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Fair enough but if they continue this behaviour for a year or more then it’s reckless unless its in moderation like drinking once a month. Ideally a virgin woman is ideal as pair bonding is ruined with lots of partners. Also a virgin man is ideal too.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 10:55 AM
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It may hurt me but I want to be cautious. I feel like too many women have been exposed to the ills of society: drugs, alcoholism, tiktok, high body counts, dating apps etc
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 08:57 PM
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I completely agree with you. This might be a new post idea but the redpill has made me believe there aren’t many good women left. I wouldn’t know how many but I would assume 1 in 10 women are good and healthy just like 1 in 10 men are good and healthy.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 03:32 PM
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Damn I am really damaged by the redpill. The good things are that she seems to care about me, has given me a chance despite my looks, have had fun conversations and laughs together, wants to do fun things with me
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 11:53 AM
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How so? Isnt it good to predict these things early?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 11:48 AM
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Im surprised she also sounds very disfunctional too. I knew she had some small red flags but didnt think they were severe
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 06:15 AM
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Is the fixer attachment style the best? I agree I have serious self worth issues and I believe its down to my looks. Im surprised she also has very bad red flags.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 06:14 AM
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Damn using the word tame here 😂. Is she a tough woman compared to what is the average woman? She has all the power as she can replace me in a day if she wanted to. It would take me about 2-3 years to replace her and it wouldn’t be easy.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 06:25 PM
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Thank you for your response. She could be vulnerable in what respect? I feel like attractiveness is more objective than subjective. Brad Pitt will be seen as attractive by more women than Harry Kane. I like my skinny body its actually not much of an insecurity of mine. Height and my face are. Women do like skinny guys. Yeah I feel like height is very important and a 6’4 boyfriend is a good status symbol too. Also as a 30 year old he will probably not be a virgin and more masculine than myself. I…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 06:23 PM
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Thank you for your response. Its a shame she has some red flags. She also gave the silent treatment when it came to paying for the groceries. Im glad trauma can be fixed. I am very desperate because I know if I let her go I will have no one. She also knows this so she has all the power.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 05:59 PM
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Yeah thats mostly it. Otherwise I am happy with who I am already
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 12:23 PM
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With inferior genetics, I just gotta accept my girlfriend is gonna want the superior BBC.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 08:33 PM
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I agree. Maybe I should get a ton of money so I can see a sex worker 52 times a year. It would cost a fair amount unfortunately but sex drives men.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:34 PM
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Thank you for your advice. I am 19 so I will have low chance of a woman using me unless she has looks standards that are higher than average.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:33 PM
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Sounds like it could definitely work. I struggle to date in the west.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:15 PM
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I feel like in the west. If I was fat and well I am awkward, if I showed an effort to change myself the woman would be disinterested because she can get someone better way quicker than my transformation process.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:12 PM
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I understand that happens but it also happens in the western world. Women prey on unattractive men as we are easy and simps. Hiring a sex worker wont work as I want a sex life not just one time sex. I wanna be having sex once a week at least.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:19 PM
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Interesting I myself have always preferred to be tall and average looking than short and good looking
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:49 AM
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I dont invent stories this is how Gen Z women live. A small minority wont do hookups or fwb but for women when they aren’t in a relationship the next best thing is a hookup or fwb. I see all over Reddit women saying they have sex with fwb and the rest have a boyfriend. Very few women are going years without sex.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:32 PM
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For sure therapy is a good option. It will not change the fact that most unattractive 18-25 year old women have a fwb situation
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:22 PM
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How do you defend yourself at your height? I feel us shorter guys are easy targets as taller men like to think they can beat us up. We have shorter limbs than them and weigh less. I feel like in social settings and dating being able to hold your ground is important but this is harder as a shorter guy.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:12 PM
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Its unfair for you to assume that its a made up story. Why would an 18-25 unattractive woman be desperate when she is probably in an fwb situation. Sure a loving committed relationship is hard for ber to find but at least her sexual needs are met. I would prefer to hangout and sleep with an unattractive woman as I would feel safer, more compatible and I am not big on how a womans face looks. Just her body more so. They are above me. This has been proven. Most unattractive women have had sex if t…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:11 PM
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Maybe its an age difference but honestly unattractive women aged 18-25 (my age) aren’t desperate they can get hookups easy. An unattractive woman has more chance hooking up with me than an attractive woman. I never give attractive women a chance as they are above me so I only go for unattractive women yet I am the desperate one in these interactions. I dont have options.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:54 PM
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I feel like I am getting rejected because unattractive women have options. I have seen plenty of desperate men but never seen a desperate woman
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:32 PM
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I do struggle attracting unattractive women still
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 06:08 PM
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I agree with you but for short term relationships being good looking is way more important. Also if I was good looking, I would be less pessimistic
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 01:53 PM
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I feel like this is true. Is this untrue? Because I really have a hard time attracting unattractive women so I feel like the reason why is because high competition
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 01:52 PM
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I agree with your message but its hard doing this without frequent sex or women around. I lose motivation.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:19 PM
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To start there are 106:100 male to female ratio so on paper 6 men will be left out in dating. It makes an even bigger difference because tinder has made the dating world so that you can meet potentially a few million people if not more. For a town of 100,000, that would mean 6,000 men are left out which can really add up. Also men tend to be more desperate in general than women so while women are more happier single, men aren’t and that pushes men to lower their standards. Most men would sleep w…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:17 PM
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Very true
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:09 PM
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Yes that is the first step and is the easiest step.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:08 PM
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So the confidence actually works? Did the women you had been in relationships with ever complain about your height?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:06 PM
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Thank you. I agree with your message.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 12:05 PM
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I rarely see couples. When I do its either people in their 20s or older people. The older and middle aged people tend to be looksmatched couples. But women my age are only sleeping with 6’4 chads. Whereas for couples its a bit more even its like a 6’0 boyfriend or something. But I have seen unattractive women dating 6’4 Chad
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 05:56 AM
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That is good advice. Will the woman be happy she was the only one I slept with aswell?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 04:27 AM
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Its over for me if you get rejected by 90% of women. What hope do I have? I will probably get rejected by 99.99% of women
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:39 PM
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Really? I thought all women want 6’4 masculine men with big dicks? It is nature
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:20 PM
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Do you think if you became more masculine your dating life would improve?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:14 PM
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Because I am an underdog
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 08:07 PM
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How in the… This needs more attention! What in th…. How in th… Please we need more on your story this is amazing.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:46 PM
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97% ain’t bad in modern dating. Also because you are black you are seen as more masculine and a lotta women like black dudes so it works in your favour. Being a feminine white guy is game over unfortunately. Regardless I understand you are still an underdog and I am very proud of how you have had a good dating life.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:26 PM
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No I disagree. Male underdogs cannot date female underdogs because women underdogs have 100s of male underdog and a few good looking men options. Heard of 80/20? I dont want an attractive girl. Too superficial for me and I would have nothing in common and feel insecure. I want an unattractive woman yet cant get one
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:24 PM
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Arent they beta providers?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:12 PM
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I agree. But even with a good mentality what is a short unattractive white guy gonna be able to attract? Nothing even with a good mindset
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:07 PM
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Nope I was like damn this is the truth. It all made so much sense to me. Maybe I am a lost cause
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:06 PM
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Never watched him but I watched similar channels like FACEandLMS, Darius M and wheat waffles
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 06:21 PM
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I dony think I can change much
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 06:20 PM
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You are right this is the way forward for me
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:54 PM
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Are women initially interested at first?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:53 PM
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Ive not tried any of these. I just feel like having a better looking face or being taller will improve my dating life
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:15 PM
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That’s probably why they make the content. But even then their content seems correct as looks do matter a lot
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:13 PM
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So you think with my mind even if I was tall and good looking I would still struggle?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:12 PM
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Thank you I will do it
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:11 PM
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I agree that I find myself 100% unattractive and for women it will depend. But most women find me unattractive and maybe a few will find me attractive. A recessed maxilla is where your midface drops down due to mouthbreathing as a child. It creates a long face with a bad jawline. See r/mewing and an androgynous face is one that lacks masculinity or femininity. Essentially my face doesn’t look manly and I have no beard. My version of moving on would be suppressing thoughts and leaving pill spaces…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:30 AM
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I agree here. Maybe I should hide my feelings and put on a happy face. Then I could end up getting success with women.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:16 AM
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I agree a defeatist mindset confirms defeat. With a winner’s mindset in my position I will probably still lose due to outside circumstances like looks and money affecting me.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:13 AM
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Thank you for this response I totally agree with you. It will be good to look at new information.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:12 AM
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Yeah I been in the rut for 5 years now. I feel like looks beats being a good man. Plenty of assholes get away with their behaviour because of their looks. Plenty of nice guys struggle to attract women. Now I do understand most nice guys are the fake nice ones and they are the worst. But genuine nice guys can struggle if they are ugly. Also some good looking men pretend to be a good man just to get into a womans pants (almost identical to fake nice guys) then once they had sex he reveals who he i…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 09:23 AM
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I have been given advice in the past but am unsure if it will work in my severe situation
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 09:08 AM
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Even when a huge underdog?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 09:08 AM
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I disagree. You cant compare soccer to dating. A more accurate comparison would be imagine the 100m dash. A guy could train all his life and be obsessed with winning the 100m olympic games. The only thing is that he is the fasted runner in his local club. He will never win the 100m dash professionally even with his knowledge simply because be doesn’t have the genetics to have the correct musculature and skeletal structure that is required for the 100m dash. I could train the 100m dash all my lif…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 06:52 PM
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Ive been mewing for 3 years. I chew mastic gum.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:03 PM
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I am very skinny like ribcage showing and no muscles. I have a stylish haircut and my clothing sense is okay. I do mewing and chewing but my maxilla is still recessed. My face hasnt changed from mewing. I think at age 19 the skull has stopped growing.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:59 PM
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I am very limited in my approach. Cant change my height, face is already lean at 10% bodyfat but my bone structure is bad, my face lacks masculine dimorphism which is a huge blow. I already have clear skin but theres not much else I can do. Maybe jaw surgery.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:51 PM
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19 years old and yes this 19 year old unattractive woman I dated had a 29 year old ex boyfriend who was 6’3 and always paid for food. She expected me do to the same for her. Clearly she doesn’t want to pay her way because she thinks the man should pay.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:49 PM
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Tinder is just one of the apps. There are others that are popular. Also younger women use dating apps way more than women in their 30s and 40s. Women who are 18-25, most of them are on these apps as they are convenient for them and can get plenty of options. Unattractive women are more likely to be on these apps as they struggle to get attention in real life but on apps they aren’t short of attention.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:48 PM
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Yes it is im glad you also understand the benefits here. Unfortunately I cant be the casual sex guy as I am average looking and women only want to sleep with attractive or rich men.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:46 PM
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Yes I do agree with you here. Incels who are ugly who want attractive women are delusional. They should be either trying with ugly women or giving up. I am an incel myself and I do not shoot my shot with attractive women as I know I would get rejected. I tend to go for overweight women or unattractive ones. Yet I still get rejected. The reason why is because attractive and average looking men think ugly women are easy so they try to sleep with them. This leads to ugly women getting lots of poten…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:45 PM
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My friends always say we are going clubbing to have a good time and try pull girls. My own mother and father usually ask if I pulled any. I say no. Look at how men approach women in these environments and chat them up.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:39 PM
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Confidence comes from being attractive. Obviously you can do things to improve your confidence but a man with high testosterone, attractive face, tall. Will be way more attractive than a low testosterone, ugly face, short male. Notice how on this sub the guys who complain about lack of women tend to be under 6’4 and describe theirselves as ugly. If they have a photo of themselves on their reddit they usually are ugly or average which isn’t good enough.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:38 PM
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There are more men. Only reason why more women is because women live longer so women make up the larger percentage of over 65s but for people in their 20s there are more men. However lets say there is a 50/50 split of 20 year olds, I am going to explain why men will still struggle in dating. Women tend to be happy with just one boyfriend or casual sex partner. Whereas men are happy to have a few girlfriends and casual sex partners. Also men are more horny and have been told they need to chase wo…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:35 PM
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Because attractive guys are horny and its easier to get sex from an ugly girl than an attractive girl. I could do the same and go for 60 year old women as they would be easier. But I am not attracted to them. But for an attractive guy, a hot girl is obviously the first choice but if he wants to sleep with lots of women he will have to sleep with the cute looking average women. Makeup is another thing. It can turn a 5 into a 7. Men cannot do this theirselves without surgery
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:33 PM
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I understand where you are coming from but this woman said she wanted me to pay for all the dinner dates we had. So sure she wouldn’t be getting a house out of me but it seemed like she wanted me for the little money I had.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:00 PM
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You’re right
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:47 AM
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I know I am on minimum wage but I am worried a woman will still want the few 100 I can give her a month
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 07:47 AM
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Yes my worry is I am a beta and the redpill has taught me that betas are womens wallets or get controlled to have their life revolve around the girlfriend in their relationship. A hookup isnt always drunk. Sometimes a woman can meet him on an app and agree and for that to happen it shows that the man who can hookup with sober women on apps like timder, are extremely attractive.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 08:24 PM
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Ive heard this before that some women will have sex with a guy in the hopes that she gains his love and commitment. Why do some women do this?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 06:06 PM
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Yeah I think even I would rather an amazing woman friend where mutual care is there lifelong than having sex with her and not seeing the person she is.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 06:00 PM
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19 but everyone I know has been in relationships and had sex. I understand there are other 19 year olds who are the same as me but I tend to only see them on Reddit. Or they are religious and waiting for the right one.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:57 PM
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My friends is a 20 year old woman who has sex most days and has had 25 casual sex partners (I know this isnt the norm for women) but to me it seemed like an amazing life she has because she gets sex and intimacy and was always on tinder and I would see her have 1000+ matches and be jealous with my 2 or 3 matches, my sexless virginity life and the feeling of being untouched. Yet recently I found out she is on antidepressants and in a bad way. Maybe sex isnt the key to happiness. I feel like male …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:54 PM
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I used to watch Darius M and AMS and they said you never wanna be the relationship guy. Are these folks wrong?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:45 PM
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Yes you are right. A part of me also likes the validation that I am hot enough for a woman to desire me for my body and looks which is found in lots of women wanting sex with you.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:44 PM
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Agreed. Why does the redpill have such a negative view on relationships?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:43 PM
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Its weird to me as normal people enter relationships or hookup like it’s nothing. Yet here is me who understands nothing about it. It makes me feel like I am underdeveloped mentally.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:42 PM
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Is that why even attractive men and women who have sex can still be depressed despite looking like they aren’t lonely as they are sleeping with people all the time?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:41 PM
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I agree with what you said. Being a casual sex guy might seem fun but it can also be time consuming and requires effort. I think the redpill put relationships with women in a negative light and that is why I want to be the casual sex guy.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:36 PM
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Do you think if I went from a virgin to having sex often I would still be unhappy?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:28 PM
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Yes I am not attractive enough to be the casual sex guy. I just wish I was. As for relationships maybe I have listened to redpill men too much as they bash relationships as being ‘beta male providing’
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:27 PM
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If sex is overrated why do people commonly have it? Maybe the redpill gave me these intrusive thoughts but I believe most women have sex at least once per week
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:24 PM
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I can see sex being better in a relationship but like you said it wouldn’t be good to get into a relationship just so the sex can be better. For now it would be casual until I sort my mentality out. Why can fwb be a complicated situation? It seems good to me.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:34 PM
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Yes you are right. Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:28 PM
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Thank you and that is an interesting story about the motorcycle guy. Being upfront about everything is best for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:27 PM
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That is a fair comment.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:25 PM
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That sounds spiritual for you to say sex creates energy ties. What does that even mean? Surely it cant be bad as sex is natural? I see where your coming from but like my post stated people have no ties attached sex where they just agree that they both look good and want to have a fun time exploring each other’s bodys. As long as beforehand the woman understands that is all if will be it is fine.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:23 PM
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Thank you. I have had a quick look and so far I could be avoidment attachment as I fear changing myself for a woman aswell as fearing being incompetent and hurting her feelings. I also would rather be alone than get heartbroken or invest all for it to come to an end. As for ‘I dont want kids but still like to connect with people’ I am unsure what you mean by this. I personally dont want children because I am an antinatalist and nihilist. I also wouldn’t want to pass on my unattractive genetics t…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 02:08 PM
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This could be something I am. I am not sure if redpill made me this way or I am naturally this way
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:50 PM
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I agree with you
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:48 PM
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You’re right
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:47 PM
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Yes I am a virgin so I suppose this could be why I want casual sex so much. I agree that things can change
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:47 PM
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Andrew Tate a 6’3, confident, famous, boxer, rich, fun, charismatic dude will easily get any woman he wants into bed.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 06:30 PM
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Andrew Tate is a g and shows the benefits of the lifestyle of a 6’3 millionaire man. He put Chian Reynolds in her place. Any woman would sleep with Andrew Tate if they had the chance.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 09:19 AM
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Is this playing a role in why many women dont want ONS?
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 07:46 PM
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Why not? Surely ONS are just as enjoyable for women as they are for men
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 01:09 PM
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See blackpill confirmed
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:38 PM
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What about sex
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:35 PM
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No because men are way more desperate than women. For sex: Unattractive women get with above average men. Average women also get with above average men and above average women get with top level men and high calibre men (athletes, millionaires, high status men)z
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:13 PM
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A lot of men in the dms does mean its likely some will be attractive
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 07:45 AM
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Get on a dating site
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 07:37 AM
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All women do recieve dms from men they are attracted to. I personally rarely dm women because I am not a Chad
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 07:35 AM
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But a 6’6 man shows dominance over other men, good nutrition as a child, good genetics and high testosterone levels
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:28 PM
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Thank you for your great words. I need to give my life more respect
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:28 PM
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Really? You seriously think a 5’10 average looking guy has a high chance?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:27 PM
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Scientists dont research this as no money is in it and they dont want to piss of men. No study but anecdotal evidence shows it. Plus I did see a study where men spend more money on women than women do on men.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:26 PM
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No because its over for men. Women have too many options and we should let them enjoy the top 20% of men and allow them to share these men
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:25 PM
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Thank you. I should learn from you
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:24 PM
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He must have a better face than any other dude. He must of tried really hard and got lucky.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:24 PM
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The fact that men are desperate
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:22 PM
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No maybe like one woman a week. But with millions of men, a womans profile can easily get hit on often
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:18 PM
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Its all women because guys are desperate and dm lots of women. Yes they may not be attracted to these men but at least they have them as backup options for if they cant get the men they want.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:17 PM
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Even for sex?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:16 PM
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He must be good looking and have a big dick
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah you are right. I have to try. If it doesn’t work then you will see me ranting even harder 5 years from now. Also only 5lbs of muscle? I thought I needed 30lbs to look good
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:15 PM
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Thank you. Maybe I gotta not give a fuck and wing it
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:14 PM
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5’6, no education, 19 years old
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:13 PM
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5’6 which is a womans height
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:13 PM
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How are you getting women at only 5’10 and average face?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:12 PM
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Your cousin probably is good looking and 6’2+. Why would a woman find a tall man creepy? As for the third point, most men have a job so women will find this information out then persuade him to use his paycheque on her food or she leaves. It has happened to me
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:12 PM
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I don’t take notes of these things. But listen out for when your home girls talk about the new guy they chatting to and wait for them to say “he is TALL 😍😍”
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:09 PM
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He is a womans dream man so his attention is valid
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:08 PM
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All women receive these dms unless severely handicapped.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:08 PM
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I dont know 3.5 billion women. I probably know like 20. So 3/20 is a lot. The rest had bfs who were 6’2, 6’1, good looking, 9 inches
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:07 PM
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This is evidence that Chad wins
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:06 PM
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Yes 80% of men should accept defeat
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:06 PM
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Skinny is fine if you are tall and good looking. Yes hopefully status matters a lot. I will try get that.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:05 PM
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People want to sleep with attractive people
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:03 PM
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Your close. These average men are only there because they pay for everything like the womans food or rent
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:03 PM
1

I like my body and face. Women dont.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:02 PM
1

You can have a scruffy beard and a great face. Thank you for blackpilling me. A Chad doesnt need a job. A 6’6 Chad with no job gets more women than a 5’6 computer nerd.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:01 PM
1

Face
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:58 PM
1

He must of had an 8/10 face and high status
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:58 PM
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I am 54kg and my face is probably a 5.5/10 Job is a waiter
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:42 PM
1

Nah women learn that most men want their attention in exchange for money early on like age 18
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:42 PM
1

Small amount of hope but still got to worry about my face and height.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:41 PM
0

It wont make me happier. But life doesn’t revolve around me so I was given bad genetics that women aren’t attracted to
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:40 PM
1

Is the 5’7 guy getting baddies a sugar daddy or expected to pay for the meal? A meal ticket?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:39 PM
1

Listening to women
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:38 PM
1

Women love tall guys have you not seen it? Its one of the first things they look for
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:38 PM
1

Youtube told me then I watched the world unfold and unfortunately it was proven true 😥
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:37 PM
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True. Still though women have multiple men of their type in the dms so there is still high competition even if you are their type
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:37 PM
1

Thank you. 4 inches?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:36 PM
1

Not if the attention is from a rich, 6’6 baller Chad
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:35 PM
1

Tongue and fingers help but so many males already do this so the only way to stand out from other males is to have a bigger dick
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:35 PM
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Pete Davidson is a celeb so top 1% Hopefully your second point is true. You cant change your genetics so its best to accept defeat if given a bad hand. No point in playing it as its a loss and a man with bad genes only needs a few months to realise his dating life is over. Good point I should look into stoicism. But as for dating its over and I guess it is time to be stoic about that fact.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:34 PM
1

Yeah but they werent the womens first choice. Do ugly men under 6’0 get casual sex or hookups? Highly doubt it. Why would they when a woman can get attractive men.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:32 PM
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Three women I have spoken to in the past have told me their ex was 6’4. Also tiktok and Instagram women showcase this behaviour a lot.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:31 PM
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Yes physical traits do trump everything else. Status and money will obviously help if in top 1% of men. But you got to work and get lucky to achieve them. Good genetics are the best way to attract women without work. Plus I think the sexual attraction women have for low status 6’6 good looking men is higher than a 5’10 celebrity.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:29 PM
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Its not the mind. I watch womens actions. New bf? How tall is he? “Only 6’4”
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:27 PM
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No but anecdotal evidence tells me women roast me. with small dicks. They dont like them so stop virtue signalling
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:26 PM
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The fact that human beings like good genetics and women are more picky as they invest more resources when conceiving
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:26 PM
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Other sites: hinge, bumble A girl can have an Instagram account and all of a sudden without even trying she has 10 men in her dms. She checks her Facebook messages: 20 men in the message requests She checks Snapchat: 4 new male adds. OLD is more than tinder. Women get hit on often
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:25 PM
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Anecdotal evidence is brilliant. What woman is going to admit she only sleeps with high SMV men? None, they need to virtue signal.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:23 PM
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Pete Davidson has status and is rich. Any man gets women if he has enough of these. I am very lean 8% body fat but my face is bad because my maxilla is recessed from mouth breathing and my skull is narrow from a lack of nutrition growing up. Yeah I have no agruments against your last point. But maybe she didn’t realise the guy had a 4 incher ans regrets the sex and ghosts the 4 inch guy.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:22 PM
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6’2,6’3,6’4,6’5 are also fine although 6’2 minimum and 6’6 ideal. A woman picks up on the presence of a genetically superior and healthy alpha male
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:19 PM
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Everyone knows looks matter for casual sex
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:18 PM
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Nice username
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:17 PM
1

Is the g spot 8 inches deep?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:17 PM
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Most young women have tried it. If they were deprived of Chad they just gotta open the app store 😉
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:16 PM
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Yep it is rare to come across a man this height although 6’2,6’3,6’4,6’5 are also good enough. Maybe not the ideal but being 6’2 is where the attraction begins.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:14 PM
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Women dont consciously care. But the subconsciously do. Men subconsciously want attractive women. It is human nature.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:13 PM
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Physical first, the traits you listed come second.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:12 PM
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Not wanting children doesn’t mean you want an attractive masculine man to enjoy casual sex with.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:12 PM
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Hopefully the blackpill isnt real.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:11 PM
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OLD is mainstream men must be attractive or rich to date and have sex.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:09 PM
2

1% of the male population is over 6’6
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:08 PM
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A lot of women are single for this reason. But they have the 6’6 fuckbuddy so they can enjoy their single life. The 6’6 fuckbuddy fucks multiple women.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:08 PM
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Im glad to hear personality goes a long way but only if you meet the womans minimum looks threshold. A 5’10 guy with an average face and amazing personality is just a friend. Never a fuckbuddy. 6’6 is 1% of men but this is the most sexually appealing height to women. Young women are the most attractive for men who are 19 like myself. I dont want to be settled for by some 30 year old woman who finally realised neck pain from kissing. Also you do realise couples with a 1’0 height difference can ki…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:07 PM
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A 6’6 chad can definitely get her hormones ticking. Then when he interacts, the attraction process is effortless.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:00 PM
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From life experience
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 05:15 PM
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189cm yet no experience with women! Damn the blackpill must be wrong. Have you tried online dating or leaving the basement?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 11:15 AM
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Okay I agree to end it here. We are seeing it from different perspectives.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:36 PM
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Well what about the options though. 1000 guys are in womens dms these days. It doesn’t seem equal to me at all
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:34 PM
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I know how to become attractive even with my genetics: get tall surgery for face drink a few beers and socialise get rich Im going to tell my mind that the 80/20 rule is false and that it is actually the 100/100 rule. But womens 1000s of casual sex options surely proves 80/20. Most men get like 2 or 3 casual sex options after a year of using the app.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:32 PM
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And if I want to believe for casual sex, its equal then that would become true then?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:25 PM
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Ill take a look at the detox kit but 80% of women having sex with 20% of men would make sense for casual sex relations. For long term relationships it would be equal.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:22 PM
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Explain the 80/20 rule then. In my male friendship group, this is proven. I and two of my mates are virgins, one is a 5’10 beta male who has a girlfriend but he pays for food everytime and buys her things each month and gets nothing in return (easy mode), one is a 5’11 good looking social guy with a body count of 12, and the other is a hyper masculine 6’4 man with a body count of 25 and plenty of women to fuck and his response is ‘I fuck them whenever I can be arsed as somee days it gets boring’
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:17 PM
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I put it in another comment what dating is like when I go outside. Also yes I can have a wife and children one day if I work on myself and get lots of money. The problem is the wife is unlikely to be sexually attracted to me and it will be hard to find true love. Also money will play the bigger role. I am not a fan of dating women with high body counts and usually a woman wants to settle down after they had fun. For casual sex, to have this you definitely need to be good looking. No personality …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:10 PM
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Why would a woman date a short guy if she can get a tall or average one? It would only be for money or if the shortie has an extremely attractive face or a big dick. In rare cases the vibe between the two may attract her however it is SMV before anything and height is 35% of a mans SMV
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:07 PM
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It is very true that a 5’6 ugly guy has a very low chance compared to a 6’6 Chad. I never see 5’6 beta guys getting girls but always see Chads getting them. Adding on you know this is true, because when you said “there’s always hope” that shows that you think I have almost no chance and need to hope. If someone needs hope for their dating life then realistically they are fucked and you know it. Would 6’6 Chad ever need hope? No he wouldn’t as he gets girls all the time and hasn’t even needed to …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 12:45 PM
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It helps a lot. For hookups you do need to be around 6’6. Id say 6’4 would please 99% of women tbh but 6’6 is just overkill lol. You also need a masculine face and an 8 inch dick size. You also need to be a bad boy. Back to relationships, if you want to have a girlfriend but you are average or ugly in SMV, then you can get one but she will never be sexually attracted to you and will always be longing for the Chad cock she had. She will be with you for your money only or because you are the safe …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:54 AM
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Couples in different age groups. For the 50 year olds the man usually is moody, 5’7 and has a beer gut. The wife is constantly nagging. For the 30 year olds usually some average looking dude with an ugly woman and they have a baby together. For the 18-25s (my age bracket), its extremely common to see an attractive man 6’2 with an average looking girl or even an ugly woman. I do see an average dude with an ugly guy but I assume the woman is using him for money as she can do better. For 18-25 hook…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:49 AM
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Womens standards are increasing a normal Chad is boring to them. Only a 6’6 gigachad is sexually appealing now.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 07:16 AM
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Damn you do speak good facts. But the thing is surely we have to be realistic about the truth?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 07:03 AM
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I don’t understand why women lie and dont want to tell men that they are fucked if in my position. I bet you wouldn’t sleep with a guy with my stats even if he was an awesome person who cared about you. He would have beta male genetics and as a woman you can get a Chad who is an awesome person and cares about you so no need for 4 inch beta boy. As a man I can confidently say to a woman that if her dating life sucks, it’s because of her looks. Womans dating life rarely sucks but if a woman had a …
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 10:13 PM
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Nope. It is paying attention or maybe just wrong place at wrong time idc what you say but no way is a 5’6 ugly guy with a 4 inch dick getting casual sex unless he is paying for it.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 10:02 PM
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Its not about what I say, it’s about what we see
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 09:52 PM
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I wish it was but nope. See it often. Only time I see a ugly guy with a woman is when he gets used for money
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:59 PM
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I do go bars and clubs. I am not down bad I am based. Women live life on recruit difficulty
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:57 PM
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I live in the UK so age is 18 to drink and go to bars. I have been in them and clubbing was full of Chads grinding on women and 5’9 beta males getting rejected
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:57 PM
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Any dating app is easy for women. All they gotta do is download it and they can get sex
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:55 PM
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Still shows looks are the most important thing when getting laid
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:55 PM
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I agree complaining will make me less attractive. But it certainly is a downer. I guess the redpill while wrong on many fronts, was right on one thing about the meme “women live life on easy mode”.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:23 PM
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I agree with that. Yes I must be positive but lacking affection and intimacy while watching women have access to it so easy makes me jealous of them.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:20 PM
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People who go tho these places focus on casual sex
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:17 PM
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Agreed but truth be told im not gonna be content without affection. Its not what human biology wants as if you go too long without affection, your body realises you are not passing on your genetics and will be pissed off with you about it.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:16 PM
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Its a casual sex scene. But sometimes hookups lead to relationships
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:15 PM
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Yes and other dating apps. Even at the bar or club its easier than it is for men
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:13 PM
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I need to attract women as that will make me happy
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:19 PM
1

Blackpill
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:17 PM
1

But I definitely need to become a good man. Fun, charismatic, positive, gym, caring
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:16 PM
1

I need to fight to become a high value man and change my mentality.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:49 PM
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I wouldn’t say rejection is a problem, it is expected for me. What I actually fear is not meeting her standards for looks, not meeting her standards for personality, not meeting her standards for money, and the woman already being taken but if she is single, her still having a friend with benefit situation which again leads to me being rejected as I am useless to her if she has an fwb.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:34 PM
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I agree but if my chances are similar to going to the moon then why should I try? It would be a waste of time as im almost gaurenteed to fail. Totally agree with what you said about MGTOW. I think going MGTOW is impossible for a man.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:21 PM
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I understand most men never truly go their own way. However isnt accepting its over due to bad genetics a realistic move? A bit like admitting I will probably never go to the moon. Both getting a girlfriend who I am attracted to who loves me and going to the moon are both unrealistic goals. Is it best to accept reality for what it is?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:16 PM
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I see what you mean. However what if the true answer for a short ugly guy is “its over” and he needs to go MGTOW? On a side note I am 10 minutes into the video you sent me. Thank you it is very good and the creator is explaining his point well. I am looking forward to learning from this guy and yourself.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:10 PM
1

Thank you. Why do you think the red and blackpills exist? What is the purpose of them?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 05:46 PM
1

Yes he does as women chase giga chad now. Chad: 6’2, good looking, broke, virgin Gigachad: 6’6, very good looking, rich, body count of 100
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 05:45 PM
1

Okay
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:54 PM
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How can I improve my dating life as a short kinda good looking guy?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:28 PM
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Thank you for taking your time to try and help me. One final question have you dated and hooked up with average looking short guys? Do we have a chance?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:16 PM
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Because the men at the top would sleep with lots of women meaning these women are no longer sexless. The men at the bottom would be struggling and be sexless because the top men have taken these women.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:13 PM
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I would change if the blackpill wasn’t real but its true looks and height matters. As a woman yourself surely you have noticed some women have it easier than yourself when it comes to dating.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:11 PM
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Because if there are less sexless women than men then clearly the 80/20 rule is true
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:08 PM
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Thank you for your reply. I was naive to say that tall good looking men only get hookups. However for an average looking man it rarely happens for them and they are seen as less desirable to the women compared to when the woman is with an attractive man. Ugly and short men almost never get hookups. Well for money the ugly guy needs to make sure she actually likes his personality and looks not just there for his money. I feel like it is a reasonable assumption for me to fear a woman is going to c…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:03 PM
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Incels have realised they cant get into relationships because of their looks
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:21 PM
1

Do you believe for every sexless young man, there is a sexless woman counterpart?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:13 PM
1

Okay.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:12 PM
1

I will have a look at what I see this week and get back to you. Today I have seen one couple around 18 years old. The guy was 6’2 and average looking. The girl was 5’4 and average looking.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:12 PM
1

Most guys want to please their sex partner.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:11 PM
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No plenty of attractive men are desperate these days
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:10 PM
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I would chose a sex robot but the technology would creep me out plus wouldn’t be advanced enough yet to feel like a real woman. I dont like that men shower women with attention. Yes it would also be safer for women if the attention was brought down. There is nothing we can do to make men need women less. No solution.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:08 PM
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Nope. 80/20 rule applies. Some guys are seeing multiple women.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:07 PM
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I made a fake ugly woman tinder account and got loads of messages.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:06 PM
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Its full of older looks matched couples. When it comes to young couples its always a good looking tall man with a young woman
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:06 PM
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Because we are struggling with them and realise its down to our looks and the fact we are men “the disposable sex”
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:05 PM
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Dating is easy for women
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:04 PM
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Fair enough. Isnt it only attractive men that get love?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 03:04 PM
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When it comes too hookups, tall and attractive men are the only ones getting them. For relationships its different however its usually because the ugly guy is wealthy or is a good person. I am afraid the woman feels like she can do better. She most likely can and has slept with better looking men when she was younger. I am 19 years old and inexperienced. Its over for me as I am only 5’6 and kind of good looking. What work can I do to find dating struggles of women? Seriously I see none. Even obe…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:59 PM
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Im only seeing older couples. Young women dont seem to want relationships. Also men bring nothing to the table apart from money. Out of 100 people I doubt 80 are in relationships especially people of Gen Z
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:47 PM
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Women rarely get into relationships as men bring nothing to the table. So its mainly sex which only the top men have.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:40 PM
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Why does a woman need to keep a man when another one is round the corner. Men are like buses in a metro city to women.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:37 PM
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Bring it on. Here we go again cause it is true.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:59 PM
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Understand but with 1000 options, 10% want commitment so you still have 100 men to vet.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:57 PM
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I see where you are coming from with hubris. I do agree I need to not parrot from the internet and look into the real world. What do I see? 6’4 good looking guy with a girl and mainly that. Maybe some 40 year old ugly man is paying every bill so he is in a relationship with his 45 year old wife. Thats what I see in public and its very true. Ik hating women for what I dont have doesn’t solve anything but I am jealous of women as its easy mode. Like a video game they clicked the easy mode whereas …
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:54 PM
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Of course when I see reality for what it is, it gets called confirmation bias. I saw the moon in the sky tonight is that just another confirmation bias? Honestly everywhere I am hitting, 400lb women are getting tons of men in their dms. As for women of a healthy weight I cba to look into their options as its more options than one could take their next move of chess.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:42 PM
1

I see women out here all the time getting sex and guys. I see them enjoying guys buying them food on dates. Seems like easy mode to me. There is no benefit to being a guy apart from the fact I can lift more. Apparently that is useful.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:37 PM
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I agree but finding a man to date is still easy. Yeah sure not as easy as getting sex.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:31 PM
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Yea I will go take a look at the detox kit. Heres the thing, I doubt the detox kit will show any pointers that women dont have dating on easy mode simply because you can’t hide truth. Also I didnt make a fool of myself on ask black girls neither have I made a fool of myself here so you can wait around till the day when I finally make a fool of myself happens on some subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:30 PM
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Ill go check that subreddit out. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:27 PM
3

Most men are lonely. Why has it become so unbalanced? i feel like the top 10% of men are dating most women.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:26 PM
5

Where can I find woman magazines?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:26 PM
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Unattractive women are visible. I understand they get lesser treatment compared to attractive women but still, unattractive women have it better than attractive men. Also its easy for an unattractive woman to find an unattractive guy who will buy her things.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:25 PM
1

How so?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:23 PM
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