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2	[FR] Got froyo, tried to hold hands but it didn't work It's not so much the actual act but what it's a symbol of. I think it's better to kiss a woman before you hold her hand, but that's just me. It isn't the actual act of hand holding that makes women uncomfortable, it's what it symbolizes. Kissing is much less of a symbol. Every guy I've really liked I've kissed before I held his hand. Maybe the girls you're interested in have different opinions than me or are more shy (neither of which is bad). My advice is if you want to stick with hand holding …	/r/seduction	01/08/14 07:01 AM
7	[FR] Got froyo, tried to hold hands but it didn't work Many women don't want to hold hands on a first date. If she's looking for sex, hand holding seems too emotional to start with. It might develop emotionally later but it's simply too soon. For a girl who wants sex a good hug or a kiss is way better than holding hands. If she's looking for a relationship it's basically the same situation: it's too soon. Women looking for a relationship like to get to know a guy first. Subtle kino is the way to go, nothing that puts pressure on them. Hand holding i…	/r/seduction	01/08/14 04:21 AM
1	What are you favorite questions to build rapport and connection? It's never a good idea to ask any question randomly. If you just walked up to a woman and asked her any of those questions it would be awkward. But if you're having a conversation and trying to make a connection, it's good to find out what she likes. What she's interested in. It doesn't have to be a TV show. It could be books or a favorite activity or music or anything like that. I agree you shouldn't break the flow of the conversation but sometimes it's good to talk about basic interests you ca…	/r/seduction	31/07/14 04:10 PM
2	Open or close with compliment? If you open with a compliment, your intentions come off as physical. Which isn't bad. It could catch their interest and start a conversation. If you close with one, you seem more genuine and less focused on sex. Which also isn't bad. You don't need to be obvious about it for a girl to know you want sex, and sometimes being subtle is the better way to go.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 08:25 AM
6	What are you favorite questions to build rapport and connection? "What TV shows do you like?" Is always a good intro question. Not a hard question and if you have one in common it gives you an exciting positive conversation topic.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 08:08 AM
2	Strengths and weaknesses to sitting besides or across from dinner date. It depends what you're looking for. If you want to connect with her, sit across the table from her. It's easier to make eye contact to show you're interested and it promotes conversation. Married couples often sit across from each other. A few people have mentioned a naturally combative state but if you aren't arguing or thinking about competition and are trying to get to know each other, it shouldn't be a problem. If you're looking for something more physical, side by side is the way to go. Eas…	/r/seduction	31/07/14 08:04 AM

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