indisfury Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flags That show is! And I just discovered 2 more seasons... happy days!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 09:36 AM
8	Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flags Wasn't there a hillarious episode of Broad City about this? Maybe my memory is failing me... im not sure...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 12:20 AM
56	How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you? Because sooner or later he will want an heir to the fortune and it will fall on you to birth and raise said heir and spare/s. At which point, he will start viewing your fortune as his fortune and you as the help. At some point, something will snap in his brain. Followed by the notion that hes reached an automatic entitlement level, which qualifies him for an upgrade. Presenting, 'you' mark 2.0. The surgically enhanced, 20 year younger, pre child birth model - of you. Less mileage, less wear and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/21 09:13 AM
118	For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? This and the flip side. They put no effort into making their wives feel desired, loved or appreciated. None. Not even feigning liking her as a person the rest of the time. For years they treat their wives like the live in help, there merely to meet their needs and take care of all the things he doesnt want to or cant be arsed to... weaponized incompetence anyone? They pull the old 'but you signed the contract you owe me pleasure' card at every opportunity. Act all wounded, when shes too exhauste…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 05:07 PM
142	What do you bring to the table? Shes great, her whole page is is full of beautifully articulated logic and truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 10:20 AM
20	I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄 Thing is, she didn't go snooping or break his trust. She only looked at the GPS on her own phone which was obviously linked to his device via the location services, and where they were both signed in. Thats not breaking trust. And she only looked in his ipad once she found something which had alarmed her enough to do so. So at that point it was more about not jumping to conclusions, and getting her facts straight, information gathering if you will. Breaking his trust doesn't even come into the e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 08:10 AM
45	He stood her up, left unhinged VMs, then his mom joins in (part 2) I mean shes a public personality of sorts now, or at least her profile is certainly on the rise, it would not be hard to follow her from work one day find out where she lives, wait till the story has died down a little and what ever security she had been assigned deemed no longer necessary and removed. Making her vulnerable and a target. She laughed at and mocked a man, and publicly too... how dare she? And its not just him that she may need to be worried about now, its all the other 'rejected' …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 01:41 AM
126	He stood her up, left unhinged VMs, then his mom joins in (part 2) This story is next level. After hearing the first few messages I thought its just outlandish enough that it's probably a prank set up by the radio station.. just for hits, but after hearing all of them and, and now that the story is going viral, and continues gaining traction... I really sincerely hope that it is just a prank. Because if it's not, it makes me genuinly worried for the girls life at this point. This is the sort of public ridicule and humiliation that would unhinge an entitled ince…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 12:07 AM
2	Man Stands her up, lies about it, then floods her inbox Shes posted them on tiktoc now, this story is next level. After hearing the first few messages I thought its just outlandish enough that its probably a prank set up by the radio station.. just for hits, but after hearing all of them and, and now that the story is going viral, and continues gaining more traction... I really sincerely hope that it is just a prank. Because if its not, It makes me genuinly worried for the girls life at this point. This is the sort of public ridicule and humiliation …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 12:05 AM
4	Man Stands her up, lies about it, then floods her inbox Does anyone know if the mothers messages have been posted anywhere, Ive tried insta and tiktok and it seems theres nothing... anyone know how to hear them if outside the US? Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 02:26 AM
5	Tell us about what it's like to be a woman in your country And... middle aged meth heads and stoner losers .. 'Family Men' refusing to grow up...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 10:17 AM
7	Tell us about what it's like to be a woman in your country I wrote same on a post but it was removed as I didnt censor the offending word. But totally agree. Maybe the mods will reinstate my comment after reviewing. Yeh DV is out of control here. Yup and walking alone.. big no no. Just dont.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 08:20 AM
6	🚨ALWAYS EARN YOUR OWN MONEY! Financial freedom is the ultimate power💲💰💪 And the bank will enable them. Including locking down the redraw right after they have stolen all the equity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/21 01:16 PM
9	Recommended reading See what you made me do, by Jess Hill Edit: shes also got a new podcast The Trap. It might be hard going for some due to the Aussie accents but worth the listen, Jess delves into coercive control, how it starts what to look out for etc... https://www.vwt.org.au/thetrap/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 09:07 AM
28	"Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book) This is very enlightening. Are you able to post the other types as well please? Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 05:53 AM
1	You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profile Yeh you get it, and after a while theres just no point making excuses to yourself or for him... hows it go... if he wanted to, he would... 😄😛 And yeh after 12 months it would rub me the wrong way too. Sorry your ex was such an insensitive ass in that regard. Probably better hes an ex now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 12:11 AM
9	You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profile I think Im a fair bit older than many of you, but id get mighty pissed if anyone asked or told me to delete a single photo from my past. We all have one. If a relationship ended badly you can chose what to do. It should be up to you to decide if you want to delete or not. But for anyone who has ever lost the hard copies, and in my day thats all we had, those low res unprintable digital captures may very well be only remaining trace of those records left. A point in time in your life story. Its n…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 05:39 PM
8	You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profile Truthfully, theres so much yet undiscovered content out in the world I probably will... but at the time and raising a strong willed and very defiant teenage boy, hearing JP the first time... well he had me at 'make your bed'... and you are right it was his stance on owning your shit instead of blaming everyone around you that was the core of his appeal. It resonated as it is something Ive always felt strongly about and want to instill in my kids too. But whilst listening to him was what I needed…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 03:15 PM
13	You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profile Thanks for reply I'll try find time to examine further. Dont shoot me down for this but I really liked Jordan Peterson, he seemed a very thoughtful and insightful human, when I listened to his youtube vids for a few months a couple of years back. I havent gone back since discovering FDS, but have noticed his name pop up here from time to time, so I wonder how my perspective would shift knowing what I know now... if I were to go back and re listen all over again.. bit time poor these days so prob…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 02:43 PM
15	You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profile Not familiar with Joe Rogan, and cant find much other than clips of interviews with random people, what is the issue?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 02:26 PM
22	Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen?? He can 'fill' people looking at him...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 02:41 AM
6	God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friends Oh lord a hillarious memory just popped up. My Indian divorce lawyer from my first marriage tried to set me up with her brother... she said I would really like him... hes was such a catch she told me!! Well spoken, handsome, wealthy, takes good care of himself... blah blah The family cant understand why hes still not married.. their mother is beside herself... Out of nowhere, mid meeting, she decided that it was appropriate to show me his myspace (yup that long ago) Ooof... Well he was gorgeous,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 11:02 AM
3	Teaching daughters to be High Value Me too just read the whole thing.. every last word is so on point. Wish I had the tools to recognise this behaviour and name it - as it was happening. Still better late than never. Mine didnt like it one bit when at the end when Id had enough and started pushing back and resisting a little and even started calling him out.. there was no recognition no acknowledgement... no aha moments nope he turned uglier and uglier and more violent and controling. The kids and I got out... but the abuse its sl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 01:19 PM
2	A Classic What about Johnny Depp? Wtf happened there lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 03:22 PM
12	What exactly do MRAs think would happen if men started getting custody all the time? I shudder	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 01:04 PM
29	No, you shouldn't do whatever you want Breastfeeding for years left me with a pair socks, having them cut off is the best thing I ever did, only regret is waiting so long to do it... love my itsy A cups... and the best part? never have to endure an underwire again.. never say never ladies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 12:33 PM
-1	In Australia.. Its only a proposal, and not all police stations. Dont take it out of context so you can run with the fabricated outrage and make something out of nothing. Till now women have mostly had to report DV to men, there was no problem then was there? And if they werent so dismissive when women reach out for help, there would be no need to try something else. As currently the DV statistics in this country are appalling. Something needs to be done, too many people are getting hurt. Why not try this? if …	/r/MensRights	01/05/21 08:05 AM
24	Gasoline Limbo &LVM are a match made in hell. It's bad for cars to run low on gas but endangers you as a woman and yet LVM can't stop playing limbo. My ex used to do this, but to my car. Hed take it out and not bother to refill or even tell me it was on empty. Next time I went to use it, id discover the warning light... often Id be with the kids, dropping them to school on the way to work, and have to decide whether to 'risk it' or be late as stopping to fill it up on the way. That, or taking my car without asking in the first place, usually because he couldnt find the keys to his car. Again not bothering to tell me, or even concerning himse…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 12:19 AM
93	This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAP OMG this... just this. Im happy crying right now that someone else gets it. How DO they do it, how do they sleep? How does it not eat them up inside, where is their humanity, their decency? Getting angry again, right, thats enough reddit for me for another few days I think. Too many raw and far too close to home posts lately. Wheres the feel good gone?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 01:32 PM
16	A women I’m fb friends with shared this and tagged her husband... Reading these types of posts triggers a deep deep rage within me... this was my life for so many years... all of it... then being told I dont do enough or not as much as I think I do. My begging and pleading for help mocked, and in front of the kids... oh mums having one of her moments must be time of the month or shit like that... or asking for help was actually me being a critical of him bitch. Gaslighted manipulated, used up within an inch of my sanity and health. Fuck I need to step away fro…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 06:28 AM
22	Julia Gillard misogyny speech voted most unforgettable Australian TV moment: watch in full Still as relevant now as back then, if not more so.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 05:44 PM
49	This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status. Think he meant to say... "exploit" 🤪😄😆	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 12:16 AM
1	I saw this come on my TV, it's an Australian ad (Aussie here) and thought it might belong here. When will she be right? Which part?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 11:58 PM
1	I saw this come on my TV, it's an Australian ad (Aussie here) and thought it might belong here. When will she be right? Really? Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 03:18 PM
2	I saw this come on my TV, it's an Australian ad (Aussie here) and thought it might belong here. When will she be right? Cant find the original statistics i read, this one provides a broader overview. Its absolutely appalling. And the prime minister was giving himself props the other day, that us women should be grateful that at least police arent opening fire on us whilst we protest and hold vigils. Sickening. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/quick-facts/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 03:15 PM
2	I saw this come on my TV, it's an Australian ad (Aussie here) and thought it might belong here. When will she be right? In Australia 1 woman a week is killed by her partner or ex partner, 10 hospitalized a day every day. But, hey, she'll be right...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 02:49 AM
29	Saw this on Twitter — horrifying This post made me feel physically ill	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 02:16 AM
21	Guess I'm Strange AF Then This!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 04:44 AM
20	This Particular Brand of Male Selfishness Drives Me Up a Wall And then argues with you that its a really great gift because a bunch of random women at his office said so, they all told him they all would have loved it if their husband bought them one.(Yeh right!!) Never mind that you have already made it clear how upsetting it was, but you go and ask randoms? Then have the audacity to tell me I'm wrong? My feelings are wrong? Not only did you purposely refuse to 'hear me' when I asked for you to do your share, repeatedly telling you that Im exhausted to th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 02:35 AM
14	PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs. I had a post pop up in my feed. I started reading it thinking it was fds but the post seemed a bit iffy, so scrolled back up and only then noticed it was a sub called exfds. Other than that havent seen anything else.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 12:10 PM
13	Twirling for the patriarchy. More in comments I thought this list was a joke until I read the comments.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 11:37 AM
6	Dr. Phil is a narcissistic bully with a TV show. Could you please DM me when you have a moment	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 12:09 PM
64	Marriage is overrated as a woman, but society desperately tries to convince us otherwise Oh no, they're onto our master plan!! ... lolz	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 11:55 AM
110	This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kids They do especially girls, but you cant say anything bad about the father, because you run the risk of being accused of parental alienation. Literally have to wait till they are old enough to figure it out for themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 02:57 AM
22	Another truth bomb from this guy! I think there's actually 29... theres 2, 22's, unless he skipped another number	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 02:25 AM
1	Why “50/50” is so often still unequal... I feel you so much... seems its same story world over!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 02:00 AM
15	"Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok! Sign up big boy... bahahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:10 AM
5	Why “50/50” is so often still unequal... Yes! If only I knew how satisfying mowing the lawn was before I would have traded that for the 15 loads of laundry every weekend... stripping beds, ironing, folding and putting away... in a heartbeat... ! It would take him most of the day (maybe once every 4 weeks) to do the lawns.. I actually thought thats how long it took... but he was doing something so just left him to it... but seriously... it takes me 2 hrs tops to mow and edge both front and back! And I do my elderly neigbours front whils…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 02:17 PM
4	If men like this communicated this to their fellow men.. Small screen.. bad eyes!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 07:36 AM
12	If men like this communicated this to their fellow men.. I thought this whole vid was gonna go in a totally diff direction... I thought she was holding a hitachi wand! Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 07:34 AM
22	Why “50/50” is so often still unequal... You got it... thats how it felt... trapped! But yeh its all past tense now... 😆	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 07:17 AM
93	Why “50/50” is so often still unequal... This!... OMG... at the end of the marriage, after busting my guts to keep the house running, working, studying, ensuring the children were organised every single day, and keeping track of everything that needing doing, all apts, bills, holidays etc... He actually had the audacity to tell he felt like a subserviant because all I did was delegate to him... poor thing he never got a say. Bollocks! NOPE! and NOPE! He wasnt subserviant he just never stepped up and took initiative for one single thing…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 06:02 AM
6	Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids. How do you see the original post?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 05:14 AM
91	This woman is 79 years old and found a way to run a business empire around traditionally domestic “women’s work” starting in an even worse time for unequal gender roles. Martha Stewart? Or maybe I need new glasses...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 03:48 AM
205	50-50 is a lie. "A baby need not change things"?? Bahaha!! Like what? hes got rocks in his head... yeh it wont for him, in his head he's got it all planned out, he will keep going about his day as normal and let her do all the work... grrr Can just see it now... The baby wont stop crying. Him: its a you problem The baby needs a change. Him: its a you problem The baby wont sleep. Him: its a you problem The baby needs nappies. Shes at home with no income. Him: Its a you problem. Figure it out. He wants sex, but s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 03:47 AM
16	Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and children And if you can travel with them first. You will learn a lot. Starting with organising... did he let you do all the planning? Did he provide any ideas or input himself? Or did he just veto ideas you put forward? Did he expect you to organise and book and schedule visas fill out forms etc... What did he pack? (You would be surprised how many men dont pack half of what they need to or even talk to you about who should pack what, items that you could share and save on lugging around and taking up va…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 06:14 AM
10	the double standards 🤦🏻‍♀️ A great read about just this is 'The womens room' by Marilyn French. The first half of the book is pretty heavy, paints the bleak reality for those poor souls exceptionally well. I had to put it down several times to have a good cry. They were essentially prisoners, trapped in circumstances beyond comprehension. No where to turn, and nowhere to run. Isolated and without access to information. Their only support networks other women trapped in exactly the same circumstances.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 05:00 PM