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infernalwretch/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:23 AM
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It’s just a suggestion, in case it hadn’t occurred to them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:45 PM
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“I hate men” has a boyfriend who’s a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:21 AM
1

Would they rather he carry a purse? People have to hold their stuff in something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:49 AM
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So do you guys like pussy or not? If you think it’s that gross you could always switch to dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:38 AM
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It does for the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:22 PM
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I agree. It seems like all you’re really allowed to do is online dating, but I know that doesn’t work well for a lot of people. I’m a woman myself and I feel like it’s all I’m allowed to do, but it makes me uncomfortable as hell and I can’t really tell if I’m attracted to someone just by pictures and small bits of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:46 AM
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I got 50.9%, but that’s because they didn’t include the criteria that actually matter to me, which are more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:26 AM
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Well personally mine doesn’t work. But also that’s not what’s directly targeted during intercourse. Intercourse is designed to make a man orgasm and a woman get pregnant. But I’ve heard that it can be pleasurable for women depending on the physical distance between your clitoris and vagina and I think a few other factors (it’s very complex anatomy I don’t even really understand it), so it depends on individual anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:28 AM
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I mean we’re all different and I’m sure plenty of women do actually enjoy sex, but yeah I definitely blame the cruelty and indifference of evolution, not men. I mean, I can’t even do it myself so how would I expect another person to know how? That being said if a woman is lucky enough to know how to pleasure herself, her partners should be willing to learn how rather that only focusing on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:53 PM
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There are other reasons women seek sex, like intimacy and even validation. Like, I doubt I will experience pleasure when I have sex because my anatomy just doesn’t lend itself well to it, but I still want to do it anyway. And sometimes it’s just what you have to do to get a guy to stick around in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:50 PM
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Seems fair to me. Although I think what people mean by objective morality might be the argument that some sex workers are trafficked, so some people think seeing prostitutes is morally questionable. Whereas having a high body count simply implies multiple consensual sexual encounters in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:59 AM
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Have you ever thought about growing out your hair so your bangs hide the hairline? That might be better than being bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:52 AM
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So do you think your height and weight entirely account for your lack of success? Are you too light or too heavy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:49 AM
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If you actually look like that David Bowie photo I think you’re probably attractive. A lot of people think he’s good looking. Also being skinny is attractive in my opinion. Shaving your head is not though. If you can’t get a gf but want one it’s definitely because you decided not to put in the effort. Not saying that’s a bad thing though, it’s your choice if it’s not worth it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:34 AM
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Yeah I thought this post was for guys who are unsuccessful with women, not married guys??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:11 AM
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Have you ever thought about growing your hair longer to hide your hairline? I find longer hair more attractive on guys anyway. Not like long enough to go into a ponytail but just slightly long, you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:06 AM
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So excited to live my life free from and unburdened by children. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:41 AM
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I agree but porn of women getting abused is pretty shitty regardless. Why can’t they watch porn where nobody is getting abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:19 AM
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A lot of women need vibrators in order to have an orgasm, whereas men can just use their hands. I think most men take this for granted. The social focus on men needing to please women sexually is an attempt to make things fair and close the orgasm gap. I think sex toys for men should be more socially accepted, but they’re just not as necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:43 PM
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I don’t think single motherhood comes from women wanting to work. It mainly comes from men leaving the women because they don’t want to raise their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:33 AM
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That makes sense from a pronatalist standpoint, but some people don’t want kids or want to limit the number of children they have, and I don’t think people should be forced to choose between personal freedom and having sex with their partner. Imagine if you had a wife and two kids, and the wife was exhausted from taking care of them, so she started making excuses not to sleep with you because she didn’t want any more kids to add to her burden. I bet you wouldn’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:20 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong but it sounds to me like you want to force women to leave the work force.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:12 AM
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Exactly. If men like this want contraception to go away but also want to have sex regularly, they’d better prepare to raise a lot of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:07 AM
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So a man has to be more gluttonous than a woman in order to be fat, yet there are plenty of fat men, fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:07 PM
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https://share.upmc.com/2018/07/harder-for-women-to-lose-weight/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:14 PM
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Yup unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:07 PM
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Ok then why was he with her wasting her time in the first place? You shouldn’t have kids with someone if you’d rather have someone else as your life partner. This doesn’t justify abandoning your own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:54 PM
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Just because they’re upset about it doesn’t mean they feel entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:45 PM
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If you don’t care then why did you bring it up? I was just clarifying what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:40 PM
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Who the fuck has sex 100 times a week? That’s just not realistic. A woman shouldn’t have to waste her time having that much sex just for the chance of enjoying a fraction of it. At least a man is guaranteed the ability to experience sexual pleasure at any time, even if they don’t have sex. People act like sexual intercourse is the only way people can orgasm smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:26 AM
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Wait so 1 in 6 young men are “incels”? Sorry if that’s a dumb question, all these numbers confuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:41 AM
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Any man who describes himself as a “gentleman” or “respectful” is probably a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:08 AM
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I don’t get why that’s considered a derogatory term. Like, that’s literally what we are lmao. I actually feel even more uncomfortable being called a “woman.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:03 AM
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You’re crazy. But alright, just accept my reply as an example then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 11:14 PM
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Ok but did you really expect me to assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:49 PM
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Well then they chose the option of hurt men’s feelings or piss them off. But yeah, I think culture may have something to do with it. In the US everyone avoids direct conflict and pretends to be nice. Then again I haven’t been in many bars. I’m sure if people were really drunk they would go at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:43 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:38 PM
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Then why did you say “you” instead of “women” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:45 PM
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What does it have to do with being lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:32 PM
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I think it’s partly evolution but yes, upbringing is probably a bigger factor. And I think it’s not so much the parenting as society at large. If kids are exposed to media or public places, which is pretty much inevitable, they will be influenced by society as much as by their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:21 PM
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I wouldn’t personally, but apparently other women do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:08 PM
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I was referring to women’s perception of sexual threat from men. Of course it counts when men are raped but that’s an entirely different discussion. Women only derive pleasure from sex if they’re lucky. They cannot derive it from unattractive males, yet males can apparently derive it from unattractive females. Only some women are able to get with men they’re attracted to. I don’t know the percentage but there are also a lot of women who can only get with men they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:20 PM
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Yes, you get it. For me that visceral feeling is fear as much as repulsion, and I can’t control it, just like most men apparently can’t control their desire to have sex with most women. For me the fear has as much to do with social anxiety as the fact that they are physically stronger. I get like, temporarily traumatized by socially awkward situations, and I have to frantically come up with a way to get out of there without hurting their feelings or making them angry. (Not that this has happened…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:17 PM
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Exactly. They’re contradicting themselves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:48 PM
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Yes, and their motive has nothing to do with actually wanting to have sex with them. In that case sex is the price they have to pay for those benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:37 PM
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Not really because gay men pose no potential sexual threat. You can be around them without worrying that they’re possibly being dishonest because of ulterior motives. Also some gay men are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:33 PM
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Honestly I think sometimes the “complaining” is really more humble bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:40 AM
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I would appreciate this if it actually happened lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:09 AM
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What if we don’t want offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:47 AM
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Honestly I think this is accurate, at least for me. I myself feel like my attractions are complex. There are just a lot of subtle things that put me off or make me uncomfortable and it’s hard to explain. For me specifically I think this complexity has to do with my social anxiety and lack of understanding social cues as well, like I feel kinda cautious of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:36 AM
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I’m 23 and I’ve wanted a relationship more than anything for like half my life, but I’ve never been successful. I just went through 4 years of college, the easiest dating environment ever, and couldn’t manage to find anyone. I don’t know where the hell else I could meet anyone. I did try online dating but it was a really weird, uncomfortable experience so now I’m kinda scared to try again. I wish I could just meet someone irl like a normal person. But I guess online dating is the new normal. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 04:36 AM
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What’s a mistake? Sex in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:30 AM
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How do you know they’re not happier? I would think that before women’s liberation they knew how powerless they were and knew how futile it would be to complain or express their feelings. Now they know they’re entitled to the same rights as men so they feel empowered to express their needs and wants. I’m certainly happier than I would have been in pretty much all past eras. I’m extremely grateful to the people in history who have lead human rights movements and gotten us to where we are today. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:17 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:10 AM
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I agree. The people I find attractive now, I wouldn’t suddenly think they’re ugly if most people were more attractive than them. Also I don’t think we should try to make everyone look similar. There are many different kinds of beauty and we should just eliminate the traits that are generally considered objectively ugly; facial asymmetry, recessed chins, being prone to obesity etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:48 PM
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How? Do they just go into debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:35 PM
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??? Not really, at least not where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:03 PM
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I think cutecels are kinda my type, but I guess that’s unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:01 PM
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I think it’s pretty rare for a woman to choose single motherhood. It usually happens because the father doesn’t want to share responsibility. I don’t think it has anything to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:13 PM
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Yeah I just want to be slutty with one special person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:05 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:04 PM
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Lol yup that’s why I chose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:39 AM
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Maybe I could if I didn’t have such severe social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:38 AM
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I’m a liberal but I’m not happy or slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:19 AM
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That’s because there’s a social stigma about men showing platonic affection to each other, whereas for women it’s normal to hug and say “I love you” and stuff. They probably feel like the only person they’re allowed to be affectionate with is a SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:12 PM
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It’s the same chain, literally my responses to your own comments. “I can’t start by going in pairs because I have no one to go with.” “Yes because I can magically have a friend already without having gone anywhere yet.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:35 PM
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It’s not that I don’t want advice, it’s that your advice was invalid because you didn’t take into consideration what I had already said. Please don’t be passive aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:21 PM
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That literally makes no sense. Literally see my comment above as response to that. I have one more semester but just an online class.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:09 PM
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Yes because I can magically have a friend already without having gone anywhere yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:55 PM
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I can’t start by going in pairs because I have no one to go with. And I did stuff like this in college but it really didn’t lead anywhere. At best I would get dead-end small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:20 PM
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Yeah, probably the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:15 AM
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For some people yes, very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:29 PM
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??? I can’t tell if you’re being passive aggressive or something but thanks for the advice anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:25 PM
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I don’t think being weird makes someone easier to make friends with. Also it’d be kinda shitty to just use someone like that and dump them for someone cooler when you get the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:11 PM
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Easy for neurotypicals to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:06 PM
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I don’t think that’s always the case. Some people lack social skills and have little control of how they come across, and they don’t instinctively know how to respond to subtle social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:40 PM
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Is it weird to go to stuff like that by yourself? I usually feel like I’m not allowed to be somewhere if somebody didn’t bring me. Like, I never see people going to social gatherings alone. They always go in pairs or groups. (I’m not a man but this problem still applies to me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:26 PM
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Well, for some people making friends is almost as hard as finding a significant other. Also I don’t think online friends count as going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:21 PM
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I think a lot of guys don’t know how to do this without annoying or scaring women, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:17 PM
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What if they have no friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:15 PM
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They’ve probably learned from experience not to settle. With age comes wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:22 PM
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This is a good idea, people should think about this more. It’d empower women too because they wouldn’t always have to be the financially dependent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:58 PM
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You didn’t answer the question. HOW do they benefit from lying and inconsistency?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:49 PM
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EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:48 PM
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Why would women get no benefit from honesty and consistency? I’m pretty sure people in general would benefit from that. Personally dishonesty and inconsistency make my social life very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:29 AM
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I know right 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:51 PM
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That’s great, and the way to give them a good life is by paying child support. It’s a sacrifice. Their mother has to sacrifice not only her money, but her time, attention, energy and personal freedom to raise them. It’s a full time job that you don’t get off of at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:32 PM
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Why aren’t they judged as much? Are you saying promiscuous dudes are praised because they’re skilled, talented, and put in effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:29 AM
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Did you mean to tag the other person? Cause you tagged me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:05 AM
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How? I was pointing out the hypocrisy of the comment thereby invalidating it, not making an unrelated accusation. How exactly was I supposed to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:59 AM
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I don’t think it’s anyone’s place to judge whether a persons sexual habits are good or bad, as long as they’re consensual. So you’re saying that since sex is harder for men to come by, they’re justified if they do it a lot, but if women do it a lot they’re greedy because it’s easier for them to come by? This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:17 AM
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Ok if you’re assuming that everyone lacks self confidence then why aren’t you saying that’s the reason men are promiscuous too? How come when men are promiscuous they’re seen as powerful and successful, but for women it means you’re either impulsive or seeking validation? Also I don’t understand what those first two sentences have to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:52 AM
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Can’t men do that too? Men can be just as much if not more promiscuous than women, so why don’t they get criticized for it? Because it’s a double standard. Also you didn’t address the point of the comment: validation. I find the assumption that validation is women’s main motive for sex to be demeaning. It implies that women inherently lack self confidence and need to constantly obtain it from outside sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:29 AM
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Why does having a lot of sex have to mean that the woman wants validation? Maybe she does it for the same reason men do: because she just enjoys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:03 AM
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It seems to me that being a parent in general is slavery. It’s going to be extremely expensive whether you’re raising your kids or paying child support. People need to realize this before they commit to having children, and decide whether the cost and risks are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:19 AM
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Most mothers these days have to be providers and work as well. We’re not in the 1950s anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:15 AM
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Oh I see. Lmao you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:29 PM
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I think a lot of us just naturally can’t do it even if there’s nothing specifically wrong with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:43 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:37 PM
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I don’t think it’s comparable to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:18 PM
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?? I’m literally a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:47 PM
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Well, the alternative would be that they don’t get off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:45 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:02 AM
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I feel like this is your subtle way of expressing your anger/disdain towards women who stay in abusive relationships. Because obviously this is not legitimate advice, you’re making a jab at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:01 AM
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Since you couldn’t refute my argument anymore you changed the subject to something else you’re mad about. You could just accept that you learned something from a new perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:41 AM
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First of all, I’m talking about women who naturally couldn’t get off even before they used vibrators. Second of all, wtf are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:37 AM
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No. It’s not a personal thing, the female body just doesn’t lend itself as well to getting off in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:32 AM
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Yes. For many women it’s a lot more difficult than men or even impossible in some cases, so they need the extra help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:24 AM
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I don’t think it’s bad, I just think people shouldn’t be judging each other for their methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:21 AM
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The point is, for a lot of women vibrators are the only way they can get off. So really what they do is level the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:19 AM
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If vibrators are bad, men’s hands are bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:59 AM
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Those are good points... maybe it just sucks to be either lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:44 AM
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Yes. Also I’m on an ssri but it doesn’t seem to have any effect on that. Imagine how much more productive we could all be if we weren’t constantly distracted by this primitive instinct, and imagine how much conflict would be reduced in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:23 PM
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What about the standards that women can’t change?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:49 AM
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Then why do they love their daughters? Same reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:41 AM
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I was referring to the picture on the left which visually implies that feminist propaganda states that “all men are better off than all women.” So I was disagreeing with what the OP presented as “feminist propaganda,” not necessarily actual feminist beliefs. Obviously whoever created the visual was over exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:00 AM
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I’ve tried this and I just can’t do it. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:33 AM
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Oh man! You’d like that wouldn’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:14 AM
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Idk what women you’re talking about, but I’ve never learned to expect anything from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:07 PM
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I’ve tried forcing myself to settle for some people but I couldn’t do it. I wish I had lower standards honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:54 PM
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I know, I’ve just been trying to make a point that many of the statements made in this post are false. (“Imagine having unlimited sexual opportunity with the most attractive men”) only applies to high smv women, but OP implied that these statements apply to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:26 PM
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You’re right. That’s why the world is so violent, because positions of leadership have always been TAKEN using violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:18 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:30 PM
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Men are more aggressive, assertive and physically strong, which is why they’ve been in positions of power for the vast majority of history. Not because they are “coincidentally” better leaders. If more women had been given the chance to lead, I believe the world would be a much more peaceful place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:30 PM
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Okay I guess we’re pretending below average and socially impaired women don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:51 PM
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That doesn’t mean all women have access to them. OP seems to be referring to attractive women only with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:09 PM
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I’m pretty sure assaults happen way more often but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:07 PM
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She taught elementary school, which is a lot more demanding than middle or high school. She was a single mother, which basically means she had a second full-time job. And she was an actual quality teacher who gave a fuck about her students, rather than half-assing it like most of the idiots who get a teaching degree because they think it will be easy. She was worth more than she was paid. Have you ever lived with a teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:23 PM
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The point is that I disagree with the picture on the left (“what feminist propaganda tells you society looks like”), but the one on the right is a vast over-generalization and is not accurate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:53 PM
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I mean... I’m pretty sure it would look more complex than that. But I agree that the idea all men are better off than all women is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:12 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:08 PM
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Autistic. Look, I get triggered when people say “all women have it easy,” when that’s so far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:26 PM
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Easy for neurotypicals to say. Even in art school among people who were supposedly like-minded and shared my interests, I didn’t fit in anywhere. If not there, I don’t see where else I’d have a better chance at finding my “crowd.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:01 PM
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Shields from what? You’re more likely to hurt us than protect us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:57 PM
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Who? I’m not aware of anyone trying to court me. Also, OP said unlimited sexual access to ATTRACTIVE guys, which has not been my experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:53 PM
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I guess I got in better shape, but it didn’t seem to make a difference whatsoever with my social life. Most of it was futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:22 PM
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When my mom was a teacher she had to stay up till 2 am every night grading papers and stuff, plus she had to go to all sorts of conferences and continuing education during breaks. She was exhausted and barely got paid enough to support us. Kids already spend too much time in school. They barely have a chance to explore their own interests or develop as individuals, especially now that everyone’s mom has to work so they practically grow up in daycare and summer school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:49 PM
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By that I mean people I’m not attracted to. Other people might find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:15 PM
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As a female with aspergers I gotta say, I’m glad at least I’m not a male with aspergers. Being seen as creepy sounds like the worst feeling ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:27 AM
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Starving myself, torturing myself with working out, joining sports teams and the dance team to try to make friends even though I hated it, trying to change my personality, drinking so much water every day that I felt sick, giving myself future skin cancer by laying out trying to get tan, I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:10 AM
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First of all, I spent all of middle and high school exhaustively forcing myself to do all this self improvement shit just for a chance at social acceptance, secondly I don’t know where you got the idea that self improvement is only aimed at men. Over 90% of people who get cosmetic procedures are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:57 AM
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Why do you think all women want a husband, child and religion? Women are all individuals and have vastly different lifestyle goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:35 AM
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Everyone liking me? Then why doesn’t anyone acknowledge my existence? Unlimited sexual and romantic opportunity with attractive men? Then why am I a single virgin loser who has never been approached by someone who wasn’t ugly? Easy access to an active extroverted social life? Then why have I gone most of my life without friends, excluded from the social experiences that a normal person my age would have had by now? If all this nonsense was true I wouldn’t have spent half of my life unbearably lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:16 AM
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Well, you never get the chance to show your true self, but the self you present to the world is part of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:08 AM
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Autism is a massive hinderance. Take it from someone who is high functioning and is practically socially handicapped. Do not underestimate the power autism has to fuck up your life. I’ve never known of any autists who dated each other, but good for them. Personally it’s even harder for me to communicate with other autistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:23 AM
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I think it’s more complex than that. Ugly guys who get ugly girls probably have good social skills and a likable personality, whereas incels are socially awkward or mentally ill and that sort of thing. A lot of them have autism, for instance. Even a good-looking guy can be incel for mental reasons. I’m sure some of them have excessively high standards or don’t try, but I think the majority have mental issues or just an unsuccessful personality,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:48 PM
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To add to the anecdotal evidence, I’ve seen plenty of ugly guys with ugly girlfriends throughout college and they seem very happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:28 PM
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What about people whose ancestors were poor? I’m sure not all of you are descended from aristocrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:17 AM
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I can’t tell if you’re serious or joking right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:12 AM
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Have you ever tried taking care of children? It is EXHAUSTING. I can’t even imagine what it would be like to have to raise them and be completely responsible for them until they’re 18. And they cost more than charity and child support can pay for. Also what makes you think single mothers get botox and manicures all the time? I mean, some probably do, just like some women in general do. But most single mothers probably don’t have time for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:11 AM
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Literally everyone who has a job has to listen to something at one point or another. Also, not paying a prostitute to have sex with you = violating yourself?? What is your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:40 PM
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Pay child support? I’m pretty sure it’s 100x more uncomfortable to have to actually raise the kids. You’re living in freedom and luxury compared to single mothers. Plus single mothers work full time and pay taxes as well. You think men are the only ones who pay taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:35 PM
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Tell that to all the people who’ve tried it and are still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:15 PM
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Omg, you just solved world obesity!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:21 PM
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The fact that you recognize and acknowledge your toxic feelings and behaviors is a good first step. Most incels would deny that there’s anything wrong with the way they think. Spending time on incel spaces or the manosphere in general, it’s no surprise you’ve developed these feelings. Just recognize that these men are making over-generalizations and exaggerations to justify their anger. It’s not an accurate view of the world. They purposely find examples of women being cruel or problematic so th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:42 AM
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I mean... they wouldn’t be single if the fathers stayed with them. That’s the man’s choice he is free to make because he isn’t stuck with the child in his body or maternal instinct or the cultural expectation to be the main caregiver. Single moms are stuck with their kids. So by the logic of this post the root of all evil is actually absent fathers because they create single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:46 AM
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It’s actually easier for men to not be fat. Women’s bodies naturally carry extra fat as opposed to muscle, and they have lower metabolic rates. Men are able to lose weight faster and more easily than women. Men have less of an excuse to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:29 AM
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Right back at you. I definitely prefer men with good looks and character over ones who earn a lot. Money alone could never make me happy. And I’m never having children so it doesn’t matter. I’d rather be poor with someone I’m actually into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:15 AM
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If it’s a mental illness that would mean our species only exists thanks to that mental illness, and if everyone was mentally stable humans never would have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:49 PM
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I’m pretty sure abortion happens before the gender can be known, so nobody could really abort a fetus based on its gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:42 PM
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Dystopia for some, utopia for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:32 PM
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Oh, well it still made sense to me because I myself am turned off/intimidated by overly strong or masculine men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:08 PM
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Being a heterosexual woman doesn’t necessarily mean you prefer manly men. I’m 100% hetero and I get the “tingles” for pretty boys (not fat ones though). And people vocalizing their preferences is not “regurgitating nonsense” just because it isn’t also your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:05 PM
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My theory is that different women have evolved to have different survival strategies (sexual preferences) based on situation... some pursue strong men who can protect them from outside forces, while others pursue men who aren’t strong enough to hurt them. Two different survival strategies. I think in modern times it has become much more likely for a woman to be hurt by a strong man than protected by him. There are no longer any outside forces, and men themselves have become the most dangerous fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:56 PM
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That’s good. I think things do improve with the passing of each generation, because a lot of backwards ideas die along with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:23 PM
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Yeah, I think that’s sort of what I was trying to say, but you articulated it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:20 AM
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Some people have natural confidence in themselves and are able to brush off opinions. But for others, it would take an incredible amount of personal strength to become invulnerable to the powerful influence of societal opinion. And some people just don’t have that strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:18 AM
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I feel like problem with trying to get that implemented, or with getting anything related to sex implemented, is that there’s going to be massive pushback from religious people, who in some places have a lot of influence over the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:07 AM
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I agree. Our culture is OBSESSED with sex and we are constantly being bombarded with images and messages about it. It’s no wonder people who don’t get it are so fixated on it. But the worst of it is the prevalent idea that if you don’t have sex you are somehow inferior, and the more you have it the more superior you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:59 AM
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I’ve only been asked out once in college (I’m about to graduate) and once in high school. For some reason I got more attention in middle and elementary school. This is not counting guys on the internet who don’t even know me. There are a few reasons for this, and the root cause of them is the fact that I have aspergers. For one thing, I usually have no friends. Being part of a friend group greatly increases opportunity and likelihood of getting asked out. Also, the way I come across, body langua…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:42 AM
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Have people actually argued that sex should be a right? How do they propose this “right” to be implemented?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:55 PM
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I agree, that would help simplify debates like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:58 PM
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I think it depends on the person, it seems more important to some people than others. Different people can have vastly different priorities and wants. Also, some people are more susceptible to messages that if you are missing out you are somehow inferior. They internalize these messages and it completely fucks up their sense of self-worth. So maybe part of the problem is that these messages are so prevalent, and seem to be the general status quo in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:46 PM
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I’m not necessarily saying that it’s a need, I’m saying that it’s incorrect to say that a need is only what is required to survive. And even if it is a need, it shouldn’t be a right because it could come into direct conflict with other people’s rights. Just because we cannot and should not give them what they want, doesn’t have to mean that we pretend their suffering isn’t valid or real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:39 PM
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Look up the definition of “need.” It doesn’t say anything about dying. I think the distinction between “need” and “desire” is more subjective than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:37 PM
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It seems that a lot of people define “need” as the bare necessities of survival, but why? Here’s the definition of the word need: “require (something) because it is essential or very important.” This could mean what is required to survive, what is required to thrive, what is required for any given outcome to occur. Maybe some people define need as what is required to want to live. I’m not saying anyone should have the “right” to love or sex, because it may come into direct conflict with other pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:35 PM
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If a person has no social interaction, love or affection, they won’t die, but will their life really be worth living? Why does “need” have to mean bare necessities of survival? That’s not the definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:05 PM
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I saw a post on here a few days ago that literally stated the opposite: that men seem capable of admitting negative things about men, but women don’t admit anything about women. So maybe there is no correlation that applies to men and women in general, and it just depends on what each OP has seen/perceived and the conclusions that they’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:54 PM
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I prefer more feminine guys. They seem more approachable and transparent and less intimidating. Masculinity makes me kinda uncomfortable. It feels intimidating and somehow less transparent. I’m also more attracted to pretty faces and skinnyness rather than bulky muscles, and I’m not obsessed with height. In response to some of the comments I’ve seen, I’m not a masculine girl. I’m not super feminine but more on the feminine side. Would be even more so if I had the time/money to focus on fashion. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:30 AM
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Ok, that’s a pretty understandable analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:14 PM
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Men certainly don’t need sex in order to orgasm. They pretty much do it on their own whenever they want, from what I’ve heard. I’m kinda confused about why they have such a fierce need for women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 08:42 AM
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Everybody has their own personal tastes. The idea that a certain type of person is everyone’s ideal mate is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:31 AM
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I’m a heterosexual woman and this is exactly the type of person I’m attracted to. Masculinity is intimidating and it makes me uncomfortable. I think the pressure for guys to be masculine turns them bitter or self loathing or narcissistic and stuff like that. And in my experience they often have an unpleasant personality as a result. I’ve seen plenty of guys reject their natural beauty in order to force themselves into a certain mold. When I see a feminine guy I instantly get the impression that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:27 AM
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Some women are lucky. For men it’s pretty much a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:09 AM
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