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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	CMV: FDS and TRP's goals are similar in that each of them tries to prevent running into the other I've stopped reading FDS because of the toxicity, but the sub really did help me. I was raised traditionally and had a lot of codependency issues holding me back in life. FDS beat into my head that no man was coming to save me, I needed to rely on myself and build a stable life. Men are for companionship, not survival. Temporarily it did make me think men were the villains, but thinking men were the villains allowed me to completely sever my codependency issues. I'm in a way better place in life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 02:43 AM
3	[Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam? It's not inherently against men. Men have made it that way by swipping right on everyone. If you had to sort through hundreds of potential matches, your standards would also be forced to rise. Thats like saying bars are inherently against men because it's easier for women to go to one and get a hookup. No it's just a bar. What happens inside it is human nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 02:24 AM
1	Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it? The difference is that the male role doesn't put someone in a vulnerable position. You can't place traditional gender roles back on women because they left us completely powerless in the world. There are toxic aspects of the male role that need fixing, but the core of it should be the expectation for both genders. Everyone should be able to take care of their family. Everyone should be secure enough to make ends meet. Partners should take turns being the emotional foundation when the other is we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 01:56 AM
3	Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it? I don't understand why you think equality has anything to do with wanting to spoil your partner. I think of men as equals and still want to do anything I can for them when the relationship is pure intentioned. It's just really odd to me that you think equality means you shouldn't give your partner special treatment. That's the point of love. The genders can be equal, and couples can still give to each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 01:33 AM
12	Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill aware I work in psychology. I listen to people grieve everyday. Men and women have it just as hard. All the ways you are going to truly, gut wrenchingly suffer, are inclusive of both genders. I promise you, accessibility to sex isn't one of them. Every women you think is getting an easy pass in life, is going to suffer immense pain before she dies. Suffering is the great human equalizer. So try to be kind, minimize suffering in anyway you can, and stop ingraining the victim narrative. We are all victi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 09:25 PM
2	Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age? Fuck. Why is this sub so weird. No. Both people have control and are in a relationship that has to be continually accepted by both parties or else it dissolves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:02 PM
3	FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results. Like how TRP gets men who develop hate or get depressed when they find about TRP, but 99% of them get past this stage within a week or a month. No. No they don't. Go read the amount of hated on the redpill. Men and women alike struggle with finding out the other gender is nothing like what they fantasized about as a child. Both struggle with accepting the death of their dreams. Neither gender handles it better. You just probably see womens hatred of men as hatred but view male hatred of women as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 08:00 PM
6	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? The men who say this are projecting exactly what they are doing. They only pay attention to the top 20% of women and don't even register average and unattractive women. Then they get angry the top 20% of women want the top 20% of men. The only way to ever believe this is true is extreme confirmation bias. There are average women with average men everywhere you look. 40 percent of households in the us have a female breadwinner. 40 percent. And yet they scream about hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 07:01 PM
9	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women It's only considered taboo because women are fighting back and calling out the behavior. If you want change then men need to fight for it. Call out your friends when they mock another man for being a virgin. Men can't expect women to fix their societal issues for them. We aren't your mother. We don't exist to emotionally coddle you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 04:07 PM
10	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women Those subs are not quarantined because they criticize women. They're quarantined because they promote violence against women. Someone shared a heavily upvoted comment from trp one time that talked about how if women didn't have vaginas men would hunt them for sport. There is no female equivalent, if there was one it would get quarantined. Ppd criticizes women all the time and it's doing fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 04:00 PM
2	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? The funniest part is that it's not hard to find a women willing to be a tradwife. The catch is that if you want a women's submission, you have to earn her respect. These men want to sit on their ass and just be handed a women's submission. They're so bitter because they think women don't have to do anything to earn love and so they should also just be handed it. Speaking in traditional standards, women don't have to do work to earn the relationship because their labor exists inside the relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 10:48 PM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Like I said, your opinion of feminism is shaped from a radical minority who shouts the loudest. Most women believe in feminism. They aren't talking about it all the time because it isn't a personality trait to them. If you ask, she will tell you she is a feminist. These types of women are slipping under your radar. I'm sorry you feel emotionally unsupported and that in a moment of need you were pushed away. I hope you attract some better people into your life. Class doesn't define your worth as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 08:56 PM
2	Is Hypergamy Real? When I love a guy there is no such thing as better. There is no one more desirable than him. If a woman trades up easily she either doesn't form deep attachments or she never really loved you. Money and status can't compete with the emotional bond. Have you ever just wanted to condense a person into a marble and then swallow it? Money can't sway that feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 11:32 PM
1	Is Hypergamy Real? There are a lot of young attractive women on the planet. If a man is earning in the top 1% why would he ever go for the women working at McDonalds? There are women just as beautiful who have more interesting careers. It takes more than looks to get a guy making the type of money you're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 10:46 PM
46	If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you. Because people are not perfectly rational machines? We make emotionally driven decisions all the time against our better judgement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 10:35 PM
4	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? If we're generalizing, then men who are adamantly against feminism because of an extreme minority just wanted a reason to be against feminism. Confirmation bias. You ignore all the rational loving feminists because your agenda has always been to prove to yourself that it's okay you don't support it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 09:47 PM
2	Is being a woman truly “worse” then a man? Right. This post is super out of touch. I'm growing my business and it's the main source of passion in my life. The fact that there is no set womanhood to strive for is a blessing. Women get the ability to define themselves. My joy is found through my business, not the caliber of men I can achieve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 04:48 PM
15	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard Interesting. I see your point that modern society has severed sex and relationships from being a packaged deal. But I see relationships as more than sex. Sex is an integral part but I wouldn't feel loved if my partner said I had to have sex or they are leaving. I have a high libido, I have never withheld sex from a partner, I'm almost always down unless I ate too much food, but if they said I had to have sex to keep their love I would probably break up with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 11:30 PM
3	Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted to I feel that. I work out and watch what I eat everyday. It takes a lot of self discipline to be fit but men act like attractive women are just handed it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 10:46 PM
2	Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted to Everyone earns love. Men and women. If someone had no value you wouldn't keep them in your life. Yes I notice the emotional labor men go through. While women are expected to emotionally give, men are expected to emotionally repress. My natural self is more selfish than I act. Im not exactly dying inside to make a cake and get everyone to sign a card when it's my coworkers birthday. It's a nuisance, but my upbringing made me feel like I'm responsible for taking care of other peoples feelings. I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 10:33 PM
2	How physically attracted to you does a man need to be? How are you misrepresenting yourself as poor? Because if you do it wrong you're going to chase away good women who aren't gold diggers. Are you making yourself seem lazy and unmotivated? I would absolutely date a guy with less money but I'm not going to date a lazy guy because that seeps into every aspect of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 09:38 PM
4	Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted to Women aren't just loved. We get socialized to sacrifice emotionally and are scolded when we act without empathy. When little boys do something wrong it's 'boys will be boys'. I don't think men even notice all the emotional labor women perform to earn love. Women aren't loved for our natural selves, we're loved for the nurturing caretaker role we're socialized into. Men can't have that benefit without any of the sacrifice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 04:07 PM
7	If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractive If hypergamy is defined as women wanting to marry up, that doesn't mean only 20% of men would be sought after. That means a women who is a 2 would only date 3's and above. Or a women making 60K would only date men making 70K and above. I don't understand how hypergamy is spun to claim women only want the best. Thats not the definition of hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 02:45 AM
3	What gives a young man more clout, sleeping with a bunch of women or having an attractive gf? I don't care if a man has a past, I'm not going to ask, but if he's built himself a reputation for it then thats a deal breaker. I would be embarrassed to be with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/21 10:40 PM
1	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? Yeah kinda. When you have low self esteem you over compensate and think you're the best while simultaneously hating yourself. But your belief that you're the best when you feel the worst leads to ego-dystonia and you're constantly seeking external validation to reaffirm your shaky superiority complex. When I had low self esteem I thought I was way better than other women and chased fuckbois because I thought I would be the one to lock them down and then other women would be jealous. Now I have h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/21 08:46 PM
3	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? More like they want to boost their poor self esteem by being the one to lock him down. If they get commitment that means they're better than all the other girls who didn't. Don't confuse ego behavior with rational decision making. Women with healthy self esteem won't touch this man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 02:12 AM
7	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? He's been with a ton of girls and didn't think a single one was worth settling down for. He has made it crystal clear he enjoys new and variety over loving relationships. Even if this man does settle down for societal or child rearing purposes, he is going to have a strong drive to cheat. Someone with strong attachment and that many options would have attached to a women already because they would be emotionally driven to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 02:08 AM
2	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? A fine example of baggage. Some women just want to love a man. Some women are terrible. You've been jaded by the terrible. I hope one day a women loves you so completely you cure the hate in your heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 01:32 AM
8	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? Okay well the persona you project on reddit is a super turn off. I'm a young women but if life blesses me with good health I will be a women over 30 one day. I don't know what personal problems you have going on but acting like women over 30 are useless trash is messed up. Society is cruel enough to women about aging and you just come on the internet trying to kick women where you think it might hurt. I'm sick of this gender war bullshit. I don't want men to feel like they have no value unless t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 09:05 PM
6	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? What do you bring to the table besides being an asshole and bringing in income?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 08:20 PM
1	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. Science is a liar sometimes	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 02:27 AM
9	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. She's answering a question. You're the one stuck on the same beliefs. Running around your mental hamster wheel going "women only like chad" "women only like chad". But alas, the insults we use against others are usually the things that bother us about ourselves. Hamster away buddy. Let me know if you need some water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 07:46 PM
0	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. Lmao is any time a women thinks just "hamster spinning" to you. "Chadfishing". I can't believe you are saying these things seriously. I haven't actually laughed at a comment in a while so thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 07:42 PM
0	Why does the red pill receive so much hate on PPD? It's straight up manipulation. Yes, manipulation works, that doesn't make it okay. Thats like me saying robbing a weak elderly women is an efficient strategy for getting money. Yeah, it is an efficient strategy for getting money. It's also a completely shitty thing to do. Some red pill strategy is fine. Frame, confidence, how to have sex with a women, dominance, all fine. But future faking, dread game, push pull, negging, not fine. If you really have to tear down a girls self esteem to get her, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 07:32 PM
8	Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplace If she is so great, why wouldn't you want to give her commitment? I hope she moves on and finds a guy who cherishes her and doesn't make her give him an ultimatum. Why are you okay with hurting her? Modern men ain't shit. I wonder if foreign men are better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 04:08 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Maybe its because western men aren't worth behaving for. Western women don't want to get married anymore. We want to make money and live our lives. Go get your foreign bride. The women are having a meeting right now to discuss how we will mitigate this huge loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:40 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. No you kind of proved my point. Most people prioritize a lot of factors about a person before their sexual history. Thats why promiscuous women still get married. Men on this sub act like women who sleep around will never be loved and its just not accurate. From what I've seen, most well adjusted adults operate on a don't ask don't tell policy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:37 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. The same to you. I'll never pull you out of the echo chamber and show you theres more to life. I grew up incredibly wealthy. You are wrong about how most wealthy men behave. But you have hate in your heart and your hellbent on a revenge fantasy version of reality and so be it. I hope you find some happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:33 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. No dude you just hate sluts. You can't claim it's innate with zero evidence. Here's wild idea... don't sit there picturing your girlfriend getting railed by a bunch of men. Find a women you love and go be happy with her. Stop trying to justify your anger at being left out of casual sex by trying to paint sluts as unworthy of love. I know plenty of men who sleep around who are fine with a woman who sleeps around because they realize we're all just people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:29 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. I think men and women with taste don't ask about sexual history and don't spent time detailing their sexual pasts. Who wants to hear that? There is a person in front of you. Do they like you? Do you like them? Do they have similar interests? Do they make you laugh? Do you feel electricity when you kiss them? If yes, who cares. Only the most insecurely attached people are like "mmm social science has indicated there is 10 percent more likely chance we will get divorced if you've banged over 5 peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:03 AM
2	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. I'm not saying they were forced. I'm saying men cant have it both ways. They can't encourage slutty behavior and pretend to be the victims because theres no women left who are "wife material".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 08:18 PM
5	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Yeah you're right. However men have given 2 BILLION dollars away on only fans. 2 BILLION. If men don't want women to be sluts why are they encouraging it? Stop making being a slut so damn enticing. I'm a bitch for attention and validation. Stop giving attention and validation to the slutty girls. Men encourage slutty behavior and then have the audacity to call western women ruined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 07:52 PM
4	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Thats really sweet. After careful deliberation I choose the million dollars in one day. Look me in the computer monitor and tell me you would pick some average girls love over being handed a million dollars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 07:19 PM
0	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? "The ability to infer the thoughts and feelings of others is critical for appropriate and effective social interactions and discourse comprehension, but it is not sufficient. Belief understanding does not guarantee emotion understanding; emotion understanding does not guarantee empathy" EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING DOES NOT GUARANTEE EMPATHY. https://alliedhealth.ceconnection.com/files/TheoryofMindandEmpathyasMultidimensionalConstructsNeurologicalFoundations-1415277223298.pdf	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 06:28 PM
12	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Yep. Bhad Baby made a million dollars in a day by making an only fans. Girls waiting for marriage aren't being handed a million dollars in a day. No they have to listen to a man, cook, clean, have his babies, and in exchange they get their basic needs taken care of. Men reward slutty women yet claim they hate them. The slut gets more from men in this society. The fact that men on this sub think slutty women are suffering is so funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 05:09 PM
9	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. Birds of a feather flock together. Your friend group is a reflection of you, not greater society. I know plenty of former slutty women who married rich men. Believe it or not, most men don't ask about your body count. Also the most attractive woman I know is 45. She was hot to start with to be fair and is married to a billionaire. But I don't know a single woman in her twenties who can pull higher status men than her. You can't boil life down to a view as simplistic as yours. Kayne West could ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 04:58 PM
1	We should revive the stigma towards divorced parents Have you considered that maybe you hold all the problematic world views of the bad guys but none of the confidence? Women's "best years?" I would consider women's best years their thirties. They have more confidence in themselves, have more life experience, have developed their interests, but they're still young in the scheme of life. But no you consider women's best years when you want to bang them the most. You primarily value women as an object and you think you're any different from the bad …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 04:34 PM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Lmao. Putting yourself into the mindset of the deer isn't empathy, its theory of mind. Even psychopaths have theory of mind, how do you think they manipulate people so successfully? Empathy would be feeling the distress of the deer as it slowly bleeds out. Empathy for animals is 100% a detriment to hunting. I didn't say volunteering was the best indicator of empathy. Someone else said "why don't we look at something real like volunteering and donating" so I obliged. How many different approaches…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 04:13 PM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? But you never even asked me for the source I'm referring to that looked at volunteer hours between men and women. How can you claim its biased when you haven't even read it? Claiming science you haven't evaluated is biased is the most biased thing you could ever say. You rejected it outright because you didn't want to believe it. I'm not demonizing males. We wouldn't be here as a species if men were too emotionally fragile to hunt. I'm alive today because men, supposedly, have less empathy. I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 01:31 AM
1	We should revive the stigma towards divorced parents I never said beta behavior turns on women. The last thing I want on planet earth is for a man to submit to me. I promise you the vast majority of women do not want male submission. We just don't want to be expected to provide half the income while doing all the domestic work and childcare. Have you looked up why women get divorced and say they are never marrying again? It's because of an unequal division of labor. Call me crazy, but pushing more work onto your wife is beta behavior. A man who ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 01:19 AM
3	Is there something wrong with fat girls? I'll agree being overweight sometimes comes down to laziness but I think you're being overly simplistic and rude. Would you say someone with a gambling addiction lacks discipline? Some people get addicted to food, some people will never struggle with food addiction. Just because you don't struggle with a problem doesn't mean people who do are weak. I feel really bad for overweight people. It's not like dealing with the societal, health, and emotional backlash of being overweight is easy. You rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 11:32 PM
3	We should revive the stigma towards divorced parents Women do not behave like men. Women are acting like people with equal power in a partnership and you're calling that acting like men. Think about this harder. Is how women behave when they have no power the true hallmark of women's behavior or is how women behave when they are free the real behavior? What you mean to say is that women are not acting how men want them to anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 10:11 PM
8	We should revive the stigma towards divorced parents The bar for marriage has changed and I think it's a good thing. Men are not needed as providers anymore. So now marriage is about wanting to spend your life with someone because they are your other half. Real love is much rarer than a union made to produce children so naturally the marriage rate will drop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 04:31 PM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? You mean your interpretation of reality? Because in the reality I've experienced women are much more empathetic. I'm sorry but data collected on who volunteers more is less likely to be biased than your personal interpretation of women. No science is absolute. Thats the entire basis of science. But conclusions that have been mathematically evaluated for probable significance is still way more reliable than your feelings. Maybe women just aren't empathetic towards you. You would live your whole l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 03:57 PM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Okay so social science is bullshit until its showing that men don't volunteer because no one cares about their feelings?? Men are not excluded from volunteering, theres a million opportunities with no gender bias. If you want to volunteer you will. You're really doing mental gymnastics right now. Your arguments don't even make sense. I'm sorry reality doesn't support your mental image of women being bad and men being good. Men evolved certain strengths, women evolved different strengths. It's ok…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 01:04 AM
1	The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill community Just mascara takes me from like a 6 to a 9. It's a running joke in my friend group. Guys will meet me without mascara and be like "whatever" and then see me again with just mascara on and simp. Don't underestimate makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 09:13 PM
2	The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill community "Ever heard the phrase "sticks out like a sore thumb"? It implies you ignore the other 9 fingers."	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 09:03 PM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? So the men publishing these studies have an agenda of trying to prove men are subhuman? I can't really argue with you on this you're clearly too emotionally invested to ever approach this from a logical place. Tell me how bias enters the equation with research that looks at how many hours of volunteer work each gender does. I don't want explanations, "men are not emotionally supported" etc., tell me how you think data collected on volunteering hours can be biased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 08:38 PM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? You focused on one point I made. How about the other points? Women are more likely to volunteer in general and say donating is satisfying. And don't say it's because men aren't emotionally supported unless you have any evidence to back up that wild claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 08:37 PM
1	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? How could you possibly think you know what study I'm talking about. Thats some arrogance right there. Go to google. Look up gender based research on empathy. Read the neuroimaging studies, behavioral studies, and survey results. Come back once you've done that and realized I'm not talking about one study, I'm talking about a mountain of evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 07:17 PM
2	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Objective science is objective science. It has no agenda. I'm a woman and I'm not pitching a fit over the science that shows theres a higher percentage of men with an IQ over 140. I could whine that the science is anti-women in nature but I can actually check my feelings and accept it. But god forbid the gender that evolved to raise children has more empathy. God forbid men aren't the best at something. Come on man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 07:12 PM
3	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Okay. "According to data from the 2014 General Social Survey (GSS) males are more likely then females to never give money to charity, volunteer for a charity and/or give food/money to the homeless." "A 2013 U.S. Trust survey, on women and wealth found that “women are nearly twice as likely as men to say that giving to charity is the most satisfying aspect of heaving wealth.” "Sociologist, Hiromi Taniguchi, found that when women are out of work they increase their time spent volunteering, while w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 07:06 PM
7	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? You can't base your perception of greater reality off your fucked up home life. Your mom is one person. There are abundant examples of ride or die love but I'm sure you filter them all out and solely ingrain the examples that support your world view. Try and remove your bias and then reexamine the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 07:00 AM
13	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? I would rather live in a box with a guy who made me horny than live in a mansion with a guy who did nothing for me. Lust is a hell of a drug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 06:46 AM
21	For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you? Going off your personal experience over science is dumb though. Behavioral research also demonstrates women showing higher levels of empathy. But if you really want to bank on your heavily ego filtered interpretation of reality over carefully controlled peer reviewed science than you do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 06:31 AM
1	Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues. You are wrong. Men are sexually attracted to exploitability cues in women. "The present study had two purposes: (1) to identify observable cues that afford information about which women are sexually exploitable and (2) to test the hypothesis that men find cues to sexual exploitability sexually attractive, an adaptation that functions to motivate pursuit of accessible women. Male participants rated photographs of women who displayed varying levels of hypothesized cues to exploitability. We identi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 01:26 AM
1	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. I fail to see how this is a rebuttal. Let's pretend like this is 100 percent a true fact. A man and a women make equal money but only the man's money goes towards bills. That would mean the man has all the incentive in the world to divorce. The courts will see that the children are experiencing an equal quality of life in both households, order zero financial obligations to the man, and he will get off easy. So whats keeping the man from pushing for divorce when he would financially benefit? Ah …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 01:07 AM
1	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. I'm not going to argue with someone who says stuff like "the best in every field are men." Present a researched fact based argument please. A biased absolute doesn't lend much to the discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 12:55 AM
0	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. https://www.aei.org/carpe-diem/chart-of-the-day-scottish-iq-test-scores-by-gender-reveal-the-greater-variability-of-male-intelligence/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 12:50 AM
5	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. What you forgot to account for is that only 60 percent of child support gets paid. So the average in reality comes down to 287 dollars a month. If men are really oppressed by 287 dollars a month thats embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 02:13 AM
5	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. But women are the breadwinners in 40 percent of relationships now. It seems more likely men don't want to give up the domestic benefits women provide. Even women who are breadwinners end up with most of the childcare and domestic work. Men have benefits to lose in divorce while women lose responsibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 02:02 AM
2	Either men are more likely to forgive a woman for cheating instead of divorcing, or women don't cheat as often as men. Men make up 57.7 percent of people with IQ's over 140. That means 42.3 percent is still women. The most intelligent people aren't men. There's just slightly more men in the most intelligent group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 01:54 AM
3	Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only Lust self-aware man Haha. Good one. You realize you have heaps of emotional baggage with all this hate you're spewing right? They say the things we hate the most in other people are the things we can't stand about ourselves. YOU are demanding. YOU are selfish. YOU aren't loving. Just look at the trash you just wrote out. Like how dare the average woman have average intelligence. How dare women watch Netflix. You can't be serious with this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 04:04 AM
3	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? You think men are going to want to do all the work raising a child? Artificial wombs won't replace the value of a mother. You think your child wont want a mother? Or do you only think about yourself and sticking it to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:24 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I would rather be killed than taken as a sex slave. You're weirdly downplaying what happened to these women. They weren't raped once and let go, they live as slaves, get forcibly impregnated, and probably get beat as well. You're also discounting that the women were still able to be saved. What happened to the men is horrific and deserved attention but focusing on the part of the problem that can still be helped makes more sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:13 PM
-1	Feminism Mega Thread Sure there's not a gender pay gap but there's a motherhood pay gap. Women with children make 7K less a year than women without children. Men with children tend to make more money than men without children. Why should women suffer all the economic consequences for the continuation of the human race? Reproduction should be societies burden, not women's burden. Men never have to choose between a family and maximizing their career success. Women do. Plenty of women don't hate men. If you allow yours…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/21 01:58 AM
9	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? Women over thirty are not miserable. You're miserable and calm your own misery by pretending older women are suffering like you. Women's happiness does not revolve around being sexually attractive to men the way your happiness revolves around being sexually attractive to women. Men are not the sexually selective gender. There was no selection for women who cared more about having a man. Basically all women reproduced. Men who were more emotionally caught up in attracting women reproduced. Now he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 11:40 PM
12	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? You dodged a bullet I think. If that man truly wanted to spend his life with you he would wait until you're comfortable. Whats a couple months compared to a lifetime. My ex waited two years before we broke up for a different reason. We were best friends and had more fun with each other than anyone else and he wanted a life with me not just sex. If he is faking being serious to try and take your virginity he's going to get impatient. If he sees value in you besides sex he'll stick around. And tru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:53 PM
3	Conflating “high value” solely to financial and professional status versus overall positive qualities. How can you say moral virtues are weak? It takes so much strength to stick to your morals in competitive contexts. The average person will break their moral virtues to get ahead because they are weak, not strong. Getting ahead morally is more difficult, it takes self control, maturity, intelligence, and true competency. Don't kid yourself into thinking you're stronger for exploiting others. True strength wouldn't require exploiting others. You say you expect others to exploit you so you think ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 09:18 PM
4	Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex. Both genders see all types of relationships as transactional. You just have to choose what you're willing to be valued for. Looks, money, humor, emotional intelligence, entertainment, companionship, etc. It's childish to be upset that you have to bring something to someone's life in order to be there. Pick what you want to be valued for and find someone who values you for that reason. Stop pretending this is a woman trait and not a human trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/21 10:33 PM
7	This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like? Actually not true. "Adolescent mothers aged 10–19 years face higher risks of eclampsia, puerperal endometritis and systemic infections than women aged 20–24 years." Being attracted to women in their twenties is biological. Being attracted to teenagers is perversion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 02:11 AM
5	A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man? It's not really pricing yourself out though. It's having a minimum standard for when a man is worth the effort. Women don't base the minimum standard on their value, they place it at the tipping point of when they would just be happier single. Being in a relationship that decreases your quality of life because you can't get any better doesn't make sense. Just be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 05:54 PM
3	Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effect There's a lot of evidence showing men are more willing to sacrifice their morals in competitive context. Here's some proof. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103112000716 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1002/1099-1379%28200009%2921%3A6%3C649%3A%3AAID-JOB45%3E3.0.CO%3B2-%23	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 05:06 PM
11	Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effect It's not about proving women are oppressed today. It's demonstrating the women are terrible effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 05:00 PM