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| 2 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?Women being more sensitive to male testosterone levels during ovulation (there are shit tons more studies about this): https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513813000044 Dual mating hypothesis: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?Women have the tendency to engage in casual sex for mating purposes, specifically when a potential mate is inadequate as a father but has good genetics. This is adaptive first because it is sometimes worth it to raise a child as a single mother if the child has a particularly desirable genotype and the environment allows for it, and second because the woman will always have the chance to raise the child with a man that isn't his biological father, whether he knows it or not. This is supported by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't into men and that's a good thingBait used to be believable man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other?You can pavlovian condition yourself to find someone attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:22 PM |
| 11 | Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to.Yeah, no shit, everybody does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:16 PM |
| -1 | Nice Guys hate women with low look standards and who prioritizes personality/morals too.I mean the goal of the nice guy is just getting laid anyway, I dont think there's much that can interfere with that except looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating an OnlyFans model - why do straight men say no but lesbians say yes?Evolutionary psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?Sorta, never shared my bank account with anyone though alhamdullilah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"?Idk about the trauma shit but if its a white woman with a nose ring definitely do not give her access to your bank account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:26 AM |
| 3 | There is No hook up cultureSomebody isn't getting many hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themI have a lesbian friend, maybe I should date one of those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQEmotions are more of a woman thing. Don't be surprised if you see men having a "low EQ" whatever tf that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:31 PM |
| – | "Female privilege" only exists because of menOh shit! I thought it was women this whole time! Now that I know We The Men® actually did that I 101% support it. Go women!!! Smash the patriarchy!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:25 PM |
| – | Why do some men use terminology towards women like they are going to war?Me when I post on ppd after 4 tabs of acid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneThe female equivalent of rape is paternity fraud, not rape but the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying?Dual mating strikes again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M why do some men lie about wanting to get married?Either its complete cap and they just want to fuck you or they don't want to risk getting half their assets byebye'd. Offering a prenup should work for the latter. The former you just gotta look out for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodAnd they'll still all be working for men that make 11x their income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone over 23 shouldn't be dating 18yr oldsThis post is a mating strategy used my women to counteract becoming less attractive as they age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:55 PM |
| – | CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first datechatgpt ahh response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:41 PM |
| – | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.People in general place more accountability on men than women, which makes sense to do on a personal level but becomes pretty retarded when people think they know how to fix society. Unfortunately this isn't very fixable, you just gotta stop worrying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely understand that love-bombing is real — and that it’s their responsibility?Me when I post on ppd off 12 xans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 01:36 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your current or future partner asking to have different beds/bedrooms?That would just be my own fault most likely. I don't think it would happen unless I got like really ugly or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:32 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your current or future partner asking to have different beds/bedrooms?get some 3m micropore tape for yo mouth king | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:30 PM |
| – | Men need to have unconditional love.just transition already bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.Lilith what happened to you? Where's the ragebait? Why are you making sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:19 PM |
| – | We should stop using anecdotal “just look around” arguments to combat current dataWe should however NOT stop using anecdotal "worry about yourself nigga" arguments to combat people writing paragraphs complaining about how hard it is to get even an inkling of pussy nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | In a world where you could easily have casual sex with women, would you still prefer to marry/LTR/commit to a “low n” woman?It only makes sense if most men can't fuck hella bitches, which is how real life is. That way men will obviously hope for but rarely achieve the best of both worlds where they get to fuck hella bitches and also get a bitch that hasn't been hella fucked cause there's not too many men that fuck hella bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.Women and men got different brains dawg. Masculinity and femininity are about your behaviour and disposition not "potential for success" or some bullshit. Masculine and feminine energies are real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:09 PM |
| – | Men: accept what you cannot control, and focus on what you can.How dare you try to shut down my free entertainment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillOk AnxiousPeggingSlut. Glad to have you apologising on my behalf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillEglin air force base type comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 09:50 PM |
| 0 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillTf are you talking about dawg? You sound insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillI dont think contradicts anything as broad as that, it's a pretty specific result. From a game theory perspective it makes sense to leave your spouse if you know their chance of survival is low, the question is why women don't do it as much. My guess is it's because finding a new partner afterwards becomes much more difficult for women than men since they were already married once. Just a guess though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 09:43 PM |
| – | The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projectionmb dawg I thought you were a woman 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections?No redditor has enough options to care if a woman likes biking* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's misogynistic to track a woman's cycle to stay out of troubleWhere did you get these words from? Why isn't it basically saying "I care about you and would like to know when you're especially irritable so I don't make it worse for you?" You can come up with a secret dark evil reason somebody has for doing literally anything that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:31 PM |
| 0 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menImagine having to tell someone your boyfriend is gay 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:22 PM |
| – | The idea of a "woman's true nature" generally come from the combination of facts and self-projectionSo men dont know enough about women's nature but women know enough about men's nature to be able to tell that they're projecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsI support this message, especially for men. Please leave all the women to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | “The man is expected to do everything, all the woman has to do is exist and look good” - this statement shows exactly how patriarchy harms both men and womenSo is patriarchy when men enslave women to raise children for them or is it when men bend over backwards to accomodate their woman? If you have it both ways it sounds more like a happy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areYeah, you show them king! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:36 PM |
| – | Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice?Nah dude that won't work for me no woman would date me the west has fallen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?Giving women compliments is not nearly as acceptable now as I imagine it once was. Men get it drilled into them that catcalling is bad a lot. Also men are just scared of talking to women in general. Anyway I can guarantee you that fewer than 3 men have ever "withheld compliments" out of malice, its just out of not wanting to be disrespectful or inappropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Working husbands and wives do roughly equal hours of laborI cannot help but imagine a happily married couple laughing their asses off over dinner seeing incels arguing with femcels over which one of them does more chores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyok??? and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men)I sure do wonder why the wef wants women to work more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It's misogynistic to track a woman's cycle to stay out of troubleMisogyny is not liking women right? Doesn't the desire to avoid conflicts with women kind of imply the opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If men objectify women with their bodies, women objectify men with their ressources.Objectification is the stupidest shit anyone has come up with in the last 30 years. Literally everybody does it and people somehow still pretend they don't. Nobody loves anyone unconditionally except their children and maybe their parents. Everyone else gets to be objectified. I'm honestly not sure how they'll recover, probably years of therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:11 PM |
| 10 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withThis is the most braindead and unproductive debate I think you could have possibly started. What happens if you win? You get to be more of a victim than the average man? Will any of the shit you're talking about get resolved if more people feel bad for your gender than for the other? Its not even masturbation, its like mental prejac, whether its coming from a woman or a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections?Welcome back Sigmund Freud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections?Do not listen to this, no man gives enough of a shit to reject you if you dont like biking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections?I see many women conflate being sexually attractive with being attractive as a partner; there is a big difference. What men want from a women in a purely sexual relationship is just for her not to be too ugly (optional). To consider a women for a romantic long-term relationship men want her to be attractive, innocent (i.e. not too many previous owners), modest, loyal, and someone who overall makes their lives easier instead of harder (failing to achieve that last one is often the man's fault too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Whats more radicalizing - actual dating experience or the manosphere?Red pill shit doesn't work on people who aren't fucked irl. Why would you listen to it unless its solving some sort of problem for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?I am spending precisely $0 because thats how much women who go on girls trips to miami are worth to me. Either this supposedly real man was completely in love with a girl that goes on girls trips to miami, which I find very hard to believe, or he's rich enough that dropping $300 on just a girl he's fucking is no big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.bait of the year award | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Then why do women prefer men who are stronger and taller even though those factors are pretty much irrelevant to survival now? Why do men hate when women cheat even though they can just get a paternity test? Behaviours that were selected for millions of years ago can't just be ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Subconscious mating preferences don't change with circumstances. That's why women still prefer physically stronger men instead of men who can use a gun better, even though a preference for the latter would be much more useful. Sure, consciously women might decide they would like to be with someone who earns less than them, but that doesn't mean they don't find that unattractive, which isn't really something that can be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?I admit I haven't read up on it too thoroughly, I'm fairly confident there's evidence women are more attracted to men that earn more than them but that could be anecdotal. I think the solution is to do away with the obsession with forcing women into careers. I think that would make both genders happier, ofc I can't speak for all women but I assume not having to work would be nice, provided you can still survive. There's gotta be an underlying evolutionary reason why women married as soon as they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Because that makes women more hypergamous, their partners more polygynous, and all the other men more incely. Great for natural selection, not so much for running society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:40 PM |
| -1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Of course it's not black and white, I'm just saying that women earning more will to some non-negligible extent make them less attracted to the average man and make their mating choices more hypergamous. Which is arguably bad. Of course that's not to say they should be paid less, only that this is the effect of encouraging women to work instead of to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?So there is very little providing actually going on and, as a result, women are less attracted to the average man, even those who support equal pay. This is an issue, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.Cause getting convinced one side is bad is how you fall into the other and end up shooting up schools or killing all men yourself before you know it. Or, worst of all, going on reddit. It's better to be unbiased and at least try to fix problems rather than argue over which one is worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?And none of it actually proves anything cause its anecdotal. Do you think that the scenario you described where all women who want a man that earns more just don't work is what's happening now since the wage gap is pretty much closed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.Yes, that's because this discussion is pointless and retarded. You still cannot prove which arbitrary group of people is worse, so can we agree that you should just consider them equally bad unless you have some very compelling statistics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Well we have different lives then. I'm a first year in college and I've never met a single woman that's trying to marry instead of getting a job or education. Anyway in order for a significant number of women to be marrying instead of working, the rest of them would have to earn significantly more for the average wages of men and women to be remotely similar, which I'm sure you would agree isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Regardless of your personal circumstance can you agree that it is a general trend that women tend to prefer partners who make more than them on an emotional level? If so, women earning more makes men less attractive in comparison because of hypergamy. Also saying that these are separate women is just as groundless as saying they're the same women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.Are you trying to say this discussion is not retarded to have or are you admitting to being retarded? I'm struggling to see how this is at all objective. Also pretty sexist of you to say 5 rapes is equivalent to a murder, shouldn't a woman be deciding that? From what I've heard it's about 1 to 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?There's no need to be condescending. Also that could happen, or those women could choose to make money and have higher standards for men's earnings. They could also be pressured into working a job before settling down with a man, in which case their standards for men's earnings would be higher through no fault of their own. I think the latter is much more realistic, when was the last time you heard a woman being told that she should find a husband instead of going to college? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Can money or a great personality make up for no physical attraction ?>Can money or a great personality make up for no physical attraction? Sure can, but you better read up on dual mating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Why do women want men to provide but not make more?Exact same logic, if women and men earn the same on average how could the average man provide for the average woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.It's not about "this or that." You can't possibly measure the aggregate harm caused by either of these groups, therefore the only reasonable choice is to assume they're the same. Otherwise you'll get into retarded discussions like "how many rapes are equivalent to a murder?" or "if a woman divorces 3 men and takes all their assets and they end up killing themselves, is that better or worse than a school shooter that only killed 2 people?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you name five important ways in which women are inferior to men?I'm pretty sure he just misworded the question. I think it was basically supposed to be "Slander your gender, I'll go first," in which case it makes sense to say most of the shit people said was wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:20 PM |
| – | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sI don't think those typa guys are too picky. Wanting an epic gamer gf is much more like a pipe dream than an actual mating criterion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.One of those women killed Andy Warhol so there's that. There's also the false rape allegations, making men lose jobs, etc... You better have invented a staggeringly accurate harm-o-meter or you won't be getting anywhere with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.I actually cannot believe I'm about to somewhat agree with Lilith. Crazy world we live in. This is all true but I can smell the remnants of the feminist bias. You gotta understand that these two are basically exactly the same, none of this "Redpillers become redpillers cause they get no pussy but feminists become feminists cause they were abused, so the feminists are still better!!" Stop it. As far as you should be concerned there are exactly as many incels that are insufferable because they get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.do you count the trans ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableTough shit bro. Women are like that, it's not their fault. Stop crying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't want to face the truth.This is pretty asinine. You can't just point out a fundamental adaptive human behaviour and say men should fix it if they want power. Women having inherent psychological power over men is not something we could or should change, just like men having physical power over women. It would be much easier to create an environment where our adaptive behaviours benefit us rather than try to change them, considering the latter isn't very possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Can you name five important ways in which women are inferior to men?I see what you were going for, but you should have been more specific cause you ended up letting them look for sympathy instead of admitting anything. You shouldn't be too surprised tough, it is more of a woman thing to want to uphold a good image so you can't really expect them to not do that for the sake of equality or some shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal?It doesn't make anything equal, and it's not supposed to be equal. No woman is going to refrain from being less attracted to a man who doesn't want to pay because it wouldn't be fair, that isn't possible. A man complaining that this isn't fair is like a woman complaining that it's not fair that men prefer women who have had less sexual partners, it's completely pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Matchmakers should stop turning away women clients"Misogyny" is crazy. Is the porn industry misandrist for not wanting to hire men? Both genders have innate traits which make some jobs or services just not want to deal with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating.Thats pretty true. I went to Amsterdam a while ago and every couple I saw looked like the yin yang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why are you not hypergamous?I would be if it was possible, shit sounds fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Guys here seem to have a massive halo effect for the women they desire.[other team] does this bad thing! "But [my team] also does this bad thing!" Projection. I think the reason you see the "manosphere" do this "to a degree I have never seen other people do before" is because you're incapable of noticing things that would contradict your pre-established worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 09:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: divorce favors the maleI'm so confused, who do you think is giving the men this money? Cause they are either earning more by themselves after divorce or the famously reputable Guardian really just means "disposable income," the reason for which should be pretty obvious. They even use the term "available income" and then go on to ditch the "available" part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:28 PM |
| 32 | Valentines Day is for Women not Men.Valentine's day is for corporations to psyop women into getting upset if their boyfriends dont give the corporations money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Most gendered conversations can’t actually go anywhereOvert intrasexual competition is unique to men, dual mating is unique to women, maternal instincts are, I'm sure I don't have to tell you, unique to women, social exclusion as a form of intrasexual competition is (mostly) unique to women. Paternal instincts are a thing too, and they are very different from maternal ones since they evolved with the prefrontal cortex, they are also unique to men. To address the other point: that is not enough to make your point. The Bible contains stories about wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?It's in our genes to expect something of men and women even if we don't know them. For women its usually being a mother, while for men it's usually being able to provide. This is also why men are mocked for being bums or lazy much more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicIt definitely does, women's stated and revealed preferences tend to be quite different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:52 PM |
| – | Which subreddit members/users are a red/yellow flag for you ?Yeah true, if they can help themselves. r/femaledatingstrategy works too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:50 PM |
| – | Which subreddit members/users are a red/yellow flag for you ?r/4bmovement my beloved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Heterosexuality is not sustainable by red pill logic.They're basically saying heterosexuality only works (keeps marriage and families intact) when women are limited and don't have the same level of freedom men have. Yes, because women didn't evolve to have as much freedom as men, it's inherently unnatural. Of course it would fuck things up. This isn't to say that it shouldn't be the case, but it clearly comes with consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problemsFym "self-inflicted?" Are you trying to say men and women are two different hive minds at war with each other that only care about themselves? This is just at stupid as blaming all men's problems on women, you're just doing it the other way around. Also something tells me if I said "women's problems are likely self-inflicted" you wouldn't be so inclined to hear me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:39 PM |
| 4 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicwho tf told you having friends is "unmasculine?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicyou should try dating a woman then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”About the monogamy part: pretty much all men aren't interested in monogamy, most just don't have a choice. So I'd say the more attractive a man is the more likely he is to cheat or not want a monogamous relationship, unless theres some other reason he wants monogamy such as religion. I also don't buy that attractive men are more abusive though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Most gendered conversations can’t actually go anywherepersonally think that it’s narcissistic tendencies that derive from toxic gender expectations that create the ‘men’ and ‘women’ people refer to when frustrated about dating Or it could just be a perfectly justifiable generalisation about a certain gender. I think most people understand when they say that that it doesn't apply to every member of the gender they're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:02 PM |
| – | There are plenty of people who arent superficial and truly care about personality. You just need a likable personality....and you need to be attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”."Choose better" is to say "choose a guy that isn't an asshole," since its used when women complain about that. "Give men a chance" is to say "Don't just choose the most attractive men. You don't tend to see people telling a woman to "choose better" when she calls a guy she chose ugly. They are not contradictory statements whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Does being sweet or childish with girls make you less sexually attractive?Stop asking women what they find attractive dawg, it doesn't work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Lesbians and gay men prove lots of redpill talking points wrongbiggest strawman I have ever seen. Fucking straw goliath | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemictheres a friendlessness problem too, here: https://www.americansurveycenter.org/why-mens-social-circles-are-shrinking/ Also as someone who has had no women in my life before, I'd say I did feel pretty lonely. Why do you care so much about the specific terminology, isn't talking about your feelings supposed to be a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongI mean, the first paragraph of the wikipedia article says "Hypergamy (colloquially referred to as "dating up" or "marrying up"[1]) is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person dating or marrying a spouse of higher social status or sexual capital than themselves." I dont wanna come across as the "um acksually" type, but it's pretty well accepted that hypergamy means dating someone more competent or valuable then yourself, and women tend to naturally do that more than men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenif you have a dad that teaches you not to grow up to be a loser is he not teaching you confidence as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?People date across generations, that's the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Men dont care about men’s issue.How did I know who posted this before I even clicked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Are you woried about feminism?You conflate feminism with women having rights. If that's all it was it wouldn't exist anymore. I have no problem with women having rights, but I do have a problem with anti-natalism and the erasure of femininity, which feminism endorses. The 1950s were not that great, but at least this shit wasn't around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyI guess it depends how hard people are capable of coping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathyI think I'm in love with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Quiet people are always assumed to be “too scared and self-conscious to just socialize like normal people”. However, some times this is not the case. Some people aren’t shy, they simply have a blank mind through no fault of their own. This effects men’s dating prospects more than women’s…This is 100% your fault, get off reddit and fix it instead of complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:59 PM |
| 0 | at which point misandry starts?>[Other side] expects us to cater to them 24/7 because we’re socialized to and because [people on our side but bad] continue to. So when [our side] actually advocate for ourselves it’s ‘wrong’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinionsThis happens to women too, just look at r/4bmovement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Lonely people don't need to be told how to improve, they need to be told to talk to the people they're attracted to. Now.Trouble is that's very hard to do with low self-esteem, and the only way to increase that is to improve first. For me, Becoming socially active was just a thing that happened mostly naturally after I improved my opinion of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:53 PM |
| – | Which one of these counts as cheating on partner ?Bro is trying to find the cheat code | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:50 PM |
| – | Many people mistakenly confuse “bullshit radar” with a “fragile male ego” and lack of self-confidenceGood to see fellow Slavic white-pilled brothers. Where are you from cultural ad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | If the average man is in a relationship and has the opportunity to cheat with an attractive women he should do itThen you can't complain about women wanting men more attractive than them. (Female) hypergamy and polygyny are two sides of the same coin. Having both of those (cause you can't have just one) also incidentally is known for making societies collapse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Oral sex is degradingCmon lads stop falling for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongDoesn't hypergamy mean dating (or fucking) someone more competent than yourself? If that's the case, men and women being equal fundamentally makes women less attracted to most men. Not to say that women shouldn't have rights or some shit, but this is a pretty unavoidable consequence, provided women actually take advantage of their freedoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenYou can't be coping that hard and calling yourself red-pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than Men>Clearly this is the fault of everyone who disagrees with me on this issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenPeople are more biased in favour of women too, it's a documented effect. That isn't a bad thing, it's just how humans are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenIt's also as natural as desiring water for a woman to want attention, so why is it their fault? Leave the braindead "It's the other side's fault!!!11!!11" to the blue pillers, you're better than that. And for God's sake shut up about "giving up on women," you sound like klaus schwab. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Appeal to nature arguments and what humans historically did are dumbidk, personally I've never heard that from anyone that actually knows what they're talking about. This pattern is observable in humans too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Appeal to nature arguments and what humans historically did are dumbDid you actually read anything on evolution before posting this? The agricultural revolution happened 12000 years ago. If all of human history was condensed into the last year, agriculture would have been discovered two weeks ago. How much evolution do you think can happen in that time? We have for all intents and purposes the exact same brains that our hunter gatherer ancestors had, otherwise people wouldn't hate office jobs and women wouldn't prefer physically fitter men. What makes you think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Wdym theres approximately one woman single for every man? Where is this statistic from? Last I checked it was more like 2 single men per single woman in gen z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:02 PM |
| -2 | Self improvement leads to resentmentThats on you dawg, not the gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Self improvement leads to resentmentWhat made you think being in good shape would make your relationships lead somewhere? That's a completely different outcome to being attractive. It's also equally possible to learn how to achieve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement leads to resentmentAnyone who ends up resenting anyone after 'self improvement' is doing it wrong. It's never an improvement to start hating people. People like vapid appearance oriented 'self-improvement' because it's easier to sell. If people such as this improved their mind to the same extent as their body they couldn't possibly end up how you're describing. This is not an issue unique to 'self-improvement' types; I'd argue many more men who don't 'self-improve' resent women a lot more because they don't blame … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:50 PM |
| – | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.Ah, some classic lilith bait to get my day started | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...this is from a hoe math video isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsWhy are you so sure that that's a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are not as toxic as menWomen are also much more dependent on their reputations for their survival and have a completely different system of intrasexual competition, so we can be pretty sure that if they were as toxic as men on average they wouldn't just show it like men do. The female system of intrasexual competition does, however, rely mainly on exclusion and defamation, so men have a reproductive incentive to be toxic outwardly and women have a reproductive incentive to hide their toxicity. Either way, 'toxicity,' … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:23 AM |
| 4 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I get the sentiment but I feel like you lack the self awareness to realise that this is exactly the type of treatment you get by virtue of being a woman. I totally agree, but you have to understand how much harder it is for men to get to the same 'value' as you and appreciate it. Dismissing men's struggles purely out of the "well I did it so how hard could it be?" attitude doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.I think people consciously want their partner to have the same sexual energy as them, because they want their partner to be like them, but they are nonetheless much more subconsciously attracted to the opposite sexual energy. Definitely agree that people understanding these differences would save billions of relationships though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:00 AM |
| -3 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.This is just what women evolved to do. Men benefit more from solving their problems themselves, and so take more accountability, whereas women benefit more from having (and are much more able to have) others solve their problems for them, so they naturally tend to place accountability on others. It's just game theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period...Thats not really how it works dawg, if people are having fewer relationships they'll just get outnumbered by the people who are having more relationships and making more kids, this isn't sustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Gerbert Johnson Disgusts Meis this a bot farm? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Dawg you are not the victim here. This is most likely not intentional manipulation. You got played by evolutionary biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.This is very true, except for the important detail that this behaviour is intentional. Relationship dynamics are very hard-coded into humans and, as a result, people almost never really understand the underlying reason behind their tendencies. Women don't keep male friends interested in them to exploit them, but because they genuinely want to be friends with them, or maybe they choose to rationalise it some other way, even if the underlying reason is 'exploitative.' This type of behaviour obviou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThis is the natural state of human mating. When polygyny and female hypergamy is permitted in a society many women will end up sacrificing the benefits of a monogynous partner for a more attractive one. This is surely how humans lived before the agricultural revolution and in its early stages, hence why 17 women reproduced for one man during it. Without this system natural selection can't take place, if every person had children in a monogamous relationship with someone with the same value as th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.Those two reasons are practically the same. Women have a higher standard for emotional connection because otherwise they would get played, whether they're aware of that or not. The points don't make too much sense either, 1 applies to both situations and 2 is just kinda true. 3 makes sense to me, but the same can be indicated of a woman withholds sex very little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:47 PM |
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