indigokrones Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	How to approach a girl who's always on her phone with ear buds in? i'll probably get alot of hate from this but, you don't. i can't tell you how many female friends of mine think it's ridiculously creepy and invasive.	/r/seduction	18/09/15 05:48 AM
1	Why You Should Work On Your Text Game and Why it's Not That hard I totally agree with you, and I would even take it one step further. Alot of the advice you see here is about how to get a girl to like you and how to have a sex or a relationship with her. But one thing that I constantly see overlooked is how to be friends with these women. I text women I'm dating all the time. Some of it's really hot and flirty, some of it's complete bullshit, and sometimes the conversation just crashes and burns. That's fine too. I think you often see the advice not to text m…	/r/seduction	21/02/15 04:35 PM
2	Request: Alternatives to "Oh yeah?"/"Oh, Really?" as interjections No need to change. Just maintain strong eye contact, acknowledge that you're listening, and sometimes repeating the last several words she said back to you. When she's talking showing interest is really all you need to do to build attraction, nothing fancy.	/r/seduction	21/02/15 04:16 PM
1	Immaturity vs Spontaneity and Fun? And how to effectively use vulnerability? I understand this completely. You were not being immature, definitely not. You were being fun. A couple things, your friends are lame. Them calling your antics "childish" tells me they are either jealous that they don't have the balls to be spontaneous and fun, or they take themselves way too seriously. My advice is to just be playful back at them, call them out on being boring. They call you childish, you call them boring. I would much rather be called childish then boring and I think you proba…	/r/seduction	21/02/15 04:07 PM
1	Even if I get over my AA, I still lack the ability to hold a conversation and be funny. How can I improve myself? I'm going to take a different approach than everyone else in this thread and say, STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT. That might not be easy to do, but it's something you should meditate on for awhile. The reason you get anxiety, the reason you have nothing to say, is because you're so caught up in the outcome and your own expectation. You can't expect to sleep with every single girl you talk to, so there's no need to put so much pressure on every single interaction. You might say to me, "But I still have a…	/r/seduction	21/02/15 03:48 PM
1	When playing "The Game", is it possible to take things slow rather than try to escalate immediately? I'm going to go ahead and disagree with most of the guys here. I think escalation is very important but I don't think it's necessary that you have sex on the first, second, or even maybe third date. The difference is that you choose not to have sex, not because you're too afraid to initiate it, but because you want to wait. I understand why you might want to do this. What you're going to need to do is amp up the sexual tension hardcore by escalating almost all the way up until having sex. And yo…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 05:37 AM
2	How to handle "The Morning After..." The best method is probably just looking them in the eye, giving them a very skeptical look that says, "come on, you know that nothing you're saying is true right now," or "who cares?" And then you get on top of them and start making out with them. I don't think anything really even needs to be said, it's much more powerful to just make them feel sexy and desired.	/r/seduction	09/02/15 06:25 PM
1	I am so confused. Dude she doesn't owe you anything. Just because she said she just wants to be friends doesn't make her fickle. You hardly know her and have no idea what is actually going through her head, so don't make assumptions that she's trying to play some power struggle with you.	/r/seduction	09/02/15 04:56 AM
1	When do I go for the kiss? It might sound like total bullshit, but you'll know when the right moment is. If you're not getting all caught up in your anxiety and over-thinking and are actually able to be present with the person you'll know when the right time is. Your interaction with the person will dictate exactly what kind of behavior is appropriate. The thing is you'll only know when the right time is, once you stop trying to kiss every single girl you have a conversation with or go on a date with. It's needy behavior;…	/r/seduction	08/02/15 07:27 PM