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I just completely disagree. There are plenty of reasons why it would be (and very much is) an uneven ratio. Women have more options to lookmax and are more likely to have a beauty/skincare regimen than men. They don’t usually have beards or baldness to deal with and I feel facial hair is a huge factor in someone’s attractiveness. Women’s bodies are more desirable and fun to look at otherwise dick pics and shirtless dating app shots would be more welcomed but they aren’t. When’s the last time you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:43 AM
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I said I wouldn’t rank myself a 9 even though I do have a high match rate (over 70%). A match rate doesn’t necessarily reflect attractiveness, I might just be good at picking people who are likely to match with me based on similar physicality or hobbies. Idk how you define spamming Reddit but I had plenty of time to go on a twelve hour date on Saturday so I think my dating life is just dandy, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:18 AM
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Yup, that’s a pretty good representation of how I feel (personally) about that demographic. I don’t think I necessarily represent the average woman’s opinion on it though, I’m more selective because I don’t enjoy hookups and have a very high match percentage rate on apps. I still wouldn’t rank myself a 9 either even though I feel women can achieve higher ranks easier. I’ve only seen a few lady 10’s in real life and one was literally in a Miss America pageant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:37 PM
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I would say 9/10s are rare but so are 1s or 2s. This is also more of a personal preference and I’m admittedly picky because I can afford to be. Let’s focus on single men between 25-45 for brevity. I can only discuss men I see out in public or on dating apps and in that range, the vast majority (80%) fall in the middle of 3 - 7 out of 10. 9-10% are 2 or lower, and another 9-10% is 8 or higher. 9’s and 10’s are extremely rare. And on dating apps, matching with a guy like that often feels more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:46 PM
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I don’t need to make you feel bad about yourself, if you keep talking like this, the universe will do it’s job and keep you rightfully sad and single. I’ll go to sleep happy tonight with the confidence that you’ll end up with exactly the person you deserve: no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:48 PM
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Fine with us, die alone then ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:42 PM
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So, instead of empathizing with the facts that women have had a harder time historically, you’re just gonna go: Well, to be fair, everyone had it rough back then and most people were powereless ? That’s not moving the conversation in any direction, that’s just a neutral nothing statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:41 PM
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Sooo, can you define suffrage for me? And let me know when women were allowed to vote vs. when men were allowed? Can you point out the bits of history where men were sold off as child husbands? Or forbidden from owning their own bank accounts? Can you name just ONE example of men having less rights or autonomy than women in the past or are you just going to keep blaming your lack of a six pack for your miserable dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:34 PM
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This is an excellent example of someone’s who should rightfully end up alone without ever experiencing love. You have such a deeply disgusting and incorrect view of what a modern woman in her 30’s is like and yet you’re still soooooooo unworthy of the few women who DO fit the stereotype you described. A haggard woman with a bodycount in the hundreds and a tramp stamp of a toilet seat would still be much too good for you and would be out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:27 PM
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You’re really equating being seen as less than human to being a white dude with no political/social influence at the time? Do you really think that’s a good argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:16 PM
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Can we get a fucking encore for your last paragraph??? OP is really trying to make the argument that men and women have had it equally hard in the past like he’s never seen a history book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:14 PM
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Well, don’t you just sound perfectly divorceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:10 PM
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Thank you, you made such excellent and valid points here against this horribly self-centered pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:07 PM
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Not sure you’re a 9/10 if you think 1 in 30 or 1 in 50 men are at that level. Far more 9’s in women but as far as men go? I’ll go weeks without seeing a dude I’d rank as a 9 and I live in LA where there’s a much higher concentration of models and actors. 9/10 men are much, MUCH rarer. More like 1 in 500. On dating apps, it’s closer to 1 in 2,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:02 PM
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Honestly, the only self improvement that’s going to help you is to change this loathsome mindset because you sound grossly undateable currently. “These men had loyal and dutiful wives. Why? Because there was still a minimum level of decent conduct expected from and enforced in women back then” Sorry, but if you think women’s conduct should be controlled just so you can have an easier time finding someone to fuck, then you deserve to be alone. Women have historically been oppressed and forced int…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:56 PM
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Guess what else is devalued because it’s so abundant? Rice You don’t have to get so snippy just because a metaphor flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:52 PM
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Don’t worry hun, if you talk like this in real life, the subpar women will be sure to steer clear of you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:12 PM
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I swear, every day there is another pointless post here about a guy who makes an observation about a small handful of people and thinks it applies to THE MAJORITY of couples like they discovered something. There are men who are with women less attractive than them just as there are plenty of women who end up with men beneath their own league. Nothing you stated is enough of a stereotype that it requires societal attention or change. I’m barely convinced it’s even worthy of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:09 PM
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Oh wow, the Huffington Post is the best you could do? Really? Even that source isn’t stating most women are on apps for the ego boost, their sample size for the study was COLLEGE STUDENTS who are in the prime of their dating options outside of apps. It didn’t include or mention women over 25 who have graduated and moved into the real world of dating when they’re not surrounded by young college dudes everywhere they go. And what study would help you understand that there are, quite literally, mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:24 PM
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I didn’t say there weren’t a lot of women doing it but show me literally any evidence that points to the MAJORITY of women using apps for nothing more than an ego boost with no intention of dating anyone. Women on dating apps don’t even accurately represent women as a whole. You’re far more likely to see bots (that act like the women being complained about here) or people boosting their social sites (insta, snap, OF) because they know you’re already bored and on your phone. But y’all are acting …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:22 PM
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Actually, I’m very much including gay women in that. Lesbians are far more likely to understand the line between respectful and unwanted when giving out compliments. They also have a woman’s eye for fashion details which raises the value of their commentary. Candy. Bisexual men are more rare but if a bi man gave me a compliment with the intention of hitting on me and not generally because he liked my look that night? Rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:16 PM
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Not from random men, no. It’s actually pretty worthless unless you like or respect the person giving you attention. Why do you think women charge men $$ to speak/flirt with them? Because if they weren’t being paid, there would be no value in just sitting there getting compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:12 PM
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No, it isn’t. A compliment from a woman or a gay guy feels great, it’s like getting a free M&M with a peanut in it. Simple, sweet, makes ya smile. Getting a compliment from a random man you’re not attracted to is like getting a single raw grain of rice. Maybe sometimes you get enough for a small bite of flavorless sustenance but it’s not memorable and it’s certainly not an instant hit of dopamine. You are significantly overestimating how much women value bland compliments from men, no matter how…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:36 PM
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You’re talking about an influencer or a specific type of woman and acting like all or most women are like this. The majority of women don’t have an OF, don’t film themselves at the gym, don’t go on dating apps just for the ego boost. You’re getting frustrated with a small but loud portion of women and acting like it applies to everyone instead of focusing on the women who are very obviously not like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:29 PM
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Is it actually comforting to talk and be vulnerable with something that is literally incapable of judgement or real empathy? You can tell your dog that you’re a murderer in vivid detail and he will look back at you like you’re the best thing that’s ever happened in the world. Doesn’t make you anymore heard or understood without judgement, you’re basically just talking to a hyper-intelligent wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:30 AM
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I would get banned if I was honest about how laughably dumb and untrue this point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:48 PM
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By providing one anecdote of a woman that didn’t want to fuck you? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:43 PM
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Wow, you met one example of this type of woman and therefore it must apply to literally every other woman on the planet! It’d be nice if life was that idiotically simple, wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:16 PM
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Okay, first of all, where did I ever suggest that college was a “pu up platter of punani” (Like really, are you fucking 12?) I explicitly said SERIOUS girlfriends for a reason, you brought up hooking up out of absolutely nowhere. OP isn’t even referring to casual dating, they’re talking about finding life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:02 PM
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Ha, my college boyfriend double majored in engineering and astrophysics. Most of his close friends were also in similar fields but half of them had serious girlfriends too. This isn’t just anecdotal, college is prime for socializing and finding partners way more than just within the subject you choose to study.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:02 PM
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Lol, do you really think people are only dating within their majors at college? Class is only like 10% of the social space in university.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:53 AM
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They sure do. Women in their 20’s, 30’s and 40’s going on dating apps and reporting back with their experiences is a very popular niche on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:20 AM
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You’re just seeing limited examples of “the ick” that skew towards your preconceived notions of women preferring the more masculine stereotypes. The examples I see on TikTok or Instagram are much more likely to be about a guy who’s too sexually forward on a date, brings up Andrew Tate unironically, doesn’t like small dogs, etc. The “ick” is different for every woman, they’re not all fleeing the relationship the moment a man shows a more sensitive or effeminate aspect of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:18 AM
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You stopped reading after I said I respect the opinion of women even if I don’t share their specific lifestyle. Says all I need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:33 PM
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Once again, generalizing all women based on your limited experience. Some women generally enjoy casual sex or staying single, regardless of the potential partners in their life. I’m not one of them but I can respect differing opinions enough to believe them when they state what they enjoy about dating. It’s lame to think you have a firmer grasp on the psyche of the opposite gender because you’ve slept with some women instead of actually listening to women with experiences outside of your singula…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:31 PM
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Ahh yes, the classic “If I have never experienced it, it must not be happening” point. Always a sound argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:46 PM
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What a simple, bitter little opinion this is. Maybe the reason you have shit luck with western women is because you generalize them all as greedy pieces of shit? No, that couldn’t possibly be it, surely you’re an island of valuable qualities in a sea of nothing but trash women. That’s definitely the more likely scenario lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:45 PM
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You call bullshit on a rapidly declining industry where more women are quantifiably rejecting the traditional diamond for an engagement ring? Very telling that you’re not actually talking to that many women. Some still do want diamonds but if you have a hard time believing just ONE woman who says she doesn’t want that, you’ve got an incredible amount of work to do on your perspective of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:42 PM
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Really? And you know this more than me, an actual single woman? Just because I have the option to get sex whenever doesn’t mean I have meaningful or satisfying sex as an option. Single women aren’t all getting “dicked down” because the average hookup is just not worth it whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:42 PM
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Did…. You respond to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:45 PM
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Everyone deserves love. But not everyone deserves romantic love unfortunately. There is no species in nature where every male gets paired with a female. Humans are no different. I feel media does a huge disservice to us when we’re young by reinforcing the idea that there’s someone for everyone and eventually we all find love. Sitcoms regularly feature their main characters easily dating and finding attractive partners, even when they’re implied to be bad with women like George Kostanza or Chandl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:47 PM
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If a man in his 30’s or 40’s wants a younger woman in her 20s because she has less baggage and has had “fewer dicks inside her” than that man is acknowledging that he finds those as negative traits, one’s that he very likely possesses himself. So the guy with baggage and a long relationship past wants someone with no baggage and no past. How is that not uneven? Old wrinkly dudes want so badly to believe that these young college girls PHYSICALLY prefer them over younger men but can’t accept the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:08 PM
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“I’d rather date and ruin a young hottie than try and date someone my age who is more likely to have similar life experiences and compatibility.” Fortunately, for the human gene pool, you don’t sound capable of empathizing with women of any age or making a point that doesn’t portray you as an ignorant dick. So I’m going to safely and happily assume that the young hottie you want so bad is never going to come into your life. The middle aged hotties won’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:56 PM
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So, why should these young women be subjected to these older guys’ baggage? How is it fair for these college girls to deal with a 40 year old guy’s relationship history and his past of sticking it in multiple women? So y’all are looking for a one-sided relationship where one person is older & cynical and been through relationship shit while the other is perky and hasn’t experienced trauma yet. You want an uneven dynamic that mostly benefits the man in the relationship, gotcha 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:50 PM
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Ok, and? Are you really saying that the majority of 33 year olds aren’t more likely to have hair loss, weight issues, and low energy compared to the majority of 23 year olds? You’re an exception to the majority. Neat for you, so am I. Doesn’t mean that MOST people in our age range are looking just as good today as they did in their 20s. There are some very attractive and fit people in their 30’s but there are way more attractive people in their 20’s. So why would women lust after men significant…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:33 PM
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People comment on celebrities’ lives and lots of people think Leo’s dating life is the most interesting thing about him because it’s unusual. You’re the one who started the discussion on celebrities here, go complain on gossip sites or something if you want people to leave him alone, no one was even talking about him here before you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:26 PM
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And every woman here is telling you NO that’s not true. There is no evidence to back up your claims when you’re talking about individual people comparisons like this but just know that you are greatly misunderstanding most women by believing this as absolute fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:22 PM
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Tom Holland plays Spiderman, who is regularly romancing Gwen. Timothee Chalamet has literally been typecast as a romantic lead. Harry Styles is getting into acting and also playing roles of handsome romantic interest. You’re extremely incorrect on this issue, literally believing the opposite of what is obviously and observably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:20 PM
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This is like a caricature of a red-pill mindset. To truly believe that women are incapable of lusting after anything that isn’t a personified He-man doll. It would be hilarious if it wasn’t so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:17 PM
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Are you just…. Blind? Are you incapable of seeing the literal screaming hordes of female fans that go crazy for Harry Styles at his concerts? Hell, fantasizing about him sexually was SO POPULAR that Euphoria(one of the most popular shows among young girls today) made an animated parody about it. You are just so extremely wrong on what you think women are attracted to. I’d absolutely fuck the brains out of Tom Holland over Channing Tatum every single day of my life. If you’re confused about women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:15 PM
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HAHAHAHA wowwwww you really don’t know women at all then. Tom Holland and Timothee are ABSOLUTELY starring in so many filthy female fantasies right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:08 PM
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OP isn’t stating it like only some women have this preference. He’s clearly making the generalization that MOST women are attracted to significantly older men over men in their own age range and it’s just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:06 PM
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Yup! I jokingly lamented with my friend about how we probably missed the window to quit our job and be sugar babies now. Then I remembered being 19 in college and I got grossed out when a 25 year old hit on me at the bar. Told all my girl friends “He’s kinda cute but he’s OLD! He’s like 25??” And all 8 or 9 of them went “EWWWWWW” in unison. Yeah, sugar baby was never an option for me. Laughing my ass off at the fool who believes most young women PREFER the look of men in their forties and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:02 PM
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This is just wrong for so many reasons. No, 19 year old women are not commonly lusting after dudes in their 30’s and 40’s. They might like a RICH & FAMOUS actor or celebrity that age but guess what? Most would like them just as much if not more if they were closer in age. No one is into Leonardo DiCaprio for his age. He’s not even aging particularly well at all. If women could pick between Leo today and Leo in “Titanic”, I promise you over 90% of them wouldn’t hesitate to pick the young Leo pops…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:57 PM
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Yes, women today have practically just as much opportunities for education. High paying or corporate positions still absolutely deal with sexism. I’ve personally experienced and witnessed workplace sexism at multiple companies I’ve worked at. It may not have been affecting paycheck differences or promotion picks in that case but knowing your colleagues think lesser of you can absolutely affect work performance or moral. Segregation ended and now people of color have more opportunities than ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:43 PM
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Women having a job today is more impressive than men having a job today because their gender has not had to fight for equal rights to work in the past 100 years. And silly me for daring to include other parts of the world that affects millions of women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:31 PM
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You’re confusing “men today” with men overall throughout history. Men have absolutely had more political, financial, and familial power for the vast majority of human history. And the women who are still being oppressed today is proof of that! It’s proof the struggle for equality is still going on across the world and this country is proceeding towards equality sure, but it has barely a century where women have been able to vote. The “boys club” or the rich old white dudes who still control a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:28 PM
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Then you are severely misunderstanding and underestimating the career options women have had for the past century. Has workplace sexism, the wage gap, and terrible maternity leave policies literally never made it across your radar?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:37 AM
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How about the Taliban that forbid women from getting any form of education? Or the girls in Sub Saharan Africa who are banned from going to school while me starting? Oh you just want American examples? Women couldn’t vote before 1920 which means this country has barely a century of women being able to influence politics, own businesses, control their own finances and fertility (oh wait, this one still is being debated). So our grandmothers and mothers raised this generation while being new to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:34 AM
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I’m bisexual and I think both sides have plenty of fucked up folks. But men tend to be much scarier when they are the maladjusted ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:38 AM
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Exactly, good point! Lonely men here will often revere and envy men with high n counts while also dismissing women with high n counts as whores who will just end up as lonely single moms like it’s their well deserved karma for not picking the lonely men while they were still young and fertile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:33 AM
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Men are less at risk when dating. They’re less likely to experience sexual harassment and can’t get accidentally pregnant. Biologically, it makes complete sense that the gender that can only painfully produce one offspring a year would be much more selective than the gender that could produce dozens a year with no health impact. Now men are mad that they no longer have the upper hand like when women couldn’t vote, own businesses, or control their own finances. They’re upset that women get to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:57 AM
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Why are you bringing up that women get custody more often when discussing men that want nothing to do with their kid? Dads that want custody of their children aren’t the ones upset that they’re financially responsible for them. It takes two people to make a baby. There is a very low chance of getting pregnant if you’re using condoms and birth control, but that chance is never 0%. Men need to accept this when engaging with intercourse. The only time I can see being absolved of the responsibility …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:26 PM
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Those laws aren’t just for men!! If a woman gets baby trapped by her partner and then decides after giving birth that she doesn’t want to raise the kid, guess what? The father has just as much rights to sue her for child support It happens to men more because theirs bodies don’t produce nearly as many bonding hormones but this is still being treated like a man’s issue when baby trapping is probably underreported on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:07 PM
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There isn’t an equal choice because it is not an equal burden. Men don’t get 50% of the right to make a decision when they are involved in less than 1% of the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:01 PM
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The overall question was “Could baby-trapping be underreported?” But only looks at one side. They use the term “victims of baby trapping” multiple times and then only focus on mens side like they’re the only victims. There isn’t just a societal expectation for men to take care of kids they don’t want, that expectation applies to both parents and is waaaay more expected of women. Oh no, are men feeling pressure from their families to raise a child they helped create? Wow, that must be so hard, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:43 PM
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I was pointing out how lame it was of OP to say “hey, this serious problem affects both men and women. But lets just talk about how much it sucks for men” It’s unfortunate that our biology is so focused on procreation when a lot of people don’t want children but it’s a reality that people have to accept when they engage in sex, just like STDs. Women risk getting pregnant and going through an arduous 9 months before an excruciating and dangerous finale that changes their body forever AND pay chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:09 PM
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Ahh, sorry, didn’t mean to go off on you for a casual comment then. Should have picked up on the hand bit of handjobs lol. I just see people dismissing Ai capabilities all the time and their biggest thing is “look, robot still can’t do hands, lol!” and it feels like a mistake to underestimate the potential of this technology because of a small issue that is already fading away. Ai is fascinating and terrifying and while lots of people are excited for porn of the future, I’m anxious about the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:27 PM
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Hey, asshole, where exactly did I say men should be the only ones on the hook for a pregnancy? A woman has the overwhelming majority of responsibility and burden when it comes to pregnancy every single time. It’s a huge and painful risk to deliver a kid and a woman has every right to decide if she wants to put her body through that. A man doesn’t do anything in the process, doesn’t have irreparable damage done to his body, and doesn’t risk his life by giving birth so yeah, so if they want sex, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:21 PM
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Faces from Ai generations in 2021 were very warped and wonky. Now, they’re photorealistic with very few flaws. That was for FACES. The thing on Earth that humans are designed to examine and perceive more than anything else. And they’re almost indistinguishable from real humans after just 1 year of AI algorithms being public. Hands are a much less challenging obstacle to overcome for AI and you can literally see the programs learning and getting better at poses and the right number of fingers. Ai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:15 PM
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I’m happy that it worked out and that you love your daughter. Doesn’t make your wife lying about birth control any less horrible and manipulative. Fatherhood should have been a decision you were prepared and willing to take on if you were happily partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:07 PM
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Why? Sex comes with risks and consequences. If you’re a man, one of those risks is a pregnancy that you have no right to terminate. The consequence of that risk is paying for the brand new human you were knowingly risking sex for. Birth control reduces the probability of risk but it doesn’t eliminate it and therefore doesn’t absolve a man of his responsibility just because it was unlikely to happen. A man only gets to control what he does with his body. Sex is an agreement to risk this control, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:58 PM
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Why? Sex comes with risks and consequences. If you’re a man, one of those risks is a pregnancy that you have no right to terminate. The consequence of that risk is paying for the brand new human you were knowingly risking sex for. Birth control reduces the probability of risk but it doesn’t eliminate it and therefore doesn’t absolve a man of his responsibility just because it was unlikely to happen. A man only gets to control what he does with his body. Sex is an agreement to risk this control, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:58 PM
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Do you? You keep saying the guy got stealthed but the scenario doesn’t say that she lied necessarily. She could be on birth control and it didn’t work for many reasons. If it’s a daily pill, you have to take it every day at the exact same time and it’s easy to forget or miss a day. If it’s an insert, those can be accidentally dislodged and require a doctors procedure to replace (but you have to notice it first) Plan B and birth control are less effective if you are overweight but not every woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:01 PM
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Manipulative and horribly dishonest. We’re talking about men and women being forced into unwanted pregnancies here but no one is talking about the third party involved: the kid. It is shitty to be forced to raise a child you don’t want but it is truly AWFUL for a kid to pick up on social cues and realize one of their parents never wanted them. Trapping someone doesn’t just mean you don’t care about your partners feelings, it means you don’t care about your future child’s life either. The worst t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:49 PM
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Request? Sure. Demand? Nope. She still has every right to say sorry but no and it will still be his responsibility, even if he doesn’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:44 PM
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They started off by saying it affects both genders and then went “So how are we going to fix this problem for men?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:37 PM
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OP literally starts off by saying it’s a problem that affects both genders… And then goes on to talk about how much it sucks for men only and how we should think about protecting them. Like paying child support is so much more horrifying than being forced to risk your body to grow a whole human. Women get baby-trapped too but they are also forced to carry so OP (and the mod below, for that matter) can stop acting like men are the only important victims worthy of discussion here when they bear ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:35 PM
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Successful models and influencers aren’t used in advertisements just based on their looks. That might have been true at one point but now personality and relatability are huge factors in what makes someone marketable. Beautiful girls are a dime a dozen in advertising. But brands are aware that a plain looking but funny woman with 2.5 million followers is going to sell more product than the gorgeous girl no one’s ever seen before because humans react more positively to familiarity than beauty. BU…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:31 PM
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You’re really underestimating the exponential pace of progress that AI is going through. There are VR porn programs right now. You can generate any face instantly and generating Ai 3D models and videos are following close behind. Hentai and animated porn is already massively popular but animators are expensive and take time. Deepfakes are rising in popularity even when viewers are completely aware what they’re watching isn’t real but they violate peoples’ rights. Ai will make both those issues o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:20 PM
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Where did I say that any of this guaranteed dates or sex? There is no fool proof method, just ways to try and stand out from the crowd until you find someone with similar interests. There are guys who put in lots of effort and get nowhere because unfortunately, their efforts don’t outweigh their outward appearance. But do you really think they’d do better if they didn’t try at all and just had crappy photos up with no bio? Idk what to say about your anecdote for most high effort guys being divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:55 AM
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“As a guy, I have no idea what girls find attractive” Effort. Women are attracted to effort. Hell, men are too. Good hygiene & physique, a good job, solid relationships with friends & family, interesting hobbies, all take effort. Going out and taking pics of yourself out in the world and writing a thoughtful or funny bio takes effort. If you can’t even be bothered to take a few photos and write a few lines to describe yourself, why would anyone ever bother initiating anything with you? The excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:35 AM
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You just admitted yourself that you don’t know what to do or what women want. So how do you have any idea if changing a profile based on women’s suggestions (not a class from some alpha bro) would make a difference or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:50 AM
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I never claimed that it wasn’t easier for women online, it definitely is. But men should be aware of that when making their profiles. It’s totally fine if you want to have a low effort profile, just expect to get very few matches and messages. Most women can put very little effort into profiles and still get responses. There’s also PLENTY of resources about what women want outside of the very male gaze of thinking steroid muscles are the pinnacle of attraction (spoiler, they’re not). Defaulting …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:12 AM
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No, it’s just societal norms and beauty standards. Women are more likely to use makeup and work on their physical appearance with skincare routines. They don’t have to deal with large amounts of facial hair or balding (usually). Height is not really a factor as much as it is for men (though this one I agree is unfair) Biologically, it makes more sense for a woman to be picky if she can only carry one child a year vs. a man who would benefit from finding more women attractive to pass along genes …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:49 AM
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If you can’t self reflect enough to realize that no one will find you interesting for just existing, I don’t know what to tell you. Women aren’t ever going to pursue boring men on apps if they are average looking. If you’re not very attractive but still cocky enough to think anyone’s going to bother matching or messaging you with a super low effort profile, then you’re most likely not worth dating anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:44 PM
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Literally just saying men should ask themselves WHY anyone would want to date them and your response is that it would be gay for men to view themselves from a woman’s perspective. Ok, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:25 PM
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Get over what? Who said I’m even looking for a Chad? There is such a narrow, singular opinion on what women are looking for in a partner on here and it’s sad. I’m not the one complaining about how women are too picky, I’m actively benefitting from the imbalance. I can be as picky as I want and still get more offers for dates than I could possibly go on. Personality chemistry is still rare, no matter how attractive you are. But it definitely helps with the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:18 PM
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…..what? You have to be gay to be able to tell if the opposite sex would find you appealing or not?? Nahh, you’d have to be extremely insecure to think it’s homosexual just to consider the opposite gender’s point of view, especially while you’re pursuing them. Seriously, how hard is it to go “I would like a partner that is funny, creative, and likes dogs & boardgames so I should put things in my profile that show I have those interests” instead of taking dull selfies that tell nothing about a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:03 PM
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That’s a total lack of effort on their parts then. I’m not talking about average looking guys that have a job, basic hygiene, and make efforts to show that as well as his hobbies and personality. I’m talking about the literal thousands of profiles I’ve seen of unattractive dudes who have written no bio and just have 1 or 2 boring selfies of themselves sitting in a car or by a blank wall. It’s seriously at least 20% of men’s profiles. Dating apps are visual focused and you have milliseconds to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:45 PM
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There are more good looking women than there are good looking men. And no one is capable of changing who they’re attracted to otherwise people would have no issue dating people in their own league. Y’all keep saying we should lower our standards like all women can just agree to say the magic words and suddenly find incels fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:08 PM
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Ohhh, so y’all are assuming every woman who responds here is just an ugly loser? Cool. Good way to get insights from the gender most of you are pursuing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:29 PM
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I feel like a lot of men are terrible at viewing themselves from an outsider’s perspective. Too many of them have no idea how to present anything appealing about themselves and lack the empathy to go “hmm, if I was a woman, would I want to date me?” Seriously, I think at least a quarter of men online have never honestly asked this question because why would they waste their time on an app when the answer is such a loud “NO” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:25 PM
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“If they weren’t so choosy” aka if women would just get over their feelings and date guys they’re not at all attracted to, they would stop complaining! Wow, why didn’t I think of just choosing a boyfriend that I have no chemistry with??? Surely, that’s got to be a better solution than dating around and finding someone I actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:15 PM
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Dude…. Read the statement again. You clearly missed the part where I said spambots are NOT trying to lure men to random spots. It’s right there in the quote in your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:59 PM
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Dude…wow… I honestly don’t know how you have a gf either. You went on an obnoxiously long rant about how shallow I am because I’d like a guy to show he has hobbies, friends, and is more interesting than than just bathroom selfies?? I would be delighted to stay just as far from you dude. What a ludicrous and toxic overreaction to a woman saying “hey maybe men should show more personality than just them sitting in a car if they’re dating online”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:44 AM
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Good for you, do you want a cookie? Women are less entertained with the hypothetical of being stuck with two atrocious choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:53 PM
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Women are overwhelmingly answering “neither” because the hypothetical is too absurdly flawed to merit a real response. They’re both shitty. Would you rather walk naked and blindfolded into a room with a hungry lion or a hungry bear? Stupid question deserves a dumb response like “I just wouldn’t open the door”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:43 PM
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That is an answer. “Unremarkable” means a lot of guys are boring in how they present themselves and don’t care to put in effort. I’ve seen sooooooo many very average looking dudes who take pics of them just sitting in their car. Or in bed. Or unsmiling on the couch with a cap on. And I’ve seen similar looking men who show themselves smiling in the outdoors, holding a puppy or feeding a giraffe, wearing a goofy Halloween costume, out at a convention or laughing with friends. (Lol at the tool belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:34 PM
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Both are undateable from your description. Don has nothing going for him besides being slightly below average and sometimes considered a creep because of his awkwardness and appearance. Sucks for Don. But the existence of criminals and douchebags doesn’t make him a more attractive option and it never will. Don is still a dud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:22 PM
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Right? Is he expecting a “gotcha!!” moment where he can prove that women are so shallow that we’d automatically pick the murderer just because he’s handsome? I’m picking neither. The ugly creep, hot hitman, and I can all die alone for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:18 PM
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This is kinda dumb and overestimates the end goal of these spambots. They’re trying to get quick money & info, not trying to lure men to random date locations just to be stood up… Also, bumble and other apps allow video messaging (can’t upload a file, can only film within the app) where you can verify the person before meeting so the next step would be more verification, not the collapse of a hugely profitable industry like OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:14 PM
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Sometimes I go on here and I find men that are hopelessly lonely and doing everything they can to try and change their situation. Other times I go on here and find people like you that make it obvious why they’re always going to have trouble finding someone. I wish you a long and continuous struggle, mate, because your mindset right now is atrocious and undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:42 PM
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Your “evidence” is horrible and you make unfounded claims out of nowhere. The first girl wants to be a mom and is somewhat attractive so your brain thinks oh she MUST be sexually active!! It’s simply not possible for a woman to have options and not be sleeping with at least some of them, right??? What a simple, little monkey thought. Also, men complain quite often about not being able to get commitment from the woman they want but it’s because they want sex in addition to emotional connection in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:25 PM
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There are definitely a higher number of decent looking women than there are decent looking men. But even among average people, men are much more open to sleeping with someone they consider just okay looking. Men can’t get accidentally pregnant (something that still happens even if birth control is taken). Men are much less likely to be forced into uncomfortable sexual situations. It’s not just about how many people of equal attractiveness there are for the genders. Women are quite literally repu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 AM
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That’s an awful idea, there is no way to moderate a date/relationship between two people besides a “he said/she said” argument. How on earth would you prove your side unless you’re literally recording the whole date just in case ? Anyone could easily deny any claims and blame them on a person’s bitterness over being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:20 PM
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Suuuuuuuuuuure, dude. Sounds very believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:28 AM
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Yeah, I’m aware that people are all different and that plenty of people like the opposite gender just fine. My sarcastic response was made to contrast the absurdity of the original comment. Maybe this sad little dude doesn’t like women or see them as individual people but there are absolutely men that have advanced far past that bitter & naive mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:49 AM
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Okay, we’ll use your example here. What happens to the kid when they realize they’re never going to make it to the NBA? They get another career that they feel can put up with for the rest of their lives. It doesn’t have the money and glamour of being in the NBA, but they’ll probably still go for a job that has decent pay, benefits, & vacation time. Now, the men complaining in this scenario, are $9/hr Burger King night shifts telling women they should be more realistic because they’ll never make …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:48 PM
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So then… Men don’t like women. They just like sex and spreading their genes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:36 PM
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Where in the rules of biology does it say that every member of a species should end up with a mate? Life isn’t a fairy tale and millions of people will die every year without ever reproducing or even experiencing a relationship. Why should women be blamed for that harsh reality? Many women are choosing to be alone rather than keep dating men so maybe the men should work to be the more appealing option over being single forever. So far, in my 4 years of dating, the vast majority of men expect wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:34 PM
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Yeah no, if you didn’t bother to read the first article, I’m not going to bother reading another one of yours. Your argument is that successful open relationships are better than unhealthy monogamous ones? Or are you saying successful open ones are better than successful traditional partnerships? Which is it? Both arguments sound flawed and absurd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:55 PM
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Okay, I am really not interested in the opinion of someone who can’t even be bothered to read their own supportive evidence. So… You’re too lazy to find a source to prove your point but still confident enough to spout colloquial bullshit about how your way of life is supposedly superior? Hell of a way to convince someone you have no fucking clue what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:32 AM
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Did you even read this? “First, all of those engaged in CNM relationships had only started doing so within the last two months, and so the novelty of the new sexual arrangement could be what accounts for the boost in sexual satisfaction. Perhaps after a year or two that will return to baseline as the novelty wears off. Second, the researchers only surveyed one partner in each relationship, and the way they recruited participants, these were more likely to be the ones initiating the move to CNM. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:50 PM
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If you’re okay with cheating on your boyfriend and then later try to justify it with “Well, people should be fine with the idea of an open relationship!!!” Then you absolutely deserve all the judgement from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:10 PM
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Do you have any studies or data that support this claim besides your personal anecdote? I’ve got plenty of stories of perfectly happy “normal” couples as well as disasters from open relationships going wrong. So what is it about your experience that makes it more factual or accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:07 PM
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You’re being close minded by insisting people would be happier if they just tried it. Open relationships sound absolutely awful to me personally. I don’t judge others for having them though because I just accept that they think differently and have different values in a relationship than I do. So non-monogamous people should just stick with other poly people while us monogamous folks look for just the one partner. There’s no point in trying to explain to poly people that being dedicated to one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:59 PM
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Yeahhh, I couldn’t believe your first paragraph less if I tried. Everything you’re saying just sounds like the regurgitated drivel of a lonely dude who has only ever experienced the online dating world through rejection and the personal anecdotes of other lonely dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:43 PM
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OP is too hopelessly lost to empathize with women at all on this issue. Also sounding progressively creepier and painting a pretty clear picture of why he’s maybe had more rude rejections from women if this is his mindset in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:11 PM
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You’re right. Racism is not comparable to women being reasonably fearful of men. Pity that you were being sarcastic on the only post where you made a the tiniest semblance of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:07 PM
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They used a laughing emoji, it was pretty obvious that they were, ya know, laughing at OP’s absurd logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:55 PM
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Stupid and wrong. Being an attractive and financially stable woman doesn’t mean a suitable man will just fall out of nowhere for you. You still have to deal with creeps who bring up sex too soon, boring guys who only talk about themselves, nice guys with zero physical chemistry, and fuck boys who will tell you anything to get you in bed and then vanish once they have. It is NOT easy whatsoever for ANYONE to find someone who they think is funny, sweet, attractive, and compatible while that person…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:58 PM
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That’s not what OP is saying though. Just because it is less difficult for women does not mean that finding relationships is just automatically easy for them. The post doesn’t state that women have an easiER online dating experience, it plainly says that most women can find relationships easily and that’s blatantly naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:34 AM
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You asked how many people get LTRs from online dating because from your outsider observations, it’s not worth it and I said there are demonstrably plenty. Plenty of people agree with my point too, you can get people to support most opinions if you find the right forum. Doesn’t make your anecdotes about dating apps any less useless when you have never experienced them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:12 AM
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I don’t believe your personal opinion holds any value at all here since you’ve admitted you have and never will try online dating for yourself. You are just observing the negative venting from rejected men and not the whole picture so why would I bother listening to someone who has never even seen these apps from his own perspective, let alone a woman’s perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:25 AM
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Half my married friends met through online dating apps (around 6 couples). All the app subreddits have marriage updates from people who met through OLD literally every day. It is becoming increasingly common to meet life partners through dating apps and there are millions of people in marriages and LTR from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:55 AM
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This is so stupidly false. Compatibility is not guaranteed with attraction whatsoever. I’ve been on dozens of dates with guys and most of them are totally decent people who would be great for someone else but don’t have the same sense of humor or values as I do. I definitely have more choices than men do online but having more options does not make it “easy” to find a relationship unless you’re just fine settling with anyone who’s nice to you. So sick of the absurd mindset that just because I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:50 AM
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Hahaha this gave me a good chuckle and couldn’t sound more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:03 AM
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This is way more helpful and makes a million times more sense than “Don’t listen to women to get advice on how to be with women.” Even their metaphors are flawed. A salesman that just takes the advice of other salesmen and doesn’t listen to the opinions of his own “customers” is a shitty salesman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:01 AM
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You keep bringing up health like it’s healthy for a woman to have a baby at 40. That’s not the “same health a billion women go through” it’s a higher-risk pregnancy with increased probability of genetic defects for the baby. OP’s point is that she wants a biological child and she froze her eggs to improve their viability but she doesn’t want to put her and her baby’s body through something that would be far less risky for a mid 20’s woman who’s already given birth before. Idk why everyone is ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:19 PM
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I’m sure there are women who are exploited but I know at least one woman who loved being a surrogate and was paid $75k per baby (+ all food & medical expenses covered). So I don’t agree that the act itself is exploitative, I think it’s a huge sacrifice that should come with an equally huge payout but that’s ultimately up to the woman to decide if it’s worth it to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:11 PM
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“I do worry about the fact that if you are not into the pregnancy thing then it is fair to question which other parts of motherhood you are not into.” Seems like that’s exactly what you’re saying here? You can absolutely want a kid without wanting to have to grow it for 9 months before painfully force it through your body. “One does not get to be 38 and childless because they love children.“ How do you figure? OP froze their eggs so they definitely made a big effort to show they wanted kids. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:05 PM
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It’s kinda odd that you equate wanting to be pregnant with wanting to be a mother. Pregnancy is difficult, uncomfortable, and has a dangerous and agonizing climax. It changes your body forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:13 PM
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Yeah, exactly, pregnancy IS a lot and would be more difficult and dangerous for both mom and baby if Mom is 40. A surrogate is much more likely to be in a fitter state for labor and will have birthed children already. Super unreasonable for men to be bothered by who grows the kid when they literally do nothing outside of one ejaculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:07 PM
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Mine is <5 so it’s below average for my age. They were all very cute, pretty respectful and I had fun in the moment every time but I only ever really loved it and found it worth and fulfilling when I was with a partner. The “fun” I had with others wasn’t even worth a FWB relationship. I could have slept with sooooOOOOOO many more dudes if I enjoyed casual sex at all but I have regrets about my low number even though the guys were decent. If people say they do like it though, I believe them. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:46 PM
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Nope. Incels are called incels because their mindsets are hateable and an instant turn-off for women. And yeah, it is typical on this forum because sexless losers here keep complaining when women sleep around AND when they don’t sleep with them for being nice. Just admit you’re upset that you’re unwanted and stop putting the blame on women who enjoy sex like it’s a dirty sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:39 PM
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This is a very dumb and insecure assumption. So because I didn’t sleep with a guy by the fifth date, he gets to be frustrated because he believes that I still do have one night stands and casual sex with hotter men? What??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:54 AM
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You state an opinion that women with more partners are less loyal or able to pair bond and then immediately go declare it as fact and a reality that women won’t admit to. Extremely insecure and incelish way of thinking. Men like this won’t ever understand the visceral reaction women have when they’re treated like dumb objects that don’t know what’s good for them. As a woman with a high match rate and very low body count, you sound unfuckable for reasons that go way beyond your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:14 AM
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Okay, but look at dating app threads here and see how many men say a month is too long to date someone without sleeping together. I have a n count that I can count on one hand with fingers to spare and it’s absolutely led to guys getting frustrated or fed up with the fact that I won’t put out by date 5 or 6. Guys want to date casually and have sex early and often in relationships but somehow expect this perfectly preserved wholesome woman to be waiting for them when they finally decide they’re r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:09 AM
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They’re making valid counter arguments to your poorly phrased point and your response is “No, you’re just in denial about how the world works!!!” Like a petulant child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:02 AM
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No, not any guy. But a guy who says women deserve to be sexually harassed on dating apps (which he insinuated in another reply to me) and who thinks women who say they don’t want ONS are just challenging guys to try and sleep with them even more is borderline rapey behavior. But good on you for assuming from my one response that every dude going in for a kiss is a creep. Excellent reasoning there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:11 PM
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You’re about as good at thinking of comebacks as you are with critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:25 PM
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Yikes, you are awfully creepy and dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:24 PM
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Lol, those women mean they don’t want to date you and frankly, you sound extremely butthurt that you’re rejected by these women so you’re making up reasons about how they somehow were just sluts you didn’t want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:48 PM
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Dude, this is just not happening enough at all for you to worry about it. It’s so rare that it’s not worth mentioning, wtf are you on about…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:44 PM
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Well, I imagine those women are probably expecting dudes to believe what’s written on her profile instead of immediately challenging the very clear boundaries she established like a douche bag. Silly ladies for thinking that would be possible on dating apps, right? What are they thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah, you’re absolutely overthinking and you still came to the wrong conclusion. Women get soooo many guys who talk about their dicks before they even say “hello” because they are monkey-brained morons trying to get off with any woman that will acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:39 PM
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This is true but it’s still not like this is something we can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:17 PM
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Hotness doesn’t guarantee happiness or even the ability to find a relationship. You can be gorgeous and still have a really tough time finding someone compatible and loyal. All the relationships I’ve ever been envious of in real life have been really normal looking people or beautiful girls with very meh dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:16 PM
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No, you wouldn’t. I am as attracted to men I don’t want to sleep with as much as you are attracted to gay men that you don’t want to sleep with. I live in a big city and could literally sleep with a male fitness model tonight if I wanted to but I don’t because random sex holds no value for me whatsoever. I changed the scenario to gay men for your sake because you apparently can’t even fathom what it’s like to not want to sleep with someone just because they’re nice, decent looking and the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:58 PM
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What’s insane about not wanting to be chased by people you’re not attracted to? If you had unattractive but otherwise nice gay men constantly hitting on you, would that make you happier? I’m not saying it’s no better than getting zero attention at all, but it’s still useless and not fun to be pursued by people you don’t find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:17 PM
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Examples of men “doing it wrong” while still in relationships isn’t proof that hygiene or manners don’t matter. They still do, your roommate’s bf just has other factors that balance out what he lacks. If he charisma, experience, a good sense of humor, and is cute, he’ll do just fine whether he showers or not. If you don’t have all that? You need to level up and max every aspect of yourself that you can. You can be short, ugly, and wallow in your misery or you can be the short, ugly, guy who smel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:11 PM
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Lol, no. This is a fantasy lonely men tell themselves to feel better about being alone. “She’s probably sleeping with some Chad, bad boy, jerk with a sharp jawline who treats her like garbage!!” How many times do women have to say this is anything but the “norm” for most of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:58 PM
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Orrr maybe it was a relevant point since OP repeatedly mentions how useless his female friends are for not giving him pussy or being able to join his fight club?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:56 AM
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Sounds like you let one mediocre lady friend shape your whole opinion on women in general. Fortunately for us women, this mindset is pretty fucking obvious so you can expect a good amount of rejection going forward. Go ahead and blame it on women not being interested in world events though, I’m surrrrre that will you get you laid any day now 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:16 PM
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Men are faaaaar more likely to be average looking than women are in romances. Justin Long, Adam Sandler, Jason Segel, I could name so many. Average looking women are non-existent in romantic roles in action movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:53 AM
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Not wanting to sleep with someone is not the same as being disgusted and repulsed by someone. There are plenty of guys that aren’t my type but I think they look sweet or fun and I wish them all the best at finding their match. I’m only disgusted when guys are presumptuous or sexual too fast. Also, this is just a me thing, but I HATE when guys message “Hello, nice to meet you” before we even match. You haven’t met me… you haven’t even made it to my DMs. And now you never will ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:04 PM
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This is a terrible source to quote. The article itself does not even come to the same conclusion as you. It was an anonymous online survey of 1200 people ages 18-82 and the article does not clearly define casual sex, and nowhere does it mention that women aren’t turned off or intimidated by men being sexual too early. Your argument is poor and your chosen sources support that more than prove you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:55 PM
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No, as a woman, you have a very limited and naive opinion of the world. Men bringing up sex too early is FAMOUSLY a common reason women are turned off on dates. Never had sex before a fourth date and NEVER with a guy that was hinting too much or not reading signals right. He can definitely be enthusiastic and reciprocative but If I’m not the one instigating, then it is 100% not happening at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:50 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about OLD. I’ve had such deep crushes on dudes that I would never swipe right on because their energy was magnetic in person. But all my friends are married or in long term relationships (or poly) and no one has any single guy or cute lesbian friends for me to date. Idk where to meet people, so I just go on apps in the meantime even though it never feels like it will be the winning ticket for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:45 PM
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Dislike the majority. I’ve been on more than a dozen first dates this year and most of them were interested in a second date or third date but I only vibed with one guy who ended up not feeling the spark (which I completely understand because that’s the biggest disconnect for me too) I absolutely LOATHE browsing through options because it makes me feel like I’m running out of time/good profiles instead of an infinite list of potential suitors. I’d give anything to just be done with OLD, it isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:41 PM
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It is the opposite or irrelevant. Your post states that women only fight for equality when it benefits them and cited a specific forum with comments as evidence. These comments where women made more money show they are fighting for equality that does not benefit them financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:47 PM
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OP just sounds like a slightly below average dude with a pretty low level of self awareness. The assumptions on most women being fickle and most men being incapable of doing the same shows a very naive view of the world that’s just going to make them more confused and bitter with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:50 AM
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Why do you think women aren’t experiencing flaky and fickle men? Where do you think the term “fuck boi” came from? I don’t think you understand how common this is for both genders. There is no way to tell before how ANYONE is going to act and you’re complaining about women not wanting to move forward with lukewarm feelings? Women get told that too and are far more likely to deal with dangerous date situations. So yeah, I’m not going to muster up a lot of sympathy for a common problem where men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:45 AM
1

I mean, it sounds like your disconnect here is not including tasks like washing dishes or doing laundry as a cleaning chore and I definitely do. You’re washing things and putting them away, that’s cleaning. I also consider making the bed and organizing stuff to be cleaning. Maybe you’re picturing a more solid consecutive 40 minute long chunk of time where I do nothing but tidy up? It’s a lot more like me adding up all the miscellaneous 3-6 minute tasks I do in a day and getting a rough 40 minute…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:58 PM
1

It’s funny how many dudes on here assume I MUST be anal or OCD if I clean my place for 40 minutes most days while most of my comments have 20+ upvotes from women completely agreeing with me. I have cats and lots of plants so maintaining those adds about 10-15 minutes a day (watering everybody, scooping 3 boxes for 2 cats, cleaning & filling water bowls) so I guess if I lived in a completely lifeless apartment with absolutely nothing to clean beyond the most basic furniture, it would be closer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:41 PM
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Laundry counts as cleaning to me. And your math (or reading comprehension) is really off. I said I cleaned around 4 hours a week, that’s nowhere near 4-5x the average. The idea of not cleaning at all during a week and letting all the dishes pile up, floors get dirty, and leaving all laundry and bathroom tasks to one day sounds gross and unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:09 PM
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Many women on here have agreed with me so it’s not an unusual amount of cleaning at all. Apartments are smaller but usually have less amenities like washer/dryer or dishwasher in the unit so those tasks take a little longer. If you have a cat and plants (like I do) then it adds a bit more. You don’t have to be messy to benefit from 4 hours of cleaning a week, that’s not even a deep clean by most standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:02 PM
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Silly women. Believing in ridiculous things like couch cushions and dusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:45 PM
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Google how long the average American cleans their home. Everyone arguing with me is just cleaning less than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:04 PM
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Ohhh, this is almost too sad and neckbeardy to laugh at… Almost. Poor guy doesn’t even believe in sofas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:58 PM
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Couch cushions, ya doof. Dirt, hair, and loose items get lost in sofas and bedframes. This one isn’t an every day task, just an example of a common one that men don’t consider (clearly made evident by you assuming I meant useless extra pillows or something) Do you consider scrubbing toilets and shower curtains useless too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:51 PM
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I’ve got a single bedroom apartment and spend 40-70 minutes a day cleaning. This would practically double if I had to live with a guy who left his stuff everywhere and didn’t notice when he peed on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:34 PM
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Did you miss the bit where that guy was told to come to forums like this one and that’s what made him realize he was, in fact, the asshole? Taking out the trash and doing dishes is NOT maintaining a house. You have to wipe counters and surfaces, clean floors, clean under furniture and cushions, scrub toilets and tubs (which he did incorrectly), sweep, organize, and so much more. He was doing one or two chores a day and then getting upset that he was expected to do so. It’s hilarious that THIS is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:22 PM
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Only if I know I’ll have friends around to deflect unwanted attention. If I knew I could walk anywhere without getting harassed, I’d do it way more. I love my boobs and it makes me happy to look down and see perky squishy cleavage wobble while I walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:29 PM
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If they come here to laugh at how far gone some of these naive dudes are on here, maybe. If they unironically post about how women should change themselves so creepy virgins have a better shot at getting laid, hahaha never.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:26 PM
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It’s so much easier to believe that you’re just a troll because it’s too sad and pathetic to think someone actually believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:53 PM
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No, you fool, the fact that women have never and will never want OP is scientific proof that all women are physically incapable of feeling lust and attraction!! Don’t be mad at me, be mad at science for inventing the myth of the female orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:51 PM
3

I would argue that “Assertive” and “Not Easily intimidated” are synonymous. So 3 very general personality traits vs. TEN physical aesthetic traits that get into specific spots on the body. So yeah, I find it dumb to propose a question like “Would you like a man who has big muscles oh and narrow hunter eyes and pecs and veins and oh, that v thing by his junk, and wide shoulders and low body fat??? Oh I guess he’s also funny and confident and whatever too, idc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:46 PM
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Idgaf about who OP is, this is an extremely poor and shallow list of traits. You have eight descriptors for their body and like 2 for personality. Who cares about OP? The question would be useless posted by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:18 PM
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Lol, this guy is acting like I’m stalking him online when I didn’t even check the username, I just commented on an absurdly dumb post (which are common in this forum) It’s stupid to assume that people are going to go through a user’s entire history to check if they’ve ever shared research or articles to support their argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:14 PM
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And where are YOUR sources? You didn’t present any statistics, books, or research either, loser. And how am I “getting rekt” with more upvotes on that comment than your entire post? Didn’t recognize your name at first but I’m going to go ahead and accept that you’re 100% a stupidly lost cause. Yaaaay for all women forever spared from your inadequacy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:08 PM
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She had enough self respect to not want to date you though 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:04 PM
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Did you get this Chad list straight from an incel forum? Attraction is not a formula where you can just plug in “strong jaw + hunter eyes” and automatically get sex and attention from the opposite gender. Men here are SOOOO much more obsessed with other guys having muscled bodies than most women ever think about it, I promise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:55 PM
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This is so incorrect that it goes right past stupid into just sad… “Women don’t have desire for sex, affection, or intimacy” and you have the nerve to label this science, you poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:51 PM
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Then you’re underestimating the amount of tall men that are also awkward or creepy, shy, ugly, unhoused, disabled, struggling with addiction, or obese. If you think just being tall guarantees success with women, you obviously don’t know many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 PM
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Oof, this is so dumb that I’m for sure going to get flagged again for arguing. Can’t contain the frustration with sentiments this thoroughly idiotic, just gotta say: If you believe this, you absolutely deserve to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:12 AM
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This couldn’t be more false. When is the last time you heard about a man having acid thrown in his face for rejecting a marriage proposal? How many stories have you heard of men being raped and murdered on a date? How many men have needed to order an angel shot to get away from a woman who won’t take no for an answer? Do you even know what an angel shot is?? A lot of men don’t because they literally will never need one. You’re goddamn right women are more dismissive towards men in general becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:23 PM
1

Stop making so much sense, you’ll hurt his little brain!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:43 PM
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Dude, if you really believe this, then you are certainly not a nice or smart guy. Gotta be creepy as hell to be jealous of attention that dudes in prison get, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:37 PM
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People want dating to be fair when mating in nature isn’t fair at all. How many nature documentaries have we all seen of birds doing their weird little dancy dance rituals to find a partner? Guess what happens to the birds who didn’t dance well enough? They die alone without ever passing on their genes. Not a single organism in the animal kingdom is successfully pairing off every member of its species. Why should humans be any different? The great thing about this day and age is that you no long…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:15 PM
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I’m a bisexual woman and I’m soooo visually hypnotized by women in a way that men can never replicate. I could watch a really beautiful girl just sit and blink for like an hour. It’s just… fun and thrilling to behold. Definitely start thinking of her naked and every spot I would want to… ya know. For men? I need way more. I can see a TikTok of a really cute guy (usually still wearing his shirt, man muscles do nothing for me) and he’ll dazzle me with a smile or funny something but that feeling wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:03 PM
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Heard similar sentiments from Asian women who were fetishized and expected to act like a meek, submissive schoolgirl or a bubbly anime character. Porn is breeding the ugliest kinds of stereotypes and women are the ones suffering with the consequences of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:51 PM
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“Sure, porn may be oppressive for some women…” WOW, way to downplay and shrug off the wildly abusive porn industry. Women get slapped, choked, tied up and degraded in horrible ways. Some of the most popular search topics are incestual, rapey, or barely legal teens in a gangbang. So yeah, I’ll go ahead and judge you for having a creepy, rotten brain if you can’t even FATHOM why lots of women have a problem with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:45 PM
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Lol, have you ever seen 600 pound life? Because a lot of the men on there are married or partnered too. And unwanted attention from men is usually a lot worse than when it’s coming from women. Sure, hot men get harassed too but how many of them avoid going out at night alone because of it? How many hot men are watching their drinks like hawks when they go out? How many men have been told that they’re too pretty to be traveling alone? Attractive women are also judged far more harshly by society w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:58 PM
2

Micro blading is for tattooing eyebrows. You’re thinking of microdermebrasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:05 PM
0

My last boyfriend of seven years was 5’7 and scrawny with a low paying job. It’s definitely harder for short men but it’s nowhere near impossible unless you’re an asshole. So go ahead, smalls, keep telling yourself that there is no need for self improvement. I’m sure that will save you from being a lonely little dickhead any day now 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:23 PM
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You are horribly dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:10 PM
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Sometimes, yes. Because I am a woman that does exactly that. I’ve had one long term relationship that lasted 7 years and never once did my sex drive go down (oh, and I never had to fake it either but you’ll probably refuse to believe that). My true goal is to build a life with someone I’m compatible with and I don’t ever have to use sex like you think all women do. Your sad little fantasy that women don’t like sex simply because men get off easier is just that. Sad. No one deserves to be single …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:38 PM
2

Annnnd here it is. It’s easier for the sad delusional fool to believe that women couldn’t possibly want ANYONE than it is to believe that no woman ever will want you. Learning that you are single and probably will be forever has brightened my day, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:10 PM
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I’d ask if you realize that this article proves that orgasms are totally possible but the vast majority of men just aren’t good at making it happen…. But I realize asking that means assuming you have more than two brain cells to rub together and frankly, I haven’t seen any evidence to support that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:07 PM
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And your personal anecdotes of “women don’t experience orgasm because I’m an absolutely useless loser that has never seen one” doesn’t hold any weight either. Holds negative weight actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:05 PM
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This is by far the dumbest post I’ve seen on this forum. And that’s saying a whole lot. If you believe multiple orgasms isn’t a evolutionary function for pleasure and women don’t enjoy sex, you are just too stupid to reason with. That incel quicksand has such a hold on you that I feel no sympathy for the inevitably miserable life you’re doomed to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:33 PM
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Did I say that anywhere? I’m just pointing out that this guy’s attitude towards handsome men and women in general is pretty shitty. I don’t think he’s going to improve or change at all based on Internet comments, he seems quite content to be stuck in his bitterness. But if you think it’s clown behavior to try and improve that mentality… lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:40 PM
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“Your observations are invalid.” (Proceeds to validate all my observations) Ok, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:06 PM
1

Are you purposefully being obtuse? When you Google “John Krasinski dad bod” you will see tons of pictures of people labeling his thicker body as dad bod. Who the fuck are you to tell me and thousands of other people what is and what isn’t a correct opinion of dad bod? Never once said that all guys who work out at the gym are gym bros. Your reading comprehension seems to have completely skipped the part where I specified that on DATING PROFILES where you have very limited photos to represent your…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:01 PM
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You actually seem pretty below average based on your purple pill comments. Hateful and resentful towards taller/better looking men in relationships, bitter and rude towards the women that date them. Lonely yet also stubbornly refuses to improve yourself (“I would rather die than go to a gym”) I doubt you are hiding that loathsome mindset as well as you think you are in public….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:00 PM
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Fun fact, not every observation of life needs to have a random, small-sample sized, social study to support it with colorful pie charts and percentages about how the genders supposedly think. PPD just likes to share those like they’re absolute truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:52 PM
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Oh, I didn’t realize you were the official gatekeeper of the definition of dad bod?? When you google John Krasinski dad bod, the picture I shared shows up with others of him at the beach. If I think of it as a dad bod and if Twitter has thousands of retweets with these photos calling it dad bod, I’m going to go the fuck ahead and believe what I want about my personal preferences. And on a dating profile where you have 4-6 photos to represent yourself, uploading a gym selfie usually means the gym…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:38 PM
2

You edited your comment bro. You both were aggressive and overreacted to someone saying okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:58 PM
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This. Men have it harder today in the dating world. The bottom 40-50% of men (just in terms of physical attractiveness) are at a pretty huge disadvantage on dating apps and in social mingling settings like clubs and bars. But to say women have ALWAYS had the upper hand in choosing partners is wildly ignorant. Women have barely had a century of the ability to even vote in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:57 PM
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Were women the ones forcing men into hard labor? No, because women COULDNT VOTE for a majority of this country’s history. Couldn’t have bank accounts, drive cars, work a whole bunch of jobs, because MEN decided they couldn’t. When is the last time you heard of a child husband? Or a man kidnapped and sold into marriage? And now that things are shifting, men are fucking complaining now that it’s unfair women get to be picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:51 PM
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She literally typed just the word “Okay.” and had two random guys give her hostile responses. “I’m not a fucking neckbeard, you’re supposed to be argumentative, I expect her to respond” like where the fuck is this entitlement coming from? She ended up just being busy at work, a totally reasonable explanation but you assumed it’s about you coming off as an incel? No one owes y’all a debate, especially when you rudely assume that she’d have a sour opinion of you for disagreeing because she typed O…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:35 PM
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If someone is sharing their personal preference or experience, I don’t say they’re wrong just because my experience has been different. And I certainly wouldn’t say “hey I’m not a fucking neckbeard (saw your first draft), argue with me!!” if they responded with a one word answer that clearly wasn’t interested in debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:54 PM
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You guys have got to stop sharing these single, isolated studies like they are absolute facts. Have YOU ever been surveyed in one of these relationship polls? I certainly haven’t and none of my friends have. Even if they’re getting a decent sample size, they are missing the opinions of TENS OF MILLIONS of people who won’t all align with these findings. If you find stats that women “on average” these days are doing something that you don’t vibe with, guess what, there are literally millions of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:50 PM
1

Wow. Never seen someone go off so hard because someone typed “if” . Divorce was hard on this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:37 PM
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Your point was too poorly presented to argue against. She shared a personal preference and you, like a child, went “No, this never works because I haven’t seen it” Why would anyone want to argue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:30 PM
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Lol, maybe she sees there is no point in arguing with dudes who are literally shutting down her personal preference with “No, actually that never happens. Men are too shy for that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:28 PM
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How dare you, women obviously are only exclusively going for long dick Chads with sports cars and strong hunter jawlines!! Once they run out of the Chads, they’ll finally be forced to see the rest of the nice, totally well adjusted men who have been waiting for them in the shadows all this time /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:23 PM
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Literally just Google it? https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DeFW6H0U0AAXtI8.jpg Plenty of pictures of him in this shape, he could even gain a little more and I’d be smitten. And yeah, I’m generalizing a few types of people that typically are more into muscles, it’s not a rare thing to be attracted to, it’s just not my thing. I don’t mind guys who go to the gym to stay in shape but if you have gym selfies on your profile, it’s too big a part of your lifestyle for me. I don’t want to date a guy who coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:14 PM
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How is me only dating people I’m attracted to have anything to do with being objectified? I never said it’s the only thing I’m looking for, it’s not even top 5. Looks fall behind humor, loyalty, financial independence, kindness and compatibility but they still matter so…why try and find those features in dudes who I don’t find cute at all? My top 1% of men isn’t the hunky Chad model that men here LOVE to assume all women are obsessed with and even if it was, not all Chads are assholes like these…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:14 AM
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No one can FORCE men to date anyone they don’t want to just like no one can FORCE women to date the lonely virgins on here. And you haven’t been on Reddit very long if you haven’t seen bitter men calling women whores for not sleeping with them. Literally saw a guy on this forum today say that you should never date a woman who’s slept with more than 5 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:07 AM
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Nah, I think that comment was talking about the men in this subreddit who post DAILY about how you should avoid women with high body counts (because that would make them used up whores) And now this guy is posting about how women don’t put out enough or are too picky with the people they are sleeping with. Ugly dudes are clearly just as capable of being gross and degrading, especially when they’re not getting any :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:59 PM
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So you’re upset that not enough women consider you on their level?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:52 PM
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I don’t see why it’s up to women to broaden their dating pool to people they’re not attracted to when they’re capable of seeing men who already fit their standards. This problem keeps being brought up over and over and I’ve never seen any proposed solution other than just “Women should lower their standards and date virgins/ nice guys with less experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:50 PM
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Where did I say I’m only dating for looks? I swipe right on less than 1% of men’s dating profiles but I match with 70-80% of them. Every woman’s version of that top 1% is different and Chris Hemsworth or any other super muscled guy is not at all my type. I’m more into a Justin Long or John Krasinski kind of cute. And those kind of cute guys can be just as funny and smart and romantic as the awkward looking virgin. Probably more so because I’m also looking for guys who’ve had relationships that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:21 PM
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I’ve had one relationship that lasted 7 years and am dating to find another long term partner. Attractive doesn’t mean they’re automatically compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:38 PM
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If you were able to match with the top 5% of women, wouldn’t you? Why should I lower my standards when I’m still getting dates with men I’m actually attracted to? Because some losers are lonely and feel left out? Lol, no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:44 PM
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I’ve been getting asked out by guys since high school (though I didn’t at all believe I was cute back then). Still attract just as much attention at 30 but it’s a slightly older crowd. Though the other day, a couple teenagers got all goofy and waved hi at me while I was walking to a first date so that was a nice little ego boost. They say guys hit their peak later but I see looooots of 25 year old men on dating apps that look ROUGH af. A good looking 40 year old guy is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:57 PM
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Felt fair to bring up if he felt “multiple orgasms” was such a winning argument. I know many women who would gladly trade that ability to skip their time of the month. Women’s biology is a huge reason why I think it makes sense that women should be more selective when choosing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:01 PM
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Gym girls like gym bros. Influencers and physical trainers and cougars and sugar babies like gym bros. Women who like men in uniforms or positions of power (like a firefighter or cop) usually like those big muscles. Me? I think the sexiest man alive right now is John Krasinski in his dad bod form. Give me a slightly squishy Krasinski and I’ll die happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:19 PM
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I feel it’s related to sexual health as men don’t have an equivalent “time of the month” where their genitalia experiences more discomfort and changes the sex. It’s a normal biological function that still gets so much ignorance and disgust and in some countries, still means a woman has to miss school or work while she’s bleeding. If he feels that it’s unfair that women get multiple orgasms and their “pick of the litter” I feel I can point out that the organ that gives us multiple orgasms also ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:13 PM
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The vast majority of women don’t have partners on demand like deep-dish pizza, lol. And multiple orgasms does not make up for periods, birth control, pregnancy, or the much much higher risk of sexual assault. Especially since a good portion of men aren’t great at getting women to achieve orgasm anyway. So I have no empathy for men having a harder time getting laid. It’s beyond fair that women get to be picky when one encounter can change her life and body forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:36 AM
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Yeah, the gym selfies work for some people so I’m not judging it, just not my thing. The bland triple chin selfie from the driver seat is always and forever a bad choice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:48 PM
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Dudes whose only photos are awful, unsmiling selfies. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen car selfies taken from their lap (no one looks good from this angle, and you certainly don’t look “tall”) or awkward public restroom mirror selfies. it’s probably not a good idea to post a photo of you shirtless in bed with ruffled hair. And this is a personal preference but I hate gym selfies and shirtless pics on dating profiles but I’m not looking for someone who works out daily, I like a little squi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:37 PM
1

Annnnd suddenly it all makes sense on why we have different definitions of creepy. If you’re turned on by step-grandpa porn, we have absolutely nothing more to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:00 PM
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kidney
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:39 PM
1

Victoria’s Secret is more about women fighting corporate beauty standards and body shaming capitalism. “Big Energy” is basically Anaconda for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:38 PM
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I can look up tons of posts and find dudes who want to fuck anthropomorphic bees, what’s your point? People have different preferences and tastes but if we’re talking about generalizing the majority, most 22 year old women are going to prefer their partners under 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:30 PM
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I moved to LA and thought that I would have a harder time getting matches out here but I’ve gotten thousands of likes and I match with 70-80% of the men I swipe right on. Similar percentage will usually ask for a second date as well. I’ve gone on around 40 first dates in past year. Only 3 of them had that spark, that chemistry, that electric tingly vibe that you want on a first date. One was an absolute catch, best profile I’ve ever seen to this day, my kinda cute, and so funny in a smart way. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:04 PM
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The age difference does affect the level of creepiness though. The bigger the age gap and the age of the younger party both add ick factors that can easily escalate something from uncomfortable to harassment. The main thing is the older person and their approach and why they feel interested in much younger people anyway. The larger the age gap, the more likely that interest is purely physical, sexual attraction. Which is kinda creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:45 PM
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The biggest difference being all the celebrities actually look good for 35. They are the outliers, a huge portion of men over 35 are struggling with baldness, worse metabolisms, and bad skin. They don’t like the celebrities because they’re older, they like them because they look great for their age and also happen to be famous millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:40 PM
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Unwanted flirty attention can feel extra icky with an obvious age gap though. When you’re 22 and you get hit on by a 29 year old, it’s fine, but if a dude in his late 60’s hits on the same girl it’s SOOOO creepy because it very much feels like he should know better or learned how to read the room at his age. So it definitely can be immoral and harassing if the age gap is large enough and the man starts hitting on women who are not receptive to that. And oh boy, does this happen a lot. Rich old w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:33 PM
1

I see absolutely no problem with ending an unhappy marriage. Her partner didn’t change his ways to keep his family together so why should she sacrifice her happiness when he won’t? Why is it only up to the woman to see family as duty? He dropped the ball as a father and a lover to keep playing a dangerous sport, despite his already well established legacy. But it’s a WOMAN’s duty to just tolerate whatever the fuck the man wants to do to keep the family together, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:21 PM
1

You sound very divorcable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:16 PM
8

So you say it’s been documented and then you share an article that you admit says nothing about her cheating? This is pretty terrible support for your point. You can’t just say you’ve seen documents or allusions to accusations like that without being able to share anything that actually says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:52 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:44 PM
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She’s literally one of the most famous supermodels of all time, she doesn’t need to “steal” money from anyone and she certainly doesn’t have to stay unhappy in a relationship if she doesn’t feel like it anymore. Divorce means she can be free to see other gorgeous, famous, rich whoevers. It’s not like she is going to have limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:43 PM
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It doesn’t say enough for anyone outside the relationship to learn from them though. They’re also incredibly wealthy, famous, and attractive so 99.9% of people are not going to be able to relate to their circumstances and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:39 PM
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Real question, why the fuck should any woman want to earn your respect when you’re assuming all women have no concept of love, loyalty, or duty? You sound like exactly the type of guy that would get instant and consistent disrespect from me because your misogynistic attitude basically begs for disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:24 PM
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Wow, this is the total opposite of true. Beauty is mostly something you are born with and can’t control. You can get better at hair and makeup but for the sake of this argument, you can’t change the genetic factors that make you facially attractive. It will always, 100% of the time, eventually fade away. Money can be an extension of who you are and your life’s passions. It can be inherited which reflects on that person’s upbringing or earned through hard work, cleverness, or ingenuity to start t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:21 PM
4

Right?? “If it’s not the fault of Chad with their height and jawlines, it’s gotta be the simps that are forcing women to not want me!!” Meanwhile, you spend ten minutes reading through a lot of these profile comment histories and it becomes immediately clear why they’re actually single…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:08 PM
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Being able to attract more attention doesn’t mean the men who go up and flirt are simping though? It just means that society has encouraged the tradition of men being the ones to approach first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:06 PM
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There aren’t any women making conscious choices to pick any of these attributes. No one is swiping right on a man going “Oooh, he looks like the rude, angry type!” And men choose awful partners just as often as women, where are you getting your data that most men want a wholesome, good woman while most women are primarily attracted to these Disney villain tropes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:38 AM
0

Great argument, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:19 AM
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God, you sound like such a sheltered thirteen year old, this was almost painful to read. “Simping” isn’t a new trend just because it had a new name. It’s not a spreading sickness affecting a significant portion of men, it’s a part of dating that’s been around for decades if not centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:08 PM
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Not out of nowhere, I recognize your username. You have a history of bringing up how unfair it is that women have makeup and plastic surgery and now apparently they’re above the need to exercise…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:26 PM
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Great argument. Woman directly telling you she’s not attracted to muscles and you just going “naahhh, I read this fact once so it’s therefore always true.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:47 PM
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Dude, you also are only talking about YOUR personal experience and frankly, your experience sounds extremely limited and ignorant. The fitness industry for women is a multi-BILLION dollar industry. Every popular woman’s magazine mentions exercise routines and tips for staying in shape. You’re saying just because you go out and only see larger women that you can just declare most women don’t exercise? Stop fucking blaming women for your problems and acting bitter because you feel you can’t wear m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:45 PM
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Sooo, basically all just shallow surface level attributes. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:34 PM
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This is just so not true though. Body builders are definitely too muscular for most women and some (myself) prefer higher body fat percentages because tight muscles remind them of potatoes trying to escape from under their skin. I didn’t say my reasoning made any biological sense but it definitely proves that at least SOME women don’t find muscles atttractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:27 PM
1

Yes, because every man in a relationship totally looks like this. Absolutely no women are dating or happily partnered to any man outside this extremely limited spectrum. /s Idk what to tell you buddy, if you want to keep ignoring all the real world examples out there and keep believing that it’s impossible for anyone without the Marvel superhero look to find a relationship than that’s absolutely going to stay true for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:56 PM
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I never said it covered the whole set of men and I don’t believe it does at all. Might not even cover half. But it’s not the hopeless and exclusive singular top whatever % that so many men here seem to think it is. If you’re not generally attractive, you might still fit into someone’s niche because there are lots of women with lots of different types. My point is that a lot of men here seem to think women’s attractions are far less varied than they are in reality and they’re limiting themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:42 PM
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Interesting that you assume they’re lying when you can go out anytime and see all different kinds of men in relationships walking around. I know half a dozen married couples who met through online dating and not a single woman ended up with a Chad type. I know as a woman that I’m way more likely to swipe right on the dorky cute skinny guy holding a cat than the male model taking selfies in the gym. But keep deluding yourself into thinking the whole gender is lying to you or themselves for not wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:38 PM
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Nope, not assuming that at all, my last paragraph starts with pointing out that the stereotype is still quite the popular standard. If you’re more of a “type” you’re definitely going to have a smaller subset of women who will be attracted to you than the standard “hot guy” but it’s not the hopeless wasteland of women looking for only kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:01 PM
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It’s a rough estimate for the sake of brevity. It’s a number mentioned in this subreddit a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:58 PM
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Women are attracted to only 5% of men but not ALL women are going for the same 5% I’ve seen a lot of discussion and lamenting about how unfairly skewed the dating scene is between men and women. There’s no denying that it’s much harder for most men to find matches vs. the vast majority of women. On average, guys swipe right on over half of all profiles while average women swipe on maaaaybe 2-5%. Those stats can feel overwhelmingly discouraging but I feel we should clarify a misconception that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:38 PM
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Are you suggesting that “murderer” is a genetic trait you can pass down? You go into all this detail about the pudgy one but did the convict do well in school? Doesn’t even matter because your cherry picked details make for a ridiculous and useless hypothetical. This isn’t even an interesting think to think about because it’s presented so poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:10 PM
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Hey, fun fact, you’re also a heartless asshole ✨👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:27 AM
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If you’re upset that a woman is fighting back against the shitty behavior of men, sounds like you’re part of the problem she’s fighting against.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:36 PM
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Im jealous, I despise being single. Hate first dates and saying the same small talk topics over and over. 9/10 first dates I go on are boring or just okay. Casual sex is the biggest difference. I tried because I also have a high sex drive but there is just zero gratification from sleeping with a man I don’t like in that way. Sex with a trusted partner was fucking mind-blowing and he was an average sized virgin when we met. Sex with literal male models and porn-worthy penises was just… fine. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:31 PM
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Just gotta say, I agree with your second statement so hard. I HATE being single and every time someone tries to describe what’s great about it, they tell me things I didn’t like or was always able to enjoy in a relationship anyway. Hard not to be convinced that every straight woman saying she prefers being single just never had a truly supportive and wonderful relationship with a man. Being in love is the fucking best, nothing about being single and “free” comes even a little close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:23 PM
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And you’re assuming that based on the idea that attractive men NEVER act douchey when they’re rejected because they don’t need to. L o fucking L.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:44 PM
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“If you are hot, women won’t care if all you want is sex.” Lol. This tells me all I need to know about your ignorance on this topic. Let’s just go separate ways believing the other person has no idea what they’re talking about because your assumptions on me couldn’t be more wrong and your claims on how attractive people should react are laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:38 PM
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This in an incredibly callous way to tell a heartbreaking story. Poor girl was repeatedly molested as a child and you call her a dumb slut that posts butthole pictures on Instagram. Fucking heartless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:17 PM
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The only woman I know with an abnormally high body count (we’re talking triple digits here) has been in a totally loving and supportive relationship with the same guy for ten years. He knows about her past and why she did it and fully accepts and loves her. Meanwhile, I match with every guy I like on dating apps but I can count all my sexual experiences on one hand with fingers to spare and I’ve been single for years. Maybe we’re both outliers or maybe body count mostly matters to dudes who aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:11 PM
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Idk if this was an attempt to say “well, you’re probably ugly so what do you know?” But my experience with hot men has also involved them pursuing me and acting pissed when I didn’t fall for their charms that usually work for them. I live in LA where headshot hunks are a dime a dozen and maybe it’s this city but good looks tends to corrupt men into entitled fuckboys more consistently than beauty turns women into vapid social media clones. But I think that’s partly due to the fact that beautiful …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:47 PM
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I’ve met beautiful girls with hearts of gold and drop-dead gorgeous, wretched bitches. It’s a mixed enough bag that it’s hard to make assumptions based on beauty alone. But 95% of all extremely handsome guys I’ve ever met have been disastrously full of themselves. The ones that weren’t went through a humbling “ugly” phase at some point in their lives. I think boys who are cute their whole life and wind up as handsome men often lack empathy for most people as being a handsome, tall dude is kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:23 AM
0

They are two opposite sides of the spectrum that come with their own different benefits and drawbacks. Men have varying definitions of what counts as a “high” body count (10? 20? 100?) so I believe it’s reasonable for women to be more sensitive about sharing this while also being wary of any men with zero sexual experience by his 30s. OP’s point was invalidated when he ended with a rant about how more women should be lusting after virgin incels if they already have a higher body count anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:00 PM
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Are you asking women your age for advice on profiles? Don’t ask other men, it’s gotta be from the demographic you’re hoping to match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:02 PM
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Hahaha, what forums on Reddit are you going on where “no one is allowed to judge women” ? You stated your opinion and I find it incredibly lame that you blame “virtually all women” for being hypocritical and disagreeing with you. So in the spirit of equality, I am telling you that there’s a very good reason you’re being rejected by women and it’s entirely your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:17 PM
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When I go out in the world and look around, I definitely spot more good looking men then I do on apps by a looooong shot. maybe 5% of men I see are cuties minding their own business and running errands around town. Online? On literally any of the dating apps? I find maybe .5% attractive. Emphasis on the decimal point. Not even like “wow what a looker!” attractive, but like a lukewarm tolerable level of “ehh, I guess he could be cute.” Men are TERRIBLE with presenting themselves through photograp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:13 PM
3

Yes, largely just for men. A high n count for a man is never going to woo or impress a girl. Women are telling you over and over that we appreciate the way he talks, dresses, his smooth actions, cleverness, and yeah maybe the endless wallet and infinite super gadgets. MEN are just looking at his “trophies” and assuming they understand how Bond got them but you so clearly don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:02 PM
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It’s actually lame to complain about and valid to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:54 PM
8

Wait, so do most women find you attractive or do most of them dislike you? Pretty contradictory statements you posted on the same forum. (Don’t worry, I have a pretty solid guess which one is the truth)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:52 PM
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Hahaha wow, “virtually every girl dislikes me” so women MUST be the problem!! Couldn’t be the common denominator of YOU not actually having a reasonable opinion, nope, it’s the whole fucking gender that’s wrong. Lol, stay alone for the gene pool’s sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:49 PM
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What’s the “problem” here? Old virgin dudes who are upset that women don’t want their lack of experience? Dang, sure glad my plot armor is keeping me from being responsible for that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:46 PM
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You type like you’ve been wearing the same fedora for twelve years straight. Women who don’t want dudes to care about their higher body count probably would prefer their dudes to have a higher number themselves. WHY ON EARTH would a woman with lots of varied sexual experience ever want to end up with a man with absolutely none? The shy, naive virgin might appeal to some of the more desperate men out there but it very rarely ever appeals to women as most men are somewhat awful at sex when they fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:44 PM
0

Sounds like you’ve witnessed a very small sample of one particular type of woman and wrongfully assumed this represents the average or majority. This is not the “usual” case for most American women whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:30 AM
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The fact that you even have to ask this says a lot about your experience talking with women… Some women do enjoy very active sex lives with various casual partners but the vast majority do not engage in sex with a new partner every other week like you’re suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:03 AM
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Oh my god, there’s just too much incel stupidity to possibly respond to. You don’t sound like you’ve ever been capable of showing empathy or charm to women once in your life. I will just summarize by repeating: You really really seem to deserve to be alone with your creepy, misguided incel mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:49 PM
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I’ve read through quite a few of your comments and rants about how unfair it is that women have access to makeup, plastic surgery, and more power in the dating world. I’ve come to the conclusion that you are way deeper in the incel quicksand than you think and you are very deservedly single right now. Your mindset is so toxic and absurdly incorrect to think that women have always had the upper hand in choosing a partner. You’re ignoring all the factors women struggled with like forced pregnancy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:04 PM
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Dude. It’s not the nudity. It’s the captions. Literally dozens of posts about how ugly and sexless your dick is. I can’t tell if you’re being purposefully obtuse or you sincerely don’t see the difference between that and the vast majority of posts on the curvy or nude forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:28 PM
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And how many women are posting just close-ups of their genitals going “Is this sad pussy enough for anybody?” 🥺 If I went to a woman’s Reddit profile to see if I could learn more about why she feels perpetually alone and just saw a wall of self-deprecating vag pics from her, then yes, I’d also call her a desperate loser. It might not be as worthy of comment if it wasn’t literally your entire post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:05 PM
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You are just deluding yourself into thinking women only go for dominant, rich assholes. But you are a creepy dude. You’re the type that asks strangers to rate your dick online over and over, very strong chance you’re giving off “desperate losers” vibes 24/7 And spoiler alert none of that is because of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:39 PM
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This so loud. What’s the biggest reason that women are scared to go on dates vs. men? Why the fuck should women be concerned about catering to men’s feelings about rejection when most men aren’t concerned about doing anything for women’s physical safety in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:32 PM
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That first quote is awful. It doesn’t say anything about womens’ potential to create music or murder, it just says back then only male accomplishments were noticed, encouraged and celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:15 PM
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No, they did present more facts than you. And your one boyfriend anecdote doesn’t represent the whole country’s struggle with college degrees, have you not heard of the trillions of dollars of school debt? Or the toxic job market since covid? Oh sorry, your boyfriend went to a trade school so those problems don’t actually exist. Most people in jails belong in them, ignore the prison stats from every other nation, our incarceration system makes sense! Humans do tend to agree with arguments they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:07 PM
1

Here is some truth that you probably aren’t ready or mature enough to accept: You are not skilled at observing human behavior in relationships. Your bad luck with dating does not mean women go for less respectful guys, it means your “polite, respectful” approach is just not fucking attractive. It’s either boring or creepy or just unwanted and instead of self reflecting on why, you’re blaming it on FEMINISM. I don’t know what you look like but just based on what you’ve written here, you are not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:01 PM
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Is this satire? Or are you really too dense to see the irony in your statement? “Men who attempt to care about female issues are seen as undesirable. I was respectful with women and it didn’t get me sex, this proves I’m right!!!” I promise you, the feminism is not why no women want to sleep with your entitled, dumb ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:53 PM
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I’m just reading along because I find this topic interesting but I gotta say, you are not very skilled at arguing any of these points. OP has posted sources and facts and you just keep going “No, that’s just not true” without supporting evidence except anecdotes and opinions. Not done reading yet but your debate style has me heavily convinced your opposition is in the right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:47 PM
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It’s also spelled manikin lol. His 6 figure job is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:13 PM
1

Oof, buddy, I can tell you that if you’re not getting girls by making art or playing the guitar, stop blaming the instruments. No they aren’t guaranteed to get you more attention from ladies but it’s undeniable that women love when guys can express themselves creatively. It doesn’t sound like the problem was your artwork, it sounds like you expected attention you didn’t get and then found something to blame outside of your appearance or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:18 PM
0

Perfectly incel response from you. Have fun staying single with this mindset ✌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:46 AM
5

You’re confusing “Women are too picky” with “Women won’t pick me” Why should they pick you? What do you have to offer outside of complaining how much you don’t resemble a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:01 AM
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“Every Herero woman that wants to be in a relationship is in a relationship” What a stupid comment, this isn’t even a little bit true. Straight/bi women still struggle to find relationships all the time, even young attractive ones. This isn’t even incel logic, it’s dumber. Like a kid believing that girls don’t fart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:57 AM
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