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| 3 | Kevin Costner divorceThat’s absurd. And that money is tax free to her | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | STBXW is on deed but not on mortgage. Can I simply buy her out without refinancing?Yes you can. I did just this. Also - she can withdrawal from your 401k in cash without a penalty as part of the divorce. So you could negotiate that she takes some of that to get her share of the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on 6 y/o left home alone?No way at 6. I think maybe some kids at 10. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Asset division2 lawyers fight to figure out what 50/50 actually means | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone elses ex or stbxw really hot?Work out and eat healthy. That will help your mental state as much as the physical. Buy new clothes and you’re a 10. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone elses ex or stbxw really hot?Look for a 7 with a fantastic vagina. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?I think with her assets in hand, you would not need to pay any alimony, just child support (depends on the state). Just get out of there. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/22 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced Men6,000. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Divorced and singleFind some hobbies. Meet some ladies | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | How to trust again?When developing a new relationship, you'll start to reflect on your previous one and identify so many more red flags in your failed relationship, and feel how it is supposed to feel. If you dont get that breakthrough, keep looking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 33 | Saw this post... well they’ve made their bed. Lie in it.Trump was so good social issues were more important than economic ones, like surviving. That’s what happens with super low unemployment that he achieved. People had time and money to get passionate about other things and forgot about what it took to get there. Trump didn’t create any of the social issues, they existed when he took office, but people were too busy hustling to care. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you think?Not it my state. Also, everything changed after 2018 with the tax law changes. The payer is responsible for all taxes, previously alimony was deductible and the person who got the money would need to report it as income. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | What do you think?They should. The divorce attorneys I have seen are just not good with numbers and taxes. The tax law also changed in 2018. I think the high priced lawyers I worked with just didn’t give a shit, told me to hire an accountant to do the math and go from there. He wanted nothing to do with it and neither did my ex’s attorney. They were not cheap and both clueless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | What do you think?Make sure everyone includes taxes that you owe. Any money she gets will be tax free to her, and you have to pay the taxes. All these calculations need to be done after taxes are paid. None of the attorneys I worked with were capable of doing that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 9 | Is the marriage counselor playbook completely sexist?Yes. My counselor focused nearly entirely on me. My ex rarely spoke. Instead of focusing on her actions, I had to change my reaction. Instead of focusing on her lack of communication, I had to change. The look on the counselors face was priceless though, when my ex admitted she had been lying at every session and had been having an affair for months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 4 | All that’s left are the scars...No one gives a shit about your hand. Or what you did or where you’ve been. Where are you going? Answer that question | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Self filing for divorcefinances were the reasons we had to get a lawyer, and after thousands of dollars my ex admitted that was a mistake. The two of you need to agree on what your assets are worth - an attorney cant do that for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Pain?Yes, right after you introduce her to your new GF that is prettier, younger and makes more money,, and she realizes a divorced woman is damaged goods. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | So They Realised That Men Are Naturally Better At ItI can find a source to prove anything. The boston symphony orchestra had increased participation from woman after implementing blind auditions. that is a fact. Further the other sources just attacked the original statistics in a study. Doesnt prove it as incorrect. Anyway, the blind auditions are going away so people can see skin color. That is a fact. Not to help women. | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/20 05:29 PM |
| -7 | So They Realised That Men Are Naturally Better At ItActually no, this worked and woman increased female partcipation. Now its about skin color | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Saw it and thought it was funnyThe high price of $7! | /r/MGTOW | 18/07/20 01:06 AM |
| 6 | When you a billionaire but still a simp.Its not a mystery what happened: https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/jeff-bezos-girlfriend-lauren-sanchez#:~:text=Lauren%20Sanchez%2C%20Jeff%20Bezos'%20reported,did%20with%20her%20former%20employer. | /r/MGTOW | 08/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | She cheated she wants divorceDivorce is expensive because its worth it. Soon you'll meet somebody that you have more in common with and is much younger | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/20 04:33 PM |
| -1 | Men can Love...You have mental issues. Seek some help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Men can Love...He didn't have to do anything. He could fuck a bitch and find another one in the next town and keep traveling Look at any other species. The male doesn't stick around except in Disney movies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/20 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Men can Love..." Men have to, not because men are better, but it's how they serve and protect their offspring and the mother of offspring. It's a survival component of "love" Women need to be flexible and find the best possible man to procreate with, therefore biologically they are prone to jumping to the bigger better guy." Eh... in nature, one male could impregnate thousands of females. Biologically, its the men designed not to love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Never Forget Who Profits From Divorce!The tax law change in 2018 is bullshit. I still support my ex and her kids, but pay taxes as a single filer. Cost me $10k this year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 17 | Anyone else stuck in the house with their cheating soon to be ex wife during lockdown, waiting for the divorce, with 2 kids... and it’s her birthday today.Fuck man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How does money judgment work?https://www1.nyc.gov/site/hra/help/child-support-calculator.page Hire a better lawyer. The only scenario I can see if you're getting hosed by an attorney that doesnt understand the tax impact of alimonry/child support and how that changed in 2018. 5+ kids is approximately 35% pre-tax, which is rather typical across the country. Either that or you are including taxes in the your 65%. In which case that makes perfect sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How does money judgment work?What state are you in? Most startes don't allow alimony and child support from the same base salary... You cant double dip I've never heard of a single state with either that high | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 0 | How does money judgment work?There's no court in any state that will allow her to take 65% of your paycheck. Who ever makes the money, will always get more. Get that fixed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Getting promoted while divorcingBut she can ask for more later. The law (at least for me) is that the kids should have equal lifestyles at each home. This isn't alimony My wife asked for a divorce right after my income doubled. I got fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I recently found out my wife has been unfaithful to be for the past few months, and I can't be with someone who'd do that to me. Looking for any advice on where to start.fill yourself up with hate. and use that energy to make yourself a better person. Hit the gym. Do things for yourself, but dont suppress the hate | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | You can see the day I discovered my wife was cheating... but damn, I’m looking good!I've got the same chart!!! Down 25 lbs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 5 | What was the best piece of advice you received after you separated?Be yourself and you’ll find somebody that actually loves you for who you are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Spousal Support - lump sum payout or pay for 14 years?Maybe look into an annuity. She can take the lump sum and convert that into monthly payments. It's like winning the lotto - upfront makes more sense but some people like monthly payments because that's how their mind and budget works. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Spousal Support - lump sum payout or pay for 14 years?assets is different than future support payments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Spousal Support - lump sum payout or pay for 14 years?What if she dies first? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/20 12:45 PM |
| 5 | Fuck. Just fuck.This and it happens sooner than you think. Right now you look back and think about all the good times. Soon you’ll look back and only remember the bad times. I promise you, that if she wants a divorce, you probably weren’t happy either. “Happy wife happy life” - well, you didn’t have a happy life. The biggest issue right now is the uncertainty. Once you figure out where y’all live, and everything, you’ll begin to move on and see some positives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/19 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Start of divorceNothing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/19 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Start of divorceCounseling only works if both participants want to save the marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/19 05:09 PM |
| 2 | my brothers storyBut once employment status changes they can revisit alimony | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Letter to my wife page #1She likely found someone else. Women don't care about how you feel. Only how they feel and how you make them feel. This should be about her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Douche Bag CopTax status matters. Not just who can claim the kid but the brackets are quite different. You pay taxes based on your marital status on one day of the year. I’d be fucked if my divorce went final in December instead of January. I’d go from like a 24% bracket to 35 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How does she do it?It's like you took the words out of my mouth. I've come to accept that my soon to be ex-wife was never the person I thought she was. And looking back, I should have noticed some red flags. After our kids got to be a little older (our youngest is now 3), it's like she time traveled back to her 20s. Her priorities are no longer the family, but how she looks, social media posts, and is insanely secretive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Questions about Pennsylvania (or any other states) that both no-fault vs fault divorce.I would expect that to be the case especially with kids. Maybe if there was a fight over the home, that could help. But financially it won't matter. And support only goes one way. from the higher earner to the lessor earner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Questions about Pennsylvania (or any other states) that both no-fault vs fault divorce.Mass is the same, and my understanding, is that you'll end up with the same result but it's a different way to get there. At least here, there is nothing to gain by going for a fault divorce, you just get your divorce done under a different section of law. I guess it could help with dividing resources, but at least here it seems pretty formulaic. I'm still going to pay child support - even if I catch her cheating. However, every state is different. So you really focus on PA examples. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/19 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy BackfiresMath doesn’t work out unless they got married at like 10 | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/19 01:33 PM |
| 9 | Retire before or after divorce?I would argue that you split assets 50/50 - and she gets half of all passive income (from the combined total). She's getting half your assets, and half the passive income already. Why would you need to pay her anything from your share? The timing of when you quit could be tricky. It may look like you're trying to sandbag your earnings to reduce alimony. But it sounds like you have enough wealth for her to maintain her lifestyle without you writing checks each month. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/19 02:32 PM |
| 51 | Broke & BrokenAnd those bags are filled with old lady pajamas | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/19 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Did you starting dating someone before your divorce or theirs was legally finalized?‘‘Twas a joke to troll the post | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/19 03:33 AM |
| 5 | My ex is mad I forgot to buy a cupcake for my child to have at the school party tomorrow and insists I did it on purpose.I’m still married...for now... and everything is intentional. And if it wasn’t intentional, that’s even worse. It means I wasn’t thinking about her at all and just ignored her altogether. But when I ask for her to pick up the dry cleaning (so I can appropriately go to work), she was too busy that day (never mind the Starbucks cup in her car, which is next door to the dry cleaners) | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Did you starting dating someone before your divorce or theirs was legally finalized?After I was done with her sister, I dated my own sister. Thanksgiving is going to be incredible. All my ladies under one roof. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Did you starting dating someone before your divorce or theirs was legally finalized?I started dating her sister. It was great - because I could still visit the in laws whenever I wanted and you know my kids, they liked their grand parents too. So it was just natural for us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 22 | TIL what she meant by "amicable"Her lawyer cares about one thing. Fees. The more ridiculous the offer the more hours will be spent | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Tinder in Utah be like...It's probably mostly minorities, not chads | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/19 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Too funny not to crosspostExcept she wouldn't be smiling and have a bitchy face | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Oh....they gonna learn....one way or another!!But blow jobs do | /r/MGTOW | 02/05/19 11:34 AM |
| 7 | All of a sudden they would be considered as a pedophile.to be fair a woman cant put a dick in there like jerry sandusky | /r/MGTOW | 06/04/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | I'm just a peasant and wouldn't know what it's like to make millionsYes. A maid at a hotel in Denver | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/19 10:15 AM |
| 8 | So are pornstars the most honest women in the planet?lolz. They're no different, only your attitude towards them is and so you've done some mental gymnastics to justify it. | /r/MGTOW | 25/03/19 11:56 AM |
| 0 | No and NoPeople are some stupid they think it's the second girl. Left looks like amirah adara | /r/MGTOW | 14/03/19 10:28 AM |
| 2 | How about nah?Dude. She's joking. Making fun of old middle eastern dudes that promise things that don't exist and a fucking poem | /r/MGTOW | 08/02/19 07:01 PM |
| -1 | How about nah?Can't anyone laugh at a joke? | /r/MGTOW | 08/02/19 02:58 PM |
| 5 | what?She's being honest. Better than everyone else on the site | /r/MGTOW | 29/01/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] My brother is a hotwifer and my parents are supporting him. Should I disown my family ?I hope she makes more than he does | /r/MGTOW | 21/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | I have to agreeTrue. But could easily replace her picture with someone else | /r/MGTOW | 17/11/18 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Oh isn't that coincident?the more i look at it, the funnier it gets | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/18 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Modern female teachers are fucked in the head. I’ve seen multiple articles of female teachers sleeping with teens nowadays.She was 14. You don't want the link | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/18 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Speaks for itself.What guy could be holding the stick? | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/18 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Speaks for itself.Wouldn't you see the stick? | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 8 | When you go to hand the football to the crowd but realize there’s a green haired feminist in front of you.lolz. He gives it to a broncos fan instead of her. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/18 04:52 PM |
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