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No you're doing great. Intelligent men love wise women. You are only 19, you have time to heal, and time to come around to wanting a serious relationship. Maybe nun mode would work for you. In a couple years, lots of guys will consider your past 'ancient teenage history'.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/24 08:46 PM
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I use (metaphorical) duct tape over my mouth. Empowered Wife book by Laura Doyle goes into depth
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 05:21 AM
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Not sure about your condition but this helped me Laura Doyle's Empowered Wife book :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 05:15 AM
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Neither lol, don't be fooled. Values, character, ambition. In that order. Values and character make a person attractive when looks fade. Ambition is what makes money. A man can always get a higher paying job, but only if he has the drive to do so, which he needs to have innately. No woman can force him to make more money unless she also wants him to resent her.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 06:38 PM
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You could try Laura Doyle's Empowered Wife book and podcasts
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 08:37 PM
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My husband and I both hate morning. For some reason it's never as good for us. But others swear by it. It really depends. I had pain issues for a while at the beginning of our marriage (honestly sounds very similar to your story) which really put a damper on things but you can work through it. If you want someone to talk to about it and help you through, I'm willing to.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 03:33 AM
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Is it absolutely necessary for you to perform in front of men? If yes, you should break it off.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 04:18 AM
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I'm referencing the book because OP needs to (continue to) practice all of them. The first and best thing is self-care when she notices she's irritable. Self-care is king and will help her be GOFL to avoid irritability and NET. SFP's and pure desires will go a long way to encourage her husband to be around more and to put what she wants out in the air so that he can respond and rise to the occasion. DT when she's still feeling irritable after self-care and looking for his heart messages when she…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 06:35 PM
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Empowered wife by Laura Doyle. I think this is the third time I've posted this today. It seems like Reddit is recommending me a lot of posts like yours recently
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:16 AM
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Have you read EW by Laura Doyle?
/r/RedPillWives28/08/24 12:21 AM
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Please read Empowered wife by Laura Doyle. There is hope for you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 06:26 PM
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Read EW by Laura Doyle
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/24 08:13 PM
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The John Gray book is on my reading list, I'm excited to read it when I'm done Laura Doyle's book
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 08:08 PM
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Most places that's illegal...
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:36 PM
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So an incel would be that too? I thought they were just unable to pull anyone
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:33 PM
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Most women are involuntarily single because they wish to maintain their standards.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:13 PM
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It depends on what you mean when you refer to "the sexual marketplace." If you are referring to "people looking for sex, friends with benefits, ons, or other similar things" ...then you'd be right. But if you're referring to the dating pool as a whole, I'm sorry but no - the vast majority of people are looking for long term partners.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 04:03 AM
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What it comes down to is how genuine and open you are with each other during the vetting process, and how discerning you are during that process as well. Lots of people overlook red flags especially when they don't want to see them
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 01:53 AM
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Personally, I don't think so. My husband loves when I can engage in typically-male hobbies with him - and enjoy it!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 12:00 AM
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I don't have much to say beyond what other commenters said. They already gave great advice. I will say as someone who is married with kids, try to start on getting to the bottom of your feelings before you embark on that because if you feel like you are unsupported, those feelings only amplify during pregnancy, and amplify even more during postpartum. Feeling unsupported is one of the main causes of PPD/PPA. So to reiterate what other commenters said: try to find out what fulfills you. Try to fi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 06:28 PM
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Have you talked to him about those things? Are you certain he will not like those changes? Talk to him openly about all of those subjects and if he still disagrees and there is no way to compromise those things, then I suggest a simple "we are not compatible in this area that is super important to me, so our relationship isn't going to work out."
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/24 04:03 AM
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I had an even more extreme boundary (no sex and no living together until marriage) and I am currently married to a great man. The boundary is not unreasonable. But what looks like a small hill to one person can look like an insurmountable mountain to another. If your boundaries and expectations don't match well enough, it may be time to move on
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 09:18 PM
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You are intentionally misinterpreting my words and taking what I say in bad faith, so this will be the last thing I say to you in a final attempt to get you to understand. Nothing I said is about a man's rights or entitlement. It has everything to do with YOU and how YOU feel. I say again, you don't have a husband. You've probably never given birth before. The way you feel right now is purely hypothetical. You don't know how your relationship will be with your husband, you don't know how you'll …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:34 AM
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Who said entitled? You don't have a husband, so you have no idea what the relationship is like.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 03:14 AM
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You misunderstand. The stories I have heard were not about lack of communication.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 02:35 AM
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Your husband is not just your romantic partner. He is your life partner, your intimate partner, the only person in this whole world who should see you. You can try to live your life without being intimate with your romantic partner, but in my experience, romance cannot exist without intimacy. Relationships in general cannot exist without intimacy. You may want to reconsider.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 02:33 AM
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I thought I would be this way, too. I understand where you're coming from. But when push came to shove, this type of pain was unlike any other pain I've ever experienced. I needed my husband there, for both of my labours. He was my strength. He gained so much respect for me, watching me do that, I can't imagine what our relationship would have been if I denied him that experience. Honestly, if it wasn't for the possibility of complications, I actually would have had -only him- there and wouldn't…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 02:30 AM
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Honestly it depends on the relationship you have with him
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 12:37 AM
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So you have had experience living together.. why do you need experience doing that alone?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 07:17 AM
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How long were you living with him and his parents?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 06:56 AM
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So hold on... this guy says he doesn't want to get married to you because it's too "binding" but he still wants to live with you? He likes what you put out but is still keeping his options open. I don't like the sound of this...
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 05:13 AM
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I used to have a hard time with this as well. I too thought that if I asked for love to be expressed a certain way, that it wouldn't be genuine. But if you read the 5 love languages you realize that we're all just speaking different languages. We have to learn to speak the language(s) of our spouses if it doesn't come naturally. I came from a family that never spoke words of affirmation. Perhaps your fiancée is in a similar boat
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/24 09:14 PM
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I definitely agree on the 9-5 bit... my great grandpa was an entrepreneur and was literally never home if he could help it. My husband owns his own family business too and hates tying himself down with a schedule so I've had to become ultra flexible, able to drop almost anything to have a chance at time together. The nature of his work gives him long periods of time just waiting for data to do its thing - but of course it almost never aligns with the kids' naptimes so it's difficult to find time…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/24 04:05 PM
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For those of us who are deeply religious, it worked for me to carefully observe the living space of my now-husband. I knew roughly what I was getting into. Obviously people tidy before they invite people over but you can get a general sense of how they clean
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 06:49 AM
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I was in the middle of finishing my degree when I was dating my now-husband. He let me know he wanted his wife to stay at home, and I let him know that I would love to be a stay at home mom. He asked me if I still wanted to finish my degree, and I explained that having those qualifications were still important to me especially if we ever need two incomes. I also said if he ever wanted me to work part time so that we could save up for vacations and stuff I would be happy to do so. Afterwards, he …
/r/RedPillWives20/05/24 01:47 AM
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Unfortunately, when I have pulled back from people or explained that I can't handle it and tried to set a boundary... I ended up not really having friends. But I am ok with that. I have my two friends and my close family members, and that's all I really need. I do want to make more mom-friends but I am definitely going to be picky from the getgo to ensure I don't take up a therapist role.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/24 06:49 PM
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This guy sounds like he's settling for you and also sounds like the type of guy who would leave you if you had a child with him because of the body changes. He's either negging you because he doesn't feel like he deserves you, or he really doesn't like your body - either one is not conducive for a healthy long-term relationship. It would personally be a dealbreaker for me if my husband mentioned cosmetic surgeries while we were dating. I need to be with a man who only has eyes for me, which mean…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 07:48 PM
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Is your husband the one restricting sex?
/r/RedPillWives30/04/24 04:12 PM
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You said in your post that she doesn't respect him, I gave you advice based on that. If she shares her negative opinion with you, that should be considered disrespectful. I would also never restrict sex because of a fight, especially if the fight doesn't even technically involve you? You're proving to your husband that you'll take mommy-dearest's side. You are adding to your husband's frustration. Your actions are the reason for his negative opinion of her. Never let fights bleed into the rest o…
/r/RedPillWives30/04/24 03:53 PM
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Being too connected with your mother in adulthood is a bad thing, especially when they show blatant disrespect for their daughter's husbands. Consider that she's not your lifelong partner and do your best to have your husband's back by proving to him that his worries will not come to fruition.
/r/RedPillWives30/04/24 01:36 AM
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Just wanted to know if you were really saying what I thought you were saying.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 01:44 AM
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May I ask if you've had any children? How did your husband feel when you couldn't have PIV for a month while you recovered?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 10:29 PM
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Long enough to have two kids. Yes, a few, one even directly caused by my inability to have sex at the time. Yes, we are satisfied - we are with each-other, we take care of each-other's needs, we prioritize sex even when we're tired with little ones. Yes, we talk about sex probably 3ish times a week, and no, we don't just talk about it during sex.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 06:14 PM
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From my own experience, since I married young: I thought I had vetted properly but wasn't ready for the complete dropoff of frequency of sexual attention after we got married. It happened for many reasons, one of which is that I didn't realize my husband liked to be pursued just as much as I did. Nobody told me I should continue to pursue my husband after marriage. It was quite the opposite, people say that the husbands have the higher libido and will ask for it more often than their wives want …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 04:41 AM
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Having a fulfilling sex life is possible for both people even if there are restrictions. In a committed relationship, it is not a "compatibility issue" it is something to work through. If it's not serious, by all means go ahead and leave but if you really want to make it work you make it work and you decide to be happy with what you have. I'm someone who waited till marriage and found out my husband was on the larger side. It was difficult, but we figured it out. OP can decide for herself what's…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 03:05 AM
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It is good long term relationship advice to learn how to adapt to your partner's needs. Are you seriously saying that foreplay and some positions being off the table is abnormal or somehow makes sex less enjoyable? That's super insensitive to many different groups of people.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 10:34 PM
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This is great advice OP
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/24 07:22 PM
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If he doesn't want to listen to you, maybe suggest a financial advisor or accountant or something similar to help him with the books. Another option would be to ask if you could be in charge of the finances and doing the books, keeping track of costs and such...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 07:36 PM
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I love some of the comments people already wrote. For me, it's about self control/discipline more than anything. A lot of problems in relationships come up because someone is being dysfunctional. They react to things with a traumatized or unhealthy mindset. If I'm upset, I speak my mind. But I don't do that in a way that escalates the situation. My husband and I never fight, and it's not because I just roll over and take everything he gives me. It's because we are nurturing a relationship built …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 06:54 PM
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I was in the same boat a couple years ago. I got married and now I only have one female friend. Feel free to DM me, we can be friends!
/r/RedPillWives10/04/24 04:42 AM
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I waited till marriage and it was the best decision I ever made. Being upfront about this decision helped me to weed out the guys who were only wanting sex, and the guys who were pushy about boundaries or had a lack of respect for me/women in general. My husband also waited till marriage and I am so glad he did, too.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 05:06 AM
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Oh my goodness! I've been waiting for an excuse to gush 🥰 I'm 1 month postpartum and my husband has been so incredibly helpful while I've been recovering! He's been super involved with our toddler, he's done 90% of the diaper changes, and all of the cooking and dishes on top of work. He's a wonderful man. He's loving, truth-seeking, hard-working, responsible, supportive, nerdy, makes hilarious jokes, the list goes on. He is my rock and I want to spend the rest of my days with him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 12:48 AM
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If someone didn't reply back after I told them to take "melly" I would assume they took a melly and went back to sleep 😂
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 05:33 PM
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Aww I love this
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 05:28 PM
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Feel free to dm me to talk about this further. Because the longest relationship being 1.5 years should be a bit of a tell. The short of it is, "girls act better" because you're putting them in a state of anxiety where they feel inadequate and like they have to prove themselves to you. This is unsustainable in a long term relationship, especially if you want your woman to be happy with you, trust you, respect you, and not reach a state of burnout which causes you to never survive past 10 years. I…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah haha I had to edit my comment a couple times as I thought of things but these are 100% what helps me to "feel the love" in my relationship, and what I have seen to be the most important to many of my peers as well. Many women will overlook financial security if they feel secure with the man. Most of my family members started out poor but in love. In many of those cases, the women built up and encouraged their men and they worked hard to eventually get out of poverty. And since those were go…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 09:52 PM
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Emphasis on deep emotional connection, being warmed up before the bedroom, feeling secure because he only has eyes for you. A man who makes good decisions. He takes the lead but he seeks and values your opinion in the important matters. Emotional/physical discipline. He doesn't scream or break things or hit you when he's upset. He communicates. If you have kids, having an involved and capable husband who will actually do activities with them and not just put them in front of the nearest screen.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 09:39 PM
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If you need to process your feelings first, do that. Communicate that you need more time to think before you bring an answer. Your marriage will be so much healthier if you say "please give me some time to think, I'll come to you when I'm ready to talk" instead of snapping at him. He doesn't know what's going on in your head. All he knows is "wife looks upset, ask her what's wrong." So if you're not ready to answer, it's seriously on you to let him know as calmly as possible in the situation. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 03:44 PM
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Giving him responsibility as early as possible. Teaching him not to despise hard work but to love challenges. Just a couple...
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 06:26 PM
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This is great advice 👏
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 06:53 AM
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Lol I do a similar thing 😂
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 06:52 AM
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Kids absolutely take attention away from you. If you're not reasy to share your husband, don't date a man with children.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 05:47 PM
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I wish I could help, but the only advice I can give is make sure his last meal for the day is his biggest one so he doesn't get hungry and wake up at night. It helps to give them protein and good-fat rich foods (think salmon). Weaning my daughter was hard and I went dry because of my second pregnancy. My daughter cried and cried because she didn't understand why she couldn't get milk and comfort anymore. I tried to cuddle her and pat her to bed but ultimately my husband had to take the nights fo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 04:52 PM
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Have you tried going to physiotherapy? That's the main thing that worked for me other than dilators. Oh and make sure you're sufficiently hydrated. If you really are struggling and your man doesn't want lube you could try oil? But honestly it sounds like you need to have more foreplay, I need like at LEAST half an hour before PIV. Don't let your man make you feel some kinda way about needing more time, it's quite normal.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 02:00 AM
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I have only ever dated with the intention/hope of a long term relationship that would eventually turn into marriage. But I dated a range of guys with different relationships with porn that 100% shaped their ideas around sex, women, and relationships in general. The porn-addicted ex was my shortest relationship because he lacked sexual boundaries. He thought that his overstepping was ok just because I enjoyed it (as most porn tends to teach young men). He stole my first kiss, among many other fir…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 07:56 PM
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Be at least average in looks and intelligence. Be fairly agreeable and flexible/adaptable. Be a good listener. Do your best to remember details about him and recall them later. Take an active interest in him, his life, his likes/dislikes. It helps to find common interest or to try to get into one of his interests (not mandatory but certainly helpful). At the very least, don't put him down or make him feel weird about any of those things. Be super honest, genuine, and clear. Especially about boun…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/24 11:11 PM
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Don't let any man owe you money.honestly this goes both ways
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 06:42 PM
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Awe that sounds awesome 💕
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 06:22 PM
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Seconding this advice as someone who just had a second baby, 2 weeks old now. If I didn't hand the baby over on his nap, I would never get to take a shower... or do anything in the bathroom, really 😆
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 06:21 PM
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First off I want to say that homemaking is hard especially when you have your kids home 100% of the time. Don't sweat it. It is overwhelming but when your kids get old enough to help out things will get a lot better. Does your husband contribute? Does he help with the kids when he's home? Something that helps me is, when my husband isn't working, he often helps with the kids or he brings them over to their grandparent's house. It gets way easier to do chores in that period of time when the kids …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 06:17 PM
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Hope he figures out that you are asking questions because you love and care for him and are trying to take an active interest in his life. It seems like he might think your questions are coming from an attempt to mother him or discredit him in some way, so he needs to get over that hangup before anything improves. In the meantime try phrasing your questions different and find an opportunity to have an open and honest discussion about this problem. Establishing healthy communication is THE main p…
/r/RedPillWives25/02/24 07:01 AM
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Your boyfriend is very young and unfortunately his lack of maturity reflects that. I hope you can move on quickly, you can find much better men more worthy of your time
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 10:49 PM
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Yikes throw the whole man away. How is he "taking care of you" if you are paying half the bills? He is undervaluing you. He needs to man up and do his half of the red pill lifestyle if he's expecting you to do yours.
/r/RedPillWives12/02/24 10:18 PM
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Super harmful in more ways than I can think to write down at the moment. For both men and women
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 11:42 PM
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This is so great!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 07:24 AM
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I agree with you completely 😭
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 02:31 AM
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😆
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 07:45 PM
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What?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 07:11 PM
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Agree with this completely ^
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 12:54 AM
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I wouldn't marry a man who watches it because I have been severely mistreated by boyfriends in the past who have had porn addictions. It is possible to find men who don't watch porn, but that is more common in religious circles. My husband doesn't watch porn and didn't watch it before, either. This is not something you can compromise on. Porn messes people up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 12:52 AM
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I want and am happy with myself and my relationships. Can they say the same?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 01:26 AM
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I offer to help "with" things but I don't jump in to do things "for" him. I do household things including his laundry, and cook for him, but I don't help him get dressed or anything like that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 01:39 AM
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I think you found out why he has a hard time during the act 😬 if buddy guy does a handy before sex every time, of course that's gonna affect his actual sex life
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 02:28 AM
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I've been meaning to write little love notes and hide them around the house but I keep forgetting. This post will remind me that I want to do it. I wrote one a week before our wedding and he got so excited when he finally found it (almost a month before our 1st anniversary 😂 I hid it too well... note to self, write the date on them).
/r/RedPillWives24/09/22 02:05 AM
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You're less surprised at an older man being a virgin? And yes, religious reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 06:11 PM
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Absolutely not. Women feel the same way about body count as men do. There is no excuse. My husband was a virgin until he married me. He was in his early thirties
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 05:53 PM
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Bet you would be even more shocked to hear my husband was a virgin at 33
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 05:29 PM
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If he knows that you've been looking for a monogamous relationship then he knows that he crossed a boundary. That alone is enough justification to cut it off. You won't have to say anything more :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 10:55 PM
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The guy knows that she knows she's a plate. If she states simply that she is seeking a monogamous relationship and that this isn't going to work out, it will be enough
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 10:48 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't have dated a RP man. I wanted a religious trad conservative man. I don't know how TRP men expect to get the RP women they idealize
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 08:19 PM
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My little baby laughed for the first time this week 🥰 my husband and I were both so happy we cried! As you all might imagine, the current trial is sleep. I don't want to ask them anything about anything when it comes to baby.
/r/RedPillWives07/09/22 02:06 AM
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60-75 days, actually, and no. There is always sperm in semen, unless he has a fertility issue, because sperm is always being produced. There is a near constant supply of it. He will never run out even if he shoots several times in one day. I urge you to do research on this before spreading misinformation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 09:29 AM
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Some ppl don't realize it's possible to get off without watching something. Using one's imagination is an acceptable middle ground.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 06:06 PM
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That being said, there has to be some level of attraction. If it disgusts you to have sex with them, it's not gonna work
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 12:18 AM
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There was moralizing in the post too but I understand why you removed mine. Sorry, I forgot that was a rule here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 05:00 PM
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Which part and why? If you can explain it (the person I asked didn't) and your answer actually makes sense, I'll remove my comment
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 04:59 PM
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Yea I agree with you on all those points. It is sad... I'm 22 and it really is hard to find genZ guys who don't watch or aren't addicted.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 01:56 AM
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How about picking out a ring with him?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:50 PM
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Try church hopping. There's usually a lot of different churches in big cities so all the young people are splintered up throughout
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:17 PM
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Those relationships you're talking about have established that it isn't cheating, which is fine for them. I also agree that it is ridiculous to try to get them to stop, because they will very likely just hide it. People should only quit porn because they want to. "Everyone does it" is no excuse though... plenty of people don't watch it. It is a personal decision to watch it and it is also a personal decision to expect that from a partner. Due to sexual compatibility/incompatibility, it is not my…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:11 PM
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If you’re not a hoe, then you shouldn’t be offended. This is an insult. Implying that the only women who would be offended by this are hoes is incorrect and offensive!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 04:18 AM
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I still don't see how in person prostitution is any different from online prostitution (you didn't explain why/how) but u do u ig
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 02:48 AM
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Yup 😭 lol I couldn't agree more
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 12:13 AM
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I've only ever slept with my husband. I expect the same treatment back - I was a virgin so I looked for a virgin. It is well within my and other likeminded women's rights to do so. Thanks for insulting me 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 12:11 AM
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Why is looking at other woman for sexual gratification in an exclusive relationship not cheating? Would you say the same if a bf/husband paid to jerk off to a prostitute(?)... because pornhub is just an online version of that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 12:08 AM
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This is a gross comment. Idk what it was in response to but us girls could say the same about some of the men on TRP. Idk what trad women are going to want a man with a body count approaching triple digits
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah idk how most RP men plan to acquire a loyal trad woman with a high body count. I for one would be extremely put off by it to the point of insecurity and jealousy because of the huge gap in experience
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 10:48 PM
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Good to see
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 10:44 PM
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Yes, this one works! It might be because I'm on mobile or something. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 10:35 PM
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Many things wrong with this. Porn is not natural. Porn is not normal. Porn is essentially prostitution. Porn is seeking sexual gratification outside of a relationship. When someone is in a relationship, porn is cheating, no matter what anyone says about it. As an older man, it is concerning that he is looking at the youngest age of legal girls. 18 year olds should be children to him. The fact that he doesn't see this as wrong is a dealbreaker. The fact that you have to even ask about this means …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 04:55 PM
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Link doesn't work
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 03:55 PM
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My husband doesn't look at the redpill subreddit. I'm wondering if I'm alone in this or if there are other women here who know whether their husbands do or not? I would go out on a limb and guess that the men that you saw commenting were either single or not married to redpillwomen.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 03:54 PM
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As one of those endlessly smiley and loving girls you want to punch in the face... I express a great deal of my pain behind closed doors away from the general public when I can help it. I don't feel comfortable being vulnerable in front of just anyone so that's something I actively have to work through. This has helped me in some ways because retreating to process what I'm feeling and why has allowed me to return to a situation with fresh eyes and calmly explain to a person why something hurt me…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 03:35 PM
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I feel so blessed every day I am with my husband
/r/RedPillWives28/04/22 04:42 AM
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