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| 10 | What does it mean when she keeps talking about guys hitting on her? Is she playing games?Girls do this because this is how their own brains work. When they see a guy with a bunch of other girls around him, they also get interested. They don't realize that men's brains don't work like this at all - we aren't excited by competition and social proof the way they are. So in short, when they do this they are trying to see if you get more interested. As to why, it differs. She could legitimately like you and be trying to tempt you, or she could just be trying to get you to give her your a… | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 01:02 PM |
| 24 | [deleted by user]If you take a look at other species, often in their mating rituals males will have elaborate displays or dances providing evidence to the opposite sex that they have high quality genes, superior ability to survive etc. The specimens that can do this successfully mate.. the ones that can't don't. Nature does not care about you, you either survive, adapt, reproduce.. or you don't. We make the mistake of thinking that we aren't animals, but we are no different. We have our own little dances and beh… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 43 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?How is a woman supposed to buy into the idea that a conversation with you is a positive thing if you can't even buy into this idea yourself? The frame that you're coming from is one of 'leaching value'. That is, you think that somehow you are making less of her day by 'invading it'. Inherently, this communicates that you yourself don't hold yourself in high enough regard to believe that meeting you is truly a special thing. That you are rejecting yourself in some way. It's not your job to reject… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for successI struggle this for different reasons. I rarely approach by default because few women I see give me that 'spark' to even approach. If she's -very- attractive then I will, but there are few enough that making authentic approaches (because deep down I'm very attracted to this woman) are few and far between. This makes it hard for me to get good because I'm not getting enough approaches in to understand what's happening and what my true sticking points are (if I'm just going for the girls I want re… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:54 PM |
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