informal_main2278 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. i completely agree with everything you said. plus there are various factors probably going against your this guy and people like him: -ugly / average poor social skills / low value friend group -whenever they talk to hot women they come across as needy and women know they aren’t a challenge / these men are too available	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:01 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. i have first hand experience on what type of money does compensate for looks: those in executive positions in finance in large cities like nyc. it’s a meme at this point but i know a few fashion models that date men like this. that or men connected to old money. another model i know dated the grandson of a billionaire in nyc and another model i know of dated a man that owns a very popular restaurant in nyc. a lot of these guys are like 20+ years older than the girl and these are the types to hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:30 AM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. i agree with your take. i think dating apps have inflated women’s self perception of what leagues they’re in and deflated men’s self perceptions. a 5 woman will get matches and dates with 8-10s and even sex but they won’t stick around. this lifts their self perception that they are on this level. then they’ll wonder why they get all these 8-10 guys that have sex with them but leave whereas a man that is a 5 will probably get no matches likes / or even dates unless it’s with 1-3 tier women and ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:11 AM
3	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. i agree with you about leagues. on average i think most men date down, whereas women date across or above their league	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:05 AM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. had the same thing happen to me when i was around your age. i was like 27 and women thought i was 19. at 28 or so a woman thought i was 18. early 30s now and someone last weekend thought i was 22	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:02 AM
25	Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you. That’s true and what guys have to learn is have the ability to disconnect from her despite potentially having no other options. Men that do that value their time	/r/seduction	06/05/22 03:04 PM
1	Why is nonchalance so attractive to women? You comment reminds me of this song https://youtu.be/r0bS-YnLf4s	/r/seduction	27/04/22 11:02 PM
1	I stopped giving her validation by muting her social media posts/stories, and she came back It will reveal itself through his longterm interactions	/r/seduction	25/04/22 07:49 PM
3	Taking girls on expensive dinner dates Good question. I haven’t done them since. But there is one girl I’d consider doing it for because I’d have to travel to her area which isn’t close and she’ll show me around and we’ll probably end it with dinner. She’s the only exception	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:30 AM
19	I stopped giving her validation by muting her social media posts/stories, and she came back You’re still being needy. Instead of trying to reschedule you ignored her (with the hope she’d come back) vs doing it authentically because you lost interest and was moving on. Your frame may work for a short time but it’ll eventually break and you’ll scare her off or someone else in the future. It’s obvious you been thinking about her a lot and it’s been eating away at you. I would have simply tried to reschedule when she cancelled and then if she didn’t respond / made an excuse never talk to h…	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:11 AM
267	Taking girls on expensive dinner dates I’ve done dinner dates. They usually end up with me paying $150+, a friend hug at the end and never seeing them again	/r/seduction	25/04/22 03:02 AM
10	Best tinder opener that’s not cringey I’d say it doesn’t matter. Most of the time they won’t respond even if the opener is “good”, so think of something within 2 seconds, send it and forget they ever existed/you sent them a message. Then on the unlikely chance they respond and you see “Jessica sent you a message on Tinder” you’ll be like “who is Jessica?” that’s the way you gotta go about it. Don’t think too much, send whatever, forget they exist and don’t check their profile ever again unless they respond	/r/seduction	24/04/22 11:23 AM
16	Best tinder opener that’s not cringey I asked questions based off their bio and i’d say like 75% of the time they don’t reply to such openers	/r/seduction	24/04/22 11:21 AM