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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | No bearings | Getting Started | inktape_co | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kids | Need Support | inktape_co | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 06:57 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Reminder: Wait at least one year after Divorce before dating.I would like to call for help, I am in need of a wiser one who has walked this path. I am grateful for the time you have taken for me in advance. Thank you. It has been 3 months since our divorce talks started and two weeks since she completely moved out the house. She was barely here and was sleeping over at her parents in the mean time. We had been together for 14 years and the last year was rather rocky. We don’t have a child. The separation, while devastating and overwhelmingly emotional, wa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/24 10:44 AM |
| 2 | No bearingsYes that has crossed my mind. But it does pay a lot better. Huge risk though | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Wife admitted to not loving meI’m so sorry to hear that. I am exactly in the same situation. I have been with my wife for 14 years (married for 7) and she admitted that she no longer loves me in “that way”. I admit that I haven’t been the best person nor husband to her over the last couple years post covid since our lives were drastically changing again after the whole lockdowns. But I never would’ve thought she’d lose the “spark” in our relationship. Like, I suppose any other guy, I have a high sex drive and my wife doesn’t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsVery civil really. We move our separate ways. Split finances 50/50, relocate, split household objects fairly etc. She wants this relationship to continue as friends, which I am unsure about that part as I know this is toxic for future relationships. But in the end we are best friends that simply fell out of love (on her side anyway) so I can understand where she is coming from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsHey, so I had a long hearty talk with my soon to be ex wife. Any tips on first steps aside from looking for accommodation? How did you deal with the family? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Better days aheadDon’t be so tough on yourself. What you are going through is a part of your growth process. All the “I could have done this and should have done that” I know it’s very tempting to slip in to that state of mind but as you already identified, this will not help you. You are being too tough on yourself. As for hating her, I don’t agree. You have nothing but love for her and that is fine. In fact, I far as I can tell in this forum at least, it is very common for us to love our ex-wives. After all, w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsThat’s a fair point. Harsh. But true all the same. Thanks mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsThat’s harsh to hear but you are right. I don’t plan to contest her free will. It is her body it her choice i have no doubt in my mind on that matter. To unsubscribe from “love of my life” is tough. I’ve always been a romantic type and i doubt this will change any time soon. I find it hard to leave someone and a life I have built together for such a long time. But, maybe you’re right. There is no solution to this. One of us must lose. Is this your point? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Progress I thinkWay to go! I’m counting on your success! Keep us updated | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsMaybe. She certainly wants space and I would be inclined to give it to her if it didn’t mean that I would most likely lose the love of my life. I mean it is true, I’m “only” 35. But I don’t know if there are battles to be fought if not for love and maybe, just maybe, for the continuation if my lineage. Is that so important? I just don’t know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsI suppose having kids will fix nothing, perhaps just focus our attention on a different matter. I don’t think I have a broken relationship. At leat not from my point of view. I haven’t been the best I can be to her. And I can blame it on stress and all that I want to blame it on, but it is true that I have neglected our relationship. I just thought that she would be the mother of our children. We even named our unborn children. To say that I don’t know where I went wrong would be a lie. But I’m … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I want kids with her, she doesn’t want kidsThank you. It’s hard to hear it but I will fight. The best I’ve got. Even though it is though | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Still grieving her, struggling to copeThank you for reply. Your kind words really means a lot to me! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Still grieving her, struggling to copeI’m struggling to swallow the reality you have described in your post. How you describe your pain, uncertainty and love (or care?) you still retain for your ex wife. It is truly frightening to me and I am so sorry this is happening to you, even if I don’t know you. I’m sorry to be selfish, but I have no methods of helping you or to give advice on coping with your pain. I am writing you because I am currently staring down at your very path and am quite frankly terrified. I have been with my wife … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 12:29 AM |
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