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Children are humans and you won’t be able to control their innate personality, regardless of how much you are around to “try to stop it.” Just ask my parents. It is a problem when parents think their children are little mini-mes that they can shape into whatever they want. That said, some careers are more time-consuming than others and lead to children having distant relationships with their parent, but we more commonly hear this about fathers—military, doctors, corporate big wigs. A regular 9-5…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/25 12:25 AM
2

It sounds like you are projecting some dissatisfaction you have with your own childhood.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/25 12:15 AM
3

This is an inability to empathize with other humans, so unfortunately, you are probably spot on with your autism or personality disorder suspicions. Regardless of how you look, lack of empathy is very off-putting to other people.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 05:45 PM
4

How can you be red pill, or ex-red pill for that matter, when you haven’t finished puberty and you’re just reaching dating age….?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 07:09 AM
10

Fucking yikes, bro.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:21 PM
1

Um, men swipe on every profile without reading it or actually being attracted to the women, so matches are literally meaningless.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 07:18 AM
1

Well, women generally sweat less than men, so it takes longer after a shower for us to smell strongly. Testosterone makes you sweat more. But maybe what you noticed is that the dominant chemical in sweat is different for men and women because of differing microbiomes. The dominant chemical in male sweat is associated with a cheesy aroma, while the dominant chemical in female sweat is associated with a grapefruit or onion-type aroma. Outside of this, many people find they are attracted or repulse…
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 06:46 AM
8

Well, this isn’t real.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
0

How so? If 90% of single parent households are single mother households, the majority never married with absent fathers, and the 10% single father households are majority educated divorced men (over 40% of whom are cohabitating with a partner)… um, those are not the same thing, are they?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:07 AM
0

This is the most insane take I have seen on here so far.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 12:31 AM
3

Sorry, I’m old. What in the fuck are dusties and sprinkle sprinkle? Hahahah
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:55 PM
4

Are you just making up statistics based on your personal feelings? Hers are from the CDC. The CDC also happens to provide the statistic that 72% of men have fathered a child by age 40. So, what are you talking about?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 11:23 PM
1

Cutemaxxed gigastacy!? lol, I’m sorry I didn’t know this speak could be applied in this way. This is almost adorable.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:51 PM
1

A girlfriend for what… two weeks max? This makes no sense.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 10:39 AM
-2

Maybe if you knew more women, you would realize it is not that rare.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:13 AM
0

People would said it’s fake because they’re doing acting voice. I honestly cannot understand how some people have lost the ability to tell when people are acting. And I also do not understand why making these ragebait videos is so popular.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:47 AM
-3

On the one hand, yes, I am happy because I like to be left alone. On the other hand, I’m a little concerned that it will cause psychological problems that will have other effects on society.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:26 AM
1

The average guy probably has a job and responsibilities to worry about. Unless you mean the average 17 year old? Idk.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 08:44 AM
0

I would pick a virgin over a man that slept with a prostitute. Every time.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 01:17 AM
1

These responses. Yikes.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:15 AM
1

The idea that women don’t think and talk the same as men. Fun.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 09:13 PM
1

Sorry, wouldn’t British people be more attractive if they had a lot of “different” DNA? Hahahah. Maybe you should have used Brazil.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 09:10 PM
0

Bright white wedding dresses weren’t even popularized until the 30s, like diamond rings. It doesn’t mean anything.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 02:14 AM
0

Well, my German ancestors wore black wedding dresses in the 1800s to remind them of the grief and hardships of marriage. They looked bad ass. So, try again if this is supposed to be insulting.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 02:08 AM
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Women are less violent, less likely to own a gun, and less impulsive (some might point out the difference in testosterone levels). So, I’m not sure why the differing methods would be surprising. Women are clinically depressed at nearly double the rate of men, but of course, they are much more likely to seek help. Men also commit suicide with pills and account for well over half of the overdose deaths. Many people do change their minds during an overdose attempt, which can make it hard to compare…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 01:40 AM
-8

All this told me is that you don’t understand the emotional lives of women or how major depressive disorder works. Skittles? What?
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 10:10 PM
1

As a stand-up comic, I can assure you that women will fuck funny men of an incredible variety, many that most would find repulsive otherwise. And we call them “chuckle fuckers.”
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:00 PM
3

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting a virgin/inexperienced partner if you yourself are inexperienced. I think maybe they are trying to be helpful by telling you to widen your net because you aren’t likely to find an older women of the sort unless maybe you belong to a religious group. Women have problems with experienced men wanting virgins because of the hypocrisy.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 02:47 AM
8

They like the types of women they are always talking shit about. It is nonsensical.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 07:35 AM
6

I’m still only seeing men share their fears about opening up because of the way they were conditioned, not actual stories of women shaming them like you claim.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 02:14 AM
5

This looks like a woman commenting that she is confused about men not communicating, not shaming them…?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 09:01 PM
9

I looked at the first couple of dozen posts and saw nothing you are referring to. Looks like your average overpopulated mainstream garbage sub.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 02:53 PM
3

Like someone else mentioned, it’s partly that it’s a public platform and other people can see who you follow, so it kind of gives second-hand embarrassment for people that know or are dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:03 AM
1

I have 20 close friends plus another 20 good friends I see regularly probably. If you add in friends I see infrequently and acquaintances, my whole circle is about 115 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:55 AM
1

I’m not sure why you think this sub is being dominated by redpillers. Um, look at the responses to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:41 AM
0

I’m gonna go ahead and not believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:22 AM
1

Aw, what if it’s his birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:06 AM
1

What the…? Who is fucking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:05 AM
14

Why did this make me laugh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:04 AM
0

Yeah, those are not even close to equivalent, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:01 AM
1

Ah, ok. It was not clear what you meant from the first post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:45 PM
1

How is that poignant…? It is a measure of likelihood of having posted on two subreddits. A sub being banned should actually make it less likely that a user would have a post on both that sub and this active one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:15 PM
-1

It’s not looking at membership, it’s looking at posts. So, people who have posted on those subs in the past, regardless of whether they are active now. FDS sub is limited now as well since they moved their main discussions to their official website. The sub is basically just there to promote the website and podcast now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:59 PM
1

I don’t know why you wouldn’t post the stats for this actual sub? FDS is third. The highest correlation (more than twice as likely as FDS) is between this sub and r/asktrp. https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/purplepilldebate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:51 PM
1

This sub is so known for incel / red pill rhetoric now that other subs are banning people active on here. (I was banned from another sub just for writing comments here.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:00 AM
1

I was interpreting that as married. But also, generally, when people are just out of serious relationships—the most likely time to be participating in casual sex—they are not looking to get into another serious relationship immediately. (Some people are, but that’s a separate problem.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:22 AM
0

I would rather die than be someone’s first girlfriend (also in my 30s).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:49 AM
4

I think it’s fine to prefer someone with the same experience level as yourself, whatever that may be. If you have slept with dozens of women, but you want to marry a virgin… you are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:47 AM
0

Depends on the age. A 21 year old virgin is fine (for a similarly aged person), but a 35 year old virgin begs a lot of questions and concerns. Also, it’s definitely not “a couple times.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:45 AM
1

Well, there’s going to be bias based on the type of people you vs I know. I don’t have any female friends that were trying to get “cuffed” while still in college / their early-mid 20s. I would say it’s just neutral. Some men are good experiences, some men are not. That doesn’t really change, regardless of whether you are looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:54 PM
4

Ha. That is not my experience at all. I nor any of my female friends primarily had sex with fuckbois or ever express guilt about sleeping with men. I honestly don’t know if it’s that people like you that write these posts are very young and don’t know many adult women or if this is just fiction. Edit: Also, I don’t know any woman that says “ho phase” unless referring to a man that said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:10 AM
2

What………. the fuck…… is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:57 PM
1

Agree. Either painfully awkward or possibly a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:55 PM
1

No, they put all the hot people at the top of your swipe stack. Once you go through them, everyone is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:50 PM
3

I think most women know that men indiscriminately swipe on every single profile, which ruins the intended functionality of the apps, hence why we are upset having to sort through people with no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:49 PM
4

I didn’t read the whole thing because it was long. Did you ever fuck Chad? Did he realize how much you love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:44 PM
0

You did not provide evidence that women want men 8 inches taller than them, you just said the word “statistically.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:55 PM
0

a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. You are 5’3 and require someone a minimum of 11 inches taller than you because you want to “feel the effects of a sizable difference” in height…? Um, that is a fetish. You are fetishizing someone for their size, same as people with fat fetishes. Height has nothing to do with the sexual organs or any normal heterosexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:45 AM
3

Black guy and the fourth from the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:52 AM
5

Borderline fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:30 AM
-1

Weird comment based on your zero experience, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:29 AM
0

You are asking me to believe that you know a substantial number of women and I just can’t based on the current evidence. The point is 6’ is not even 8” taller than women who are 5’5 or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:28 AM
13

Oh, good. They invited one black guy to prove they aren’t racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:12 PM
6

It makes sense because the desirability is actually low for both, at only ~50% of max desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:32 PM
3

All I see is that men desire young women because they are gross—we knew this. Women never desire men more than 0.5 out of 1, so essentially a coin toss. Not great either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:31 PM
2

Ohh, the penises “on supply.” Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:14 PM
0

“Statistically.” Uh, no. I do not want a man that’s 6’4, nor would it make sense to specify them in a dating profile when there are so few. Women come in heights other than 5’3. 8 inches isn’t reasonable for half of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:11 PM
6

Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:06 PM
2

As a woman that dates politically left-leaning men, at least 70% of men I click with these days want to be child-free for life, as do three of my best female friends. It’s definitely a trend, I think. And makes it even more difficult for the few of us that still want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:40 AM
1

I don’t think in either of these examples the correct words are “making fun.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:35 AM
3

I am so confused by this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:33 AM
1

How are dogs related to whether you are red or blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:53 AM
3

I can tolerate an old cat, but my dog’s dream is to eat a cat one day, so that’s more of a problem. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:01 AM
3

lol, the van life guys. There’s so many now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:31 AM
14

Age: 30 to 40 Height: 5’4 to 6’0 (I’m 5’8.) Income: $60k/yr+ (This is less than me.) Race: No Preference Body Type: Skinny to a few extra pounds, not morbidly obese, no steroids. House/no house: No preference on house ownership. Prefer he doesn’t have roommates, although it’s not a strong preference. Kids/ no kids: No kids, but wants kids. Also, no cats. Other important things: Left-leaning politics, not religious, good relationship with his family I mean, these definitely sum up the basics I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:24 AM
1

If you’re boring and ugly, why do you think women should want you? https://www.instagram.com/reel/ChkpO-hgd_m/?igshid=ZDhmZGIxNmQ=
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:10 AM
-2

Verbal abuse is certainly still abuse, but comparing any of this to the physical abuse men commit is insane garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:03 AM
3

Are you censoring incel or is this a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:06 PM
1

You’re confused because you don’t see any heavier women “out and about”….? I am curious where exactly you are looking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:08 AM
1

And England is also fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:02 AM
5

Um, I don’t think this is everyone’s experience of male sexuality. Your inability to even be around a woman non-sexually is quite frankly frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:31 PM
3

Women phrase this very strangely and robotically. Bro, what? First of all, why is the way men talk about it the default that is somehow being deviated from? I have begun to think that a lot of women have very deep psychological issues about sex and it’s a triggering word. Women have deep psychological issues about men. Because men treat women as the other and sex as a currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:25 PM
1

Yes, I said people. Sometimes they forget that women are people. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:18 PM
17

That’s not really what the post is about. It’s about the people that come on here talking about how women denying them sex has left them completely without human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:14 PM
2

Yes. I have a therapist. I usually go in 6 months stints as needed. I enjoy it. The idea that you have to be “mentally ill” to go to therapy like people here keep saying is not accurate. Therapy is for developing coping skills, whatever it is you’re coping with. Clearly all the anti-therapy responses here are the most unhinged. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:32 AM
5

Wow, what a completely batshit hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:22 AM
2

Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:21 AM
2

What does this mean? How are men more alone? People are all still capable of having friends, family, social lives even while technically being “alone.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:41 PM
-1

And I feel like this experience is kind of burned me out on relationships and sex because if a man can virtually make a woman orgasm without penetrating her then what's the point? Uhhh… women are not out here cumming from dick penetration, bro. Literally not how it even works. Sorry you realized your dick isn’t magic?? But you clearly were not even familiar with the female orgasm to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:43 AM
1

A man might think he is “winning over” a woman when she changes her mind about him, but I highly doubt that it ever has to do with any “work” he has put in. Women can see an attractive man and not be interested because he looks like a douche, but change their mind when they find out he is not a douche. Women can meet a less attractive man and not be interested until she starts getting to know him. This is kind of just the nature of getting to know someone, since it can go the opposite way as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:01 PM
10

“A lot”?? Who have you been talking to? You know we have sex toys, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:05 AM
12

I’m not reading all this, but Case 1 encompasses all women. The dick has no value. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:53 AM
12

Yeah, I’ve literally never heard of this being an issue aside from between people in their teens and maybe early 20s. But those people are generally not looking for marriage unless you are from a religious community. why does this happen? Um, because of love, I would hope???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:51 AM
12

Also, I’m assuming previously promiscuous not presently promiscuous in their marriage….? Maybe. The idea that someone just is promiscuous forever is also dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:46 AM
1

True. He may have been a little conflicted in the beginning, but ultimately he wanted to be with Zae. Although, it was a horrible idea. He’s just young and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:28 AM
3

People make delusional posts here all the time about men and women that don’t even have a real world example, so using this very popular show is definitely a step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:18 AM
1

Zanab and Cole also did not have compatible personalities. That was the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:15 AM
8

It’s in the beginning of this post that he is essentially basing all of this on a time in the past when he had a total of three friends and one of them was a girl. And presumably, he has less friends than that now. So, it’s kind of just an imagining of what friends are like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:38 PM
1

No. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:47 PM
1

Obese is BMI 30+. Not sure where you got 25? The category below 30 is called overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:37 PM
1

lol, not you. The people calling her obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:08 PM
1

She’s not over 30. 🙄 Teenagers love to call adult women obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:30 AM
5

This is at least 1 date every 3 days, not including all the time spent swiping and chatting. I seriously doubt she has a job or any other responsibilities. Also, never going on a second date with anyone? That is not a normal, desirable, or healthy pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:26 AM
30

Oh, I know this guy. He likes Insane Clown Posse and smoking weed in the garage. He has a girlfriend. She smokes weed in the garage too. They’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:19 AM
1

Yeah, there’s no way I’m looking at 10,000 people. I feel like everyone is ignoring the fact that it’s physically too many to sort through. The worst thing about Tinder is that it’s just too many people. 90% of them are gross and I don’t want to sit on my phone swiping all day, so realistically I never get to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:19 PM
6

Well, for one, going to the gym does not make you high value. (This post makes it clear that you are a probably a nightmare.) For two, telling people to be embarrassed is weird as hell. Literally no one needs to be embarrassed about not being attractive to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:31 AM
6

Not only are many single women content, many non-single women are still lonely in the company of a man because the man does not actually fulfill her desire for companionship. Women’s loneliness is not related to sex, so when that is all that is offered, it’s worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:07 AM
1

I mean, I wasn’t counting an imaginary story where everyone ignores a sex worker at dinner because she’s so boring and commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:52 PM
3

Uh, I mean, I’m not sure how you think it’s more taboo than women doing the sex work. Most people that think sex work should be legal / regulated / accepted also think the same about men using those services. There is a big difference between believing it should be legal and wanting to personally date a sex worker or a man that pays for sex though. So yeah, women might respect your right to hire sex workers, but not want to be with you because of it. That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:48 AM
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Comfy. I’m cold. Looks better on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:42 AM
7

The porn on a regular porn site is way more extreme than OnlyFans. I literally can’t even look at it because I don’t want to see a half dozen gaping assholes trying to find a video of something normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:44 PM
6

…I don’t think the average person is actually paying for OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:24 PM
2

It’s rude to ask a person of any gender what they “bring to the table” as if it’s a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:03 PM
16

How is what someone does with their own body unfair to men/you?? I don’t know you/these men. I am not going to consider you when living my own private life. That is… crazy…?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:40 AM
2

Physical ends up being such a small factor. Most people in my age bracket that are in a public place (event, bar, restaurant, etc.) are not ugly to me. I’m just not attracted to people I’m walking around near and not actively engaging with. Once I talk to someone, other things come into play… social skills, culture, political leanings, general intelligence, humor… that can be picked up on pretty fast and be immediate turn offs. That’s when I do the attraction assessment. Plus, the way a person’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:51 AM
5

You literally said the people outside are gross. It doesn’t seem like you’re observing a lot of non-anime people. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:10 AM
2

You have superior upper body strength? You can’t equate two things that aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:09 AM
2

Why are you even talking and commenting like this when you said you’re only attracted to anime people and have no relationship experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:06 AM
3

Go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:05 AM
0

I have never once thought, if only this guy had more upper body strength, I would perceive him as attractive. Grow up / get with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:01 AM
-1

Thirded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:59 AM
3

I’m just not very physically attracted to a man until they start speaking and usually it’s the speaking that makes them unattractive. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Lots of men just care about what women look like and what she says has very little impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:56 AM
2

I love it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:59 PM
12

Are you in your 30s? Because I feel like most people that talk like this on this sub are teenagers or early 20s. And then, men that are on this sub in their 30s and married talking like this……. I feel bad for their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:58 PM
5

Who are they selling all their tickets to then? 🧐 https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-live-reviews/bts-live-show-sofi-stadium-1263947/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:26 AM
10

Oh, sorry. I didn’t realize I live in Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:17 AM
1

This is a very spot-on post. Women want Tate and Blizarian for their fame or money, not because they are physically desirable. Whereas, women would be paying money to blow Harry Styles even if he was a shoe salesman because he is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:16 AM
13

Please, explain why women love K-Pop stars then. Tate and Blizarian are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:02 AM
1

In real life? I don’t think that will go over well, but give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:11 PM
1

Hm. That doesn’t sound murdery at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:36 PM
2

Yes. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:34 PM
8

Jesus Christ. Stop saying “maidenless.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:34 PM
3

How can they care if they don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:22 PM
1

Are you sure? Because no one has asked me how many people I’ve slept with in the last 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:17 PM
1

……. I do not have friends like this. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:50 AM
3

Obviously not the norm. I would have never dated a man in his 30s as a teen or in my early 20s. I briefly hooked up with a 28 year old when I was 21, and when I would tell my friends about him, I would start by saying “Well, he’s kind of old, but…” lol. I’m in my 30s now and still don’t date men more than 5ish years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:49 AM
6

I have certainly rejected men that people here would think are 9s or 10s on their dumb scale, but it was because I was just legitimately not attracted to them. Women have a much broader range of things they find attractive. While I am able to recognize that someone that looks like a Hemsworth brother is attractive, that’s just not what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:22 AM
2

I just couldn’t figure out why that was a city that is worth mentioning to exemplify the ugliness of America, since people outside of that area would not have heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:29 PM
3

Laredo? lol. Is this a typo? What the hell is Laredo? LA as in Los Angeles or Louisiana? Because this is not adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:21 AM
7

664? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:16 AM
5

You can’t trick us into thinking you have any experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:14 AM
1

lol, I specifically said that does not murder people. I was specifically referring to the superficial charm, narcissism, sexual promiscuity, inability to experience romantic love, and lack of empathy. I don’t think there’s clear distinction between terms for that type of person, but psychopath is def one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:50 AM
3

Yeah, I think he’s aromantic at least. Maybe a psychopath though, honestly. (Not the kind that murders people. afaik.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:53 PM
6

Maybe he’s ugly now, but when he’s 70, he’ll look pretty good for an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:32 AM
6

You don’t understand the nature of normal people it seems, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:07 AM
7

So, doing anything except being a sex object to you makes women masculine…… k. You are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:05 AM
2

I think the sodomy part is relevant only because men don’t have a vagina, so… that’s obviously the only entrance. The trafficking part is overkill for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:02 PM
0

I didn’t see the original post, but were we assuming that is the only thing we’re trading and the threat of sexual violence remains the same….?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:17 AM
1

Yeah, no one here is ever really talking about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:32 AM
4

On an average day, I see zero men I find attractive. I’m not really looking though, so I probably wouldn’t notice if there were any attractive men around. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:00 PM
0

BM means bowel movement.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 04:50 PM
7

If men don’t want to be seen as sex-crazed simpletons, they should stop making posts like this one. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:38 AM
7

I am not familiar with who this person is, but that was enjoyable.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 04:27 AM
19

I stopped reading after the first paragraph because it was so ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:27 AM
0

I try to get my boyfriend to be my sugar baby all the time, but he insists he would “feel bad” if he didn’t earn his own money. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:40 AM
64

I too read a lot of responses on this sub and wonder if there’s a lot of men from non-Western countries. It has to be that or teenagers just imagining hypothetical situations not based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:04 AM
3

Gross. At least you’re married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:44 PM
2

A common one that means you’re just going on dates but aren’t exclusive would be, “Tom and I are seeing each other”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:23 PM
2

…..what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:20 PM
9

That’s fine. I’m hoping this stops them from breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:19 PM
1

I am not interested in psychos that think I should be committing myself after a two hour date with someone I know nothing about…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:18 PM
0

Wow, -17 karma. You are popular. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:19 PM
14

lol, is it? Because I’ve seen a lot of people try real hard without succeeding….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:42 PM
2

Doesn’t want to admit that he loses sexual value when not around a high density of horny college students. As if the college town is the more representative of real life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:52 PM
16

I don’t think anyone is really made out to be the bad guy in that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:24 PM
20

Wrong. I love skinny pretty boys. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:29 PM
1

It literally says you used to be obese in your post history…..? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:54 AM
1

“Super unattractive”?? Please. Dad bods are not obese. They are just regular dudes. I’m sure someone finds you “super unattractive” too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:30 PM
2

Yeah, but being fit also doesn’t make you not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:27 PM
2

I dated someone long-term that is 6’5 and a couple years later dated someone even longer-term that was 5’5. Never thought about it. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:13 PM
5

True. Obesity rate in LA by all appearances is much lower. Maybe in California in general. I’m in Northern California in a restaurant with 35 people right now and only 4 are noticeably overweight, which is not really enough for me to even comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:34 AM
6

Why can’t men grasp that not only is the sexual attention of men not valued but also not wanted and has nothing to do with loneliness!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:22 AM
2

I mean, like others have mentioned, a man doesn’t have to be a conventionally attractive hot dude to sexually attract a woman with more than ‘meh’ enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:59 PM
1

Well, a dude I’m in love with beats out a random hot dude that’s good at banging that I don’t give a fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:13 PM
2

Being hot does not equal being good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:07 PM
4

Out of the loop. What is Q4W? Edit: Wait, question for women. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:05 PM
4

I don’t know if it is the halo effect. My most beautiful friends are also lovely people. I’m sure I have met shitty attractive people, but none that have ever been close to me, so it’s hard to say. I think people get nicer and more pleasant when everyone around them treats them well because of their attractiveness. Edit: 95% of my friends are lovely people. I’m not necessarily saying the super hot ones are more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:32 PM
6

I hate agreeing with this, but the most unpleasant women with the worst attitudes I’ve ever met were also all obese unattractive women with just generally shitty lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:26 PM
0

Thats because validation from men is so plentiful that its basically worthless. Yes, this is true. It’s plentiful, but it’s also at least 50% lies, so that adds to its worthlessness. I do compliment men all the time, as well as other women. I think it’s mostly just about being a genuine human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:20 AM
1

No, because I literally just wrote about a woman’s experience, not a man’s. I didn’t explain why men are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:55 AM
3

Well then, seems like it’s a good idea for men to start finding other sources of validation instead of depending on and blaming women that don’t share their values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:25 PM
14

Nothing and I mean nothing can substitute validation from the opposite gender. As a woman, I legitimately do not get this. In my experience, women put a lot of value in validation from other women and coworkers. Validation from men is just not on the top of my list as far as meaningful validation. I guess because compliments from men generally have ulterior motives and therefore it’s difficult to determine if they are truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:11 PM
3

………………..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:09 AM
4

I don’t think your grammar edit worked. And I am still at loss as to why you think “a strong male figure”, NOT in someone’s household because they are adults, has to do with anything .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:35 AM
8

I don’t know what country you live in (??) or culture you are… but as an adult American woman, my father (in his 60s) is retired, lives in a different city, and has no say over anything I do in my life. I visit him on holidays and call him on the phone once a month. There is no way he would have had much if any say in my romantic life or whether I wanted to cooperate with police or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:38 PM
4

Weird assumption honestly. Why would they take their fathers with them? lol. These women probably have fathers in their 60s or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:58 PM
2

Time is a social construct. Can we all just go home now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:20 AM
4

lol, what. the. fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:44 PM
3

No offense, but I think this was probably reflective of your body shape because my friends that are around the same height and weight are wearing a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:42 PM
1

Size 0 is impossible for me at 5’8. Size 0 is generally even smaller than normal skinny for most women, more attainable if you’re 5’2 or under though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:40 PM
2

lol, as much as I think the other points are stupid, size 0 is just not true as a desired trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:36 PM
2

I’m not sure why this is hard to understand. If you’re saying someone is boyfriend/husband material, it means you have possible emotional feelings for them, in addition to sexual feelings. Otherwise, maybe a dude is lame but still hot, so you have only sexual feelings. You want to bang both of them, but if emotions are involved, you want the first time to be special/meaningful/planned. Girls shave regardless and not just for sex. It makes you feel more confident and sexy. Or like, maybe you will…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:40 PM
14

Interesting. I am very attracted to his original Wolverine physique. The second picture doesn’t register in my brain as a human, so I feel nothing when I look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:36 PM
2

Classes, hobbies, activities of any sort… find an interest. Also, therapy is a big one, so… they have app based therapy you can try now too.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:44 PM
3

Sounds like your version of try is not the same as everyone else’s version of try.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:34 PM
4

Try again. Try doing something. Anything really. Or lie down and die to sad music like the Elephant Man. I mean, your choice.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:32 PM
1

gave their best years to frat guys Why would someone want to be with you if you think their best years are behind them……? Wait, are you looking for a teenager? Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:31 PM
2

Medication?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:26 PM
3

Well, sounds like you need to work on yourself then, like someone else mentioned. Or find a boring woman with no passions…?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:22 PM
1

I have matched with a couple people on OLD because I had already seen them around town and knew what they were like, not sure I would have otherwise. Also, I saw an old coworker on OLD with HORRIBLE photos and profile, but he was actually fairly attractive and a nice guy in person. A lot of attractiveness doesn’t really translate into photos and text for some men, and I’m sure women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:14 PM
9

Be passionate about something and share it with her. Equal parts you taking the initiative and asking her what she wants first, quality time together and space apart. No one wants one or the other all the time.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 08:03 PM
1

Or maybe those women used to be 18, 21, whatever age and remember the 30+ year old men that pursued them and the experiences that followed. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:34 AM
0

A marketing and economics paper from 2006* whose main finding was “There is no evidence for strategic behavior.” Edit: Sorry, it looks like written in 2006 and published 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:31 PM
11

lol, right… she is not 21. Easily 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:05 PM
-1

OLD does not control for other variables either. Trying to judge someone based on a written description and a few pictures is a completely different process than seeing someone in real life and knowing if you are/aren’t attracted to them. Are we accounting for all the OLD date fails where one of the people didn’t meet expectations because the profile wasn’t actually an accurate representation of themselves? Because how do those count towards “dating success”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:50 PM
5

I mean, ok, if this is based on dating profiles / people seeing the heights written. I just mean that in real life, the difference is not as noticeable as you’re saying. When someone is already taller than you, it’s hard to discern the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:34 PM
19

Women that “ew” at short men are literally my enemies. Although, I don’t particularly enjoy all the red pill / black pill dudes whining about height all the time on Reddit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:29 PM
36

I 100% agree with this. One of the reasons I got banned from FDS was for pointing out how hypocritical it was of them to call short men LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:26 PM
3

…where are we getting the information on difference in dating success between 5’10 and 6’2 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:23 PM
14

Ew, what the fuck. Why are you purchasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:10 PM
2

Oh, my source in this case is just Reddit posts. In my real life, there is no prevalence of anyone complaining they can’t find a partner amongst those around me, unless you count my mom… but she’s a 60 year old divorcée, so I don’t think anyone here is concerned about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:01 AM
6

Yeah. I’m also confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:27 PM
11

Except seems like there’s way more men complaining that they can’t find anyone than women of any age or weight, so…..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:13 PM
1

Hooray! 💥
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 10:39 PM
4

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:30 AM
2

I like to joke with my friends all the time that only hoes or former hoes are funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:28 AM
-2

I think maybe you just aren’t that horny, so you don’t understand. Hahaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:25 AM
1

I have a boyfriend now, but previously, I felt great about it. I’m older and almost exclusively around liberal/open people, so I never really had to deal with any negative feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:23 AM
2

Autistic? What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:20 AM
7

I feel concerned when people tell me they become enraged by their own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:44 AM
4

Enrages? lol, Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:27 AM
5

I think you (and others) are missing the “primarily mental” part of it… acting on you could mean doing something that caused you to form an impression/thought, not literally physically acting on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:29 AM
21

Is it? I feel like we are reactive to our own thoughts…. There doesn’t need to be any visual stimulus and the vibrator is just a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:26 AM
3

I have never been turned on just from looking at a man. Da fuq.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:22 AM
-2

Oh, shut up. She was just talking about that weird false confidence that bros project, which is itself awkward and off putting. It’s like when you see a bad actor on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:57 PM
1

I don’t care about my dating life because I already have a partner. And then I have to work 40 hours plus commute. I’m not going to spend my free time in a gym. Physical activity outside of that, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:58 AM
2

lol, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:56 AM
3

Uhh, not quite. They drifted apart eventually though. This was many years ago. We are all in our 30s now. They are both married with new babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:39 AM
2

It was before. It was a small town friend circle where everyone dated everyone else. We’re all still friends. Don’t worry. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:09 AM
9

A friend of mine (F, early 20s at the time) and my ex (M, mid-20s at the time) were good friends. They worked together. She was a single mother. He would come around and play with her kid or take him out for food or whatever, but he had no romantic interest in her. She tried to initiate, but he politely declined. He’s Arab-American and raised Muslim. One day, she tells him out of the blue that she has converted to Islam so that he can be with her. Everyone was puzzled to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:09 PM
3

It is excluding any physical relationship, including friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:04 PM
4

Aww.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:50 PM
2

I saw the title and assumed this was about job interviews until I saw the sub. 🥴 What the heck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:02 PM
1

They are mostly insane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:02 AM
1

The sub “Female Dating Strategy”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:10 AM
1

Yes, with my ex-partner of 7 years and with my current forever partner. This sub combines my interests of reading about relationships / giving advice and reading about how crazy people think. Edit: Oh, also, I got banned from FDS for being logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:41 AM
4

lol, same. I lurk all the subs that have nothing to do with my life just out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:35 AM
0

Well, kind of. He was too shy when it came to romantic interaction. Made it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:14 AM
1

If a woman can wait months, she has a really low sex drive, so you would have to realize that regardless if it’s a good reason or not, you may not be sexually compatible anyway. And for sure, there are women and men out there with low sex drives, so no hate. Edit: I will also say that I have been in the reverse situation fairly recently, where on date three with a man, the physical part was progressing so slowly that it seemed like it would take ages to get to the sex part. It turned out he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:36 PM
1

A natural progression of kinkiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:25 PM
2

Air chokes made me think you were talking about mimicking choking in the air…. like air guitar… or Darth Vader.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:24 PM
1

Sorry, my brain has only been warped by the works of 18th century libertine the Marquis de Sade. But seriously, women do not discover most of their sexual interests via porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:20 PM
-1

Owning a cat. Using the word “panties.” Gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:00 PM
3

Well, it’s easy for him to say he’d want this or that when he doesn’t have sex and is just fantasizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:21 PM
3

Practicality was a poor word choice, but also your boobs basically have no impact on the mechanics of sex, so that is not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:38 PM
1

I think it’s just a misunderstanding / misinterpretation. I know what she means. Regular dicks are a lot more versatile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:33 PM
0

Ok, well, I was specifically commenting on the “not healthy” part of your comment, not the chubby part. I don’t care who is and isn’t chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:33 AM
2

You can have fat (in the overweight BMI range, not obese) and be healthy, particularly if you’re a woman and don’t carry much visceral fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:33 PM
5

People like different things. Chill out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:41 PM
26

“Women’s attraction is activated” lol, that is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:38 PM
1

They both look attractive to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:37 PM
2

Ohhh, I’ve never thought about combining my ass and/or crotch with giant molecular models / unsafe mixing of chemicals on the ground. That way I can let people know I am both horny and a scientist. Thanks for the ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:23 AM
1

No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:14 AM
-2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:08 AM
1

These boys aren’t ugly, but they certainly have a “something is off” mentally ill vibe. More apparent from the other pictures from this same dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:28 PM
8

I was about to say… that woman is not my age….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:25 PM
-1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:24 PM
12

Right. All we proved here is that women like good qualities and dislike bad qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:33 AM
3

Well, I said it would have swayed some people. I for one would not want to have children with a stupid man, so low IQ is a dealbreaker for dating. I saw a few people mentioning mental illness, but no one mentioning the autism, probably out of political correctness. Also depends how everyone is interpreting “facially unattractive.” I’ve been attracted to people that aren’t conventionally attractive, so it would depend if the “unattractive” is my opinion or the general public’s opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:10 AM
5

lol, what? That’s the part you had a problem with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:07 AM
13

Well, call me an asshole, but… I don’t think an autistic person of low intelligence can just learn to be charismatic/charming. So, 1st is a figment of imagination. 2nd has a pretty face, big dick, and is naturally good at math? Yes. Great. Our children will be amazing. I mean, if you had made the first guy the smarter one, you would have swayed some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:01 AM
1

I think we just went to different types of schools. No one stands out as a “star” amongst 35,000 students. And my school was like 75% science nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:32 AM
2

I’m in California, so I think the rural south probably has more experience in the area of fraternity worshipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:57 AM
3

Fuckbois like boring sex. That’s why they don’t care if they only have it once per person. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:58 PM
2

What is a frat star? 😂 I think I missed the memo when I was in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:57 PM
1

‘Who cares. Why are you writing an essay about this?’ is my immediate reaction to 50% of the posts on here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:55 PM
0

Why are you posting this person’s profile when they haven’t done anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:50 PM
10

Yeah, I think this is definitely a parenting issue, and the reason it’s more common in men is because of the difference in the way parents treat children of opposite genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:10 PM
9

Cheers. I hope your superior genetics survive the water wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:02 AM
9

It’s ok. I don’t want my children to be a part of an idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:52 AM
10

Sorry, I don’t have any sort of desire or instinct to accept men for the sake of the species. I guess I evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:45 AM
8

Sorry about your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:32 AM
7

I found a pick-up artist type book on the bookshelf of someone I was dating. That was pretty upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:23 AM
9

Wow. This comment makes me want to never look at a man again. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:17 AM
18

This made me want to cry just reading it. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:11 AM
10

I knew a group of Brazilian women musicians (acquaintances) that told me one of the main reasons they decided to live in the US permanently was because of the culture of misogyny / sexual violence in Brazil. Just one anecdote, but some evidence that many women do not enjoy the “socially open” aspect of Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:44 AM
2

I got 9.2%. I think that’s fine…? My preferences were: 29-39, not married, not obese, 5’4 or taller, any race, 50k or more income Not sure why this makes me an “aspiring cat lady” though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:37 AM
10

Sorry, they suck, but so do conservative Christians and cops. It’s well documented. Also, why the fuck is them being POC one of your points?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:37 PM
2

Elongate… your shaft…? What is going on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:32 PM
9

lol, ok, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:18 PM
3

I didn’t bring it up. I just responded to some whack shit they were already saying (that women who like BDSM are mentally ill and being abused by men for their pleasure).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:49 PM
15

I didn’t make a post. I was just responding to their bullshit talking trash about other women. Incessantly. I knew where I was? If they don’t want people to even respectfully disagree with them or defend themselves, why are they operating a public forum? It’s just an echo chamber of the narrowest viewpoint that doesn’t leave room for anyone that isn’t an angry, stick-up-their-ass fascist harpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:48 PM
3

What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:44 PM
2

Aw. 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:25 PM
6

They’re both hate groups. They should just date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:25 PM
32

I was banned for saying that women who enjoy BDSM are not mentally ill / being abused by men. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I get the sense that they’re all conservative Christian types, so that might explain it…?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:20 PM
6

Ew, have you met engineers? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:16 PM
1

I met my first boyfriend in high school in a Star Wars bowling club, so I’m not sure how I could manage to mature into liking anyone geekier than that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:51 AM
2

Lots of women don’t want “Chad”, the same way that not all men want a Victoria’s Secret model or something. Yes, everyone understands why it’s the “ideal” body, but the reality is a lot of people just don’t care about it in the way people here make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:37 AM
2

Yeah, I kind of think they set it up that way with tall women to make it a better story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:37 AM
0

Well, I have dated several 5’6 men and they all managed to have multiple ex-girlfriends from before me, so I think the handsome ones are doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:03 AM
2

Online dating in 2006 doesn’t look anything like today. That was before apps. But also, this data is whack. The majority of us are not dating people of any height that make over $150,000 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:36 AM
3

Right. I’m 5’8 and I date men as short as 5’4, but I don’t think I could go shorter than that just because of the weirdness of our bodies fitting together. There are plenty of shorter women that should, in theory, not have a problem with men that short though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:15 AM
7

Yeah, it definitely seemed like all the women were tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:54 PM
-2

I don’t think women today are quite as brutal as this, but the choices would probably still be similar. I don’t think a reasonably attractive 5’6 man with a career (whatever it is) would have trouble finding a woman today. The 5’ and 5’3 men would still have problems because they are outside the range of “normal” height. The 5’3 guy in the video was just not very attractive compared to the others anyway, so he was already at a disadvantage. The 5’6 guy was handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:47 PM
1

How is this related to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:30 AM
9

Most valuable commodity? Gross. You sound like a sex trafficker. Also, what imaginary STI is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:13 AM
1

And as I wrote in another comment: “as an adult woman, I am not interested in anyone that is not experienced in intimate communication, problem-solving/compromise, work/relationship balance, etc.” Things that come from relationship experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:13 AM
1

All of those examples are included. What is the problem with those things? Some women also don’t want marriage. Lots of people are polyamorous. That’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:10 AM
2

I... what? Ok. Thanks for telling me about yourself, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:37 AM
3

I mean, my statement is a little age-dependent. I wouldn’t expect a teenager or someone in their early 20s to necessarily have a lot of relationship experience. But those people are outside of my age bracket. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:51 PM
3

I mean, if your past relationships are so much “baggage” that you are bitter and can’t be a good partner anymore, that’s a personal problem. But as an adult woman, I am not interested in anyone that is not experienced in intimate communication, problem-solving/compromise, work/relationship balance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:47 PM
4

I agree that there’s “high n-count” and then there’s HIGH. More than 50 is ridiculous. Not that I ever ask anyone how many people they’ve been with, but I feel like you can just tell who the 50+ club is. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:23 AM
32

Men without relationship experience are the worst. I don’t even care about the n-count. You’ve never kept a partner for over a year? Get away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:18 AM
5

It’s the responsibility of both parties to care about the other’s pleasure. I think, the only time it is seen as “shameful” is when men are demanding/expecting a level of sexual enthusiasm from a woman that is not sexually attracted to them or not in the mood or otherwise not interested in sex at that time. And if she is always not interested, then that is a problem with the relationship, not purely about sex.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/21 11:25 PM
19

Um... yes, that would be a part of their “job” in a relationship. I’m not sure that is really a particular view. Who would want to be with someone that doesn’t care about pleasing them?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/21 04:16 PM
3

Unfortunately, you don’t have to be a very beautiful woman to be approached and objectified all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:08 AM
-2

I find the number of women on this post saying they like muscular guys only kind of suspicious. As a woman that lives in the world and has other women friends, I can definitely say that most women like “dad bods.” A little thick (rectangle shape) with a hairy chest and little belly. No version of the sexy dad bod includes balding or obesity. I think the dad bod is a more natural masculine body type to be attracted to when compared to a hairless over-muscled over-groomed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:45 AM
3

I don’t think baldness is included in anyone’s idea of a sexy dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:33 AM
10

The problem is you don’t really have experience at 17. And that’s a harder pill to swallow. 🙃
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 05:39 PM
5

When you get older and realize how inconvenient it is to put up with the bullshit of another person, you are single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:27 AM
8

It’s a good point that you can still find these things in certain groups in the US, like the very poor or the very religious. I don’t know what countries you are thinking of when you say “the demand for men is higher and the women put in more effort,” but it’s unlikely to be a western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:24 AM
2

Uh, k.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:27 AM
1

Uh..... pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:24 AM
3

Oh no, not the touch AIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:43 PM
1

I’m more concerned about his unsettling body proportions, including a freakishly tiny ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:42 PM
8

I’m always confused by people bringing up serial killers on TRP/incel subs. None of the people in their life knew they were rapists and/or killers, and they were mostly very socially skilled / charming. That is not proof of anything. Women that like serial killers that are in jail are just strange mentally ill fanatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:39 PM
10

If my boyfriend doesn’t let me peg him, he doesn’t love me. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:29 PM
1

Agree. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:54 PM
2

Also, note that r/datingover30 is less than 1/10th the size of r/dating_advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:34 AM
1

The big, general subs, like r/relationship_advice and r/dating_advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:29 AM
1

No one laments not being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 04:09 AM
2

As someone that does browse that sub, I can tell you that I got exhausted browsing and responding on the general non-age specific dating subs, so I prefer that one now instead. I don’t feel connected to the relationship problems teenagers/early 20s people post about. Maybe men are not as age discriminatory, so aren’t interested in a 30+ only dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 04:03 AM
3

How can a person in high school be anything pill? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:48 AM
2

I’m sorry... did you just say “tik for tak”? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:44 AM
1

Literally just browsed these comments to see if anyone is mentioning this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:40 AM
18

Not that part, dude. The 50% more men are killed by intimate partners. Your total number of intimate partner homicides (men and women combined) is too low, for one. For two, roughly twice as many women are killed by intimate partners. For three, the stats also include male homosexual intimate partner homicides. And for four, if you consider non-fatal intimate partner violence, the number of female victims is 5 times higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:35 AM
9

If the numbers you are stating were correct, this would be true. But it seems like all the published government sources are not corroborating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:11 AM
3

I’m a woman in my early 30s. I date men in the 25-40 range. It’s very obvious to me that peak physical attractiveness in men is 27-29. Not that I don’t enjoy them beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:21 AM
7

All throughout my 20s, I can only think of a single female friend who dated a man more than 6 years older than her. In my 30s, I still only know a handful of women dating much (7+ years) older men. I would have been super weirded out if any of my friends were dating a 30 year old man when I was 18. 30 year olds were ancient to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:14 AM
4

What on earth are you talking about....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:39 AM
2

My favorite is how so many of the things women might call men—fuckboi, dog, pig, dick, manchild—are based on how men mistreat women, but all these slurs men call women are based on men being disapproving or jealous of how women conduct their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:12 PM
4

It’s ridiculous that anyone even needs to point out that “women’s personalities can vary quite a bit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:32 AM
6

Hate to break it to you, but I don’t think she’s coming back, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:46 AM
3

Well, I think the reason 1 out of 3 men is undatable in the first place is because they are mentally unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:09 PM
6

About a third of men being undatable seems pretty spot on to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:49 PM
2

Me neither. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:58 AM
9

Too much truth for this sub. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:40 AM
1

I have never heard a person say “n count” in real life, and I definitely wouldn’t encourage it because you would sound like a crazy person. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:37 AM
1

She’s probably interesting...? What? How are these things correlated at all? ...and what is this one “type”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:34 AM
2

Is any man that has regular sex a Chad and disqualified from being a normie or...? Sorry, I don’t know the rules. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:30 AM
2

Yikes. Sorry about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:27 AM
3

Why is this post about women? Like 20% of men in my city write this same thing on their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:46 PM
7

Men are always on their phones, too. So, I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:28 AM
1

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:59 PM
2

Is this... a serious comment...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:57 PM
2

You have no idea who you are swiping on. Half of people don’t look like their picture or have a weird vibe in person or are otherwise stupid/rude/strange/who knows. That does not represent “what you actually want”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:34 PM
-1

Yeah, I wasn’t really talking about swiping on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:07 PM
2

Uh, sexual harassment is a thing. It’s not as if violent rape is the only thing we don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:11 PM
1

Ok, I don’t know what to tell you about your one crazy friend example. She sounds like she has problems. However.... Women have their guard up when being approached by men in the wild because they have been approached many times before, and it makes us annoyed and defensive. Yes, it may be that not everyone that approaches or talks to us is trying to fuck us, but a lot are and better to be safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:01 PM
50

A person that is intellectually, emotionally, and physically compatible with you to the point that you could sustain a happy, healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:47 PM
19

Eh, I don’t really believe that. My tastes don’t even overlap with my friends’, generally. Sure, the most conventionally beautiful men and women are desired by more people. But I personally don’t know anyone that is ending up “empty-handed” because of chasing the unattainable / too much competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:44 PM
88

Depends on what you mean. The percentage of men I find physically attractive is considerably larger than the percentage of men I would like to date or have sex with. I don’t want to date/sleep with someone just because they are technically physically attractive. But yeah, the percentage of men I would actually date is small. I feel like it should be for everyone if you’re really looking for true compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:22 PM
1

I guess I’m not a slut. Who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:31 AM
2

Haaaaaaaaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:49 AM
3

lol, no and ew. What’s wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:22 AM
3

Their sexual market value to me is 0. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:13 AM
3

lol, average? No. I will admit he is an attractive man, but you can’t tell me that hair and bone structure comes from “taking care of himself”. The number of men in their 40s that look like this is few enough, that I rarely even meet any (like, non-romantically just out in the world). Although, there were more when I lived in LA. I don’t even date men in their 40s at 32. I decided they weren’t my cup of tea after a couple of attempts. And it wasn’t that they were not attractive, it was more that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:59 AM
3

I guess all the dudes I date are figments of my imagination then. That’s a more logical explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:24 AM
3

Chads can still go bald and gray and wrinkled or flabby like everyone else. Just because you had the genetics to be hot at 25, does not mean you will age like a fine wine and still look that way at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:23 AM
2

It’s not shallow to want to date a fully realized adult man instead of a man-child. It’s not about what job he has. It’s that he has fulfilled some of his own personal goals, is emotionally intelligent, and knows how to balance a relationship with a career and other hobbies/recreation/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:18 AM
3

Depends where you live, but either way, everyone knows this isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:13 AM
3

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:10 AM
4

You want my youth? Are you a vampire? Get outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:08 AM
6

No thanks. Call me crazy, but I prefer orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:07 AM
4

Fuckbois are only physically enjoyable (sometimes). So, once you realize you have to put up with their personalities to enjoy that aspect of them, they become repulsive. I’m sure some men feel this way about whatever the female equivalent is also.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:59 AM
43

I seemed to have more options when I (female) was 22, but really they were not quality options—just a bunch of dumb 20-somethings that also didn’t know what they were doing in life yet. I wasn’t picky because I hadn’t realized what I was even looking for yet. There definitely weren’t a whole lot of accomplished, financially stable men wanting to hang out with me. Now that I’m 32, I guess there are less suitors, but I only entertain quality people with real jobs that I really like, and it’s a mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:27 PM
4

You must be living in a magical paradise where a lot of attractive men exist on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:11 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:23 PM
10

What even is “attention” in this context? Because we can all get attention without fucking. This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:47 AM
5

Soooo, everyone’s a slut. You and her included. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 10:12 PM
6

I’m sure she’s thrilled that you primarily dated “sluts” before her. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 10:00 PM
-5

Yeah, but... why are we assuming they are pretending instead of taking their words at face value? Why isn’t it fine to like that your fiancé/husband did not spend a bunch of money on a piece of jewelry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:14 PM
37

Also, don’t date or marry men that care about sexual history. It’s just a sign of insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:47 AM
12

For real, he’s literally gaslighting her all the time. The condescending tone of voice he uses when he speaks to her makes me want to scream. I hope she wakes up one day and realizes she is 10x smarter and more attractive than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:55 AM
9

Women with vaginismus. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:27 AM
9

Yeah, they are the only real success story. But I like to watch the train wreck of everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:04 AM
19

Mined diamonds are unethical, and the inherent value of diamonds is fake. I’m not impressed by a man that throws away his money and doesn’t care about the earth we live on. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:02 AM
20

I wish Giannina would realize her worth because Damian is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:54 AM
36

Uhhh, in my book, Barnett is not a HVM. He is a fuckboi. He and Amber deserve each other. Jessica should be sentenced to jail time for giving wine to her dog like a psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:50 AM
1

Does he watch a lot of porn? Sometimes men lose their desire for real sex because they become so conditioned to masturbating to porn.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:52 AM
125

I literally just had this conversation twice recently, once with someone I was casually dating and once with a male friend, about how I don’t think it’s a compliment when they tell me I am not like other girls. I explained that it seems like they are either a) implying that they have a problem with the way the majority of other women are or b) dismissing the way I feel/behave as something atypical and non-representative of women. We are all individuals with different likes, dislikes, opinions, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:30 AM
0

lol, right? I was taken aback by this also. As someone that has been surrounded by entertainment industry types at certain points in my life, I wholly disagree. Actors are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:47 PM
71

Wow. Yeah, that was very disappointing to watch. Things people should know in the very beginning stages of dating. The last part where that guy says he is the more generous lover and she is appalled was the most cringe though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:13 PM
14

You can have casual sex and still be discerning about who your partners are. There is a vast difference in the sex drive from woman to woman. I promise that those of us with high sex drives that do experience vaginal orgasms are doing it for our own pleasure, not to be empowered. No one has ever tried to pee on me. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:53 PM
2

Ha. Well, I think she actually seems more like a Gemini, if it makes you feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:14 PM
70

Ok, but don’t you have to be wealthy already to be in most of these locations? Also, these are not real places to meet people like others have pointed out. And Great Gatsby parties are cringe, unless you are 50+ years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:25 PM
9

What even is their relationship if they don’t go on dates and don’t have sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:17 PM
13

Ew. That is definitely not true. I know plenty of men (platonic friends) that would never stoop to that level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:08 PM
24

lol. Now that I am over 30, I am constantly approached by younger men (20s) telling me they “like older women.” So much for that wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:06 PM
3

Access to technology and actively snooping are two different things. For instance, a man who seems nervous when you get near his phone at all is obviously a red flag. If you can’t touch his phone to like, change the station on Pandora or check the time, you know something’s up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:54 AM
1

To be fair, you weren’t actually intentionally snooping in that case... so, it kind of revealed itself. Haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:49 AM
0

Personal privacy is important, and you should never ask to look at his phone to snoop on him. Invasions of privacy are unforgivable to many people, me included. If you don’t trust him, you shouldn’t be in a relationship, regardless of whether he is actually hiding something. If he is cheating, there will be other signs. And if you need to look at his phone for proof, it is just for peace of mind as you are already walking out the door. There is no worthwhile relationship where you are always sus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:44 AM
10

I think 3 to 6 months is normal. Getting close to the year mark, I tend to raise an eyebrow and think something is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:31 AM
24

So many men lying about their age on dating apps. Most are clearly delusional. Like, do you really think you look 35 with that gray hair and leather skin, Gary? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:33 AM
2

I am absolutely guilty of fetishizing mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:09 PM
1

Ha. No. I was wild when I was 20 and had no desire to be in a relationship, although a few boys talked me into one. I was not a good girlfriend and did not have a very long attention span for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:33 AM
8

lol, are there any HVM of any age in any city on POF? Literally the worst of humanity on that app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:10 AM
1

Why do I want my girlfriends to talk about my boyfriend? I think I just want something new and not refurbished. Hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:51 AM
1

Ha. I won’t say that there aren’t some good teachings for self-improvement in TRP, but I don’t think that particular brand of human male is appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:34 AM
1

Eh, well, fuck that then. I don’t know if being needy or being pushy is worse. It’s equally annoying. The pushy part makes me feel actually threatened though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:00 AM
1

What exactly is the beta part?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:53 AM
1

I mean, really the pushy/aggressive part that I’m talking about I strongly associate with men that at least think they are “alpha”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:52 AM
1

What in my description seems like “caring” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:42 AM
0

I doubt anyone would consider the men I date (and actually enjoy) that are not needy and insecure to be alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:41 AM
2

Yes. This. I appreciate an assertive man, as in one that will take initiative. I’m an assertive woman myself. Aggression is not acceptable ever. In this case, I mean aggression as in rudely trying to force or coerce me to do something I do not want to do, like pushing me to do things his way after I already said it didn’t work for me and acting annoyed or angry when I don’t cave to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:34 AM
67

I think of nearly every man I have rejected over the last year, every single one displayed pushy/aggressive/temper tantrum type behavior. Honestly really surprised how common this is. Some also displayed jealous behavior very early. And at least 75% would not stop texting me incessantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:04 AM
1

After looking at this Morgin Riley person’s Instagram, I can see why you are talking about is alt-models and instahoes, which is a completely different thing to me and not really a music subculture. I am more concerned that she is a white woman with dreadlocks that is appropriating Native American culture in like 75% of her photos. (Which makes her definitely not woke.) That is just gross. Maybe more akin to the Burning Man crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:23 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:36 AM
3

I can’t say I’ve noticed a whole lot of modern day young people in the music scene living polygamous homeless lifestyles. Most of what you are describing seems a little off to me. Hipster festival-goers are not really the hippies of the ‘60s. Polyamory has become very popular amongst 25-35 year olds in general. I think nudity is definitely becoming less sexualized. I think, the trend towards meditation and crystals and other spiritual beliefs is because of a trend away from organized religion, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:35 AM
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Why does he think women want noogies!? Or is he just trying to appeal to children.....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:43 AM
2

I usually just listen to tone of voice, whether they laugh at my jokes or make their own jokes. The awkwardness is usually pretty obvious, in that they can’t socialize in a normal way. Also, dudes that ask a lot of questions like they are interviewing you for a job. And oversharing. If a dude says something too revealing or says “can I tell you something?” or anything weird like that, I run away. Like, I don’t know you and we haven’t met, why are you saying this me!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:19 AM
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Hearing men with age inappropriate women say “she is/was really mature for her age” makes my skin crawl. And I hear it all. the. time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:03 AM
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Oooof. I do not for the life of me understand why we consider 18 year olds adults. She is only 18 and has had previous bad experiences with Doms!? I’m guessing she has some sort of fucked up home life / parents situation because I don’t see how this would happen otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:59 AM
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New favorite meme template. I love Scully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:41 AM
1

5 o’clock shadow is the worst. I don’t like having my face sandpapered off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:51 PM
1

I don’t mind someone with less education. I just prefer that he is passionate about his work, whatever it may be, and that he has plans for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:47 PM
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I love talking on the phone before a date. I have avoided so many borderline autistic weirdos this way. I’m pretty blunt, so I usually just say, “Hey, do you want to talk on the phone before our date?” (Assuming the date is a few days or a week out.) or if we haven’t scheduled a date, “Hey, how do you feel about talking on the phone?”. If the guy says no or that he doesn’t like talking on the phone, I usually just stop talking to him. Most men are eager to talk on the phone because they want to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:41 PM
20

I am 5’8, and I love short men. Most men I date are in the 5’5 to 5’9 range. I’m actually of the opinion that it is easier to find a short HVM than a taller one. Plus, shorter is just my preference. Over 5’11 is a negative for me. I think I just like to be on the same eye level as my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:08 PM
1

Wait. How are my grandfathers’ professions coming into play here!? My grandfathers were an electrician and a mechanical engineer, which must not be good because I would totally have someone’s baby that I was cohabitating with. Uh oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:02 PM
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I’m guessing their “hostility” has something to do with how unpleasant typical male engineers are. Wild guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:52 AM
1

I am not waiting 3 months for the dick. That is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:19 PM
1

You clearly were not actually poly if you were harboring so much jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:29 PM
1

I mean, not sure what you consider poor. I’m too old to date teenagers or early-20-somethings that work part-time and live with their parents. But I date men with regular service jobs (restaurant industry, retail, etc.) all the time. And I have a 4-year degree and work in a STEM field.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:12 PM
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So, I’m disrespecting myself every time I go out with a poor dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:55 PM
1

But you didn’t mention gold-diggers in the post. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:47 PM
1

I don’t understand. How do you know there was one that didn’t want to be with her? What if she didn’t want to be with them? What if they were just drunk and didn’t contact each other afterwards because it was awkward? What if she never had sex with “the one who didn’t want to be with her”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:43 PM
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...do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:39 PM
1

“One of my girls”? Are you sure you weren’t just involved in sex trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:37 AM
2

Uhh, all the men a woman has casual sex with are “A-Class” men? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:31 AM
2

I would be happy with a stay at home husband, but it’s hard to find men that don’t end up feeling emasculated by not being the breadwinner. In my experience, men that say they are ok with it end up feeling resentful eventually, which is why I make more of an effort to date people of similar income/education level to me now. But my dad was a stay at home dad, and he really enjoyed it. He loved watching the kids, working on the house/yard, and volunteering at my school. He still talks about how it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:29 AM
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Right? You can get away with all the other things on this list, but not listening to someone’s problems or coming to their defense when needed is just some cruel narcissistic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:14 AM
0

When is a woman no longer a “random woman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 08:44 AM
0

Well, no harm in proposing some other free activity for a date (outdoorsy stuff comes to mind), but unfortunately you will still have to convince her you are a decent and entertaining human being to get your desired free play.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 08:35 AM
1

Truuuuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:55 AM
5

I don’t understand having weight standards when you aren’t specifying height. How does this even make sense? I would look like a concentration camp resident at 105 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:54 AM
4

American women also just have different body types than European women (depending what country you’re talking about). For example, a lot of Eastern European women have very small frames and narrow hips. When I was in Russia (with 8 or 10 other American girls), several people commented on how wide American girls’ hips are. The hourglass figure that is the standard of beauty here is not the same in other countries. 110 pounds at 5’5 is considered underweight regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:25 AM
5

Wha—😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:28 AM
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I feel like passive men and needy men are two separate types. My ex was very passive. It was actually one of the things that I found attractive in the beginning. I just thought he was very chill and go-with-the-flow. It didn’t become a real problem for many years. It made conflict resolution annoying and/or impossible, eventually resulting in communication breakdown. Needy men are insecure and terrible from the start. Constant texting, wanting to be in constant physical contact, professing their…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:16 PM
2

Who hangs out every single day? That is excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:02 PM
2

If someone can’t leave me alone for 10 days without throwing a fit, I’m not interested. Being busy with work or school is a perfectly normal situation. I’m not opposed to occasional texts or a 10 minute phone call, but some of us need our solitude to focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:58 PM
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