| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 57 | Confidence and self-esteem are not one-in-the-same | STRATEGY | internetinterpreter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 05:37 AM |
| 11 | Enjoying time purely alone | internetinterpreter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 10:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Confidence and self-esteem are not one-in-the-sameYou cant fake self-esteem. You have to learn to love yourself. https://wwnorton.com/college/psych/psychsci/media/rosenberg.htm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:42 PM |
| -20 | Well god damn."well god damn" Reddit Post 2019 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Stolen from igWhere can Boaz be found in his free time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 29 | Why do men think this is an okay way to START a conversation?He's making it clear that he's never going to try. They start pushing that low-effort agenda early on, so the imminent disappointment isn't a surprise. If you ask questions, he'll spin it so you seem judgemental or something. NEXT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 19 | ‘Tis the season🎄I am going through this. I told him I couldn't take anymore bullshit a few days ago, and he just called 20 mins ago. I'll always let it go to voicemail. I know I should block him so I don't see it and ever feel tempted, but I think he only chases because he wants to be liked by everyone. My secret revenge is watching him try and fail after breaking my dumb-girl heart Not emotionally available, but sure does cave into his impulses easily... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:34 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes a little cringe be good for you...aaaw r/wholesome material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 09:21 PM |
| 30 | Oopsbad bad bad bad boy, you make me feel so goooooood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 4 | This is a tinder date and he suggests I book and he pays me half. Why the heck would I pay half. This is not a relationship! Haha how would you nicely say no boy you are paying. He is cute3? Nuh uh try hundreds. Don't get excited over your first couple matches. They should be excited about you anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 03:59 AM |
| 3 | You got me 😂now accepting preorders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:18 PM |
| -11 | Enthusiastic Consent is the vocabulary word of the day.Your unenthusiastic consent is going to get you physically hurt. Using the socially acceptable excuse of cooking food, doesn't excuse you pretending to be naive about his intentions. You knew he wanted to fuck. Why else would he invite you home -and cook for you? I think you could save yourself from possible rape by seriously deciding if you actually want to sleep with a guy before going back to his house alone with him. Like, reeeeally think hard about it. Honestly, it sounds like you just want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:05 AM |
| -13 | Enthusiastic Consent is the vocabulary word of the day."I'm like, I guess okay, but..." You let a guy you aren't enthusiastic about put his hands on you. A massage is never just a massage! Haven't you seen pulp fiction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:10 AM |
| 18 | And WE are the crazy ones!"What was she thinking!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:15 AM |
| 30 | Ain't that the truthOr they start gatekeeping. Quizzing her to make her validate herself. You can't just like enjoy hobbies apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:38 AM |
| 21 | The Myth That Men Really Want to Please Women But Are Bad At Sex Because Women Don’t “Communicate Enough” 🙄No, they know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Little meme to cheer y’all upcatchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:28 AM |
| 3 | FDS is Phasing Out Femcel LanguageThis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 12 | Life be likeLol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 35 | Life be like"Lisa, everyone knows dragons don't attack cars. Geez, pick up a book." "I pick up books like you pick up beers!" "Then you have a serious reading problem." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Sunday Reminder: Sisters, You Don’t Owe Men JACK SHIT!2019 Rape Statistics by Country | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Question: who should text who after a first date?Yea but I would send it after getting home safely. Not the next day or later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | The advice on this sub is absolutely insane. You will never find a happy relationship listening to it.Unleash the madness BREAK RULES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Pick me vs Smart bitch logicThis doesn't really answer the when-to-have-sex rampant debate on this sub. Many women say to hold out for several dates or even a month. It makes me think there isn't much sexual chemistry there. Can't we enjoy sex while a man takes us out simultaneously? I've traveled and had excellent sexual chemistry with a man who took care of everything. We are/were both adventurous, and I never felt any need to withhold sex - early in dating or while agreed monogamous with each other. I think pre-set agen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 8 | A man who loves you will do anything to make you happyI support you and whatever you want to call yourself. Be free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Nothing works when trying to get the initial connectionIt's okay to have low expectations, but low standards? Hell no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Lmao getting roasted for my last post on the America First subreddit? This dude can kick it with frozen pizza guy all he wants :-)what's an emcel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 10:02 PM |
| 6 | How do you get men to approach you?It's okay to be a little intimidating. You never wanted to date a coward anyway. Also, you don't have to approach him specifically. Alcohol/bars/parties are welcoming enough circumstances that you could just walk up the group he's speaking with and listen until you have something to contribute. Speak platonically. Be your usual confident, intimidating self. If he's interested in you and what you're saying, he'll likely move to be closer to you. Just don't wait around for him. Be ready to move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 14 | How do you get men to approach you?It's okay to be a little intimidating. You never wanted to date a coward anyway. Also, you don't have to approach him specifically. Alcohol/bars/parties are welcoming enough circumstances that you could just walk up the group he's speaking with and listen until you have something to contribute. Speak platonically. Be your usual confident, intimidating self. If he's interested in you and what you're saying, he'll likely move to be closer to you. Just don't wait around for him. Be ready to move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Do women really need dating strategy advice? 🤔Negging and gaslighting.... oh brother. When they ask you if you are sure about something, just tell them "you never have to ask me if I'm sure." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 38 | A man who loves you will do anything to make you happyA kettle belongs on the back burner, not you. Time to give the man who's next in line an opportunity *spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬I am happy and content in general. It doesn't matter to me if I seem single I don't care about being hit on either, I usually just patronizingly say "Oh aren't you just the sweetest" and go back to playing pool. After a sentence or two, most half-intelligent men give up and go find someone easier. I'm just fine with that. Water on a duck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 01:03 AM |
| 34 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬I'm pretty burned out of OLD. I beginning to think quality men don't use it because, yes, they regularly put themselves in locations where high-quality people frequent. Men on OLD are literally shopping for women, and you are "for sale." They are going to haggle you, and gauge how little they can contribute to get what they ultimately want. Probably gonna get downvoted for that, but I'm really starting to believe it. I'm thinking about shutting it all down to become full-time selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Can we not downvote posts where girls fucked up?I think it's important to be familiar with your 'enemy'. Reading their evil hate-soaked posts reminds me that I'm probably not as safe as I've grown to feel. By reading the views of people I do not agree with, I give myself the opportunity to develop a more accurate concept of the world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Needed to hear this after a breakupI use the word 'relationshit' pretty often. Use it all you want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Needed to hear this after a breakupWhen I hear about relationshit like that, I feel validated that being single is another form of being in good company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Enjoying time purely aloneI swipe left on so much and still match with most I like. I'll go ahead and entertain you on my disqualifies... even though I've enjoyed a pretty neurtral quiet presence on the internet here these last few years... No Kids No visible tattoos No poly stuff or threesomes Needs to have an undergrad like me, anything further is frosting on my sapiophile cake. No cigarettes Most pictures need to be smiling Swipe left on critical comments in bio like: "Girls who vote X swipe left" No dude, swiping in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Enjoying time purely aloneAnother thing that makes me not want to date despite feeling lonely was a post from this sub the other day that showed how many hundreds of thousands of followers there are for misogynistic subforums- and there are less than 20k here! I bet a few thousand are male observers. I don't want to say I've lost all hope in love, but it's starting to seem so impractical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Enjoying time purely aloneYeeah I got banned from tinder. I got un-enthused about dating again (like now) and switched my profile to advertise for my small business. Got some good clients before it got shut down. I decided I wasn't really getting a great quality dating experience from tinder so I never sought to use a new phone number to set up a new account. Plus, I got a hunch that most men use multiple dating apps anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Enjoying time purely aloneOLD has been a playground for me for the last year or more. I'm just realizing that in all the time I've spent drinking dating and kissing, I could have learned spanish or coding. I have nothing to show for the effort I've put into finding a wonderful man, and so instead of hanging out with Mr. Right Now from bumble, I might just... not date at all. Which I've haven't felt okay about in years. I'm not in my early 20s anymore, and I'm sort of coming to accept that a loving husband and family migh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Enjoying time purely aloneMr right now seems like a waste of good energy. I could be learning or building something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Enjoying time purely alonethanks i really like this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Please Nominate Your Favorite Post(s) for the Female Dating Strategy Wiki Page!The male strategies have huge subs and pages with hundreds of thousands of proponents, do we have a deadline?- or is society more forgiving- given that we are well under 50k to start. compared to the hundreds of thousands of overt mysos. I honestly follow their subs to prepare myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 10:00 AM |
| 5 | PSA: Don't let a man shame you for doing your research"keeping his profile up just to see if he would see people he knew" I can just see him nodding to himself, 'yeah why wouldn't she believe me, she's stupid and has to be nice because she's a woman. I got this' I worry about the children of these people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 12:55 AM |
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