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Thank you! I also appreciate your point of view. It was very helpful and brought me down to earth, so to say.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 03:46 PM
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He’s well traveled and also lived overseas, so I believe he has a passport. I don’t know how much he knows about the process, but he also works in an agency for refugees, and maybe he’s aware of the bureaucratic aspect of it. But I’m afraid you’re right about questioning him not being prepared for that. First of all, we have to meet in person and he already mentioned he wants to do that (but didn’t mention a possible timeline). He also mentioned he cameback to live with his mother (didn’t mentio…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 03:01 PM
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He replied that he never said he was against his future wife being a SAHM. That if this was what God wanted from him, then he would accept it. I’m still not convinced and I truly don’t feel like he has naturally a provider mindset or even a protective nature. Maybe we are truly not a good match. Besides that, I believe he has mommy issues (his mother seems to be a very huge presence in his life in a bad/controlling/overbearing sense). He even told me his mother likes to scream and that his home …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 04:07 PM
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What are you doing in a red pill sub then? If you think just like any modern person out there?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 06:44 AM
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I will defend my views when he’s ready to talk. But I truly feel discouraged in thinking I have literally to explain why he should provide. Deep down, I fear he will always be resentful I’m not collaborating the way he thinks it’s good. There’s plenty of people who think sahms have it easy and don’t do “anything” and are not valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 03:42 PM
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Based on your text, it truly seems like he didn’t get over her. And if I was you, I would bring it up, because this is taking away your peace and trust. I would feel just like you. I don’t even think this has to do about jealousy, but like normal boundaries. He’s clearly feeding something in his head.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 02:54 PM
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Well why did he reply back then? Why just not reply or even delete the chat match?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 08:22 PM
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See? I also see this way. If a guy would say to me “hey I’m talking to somebody else for a while now, and I think they are the right person, that’s why I will pursue it” I would totally understand, then if he cameback I would FOR REAL be happy it didn’t work out, because that’s what dating is. I wouldn’t see myself as the second choice. But as another person he’s discerning with.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 08:19 PM
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I was talking to him for one week, and with the other for one month. Of course it was easy to decide because I didn’t know guy 2 for that long. For me it was not a disrespect. I simply entered in an exclusive relationship with the guy 1 because I knew him longer and I liked him, because I knew him better. Tell me what should I have done? Reject guy 1 exclusivity when I liked him enough to be exclusive?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 08:17 PM
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Ok, so to summarize the advice is I can’t do anything and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:27 PM
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Oh sorry to not be perfect. I wonder where should I press the button to automatically never worry about a THING in my life again. How dare women experience bad emotions??? How dare them being anxious in dating life?? I should ignore all my baggage and get a lobotomy so I can be only pleasurable to all men ever. “Get a life” you literally don’t know me 😂.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:08 PM
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This doesn’t seem a bad idea tho 🤣. The more I date more I see that all those rules are just fucked up, “show interest but not much”, “men like to compete, conquer women and they are hunters, but at the same time no, they don’t like to know the beautiful girl they are attracted to has other options”. For real, I give up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 05:42 PM
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The last man I showed high interest, felt “suffocated” and pulled away and that’s why I broke up with him and he was the guy 1 I mention in this text. What now?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 05:31 PM
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Yes lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 05:20 PM
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Why? I don’t want to hookup, this dating app is a Christian one. I truly don’t understand your logic. If a guy met a girl and this girl already had a bf, wouldn’t he understand? And later if this girl broke up with her bf and started talking to the other guy, would he feel like a back up plan or like people break up all the time and keep dating afterwards? I thought men liked competition.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 05:19 PM
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So there’s no way I can turn around the situation with this guy? That sucks. Should I bring this up with him then? Talk about it?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 04:58 PM
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So there’s no even a way of saying sorry to him? Or I don’t know fix it? Do you think he’s just talking to me on that app and not seeing multiple people?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 04:45 PM
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Do you think I’m the only woman he’s talking to? Lol like everybody is a backup in dating apps. People date multiple people at the same time. Should I just have ghosted him instead and comeback as if nothing happened?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 04:40 PM
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That’s good to hear, because I’m Brazilian and we are kinda traditional minded in this matter. Myself even more so because of Catholicism. So I really have the mindset of being feminine and taking care of myself, my family etc. But I also look for a man who is willing to be a leader you know? Masculine in this sense and I still don’t know so much about him, but yeah, I also hope he has the right mindset about his duties as a man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 03:37 PM
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Thank you for this perspective! I’m also Brazilian, normally Brazilians are very open to other cultures since we ourselves are a mixture of everyone in the world literally haha
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 03:10 PM
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Thank you so much for this! Very good insight!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 03:06 PM
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He’s literally her countryman.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:45 PM
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That’s a good idea! I can imagine myself doing it. But don’t you think he should come first to my country? (In case I ended up in another ldr). Like for him to prove he’s seriously and that he takes risks for me?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 01:45 PM
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Thank you for the insight. I already broke up with him and I’m not coming back. In the end he was a jerk, confused and passive who was leading me on. Besides that I agree I should known him in his daily activities, but I don’t think I would cohabit with a man before marriage. It’s against my views.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 11:20 AM
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That’s true. That’s why I broke up with him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 10:22 AM
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I know it’s very unlikely for ldr to work out, but I like challenges. I believe that if two people want something they can make it work. It doesn’t matter if the world is against it. Well, the big problem here is that I’m more willing to take risks as he is. I have my doubts still, but I move forward, he’s stuck. But thank you for your insight!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 01:42 AM
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One month and a half. I would be willing to move (and he knows that, since I pointed out some issues I have with my own country), but only if he married me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 01:26 AM
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Done.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 12:40 AM
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At this point, I despise online dating/dating apps. It simply not for me. Actually I’m waiting to meet someone organically and we don’t work at the same building per say, so if something happens, there’s some space for us not to see each other ever again lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:30 PM
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I don’t think so, because I receive a lot of messages from profiles I don’t like lol so…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 12:17 AM
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My parish and the others I sometimes visit, there are almost only old people, for real. That’s why I got in this dating app to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 03:48 PM
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Wow, that’s nice to hear he supported you all along. I believe that being feminine is also being comfortable and gracious about our natural state. You’re a woman and a human being and a man should see you without a mask all the time. Another point, if he “stops” loving you or desiring you just because you’re not always put together, he was in love with an idealization of you, a fantasy of you, a character. That’s pretty sad.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 11:52 PM
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That would be the normal thing to do. Imagine the pressure of always being “put together” around the person you should be the most intimate with and show yourself as who you’re. If your bf is turn off because he saw you… In your natural state… Sorry, this guy is a man child.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 11:42 PM
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You’re literally living my dream life lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 11:56 PM
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If you took your religion seriously you wouldn’t be in this relationship. Marriage in Christianity is about sanctifying each other, and the ultimate goal is to go to heaven. “He’s really a good guy tho” what about his values? His cultural views? How are you gonna raise your future children? You’re already feeling the lack of something to bond you guys in relations to your faith, now this difference will only grow with time.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 11:38 AM
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Besides that, what is an amazing life for you? Being a man child with no responsibility, but with the only goal of a screwing many low value women as a goal? Everything in your life moving around cheap pussy?
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:35 AM
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What type of women are they “successful” with? Not the good, emotionally stable and trustworthy ones. But the chaotic and emotional unstable and highly promiscuous ones. They for sure deserve each other. If you judge and measure your own value as a man on how many women you do fuck… I have bad news for you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:29 AM
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Only a man would feel this proud calling himself a fuckboy. This generation is fucked.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:44 PM
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I find it disgusting, but you can’t control everyone. If it’s consensual, let them be… But far away from me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 04:53 PM
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That’s what friends are for, to share hobbies and common interests without involving sexuality or romance. Nobody will fulfill you fully. Your partner is not supposed to do that. “Others are more attractive in other ways than we are”… So what? This makes any sense since you will date anyone who will fulfill some aspect your other partner don’t?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 06:59 PM
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I met him through a dating app, never mentioned “being” a sugar baby, because I never had a sugar relationship before lol, just thought about it. Well, he’s a successful businessman and since he was in a dating app, I thought he probably would just want to have fun. I didn’t want to catch feelings and such, you know the story… In the end of the day he’s a nice man and I was infatuated and I don’t even know how to bring any “allowance talking” now… I don’t even know if he knows what a sugar daddy…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 12:06 AM
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He saw me personally and talked to me on the phone. So he KNOWS I’m sick.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 07:38 PM
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No, I’m not, but can’t say the same to you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 07:28 PM
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Thank you again. You’re right. And tbh, before meeting him personally I thought about being his sugar baby, but then after meeting him I wrongly thought of him as a HVM, which made me want to be his gf actually and to behave accordingly. I never asked him for money, but in the end he assumed the “provider” role automatically… Now I got attached, but I think he sees me as just as a young naive girl for having fun… I will follow your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 07:26 PM
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I didn’t even ask for his money. He payed himself and later he told me. He didn’t hand me the money. The same with the meds. I didn’t ask for anything 😂
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 07:06 PM
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Thank you so much for this! He just message me with a “hi, how are you?” As if nothing happened. I won’t reply right now, I don’t know how to proceed, but this doesn’t change the fact he wanted me to come over while SICK for the seek of his pleasure. I can’t see him with other eyes right now.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 06:59 PM
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But I said to him earlier “I would love to go to the cinema with you!” Which he was the one replying “but only when you get better”. I thanked him so much for what he did, and for me it is a lot what he did, that’s why I’m so disappointed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 06:22 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m thinking about this situation, too. Even though he was the one talking about marriage in the first place, about wanting to have more children bla bla bla. Paying for my medication, playing nice all this time. All of it just because he wanted p*ssy. Disappointed, but not surprised.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 06:09 PM
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The point is, he stopped talking to me when I refused to go meet him while sick. Can’t you see it? During all the week he was sending me good morning messages and asking if I was ok, then suddenly on Saturday he assumes I’m healed or is it because I didn’t do what he wanted me to do?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 05:53 PM
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And when you’re married to him, then he will use the excuse he will only pay when you’re dead? Sounds manipulative. He seems to be one of those guys who wants to take care of women, but then don’t want it to sound “too transactional”, meaning it’s only ok to give you money when he wants to, not when you need it. Dump him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:53 PM
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If a woman truly likes you, she will give you head, because it’s a pleasure to her to make you feel pleasure. But I personally would never do it with someone i’m not in a long term relationship with. It’s too intimate. It’s something that also makes me feel submissive, which I like, but not all men deserve it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:13 AM
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It depends on your level of intimacy with your partner. I think for casual sex, since you don’t know this person really well, if you stare too much, it becomes awkward because they or you feel exposed/vulnerable/it’s too intense, let’s say so. But with a long term partner it helps to make everything more intimate. Looking at the eyes of the person you like or love humanizes them. There are people saying if they stare they get distracted. Distracted of what? From your own selfish satisfaction? So…
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:51 PM
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What are his actions saying? A man can talk whatever he wants to keep you around… But are his actions matching his words? I don’t think so. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 03:39 PM
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