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ADVICEinfinitydeluxe/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 01:00 PM
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Cute but remember nothing is real until the certificate is signed and dated
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 02:26 AM
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You’re very welcome dear. Remember, as “nice as he is” if you don’t open the door to receive clarification then you are robbing yourself of valuable time Sure you might scare him off, but if the act of being respectfully direct for the purpose of clarification scares him then you scared off a non potential husband and father — which is a GOOD thing
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/22 05:07 PM
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When you guys met did you directly state that you were dating to be married in a given timeframe? Does he want marriage at all? Have you asked him? You’ve brought up children without marriage while living together and not even engaged and that sets a precedent to then have children with no marriage (which is common and easier) You need to bring it up so you can quickly make a decision. Right now you’re in a comfortable limbo and those always end bad if you stay there
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/22 11:51 AM
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If your timelines don’t match you are incompatible You’re not talking about owning a cat. You’re taking about raising a family. You will be caught with the baby if you decide to have one outside of a real committment which will make it harder for you. Obviously him having a child will not deter him from potentially having long term relationships in the future, as you can see
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 05:14 PM
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Be prepared to skiddaddle ASAP. Love does not matter the most. Do NOT get pregnant at all
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 05:12 PM
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What is his timeline for marriage? 6 months? Does he want to be married or he just wants to marry you? there is a clear difference and the latter isn’t always as good as it may sound. Men can say they want to marry you for years, let you be forever engaged and then let the relationship go if you let them. They’re not bad people, they just lose incentive if you don’t give them one and a child means nothing when it comes to that because he’s not the primary caregiver anyway
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 03:39 AM
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What about his sisters? Literally any credible source that can inform you of his character. You didn’t mention marriage, why do you want a baby with him? What’s your life plan? Out of ten how much do you trust his trajectory to be what you want?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 03:35 AM
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Have you spoken with the child’s mother yet?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 11:17 PM
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So is your goal to be a single mother? You didn’t mention getting married. Just a baby. Did you declare your goals before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend or you’re just now telling him? He’s already dealing with the mistake of having a child younger than he should with the wrong woman. He doesn’t want to do it again.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 11:15 PM
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Prostitute
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:10 PM
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Okay thank tou
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 03:05 AM
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How old was your stepdaughter when you got married at 32? Just curious
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 03:11 PM
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Dude you’re only 28. You haven’t even hit your stride. Plenty of time
/r/seduction27/07/21 07:12 PM
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This is cute
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:51 PM
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That’s a positive response from the parents but id take it all with a grain of salt It’s good you have a financially sound expectation
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:18 PM
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It’s not commonly discussed in traditional red pill forums but most men financially peak at 35 because most men are average. They don’t really make a ton more as they age up and so 35 is their financial wall for the most part. Their physical peak might be later on but idk that one. And oh dear he’s an only child?? That’s not going to fly well. Are his parents also only children?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:01 PM
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You’re mentioning a lot of feelings but what are the actual facts. You said you think he will be capable of supporting a family but you don’t want children so are you just talking about yourself? Also are you okay with waiting 15 years for him to hit his peak? And yes definitely be aware of the parents because most parents want to be grandparents. How they are with you will likely change once time goes on and especially if he proposes officially
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 11:43 AM
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Okay. Are you willing to directly state your timeline for marriage and keep to it? As in if it’s 1 year then after that year you’re willing to walk away completely? Because if not then that’s a huge issue. He’s your first at everything which is somewhat good for you because it means you can easily train/mold him to only be fit to be with you vs the other way around. But also just because you’re first doesn’t mean you’re last. I would lay out very clear expectations in the beginning and be willin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 11:23 AM
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He’s 20. It is incredibly likely that he wants children later even if he says he doesn’t want any now There is no such thing as a traditional boyfriend. Is he looking to get married in 1-2 years or not? He’s a child and I don’t think you have the time to entertain this just be hurt in 5-6 years
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:38 AM
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Idk if you’re a man or a woman but It doesn’t exactly matter what you want in this regard. What matter is what works for the benefit of the family. Ultimately we depend on each other. You want the woman to bare your children? You depend on her to do her part and teach the children to love and respect you because it is unlikely that you (the father) are going to be able to do that as the secondary caretaker. You want your man to take care of the household? That obviously requires a level of depen…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 07:04 PM
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Eh. Interdependency seems a little more healthy
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 02:04 PM
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I’m 24 and I’ve been celibate for 24 years 🥴 Lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 01:29 PM
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The term “high value woman” does not have the same definition as a HVM nor does it attempt to. A high value woman’s definition is determined by what men consider to be high value. Since men do rank women from low to high given the definitions they utilize then logically there is such a thing as a HVW
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:51 AM
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I didn’t know men couldn’t get tested for HPV. Why is that?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 12:15 PM
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I didn’t read the whole thing. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to marry you and he won’t marry you. I know most people would say don’t leave him but you need to because you’re reaching the middle of your most fertile years. He is wasting time Men are men of action for the woman that inspires him to take action
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 10:57 PM
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I’m definitely actively looking for (and making myself to be found) by a husband. Maybe I can pour more into that Thank you so much! I’m glad I’m on the right track
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 01:12 PM
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Good questions
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 03:06 AM
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“What do you even do everyday?” I work in my marketing agency day to day as well as exercise and work on my physical fitness to lose 50 pounds this year, as well as learn how to cook and work on my feminine self so I can become a better woman (and eventually be married) “What is your life goal” To master myself emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually while creating and raising a successful family as well as economically improve my home community and people. Family first then that “Wha…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 03:06 AM
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I will look up attachment theory thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 11:48 PM
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I wonder what I cope with hmm. I’ve never been through anyway traumatic before I don’t know what’s that like. My life is pretty chill
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 04:45 PM
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Hmmm I don’t know of it stops me from getting what I want. I usually get what I want or I get the help to go get it. I just wish I could feel in the way I think women are supposed to.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 04:42 PM
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I love breathwork!! Only done it once or twice but I do like it Btw who is your captain? That your man?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 04:41 PM
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I’ve always felt like I should go to therapy. Good sign Thank you for honesty!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 04:40 PM
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I’m a virgin also. You’d think this hyper sexual world would dislike it but being a virgin gives you a lot of power in my opinion. Power over yourself more than anything else Keep going!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 01:06 PM
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My male best friend is someone I literally grew up in pampers and cribs with. I fully intend to vet his wife-to-be if he asks and attend his wedding as a guest lol. No way in heck I could marry him. That's my little big brother. And we've talked about it before (as in could we ever be married and it's a hard no) We don't talk super often, I really don't talk to my male friends super often naturally and especially now that I'm being sought out by my future husband. It's not a lot I need to talk a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 02:28 AM
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Not crazy. This is immediately what I saw from the broken men
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 02:55 AM
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Maybe for some but I'd like to think people can be healed from inherited trauma and the sort
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 02:53 AM
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That's one of the issues for redpill men. They go overboard and even go against their own nature and purpose to some degree I take the good and leave the bad when it comes to this concept. Lots of Redpill men are like the bitter women who are "independent and don't need no man". They're hurt and haven't healed themselves yet Keep learning and take the good and leave the bad as much as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 01:45 PM
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If you have naturally curly hair, especially if you're black, men won't actually like the permanent straight hair, assuming you're considering this question for a man Curly and afro hair does not equal "not elegant" Make it nice, clean it, style it, put effort in it and you'll be fine
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 01:42 PM
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