. Social stigma. Whatever your view on body count; women do get judged by large portions of society for engaging in sex outside of relationships. You have to be exceptional or meet someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:20 AM
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If you’ve been in a good LTR you know that the libido gap isn’t as unequal as you think. There’s many reasons why women don’t act like men. Aside from possibly slightly lower levels of desire. The other 2 big factors are: Safety. Women live in fear of assault and coercion. There’s a risk with an unknown man. Social stigma. Whatever your view on body count; women do get judged by large portions of society for engaging in sex outside of relationships. You have to be exceptional or meet someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:19 AM
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Unpopular opinion. But there is nothing wrong with learning how to create sparks. And incorporating that into your personality is also useful when it comes to long term relationships. it’s not easy but you can learn to be more exciting/ attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:48 PM
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“Attraction cannot be negotiated” is a scary truism. IMO who cares if a random isn’t attracted to you. Onto the next one. Where this is really dangerous is in a LTR. Attraction is selfish. Cannot persuade someone to be attracted and stay attracted. Attraction doesn’t care if you’ve lost your job. Attraction doesn’t care if you have a mortgage and kid. Attraction doesn’t care if you got sick or have a bad thyroid. And once it’s gone it is difficult to get back. Look after mutual attraction in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:42 AM
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“ I have an amazing infusion collection” is clown territory. But saying let’s go grab some pizza; listen to some music; play Mario kart; or whatever Is pretty solid
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:48 PM
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The type of guys who end up in sexless long term relationships in marriages are also unlikely to have an attractive FWB. Same principles of maintaining attraction apply
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:56 AM
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Sounds like slavery with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:23 PM
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there is a lot of subliminal messaging in media and online about a woman being able to behave how they want. Memes about women being a princess , tossing a man out for being poor and a woman play slapping their partner Are all popularised and normal. Whereas anything reverse is incel territory. In real life. I see a pretty even split with men being the dominant partner but it’s becoming more and more common for women to take the lead one way or another. Even teasing and toying with their man pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:42 PM
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Yeah agree. Just mean that both could happen. Arguably dudes are more likely to jump straight into a trap without knowing them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:14 PM
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People can slip into physical contact very easily at the wrong spots. Doesn’t always have to be a big build up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:01 PM
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Your other stance i obviously agreed with about clubs and late nights etc But this is extreme. You shouldn’t have your partners friends numbers? Now I come to think of it I don’t. But I would be more than happy if she did and vice Versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:52 PM
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That’s instant end of relationship obviously. And I’m not even that conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:45 PM
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A world outside the internet? Whaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:38 PM
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Quite likely yes
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 07:45 PM
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Probably more true for women. Many men who absolutely love a pleaser and yes-girl. (Completely opinion based . Not reporting this as fact)
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 03:57 PM
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I meant like that is a bare minimum standard. You should be striving for that and so much more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:21 AM
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Can be anywhere in the world. I’d argue that people are more likely to have fixed beliefs (both stronger and at an earlier age) if their life is more difficult and they have less freedom and time to think. If you have money, a lack of responsibilities and stress then you have more available time to debate, experience new ideas and read books/the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:51 AM
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Which ideas? Red pill ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:43 AM
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I think that’s a very difficult question to answer. A truly intelligent and aware person is always open to their beliefs being challenged and open to changing them. (In my opinion which is ironic given the question lol) I’d say most people become fully entrenched in their ideas once their life stops changing. I.e. when you’ve settled into your career/role in life, same life partner etc. That can happen very early on if you get your HS girlfriend pregnant and get straight into the workforce. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:22 AM
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Good takes. Though I think the first is probably more like 70-90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:16 AM
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For physical interaction maybe. But if that is your sole standard for a long term partner then you really don’t understand yourself or relationships very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:14 AM
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As long as you’re not being aggressive or rude then I think you are within your rights to say hi to whatever woman you want to in public. And you should look for indicators of interest before flirting more obviously or asking for a number/social/date. If you follow those guides you are perfectly fine. Ignore online chatter and judgements
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:16 PM
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my life would be much simpler, easier and streamlined but definitely would not be happier or more fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:34 PM
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The female fantasy is someone coming along and making things exciting. They want someone different than the mundane greyness of life to lift them up and make them feel alive. Many ways of achieving that in both healthy and toxic ways but ultimately I think that’s what it’s all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:40 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:10 PM
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Was talking from my perspective/male point of view. But absolutely I’ve always acknowledged that women have a set of very valid fears and struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:42 AM
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I think it’s the biggest fear going into a serious relationship. What is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:34 AM
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I think he means his biggest fear is her losing interest a few years down the line. When there is a joint house, kids, life and then it suddenly blowing up. Which is a reasonable fear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:27 AM
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You could try kissing, massage and verbally hinting at more for later. Seems like a pretty normal middle step between nothing and the things you described
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:24 AM
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False paternity rates are somewhere between 5-20% it’s not a neurosis. I agree though, making it legally mandatory is totalitarian and not right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:11 PM
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It’s almost a shame that no one will actually tell men this. It’s something you have to either figure out or have the correct influences. To make you stop. It’s not that difficult to be affectionate and sweet while maintaining a masculine frame. Interesting though that the Sex is still good and it seems like one of the few domains he remembers he is a man. Is there anything you can do to put him in a position to lead more? Before you pull the plug on this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 11:10 AM
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Classic pick up teaches to befriend the other girl as part of your bid or occupy her with a wing if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:12 PM
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Not denying your points. They are true. But even in those cultures women will have had fun experiences and dates with exciting guys. Even if sexual encounters were off the table. There is no happiness and fulfilment for straight men unless you take action to be attractive. Whereever you might be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:50 PM
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In practice. I will leave you if you go vs you are not allowed. Are very similar. Especially in a long term, deeply involved relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:37 PM
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So they are basically the same thing. Just worded differently. An ultimatum to end an entire relationship is similar to just saying “ you’re not allowed to go without me”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:37 PM
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Can you give example of a boundary that doesn’t involve controlling the actions of the other partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:38 PM
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Think about your ‘looksmatch’ somewhere in the world who can’t speak your language or is from a completely alien culture. Connection and chemistry would be hard to build
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:10 AM
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Chemistry is real. Physical attraction plays a role. But some people click in a way where conversation, jokes, flirting and physical touch become natural very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:09 AM
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These are all very good validations of my beliefs around attraction. It would be helpful if more men understood this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:03 AM
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Cold approaching is where there is absolutely no context to the people involved. E.g. coffee shop, bar. Warm approaching is where there is a mutual connection. E.g. both of you are invited to the same wedding party
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:52 AM
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Anecdotally I’ve seen a lot of my peers start to clean up or establish relationships with high quality women in their late 20s and early 30s when they weren’t up to much before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:52 PM
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Good post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:11 AM
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I figured that might be true. Which is fine. You want someone you can vibe with. But the big provider spender types are also likely to be more trad. Which is the question you are asking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:23 PM
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Most traditional minded providers are not going to be thrilled or eager for heavily tattoo’d ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:11 AM
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Almost certainly non traditionalism plays a factor here. Most attractive guys who also have a provider mentality expect a certain level of submission and traditionalism. The tatooos are instantly warding that type away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:42 AM
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Depends on the day and the company. I’m a bit hot cold. Either the most entertaining person in the room or a mute Almost never boring to the person im dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:11 PM
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Look at the conviction rates for rape in your jurisdiction. And then re read your post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:41 PM
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Look up ‘genealogy of morality ’ by Nietzsche A summary or YT video if you want. I think that you’ll find it very relevant to what your describing and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:41 AM
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There’s a difference between ‘good’ and ‘attractive’. Sometimes they go together; sometimes not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:31 AM
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I’d like to think that a lot of is just anonymous bravado and inner thoughts. I’m probably much more blunt, cynical and ‘logical’ on here than I am in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:06 PM
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I can’t tell if this nonsense or on point. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:44 PM
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Do you mean that redditors (or at least their perception) are much more rude and/or blunt than ‘normies’. Why do you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:38 PM
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As explained above. It’s absolutely fair to test this way. Some women are toxic and way over the top. But in general testing is a legitimate way to know that a lady is not dealing with a sociopath or otherwise horrible person. Out of interest do you think it’s always conscious or sometimes just reflex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:09 AM
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True but it’s a necessary part of life I guess. To help you feel better, realise that if a woman didn’t test or resist at all, she could end up in a situation of abuse or unwanted children alone. If you view it as part of their survival and selection mechanism then it really isn’t that bad :-) In OP’s situation it was a very gentle , “I’m not comfortable yet but next time probably”. And OP played it perfectly. For all the doom mongering on this sub ; I honestly think many women have a tough time…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:07 AM
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That has got to be harrowing. Similar age to me and seeing 4chan/red pill and other associated forum growing up as woman. you were exposed to perpetual extremes for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:00 PM
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30 and 33 tops Fertility is a real thing. (My actual fiancée is 29)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:20 AM
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It should be roughly equal. There’s always going to be a slight imbalance but it shouldn’t be too extreme. Women advising women will say that the guy should be slightly more into you than you are them. Men advising men will say that the lady should be more into you than you into them. Make of that what you will. For what it’s worth I can tell that you lose interest if the guy is more into you than them. So you’d probably be better off where you are like 5-10% more invested for the guys sake as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:28 AM
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This is the point of view of redpill/ traditionalism. The laws, institutions of society made rules and slut shamed to ensure all guys that could contribute to society got their woman. This is being thrown out the window. With plenty of winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:25 AM
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I joked with my SO that if she wants to test my diamonds then I’ll test our baby when it comes . She seemed chill about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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You’re Dad has natural disciplined game within him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:09 AM
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As a baseline. For you to develop social skills or a social circle into adulthood it needs serious effort and often dealing with brutal conditions. But it’s very possible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:47 AM
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This is an incredible way of putting things. I’ve stopped being concerned about other peoples ‘progress’ for this reason. Most people don’t have that will to change. I’ll be pleasant and try to see the positive qualities in others but never try to improve them unless someone asks. Only myself and spouse deserve that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:45 AM
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Durham , oxbridge, Exeter for UK wealthy London Unis for international wealth
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 11:13 PM
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Also logical that neurodivergent women are more likely to be taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:52 PM
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Murder is much more difficult to get away with concealing and it is protected by the harshest punishments of law. Murder of an intimate partner is also much less frequent than this. There you go 3 reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:05 AM
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There’s still a lot of taboo societally. Behind closed doors the winners know the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:24 AM
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Low inhibition and confidence maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:24 AM
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It’s a terrible choice for never married guys without kids. You’re essentially going to make your self a second priority in the relationship and end up with hassle, financial pressure and stress that you didn’t have part in creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:37 PM
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I’m not that much into pills and debating. But devils advocate would say that your from a different generation. And there are substantial and novel issues facing the younger ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:33 AM
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If you are the type of person to complain about af/bb or ‘the carousel’. Then you have a lot of soul searching to do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:39 PM
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It’s a completely different set of standards and game entirely. Dating and long term partnership The consensus seems to be that The bar is very high in one and low in the other. For example a man that is very attractive and enticing in one way or another so gets the dates and relationship. But may be very lacking in terms of organisation, household habits, gifts etc etc. The two X cohort and co are complaining about the long term stuff after getting hooked on the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:55 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:02 PM
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Like with most things in life. You can do it but in a non awkward way and make it normal. “ please ma’am is it ok if increase my physical proximity” Vs “ baby are you ready for me to __ “
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 AM
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Interesting perspective. Should be copied and pasted under every random comment about shit testing on Reddit. It’s not the evil thing it’s portrayed as. More of a compatibility test and often subconscious
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 12:52 AM
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I actually do agree with you. It’s a scenario of where getting in the door is harder but men tend to expect a lot of sacrifice and effort from the woman once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:54 PM
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The insane focus is sometimes needed. Even though life has plenty to offer. The lack of satisfaction and ego hit from not being able to have it can be so demotivating. I’d say when I was single a long time ago. It probably occupied at least 50% of my thoughts at the time. But I’ve seen similar with women as well. It’s a human thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:28 PM
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That’s the point. Being socially fluid is >>> any productive pursuit in terms of dating success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:09 PM
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It doesn’t but gives you a very solid foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:37 AM
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Easier to have an emotional connection when people have a similar sort educational background
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 12:45 PM
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Traditionally the reward of taking the initial steps and relationship escalation is the above. But it makes sense as the scene become less ‘traditional’ for there to be a balance with both ends and i therefore understand your complaint. End of the day though it’s you who is able to define your relationship and the roles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:20 PM
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Yeah wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:38 PM
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Traditionally the ‘pay off/reward/ balance’ from that is domestic work and social planning in addition to the gruelling experience of bearing a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:20 PM
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This thread is a good reminder of the importance of an improvement mindset / positive outlook is for men no matter how difficult reality can be at times.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 07:10 AM
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Gen Z are truly a bit weird. But in general I like them. They have a lot of creativity and mixed influences from being raised by the internet. Prefer them to millennials in a lot of ways. Just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:52 PM
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The kids dilemma literally changes everything about this situation. Any woman with kids from random runaway fathers is not exactly going to be appealing to most eligible men And the 20 yo being prime doesn’t fit into the context of modern living. You would have a more realistic and thought provoking story about say a 24yo and 29yo both without kids. With people agreeing and disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:34 PM
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Goood theory in the first para
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:48 PM
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That’s very telling and also sad that you think most people will never meet an interesting person. Oh dear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:42 PM
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You’ll just have to be clinical. Turn the dates you have into relationships if your just that great an experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:59 PM
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Your confusing attention and desire with actually hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:49 AM
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Almost like the actual question being asked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:28 AM
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In public they often get shamed for sharing their preferences. So they understandably might be coy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:41 PM
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In general though I mean. You kill someone. Christianity has perfect forgiveness in that if you’re truly sorry God will forgive you. But the person won’t come back from the dead and it won’t guarantee their loved ones won’t get revenge or hate you. Or immunity from the legal system etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:05 PM
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In Christianity your blank slate can happen with true repentance or baptism. But that clean slate is with God. Your ‘sins’ can still have real life consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:02 PM
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Meant in general. I haven’t looked at the insta. But same principle. Socially dumb if they write that on a public profile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:54 AM
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How would you even know. Unless they had zero social awareness and started talking about ‘concepts’ mid date
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:01 AM
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Disagree slightly. In my opinion it’s just a very useful tool that changes experiences. Rather than an attraction feature. But even still makes a massive difference. There’s too broke to get a drink, normal person, easy spending and yacht level money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:00 PM
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Such a lazy, poor comparison. Killing perceived undesirables is not the same as encouraging that those with adequate resources should be having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:08 AM
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Agree with OP. More picky not less drive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:32 PM
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If you behave insecure about a glow up then it’s definitely lights out good night time. Horrible trait and you’ll lose them either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:08 PM
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Less than 40 wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:17 PM
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Should one spouse stay if other is unfaithful according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:47 PM
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Even Christ permitted divorce in the case of adultery
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:28 PM
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The type of people that comment on Reddit let alone a pill discussion forum are not representative of the wider community
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:24 PM
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Nice in this context usually means a bad mixture of indecisive, scared of confrontation, no assertiveness, no backbone, weakness. Kindness is a good trait. The above is not. And can be a killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:22 PM
2

it's a reddit fan favourite. many stories
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:26 AM
2

Will smith and chris rock incident is one In for answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:48 PM
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Agree with this list mostly. I would avoid any at home meets for the beginning date 1 though. Can easily give spooks even if your smooth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:26 PM
1

Understood Totally a play stupid games win stupid prizes situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:53 PM
1

Ok but that’s the whole point. You can acknowledge difficulties but there’s almost always a way to fix and overcome those. You do doom-monger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:43 PM
1

Odd man out in what sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:43 PM
2

Partially agree. But also friendships and being an interesting person are a separate part of SMV. Dressing appropriately, getting fit and making cash are helpful but only part of the puzzle socially
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:38 PM
1

One of these strikes home. A buddies ex wife came from a home where her father was semi-permitted to keep a mistress for years. And the ex wife just assumed it was nbd and did the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:23 PM
1

Your list is pretty extensive. Imo every single person on earth carries some baggage from their upbringing. I agree it’s important to vet but more vital to see which you can cope with and which you can’t. Substance misuse is a bigger red flag than a teasing culture at home for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:22 PM
2

If your going to be an AI and think the purpose of life is SMV value. Then I’ll play along with you. But acquiring good friends, a social circle and or respect in a community. Is literally status. In addition to improving social skill, humour , confidence , interesting life which are critical to maintaining a relationship. Didn’t it used to be looks, money , status
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:16 PM
0

But his advice isn’t actually helping. It’s essentially just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:03 PM
2

I think it’s the character traits like directness, ambition and mental strengths that matter more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:50 PM
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It’s completely contextual. An off hand comment like this in a healthy relationship where you’re both super close and love each other is probably fine. In your situation it’s potentially harmful. So yes you have the right to be annoyed if you want to. Edit: I didn’t see this was at a dinner table. 90% unacceptable. Unless there’s a super playful vibe between you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 03:46 PM
1

In theory I think it makes sense. But I’ve never seen it in real life. Only stories on the internet. Also not platonic friends with many women these days so I wouldn’t find out anyway. Seems like an inner darker thought type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:47 PM
8

Based take and probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:45 AM
2

Same principle of not being attracted to a woman and or struggling to have arousal as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:53 PM
1

Lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:22 AM
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Look up Oneitis. It’s common and can happen to either gender
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 10:37 AM
-1

Circumcision was passed down from patriarchal religions. And was legislated by men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:42 AM
2

Sentiment means the overall feeling and majority opinion (within the group/ environment)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:41 AM
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Nah it is different. By nature they are choosier. But once they have someone they vibe with they are on it. It’s unsafe and often detrimental for them to just be indiscriminate like men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:22 PM
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More picky not less horny. Subtle but important difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:01 PM
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It’s sad but I actually do think it’s reality for a lot of us. I’m a seemingly adjusted, motivated person but I think my drive for social connections, fitness, wealth and experiences come largely from a desire to be in/ maintain a quality romantic relationship. If that drive wasn’t there I wouldn’t do most of the things I do. I would check out and look for the easiest possible and most comfortable route. Which is probably easy job, single bed flat, drink and get dopamine hits from whatever is ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:00 PM
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This is actually a decent topic and different from your usual repetitive stuff. OP is a bit oddly specific. But some examples for me: Cursing too much in some inappropriate settings Having way too many commitments/friends to live successfully and peacefully My tendency to always have things my way using one method or another. Being overly sensitive to banter, teasing and threats to my manhood Delivering brutal truths / problems too bluntly Being late for meetings/ appointments Body odour (occasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:12 PM
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Low self esteem and need validation from dudes. They may mature or may cause a lot of emotional distress +- cheat later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:38 PM
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You need to just have a frank conversation. And get a clear answer. Some men won’t be able to accept it and some will. But what’s important is that you know. Do not live a life with this man where he is constantly using it as a means to belittle you or make you feel less than. Find out his truthful opinion and go from there. Sitting on the fence will just make you both unhappy
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 02:56 PM
3

Most Arabs (I am one) wouldn’t move in before marriage anyway. At the point of marriage your income and expenses are usually one pocket. So bit of a circular question going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:49 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:09 PM
1

Healthy LTRs are always the goal But being settled for causes so much pain for either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:25 PM
0

Compromise is absolutely normal for lifestyle and values. Attraction cannot be compromised on in a functional relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:55 PM
2

That’s literally what happens in ICU. Decisions get made to withdraw care and it’s considered a normal part of the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:18 AM
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There’s a weekly for this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:03 PM
2

The irony of this is that the central tenets of the RP are more mindset/ behavioural. The material and physical parts are just part of the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:03 PM
1

It’s not true. I can’t imagine how boring/awkward I would find it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:46 PM
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That’s what life is though. Stepping out your comfort zone to explore new ways of experiencing things. Are you sure you didn’t act in a clearly immoral way at any point. Because I don’t understand the guilt your associating with confidence and assertiveness
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 05:53 PM
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Feeling desired doesn’t need to be transactional Simply feeling good or seducing with words/touch can be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:19 PM
2

What? This isn’t work or academic. It’s just general social play
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:12 PM
1

This guy is right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:33 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with both low level shit testing and with negging. Both are what non internet dwellers usually call playfulness, banter or flirting. They’re just given weird names on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:32 PM
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I think we wrote exactly the same thing at the same time lol. It works on anyone though. Have you ever got a Massage or even kissed someone not hot. Your Brain would probably still feel something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:44 AM
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Yes physically. Just not in an objective way. The bonding chemicals just work on both of them. And they feel good getting close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:43 AM
0

It’s not true. Proximity and connection make them attracted to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:14 AM
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Sometimes previous ones legit don’t work out or haven’t found one that works because of career or life challenges. I’m generally pretty hard nosed but I believe that could be justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:46 PM
2

And 3 . Are probably not valid. Rest is fair game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:11 PM
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Out of interest. Anyone with an experience opposite to this willing to share
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:07 PM
2

What would you do to improve things if you were CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:54 AM
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This sub mostly talks about dating at face value. The post is more about hidden issues and lifestyle problems that will prop up much later. Comparing to completely different bars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:53 PM
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I could go along with it until the last point. Rad fems talk about their problems with men endlessly. Even somewhere more mainstream like 2XC is almost always talking about men issues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:22 AM
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It’s way too simple to put pill dynamics down to just looks. Agree with the black pill summary but that’s because they believe nothing else matters. But blue vs red is so much more about attitude, values , methods and predictions. I would guess that most blue and red pillers agree that looks are somewhat important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:18 AM
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Valid point actually. Might answer OPs question they cheating or hiding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:17 PM
1

Push pull Full ignoring would just make you boring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:22 PM
1

Your post is mostly true. But it is exhausting living like this. Being a charismatic, high effort demon 24/7. I’m on the verge of reverting back to being an NPC and I’m not expecting good things to happen for us as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:46 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:54 AM
2

Can you link his YT please? Difficult to find with a name like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:47 AM
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My theory is that people who become too meta in a way that this sub encourages become weird, hypercritical and perhaps don’t live in the real world as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:28 PM
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Overly deep and personal conversation with people you don’t know is considered anti-social, disturbing behaviour. That in itself is breaking the social code and indicates to the other person that you are not well socially adjusted. This in itself is likely to cause rejection (especially from the women but also men) rather than the content. What are you not understanding. And have you tried this yourself (to a well adjusted guy) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:29 PM
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People are telling you the truth. Most individuals on a first meeting will not be able to tolerate that level of depth and vulnerability without being alarmed. Especially women listening to men like this. Jesus they would all run. Edit: even if it’s not negative stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:19 PM
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My point is that it’s very weird talking about personal issues and problems without knowing someone. You have to have basic interest and trust established first. Before moving onto heavier introspection. do you do this to people in day-to-day interactions? And how do they react?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:06 PM
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Has OP got any social awareness? It’s odd and really off putting for someone to just spouting off their deepest and darkest straight away. Is this what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:41 PM
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It’s not true. There’s so much more to life than politics. You can have opinions on all areas of life and emotion. I remember spending a good few years obsessed with political facts and debate. Spent free time reading through opinions and theories from all over the spectrum. I’m with someone now that is not political at all. And honestly it’s freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:53 PM
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He just seems a bit clueless with no bad intent. Getting grilled about his political views. Sure they’re not compatible but it’s kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:52 PM
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Poor dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:15 PM
3

What about if she says. I understand people do but that’s not the way for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:13 PM
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?Doesn’t own a pet is a yellow flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:43 PM
2

You were probably a bit too much. Match the energy
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:24 PM
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Number 1 goes out the window if they know you are put together and it helps if you are dating or in a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:30 PM
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Lol if you believe that. If those guys started approaching you and flirting with you regularly, even non aggressively. Then you would build some kind of defence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:43 PM
2

ITT Dopamine fried brains who couldn’t read a book if their lives depended on it
/r/seduction18/10/22 12:16 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:16 AM
2

Being social is an opportunity to meet people. take that as you will
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:01 AM
1

This is all quite interesting. What do you mean by “male ignorance is the enemy of Autistics”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:58 PM
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Irrelevant but I’m kind of sleepy and I skim read as “when I used to date 3D girls” Hahahahha that got me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:36 PM
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Gentle push/pull is just called ‘flirting’ in the real world when it’s not being dissected by autists and sub forum dwellers like us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:15 PM
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Nah it isn’t just societal shaming and pressure. Dudes want intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:32 PM
1

It’s hilarious that there are all these sources and serious points. And then in the middle: feeling CUCKED
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:29 AM
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I’m not even a blue piller but this is not the same. Also dudes should just stop giving their planets attention. It’s not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:32 AM
1

Solid post
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:42 PM
2

What does mind invaded mean in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:41 PM
1

Feminists /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:40 PM
1

Our definitions of game are basically the same. flirting= eliciting attraction and seduction= closing the deal. To keep a lady interested that stuff has to continue throughout. With a sale once it’s signed through it’s finished. Humans don’t work like that. It’s an ongoing back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:03 PM
1

Ok what’s your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:57 PM
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Subjective. But to me it’s just male flirting and seduction. Which is key to the spark in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:56 PM
1

You absolutely do. If you want a fulfilling one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:08 PM
2

What OP said. Those are good things but not related to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:26 PM
2

Some interesting points. And mostly validates my world view. But counter point. I thought there was attraction to the strong, stoic and silent type. Rugged, slightly dull tradesmen for example. Thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 08:10 PM
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I know bro. Things can suck sometimes and seem so unfair. But you need to put the work in to improve, become positive and inspire people. Otherwise you won’t be happy let alone attract anyone
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:56 PM
4

Your personality bro. I can feel the resentful toxic energy from here. It is fixable. But takes work.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:25 PM
2

I believe that shit testing is a real thing that happens with most normally socialised women. Usually unconsciously. There is a spectrum like anything. Occasionally poking and teasing is normal and then there is unstable, abusive behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:09 PM
1

Post actually worth a discussion for once. Gg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:02 PM
2

Your psych has been fked by that relationship. You aren’t gonna magically get your fill by chasing numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:10 AM
3

Do you even life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:35 AM
2

Am I absurdly lucky that I’m on my second relationship from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:55 PM
2

+1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:27 PM
5

Your right. If you spend your life obsessing over this stuff you will lose it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:39 PM
5

The last one is not a negative imo. My baseline personality is kind. But I prevent boredom and nice guy syndrome by going ‘cassanova’ and ‘unpredictable’ and push. It works
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:56 PM
1

Yikes. Any specifics?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 07:35 AM
3

I kind of agree. But 1 and 2 are very much a foundation. 3 still needs to come and it’s not always natural. Some people have to force themselves to get this I’m not Andy btw haha; just an observation.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 08:05 PM
2

Even by that comment I can tell you are unknowingly probably interesting and cool. Just imagine Andy from the office. He needs more than money and fitness (probably)
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 07:13 PM
4

This is poor advice. (Now edited after discussion :-) Those two things are great no doubt. But it doesn’t cover anything to do with attitude, conversation, flair etc. I imagine there are some boring, clean cut dudes who are in shape and are financially independent .
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 07:10 PM
1

Kindness is seen as an attractive trait Weakness or lack of confidence is seen as a disgusting trait ‘Nice’ is an unclear word and can be mean basically anything vaguely positive or passive. Which is the main problem in discussion. We are taught in school here to never use it in order to communicate clearly or descriptively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:18 PM
3

You can still have desire without being needy. There’s confidence and then there’s desperation. Quite a simple distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:14 PM
1

Despite this was there still enthusiastic physicality/kissing/fucking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:23 PM
1

I enjoyed reading it. I’m either not smart enough or not autistic enough to understand it though. Like modern poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:57 AM
1

Were there no big clues in the dating build up. Did she ever act like she was all over you and couldn’t get enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:35 AM
1

…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:18 AM
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Meditate and expose Meditate and expose By expose I mean try and be authentic even if it’s uncomfortable
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:18 PM
5

Everyone has challenges and burdens to bare. This is yours and it can be overcome
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:26 PM
0

And women have a whole load of other of shit to deal with. We are all born with different attributes and challenges. Getting frustrated over that is pretty pointless
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:23 PM
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This isn’t reality. You’ve spent way too much time online reading into whiny bullshit. Ok maybe I’ll give you competition is probs a little bit tougher due to factors you mentioned. But it’s honesty not hard to be in the top 30% of dudes if you are even at all insightful. It is on the other hand extremely easy to make excuses
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:29 PM
3

Does it matter? Would you want to be with this type of person long term anyway? I get your ego might hurt but bigger picture bro
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:01 AM
7

The main difference is how much she respects you.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 12:33 PM
1

our definition of ‘make room’ might be different. I mean like basic IOIs like paying attention, laughing, engaging and following you (if you lead)
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:14 PM
1

Err maybe. Im talking about girls that you have built up some kind of interaction and are attracted. They usually give you plenty of room to escalate and make things easy for you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:43 PM
2

Video call before the date to verify… Otherwise good luck
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:33 PM
1

Dude I think the other guy is saying that women who like you will give you lots of easy opportunities to escalate. Not necessarily will straight up ask..
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:29 PM
1

And this
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:47 PM
1

Was about to reply fully myself. But this guy covers it.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:47 PM
21

Force yourself to just go for it. Hold her hand. Get close and go for the kiss. Most guys (at least the types who hang on Reddit) play it way too safe. Better to hear a no or not ready yet. Than to do nothing. I went on my first date yesterday since my serious LTR ended. And just forced myself to go for it. She likes me. She wants to you escalate. Sure I was clumsy and a bit awkward but at least I made it happen.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:45 PM
3

The mASF is literally better than this entire subreddits history even after decades.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:10 PM
1

No one had sex before pick up
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:06 PM
1

It’s actually insane that most of RSD’s ‘real’ content has just vanished from the internet. Like a whirlpool of knowledge just gone from the public eye ( for reasonable business/defamation purposes I know but still…)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 12:44 AM
1

I don’t think it’s that wild. being reasonable that giggle was at the very least her thinking about some fun times with other guys/in the casual scene. Some men can handle it; some can’t. Especially traditional types or those with insecurities about their own lack of experience. What else would she be laughing about. Lol
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:48 PM
2

Yes. Almost Every human to have existed as an adult has done it. You will be fine.
/r/seduction07/12/21 10:23 AM
1

Text game can be learned. Just practice being loose and fun with it. If you really need to find some scripted material to run, maybe have a beer or two to loosen up and get in the rhythm.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:20 PM
11

Sentiment of the post is fair. But you are getting involved with the woman of an abusive man. Stop right now before you end up curb stomped bro.
/r/seduction04/11/21 10:53 AM
2

Speaking from the perspective of the average non criminal Redditor. You are much more likely to regret the things you didn’t do.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:06 PM
3

Generally by getting married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:30 AM
8

Nah the other guy is right. Mutual goal not objectification
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:12 PM
1

Different parts of the world are different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:01 AM
2

This might come across as BP. But change your target demographic. AWALT refers to certain core traits and expectations of men but personalities, value systems and types vary widely. Go somewhere new or different from your usual type to find someone.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:35 AM
28

Since when was Michael a stereotypical alpha name?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:31 PM
2

I’m not even particularly RP. But get a grip dude. You must leave even if you are scared to be on your ones
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:51 PM
95

My ancestors enjoyed Netflix and chill?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:25 AM
1

Was this a slow or sudden change from the person you married. Or did she already have these traits from the start. Sorry for prying. I’m just curious
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:11 PM
2

When did things change and why? You liked her enough to marry. From a learning POV
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:14 AM
2

Dude that is tough. Your Mom proudly outing herself like that
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:57 PM
2

I like the idea. But the use of average isn’t helpful for most of us. If the study was about young men in popular cities within the USA the standards would be much higher. And our goals would need to be higher
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 12:16 PM
1

she's not a real person dw
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:34 PM
19

Careful to not swing the complete other way. If you don’t make any noise at all; you don’t exist
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:23 PM
1

Careful of that text ratio. Try and flip over time if you can
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:05 AM
1

I haven’t been around these parts for a while. FDS, which i discovered recently, literally seems like a female TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 09:34 AM
30

Here to back up Intermittent Fasting. Changed my life; essentially reduces your feeding window. Allows you to enjoy a decent meal or 2 with plenty of macros for muscle and energy. I found it really easy to maintain 15hr fasts and for longer if I wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:46 PM
3

IUD (copper) I think you Americans call them 'paraguard' are not hormonal and therefore cannot change behaviour. IUS (mirena or skyla) acts locally and therefore can affect behavior but less so than the pill. It is the single most effective birth control method aside from abstinence. And many can feel it at some point during intercourse. Not sure why it's getting bashed.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 05:32 PM
5

Nope. Just the understanding that a bad relationship (let alone marriage) is multiple times worse than no relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:50 PM
225

That was painful to read. Good on you for not being a mess currently.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:52 PM
4

This. What.The.Fuck.Are.These.People.Doing?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:45 PM
7

To start with I've campaigned relentlessly for Trump + Brexit for the best part of a year now. But there is nothing wrong with female politicians. Clinton is a shitbag because she's a shitbag not due to her gender. She's also not stupid; that woman is exceptionally ruthless, manipulative and ultimately good at what she does. She couldn't get elected imo because she's been in the public eye for too long and the internet exposed MSM lies. My country has Maggie and Theresa doesn't look awful so far…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 11:42 AM
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Religion in my opinion is a great example of LAW 38: "Think as you like;behave like others". It can be a great tool to foster a sense of community, loyalty and a tribe that will fight for one another. Many also contend that it's a great place to meet a woman as they are beholden to a code of conduct and their behavior is visibly accountable to the community. However obviously there is no need to literally believe in religious dogma and stories yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:29 PM
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Socialise--> find girl--> build comfort and sexual tension 1-1--> 'lets go dance" ---> escalate physically--> kiss---> take her out of there again to build more chemistry/comfort----> try to pull out of the venue---> if it fails back to the 'lets go dance.
/r/seduction06/11/15 02:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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