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So average guys can’t get women according to you? Lol
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:30 PM
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I meant that
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 02:55 PM
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I examined what it was doing for my depression, suicidal thoughts, and everything else about me. I initially lost weight but gained some back. I’ve never been in shape, never been popular with women, bullied, never felt 100% masculine, and I always hated myself. TRP only amplified those feelings from women wanting men who are 100% perfect to placing men in “alpha” or “beta” boxes. It’s completely toxic.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 11:50 AM
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Well take into account prices going up and wages staying the same in terms of supporting yourself
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 11:34 AM
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What do you do about self hate? Thats what i have, and i made a post about how trp has impacted my mental health if you want. I don’t want to get too much into my self hate, you can read my posts.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:17 PM
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Well men say “don’t turn a hoe into a housewife” so I guess you’re right
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:08 PM
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This is exactly why i have a hard time trusting women honestly
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:07 PM
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Read my post from a year ago
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:34 PM
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Bruh he was always gay lol. He just needed a stupid excuse instead of authenticity embracing who he truly is
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 04:37 PM
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I’ve been known or at least suspected he was in a relationship. He posts her on Instagram sometimes
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 01:17 AM
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Although I haven’t watched steph in a while, and hardly seen fit. I never got the Napoleon Complex from them. Yeah they are assholes who mock anyone who they consider ”beta” all under the guise of trying to help, but that’s all i get from them
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 05:09 PM
1

Well I’m nothing so do I attract nothing
/r/seduction28/05/21 03:09 PM
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I have read the rational male. It’s basically men have to build themselves while women don’t have to do shit. That makes me say “fuck it” and give up.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 12:09 AM
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How do I love myself when I always fuck up on becoming healthy and more attractive to women? I hate myself
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 12:34 AM
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It happens. My friend is dating a guy who’s 38 and she’s 21. You never know
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 02:50 PM
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Short guys get rated bad regardless is what one of the bulletpoints said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:51 AM
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That’s Exactly what people don’t get. That’s why I don’t talk to women anymore because I know I shouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:27 PM
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Well there goes me. I might as well go out early lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:16 PM
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They should die then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:08 PM
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So short guys are fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:50 PM
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Tbh. I’m in the belief that I’m incapable of women and intimacy because I still have body fat after my weight loss, I don’t have a good paying job yet, and I don’t have my own place. I’m basically trash to women. This makes me depressed, but it doesn’t make me not work on myself, and complaining online is just unproductive. I prefer action. I either self improve or end my life because I don’t want to live as a loser forever.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 02:39 PM
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I’m lowkey black pilled, but I don’t use it as an excuse to not improve myself. Nor do i spend time on incel subreddits
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 01:15 AM
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Well will the kids be his is the question since you said his genetics end with him but he also has future kids? He can always go mgtow and keep is 6 figures to himself. He’ll potentially be able to travel and see the world, and maybe an eastern women will take a liking to him. Sounds like a beautiful plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:37 PM
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I honestly feel bad for guy 1. Having a sux figure salary but no attention from women is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:10 PM
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How can i not focus on women? I get lonely to often. I already go to the gym(working on consistency), fixing my diet, focusing on getting a career in front end dev, and I’m working on finding new hobbies. I know I shouldn’t worry about women because I don’t even have my own place yet and I’m about to be 23. It’s hard to focus on myself when I feel lonely 24/7. Not to mention redpillers would mock people like me, so I have nowhere to turn. It’s also hard for people to read me because i wear a mas…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:47 PM
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Makes sense. I’ve lost a lot of weight (285 to 183), but I’m not getting the same attention. I guess it’s kind rare for me
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:17 PM
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Odd because I’ve been approached by women before, but i was out of shape at the time(over 200 lbs), depressed and suicidal (still am). I don’t know where I stand with women. I don’t know how women view me. I’m just lost
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:23 PM
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Nice comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:59 AM
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You can change your personality and looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:54 AM
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Well I’m a guy who grew up out of shape, and has lost a ton of weight but still in a terrible position body wise. Yes trp is helpful in ways you mentioned, but it’s shown me that women will cheat on me because I don’t have abs. The reason why I don’t have abs is simply because I’m an idiot who can’t control himself when it comes to food. I’m also 5’5” which is even worse. Trp has led me to believe I am trash and i can never love myself until I become the best version of myself. However, that can…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 04:36 AM
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That sounds good. I gotta get on my shit. I’m trying to improve my coding skills so i can get a frontend dev jobs along with losing more body fat(lost 108 lbs so far). Focusing on smv seems to be the move rn.
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:46 AM
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Nice username
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:44 AM
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Then get a fit body lol. I lost 108 lbs and I still gotta get fit. You aren’t alone I understand it’s hard, but you can do it. Keep your head up.
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:43 AM
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I don’t consume Trp anymore, but All a “shit-test” does is see how confident and calm you are. Ngl, a lot of people over complicate it. Whenever you encounter one of these “tests”, just calm down and respond with confidence. For instance, when she was talking about how nice it was to talk to a guy she ghosted because she was lonely, be like “okay cool”, or just a simple “nice”, or leave her on read. Basically act like it doesn’t phase you.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 02:10 AM
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Well self improvement is a journey. Not a destination
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 02:00 AM
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Never happened to me, but I’d be weirded out and I’d say “thank you”.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 07:55 PM
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I hate myself lol
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 07:53 PM
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Women speaking out against trp will do nothing since trp already believes women say one thing then do another. Also, what if women subconsciously think trp is true, but don’t want to saying anything in fear of getting judged?
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 07:05 PM
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The way you describe your experience is vague. What were you like before this? How exactly did you get what you want from women? What old situations with women are you talking about? Being cheated on? Over chasing? Simping? What? My experience is I honestly view women as trash because of trp. I don’t like the mindset I have on 50% of the population. Trp made me hate myself even more. Dating advice and “female nature” advice from them is useless since I’m ugly and pretty much fail at improving my…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 03:43 AM
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Facts!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/21 12:38 AM
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Tbh i find myself calling them “trash” a lot, but at the same time, I don’t want to do that because it’s not going to change anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/21 11:55 PM
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Throughout my past relationships, I’ve learned to show more restraint on my feelings because I would go all in emotions wise and be 100% ready to commit. I would text a lot too (got better at showing restraint in that area). I’m not the type of guy women would want to be with when they’re in their 20s even though i am capable of changing that lol, but I will not be the provider type to be used. I know that for a fact. Society expects men to sacrifice for not just women, but for people in general…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/21 11:46 PM
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How is doing your own thing and thinking about yourself being a jerk though lol? Although idk if I’d leave her. For example, if i was at warped tour and one of my favorite bands was playing and hers was playing at the same time, I’d probably drag her with me😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/21 11:15 PM
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How are you a heartbreaker exactly? I feel like I’m sweet with women i am dating. Like I wouldn’t hurt them type stuff. Idk if that ultimately makes me unattractive to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/21 10:38 PM
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So human beings are nothing but trash with no redeeming qualities is what you’re saying?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 12:25 AM
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Talking about female nature is what gets the most views. Simple supply and demand
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 07:42 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:51 PM
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The red pill i know does a few things: - Tells men to self improve - shit talks and shames men who are ugly/beta in their eyes as if that’s going to help them - shit talks women and says they’re all the same The red pill is tough love for men imo, and it really isn’t for men who have things like depression and anxiety because they believe emotions,mental health issues, and comfort are women’s traits. Their solution for men is just to lift( this advice isn’t inherently bad by any means).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:50 PM
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I don’t think I’ve cried in front of my ex gfs, but i did have a depression episode in front of one. The only woman I will cry in front of is my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:35 PM
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Lol that’s normally how it goes. He can also eat whatever he wants without any regard to health
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 07:43 PM
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Unfortunately trp makes it seem like women are to be obtained just like an item in Pokemon, and you have specific steps in order to get that. I’m still struggling with this way of thinking because i often believe that i have to be 6’ tall, make a lot of money, have a 6 pack, and have a 6” dick in order for women to see me as somebody. Maybe all of that is true, but I struggle with depression, suicidal thoughts, and food addiction so it makes me seem like I can never have a woman(or women) like m…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 06:51 PM
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When you say chubby, how much did you weigh? Because i had relationships in high school and that was before I lost a lot of weight during my senior year of college
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 06:46 PM
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Oh you’re in the medical field? That’s pretty interesting that you know the truth about dicks sizes because you’ve seen a lot of them.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 03:17 PM
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Slightly large isn’t 5 inches though. That’s what I have bone pressed. Although since I’m bi, I’ve gotten some compliments from guys.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 03:14 PM
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Took it way too seriously? Lol this is life. It’s supposed to be taken seriously
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 07:59 PM
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Exactly what I’ve noticed. I really want to scream “if you want your audience to self improve for themselves, stop mentioning women!” to them.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 02:51 PM
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Based on your second paragraph, women may stay because you provide good money, but she may walk out behind your back because your dick size isnt to her liking. It’s not just she chooses you and that’s it. She may just be settling for you. Just my 2 cents
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 06:58 PM
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I think it is believable. You hear all the time that size doesn’t matter, but women are making grey sweatpants memes and everyone is using “small dick” as a way to shame people. Women always lie about size not mattering, so I wouldn’t be surprised if this was real.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 06:55 PM
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There’s nothing different except for them saying black women like thugs or men who have the energy of a thug (men that show some sort of aggression). I do see it and hear about it often but I don’t saying anything out of fear of being disrespectful to people like my mom and cousins.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 04:53 PM
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Trp make me want to end my life at times since I’ve tried to become this attractive man and I’m still trying and failing. So according to you, that makes me a loser I suppose?
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 12:27 AM
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Nah it’s not lol. I use an exfoliating face cleanser, but i want to start using face masks again
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 02:48 PM
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I’m bi and i find a lot of masculine guys lowkey ugly lol
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 02:40 PM
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Lol success is subjective
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 11:31 PM
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I’ve dated three women in total in high school and college. That was before i lost 100+ lbs.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 10:41 PM
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The whole “be a man” thing is just toxic and places unrealistic standards onto men. That’s not saying men shouldn’t strive to be their best, but basing your whole existence on trp is just allowing yourself to feel like you aren’t good enough and hate yourself. Also, why are you posting this on r/exredpill lol. I believe you’re on the wrong subreddit
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 10:19 PM
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Men have the burden of performance as they say
/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 09:33 PM
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If you’re unattractive, you can easily get a personal trainer and a gym membership if you got the money for it
/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 08:43 PM
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I guess I’ll be alone forever then
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 01:22 AM
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Exactly. Which is why it fucked with my mental health
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 01:13 AM
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I usually wear stylish things because I love what i wear. I do it for me. I’m not the type to people please. My depression normally throws me in this spiral of believing I’m ugly though. That’s what i want to work on.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:08 AM
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Trp makes it seem like society can’t be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:00 PM
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You think society cares about men not feeling good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:56 PM
1

How can you have internal without a hint of external?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:55 PM
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Lol you’re good
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 02:07 PM
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I was at 285 a year ago. I do have some muscle mass. I just don’t know how much
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 05:17 AM
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It’s much harder for a guys like me (22, 5’6”, 177 lbs, doesn’t have a lot of money but has two part time jobs and developing IT skills, still lives with parents ) to just “get it out of the way”. Like where would i even start? Also, my original point was it would be easier for a man to work on himself if he knew what sex with a woman was like. Wouldnt your story prove that point?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 02:05 AM
0

For me to truly be successful at nofap, I basically have to get rid of my phone and never have another iPhone. The longest I’ve gone was a week.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 01:57 AM
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Sorta bs. I’ve lost 100+ lbs, but I’m still fat and women still don’t like me. I might as well kill myself
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 07:05 AM
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Blue collar jobs still make a lot of money depending on what you do though
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:53 AM
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No. Im pretty fucking ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 07:35 AM
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Been doing that for a year and a half, it didn’t do shit for my confidence, but i did lose a lot of weight
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:44 AM
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So I won’t feel ugly
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:46 PM
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I agree with steph when he says a man shouldn’t worry about getting women when he’s broke, not in shape/fit , has no car, doesn’t have his own place, and doesn’t have his life together because women love all of those things in a man.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 04:27 PM
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This whole paragraph is nothing but stupid
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 03:39 PM
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Been lifting for 1.5 years, still haven’t gotten noticed. It’s a lie
/r/seduction29/10/20 04:05 AM
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Lol I’ve lost 109 lbs, and I still don’t get any attention from women. Fml
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:59 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:34 PM
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Lol ugly is ugly no matter how you slice it
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:33 PM
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Lost 100+ lbs and I’m in the same boat as you
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:21 PM
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But they aint messing with no broke.....
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 12:15 PM
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I’ve dated and been in relationships with women who are considered bigger
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:50 AM
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I’ve lost a lot of weight and I’m still not thin or in shape. I’m convinced women will never find me attractive
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:10 AM
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About number 8, women typically don’t like a guy who’s the size of the Death Star, so I disagree with not using the “get ripped” thing to hold off picking up women. That’s just me
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:17 AM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 09:24 PM
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I’m not surprised, but to answer your question. It’s because women, society, and our parents say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:41 PM
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Lost 58 lbs so far. Going to lose more this year.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 10:22 PM
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In the process of doing just that. Lost 50 pounds this year.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 06:03 PM
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I literally have to be a circus clown just to attract a woman. Thanks but no thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 12:17 AM
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What exactly did she say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:06 AM
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Just asking, but What exactly happened?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:12 AM
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Incels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:39 PM
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Women will only laugh at men’s movements, and men will try to disassociate with those movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:53 PM
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I’m pretty introverted. I don’t usually talk to people. I’m also overweight and short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:08 PM
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“Adapt or die” That’s sounds alittle too dramatic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:54 PM
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Nothing “catchy” about me except my traveling experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:36 PM
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How is tech culture bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:41 PM
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Probably because men are either biologically programmed or were taught to always defend women whether they are right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:09 PM
1

True. Sorry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:37 PM
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Isn’t Seattle a very liberal city
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:25 PM
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This all sounds like too much work
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:21 PM
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