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intercitty/r/seduction18/12/15 07:01 AM
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the other day I had this thought of women looking younger every year, just ask what school she goes to somewhere in the conversation. Otherwise you're free to small talk everyone and anyone you see
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:36 AM
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It will give you insight on what not to do
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:35 AM
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"Hey can I borrow your ketcup? Mines empty"
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:38 PM
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She was the wrong girl to hit on. Women have mindsets that vary.. sometimes from one minute to the next. You were spitting game at a girl who didnt want it. Possibly at all that day. Or you did a poor job of snapping her out of what her brain was thinking about all day... Chat up girls that are chattable.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:24 PM
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Too much smile to my direction is creepy and Im a guy
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:34 AM
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In certain situations, as when I describe after that sentence.. in sexual situations its important, sounds like we both agree that otherwise it is rape. For non sexual situations you have to take the lead and not ask for consent like choosing a table at the restaurant.. man I feel like I'm repeating myself did you even read what I wrote? As far as the kiss goes, there are situations where this statement is super sexy, I consider myself having game, I mostly go for quality over quantity, so no I …
/r/seduction16/11/18 02:32 AM
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Consent is sexy in certain situations. But for non sexual activities consent is assumed to an extent. Its odd but.. non sexual actions are best to take responsibility for cause too many cooks in the kitchen cause confusion and is unenjoyable. So walking into a new place and choosing a seat. Youre the boss. Choosing food for her.. no. Choosing next spot yea... Unless theres felt/slight resistance, then maybe ask for alternative. If none is given free range. Its all about not forcing but making an…
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:04 AM
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Although both right. I have to say you have some sort of judge of character inside you. Therefore approaching by feeling out compatibility points will yield better results.
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:39 AM
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Not enough
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:37 AM
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Doing and asking her what she wants to do. Dating is like dancing. You lead and make decisions it makes her comfortable. As a guy I can understand why this works whenever someone's organising something you want to be taken for a ride. When someone keeps asking for you to make decision its fucking exhausting. It was your idea dont ask me shit.. show me a good time. Just dont yell orders at them. It may sound like a lot but that fine line makes people trust you and makes good time to remember.
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:03 AM
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Agree. Lets bounce ideas what is this teaser shit
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:12 AM
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Like you both were in x park that week.. post it then mention it in your DM. When she looks at your profile shell see your post too or something. Just dont make it too obvious haha. I mean you may have a photo in your phone from x park from two weeks ago. But instagram doesnt know that. Blur the timeline. Make it looks like fate.. BUT DONT MAKE IT TOO OBVIOUS
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:08 PM
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Id say in the long run if shes following you post something related to what she just posted recetly
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:06 PM
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Beautiful and straight to the point without any fluff thank you
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:46 AM
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Wow. Nice.
/r/seduction17/09/18 08:15 PM
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I find that alot of people that have self assurance problems around me tend to judge people alot. Ie. They think theyre always being judged BECAUSE theyre the ones constantly judging others and therefore affraid that others do the same..
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:22 PM
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Club soda with a lime/lemon wedge. Looks like youre drinking vodka drink. Usually on the house even at upscale places. Just give em a buck for a tip or whatever
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:55 PM
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Nice write up. Im kicking myself over this one because I want to get in the habit of not relying on others when Im feeling like going out. On a side note when using acronyms its best practice to write it out at least once. Long time subscriber but "AA" had got me thinking and trying to figure out what the hell youre talking about haha.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:54 PM
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Lets see. You appearance is non threatening not much you can do with that in terms of looking more macho except build muscle. Your personality is soft so you became their plush toy. So with that youll need to set ground and by ground I mean dont tell them what they want to hear in daily banter. Tease them, and make them work for cuddles. Its a tough one to say but build a spine and learn to be assertive and comfortable and ignore them here and there. Teyll trust but respect you and throw in a bi…
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:25 AM
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Do you talk with enthusiasm? If so is it over the top? Do you compliment people if so do you do it too much? Or do you try to talk with a deep voice if so are you too low and too boring and lethargic? ..try this watch someone tell a story where people actually listen and think how you would tell the same story and note the differences. You didnt give us much and we dont know you. Learn to be self aware. Notice, change, note and dial in your behavior in that way. Or if youre serious about it sign…
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:16 AM
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Im with you this weekend that was all I could think of. Regret worst than failure. Started convo with 2 beautiful brazilians one didnt speak english. The other was married. White chick on the beach.. she had a boyfriend but you know what? I didnt get the cold shoulder OR a weird look that I was so damn afraid of this whole time. They were amazingly open and happy to interact with a stranger nonetheless. Now I know :)
/r/seduction12/08/18 10:55 PM
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Take her to mexico
/r/seduction09/08/18 04:06 AM
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I didnt read everything you said because I read it in a whiny voice. (Im not trying to put you down Im giving you my first impression) that being said, having very little information about your behaviour, Id say you smell of deaperation and possibly even try to please your target too hard. Which is a huge turn off. This guy in the photo looks like he goes about doing what makes him happy, what he feels like doing at the moment, which in turn attracts followers that also want to have a good time.…
/r/seduction07/08/18 07:22 AM
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I just start a new topic of intetrest. Most of the time your message is seen but at the wrong time of day then forgotten. Jist go with the flow dont pick up where you left off. Bring up something new and relevant or uust say "ello"...her."sorry was busy".you."no stress theres an art show near by this thursday, come with"
/r/seduction01/08/18 08:05 AM
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These are great. Though not exactly sexual. But I find myself using a similar line in terms of context.. she says something to tease me and not sure how to react I tend to say. I know you think I give off this super macho guy vibe, but on the inside I can be very sensitive. Im 5'8 on a good day and would say very friendly looking nothing about says macho. It gets alot of genuine smiles out that I adore.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:20 PM
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I read nothing cringey or creepy here. Maybe check you internal tone :)
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:15 PM
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This. Rejection is given. You cant grow if you dont fail. Alphas you patrionize to the point they question their wannabe status. Its a learning curve but you have to grow your ego and your mindset into understanding that these fuckups are a bunch of overcompensating people and have no effect on that awesome reality youre living. 24 is a tender stage just dont get in the mindset of thinking you know everything. Listen and take time to react it will make you appear you have your shit together. Whi…
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:03 AM
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Well said. Even with the physical escalation. They like to see persistency. No no no yes. Never pushy though. I was with a chick and while we were making out I could feel she though we moved too fast by the way the kissing started to fade. So I stopped and changed the subject. Give her some time to think and overthink. Then tried again and felt she was more into it. But again backed off before I made the larger move to let her settle a bit. The third time I kissed her she got super passionate sh…
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:12 AM
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I don't know the area you live in, but for example the way I came across the Brazilian coffee shop was biking through a small avenue of restaurant/bars etc. Or check out groupon or living social you'll get ideas and even good deals for couples. I don't think it comes off as cheap when you tell her "hey I have this groupon, for that thing you like, its about to expire soon.. come join me"
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:47 AM
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Not dinner. But appetizers. Or finger food. This chick took me to a Vietnamese street food place where you grill your own skewers that was fun edit: short scenic/nature hikes ~1 hour. Then afterwards grab a sandwitch or something if all goes well. Bike/skate down boardwalk. Arcade or mini golf. But coffee is super low pressure I would find a place that has coffee and something bomb, like this brazillian coffe place serves lava cakes with icecream. You tell her that youll take her for something b…
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:44 AM
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These are persisent responses. Why the down votes?
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:35 AM
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..or start by not down voting answers you don't agree with lol
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:44 PM
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6 flags is a full day commitment though, try something short like a 2 hour hike. Six flags.. you in LA? take her cruising on a bike by the beach. Ice cream sandwich, something you enjoyed that doesn't require her to book a whole day just to gamble on whether or not you can hold a conversation
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:52 AM
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Heavy cardio. Bike up a hill blasting some epic music. You wont have time to think about anything and that clear oxygen rich blood will keep that feeling going
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:32 AM
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School ending is the best time. Hey I know this is random but I enjoyed talking to you/working on project/that little snack break we took. Lets hang out during the break I know a sweet little european deli/dive bar/sushi place Id like to take you to. Boom say that to 3 girls at least ones eyes will light up.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:28 AM
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Tease them. They love it. Did you get new shoes? ..and they didnt come in different color? Smirk, light punch in the shoulder. Your hair looks nice today. Did you finally brush/wash it. Haha that one never gets old. The point is you want to get in their head. Make them feel. And move on. After a while theyll crave your company.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:21 AM
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Id love to get an adblock on my android
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:19 AM
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That was informative but holy hell that popup that wouldnt go away
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:13 PM
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Ive been feeling the same lately. Im brutally honest and dont give two shits what people think. On the otherhand I feel like I could get more closes by keeping my mouth shut sometimes and sculpting sentences to her needs and wants. Its all a trial and error game. I see what works and what doesnt and like the other commenters said just adjust accordingly youll get there you just have to recognize where the failure occurs and adjust it.
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:19 AM
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If you feel theres a connection just get her number and text her. When she replys within the next minute just call her up. Hearing someones voice creates a deeper bond than tinder loading icon lol. And yea dont over do it. Text her here and there every other day with little 'nothings' you did with your dog or something not expecting a response. Unless she responds with a Q wait another day or so.. Most likely she has routines and she really is busy and only has fridays off lol 11 days thats 4-5 …
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:33 AM
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Wow. First and only comment needed to close this thread. Have my upvote
/r/seduction19/04/18 08:46 AM
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I do short 30min - 1hr fairly touristy hikes. Dont pay a dime.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:41 AM
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Just follow.up with everything you say you'll do. Otherwise youll be known as the flake and you wont get invited haha
/r/seduction17/03/18 09:34 AM
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Just dont push too hard. Theres fine line getlemen. It importanto point out that theres a difference between being persistent and being pushy. The hungry dont get fed either.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:32 AM
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Thread closed. Beautiful example loaded street game by the book.
/r/seduction18/02/18 06:58 AM
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What do you do for work? Im a single use lighter repair man
/r/seduction27/01/18 07:29 AM
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One more flirting technique I noticed, if you're comfortable with a certain skill you have, it's fun to give a her a little hesitation on your end, if she knows a little about the subject, not only will it make her feel confident in said skill but she will take a small jab at you for doubting your self, and you just got her to flirt with you. Show her a weakness that you're comfortable with her poking at, of course. example: You: If I throw a snowball at that branch all the snow will fall off. Y…
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:07 AM
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This, just don't be that guy that punches below the belt. Tony's examples aren't painful. Some things can hurt and hurt bad, ie. my rule of thumb when making 'real guy' jokes is NEVER joke about something they have no control over (shit shes born with, saying shes overwieght when she obviously isn't works) though if you're planning on goofing about something her freckles makes sure to let her know that you adore them first, big chance its something she questioned in past, or just don't bother an…
/r/seduction09/01/18 07:55 AM
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Honestly I consider myself an introvert conditioned to be an extrovert. I love my alone time more that not, but I got hooked on talking to strangers just by conditioning myself. You can give that a try. If you want homework I can give you something along the lines of tell 5 girls in a week that they look very pretty, even when you stutter. It's a start.. but going home with rejection is better than going home with regret of not saying anything?
/r/seduction29/08/17 09:30 AM
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The logistics part, try to invest some time of the day on planning something and sticking to it. That sounds like a good start.
/r/seduction29/08/17 09:26 AM
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if someone chopped your dick off, that would be a good enough reason lol... being 26 has nothing to do with anything. what does your daily routine look like? How many people do you interact with on daily basis? Would you consider the conversations deep or shallow? [do they connect on an emotional level or are they just mindless banter]
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:56 AM
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it's true though, fat girls don't get many opportunities so they go all out when they get one.
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:45 AM
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shit man why would you say that?
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:42 AM
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sex will give you a couple of days relief and smiles... but I personally never paid for it. I feel it's more about the satisfaction of getting the prize after all the hard work. You take her out on a date, make her laugh, go for the kiss, touch her and getting resistance, she's playing hard to get... later you try again.. and after all that hard work you get to cum on her tits and hand her a tissue. You'd be skipping the whole movie just to watch the ending. [edit: grammar]
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:11 AM
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The idea is that you want to find the pain and struggle attractive.. becoming good at it will come. For example don't try to become a rockstar if you don't like playing the guitar...personally I find biking uphill enjoyable riding downhill through forests becomes a bonus and doing so for two years I became pretty good at both and now it's more enjoyable... most of the time that's all I talk about what cool trail I found. Some care some dont no biggie it's better than talking about a series that …
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:26 PM
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I had something similar happen. Yet I didn't act on it and went with the whole "we're sleeping in the same bed but not fucking".. long story short.. regret it to this day.
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:08 PM
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thanks for the heads up just bought it, flew through first chapter and was exactly what I expected and needed at this point.
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:48 AM
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Meetups work too, but salsa dances are always there and always forcing you to interact, in meetups you depend on the organization of the whole thing. Remember the first few salsa classes (especially for beginner like my self) are not exactly ideal but after 2 trust me.. you WILL feel (more) comfortable and you'll have girls on hand to ask out.
/r/seduction14/09/16 06:10 AM
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Being a born Slovak I find the word and the definition of slovenly quite offensive. But great article overall.
/r/seduction08/08/16 06:22 AM
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The game is a nice story but based on bullshit and obnoxious peacocking. Models though.. I told my fwb about model so she wanted to read it to see what games I've been playing and even she agreed that it 'made sense' and best part the book is based on honesty and integrity.
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:28 AM
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Don't look at them as rules, he didn't even call them that. They're just pointers. I have to agree with OP that these 10 tips definitely sound solid, leave the yoga mat at home, earphones are a good idea.. Picture this: - Eye contact - Take out earphone - You're very pretty what's your name -- thank you, bla bla - bla bla - bla bla - I was on my way to grab coffee want to join me?
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:10 AM
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Since time has passed.. and Ive neglected your comment.. Its worth noting that I did fuck up with the sole basis of trying to compliement. Shit went down hill and looking back I put her on a pedistool which in turn backfired and she lost attraction. Yes we did fuck.. Yes I wanted her to be just mine.. Yes she wanted to be fwb.. Not all is lost ATM but a lot of rebuilding is ahead cause I dropped my guard and became needy. Anyway. Your commet makes alot more sense now. And.. Hate to admit..but yo…
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:01 PM
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All valid points but we're already bumpin which makes it that much more confusing.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:35 AM
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The airport one.. like butter.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:08 AM
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light touches on the shoulder work for me. Do it almost as if to get her attention.. something like you come back from the bar and walking up to her you touch the side of her shoulder and say "did you miss me". only a peck. You'll notice that they'll feel more comfortable and will reciprocate. Also her upper back, with palm when you're both looking at the same target and talking. Ie.: hand on upper back.. "check out that thing" Hugs are really good, you meet her, get her name.. nice to meet you …
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:33 AM
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The odds are against us, even in science your experiments will fail many times before one succeeds, skating.. you bail and hurt yourself more times than you actually land the trick you're trying. We shouldn't even call it a failure.. it's a shitty word for something greater... Progress. Thank you for this great read. You didn't fail you tried a certain way and realized it wasn't it.. The true way is around the corner... There's only one way to find it.
/r/seduction22/08/15 04:16 AM
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With slight alteration it can be more effective "Hi, you're gorgeous, whats your name?"
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:33 AM
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ask for closest coffee shop.. tell her you have 10 minutes before you have to do (whatever).. tell her if she's not in a hurry she should join you. If she is in a hurry get her #.
/r/seduction10/06/15 05:14 AM
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to add to what bpennitis said ..or closest coffee shop. If it's the summer.. ask whats a good place around to get ice-cream at. Three things why this is a great ice breaker, first off you're only asking directions she ain't on high guard.. second: those things are most probably on her radar already, and if they are it means she likes them which in turn gives you an opportunity to ask her something along the lines of "I have a minute to spare before I'm meeting up with a friend, want to grab a co…
/r/seduction10/06/15 04:51 AM
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