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Question For WomenintersIn/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:41 AM
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My philosophy has always been; just because you can have children doesn't mean you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:31 PM
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No, neither one of us have any desire to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:57 PM
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I tend to think marriage is easier if the couple doesn't have children. Children require sacrifice and usually become the center of their parents universe. Not that this a bad thing but it can put a strain on the marriage. I don't find marriage difficult at all and we don't have children. Not sure if it bc we are childless or if it's bc I married the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:54 AM
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Only if you liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:04 AM
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Some being the key word. In general, middle aged men with dad bods aren't attractive. It ages them and they aren't good looking enough to pull it off. The "some" that can pull it off had an abundance of other attractive traits: tall, lots of personality, a handsome face, etc. They owned the dad bod and wore it like a badge of honor. Unfortunately, these guys are the exception, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:51 AM
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I have never been sexually attracted to my male friends and most of them are either more attractive or equally attractive as myself. If he presents himself as a friend, then I take him at face value and treat the realtionship accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:26 AM
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Do you plan on telling them why you are going to end the friendship? It's been done to me before, and it did hurt, but In the end it was for the best. I considered him a friend. It was never going to be anything other than a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:52 AM
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So your saying men only are cognizant enough to know they want sex. Not companionship, respect, admiration, etc. We must run in different circles, because all the men I have known do know they wanted all of this plus sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:04 AM
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Doesn't everyone want to feel like their special to their SO. I have never dated a woman - but I have dated plenty of men, and most wanted me to make them the center of my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:45 AM
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Looks are what gets me to cross the room, personality is what gets me to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:00 AM
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Depends, if you are talking about single mothers by choice - they want the child but not necessarily a man or a marriage and they have the means, without a man, to support a child. For some, a man is a nice to have, but not a requirement to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 03:01 AM
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smashed me into a lot of pieces. I put this person back together with the pieces I could find, but what I reassembled doesn't desire women anymore. That part of me is gone. Its sucks how someone else's decision and or actions can change the fundementals of who you are. Now two different versions of you exist - you pre shitty person/incident, and you post shitty person/incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 04:00 AM
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There always has been and will always will subset of men that will be unsuccessful with women. Now they just have a hivemind echo chamber to congregate on. That being said, women intiated divorces would be much higher than they are now and they wouldn't take years to get to that point. Women would be less inclined and/or more hesitatiant to date - recognizing that a lot of these men lie about looking for a realtionship and FDS would become mainstream as well. The number of sexless men going (sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:51 AM
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I don't think it's an either or thing. It's a combination of them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:44 AM
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I can't imagine most women, unless they are swingers, would be ok with something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:22 AM
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Some for privacy. But for many.. even their annoynous self is worried that someone will use their own post history against them. Lots of redpillers have post histories full of hypocrisy, past & current failures. Can't circle jerk if your insecurity, failures and weakness are their for everyone to read. Or they want to say some seriously racist mysignistic stuff and they don't want to use their main account to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:41 AM
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For casual sex, I could see it. The woman doesn't give a shit about the guy and the guy doesn't give a shit about the girl. I mean they like eachother well enough, but they aren't emotionally vested in one another. But the stuff that works the best here, is just your standard 101 dating advice. Anyone with a decent set of social skills would have picked that up long ago. However, many of you are not actually targeting women looking for casual sex, (not enough of them around or these men or not q…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:14 AM
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have one FWB that you can actually communicate well with who you know wants the same things. Vet over time to make sure he isn't married, no violent tendencies, and will be a good bed partner. Ask questions, and observe closely for any clingy behavior or any doubts, and don't insinuate that you "might be open to a relationship eventually,"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:36 AM
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Lol. This is exactly the tactic, I used to find my FWBs. Although I am woman not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:48 AM
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Like I said, if I met someone with this type of past, than my ick feeling would be triggered and my Spidey senses would be screaming "there is more to it than just novelty". I was born and raised in the largest US city, and imo has the best night life and bars in the country. But I am biased
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 01:53 AM
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Most men have an average penis, so we don't discuss your penis as much as you think we do. We discuss outliers. Men think about their dick way more than women do and because your always thinking about your dick you assume women do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:26 AM
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In my experience it seems to be more important to men than women. Do we talk about your peen size, yes, but mostly we discuss those that are odd looking, too large, too small, or proper hygiene and/or manscaping needs improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:01 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:26 AM
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For once I actually agree with a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:43 AM
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Low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:41 AM
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Same. I didn't plan on getting married either, but it was important to my husband. My field notes plus supporting data leads me to believe marriage isn't the best idea for women. That being said, marrying my husband is one of the best CMV I have ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:01 AM
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Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:15 AM
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Yikes dating a porn star would gross me out. Can't speak for other women, but men who continuously sleep with a new woman or a slew of women is physically repulsive to me. I would just start to think something is wrong with him. I would get the same ick feeling when meet men in their 40s who have never had a committed realtionship. Something is wrong there, I don't know what wrong is there is yet, but I know it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:13 AM
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I agree with you, but at the same time women need to start enforcing their boundaries and need to exit the realtionship much sooner than they usually do. Too many give way too many chances, hoping he will change. They need to understand they can't make him change, he is fully formed man and no amount of chances are going to change him or his behavior. No going on Reddit asking everyone who will listen if they should dump the fucker. If you have to ask, then you already know the answer. They also…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:41 PM
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Not sure I agree or disagree with you. I have never asked a guy out, sent signals that I was interested, but that's about it. At the same time, I know women who have asked guys out and they didn't appear to be starved for attention from men. They could be other factors involved here, age, living in a metropolitan area vs a rural area, casual dating vs realtionship dating, and personal preferences in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:42 PM
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We're your married at one point? I know you have children, so I assumed you were married at some point, but that's just an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:06 AM
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I am borrowing (possibly stealing) your arguments in this thread. This was really well thought out. If I had alt accounts I would give you more upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:42 AM
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Man mode is fine, and tbh many women enjoy how men interact with one another. Some of the best insults I learned came from something a man said, but there quite a few men who take it to another level of pure stupidity and anger. It would be fine if these men took their hate and anger out on men, or internalized it themselves, but they don't. So yes, they do take it and they see it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 03:09 AM
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IMO the urge to cheat is just part of human nature. I am not so naive to believe my husband does not check out other women, nor does he believe I don't check out other men, and tbh, who wants to be married to a person who doesn't have options. This just means you have an unattractive SO. No thank you. For us, we have discussed cheating and what the reprecussions would be if either of us cheated. If one of us decided to cheat we do so with the knowledge that we have now ended our marriage. No sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:52 AM
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keanu is too old, so I would go for Jason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:44 AM
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Out of curiosity, is this whole I won't pay for dates a generational thing? I am a Millennial in my 30s and I have never encountered a guy who didn't offer to pay for our date. Even when I met my FWBs in public the first couple of times, they paid. Granted I am no foodie, so 4 star restaurants aren't my thing. My husband still whips out the credit card when we go out. Even the wait staff tends to hand the bill to my husband. Not that it matters because we have a shared bank account. So is this a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:17 AM
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Bro, grow a sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:05 PM
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This whole sub depends on the hypothetical. if accuracy was needed, TRP would have gone out of business long ago. Never heard power top used in a heterosexual realtionship, and stop sharing your sexual perversions with me. I am still trying to get over the last time your shared. My health insurance has shitty thearpy coverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:02 AM
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So you feelz got hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 05:20 AM
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Men will put up with damn near anything If the woman is beautiful. They will literally pimp their simp beta side out if that's what it took to get a beautiful woman. Woman could kick puppies as a hobby, and men would still make every excuse in the book to rationalize their attraction to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:08 AM
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True. I can say the same has happened to me in regards to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:00 AM
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Chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:59 AM
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Only if she's attractive. Playing hard to get or being hard to get doesn't work with unattractive women. I have actually witnessed a few unattractive women actually pull this off. I wouldn't say it was the norm though. As far as I can tell, the women who pulled this off understand men better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:52 AM
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Lay off the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:42 AM
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Damn it, I literally just pictured this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:33 AM
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Like anything in depends on the person. Hot/cold, push/pull works pretty much on both gender's (I am sure RP men will deny this to their dying breath). However, I think there are certain men who love the thrill of the chase, and I would say these guys are sexually attracted to women who have some sort of detachment from them. Then there are men will chase women who clearly push their self destruct botton. I have seen enough men date women just like their mom, and their mom was a toxic human bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:20 AM
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It does suck, but the worse part is it sometimes leads to desperation and willness to put up with more shit than any one person should. I don't think society does a decent job of saying it's okay to be lonely or alone. For some reason, everybody seems to believe you have to be a pair to be happy. Being a pair can be freaking awesome, but sometimes being a pair is worse than being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:01 AM
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For some, I don't think you need to read all that much into, if TRP taught man something about their own psychology, gave them the tools for self awareness, you might encounter semi normal men learning game. Girl game, guy game some really love that, but if game isn't something you enjoy (certain personalities aren't comfortable with game) then all your left with is broken ppl looking for someone to validate them or fill the depressing void of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:41 AM
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Do you want to see certain ppl walking around sans pants. Saggy balls aren't something you can unsee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:23 AM
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Wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:33 AM
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I see the meaning of this post flew right over their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:27 AM
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That's a guy larping as a woman. We don't talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:22 AM
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Depends on the man really. I have known some shitty men who could care less that they cheated and I have known men who have felt genuine remorse. I think a lot more men would cheat if they had the option to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:03 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:00 AM
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Ok good, I was starting to think there was some weird new porn trend I know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:56 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:54 AM
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No he wasn't superior to my SO, he was just something different. no better or worse than my bf. And what difference do you thinking regarding of 'caring' about cheating between men and women? You knew the man will feel inferior, but what about the women? There is no difference. Both will feel inferior. The difference will come into play when you talk about blame. Woman will blame herself (not pretty enough) and man will blame the woman (she is a whore).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:52 AM
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Why do you need a woman to help you get your shit together? Get it together for you. fuck everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:25 AM
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I am 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:11 AM
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Christ u/ihavesprivilige is this you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:38 AM
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Dad still in China? Making your life awesome? I bet. Did you mean to reply to someone else? I mean I guess he could be in China, but he is close to death, so I don't see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:34 AM
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Your is the biggest I ever had!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:25 AM
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The more you present yourself as a fuck boy the more they tell quicker. The more they brag. I think it's because you are presenting yourself as someone all about sex so they mirror the behavior. Most of the men I dated, I was in it for the sex, not commitment. So in essence most were fuck boys. Neither one of us got into detail about past sexual experiences. Like I said before, if they did go into detail it was a turn off. To be frank, we were too busy learning what made the other orgasm vs talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:17 AM
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I have said this before and I will say it again, talking about past lovers or sexual exploration is not something most women discuss with someone they are currently dating. Unless they are like 17. First, that's just a unclassy shitty thing to do, second no man or woman wants to be privy to how much dick or pussy you have had in the past. If I guy started told me about sex with his ex, I would think one of two things - he is still hung up on his ex or he is trying to make me jealous. If it's jea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:18 AM
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If he isn't meeting your need for affection, than, at some point, you are going to feel unhappy and are constantly wonder if you should get a man that is able to meet your needs. That being said my husband, is more of an affection person than myself, so in the beginning I had to make a conscious effort to be more affectionate. It wasn't that I didn't want to be affectionate, it's just wasn't something I myself, needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:30 PM
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In my mind it only starts getting creepy and predatory when the guy is like 40+ and the girl is in her teens or in her 20s. If the guy was 50 and she was in her 30s this doesn't seem as predatory, because at 30 she is a grown woman, out of formative years and is wise enough to make an informed decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:22 PM
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The male desire for polygamy can mean we cheat or step out even though everything is fine in the monogamous relationship. There is a little bit more to this, than just plain ole polygamy, but that's a discussion for a different day. I realized I was being selfish only after I saw that my actions actually did hurt my bf. I didn't think men really cared that much about women, and that cheating was a hit to their ego more than anything. And for some men that's all there is to it. They don't actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:56 AM
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Because hurting someone who didn't deserve it made me feel like scum. Being an asshole only is appealing to those who are insecure or who are true narcissistic assholes. Think about, those who cheat, but chose not to leave their significant other, don't really believe they are good enough to strike out on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:11 AM
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Your so funny. Teepers: your the prize. Woman: I am the prize Terpers: what no, that's only acceptable for Terpers to think you. These women and their Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 03:21 AM
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They are like wisdom teeth. Unable to accept evolution has changed the landscape and no longer fit properly in the modern world, but still try to force they way through, because a million years ago we needed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 03:11 AM
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Jesus, who wants to commit to entire dinner. Coffee first, then decide if there is enough there to proceed to the next phase of buying dinner. You ever been on a date, and 10 mins in you know it's going to be a hot mess filled with awkward silence. It sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:55 AM
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I am woman I cheated. I was young, dumb, and selfish. I wanted what I wanted, and didn't think about how much cheating hurts another person. At the time, I rationalized this by thinking 'who cares men cheat all the time'. It's easy to avoid accountability, when you want to absolve yourself of guilt. Now, no matter what, I will never cheat again. I still feel ashamed of my younger self.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:26 AM
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That's a whole lot of projection there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:35 AM
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That's true, there are a number of men who are generally more resistance to change than women. Quite a few have to hit rock bottom before they are able to make a change. Women change and adapt all the time, they are built to do just that. Hamestering TRP solisophism, is the drug of choice for men who don't understand social nuances and who need a rule book that breaks those changes down in a way that absolves themselves of accountability. I no longer know any men whose preferences don't change a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:57 PM
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It's just called growing up. It's it pretty much what happens to both gender's as they leave their teens, their 20s, and then their 30s. Physical preferences may not vary all that much, but that's really about it. TRP just wants to put a magical formula on it so they can feel like they have it figured out. They don't. Unless someone is completely socially stunted, ppl should and do change as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:47 PM
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Getting a man or a realtionship isn't the problem, they just made bad choices or put up with shitty behavior for too long. 30+ year old woman aren't desperate for men dude, (your not an endangered species) their priorities changed. Cuz you know being an adult in all does that. It's not women who don't have their shit together in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:22 PM
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visceral reaction younger men often have to this, especially if they are not very experienced sexually. I met a couple guys who were like this, but I would not consider them Terpers. They told me their reasons, I didn't agree with them, but I did respect their personal preference. My take was it just made them really uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 04:45 AM
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I am still confused about who goes around talking about or asking about their current SO past lovers. I have only had one guy ask me this, but that date was hot mess from the onset. So who cares: There are a subset of men, not just Terpers, who can not stand the thought of knowing they are with a girl that all their Bros have been with it. Personally I think that's more of an ego thing. Which you did kind of address with this tidbit: People with various mental disorders invoked by internal phobi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 04:10 AM
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Date a multiple ppl at the same time. There is no reason you should not be talking to others if you are casually dating. No reason to put your eggs all in one basket, and take your time. The opposite gender isn't an endangered species, no need to feel like you have to have the 'one' now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:06 AM
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I had the same conclusion as you. OP if it's space because she is temporarily pissed off and needs a minute to figure out what to say without lashing out, give her space. If she is saying she wants space from the realtionship, then chances are she is done with you. Don't go chasing after her, she made her decision. Now you need to make yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:09 AM
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How does killing women and children correlate with the decline? What is the 'decline' in reference to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:58 AM
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You really can't, best you can do is break up with him asap. You don't want to drag this out, it will only make it much worse in the long run (for both of you). I’ve brought up breaking up numerous times and he freaks out since he thinks I’m the love of his life. This is the worst thing you can do. It's like an ultimatum without any follow through, plus he thinks he can play your emotions to keep you from leaving. Break ups are rarely easy. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:00 AM
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Tongue, if used correctly, is often better than dick. A man who uses both correctly is ahead of 80% of the average dudes out there. Considering a lot of men want the receiving vs the giving part of oral sex, man with a magical tongue is a rarity and a damn good find.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:04 AM
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As an adult, when you break up it isn't out of the blue. There have been multiple problems that have been discussed and if those problems can't be resolved the next step is to break up. Off hand, I don't remember dating anyone where this has happened. I think my initial reaction would be why was he waiting on me to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:08 PM
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This doesn't disprove anything I said, its just you trying to slip in an insult to defend your own circular logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:37 PM
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Yeah, it's time to next this guy. Any guy who doesn't like your cat needs to go. Pussy cat before dick! All kidding aside, how is he comprising? As far as I can tell, it sounds like he wants you to do all the 'comprising'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:50 AM
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I am the same. Kids are adorable, but I don't want them myself. I don't think this is a new trend either. I think they have been many women, in the past, who never wanted children either, but traditionally they were never given the freedom not to have children. Having children was an societal expectation. Even now, society tells women who don't want children, that we will change their minds. Another facet to child rearing, is that so much of the responsibility falls on the woman. Men, even when …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:32 AM
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I had a similar experience. I didn't plan on getting married, nor did I want children. I was kind of shocked when I realized there were a lot of men looking for more permanent realtionship. We tend to believe the stereotype, and when our reality doesn't match it's a bit of a surprise. That's when I realized you I needed to be upfront about what I was looking for. By upfront I mean right from the onset. Average guys always just seemrd thirstier than the above average guys. I always thought they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:43 AM
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I work in Silicone Valley, and the men there certainly do not peak at 45. They peak in their late 20s early 30s. A lot of these guys are former nerds and didn't do much in the casual scene until they late 20s. At 45, most are overweight, due to a seditary life style and poor eating habits. Even in the more affluent neighbors, where they have enough disposable income to partake in fitness activities, these guys are still rocking a dad bod. There are good looking older guys late 30s+, but they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:13 AM
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This. There are more PPD men who know what is going on the FDS sub than most of the PPD women. They can't help themselves. They blame the correlation on PPD women so they can hide their own addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:31 PM
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I am annoyed it took me two comments to figure it out. 5 mins of my time that I will never get back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:33 AM
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It's bit more involved than this. The psychopath comes into play when we read the comments written by men who claim that they are in successful relationship with their wives and GF, because they believe being an emotional manipulate asshole works. They pretend they are leaders, yet can't quite understand that a leader will lead for the good of the family, not for the good ones self. That's a dictarship - and as soon as the opportunities present itself ppl will flee a dictarship. Or they think fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:24 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:34 AM
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There is that manosphere hypocrisy your are all know for. You try too hard dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:26 AM
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Ahh look at you still trying to recover. I didn't read your history. You have replied to my comments several times with your incoherent rants about "oh poor me women are so beneath me" yet I still need sex or I get depressed. In general, I was happy to ignore you - your coming from a country where women still need men, and yet you still need TRP to try and attact women. Not hard to guess how far down on the attractive scale you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 03:39 AM
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Nice try. But please do continue to slither around trying to escape your own logic being used against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 03:02 AM
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Now you are just backtracking because you ego is bruised because you didn't like what I insinuated. Also comment history?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:46 AM
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No you did - explained in great detail in your numerous comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:37 AM
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So start dating a man who has a vagina and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:25 AM
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PPD Men want a woman who: Has lots of sex - regardless if she has an orgasm Isn't a bother Be appreciate of the guy just showing up to the realtionship Be loyal Take care of him Women don't want 200 lbs of dead weight hanging off them. Dead weight is a hard 'Nope'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:10 AM
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No, men give advice that benefits their pee wee and glorifies pickmesisha traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:44 AM
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How many times have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:05 AM
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Yeah, I am not a fan myself. Trying to work up the energy to do something right now. My excuse is, which is a good one, it's 104 here and I could die from heat exhaustion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 12:27 AM
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Makes sense. Never thought about too much, but it's definitely an interesting tid bit too consider. I actually learned something new about men on PPD that didn't make wish I was a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 12:23 AM
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Men drool and want to pick you up when you are working out, or been working, and, "feeling all icky" for a reason. You can take advantage of that. Wow really, I mean obviously not if you have BO, but this is really surprising to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:40 PM
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They filter themselves out, by asking. BTW OP, we appreciate that. I heard some of them even ask on the first "date", and yet remain clueless when the women gets an "important" call and has to cut the date short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:13 PM
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Unfortunately, I have to agree here and I am a Millennial. Although, I certainly wasn't raised that way. I adopted this unique brand of special when I moved to suburbia. My friends back home keep me somewhat grounded by giving me complete shit when my privileged ass goes too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:17 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:00 AM
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I think BMI is a better indicator of how healthy you are vs the number on the scale, but do most ppl know their BMI? If you are a fit guy yourself, wanting to date a woman who is fit as well, is natural. Who cared if you trigger others, your not asking for something you don't have yourself. I certainly don't want to date chubsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:50 AM
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Meaning it's hyprocital for men to want to date women when they are their best and richest (young and hot), and then berate women for a wanting men at their best and richest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:06 AM
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That setting and enforcing boundaries for what you will and will not accept in a realtionship, doesn't mean you don't love the person, it just means your respect yourself enough to have and believe in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:25 AM
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I wish that were true. One could blame it on being young and stupid. However a lot of these guys are way past their formative years. They are old bitter men, larping as successful rp married men, or old bitter men 'selling' locker room stories about fucking women 20 years their junior. It's kind of sad, really, but they did it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:47 AM
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Well, look at that your back with a post that didn't get removed. I didn't even realize it was yours at first. Still, I miss the old you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:36 AM
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Not wary, cautious. When I was dating, I watched what they did, not what they said. Because I did watch what men did, not what they said, I learned that not all men were like this. Then I simply decided if I was going to do a realtionship then I was going to make sure I got a man who was the complete opposite of the men I grew up with. Never hated men, just completely aware of what they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:12 AM
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If red pillers have to lie about looking just for casual sex, meaning they indicate they want a realtionship, I fail to see how they can call themselves "alpha". A guy who has to dangle the comfort of commitment in front of a woman's face prior to sex, isnt something an alpha would ever have to do. This feels more like a Billy beta move more than anything. His game and looks aren't quite enough to get casual sex. When I told BD about how much my results skyrocketed when I started being upfront a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:01 PM
1

So you tell them you want realtionship, when actuality you don't. Is this a fair assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:34 PM
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We both had shitty parents, and saw the ugly our genders are capable of. It takes a special brand of selfishness to create these type of ppl, but they do not deserve to take up space in our head anymore. They only get a "fuck you" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:39 PM
1

I was going to suggest that, but I was worried that by putting it out there, I would doom an innocent trans woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:27 AM
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Funny thing is, there is some good in there. For me, personally, when I was looking for casual sex, I did want the more assertive fun flirty guy, who was content doing his own thing, and no I didn't want to take a deep dive into his emotional well. I wasn't invested in him, so there is no reason, beyond the sexual nature, for him to invest in me. So yeah, I can see how it gets some guy laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:48 AM
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Yeah it sucked. But I married a fantastic man, who is sexy af and makes up for every shitty man I ever knew. My in laws are fucking amazing and showed me what a family looks like. I have the most intelligent and adorable nieces and nephews anyone could ever have, and I have a job I really enjoy and the pay ain't bad. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:50 AM
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They don't accept that is was there fault, they are told to change because "women are bad and do bad things". Its a clever way to skirt responsibility and blame women all at the same time. They are told that women lied to them about wanting a nice guy, yet somehow miss the fact they were only nice to women because they thought it was the fastest way to get into their pants. They were friendzoned, because the women actually thought he wanted to be her friend. Taking responsibility means that thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:42 AM
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Youth and beauty isn't for her it's for him, they mention nothing about personality or who she is as as person, it's all about the outward appearance. He wants pretty while he himself is average or old. Gold diggers want money for themselves, they don't care who he is as a person. She wants money while she herself is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:29 AM
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Why is so difficult for men to understand that them wanting a woman's youth and beauty, is exactly the same as a woman wanting a man for his money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:55 AM
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Everyone has had or will have a bad experience with the opposite sex, everyone. Others can bounce back, without believing AMALT or AWALT, and for whatever reason others can not. There is an essential trait missing here that prevents these guys from moving on, fortitude maybe? Because they can't do it on their own, they go looking for someone or something to tell them what happened, but all they found was a way to deflect responsibility for their own part, and cast blame onto 50% of the populatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:29 AM
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This is where I get upset with my gender. They give way too many chances - thinking a man is goung to change. He isn't. He is a fully formed grow up. And out of desperation they throw out an ultimatum with 0 follow through. Those ultimatums mean nothing. Women need to be better at defining and enforcing their boundatries. Having the same conversation over and over again is counterproductive. They need to have a "conversation" limit, and once that limit is up, then they are done. They did all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:41 PM
2

We are in unprecedented times. Covid19 and romance are in the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:01 AM
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No they don't want sex with Alpha, they want sex with hot men who actually enjoy being around and interacting with women. Your definition of feminists includes a wide range of traits and actions that are defined and then redefined, to fit what ever narrative you are rocking that day. Manosphere definition of feminists, really just means women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:40 AM
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So find someone who was born a man, but now is a woman. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:15 AM
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No, woman want sex with a realtionship, and they want it with a guy who actually likes being around a woman. You just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:45 AM
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I am fairly tall as well, and met a lot men who preferred petite woman. I dated one guy close to my own height, and he hated it when I wore heels. He felt embarrassed when we would go out, which then made me feel embrassed. It was a ridiculously situation to be in. If you have a husband who is embarrassed that his wife makes more than him, I imagine it won't be long before the wife feels embarrassed that she makes more than him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:42 AM
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You don't like women and all you want is sex from them. Sex, that most likely won't result in an orgasm. Women aren't men and being see as a walking vagina, is about as flattering as a woman seeing you as a walking ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:02 AM
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Are Terpers looking for romance now? Casual sex has nothing to do with romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:25 AM
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Nothing changed they still want the same, which is the problem. Women aren't looking for realtionships where their primary role was to stand behind their husband. These days is just another way to say I want a subservient one dimensional women, who will still fuck me. It's hyprocital to say women want them for money, when all they want women for is sex and mommy skills. Nothing wrong with being nuturing and pleasant, but that's all they ever say they are looking for. If they were to add - dark s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:05 PM
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I generally just think most of these guys want our sex drive to match theirs. That we need more than just the urge to come to to want to fuck somebody. Some of these guys admit they can fuck women that they are not even really all that attracted to. That's not how are sex drive works. I have no idea where they get the idea women have these unrealistic expectations for men. It's not like we told them they are only attractive from the time they are, whatever the teenage age is today till 25, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 08:16 PM
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Again pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:01 PM
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Good rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:20 PM
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Your comments were pointless and proved my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:11 PM
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Good point. Shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:06 PM
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Are you new to this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:34 AM
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My hand has more value than women for sex. Keep that mental picture to yourself, nobody wants that shit in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:44 AM
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I don't like sweaters. Come on DangZagnut You know damn well none of you believe for a sec women add any value to any man's life beyond sex. There was no way in hell I was going to take this post seriously. It was set up to fail from the onset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:26 AM
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Incels aside. RP is just repackaged dating advice that gives it a narrative that avenges men's former self, and then sold to a target audience. Does being more assertive, looking good, and having opinions and outside interest that are not dependent on women work..absolutely. Is learning to be fun and flirty, and not diving too deep into your emotional needs a prerequisite for obtaining casual sex, also yes. However the narrative is meant to objectify, and blame women, then add in the anger that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:15 AM
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Can you imagine what would happen if I actually listed qualities that make me seem like a individual instead of a walking vagina. They don't like it when you say you have value beyond your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:03 AM
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You told me that being illegal was enough to make prostuition not an option. That this wasn't a bs answer. Then I literally Just said being illegal was not the most cited reason for why prostuition was rejected. And then you come back with It's a hit to the ego because why pay when pussy can be had for free or the cost of dinner anyways? Not to mention the fact that it's not socially accepted at this point whatsoever. Do go looking for logic when you your reply was pointless. You want prostuitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:53 AM
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Prostuition is rampant and goes from fucking cheap as hell to ridiculously expensive. They don't want to do it because it's a hit to the ego. When you have a group of men who do not like anything about a woman other than her vagina, prostuition is the most logical way to go. As far as being illegal, driving while intoxicated is illegal and yet ppl do it all the time, and illegal was not the most cited reason for why they were against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:27 AM
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I love your post OP, but you are talking to a group of men who believe hot young women should just like them. They bitch about women using them for their utility, but yet do not see how they themselves want to use women for their utility. They like the idea of women, yet will never see them as individuals. They project their own inadequacies on to women as away to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:17 AM
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Nobody comes back from America and says, "Wow the women there we're so breathtaking/beautiful!", You don't travel to another country to stare at the opposite sex. You seldom visit a traveling hotspot with an active nightlife and NOT encounter young americans. Where? Where are their an a lot of young middle class Americans men traveling to? I am not talking about a one or two. They aren't in South East Asia, nor or they in East Asia. Majority of young ppl there are Europeans or Australians. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 03:03 AM
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They are not all they are cracked up to be. Mostly they are a huge pain in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:58 AM
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Then there are a lot of these on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:56 AM
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I've never heard of non-immigrant foreign men going out of their way to hook up with Western women. No clue where you live, but on the west coast, yeah they do. Many of them consider American woman to be overweight, unfeminine, loud, money hungry or arrogant from my experiences, not saying I agree. Good for you trying out your negging techniques. You think American dudes travelling to Columbia, Eastern Europe, DR, Thailand etc are looking for wives to bring back home to their families?? No, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:43 AM
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Because I have a vagina, big boobs, and make fucking phenomenal cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:47 AM
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This is why most international men can't stand dating Western women and Western men favour dating foreign women. Is this how you rationalizing that western women won't date foreign men from non westernized countries. There is a reason for that and it's not because foreign men are turning western women down. Western men favour dating foreign women. I am not seeing this trend. When I do see it, it's because the man went to a foreign country to find a wife and bring her back. This isn't something t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:44 AM
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That's a lot of mental gymnastics to say, yeah we are attracted to women when they are damn near perfect, but that's because younger women have better personalities. This isn't any different than a guy reading Playboy, but saying he is only reading it for the articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:24 AM
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stop eating so little and have my tummy fat rolls back, let my weight fluctuates and enjoy my stretch marks and cellulite, and let my body hair grow AND still be attractive to a man that isnt an incel. Amen. If looks didn't matter as much as they do, i am pretty sure I would be a hairy roly poly, living off Cherry Garcia, and wearing yoga pants and a hoodie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:42 PM
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Women set the standards themselves, men are very low maintenance as far as that. Women on here are constantly told they height of a women's beauty is some ridiculous scary teenage age till 25. This age range will be about a flawless as a woman can be. No stretch marks, no wrinkles, no cellulite, no after effects of child birth, etc. And they also tell us we must accept that all men will forever lust after these women. They want the impossible from a woman, to forever look like their 25. It doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:35 PM
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Once a conversation on here with a guy who told me that Victoria secrets model standards where the correct weight for women. He ignored the fact that a lot of those models lost their period because they were under weight. Protruding hip bones are not attractive. Ironically enough, guys who judge women based off these standards or either average or below average looking. Personally, I think women need to stop dating men who are not as attractive as they are. You rarely see men dating women who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:51 PM
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That sucks. I was concerned you were losing your touch. Try posting it as a Public Service Announcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:33 AM
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I am not getting my how in the fuck does this shit happen feelz from this post. Your getting soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 04:27 AM
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This is quite a step up from the last one. It was removed or I would link it. OP is either getting soft or he is going outside more. Hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 03:34 AM
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Yes, and no one is objecting this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:41 AM
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I never understood this. Criticism is hard to take, but it's necessary if you want to improve. Its not like you don't know you are doing something wrong. If you were doing it right you wouldn't be asking for advice in the first place. But yeah I get what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:17 AM
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Men only react well from advice given to them by other men. If a woman gives a man honest advice 8 times out 10 man's ego gets in the way. Every single women has given honest advice to many a man only to have him dismiss it, become hostile - she is a bitch, or he goes off and pouts somewhere. You want honest advice from women than a stop looking for the feelz and honesty when you solicit advice from women - men expect women to give honest advice in a gentle, yet feminine demeanor, truthful, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:55 AM
1

That sounds more like MGTOW. Post MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:18 AM
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I always thought they took the basics and repackaged it, but also gave it a narrative that allows their former self to feel avenged. Like, it's wasn't you bro, it's women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:48 AM
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Christ me too. Quite few of them end up divorced as well. As per usual, 0 accountability for causing the divorce instead, it's Hypergamy. The ones who are fathers to daughters are the most disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:17 AM
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Accountability is a dying trait. Its way more fun to believe society is secretly meeting to develop a plan meant to keep me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:37 AM
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My 20s were great because I had 0 responsibilities and was able to backpack my way through Asia . My 30s are equally good just in a different way. Responsibilities, yes, but more money, better job - not living pay chech to pay check, better sex, more confidentand, and a husband. Not sure there is a right age bracket for "best years of one's life", priorities, goals, wants just age with you. Happy, content, miserable, or depressed aren't ageist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:18 AM
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What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:33 AM
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Dude, your dangling the commitment realtionship card in front of them so you can keep on fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:41 AM
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Then I wish you many happy mutually pleasurable fucks. Who is better cougars or college girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:00 AM
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Ok. Are you another one who then promises commitment in exchange for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:50 AM
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UMC - upper middle class. 10 times in 10 they categorize me as BF. I can't control that and blaming me for their choices is not acceptable. Your rationalizing your 0 accountability. They didn't chose you, they chose the commitment lie you told. Women didn't put you into boyfriend category, you did. Don't care what you do, but don't go saying TRP works on women with their shit together because it doesn't. The only way you got this to work is by promising beta bucks commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:35 AM
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No, if you are really dating in the world of the UMC you now damn well they are enough of us out there who are down to fuck without strings. You are preying on the ones who want a commitment. If you didn't offer commitment than they would not be with you. It's just how it works up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:37 AM
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So you are lying. Edited to say: By lying I mean, you are promising commitment in exchange for sex. Which is to say without the lie we wouldn't date or sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:21 AM
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LOL... Yeah, they walk away pissed as hell once they figure it out. It usually takes about 4 to 6 months though. Based off this reply, than no you aren't dating the secure ones who have their shit together. Or your promising commitment in exchange for sex. Casual sex, FWB, we aren't emotional invested in you, at least not in UMC land, and most are dating more than one man at the same time. Being pissed requires some sort of emotional investment. Of course we could want more, and if we do, than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:57 AM
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Because women aren't that consistent with their orgasms. No, they just weren't that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 01:34 AM
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For sex, sure. For a LTR, no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 01:22 AM
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I can see this working for those who want a FWB only. It goes without saying that has to be decent looking, have some conversation skills, and enthusiastic in bed. If a woman is looking for a true FWB, they want fun flirty sex. Nothing more. They don't particular care about the guy, they aren't going care how is day went, what his dreams are, his personal problems, etc. There is no emotional investment in him at all. For Terpers who need to play head games to avenge himself for past rejections, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:40 PM
3

Lol. My husband said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:39 PM
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Ditto. For me, sex without an orgasm isn't enjoyable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:52 PM
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Most women *appreciated* it. Yes, we do. And on behalf of women who have never consider casually sleeping with a guy without a condom, thank you. I honestly have no idea what these ppl are taking about. Apparently most men don't wear condoms. Yeah it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:24 AM
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Male projection. Women don't talk like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:47 AM
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The retirement center she lives in still has a decent amount of men. I don't know what the ratio is for other centers. Women tend to outlive men, so I imagine the women do out number the men in these centers. they get pretty sexually aggressive with the guys who still have their teeth and hair. Yup, I have definitely seen this. They definitely like the younger men. My husband and brothers said they have been waiting all their lives for women to throw themselves at them, they just didn't realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:49 AM
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My grandmother was 17. She definitely settled. Now she is the nursing home surrounded by old dudes trying to date her. There a bunch of horny old men in there. Don't know, nor do I ever want to know if they are able to "perform". She says she won't date any of them unless they still have their own teeth. I try very hard not to ask a lot of questions about her social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:02 AM
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If we are speaking about the past (women were financial dependent, stigma against women who do not marry, etc) Best guess 50%. In this era, very little. Financial independence and job opportunities have given women the freedom to marry who they want. When you need to marry, your options are limited and you are more tolerant of behavior that isn't in your best interest. For conservative sake I would say 85% of women marry someone who was there first pick. It's when the marriage goes south that no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:20 AM
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I was on that stupid circle jerk debate. It's been deleted, but my comment history is still intact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:23 AM
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So it suggest it is ok to have multiple partners you are committed to. They actually say this? Like it's their handbook? I have seen them tell women until you have a commitment go ahead and date multiple men. No putting your eggs all in one basket. In some cases even encourages taking children away. Wat. Like on their subbredit they encouraged women to take their children away? Have you actually seen this or is this second hand knowledge. As for money, expecting the man to pay for dates is hardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:01 AM
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Female dating strategy suggest that it is ok for women to lie, cheat, and manipulate. They encourage women to use "strategies" that are manipulation I am confused since when did they tell women to lie cheat and manipulate. Does FDS now encourage cheating? Are they told to commit to a man and then cheat on them or pretend interest in a man and then steal his money? Are they now telling women to lie to men to get them to commit, and once in that committed relationship they should practice dread on…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:29 PM
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Projection. I am not the one who needs to rely on a story written by an aging, could be Blackpill Poster Child Messiah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:41 AM
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They didn't watch anything. They sat in their room, logged onto their online echo chamber, and read eachother's field notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:20 AM
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Terpers have really fucked the definition of masculine. To them an arrogant manipulate ass is masculine. What they don't realize is arrogant with a heavy dose of no accountability is about as attractive is a 300 lb man who hasn't showered in months is. I guess somebody will love him, but most will be replused. It's good you know your type and what works for you. There isn't a one size fits all or even one size fits most when it comes to sexual attraction or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:57 AM
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Men don't like to believe that some (possibly their) women are capable and do fantasize about being with other men or are imagining a different man during sexy times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:27 AM
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As long as it was purely sexual than yes. I realize I am in the minority here, but I don't need an emotional bond with men to enjoy sex. Like them sure, but I don't need to love them. I can't be the only woman who has dated more than one guy at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:53 AM
1

Do I have to take care of them a.k.a mommy wife? Or after sex can I just go home and order a pizza?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:19 AM
3

I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:32 AM
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You all love the Men who do housework have less sex study. A study done 20+ years ago. The study was conducted gathered survey information from 4,500 U.S. married couples. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/ This study is now the gold standard. Despite the fact you over looked this little tidy: they found that women from households with more traditional divisions of labor felt no less happy with their sex lives than women in more gender-neutral ones.. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:12 AM
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Moving Goal Posts. There is no consistency on what makes a study reliable vs unreliable. One minute data collected by survey is acceptable/reliable, as long as they support the RP narrative, and if it doesn't, then it's deemed unacceptable/unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:54 PM
1

Mine as well. It sucks when you have a parent that puts their own needs ahead of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:10 PM
1

It's when the guy pretends he is wearing a condom and then takes it off during the act. The women doesn't know until after his grand finale. It's not common, but it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:36 AM
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We have a few ground rules, for example, neither of us can accept a position that would require us to be away from eachother for months at a time. We learned that lesson early on. We both have times were we are working 40+ hours, but the company has an a very liberal work from home policy, so we aren't chained to our desks. If we have to work over time, we are doing it from home. We also plan a lot of weekend gateways and vacations together. We are also lucky enough that we can afford to outsour…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:47 AM
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Fair enough. Both my husband and I are career oriented, but our marriage has always come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:03 AM
3

So if you were to have children, you would like your SO to be a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:03 AM
1

Do you have 50/50 custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:58 AM
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I am not sure I would call it bossier, more like they are more confident sexually assertive with you. You have given them permission to do more than just respectively hold your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:08 AM
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Do you negotiate pizza toppings prior to the festivities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:52 AM
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This is the best explanation I have seen on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:12 AM
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I think cautious is a better stradegy. Until you get a better understanding of who this person is, you don't want to go telling someone some very personal information. In the beginning it should be fun and flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:44 AM
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You are thinking ghetto - like they portray in the movies. Low income, which is consider poor depending on where you live, is far from lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:54 AM
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According to you link, this study is 20+ years old. The data was collected between 1992 - 1994.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:14 AM
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For some much longer than it should and it's hard to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:46 AM
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One of my best friends is named Karen. The ironic part is she is a pretty much the opposite of a Karen. Women doesn't have an entitled mean bone in her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 11:07 PM
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At one point in time, there was some truth to it. Now I think it's just used by men who are pissed at women who stand up for themselves or don't like being called out on their BS. Odly enough, it's the same men who refer to women as bitches, whore, sluts. It's lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 10:26 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. I grew up in a natural red pill environment, and truly believed than men could not love or possibly respect their wives. To make matters worse, I also lost respect for my own gender. There were a lot of days I wanted to scream "Just fucking leave already"! I now understand there were a myraid of reasons for them staying. I still struggle with empathy for women who stay. It's one of my flaws and I know it. However, I did find a man, despite my terrible firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:38 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:23 PM
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Finding a guy who calls you more and treats you better is significantly better than. If you are currently with a person who isn't willing to do this, than the SO is flawed. Best to branch swing your ass right out of there. Based on what she said, I would not be shocked "if take you out more" = did more with me other than watch Netflix and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:06 AM
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Is this the manosphere definition of hypergamy: When you find a guy that calls you more, takes you out more and treats you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 12:58 AM
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Turns out you are right. I always thought I looked like a hot mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:15 PM
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Yes, women are treating men the way men have treated women. I do agree with you here on cheating. It's an extremely shitty thing to do to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:03 AM
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So young hot woman should take man's word that he won't leave her or cheat on her with a younger woman, once he has something to his name. Because historicaly or presently this is something men haven't been guilty of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:18 AM
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They refuse to be there for men at their "worst"--such as when they're young and without much to their name. Do you also believe men, who have something to their name, should date older or unattractive women? Meaning men with disposable income should "be there" for the older or unattractive women vs the young hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:45 AM
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My Chad likes my cookies and I make them while rocking a messy bun, oversized t-shirt and yoga pants. It's not a pretty picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:20 AM
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God forbid if a guy women wants to build a life with a woman man that's pleasant nice to be around most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:36 AM
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Your not going to hear FDS say the old adage “pretty might get him in the house, but cooking will keep him there.” Now, RPW... they have no issue using that method. FDS can't use that theory, in this century, because "him" doesn't have a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:35 PM
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Interesting, all the ones I know, including myself, had such a different experience. Did she attract a lot of men shorter than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:09 PM
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I agree short men are more common and do face heightism. However, a 6ft women, although not as common, is going to face heightism as well. A view it the same way I do overweight ppl: their are more overweight men than women, but their are more obese women than men. Over weight is a turn off, obese is a dating death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:47 PM
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I think most men over there love the idea of a woman. A one dimensional human being that has a certain set of personality traits (nice, nuturing, agreeable, will always have poppy dog eyes for him). It always reminded me of the way some love children. They want the "Daddy's home! Daddy's home" experience, but they don't want to the everyday responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:38 PM
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Yes, but one is more common than the other. If a woman walks away, society (men & women) will go out their way to admire/praise the single father, man walks away, society doesn't extend the single mother the same courtesy. One is seen as status quo and the other is seen as unconventional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:12 PM
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I understand one is within your control and the other is not, shaming them for their heigh/weight preferences isn't going to change anything. They are plenty of women who are attracted to the dad bod, and they are plenty of men who are attracted to petite women. I do have a height preference, but I am also considered tall for a woman. I am fully aware there are men who would "next me' because of my height. Tall women face discrimination in the dating arena as well. Not everyone wins the genetic …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 09:23 PM
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Last I knew, women were also shown pictures of men and asked to rank them. Is that no longer part of the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:03 PM
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It's a stretch to go from This: Exactly, when a women reaches 30 leaving a ltr for another man is normally considered too risky. You are almost guaranteed future cat lady status. To this: The poster has a point. In certain parts of the country if a woman doesn’t have her shit together by 30 she’s kinda a failure. If a man doesn’t have his shit together by 35 (sperm kids thing) he’s kinda a failure. Sad but true. Where I’m from if you aren’t married by a certain age people see’s you as a failure …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:47 PM
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Who are you referring to? OP or the guy I replied to about divorce statistics and women being desperate at the age of 30 to shack up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:02 PM
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You mean like the ok Cupid one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:03 PM
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Sadly, I think he has forsaken me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:42 AM
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It's been brought up here numerous times, and because it doesn't suit the RP, Blackpill or the Incel narrative, it doesn't count. Cherry picked one demionsal data is the accept norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:37 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:06 AM
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Yes, that's it you caught me. I have the power to log onto your account and delete comments, removing all evidence of my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:06 AM
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Not many quality ones out there I guess. Although there are a lot of married ones on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:22 AM
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Yes, because lying about a guy I have never met, never will meet, and has 0 impact on my life is a common motivator for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:11 AM
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Nope. I saw it with my own eyes, and the fact that's it's been deleted speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:18 AM
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Lol wat. This sounds like some weird reality TV soap Opera.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:14 AM
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Oh my god I remember that. I am going to use that one. Wish me luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:13 AM
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Funny thing how data works over here. When it suits RP it's spot on, when it doesn't is all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:12 AM
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Nope That guy said he was on TRP with you and you said you cheated on your wife. With a woman in another open realtionship, which you discovered by looking at her phone when she went off to the loo. He linked it, then deleted his comment. I have the link, but the comment he is referring to is now deleted. Weird huh. It was from 3 years ago. I believe him over you. Emphasis added for your reading comprehension. I notice you do this a lot. This need to belittle those who disagree with you. Most do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:10 AM
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Https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hxd1aa/why_do_some_men_feel_like_they_need_societys/fz627o0?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:44 AM
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You think he will mind if I call it his "little fella". I once said love hammer and the little fella deflated a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:40 AM
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Well then you have a Reddit doppelganger. Your doppelganger admitted to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:38 AM
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Yes, but I just threatened his man hood, so he caved in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:29 AM
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Husband, who is getting up there, said I am not allowed to be a cougar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:26 AM
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You all are so easy to rile up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:19 AM
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have never asked a woman her n-count. Most people don't do this. Can you imagine bringing this discussion up casually over dinner. How would one even begin to initiate this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:17 AM
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Nah, I am doing pretty good. Lots of thirsty young men out there. Dick is abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:10 AM
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And you believe married women are happier and healthier than single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:07 AM
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Lol. I aspire to be just like them!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:05 AM
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Not seeing it, but I prefer younger men vs older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:04 AM
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Not really no. Unless we are talking about Hollywood or the extremely rich, then yup. For the average dude, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:49 AM
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Biology based off your field notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:47 AM
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Lol. Yeah I am going to go with the data that says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:40 AM
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How does it end poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:07 AM
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Lots of data that says 53 % of women are happier post divorce. Men were in the 30% range. Old women with 100 cats, is better than old man with 100 video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:03 AM
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Well that's just depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:55 AM
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Lol. This is no different than a boy who gets his toy taken away and walks off in a huff. I was on thread when you said you cheated on your wife. You not liking some one calling you out your own hypocrisy is something you need to take up with yourself. I have already enough encounters with you to last me two lifetimes. My memory isn't as lacking as yours. There are vitamins that can help with that though. There is no counter to a person who cheated on his wife and yet claims that women lack self…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:15 AM
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Where are these guys. I have amazingly hot 40 year old friends who now date men 10 years their Jr, because the ones their age are uggos. My husband and my brother in law are starting to get big heads due to their compliments. So where are the hot old guys!?? Can I order them from Amazon?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:57 PM
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It's not a stereotype if it's always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:39 PM
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He cheated on his wife and claims to have a really high n count. Hypocrisy & virtual signaling a skill set I could definitely hone over here. BTW - glad to see you are back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:26 PM
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Not sure. I used to have a list of all the stuff I tried, but after awhile I gave up. I was able to find a brand that I could some what tolerate (Image). Their original stuff was made for those who had rosacea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:31 PM
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Did she get you addicted? If so, how did you kick it at such a young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:57 PM
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I am convinced that OLD is the reason dating etiquette for conversation is at an all time low. WYD has got be the third biggest turn off. Unsolicited dick pics is number two and "I am married, but blah blah" is number one. One word conversation seem to be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:06 PM
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Its what happens when boys mistake the rap Industry for real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:19 AM
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It feels good, but it is a leap of faith. I am fairly certain the man upstairs is having a good laugh at our expense. . Good luck! That whole dating debacle sucked!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:32 AM
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This. seemed obvious that the person who essentially "cares less" has more power in the relationship. Until it doesn't. A person, unless utterly dependent on their other half, will get tired off this and leave, there will be ebbs and flows of course. Feeling like you are the person who puts the most emotional effort in and yet gets the bare minimum in return, will eventually cause their SO to feel emotionally drained and resentful. Then the power dynamic changes, mostly because they are developi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:12 AM
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Yes, because men don't attribute value solely to how much money she has or trophies on a stand. We don't have to envy or look up to women to appreciate them. Why did man create marriage, what was the core fundemental behind. Love? No, it was because man wanted to protect his lineage. A social construct created by man. It was mans idea to create this dependency on him to provide. Man created this beast eons ago, not women. Prior to this it was a fuck fest, and woman where the main providers, men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:37 AM
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epitome of femininity to me. Ditto. The various colors even the smell always felt feminine to me. I love it, unfortunately I am allergic to most - I have tried so many different brands, but I always end up with hives. I can get away with lipstick and blush, and I have more than any one woman should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:36 PM
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How many times here have I been told that a woman accomplishments are not something they care about when they chose they LTR. First is looks, then it's about how nice they are or how agreeable and feminine they are. This has nothing to do with who the women is. Looks are fleeting, and nice, feminine, and agreeable is what you want in a woman, they don't not define who the women truly is. You don't chose women based off who they are as a person, you chose based off they way they make you feel. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:53 PM
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Like any other fringe idealogy/religion, it believes the minority represent the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:18 PM
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I can see that. I think it depends on the persons in the realtionship. Some people are truly mature and know who they are in their 20s. These ppl could successfully do something like this. Others are a hot mess, and aren't emotional stable enough to be in a relationship with themselves let alone another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:10 AM
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could also be explained if these men are NOT having the casual sex and getting laid as much as they want to care about the ones who do. bingo!!! It makes them feel better if they can shame women for having the sex they want. Probably the biggest reason it's not discussed, they don't like data that pokes holes in their formula. Edited to say: That was an interesting study. First time I have seen that one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:20 AM
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Why isn't male n count discussed as much? Because RP is all about getting laid, and you can't be a star in the locker room if you don't have legendary tales all the women you pumped and dumped. Successful with women = high n count. It has been brought up a couple times, but the data does not suit the RP narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:04 AM
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I think it's better to marry later in life. Most people in their 20s don't really know what they want in a partner or in a realtionship. When ppl get into a realtionship without knowing who or what they want they run the risk of hurting their partner, not intentionally of course. For many, tastes, preferences, and goals will differ from those they in had in their 20s. Nobody wants to be someone's starter wife/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:26 AM
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Lol. Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:22 AM
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Are you looking for movies only? I just watched Wild Wild Country. It's a documentary, but it definitely has movie like qualities to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:07 PM
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Yup, definitely stable. Hopefully you will both have a successful one and get the opportunity to grow old and wrinkly together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:27 PM
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Yes he also believes himself to be smarter than the CDC and WHO and refuses to wear a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:02 AM
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Body Count 8 Female / 30s LTR: 2 / ONS: 0/ FWB 6 Introvert - ISTP Satisfaction 8/10. Learned a lot along the way: a couple of "won't do that again" and I really "should have handled that differently" lessons . One being the way I treated one of my earlier bfs. IRL, pretty open. At least I was until my state went on lockdown again. Now I just surly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:58 AM
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No my second husband will be the center of my universe.😘 Nice alt there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:20 AM
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I like it. I have the absolute best nieces and nephews. They are fun to play with, spoil, and love, but l am also glad I get to send them back to their parents. I do have the husband though. He is alright, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:12 AM
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Do you feel like your current LTR is stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:15 AM
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Probably, considering the fact that manosphere men didn't chose this path, society (women) swiped no and sent them on their way. The 40 year had options, she either chose to say fuck no, or wasn't ready to grown up yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:13 AM
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Women should never listen to men about when to give it up. Their advice benefits their own pee wee and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:05 AM
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Husband just told me that most men won't go to a doctor for shit like that. His words not mine. He is sitting next to me pretending like he isn't watching me reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:40 AM
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About the same amount of men who are alcoholics. Everybody self medicates differently. One requires a prescription, the other requires personal identification.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:42 AM
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Aura seems to unicorn and rainbows for me, but there are people who just seem so comfortable in their own skin. As my grandmother would say, they were old souls who learned the hard lessons long ago. Both gender's are attracted to these type of ppl. They sit next to them hoping whatever they have is contagious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:31 AM
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People need to be repeatedly have these messages drummed in an internalized. There is a lot of truth to this. The unfortunate part is, to get to this point many are going to need the experience of at at least one shitty realtionship in their lives. Some internalize and are able to ask themselves what part did I play here. In other words, they were able to get the fuck over it and figured out a few things about themselves in the process. As for the others, the bitter and jaded victim mentality wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 11:09 PM
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Same reason why men are so bitter against women in the modern SMP. Everybody feels like they have been lied to, and they foolishly believed words spoke louder than actions. Women need to realize men will say whatever it is a woman needs to hear to get laid. Men need to stop believing being a pushover, a.k.a pseudo nice guy, will get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:37 PM
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Lol. Silence of the Lambs style.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:19 AM
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A quick snip & tuck surgery could free you from your imprisonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:00 AM
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On a daily basis you all make me wish lesbian was a selectable option during creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:47 PM
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It may change the way they look, but it does not make them jump three or 3 points (5 to an 8) in the looks department. Make up isn't that magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:56 PM
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IRL or on your laptop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:08 PM
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That's called plastic surgery not make up. Make up can't transform an average girl to a hot girl. Applied correctly, make up highlights the good. That's about it. Edited to say: Appreciate all your down votes. I didn't realize men knew how to apply make up, nor did I know you all had amazing techniques. Sephora or Ulta would love for you to submit your resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:53 PM
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My brother told me, right after my boobs magically appeared over night, that men know fairly early on if the women is going to fall into the gf category or FWB category. I asked him if is current "friend" was a gf or a FWB, he said she was a FWB. He also said if she listened to her inner girl game she would know, but she prefers to believe in the promise of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:00 AM
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Interesting. Well I can only tell you from experience and many conversations with other women over the years. Most of them admitted fantasizing about something. It's a great stress relived of course, but how one would get themselves excited - even if they had a more spontaneous sex drive, myself included, is a complete mystery to me. Deadbedroom is not a subbredit I want to find myself on, so I am not familiar with what goes on over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:28 AM
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e.g. "I just wanna *fuck*!") that it completely turns off most women who would otherwise be receptive to something casual. And this is why I got off Tinder - I actually wanted casual, but their game (lack of basic conversation skills) was traumatizing to my sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:40 AM
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I do get that as well. Not much different for women. Fucking the hot guy is vastly more satisfying than fucking the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:31 AM
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What forums - women have a reactive sex drive which means their mind needs to be engaged - do you really think they think about nothing when they masturbate or don't fantasize about other dudes. Did you Google this? Are a few able to just get wet and masturbate without a single sexy thought running through their heads....uh I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:16 AM
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What now, they most certainly do fantasize. It may not be about their current bf/husband, but they are thinking about someone - even if he is fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:37 PM
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Yeah, according to my hubby and my brothers - for some men it isn't as much of a consideration as when they were younger, but there are times, even now, their friends will give them some shit if she is a true uggo. They are pretty visual creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:12 PM
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Men will put up with a lot if the girl is out of league and, a hot woman makes them a star in their peer group. Locker room style sex stories have nothing to do with the woman, it's all about impressing the other lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:51 PM
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Built-in-girl power, yes my vagina does have a decent amount of say on who is acceptable and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:06 PM
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9 Times out of 10, older man with a significantly younger women it is a transactional realtionship, no matter your pill color. For redpillers, I think they just like selling hope - it's okay your not getting young hot girls, but in 20 years and they will be throwing themselves at you. Promises of future prosperity is a sales tactic as old as time. Poor girl, i wonder what hot guy she pictures when she fucking old man Scott. Maybe she got lucky and he has a "little problem", so sex isn't somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:20 PM
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I know your post was about regretful motherhood, but I am a woman who never wanted children. To this day, I am thankful that I never had them. Which made dating difficult because, men most certainly do catch baby fever. They may not want the work that entails with having children, but they want babies (or the idea of babies) IMO, if you are on the fence about it you want children, but are more concerned with being stuck with a man that isn't capable of adulting much less fatherhood. Or god forbi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:51 AM
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I was on tinder for all of one week. I was actually looking for a FWB. A week was 6 days too long and I would never use it again. I quit and just found one the old fashioned way - via friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:49 AM
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The problem is on your side not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:51 AM
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Men, sure. Manosphere men, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:10 AM
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Frame isn't revolutionary rp. I am sure if Dale Carnegie were still alive he would have sued Rollo for copy right infridgments, for repackage his advice and selling it to the privileged socially stunted. As for knowing yourself - I have aced many interviews without knowing anything more than surface details about the company and the job I was hired for. Doesn't mean I knew the real reason they were looking to hire, nor do is it mean I actually knew what I was getting myself into or if I really h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:57 AM
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Dude, men are not endangered animals, they not suddenly going to dissapear off the face of the earth. Women are going to be just fine. Most will gladly tell you they would rather stay single, then settle for a man that doesn't treat them well. Alone is by far a better choice than being miserable. There is time limit on when someone will find another person that will make them want to take the leap. Children are amazing, but they are expensive and do best in a home where their parents actually li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:22 PM
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Lol. Have an upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:24 PM
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No, I don't imagine you would think it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:01 AM
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Same reason DMV won't give a license to those who only observed others driving,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:50 AM
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Good grief could you possibly be more out of touch on what happens or how women are treated outside of your own social economic orbit. Are you 60+ or a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:21 AM
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This just sounds like you want to convince young hot woman they need to settle down with average men for marriage, or that marriage should be their life's goal. Neither are going to happen, because women are not pinning away for men from the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:21 AM
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Jesus this isn't going to end well. This is like asking a fat person to be your physical trainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:06 AM
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Can't relate sympathetize or emphasize. Society never lied to me, nor was there any rainbow and unicorn Kool aid for me to drink from. I knew from the beginning what men would want from me (emotionaly and physically) and I understood the psychological drivers that would motivated men to chose me either for LTR or marriage. They were no Disney movies to lead me astray. Probably for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:55 AM
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So what you are saying here is everyone lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:20 AM
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You need to understand your own self first before you can even begin to understand your realtionship with women. Your happy to lick the red off the red pill, but can't quite choke down the whole pill. You are your own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:37 AM
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Lol, man's version of art work. Can't go wrong with black.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:25 AM
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Lol. Ok good. If you are like most straight guys I know, you have about 6 solid colors in your color wheel. I now know me deviating from those 6 colors is a very bad idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:34 AM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:25 AM
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Okay I have another tip I need to share. Don't do pinstripe - in theory it sounds like it would be great - until you see it with your own eyes. Unless your job entails being a runway model stay away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:14 AM
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Did he also have an alt under the name Likunfanele?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:58 AM
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Agree. At least when braincels was still around most of them congregated over there. And prior to trp's quarantine, most of the truly social inept didn't venture too far away from their own echo chamber. Heard another ban happened, but I don't know who got hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:46 AM
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I am starting to understand how some of these guys got sucked into the manosphere, and their distorted and unrealistic views about women. Quarantine, social media, and boredom is a reality killer. I actually started to believe all men were sex starved self servicing asses. Quarantine lifted and reality returned. Sucks that my state is on lock down again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:13 PM
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If buying barbells cured willful ignorance and hivemind mentality, then the state would require all households to have a set. Because it doesn't we have the manosphere, flat earthers, and ppl who refused to wear masks cuz covid19 is all just a big fat conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:17 AM
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Lol. I just had this conversation with my friend. If I were single I know for a damn fact I would be into younger men. I have not seen a man over 40 that I consider attractive in forever. I have been hoodwinked a few times though. I see a guy with a decent body and I think hmmm he might be attractive, then bam, he turns around and his face looks like it aged 10 years faster than his body. FFS how hard is it to put sun screen on your face or get some Botox, but Christ they need to do something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:03 AM
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Sound advice, for both gender's really. However, your are alone because, Women's standards are too high or Woman only want Chad, is an effective recruitment stradegy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:40 AM
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From the manosphere aspect...who the hell knows. First time I heard this term was when Dove launched their Real Beauty Campaign back in the early 2000s. all women are beautiful, but a ugly man is a ugly man" Never heard this one, until today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:07 AM
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Poor bastards go from womb to wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:36 PM
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Do you think the guys on here reading this don't take what other men say as gospel. If a bunch of guys, who claim to be average, are telling other dudes that they are now scoring models and women way out of their league - what do you think those guys who are struggling are going to think? They are going to think they should get the same, and when that doesn't happen they don't blame these men for lying to them. They blame women. So it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:06 AM
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And yet I didn't ask for a text book answer. I asked for a specific example you yourself experience. Don't push your deflection on to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:59 AM
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It's more about calling BS than it is about shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:50 AM
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You asked this You guys seem almost opposed to someone trying to get more sex despite looks. I answered with this. It's the unrealistic expectations and fabricated lies that an ugly dude who is a 2 should or is getting an 8, 9, 10. There not. Ugly ppl fuck ugly ppl, attractive ppl fuck attractive ppl. Self improvement will help you go from a 2 to a 4, but you are setting yourself up for failure if you think a 4 should get you an 8,9,10. What conversation were you hoping to generate with this par…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:38 AM
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The nice guy trope. This is the most common thing women say that they want, and then go on to contradict themselves with someone that isn't really nice. Maybe just nice to them sometimes and that's it. I asked for a specific example, instead you gave me the stock "nice guy" answer you all give when you talk about how women contradict themselves. So I give you the same answer every woman on here has probably told men on here a million times.....being nice to a girl so she will find you sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:13 AM
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This was interesting. Never heard of this till today. Trying to psychoanalyze myself and my husband. Although he never appreciates my efforts!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:34 AM
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Maybe the guy doesn't want to pump and dump them? That's fair. The point is that they're being serious when they actually give out advice and it's still wrong. Can you give me of a specific example of your personal experience with this? Like what did she say, but you noticed she did not practice what she speaks. Also I said put some effort into their clothing choices. Some effort does not mean dress to kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:42 PM
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Of course your going to seek it out yet you guys seem to frame sex motivated people as creeps or bad people but, if they are honest why stop them? The key here is if they are honest why stop them. it's the dishonesty that makes them creeps. Nothing wrong with wanting sex as long as you are upfront about what you want or expect from this person. If said person doesn't want the same thing, lying to them to is shitty. Also means you don't have options, and lying to them is the only way you will eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:37 PM
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Cuz there are too many weird ass men on here with these unrealistic or just plain stupid views on what should or should not happen in a realtionship. Strip out the US men on here, and gets even more ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:07 PM
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I need that cheat code/formula like Nintendo’s *press up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, + START* I am going to need to steal this. But I said ANY woman. So that’s ANY WOMAN I CHOOSE. Which of course will be the hotties, you know? The kind of model-tier women that are always DTF. In addition to the cliche model who is always DTF And young, like 20 years my junior. When I was a young man, in the actual height of my attractiveness, not one girl paid attention to me, but now that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:22 AM
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Women are terrible at expressing what they want in men - as I said before it falls on deaf ears That's also why they're typically terrible at giving dating advice to men What woman in her right mind is going to give you tips on how to pump and dump a woman As for being attractive and well dressed ( at least putting some effort into how you dress) most of us are dumbfounded that men needed to be explicitly told that physical appearance plays a significant part in the dating process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:59 AM
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Lol. I am up for the challenge though. * talk to men who actually get laid * Don't misinterpreted social media, porn, and your echo chamber as reality. * Leave the house and talked to ppl irl. Damn, they are a couple more that are really needed here, but I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:38 AM
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Woman. Sure why not - sometimes it's good to please your SO, and this isn't something he expects or asks me to do on the regular. I am also aware that I have been too lazy to move and asked my SO to do some menial task that soley benefits me. It's the expectation that your SO should do this for x, y, z reason is when issues arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:57 AM
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They do tell the men here what they want, but the men here are so caught up on looking for a magical black and white formula their answers fall on deaf ears. This notions that women want asshole Chad's when they are young and betas in their 30s is so overdone it's now just a joke. When you want casual sex, women, just like men, will want the hottest person they can get. For LTR, Woman, like men, want an person they have chemistry with, a person who has some self respect for themselves and their …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:37 AM
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I love it when men tell women what type of men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:46 AM
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Depends on how and where you wear them. A man in a suit or in business casual attire ( east coast version of business casual) and a long over coat is an attractive look. It looks extremely professional and well put together. No outrageous colors either black or navy blue. If you are just chilling or in everyday grub I would say stick with shorter length coats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:17 AM
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I care about the men in my life a great deal, and I care about the issues those individual men face. I do enjoy having men in my social group - I like the masculine energy, they way they joke around with one another, their sense of humor, and how different their perceptions and take on things differ from my own. Bonus when they ask me for style tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:57 PM
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Genetics are more than just physical appearance. Is the person going to be predisposed to alcoholism, diabetes, mental health issues, breast cancer,etc. Of course physical appearance matters, but an attractive person with serve or even mild mental health issues is going to have a difficult time finding a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:49 PM
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Again yes, I was intentionally being obtuse. To define high status soley based off job status is not the definition of high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:56 PM
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Well no shit. Vague answers get vague replies. Do you need a xanax or something or is it just that time of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:29 AM
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Well yes, employed is always going to be more attractive than unemployed. Other than that, this doesn't work as a good definition of higher status, at least for my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:17 AM
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How are you defining higher status? Is it soley based off income level?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:09 AM
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People date within their own social economic group. In short, you date the type of ppl you interact most on a daily basis. Someone who orbits the UMC is most likely going to date a person who orbits the UMC as well. Birds of a feather and that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:48 AM
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Please tell me that one of the sheep had enough common sense to call BS on this "locker room" tall tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:34 AM
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The whole idealogy puts women on a pedestal - an ugly mysignostic pedestal, but still a pedestal stool. When everything you do is dependent on the behavior or actions of women, it's women who are in the position of power not men. Every action or reaction they have is about - how do I get a woman, how do I get over a woman, how do I keep my current women, how do I make sure a woman never hurts me again, etc. The stuff that works: self improvement, gain self respect, stop pretending to be nice to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:30 AM
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No, I don't have the same conversations I have with my gfs as I do my husband, and both of us have different interests. My husband has his friends to keep him company, while he engages in his interest, and I have my gfs to keep me company. Which would you pick: being able to have lots of close friends VS having an SO? Can I pick one husband and one close friend? Or is it all or nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:09 AM
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The complete lack of self awareness is the one that astounds me everytime. Ironic given the fact they claim to understand women, and yet know nothing about themselves or their own gender. They licked the red of the redpill, but couldn't figure out how to swallow the whole pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:44 PM
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On the plus side, they do tend to weed themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:19 AM
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Chemistry, foreplay, a little flirting back and fourth that leads up to the main event, enthusiasm & and willingness to learn what makes each other tick, adventurous and no jack hammering. Toys can be fun as well - although some guys get a little weird about that one. I don't need a deep connection, but it does make the sex better if there is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:49 AM
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We must be in the "I have actually dated irl" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:28 AM
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No data back this up other than my everyday interactions with men in my social group, but the reason men don't get why this is annoying, creepy, offensive, etc is because they do like women checking them out in public. It's flattering to them, to us - not so much. I have checked out a guy or two and had them catch me - all they ever did was smile or wink, while I was over there dying of embarrassed and berating myself for objectifying a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:24 AM
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Who in the hell sits around talking to their date or current SO and talks about the sex they had with others. Do you all make up a bullet point list of past sexual encouters and give explicit details about each one? I literally would run for the hills if the guy I was dating started telling me about past sexual escapades or asked me about mine - unless it's a funny story. Apparently my social circle is not the same as some on PPD. I would say it's an age thing, but my circle goes from mid 20s to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:00 AM
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The unfortunate part is I don't think men quite understand how much worse it's going to get for them. Especially considering all the data out that says single women, without children, are happier and live longer than their married counterparts. Without drastic male behavioral changes, I don't think it will be long before a significant amount of US women will choose to opt out of marriage altogether. I have also started to see women, within my on social circle, opt out of dating and marriage. Pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:23 AM
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Nor was it mine, but I recognized many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:40 AM
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I'm a man - I know Been on this sub a long time, and even the men here have expressed their want for children and a wife - misguided as it is. Its what many men and women have and will always want. It's part of human nature to want love and children. Society and religion told us this was the best path to achieveving this. It wasn't some sort of idealogy or social constraint created soley by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:13 AM
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I guess we don't date the same type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:46 AM
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There might have been some sort of small truth to this eons ago, but now it's just become a meme for men to sprout anytime a women disagrees with them. It's lost its original and somewhat funny meaning. It's right up there with ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:46 AM
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Both gender's want to get married. Men in their 30s, just like women, start to get that itch for babies and a wife. I think society pushes this "women want marriage and babies way more than men" too far. I don't think marriage is the best deal for women, but it's nice to think you may marry a man that will stand by your side through life's shitty surprises. Yes, you could have friends and family that stand by you, but having a husband/wife stand by your side just feels so much better - like a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:40 AM
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not arrogant and no peacocking not clingy - has his own life, interests, and opinions does not pretend to agree with me or be nice to me to get sex has a high sex drive, is generous in bed or at least willing to learn what my turn-ons are, and likes to try new things a dash of self-deprecating humor isn't materialistic - does not need the latest and greatest, and understands the importance of saving has similar goals says what he means and does what he says healthy (physically and emotionally) h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:13 PM
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White, 5'8 medium build, dark hair and eyes. Curly hair, that I straighten because my curls get out of hand and I have no idea what to do with them. Not bad looking considering the area in which I live, and once I convince my husband a breast reduction is not a crime, I will be pretty content with the way I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:40 PM
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Piehole. Can't remember the last time I said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:33 PM
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Uni, lol. Best one I learned from my Australian & British flatmates was, whinging. I still say it from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:52 AM
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Lol. I just asked my husband the same thing. I got this look - it was the same look I got when he asked to pick up beer and I came back with a six pack of corona light beer. No clue I was breaking some a cardinal law for the snobby beer aficionado. Apparently me not taking his last name was never an option. He is a pretty progressive man, so I am really surprised that this would have triggered him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:49 AM
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What advice? That sub was created in retaliation to niceguys. There is nothing pragmatic about it other than using it as a cherry picked modem to recruit men for theredpill and MGTOW. So yes, it's idiot men denouncing women for having high standards as a counter to their own lack of sexual attraction from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:10 PM
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Shit testing is done by both gender's, actually the world shit test. Men here constantly talk about how they will test the women to see if she will do anal even when it's not the guys favorite thing, how much can I get away with treating her like shit, I do believe you yourself said that you did intentionally set out to treat women as less than after your divorce, or making a woman jealous. Shit testing is annoying and tiresome. But let's not forget Terpers taught themselves how to shit test the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:55 AM
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Imagine the ones who figured what was helpful and what was BS -pushed by men trying to justify they own shitty behavior away by blaming it on female nature, took off long ago. Or maybe their wives or gf just left them and they are now hanging out over at MGTOW - the angry bitter side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:54 AM
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I don't understand this mentality at all. What is truly sad is this group now represents Incels. The ones who aren't like this will always be associated with these guys. I could give a shit about the hate filled ones, but the ones who aren't like this - I do care about. Not that I have one clue how my attitude towards the ones trying to improve themselves would actually make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:01 PM
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Data to support what? The 80/20 flip side has been brought up numerous times - which most of the angry ones chose to ignote. The "how to tell a woman is a slut " - give an hour it will come up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:48 PM
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This applies only to the angry bitter sexless guys. . No one wants to date any man with this much baggage. A lot of these guys are still pissed off high school sucked for them. High school sucked for a lot of people and most people get over it. The popular kids were not the biggest group of people in school. These guys do not live in reality. They are stuck in a revenge hate filled society. FFS they believe women who have pink/blue/ purple hair, wear thumb rings, and have tattoos automatically m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:06 PM
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If we are going to create an FAQ - Why don't men stop raping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:16 AM
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Let me tell you a crazy story. A guy threw a child off the 3rd floor at the Mall of America because women were rejecting him. https://www.mprnews.org/story/2019/04/15/charges-mall-of-america-boy-thrown-man-wanted-kill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:08 AM
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From 1998? Actually this still proves my point. It goes on to say when the white infected girls got it on with black guys they was no uptick in transmission, it also goes on to say when the black guy, who was a central player in the study group stopped having sex - the STD infection rate dropped. S9 might have been a dirty girl, but it doesn't disprove my point. In conclusion, if you going to sext up a man wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:44 AM
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I was going with the assumption that medical issues were excluded from our discussion and women were the gate keepers to sex - which is what is always tossed up by the manosphere when we debate on this subbredit. Did you want to discuss, what would be considered outliers by the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:59 AM
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This type of training was mandatory way before metoo was even a thing. It's mandatory just like insider trading, safety and phishing awareness. All are mandatory on on a yearly or bi yearly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:12 AM
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No you are correct when you say doing things these will magically cure an already trouble marriage or a deadbedroom. For women a deadbedroom is a symptom of a disease (marriage in trouble). For men, a deadbedroom is the disease. So when a man suddenly starts paying attention to his wife again ( taking her out on dates again, flirting, making her feel like his wife vs his care taker) he thinks that is enough to cure the deadbedroom, but for the women it's only a bandaid. It didn't cure the diseas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:05 AM
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I am not seeing where it is broken down by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:36 AM
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You are aware that men are more likely to give a woman an STD vs women giving a man an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:25 PM
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You have misinterpreted desire is not negotiable. Taking her on dates, paying attention to her, flirting, is part of keeping attraction alive. Complanecy kills sexual attraction. The mistake is thinking one date or buying her flowers one night should be enough to rekindle a deadbedroom. It is not. It's something that needs to be ongoing if you want to keep the marriage sexually alive. Complanecy, cheating, taking advantage of your SO, and letting one self go will kill a marriage. There is no "on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:52 PM
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The biggest difference really is how each gender internalizes the rejection. Many men will blame the woman vs many women will blame themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:09 AM
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You here instead of MGTOW because why now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:21 AM
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And yet, they still can't wrap their heads around why women get divorce. They truly need to believe women just woke up one day and say you know what might be fun..to divorce my video game addicted let himself go husband who believes treating me like his mom makes happy. Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will find someone worth your time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:05 AM
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Wat!! Not only is he a cheater, but their are whores now. Fucking Christ!! Look OP, a girl only gets one guy who will love her for her, only 1. And that 1 guy should not be a father projecting RP beliefs and wants onto his daughter. As a father, you need to be team daughter not team men and their sexual needs. You want a woman to love you for you...well there is your daughter standing right in front you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:45 AM
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Then why are you acting like I just pissed in your Cheerios? Nothing I said was a lie or a stretch by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:27 AM
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Treat them like children This has nothing to do with anything I said. At one point in every woman' s life they will feel pressure from a man to have sex. Every woman. That includes college. Women have free will, but to believe that society, a man, or her friends don't influence some women's decision (from the ages of 14- 23) is naive, or is coming from someone who has or will never experience this type of pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:59 AM
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Do you understand how much you just down played what type of pressure is put on young women to have sex. I am not talking about older women, I am taking about women who are still very much under the influence of what their friends, society and bf think. I am telling you the way it was and is from a woman presceptive. If you want to ignore that and believe that all college women fuck like bunnies because they want to, then do so. Many do, but many don't - your comment ignores those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:58 PM
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Do you think stops after high school? It continues through college as well. Pressure doesn't suddenly stop at the age of 18. High school was a long time ago for us, but considering the wide age range commenting on this subbredit - college and highschool are not distant memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:19 PM
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Depends on the age. Younger girls are pressured into having sex all the time -by their peers and their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:31 PM
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Ahh man are you cheating on your wife? If that's a yes, than you are not the best person to give advice about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:36 PM
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Does it though? Do you think all those men are telling the truth - that no one lies on the internet? And what exactly worked - stopped pretending to be "nice" so women will sleep with you, got into shape and learned to dress better, approached and actually talked to women, expressed your own opinions vs waiting on her to express hers so you could agree. Or is it really a numbers game - hit on 50 women in a one mile radius hoping to find one that will have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:12 AM
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Both gender's are guilty of leading orbiters on for their own selfish purpose. In general, many women feel uncomfortable staying friends with men who are attracted to them . It's awkward and then their is the inevitable guilt. It isn't pleasant for either party. Especially if she was participating in flirtatious banter. Women who do that when they're not actually interested are to be avoided. I took OP at face value on this, but some men will misinterpreted signals as flirting, especially if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:15 AM
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I would say you are justified on backing off. No one wants to be in a one-sided attraction realtionship. If you had intentionally befriended for the sole purpose of getting sex, my answer would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:03 AM
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Every person I have ever known has felt like this at some point in their life. Some have experienced far longer than they should of had to. Honestly, I don't think I would ever want to be close to anyone, man or woman, who doesn't know how lonely feels. I would never be able to relate to them on a fundamental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:32 AM
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Cock sisters with the same mister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:05 AM
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Good for you! Its amazing how something that sounds so simple can become something so complicated in your mind. My gym closed down, due covid 19 and I am trying to find things to keep me motivated. Jogging isn't something I can do anymore so I am down to waking really fast and swinging my arms around like a luntatic. Good luck❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:02 AM
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Lol. Do they shop together to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:58 AM
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Are you drinking and redditing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:10 AM
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Sell your bath water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:58 AM
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Well when you meet one in person, for the first time, be sure to tell her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:55 AM
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Man has a "dumb stupid bitch" quota he has to hit. 4chan won't let him back on until he hits it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:47 AM
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Well they are all obessed with Anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:44 AM
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We all got to do our part if we want to make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:36 AM
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At this point, I ready to ask everyone women in America to donate a dollar so we can purchase an secluded island, scoop them all up, and dump their asses there. It would be like Lord of Flies. Except every guy there would be Piggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:12 AM
5

Do fat women reject you or are just fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:58 PM
4

Your welcome. I know how much the manosphere loves to live in make believe or revenge fantasy land. Reality.... is a scary place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:37 PM
6

Some how this makes the fact that men are fatter than so much sadder. Think about how much food they have to eat to off set that. And the most physical labor intense job is dancing. And the majority of those who hold that job are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:29 PM
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Now granted most of the men have put on weight to, but not in the same way; we men usually remain physical In some way so its muscle accompanied with body fat, with girls it's just straight up fat and cellulite. Lol You know that are more fat and obese men in the US vs women. So no it's not muscle with body fat. It's straight up fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:01 PM
1

Yes, especially now it's purge week. You can spot the ones or comments made by ones that aren't. If they sound unbelievable or incredibly arrogant, or are whinny af - you have an uggo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:44 AM
1

Yeah the husband and I are the same way. We're not foodies so going out and spending a bunch of money on food seems like a waste of money. We have a savings account we contribute to that goes towards weekend get aways, vacations, etc. By not eating out we were able to stash quite a bit away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:14 AM
4

They just want us to play with their pee-wee, but deep down they know they will be the only ones who will ever play with it. ☹️ I wonder how many euphemisms exist for penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:07 AM
1

Yes, most of the men here actually do. Without understanding normal social interactions do you think they will ever be able to get laid? Even if they were decent looking people? People avoid the awkward and socially inept - it makes people uncomfortable to be near them. They remind me of the guy who was in my 5th grade class. He wore this ugly yellow brown cardigan - every damn day, he ate glue and he would mumbled to himself. If you asked him who he was talking to he would laugh in this weird h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:05 AM
1

They want to blame others for their social incompetencies. Look at some of the shit posts on here that completely flew over their heads. Most ppl, who interact with people irl, can tell a shit post from a real post - but they couldn't. I thought "they live in their parents basement" was a stereo type, but now I am convinced they actually do. It's hilarious in a very pathetic desperate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:53 AM
1

The best my child support check can buy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:46 AM
1

Not an INCEL. I have used the term INCEL 12 times today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:40 AM
1

INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEl, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL, INCEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:46 PM
8

I love how they make an alt account just for purge week so they can feel "safe" about insulting ppl without any repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:42 PM
1

Very good. A+ for reading comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:00 PM
6

Is this a picture of the women who rejected you on Tinder. I am sure she had her reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:56 PM
4

I left my husband for my FWB Chad. My husband was a simp, bluepilled, beta, so who could blame me, and I was able to divorce rape him. Chad and I are living the good like in the neighborhood trailer park now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:26 PM
2

How am I supposed to top that one!?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:49 PM
2

Not for sex. Have you not seen the porn "older women has sex with young hot pool boy/UPS guy". I watch it for research purposes only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:46 PM
2

That came out great!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:52 AM
2

I heard about the French braid trick. I guess the husband is going to watching a YouTube video on how to French braid your wife's hair. He is such a beta, bluepill, simp- I feel like I am missing one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:26 AM
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I would do you if I were a guy, and If I wasn't married, and you weren't married. Too many obstacles! Do you straighten your hair? It looks like it could be curly and if it is, what the heck is your secret!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:58 AM
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Yes, but we will stop and help cute little animals. Bring them home, put a little pink collar on them, feed them, and cuddle with them. Can't do that with men, they get pissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:27 AM
1

Lol. Maybe we should all head over to askmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:25 PM
1

Imagine everyone takes their own looks into account when rating others. Depends on where I am living in the US. Some places I am average, in other parts above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:27 PM
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No I didn't. You the one who brought in age difference. I commented on appearance. You are having two conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:39 PM
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Age difference doesn't really matter- unless your the 40 year old guy dating the 18-20 year. Appearance wise most men who are 40 look 40. They aren't ageing any more or less than a 40 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:05 PM
1

Iike the bangs. I would do you, if I was into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:32 AM
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Never happened. But I can name many who actually scared my ovaries into hiding. I had to go stare at a picture of Ryan Renolds a few times to detraumatize myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:26 AM
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Yes, cuz that's totally happening. Just like ppl who dress up like animals and fuck. They are everywhere a.k.a the desperate few clinging to a hope and a dream. Bro, seriously it's not happening. And when it does, it happens to the top percenters - that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:17 AM
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My mom told me I was a beautiful special snowflake who would someday marry a rich prince. The bitch lied!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:50 AM
1

I am good with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:22 AM
1

I am sure you would make the same comment to another user during a non purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:12 AM
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WTH. I had a personal trainer as well. She was the reason I didn't have to have neck surgery, for the 2nd time. Jesus does that hamster ever sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:02 AM
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You mean like Rollo? Sorry Dude, if you are in your 40s pretty good chance you look like your 40. You tell us you hate it when we lie, and we have been telling you all along that 40 year old men, in today's world, look old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:46 AM
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Most ppl are a 5. The world mostly consists of average or below average. If you are genetically lucky, above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:03 AM
5

Holy shit is he that short!. Explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:45 AM
1

Oh god please take a video of this and then share.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:19 AM
1

Beard . Slightly impressed most men can't pull a beard off. Get a haircut and go shorter on top. It looks too perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:03 AM
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Ditto for ItchyHealth. He needs an Ativan or something. Feel like he is about to stroke out any at second. Neverbiden dude? Think that's his username. I do like the silverfox dude and tnais.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:29 AM
1

It's not easy. We are definitely not built for commitment. The trick is to find a person who has their own interests and pursuits. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:49 AM
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Wasn't sure where the wall age was today. The number seems to change on a daily basis! My niece is 12. I am gonna have to gut a fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:40 AM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:58 PM
2

Are you 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:54 PM
10

You mean vs men harping on the looks of women in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:47 PM
5

Yeah that dude didn't hit in his 30s either. Had no idea how average he looked. It all makes so much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:41 PM
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Holy shit. Have you seen what he looks like. Damn alphas don't age well. Did he say men hit their prime in their 50s, cuz damn that man needs some rogaine and some rentiol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:26 PM
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Once got a guy to buy me a In-N-Out cheese burger. Of course I had sex with him, cuz that cheeseburger was a hit to his savings account. Ok which one of you guys did I did I sleep with?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:00 PM
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You are not immune to sun spots. Put sunscreen on. I don't care how gay it is. You have idea how many 40 year old men I see with dark spots and leatherly looking skin. It's not attractive. The sun doesn't give a shit if your are male or not. That bastard will age your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:30 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:16 PM
3

I am a fan of Rollo. I want to try pegging. Waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:37 AM
4

No technology for it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:31 AM
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What city will this event be taken place in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:56 AM
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They do. They just aren't going to leap out of your laptop and fall on to your lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:54 AM
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Yes, that way they can hide their gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:32 AM
3

I would like to see this. Do you plan on getting a little help with your friends over at Viagra? Or do you have a Chad cock - stays hard until he decides he is finished for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:38 AM
2

What a cutie. A stray just adopted us. She is still considering if she likes or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:00 AM
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Lol. Hopefully you have Amazon prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:31 AM
1

Is it the wife who ends up leaving the husband then. I am going to make the assumption the wife can and does have more encounteres than their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:13 AM
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That's not how it works. Male larping as a woman 2 hour old account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:05 AM
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It's hilarious to me that in the previous thread how pissed off they got when women said they would not accept a legally bound marriage and were more than ok with having children that would be seen as bastards in the eyes of the law, but the minute you give them what they wanted they reject the idea because their "wife" would be able to have sex with another man. It really does show who is the more selfish gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:02 AM
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That is so wrong. This is why I can't make up my mind about social healthcare. I had it when I lived oversees and it was such a relief. I just not sure the US wouldn't muck it all up. I got laid off 5 years ago and I was so glad I was able to jump on my husband plan - especially since I had to have surgery 2 months later. I would never have qualified for my states benefits. Honestly I don't know how anyone in my state could live off what the qualifying income is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:37 AM
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Lol. You just triggered them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:57 AM
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Drop a litter of his bastards. This is good, I need to figure out how to incorporate this into my next mentoring session. Honestly though, what women in her right mind would agree to give birth to children that would be seen as bastards in the eyes of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:08 AM
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Congratulations and best wishes to you and your husband!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:00 AM
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No, especially if I have kids. It's harder to leave the kids behind should my SO suffer some sort of mid life crisis. Plus should you or your SO get laid off - which will happen in almost everyone's lifetime he/she would not qualify for healthcare benefits under their spouse's plan if they were not legally married. If none of these things were a factor I wouldn't care, but at least one, if not both, will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:11 AM
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I would not stay in any committed relationship where my SO cheated on me. Either the cheater doesn't feel they are good enough to stand on their own or they want their want the best of both worlds. I feel for those women who are financial dependent on their SO, especially if they have children. If this were me, I would stay only as long as it takes for me to get on my feet, or find a feasible exit. Life is too short to feel like someone's second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:05 PM
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Not much different. I would have had to be less effort into my appearance - because women take more into consideration besides looks vs men. Same motivation for my career and the amount of money I wanted to make, so I would be able to date women within my social economic sphere. Not a Chad, because no guy, outside of the extremely hot are. Nor would I have been an angry incel or angry average guy, because that wouldn't get me the women I wanted nor help me achieve my career goals. I would have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:10 PM
1

Holy crap are you still on this. Get over it already. Your just coming off as pathetic now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:39 PM
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Its a moving number. It went from 35 to 30 than 30 to 25. Next week it will be 20, a month later 15, and on and on it will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:28 AM
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Women should be. There is a 50 50 chance the guy is going to be terrible in bed a.k.a selfish, would you prefer to have bad sex with a hot guy or bad sex with average/below average guy. Most of these guys are angry they aren't being chosen and that a woman's sex drive is different from their own. Women's standards, despite the fact women don't get the same amount of pleasure from PIV as men do, should match theirs and because it doesn't you get a lot of envious angry guys. They have to hit on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:24 AM
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This is like asking men, do you prefer women with big boobs or small, blonde hair or dark, fit and muscular or with more junk in the trunk, tall or petite, thin or chubby, cute or attractive, white, Asian, Black or Hispanic. Do you see where I am going with this? Do you think all men would answer the same or do you think it depends on the man, regardless of his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:33 AM
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Let's exclude the majority of men from the manosphere. Many men do want companionship from a woman, but it's more of terms of comfort and understanding vs commediare. Basically they are looking for the feelz, which is something their wives or gf can give them more than their male friends. A lot men form friendships with other men due to common interest or they closely identify with a particular group. But it tends to be more on a group level vs an idvidual level. Unless they are military men - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:30 PM
4

Do women have fantasies about midgets? Best comment tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:17 AM
2

Yes I know, that's what I said "guys on this debate forum"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:58 PM
4

What does that have to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:22 PM
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Yes, because I kicked men to the curb who wanted low maintenance/chill/fun to be around would doormat/not like the other girls/ pornstar. This what we hear every time a guy on this debate forum says he wants a woman who is: low maintenance/chill/fun to be around, and with a side of nuturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:38 PM
2

Ahh yes those awkward and "how much longer do I have to sit here" dating moments. I am introvert so these moments feel like I am wearing wool pants two sizes too small in the dead of summer. A cup of coffee is the way to go for those first 2 interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:06 AM
2

I think there was a study once on how men tend to overestimate there attractiveness with women they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:42 AM
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Unless they are super obvious you wouldn't. You are not meant to. If the women have been friends long enough, the look would be really subtle and something they worked out and perfected long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:33 AM
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Wasn't a goal of mine. Honestly thought I would never do it -bit of a commitment phobe, plus I heard a lot of women tell me how much happier they were after their divorce vs being married. Plus it sounded very boring. I did get married though to an amazing guy. Never say never.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:30 AM
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As others have said - she has given me the subliminal "Help Me Pleez" look, she is too drunk to function and has a serious case of beer goggles. If he was hot, we would go to the bathroom and chat about him and come up with some logistics... Do I text her in a half hour or does she text me? How does she plan to get home. What's his address, etc?.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:23 AM
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Now matter how much you need to believe that women all secretly want to get married to convince yourself that you will finally get a chance when they get past their 20s, it isn't going to happen. Just like young girls won't finally give you a chance when you are 50. You are not the top percent here. My grandmother won't even date men who don't have their teeth and she doesn't even have her own teeth, and yet the women has no shortage of old men vying for her attention. Spin that rationalization …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:35 AM
1

Thank goodness. It's been a whole hour since someone has found an in unoriginal way to interject "triggered" into their reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:33 AM
1

Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:32 PM
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Because they are looking for a magical formula that will teach them how to be successful with women. And they were taught that women all want babies at 30 and they all want to get married. There can't not be any other reality. Ever. It doesn't matter that a whole lot of women who don't want children or to get married. If women don't fit the one size fits all that they have been taught - it can't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:40 PM
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Stay away from men who are virgins. And make sure you ask him if he is a virgin before things get hot and heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:35 AM
5

She has a hot guy who makes her feel sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:54 AM
2

No, but I did have a big glass of wine in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:11 AM
3

I had one tell me I looked mature enough to date an older guy, which is why he reached out to me. It didn't seem to matter that my profile said I was looking for men 25-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:09 AM
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Lol. This is such a strange thing to me..I honestly would not have any clue to how much a man made until I was in a pretty commted realtionship with him. Unless he was flashy, but thats not my thing, so this would not be sexually appealing to me. Nor have I, or any of my friends, used a man to get a free meal. Mainly because it is never a good idea to commit to a whole dinner if you don't even know if you like the guy yet. But then again, I have only encountered one guy who asked me about my n c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:00 AM
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When you go looking for women who meet you preconceived notions you are going to find them or you are going to nit pick and interrupt everything she says to fit your own narrative. Or your sample base only includes interactions with women on line. Are there shit women, yes, just like they are shit men, but this idea that women are looking for a beta provider is really old school. Most women in my line of work, and yes they do make good money, aren't looking for a provider. Dual incomes are bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:23 AM
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Lol. That is lame, but also kind of adorable - if you knew the guy. I once had a guy tell me that my boobs were beautiful and I should show them off more - mind you we were 15 mins into the first date. Last time I let my co-workers set me up!.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:08 AM
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No, we don't. Nor did we go looking for this mythical beta provider you all seem to need us to do. It's like you are all still stuck in some throw back time warp. It's not the 80's anymore. Wanting a man to be employed is one thing, wanted a man to support us is something most women stop wanting or looking for long ago. There are also a decent amount of commit phobic women in the world as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:03 AM
2

Fucking. Better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:45 AM
3

Stay at home moms are more likely to be depressed than working mom's. I am sure their are many women who would prefer to stay home that first year or two - if this was something the couple were financial able to do. More and more companies are becoming more flexible about WFH policies and offer flexible schedules, so many are able to work and still be there for their kids. My company is very flexible and we are all set up to WFH. They also offer parternity leave. Then again the company is based …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:57 AM
2

Learning the illogical isn't a successful stradegy. But that was a lovely try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:39 AM
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Lol, ahh yes TRP logic, Women aren't plates, the multiple women I am dating at the same time are plates. That hamsters got to be tired by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:33 AM
1

Spinning plates - "dating multiple women" so one feels he has options and doesn't get oneitus. And it means you refer to women as plates. Part of me was snarky, but the other was dead freaking serious. Not long ago you told me I was going to divorce rape my husband. You made the assumption, that because I was a woman, this was his inevitable future, and the comment you replied this too was me saying that I thought my husband was the bomb, so yeah this is why a large part of me is dead freaking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:47 PM
0

By kids you mean son, right? Women being plates and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:43 PM
2

You do plan on telling her your not into marriage or babies correct. Or are you doing that talking on behalf of your friend thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:11 PM
3

In highschool, yes. As an adult, not that I am aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:23 PM
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And there is the crux of it all, we are indeed chosing men who understand that being a doormat or an alpha ass are two sides of the same coin, and neither are attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:51 AM
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Yes men who need a magic formula to be successful with women. No, woman in the real world do not leave good men for assholes - in fact they leave assholes, of course you dismiss this is as her looking for a provider. The rest of the world defines it as - woman leaves asshole man because man is asshole. Women who date assholes do so because they have daddy issues, lack confidence, or they they could give two shits about him and are in for fun. Similar to how all you guys will date crazy women unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:08 AM
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Wrong. You are projecting your definition of neediness onto women. First, no one likes a needy person. This is not gender specific. You are defining needy, based off of RP teachings and you have this wrong. It does not mean not showing emotion. No women wants a man who doesn't care for them. And just like men, we want to know that our SO does care for us. Needy means some one who has no self respect for themselves as a person. A needy person is desperate for someone's approval and they will depe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:17 AM
2

Its a personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:06 AM
1

Any chance you are an ISTP? Neediness is pretty much our biggest turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:00 AM
1

What about when a woman is attracted to you, but you are not attracted to her? I don't mean for just casual sex - I mean for those women who wanted more than just casual sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:50 AM
5

TRP solisphosim. Fathers want what's best for the children not what's best for a man. You call a gynocentric view because it's not what's best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:28 PM
5

Extremely hypothetical statement. TRP core foundation is built around embracing narcissism and it is an idealogy that does creates, maintains, and supports emotional manipulation and devaluing of women, which desensitized them toward violence against women - (rape). In short it creates an intense hate towards women. Terpers all the last group of followers who should single anyone out for narcissism or violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:58 AM
1

People are failable and everyone does stupid shit, but most ppl enter into a realtionship with good intentions. What ever happens after that - is up to them. If you enter into a realtionship knowing full well you will destroy it, that is an entirely different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:39 AM
0

Yes, of course, AWALT. Disney is going to make a movie about any day now. That way you can't claim media lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:25 AM
1

Projection if they were cheaters prior to finding RP. if they weren't, they have been taught to project "she is not yours, it's just your turn" onto all women. Now he can justify and rationalize his own current infidelity or his future infidelity. He was already prime to cheat to begin with - pologomous biological nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:53 AM
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So you have narrowed it down to..she is alive. This list just keeps getting better and better. I thought when they included "women who wear thumb rings" that it couldn't get any more illogical than that. To date, you beat them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:29 AM
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I think for our generation, the gap is closing. Previous to that, men were more likely to cheat - for a myraid of reasons. I think many women would have like to, but societal pressure and financial dependency kept them from doing so. Honestly, it just depends on the person. Some people want the variety, but don't want to lose the comfort of what they have - even if the realtionship is good, some cheat to meet needs that aren't being met, but feel some sort of pressure to stay with their SO. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:55 AM
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I think a majority of men here (RP), will cheat. They have been taught to believe that AWALT and have fully embraced I DGAF about anyone but themselves - family, kids, wives, gf, none of it is more important than themselves. However, the are a large amount of men who wouldn't cheat. I think most men and women will admire someone other than there SO at some point, but most aren't willing to destroy a realtionship for a quickie. I have known some shit guys, but luckily I have known a lot of good g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:37 AM
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You know tommorow a new post will be created and they will add this little tidy to the rest of their illogical logical conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:30 AM
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You forgot thumb rings..this is a clear indicator a woman has slept around. I know when I wear mine I more inclined to pull random men off the street and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:43 AM
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Really? I kind of get FDS, but MGTOW? Do you think the mods read your comments or there is just a code they run to see if you are subbed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:30 AM
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Your post takes into consideration both gender's responsibility. More options to debate. Good shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:08 AM
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The title of the post was Should men be focusing solely on their own pleasure during sex (like TRP suggests), or should they focus on the woman's pleasure? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/g42eha/should_men_be_focusing_solely_on_their_own/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:50 PM
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Is this a follow up to a post made last week were there a subset of TRP who believe concentrating on their only their own orgasm is enough to get a woman off. If we are indeed talking about these men, then the world needs to ban them from having sex ever again. I going to exclude these men all together. No one is responsible for anyone orgasm, that being said both genders have a responsibly to make sure their partner like and enjoy what you are doing. You don't need to be equipped with the lates…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:50 PM
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Lol. I have a feeling you do just fine minus the inconveniences. I also have a sneaky suspicion that you may actually be an older men, hell a man, on here that actually fucks. Now I need to go read some comments from men on here who don't fuck. I need my stereotypes to remain intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:53 AM
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Yes and some people dress up like animals and fuck. So of course, everyone is just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:40 PM
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Societal pressures and expectations is what controls our base instincts more than anything. Due to financial Independence men had more leadway to act like assholes, now women have more financial Independence and are getting the chance to act like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:53 AM
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I have seen enough your comments, those with daughters always stick out, to know what you spitting is a load of crap. You are not a fan of women. And that's fine we're not saints, but it's the daughters I feel for. The will figure it, they always do. What they do with the knowledge depends on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:06 AM
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Unless she chained and gaged you in the basement until after the I Do's, or your in some strange forced marriage religious cult, you choose her right back. Men are far from helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:40 AM
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Ahh yes. The good ole, men love and chose their wife because of who she is. You didn't. Life isn't a Disney movie. Men choose women who best fit their needs and wants. They isn't anything altruistic about it. You didn't choose her for her. You chose her for what she could give you. MRP/TRP aren't big on real self awareness unless it realates to how you should interact with women because women are....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:09 AM
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Your welcome. I still need to send you something. Freaking work keeps getting in the way, of my Reddit time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:52 AM
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As long as you are a nice guy and remember to be yourself - you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:01 PM
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Yes, I know I am not rocking Lily white skin myself. Doesn't mean we don't get sun spots. How old are you exactly 40, 50, what? or are just holding out for hope that there is still time. You are pushing and deluding yourself hard here. Most women are not attracted to older men, no matter how much you wish it's was true. Are there some..sure, but it's not as abundant as you all seem to believe. You claim women lied to you about being a nice guy and just be yourself = sex , but when we tell you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:48 PM
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Only in certain areas bud, and yes you do need sun screen. The sun isn't racist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:05 PM
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I will let you know the next time I see a hot 40 year. There are a rarity. If your 40 or 20 something, put sun screen on. Wrigles and sun spots are not gender specific. Meaning the sun isn't sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:45 PM
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Only morons think they can fuck young chicks when they get older unless they increase their value. Yes, I just said this. Just like menopause, ED is an age issue. Women aren't to blame for ED. That's a man's body letting them know your are ageing. Staying healthy helps, many things, but it doesn't stop ageing. By the way or women also to blame for men balding as well. It must be awful to be so controlled by women. So powerless and helpless you all are against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:35 PM
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Dude, I know the manosphere needs to believe they will have a shot at young hot woman in their 40s to make up for the lack of not getting them in their 20s, but below average looking doesn't improve with age. It gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:10 PM
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Wat!? Three comments I made on FDS 4 months ago equates to a feminist? I also commented on don'tputyourdickinthat and menslockerroom. Does this mean I will magically grow a dick by morning. Frst you use women from the UMC who have kids, work full time, and have the option not to work as proof that women from are lying about being happier now than in the 50s. Then it's they are depressed because they have to act like men, which was not even close to what was published. And to really drive home yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:44 AM
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What. No it was pretty much the opposite, they weren't given the same equality as men despite being a significant part of the work force, and realization of hormonal conditions that were previously dismissed as only in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:46 AM
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Yes, and then have been numerous articles explaining those findings - it's not because their envy women from bygone eras.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:55 AM
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Certainly explains a lot. I never asked, I just assumed it was some essential required skill set. Sounds like I was kind of right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:19 AM
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Curiosity and entertainment. Sometimes the comments are insightful and I enjoy reading them, sometimes they are so wrong I wonder if they have had any encounters with opposite sex at, or they make me laugh, and sometimes I can't help but think - what in the hell happened here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:15 AM
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I have always been impressed with how fast they can get undressed. You turn your back on them for a couple seconds and when you turn back around they are completely naked. Except for their socks. They must teach them how to do this in highschool or something. All you were able to get off in that time span were your earrings. I definitely don't mind them getting naked first gives me time to appreciate the male physique. Definitely would not mind seeing them sprawled out naked on the bed - the pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:03 AM
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You are talking about women who have the option to do this. This is disposable income area. Most women back in the day, were not able to stay home with the kids. Not everyone lived in suburbia. They still worked low level jobs with long hours and still had to cook, clean, and take care of the kids because society deemed that women's work. So no, lower - middle class woman were not happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:09 AM
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Congrats - sounds like you have a healthy functional realtionship. This doesn't sound like a pick meisha and simp realtionship. It just sounds like you have a realtionship that most ppl, outside of here, aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:00 AM
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Wrong. There are just as many introverted women as their are men. Women introverts aren't big into the bar scene, or any other social scene. The quarantine isn't causing us any anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:14 AM
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Isn't ED pretty prevalent in men 40+ - like the male version of menopause. How many men, dating younger women, can still perform without Viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:04 AM
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My cat was afraid of mice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:28 PM
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Women aren't jealous of other women who are being treated like shit by men. That's like saying men are jealous of the ugly dude who is forced to sleep with the obese in order to get some. And what if these women are with one of these TRP men who think focusing on only their pleasure will magically make women hot and bothered. They exist, which I discovered last night after stumbling on a post on here about this very thing. These women are more likely to entertain one of these men out their in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:31 PM
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I read your comment history and i don't mind sharing personal experience I had in the past that would give specific examples of what I am talking about. However, I don't want to share them on the subbredit because men here will nip pick what I say to support their own narrative. I can send you an email. Let me know if this is something you are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:33 PM
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I am now, more than ever, convinced these guys are not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:03 AM
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No absolutely not. I want a man who is invested in my orgasms as I am into his. We told you guys this hundred times - PIV does not feel as good for us as it does for you. How hot the man is or isn't and will never change this. TRP wants starfish sex, mission accomplished. If this what you all truly believe then we might as well replace you with vibrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:29 AM
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Difference between nuturing vs supportive. Best example I can think of, in the context of this conversation, is to compare it to someone who is living pay check to pay check vs someone who has disposable income. Pay check to pay check - you are doing everything you can just to maintain what you have. Your not thinking about the future, not thinking about vacations or any other luxury items or ways to grow your nest egg or retirement. You can't because you don't have that luxury. Every thing you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:05 AM
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Why can't men only sexually desire the women right in front them and not want to have sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:27 AM
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Lol. That is one way of putting it. Just run as far as you can from men like this. Just don't mistake these guys as true representation of men. A decent amount of men are worth the effort. They will make you a priority and you will make them a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:36 AM
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It can exist - but I didn't say men, I said men here. It's just that the men here want the extreme of both. Edited to say: Not all men here, I would say the purple pill men realize this. I should have said the majority of the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:32 PM
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Men here what a women that doesn't exist. A women who cares about you and your emotional needs - a nuturing aggreable women who will fuck them like a porn star. When they realize they can't have this type of woman they blame society and women. Everyone lied to them. They didn't. Men want to believe they can have it all in one nice young attractive package. A women who is in it for just sex, doesn't give a shit about them, and a woman who does care about is going to want more from them than just …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:00 PM
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A lot of men want their wives to be nuturing vs supportive. A nuturer will take care of you ( think it of it as a maternal role - someone that carries the realtionship). In theory, this sounds great, but the wife will stop seeing them as men. A supportive wife doesn't carry the realtionship she helps make it stronger. Men thought they put their wives on a pedestal stool because they believed that agreeing with everything the wife says or letting her make all the decisions, was the best and faste…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:11 AM
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Too bad you don't have access to his online accounts. If this is what happened and if you ever had to face a custody battle, it would shed some light on what type of man/father he is. Especially if you have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:23 AM
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This is sad. I am glad you were able to get out though. I always wonder if this is what happens to a marriage after husbands find MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:05 AM
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Your welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:52 AM
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I find ironic how many men on here also mention how much they want a nuturing and laid back wife/ - over here this means submissive doormat. They don't understand that the more submissive nuturing the women is the more likely they will end up in a sexless marriage. She ended up nuturing him so much, she stopped seeing as a grown man vs a man that needs to be taken care of. They set themselves up failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:49 AM
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I doubt most men or even aware of their dual mating stradegy. When it's their time to settle down why they chose the women they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:29 AM
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It's is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:59 AM
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That's why my husband is the bomb. He never made me feel like anything other than his wife. It's why I still want to do all sorts of dirty stuff to him. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:57 AM
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Men answering for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:51 AM
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This. That's how my husband and I manage our marriage as well. It helps when you ever a partner that listens to your feedback and actively makes changes to adapt as the marriage ages. We have always been perfectly frank on what we need emotionally and sexually to keep our marriage together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:50 AM
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And it's up to men to act like a husband, and stop expecting their wives to be their mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:11 AM
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/thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:49 PM
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Imagine being a guy who never gets sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:15 PM
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Let me make it even simpler for you. Don't do anything of things that need to be done on a day to day basis - laundry, feeding and bathing the kids, cooking, cleaning, e.t.c and become an additional responsibility so you can stay sexless. Edited to say; Have you ever been in a LTR or is this conversation based off pure TRP solisphosim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:23 AM
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Once again male projection. It's about the psychology behind it. She wants to feel like your wife not your caretaker. And if you have a man who doesn't believe in taking care of the everyday mundane responsibilities - then he will feel like someone who she needs to take care of vs a husband. It's why chore play is not a turn on for women. This is men's fantasy, not women's. If you don't understand that, then you don't understand women's sexuality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:55 AM
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Water doesn't makes us wetter. How do you avoid that obstacle?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:07 AM
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Until they find themselves in a deadbedroom, which they always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:05 AM
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A for effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:35 AM
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Must be from all the dish washing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:21 AM
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You implied that women use chores as a way to define the sexual dynamics of a realtionship . It's male projection because sex and chores are too different entities in our minds, and the two never even cross paths.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:20 AM
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Yikes. How fucked up is that mentality? not only on the side of the hypothetical guy but also and especially on the side that would establish such a fucked-up dynamic of seeing and using intimacy and sex as a pressure tool. This is male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:01 AM
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Needs help? Like baby sitting your kids once a month. Of course you are right, there is nothing that turns a woman on more like taking care of their husband like they do their children. Ahh no. The problem is men who think they washed the dishes tonight, so they should get some sex. Washing the dishes isn't award winning acts of amaziness - it's called adulting and you don't get a prize for adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:30 AM
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Try using your left hand. It will be like you have a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:57 AM
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This is hard. Doggie style is good when it's just about sex. Missionary is nice when you want to have a deeper connection and spooning is great for lazy sex. Shower sex is my least favorite. It never goes they way you think it's going to. Maybe I am just too tall or maybe the hubby is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:32 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:48 PM
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Because we still want to have sex with you in marriage/realtionship. When that stops, it's only matter of time before we get the hell out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:00 PM
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I think this a pretty good way at looking at things. With my past FWB - there really wasn't any type of dating involved. If you both agree it's a FWB relationship who buys what doesn't really matter. It's just about sex. I am not saying you don't like your FWB, but you are not going to go out of your way to treat them special. There isn't any point or desire to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:03 PM
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As long as it's not over the top, sexual, etc, I could see this working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:49 PM
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That's why I never dated them. The story is always the same - gave the "not the greatest looking" a chance and he was the most emotionally manipulative man ever dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:37 PM
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You know most of these guys lose their period because they are under weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:42 PM
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No they don't, he is insulting you because he believes this is how he can women out of his league to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:30 PM
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No dude this is not a healthy weight for a 5'10 women. What your are doing is insulting them, so that you convince them to date you. You want attractive women to date you, then learn how to be improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:28 PM
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Only if I had children as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:44 AM
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Then get into a relationship. You have to give something to get something. It's transactional. You guys contionusly complain about women using you for money. Yet, you want to be able to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:44 AM
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Both of FWB were guys like this. It's why I became FWB with them vs nexting them. I knew exactly what I was getting into. No feelz needed. Both were freaking phenomenal in bed. Upfront men are appealing - it looks like they have options. They aren't desperate or hitting on any women in a 50 mile radius to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:14 AM
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Sweet. We can start a fundraiser to sponsor those who don't have insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:54 AM
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What if you made vasectomies mandatory for all men who want to join the red pill community. MGTOW can create a similar rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:39 AM
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This is something terpers feel the need to do, not us. You need to open the question up to them. They care more about measuring up/comparing themselves to some chicks past bf/FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:51 PM
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And those guys have daughters. How screwed up is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:16 PM
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Dude, I went ahead and read your comment history. Please tell me this you shit posting and you don't have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:04 AM
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You are never gonna get it. I don't need TRP. I never had to work for sex/realtionship a day in my life, nor will I ever have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:57 AM
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Primal mating stradegy does not equal self awareness. Anyone who has any intelligent level above ape like primitive perception understand that. Now I resulted to a personal attack, but it was you who gave me the insult. Go back over to the red pill and re-read the basics of frame - because you just lost your shit over the word weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:24 AM
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Wtf are you talking. I asked you what your dual mating Stradegy was and your answer was So using primal, instinctual behavior, cavemen behavior to measure if someone is “self aware”... is logical That is WEAK. Primitive ape-like perception, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:06 AM
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Bro, this is a debate sub if you can't handle someone challenging you without resorting to personal attacks or throwing a little boy temper tantrum than get the fuck off the subbredit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:32 AM
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So you don't know. Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:51 AM
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Are you woke to your as well? Or are you one of the many who lack self awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:57 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:51 PM
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Monthly duty sex? Who in the hell do you sleep with. I nor he is down for monthly duty sex. If this is what your getting than you doing shit wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:14 AM
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That's your life not me. And if you want to insult me go right ahead, but don't you dare insult my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:29 AM
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And miss all of the entertaining illogical and hypocrital rants. No way. Plus reading the post and comments here confirm my suspicion that Mr. IntersIn is the bomb!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:51 AM
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I found one of his brethren the other day and hands down he wins the "what in the hell is going on here" award. I wish I could remember his user name. Anyways it was something about us catching male germs every time we sleep with a guy and how it effects our femininity. Something about our healthy feminine glow and our ability to walk. There were so many little gems like this. Reading his comments was like me watching the Tiger King - what in the hell am I watching/reading and why can't I look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:04 AM
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Dude, you are all over the place. Pick an argument and stick with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:14 AM
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No it was me pointing out your misconceptions. But nice straw man there. Remember you referred to abortion as an elective service when you complain about welfare/child support. Women are going to miss the chance to terminate because of the heartbeat time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:03 AM
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No I mean refusing to see the cases brought up to the Supreme Court about the restrictions put into effect from Georgia and Alabama. Deciding to let the lower court system settle the matter. And I am taking about agreeing to hear the case for Louisiana admitting privileges. The restrictions put into place due to the cornovirus certainly matter for all those who are in states where a 6-8 ban is in place. Do you think they are going to give those women a pass once they miss the deadline. Just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:25 PM
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What the hell are talking about! Restrictions were passed way before the cornovirus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:35 PM
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Sure if they live in progressive blue states like CA or NY. But Abortion rights are once again hitting the Supreme Court, and they are upholding abortion restrictions. I am all for financial Independence, but only after abortion rights are solidified in the Constitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:07 PM
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You just answered your own question But I do put myself first when there is a conflict between her interests and mine. Contionusly putting your own interest above hers and you referring to yourself as the king in the realtionship is indeed asking your SO to put you on a pedestal stool. Healthy relationships require comprises. A man who contionusly puts himself first, is not a man, he is a child. If men wants to lead the realtionship, he needs to lead for the greater good of his family, not for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:47 PM
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The king cares and provides for the princess. But he still makes the decisions and *he comes first.*** Putting a woman in a pedestal is putting her above yourself, treating her like a god. So what you are saying is, I like to knock my future or current wife/gf off the pedistal stool so I can climb up there myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:15 PM
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Hey guys. None of you are anywhere close to earning enough money that you need to worry about attracting a gold digging woman. You keep your 50k a year and get yourself some video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:15 AM
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do believe women can overcome their biologically programming but it would be damn hard to do it for the next 60 years. You see in the past society kept marriages together. That society expectations are gone. No society didn't kill marriage, generations after generations of men did. It was men who couldn't over come their biological programming. Loyalty isn't part of the male imperative. They didn't do In Sickness and Health, and they weren't faithful. Men had eons to prove loyalty to their wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:16 AM
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Sorry bud the 40 plus man isn't aging well. They don't put sun screen on their face and they get jowels. You rarely hear anyone say ..wow he doesn't look his age, he looks so much younger. You hear ppl say that about women, but not about men. A body is easy to get in shape, but it takes a lot effort money, and a dose of good genetics to keep your face from "showing signs of aging" And we are women, so yeah the face counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:23 AM
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Men like to believe they have all the time in the world to attract women, but the truth is younger is better looking. Younger men are better looking then older men, and a woman in her 20s isnt going to find most men 10+ older than her attractive. Outside of financial reasons, there is no upside to dating or sleeping with a man that much older than her. Caveat - unless you the older dude at my gym! Only man, I have ever met irl, who made older look good. But he an exception, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:05 AM
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Don't forget dyed her hair an unnatural hair color, has a tatoo, and wears thumb rings, or travels. Next month we cad add "breathing" to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:46 AM
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Depends on who you ask. More religious countries, probably any women who slept with a man out of wedlock. The US, 10, 15, 20+? For TRP men, any women who has had more sex than them, so 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:28 AM
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Well if all women are hypergamous, likes TRP states over and over again, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:17 AM
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I frequently see good looking guys younger than myself. I could see my future self as a cougar, but I wouldn't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:00 AM
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Married for 10 yrs. I wear mine all the time unless I am doing manual labor. I love it. My husband wears his all the time as well. I wouldn't care if he didn't. A ring doesn't make a marriage. The only ppl I know who don't, are those who work in manual jobs - my sister and brother in law are in the landscaping business, so they don't wear their wedding rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:23 AM
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Imagine some do, depends on the women. There are decent amount of divorce women, who want nothing to do with another marriage - at least not for awhile, that are just looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:21 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:34 AM
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tried /r/truerateme once, scored a -1 and the server crashed due to unhandled bounds checking. Lol. I have a hard time believing you look like a complete troll. Considering who is over there -1 should not be outside the bounds of an array.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:18 AM
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east coast cities many if not most educated women get married in their early 30s. Amen. I moved out here to the west coast and was shocked on how early some women married out here. Most of my friends from back home didn't even consider marriage until they were in their 30s. There were no upsides to getting married any earlier than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:43 AM
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You should ask Rollo to create a sub genre of TRP for bi men. Then you can hang out with the rest of the angry TRP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:07 AM
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Yuk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:09 PM
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What? None what you said makes any sense. Go back to MGTOW. For a group of men who are supposed to be going their own way, you still need a lot of attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:04 PM
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What the hell are you ranting about. How is a woman having a child =she is completely to blame What world do you live in that a woman can suddenly get pregnant without a man. Man walk out on their children all the time and leave the woman to raise the child on their own. Whatever alternative reality you live in, isn't the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:45 PM
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Can't be a child and raise a child at the same time. Usually it's the mother, in the relationship, who has to grow up the quickest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:05 AM
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This was a good one. I am going to rewatch this tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:45 AM
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Requiem for a Dream is one of my favorite movies. I used to have a major crush on Jared Leto.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:44 AM
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Not so much change as it is failure to adapt. In the beginning you are both each other's "center of the universe" then life steps in and priorities change - kids, career, bills, health, etc. And both genders expect to remain the center of their SOs universe. When that doesn't happen both get resentful and nastoligic for the "time before marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:35 AM
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Well, I actually thought there was a lot of truth in this. So have an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:20 AM
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How do you know this? I have a hard time picturing this, considering most Europeans are thinner than Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:58 AM
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Anyone have any recommendations for dystopian shows/movies? The last good one I watched was The Girl with all the Gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:28 AM
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I watched that last night. It was like a train wreck that I couldn't look away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:24 AM
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I got one the other day asking me how to become a HVM. His comment history was full of porn. I got a few more when I was active on Askwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:22 AM
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Riling up the natives is highly entertaining. Some post/comments are insightful though. Also I made a really good friend from here that I would have never met if I didn't frequent this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:58 PM
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I don't think either gender is built for long term monagamy, but it doesn't mean marriage can't work. They are a lot of benefits to being married -if marriage is something a person wants. Complanecy or leaving the heavy lifting to one partner will kill a marriage. It builds resentment & anger and your SO becomes more work than he/she or the marriage is worth. Too many people let it get to close to the breaking point before they even admit there is a problem. Or worse yet you have a SO who dismis…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:31 PM
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Nobody is whining, you are too easy to rile up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:11 AM
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How is it you have a good wife, yet still seem to hate women so much. I can't even hate on men, except RP duded, because it makes me feel like I am hating on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:37 AM
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I tend to agree with you. And most women don't want attention unless they are in specific social settlings. So these campaigns are working the way they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:31 AM
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This is TRP intperation, the rest of the world defines it as, a man who doesn't use woman to define his worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:21 AM
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Indifference, peacocking, aggressive, or arrogant, no, not a sexual turn on. A man who is his own person, has his own interests, isn't needy or dependant on attention from women to validate him, yup that's a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:00 AM
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I agree. Online is a different story, but in every day life, no. Men here make it sound like everytime a guy talks to you or holds a door open for you they are offering you dick. Maybe this only happens to Stacy, but most of the world is average looking - either below, middle, or above. I don't see model looking ppl out and about on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:51 AM
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Huh. Last I knew women weren't big on aholes. Aholes don't get me hot and bothered, quite the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:11 AM
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1/10 maybe, but in the end it just wasn't worth it. I would get a Hi, but enviably it wouldn't be long before it got, creepy, niceguy, or to sexual too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:06 AM
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So common sense is difficult for you to comprehend. No need for bitterness TRP is usually devoid of common sense and logical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:34 PM
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no self respecting woman is gonna sit there and read the endless “you wanna Netflix and chill this weekend??” messages. Amen! OLD feels like dumpster diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:49 PM
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How is this RP revolutionary. Isn't "don't treat you partner like a therapist common sense. I don't get how RP can twist common sense into a negative outlook of realtionship/women. Hell this applies to both gender. Men may fuck a woman who treats him like a therapist, but not many will realtionship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:20 PM
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You can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:54 PM
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I think it has more to do with confidence. Losing weight/getting fit takes work and dedication. There is a sense of accomplishment in acheving your goal weight or BMI, etc. Accomplishment inspire confidence and confidence is attractive. Not every one is born blessed with good genetics, but anyone can work on sculpting their body. It won't make you a super model, but it will give you something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 02:57 AM
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If i admit having cheated how can I also be liar. You can't have it both ways. Your said you didn't cheat on both of your wife. I copied and pasted a link from a comment in askmen where you admitted cheating on your wife. You lying to cover your tracks isn't me having it both ways. That's you trying to back track. Own your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 02:01 AM
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Liar and a cheater. Good thing TRP doesn't teach men to own their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:50 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fs4gls/what_is_the_secret_you_are_taking_to_death_bed/flzdk8w?context=3 So this isn't you.. admitting you cheated on your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:39 AM
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Didn't you cheat on the love of your life. Actually didn't you cheat on both of your wife's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:26 AM
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We might have to brawl for him. I also am willing to cheat vs fight a fair fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:15 AM
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My best ever was when I was 12. His mom used to pack the best lunches and he would share his gumi bears with me. Then one day a new girl appeared and she had Red Hots and he broke up with me to be with her. I was devastated. I don't think I ever got over it. True Story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:03 AM
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Is this Chad. I want to know what Chad looks like in his nature habitat. I can't sext him as soon as I meet him if I don't know what he looks like. And what kind of mating dance should I do to get his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:50 PM
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TRP ≠ self awareness. It doesn't focus or even acknowledge man's innate flaws. If it did terpers would realize how hypercritical they sound on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:31 PM
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This is one of the problems with RP you dismiss actual feedback is a shit test. This will cause realtionship issues. No matter how many books you read you will never understand how a woman processes a man actions. You are not meant to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:17 PM
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Different life and/or realtionship goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:11 PM
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Women who date younger men aren't in for the money. They are in it because they find the guy sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:00 AM
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I don't think I would have a relationship with a younger guy, but I definitely would hook up with a younger guy. I look at and admire younger men more than I do older men. They are just better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:23 AM
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I so damn jealous, I feel like most people are getting more sex... EXCEPT for me. My work load has increased so much since this pandemic, that we are having less sex than normal. I was just sitting here thinking of all the naughty sex we should be having! Stupid work, cutting into my fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:38 PM
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I can definitely see both as a possiblity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 02:00 AM
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I just told my husband we could be victims of both. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:59 AM
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If my husband was ok with me fucking another dude, then my marriage is either in jeapoardy or it's outright over. Sexual jealously is something I would expect from my husband and my husband should expect from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:56 PM
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You will able to get eggs!?. Wanted to make a cake for my husband, but I can't find eggs anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:31 PM
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I just read the world could be facing a condom shortage. I wonder if we will have a baby boom or a divorce boom at the end of this pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:25 PM
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We don't need to worry about men from the manosphere hitting on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:57 AM
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Yes, back in the day women were expected to marry straight of highschool and started poping out babies and society expected men to marry if they wanted to sex. Nothing to do with a biological clock. Now neither genders is pressured into to following the prescribe gender roles, unless they want to. I certainly don't want to return to the days of yesteryear. I imagine a lot of women would say the same. No one needs to have a baby in their 20s anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:51 AM
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I know. It involves a bunch of angry men who can't get young hot woman to settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:43 AM
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So. There are so many things worse in life then turning insert whatever the wall age is today and declining RMV or SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:24 AM
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Great advice. Lots of shelter cats waiting to be adopted. OP, you know not all marriages or LTR are going to lead to a deadbedroom. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. As long as you both work on keeping it spicey in the bedroom, you at least have a shot of having a nondeadbedroom marriage. It's not all doom and gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:13 AM
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At this point, I am convinced that when I hit 40, 50, or 60, I will still have a higher SMV, than most of the men from the manosphere. There isn't anything logical or rational about this magical declining "wall age". Tommorow it will be a different number than it was today. It's purely a revenge fantasy to fuel their mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:56 AM
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And here is a friendly reminder, that blowing right by my comment without leaving a comment is more aligned with " Pretty sure men don't care.....". Leaving a salty comment, twice I may add, doesn't. WTF wants attention from men from the manosphere? That's just insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:32 AM
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HAHAHA all these stupid men with their silly jobs. Don't they know they can just like totally quit and do something else? I wonder if they have thought of that. Yes. They could and it's not white males who have the highest fatality rates in the most dangerous jobs in the US. It's immigrants and black people. said my girlfriend and I both have seperate apartments so we do our own housework that we don't include in our "hours worked" for the week because obviously vacuuming my apartment and walkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:09 AM
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Men choosing to work in dangerous industries ≠ women have it better than men. Nor does saying my girlfriend and I both work 70 hours and share household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:05 AM
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You abandoned the augment the minute you cherry picked through my comment and used a personal anotodote to counter my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:07 PM
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Wat!?! How does Stripping equate to upper mobility. And scholarships, created in the last 3 to 5 years for women, does not subtract from the numerous years scholarships were awarded to men. And none of the UMC were hanging around the lower middle class women to wife them up. They were there to fuck them. That's it. We loaned our way to college just like men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:05 PM
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And yet they still feel the need to comment to prove how much they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:56 PM
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Works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:54 PM
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Right, let's take the word of a guy who downvotes- like a little boy, and uses his personal example as a retort to a guarter of what I just said. I am sure a bunch of other men who take TRP as the gospel vs a subjective idealogy will back you up as well. You can all downvote together to prove how much better than you are than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:45 PM
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TRP and MRP have redefined RP. Doesn't matter what is was, all people will remember and understand is how it is defined now. RP of yester year is gone. What's left is, a bunch of men claiming to understand RP ideas, but are mostly whining about first world problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:37 PM
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Men who hate or blame women for their problems aren't father of year material. Angry at your wife, should not translate to amoral stradegies against all women for sexual gratification. Being pissed off at your wife is one thing, but telling other men it's okay to pump and dump all women is quite another. And unfortunately that's what RP has turned into. Those aren't men, let alone my definition of good fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:13 PM
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Neither have privileges in the work force. Both work in low level gruelling jobs and live pay check to pay check and the majority of men in lower middle class do not work the most dangerous jobs. Women, on average, work much longer hours in their day to day lives. They work low level jobs, take care of the house and are responsible for the majority of child care. They look much older than their years. Natural lower middle class redpilled environment, don't believe in any sort of equalterian marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:40 PM
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So what you are saying is....I have never lived in or orbited tin the lower or middle socoencomic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:18 PM
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If you have to "work" on your marriage 24/7 - something is wrong with the marriage. Why are all these married and engaged women here in PPD? Because it's entertaining and how many posts/ comments are actually about debating. It consists of a bunch or angry bitter men who are rationalizing their hate towards women. Why are a bunch of men commenting on here instead of working on improving themselves, so they can meet women vs blaming women for their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:16 PM
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Upper middle class white men and women are both privileged. Not gender specific. Middle and lower class white men are more privileged than middle and lower class white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:54 PM
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I think the same about red pillers, especially since there is 50% chance they could have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:33 PM
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thank you. I think, when it's time, I will go down to the shelter and adopt another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:22 PM
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Old enough to have a cat and a husband. My car was dumped on the side of the road after a botched declawing and weighed about 3 lbs. I nursed her back to health, but she was extremely skittish around people. She always hid under the bed if someone besides myself was in the house. It took her a couple months to warm up to me. When my husband first came to my apartment, my cat, for the first time ever, didn't stay hidden until he left. After the 4th visit she jumped up on his lap, demanded scratch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:17 PM
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I think I triggered a few men by saying I rather be a cat lady then settle for a man I wasn't attracted to. We just had to put our cat down last week, and I miss her so damn much. Being a woman without my cat sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:27 PM
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I would love that. I think men who love cats are sexy! My husband and I just put our cat, of 17 years, down a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:05 PM
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Settling. At least with Spinsterhood, I would be able to have all the cats my heart desired. I would have no problem being the cat lady. If I settled I would be stuck with a man I wasn't attracted to, nor did I feel any type of strong emotional bond with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:38 AM
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So....who is the bitch here again. Or should we just chalk this up to good ole fashion hypocrisy. The woman is, in my experience, usually the more boring of any given couple. If all I am to you is a dude who meets your esoteric standards odds are you're kind of a bitch and don't meet mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:12 AM
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Its gotten so worse that we have 35+ year old women roaming around thinking they deserve to get "courted" too like young women do. Kind of like teaching a hooker how to have sex or something. There's nothing exciting about it for a man to do that to a woman past post wall ages. This revenge fantasy you all have concocted always makes me laugh. The day after a women turns 36, she magically becomes irrelevant, unworthy, and will spend the next 45 years as an manosphere reject. All because she didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:02 AM
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I loved that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:49 AM
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It’s just casual hooking up and dating, which the red pill calls plate spinning for some reason. It's a way to dehumanize women, so they can convince themselves they have the upper hand. The rest of the rational world refers to it as FWB or hooking up. If they referred to it that way, they would be forced to see the world as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 01:51 AM
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Apparently she has never taken the subway through some rough neighborhoods or done the mad dash from her car to her apartment. She must be one of the fortunate ones who could afford Car Services.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:37 PM
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There are lots of upsides though. You get to have a family you always wanted. This is the last thing a woman should want when she hooks up with a guy who thinks watching Netflix is a prelude to sex. don't get why you deliberately hide the problems of these supposed "independent" women in subs like these. Yes, please tell me how you, as a man, know all about these problems that independent women hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:51 AM
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Maybe I should have said.....on behalf of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:32 AM
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Just another example of the PPD going to shit. Once people start throwing out made-up allegations, there's no point in debating. You mean like the number of logical post and comments made here by men claiming they can tell a woman is a slut because she has a tatoo, wears thumb rings, or dyed her hair an unnatural hair color.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:28 AM
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On behalf of every woman who has a master degree....we really appreciate you not coming near us!!!!. You just made our life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:23 AM
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This has been my experience as well. Women in their 30s are less likely to settle for unsatisfactory sex, even from a FWB. In your 30s you know what you like and what you don't like and are less afraid/ashamed to ask for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:00 AM
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No. Not at all, but society is much more open to women pursing a career and getting married later on than they were 10 or 20 years ago. Society also is starting to catch on that not all women want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:16 AM
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Both genders have a type. Just because a lot of men will drop their standards for casual sex doesn't mean they don't have a type. It's not like they are going to introduce the women to their friends and family, I doubt they even go out in public with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:09 AM
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Millennials, have a lot more financial Independence than previous generations and we have the freedom and capability to go for the men we want. Most women in their 30s have there shit together and we want more than just a guy who thinks watching Netflix is a prelude to sex. There is no upside to this for us, no clue why a lot of men can't get that through their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:00 AM
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Sending good vibes out to you and Mr. Paisley.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:52 AM
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Yup I do. My neighbor kid is just like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:47 AM
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What does a hipster tatoo look like? I never understood the appeal of tribal tattoos, especially if the person didn't have a strong affiliation with a particular tribe, nor were they spitual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:32 AM
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They also think women wearing thumb rings, and have unnatural color hair are indicators that a woman is a slut. Yet they claim to be the logical gender. If the tattoo is a true work of art, I like them. It doesn't make me more likely to sleep with them though. I have one, but it's terrible. Luckily, it's in area that isn't visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:24 AM
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How is Mr. Paisley?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:18 AM
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So true. It looks like they just rolled out of bed. Some of the guys don't even look like they have showered or shaved in a week. Yet they still want hot woman to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:29 AM
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No, it actually makes me mad and or sad on behalf of their SO. Then I hope their gf/wife catches on sooner rather than later, and leaves his cheating ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:48 PM
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No, but he will dump her for a newer model or cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:49 AM
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What really annoys about most of those pro lifers, is they are all vehemently against welfare, yet fail to realize that retracting this right is going to cost then in income taxes. 50% of women seeking abortions are at or below poverty level, who do they think is going to pay for birthing, feeding, and housing those babies. It won't be those women because they can't afford to. It will be all of us. I mind when they aren't responsible enough to recognize they can't afford to keep the child, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:00 AM
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She thought these parts of MRP work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:51 AM
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Your wife was fine with dread, slut training, manipulation, cheating, the belief that women are children, and grown men telling other men, the same age as their daughters, it's okay to pump and dump women or lie about wanting a realtionship so you can sleep with girls. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:20 AM
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The only thing that gives me a slight pause about this is, they would grant financial abortion, but continue to pass laws that put unrealistic restrictions on abortions. Especially in those states where they already have laws in place that place severe restrictions on abortion. When people think I'm a man they treat my words with more authority and deference, but are quick to shut down the conversation if I'm being disagreeable. When people think I'm a woman, they tend to be very patronizing but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:59 AM
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allowing the men to opt out completely from the lives of the unwanted child and from the mother, not paying child-support for a child they don't care about. Meaning they were never married or in a LTR, only had a ONS or FWB type of relationship? rather keep it sex neutral. I edited my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:23 AM
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And anal - if a man isn't into pegging, he just isn't that into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:15 AM
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Evening Darkseeker, Do you think unbiased courts, zero affirmative action, financial abortion, etc. Would do much to alleviate their burdens, take away patriarchal responsibilities? unbiased courts - this is something that would require changes to the law - which seems doable zero affirmative action - fairly certain that will never fly. Financial abortion - this could have a double meaning to it, but I will assume you are talking about abortion - if our government can stay the hell away from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:12 AM
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So what your saying is, as you get older you are settling for Becky because she is easier to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:05 AM
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There have been a few times in my life I truly did wish I was attracted to women vs men. LTR would have been so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:32 AM
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How many times on here have we seen the men on here brag about dating women who are 7 or 8 a.ka. out of their league. While they have low standards for who they will have sex with, their standards for dating are much different. They don't want to date the average women, they want to date women out of their league and when that doesn't happen they blame it on hypergamy. They don't want average women, they want Stacy and are angry that they can't get Stacy. I have seen them rate women, who I consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:18 AM
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Hey look it's the guy who downvotes, when someone says something that makes him mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:18 AM
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This is my thought as well. Why watch it, if only a ugly guy gets to cum. My imagination is more of a turn on that a lot of porn. Plus I think my husband is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:28 PM
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How does "women listening" to him whine about he hates talking to women in order to have sex with them translate into: didn’t realize anyone was forced to read purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:08 PM
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am not attacking you, but if you saw yourself in my statements about a group you are part of, to the point of being that offended, maybe my assertion for the group have some truth into it. Of course you are attacking/blaming me, you are attacking/blaming all women, which is your intent. Just as it is for incels, MGTOW, and TRP. You seen to know me well, who are you? I dont remember talking to someone so fun in a while. To
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:19 AM
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Attacking me will not make your arguments any better, you know? Very little, unfortunately very little. I would just add women can also look pretty, and make other things look pretty so tecnically it is not all just sex. However, It is not uncommon to have other points in a woman's attributes in the negatives, like her speech and behavior. Which actually detract whatever she has of value to offer. Cognitive dissonance at its best. Attacking me will not make your arguments any better, you know? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:46 AM
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But they do have sex with me. Of course they don't do. If you were getting sex from women, you wouldn't be over here contionusly commenting about the sexlessness depression in men. Nor would you have created numerous long winded comments about how women's incessant chatter and illogical thought process annoys you. Irony - be damned Picked this subbredit for a reason, and it had very little to do with learning English. Lots of other subbredits could have helped you with that. MGTOW is pretty acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:16 AM
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I said so already, I still need sex. Women still have utility. Problem is, women have no reason or need to have sex with you, so they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:26 AM
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Women are useless, to everything besides sex. Why wait, not good in bed- have to like woman to be even close to mediocre, don't want a relationship, don't want them as peers or friend, and don't make enough money to put up with all the BS and insecurities. From a woman's point of view....absoutely pointless. Women aren't going to have casual sex with men who bring nothing to the table, nor do they care that sexlessness makes angry bitter men depressed. Sleeping with men who are emotional manipul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:50 AM
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Tax money for what. Millennial women pay higher income tax than their male counterparts and the majority of US tax money goes to Social Security, Medicare, National defense, and Social Services. You need someone to blame for taking your tax money, better chat with the boomers, the sick elderly, and the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:26 AM
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Just as I told lotus, head on over to MGTOW. You would be doing yourself and women a great justice. Women won't have to hear you whine incessantly about how useless they are, and you won't be forced to talk to them. It's a win for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:55 AM
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So head on over to MGTOW and be done with it all. We certainly won't chase you down and beg you to come date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:40 AM
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If people transitioned to a stage where most of us have robots that we allow to work on our behalf’s then unemployment wouldn’t be an issue. You’d live off the salary your robot provides. This could work. Although I would still want to work. Two incomes are much better than one and I would be bored to death sitting around the house all day, and my Reddit addiction would get the best of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:59 AM
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By robots, do you mean vibrators?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:45 AM
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Women don't need sex bots because women aren't driven by sex. We are perfectly content to buy a vibrator and take care of ourselves. Programming robots to work and bring in an income would cause a rise in unemployment amongst the humans. High unemployment rates don't work in our favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 02:54 AM
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By evidence you mean "this is what the angry bitter men over on TRP told me". Yet another man who is romanticizing the marriage of yesteryear, where men were benevolent creatures who took care of and were loyal to their wives. Men who stayed by their wife's side in sickness and health. And then we woke up and realized this fairy tale they spon was a lie. Women didn't advocate for change because a few women told them to, they did it because they started watching what men did, not what they said. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 02:38 AM
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Since we are talking about the terpers here... WHY DO WOMEN NOT CARE ABOUT MALE SEXLESSNESS DEPRESSION!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 01:57 AM
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there a reason you like players or f boys? It seems the more a guy is surrounded by attractive women the more women want and guy. I never liked players - peacocking a.ka. attention seeking behavior - it's a turn off and the women I hang out felt the same. What personality types that you like? Is personality important? Yes, attractions is what gets me to cross the room to talk to him, but his personality decides if I going to stick around. I like masculine laid back men, with a sense of humor, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:40 PM
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Try Georgia. My friend just moved there and he loves it. He is trying to convince us to relocate there as well. He is single and he says he has had better luck with women there vs NY.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:36 PM
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guess i could move to the coast, but then that would cost more😥 Smart man. Living on the cost is ridiculously expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:14 PM
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How many women do you see on the street on a regular day that you would date just have sex with? Guys will say 10, 15, 20. TRP doesn't want to date anybody. Of course they will see 10, 15, 20 women on the street they will have sex with. Looks, other than don't be fat, don't matter to them because they just want to get off. It's not like they care if the women gets off or not. And when these women don't agree to casual sex, they blame it on hypergamy, chad, and whatever else they can think of. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:36 PM
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I am sorry to hear that. Hopefully Monday will bring some good news.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:52 AM
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Is Mr. Paisley ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:47 AM
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avoids killing your dog. Has this happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:34 AM
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Nope, not a joke. It was good. Made me laugh during my boring, everybody says the same shit over and over again meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:39 AM
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Yes, about men that were strangers, not about men who were in our inner circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:25 PM
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Lol. Damn it! This comment was way funnier than mine! Now i have comment envy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:28 PM
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TRP is the last thing young men need right now. I do like the moral and idea behind your post, but TRP doesn't push for self improvement for the betterment of a man. They push "self improvement" as in, this needs to happen to attract women, but only because they are vapid malicious children, who are unfaithful, and incapable of love. It's an echo chamber of hate that causes men to see fictitious negate flags in women, to justify their hate, hypocrisy, and lack of self awareness of their own flaw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:13 AM
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Lol. I got one better than yours. I want the color pink back. I want to be able to wear my pink ball cap without guilt. If I wear it, I feel guilty because I am a fraud who is wearing a pink ball cap, but has never had cancer. I don't want to claim a hardship I never had, but at the same time I like that exact shade of pink. Why couldn't they have picked the color yellow. Hardly anyone wears yellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:06 AM
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You must have missed the numerous amounts of comments and post, where men have described how they know if a women is a slut just by looking at her. Not to mention the number of comments where men have said they would never marry or gf a woman who's been with a number of men, because her reputation would follow her, and other men would know she has been around the block. Men don't want women that have been passed around numerous times. Men will give them shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:39 AM
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These men don't want to date a woman who's been "used up" by other men, the same way a lot of people don't want to buy used clothing. That's why I wouldn't want to date a guy who cares so much about body count; it usually says a lot about how they perceive women. This is because if he dated a woman with a high body count his status amongst his peers will go down. Or it's a hit to their ego. Most men here have surpassed, sex only for pleasure, in favour of using sex and number of sexul partners t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:53 AM
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Are TRP men non confident incels or braggadocios players? You basically referred to them as both. No one in my comments did I bring up incels. You did. We were talking about how TRP uses sex to validate themselves and gives them status amount there peers. Which is proven over and over again on this sub. They brag about how they get women who are 7 while they are 5s. They are obsessed with n counts and contionusly ask us what we think about n counts, because they assume women care about n counts …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:27 AM
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think the only reason why you take issue with this is because as a woman you can't imagine what its like to not take the thoughts and judgments from others into account. No. I take issue on this because I have here long enough to know that TRP, or anyone from manosphere, are far from confident. Confident successful men do not stumbled onto TRP. Insecure people need validation to define them. The manosphere is obsessed with woman because they are still waiting for women to define them. You do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:00 AM
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Lol. Keep trying. The cognitive dissonance from you all never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:23 AM
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Who do you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:00 AM
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The threat of rape is constant for a neurotic woman, mentally healthy women are sensible but don’t fear 24/7 Fixed it for you. Spoken by a man who has no clue how if feels to fear the opposite sex. We worry about it more than you can imagine. Alone with a guy twice your size in a public small gym and feel like you have to leave because you can feel his eyes on you. The hair on the back of your neck pricks, you feel nauseous, and want to leave, but terrified you draw attention to yourself. This h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:58 AM
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What?!! I have been on askTRP enough to know you brag about the women you fuck. You also brag about it with your friends. It is most certainly about status or envy. You envy Chad to the point, that you guys talk about hot men more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:40 AM
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Miserable people attract and befriend miserable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:33 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:19 AM
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Both genders seek some sort form of validation from the opposite sex. We are hard wired to want to attract a mate. Not to mention being desired by someone is flattering - an ego boost, and everyone needs an ego boost from time to time. However, if attention from the opposite sex is the defining factor of your own self worth, it's now a response to your experiences and or environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:14 AM
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be prepared for advance shitposting once in a while. I love shit posting, it's thearuptic. I'm flattered, don't worry intersIn-sama, nobody else will have to know about our forbidden secret. I promise not to stalk you too much, but I am a Reddit junkie, so I will probably break my promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:17 PM
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MGTOW-Incel. a double whammy of hate and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:59 AM
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Admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:00 AM
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They are struggling enough to just get sex, let alone marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:56 AM
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Bro, the world is hypergamous. Everyone wants better than what they have. It's not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:50 AM
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If you read between the lines it will tell you more about what men want in a woman vs female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:22 AM
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So again, you have no idea about Vegas or what social economic class goes there, but felt the need to make a comment about something you know nothing about. Sounds like a TRPer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:31 AM
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In other words, you have no idea what social economic class goes to Vegas because you don't live in the US, nor have you ever been to Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:03 AM
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Nicely put. I find myself looking for you comments now, although I didn't see any of your comments yesterday. I think I may be developing a comment crush on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:53 AM
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No, but yes. Let me explain... There is a guy at my work who all the women love and it's not because he is married, it's because of the way he is so openly proud of his wife and their two boys. It is very clear that he loves his wife and his family. When the single and married women talk about what they want their SO to be like, it's always him that they use as an example. He has been asked thousands of times if he has a brother. They don't want him per see, they want someone just like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:29 AM
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Have you been to Vegas? Middle class loves Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:09 AM
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I only care about the men in my immediate circle; my husband, my friend's husbands, my beautiful new nephew, my male co-workers, and my best friend. If something bothers them, then I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:07 AM
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I see the same. Vegas is the perfect place to witness this. A lot of fat or average men with SO that are better looking themselves. I could see it if they were high rollers, but there not. They are the average everyday people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:32 AM
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And that’s okay. Let them have it, as long as they’re not lying or hurting anyone. But they are lying to women and they do hurt people, especially when you look at the MRP community. There are a lot of men over there who have daughters, and when they go over to askTRP and tell young men it's okay to pump and dumb girls the same age as their daughters, or cheat on their current girlfriend, or not to worry about taking a girls virginity even though they lied about wanting a relationship. Those men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:20 AM
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Bingo. If women really want to know what some men what in a women. They should definitely read some of the stuff those communities put out about "female" nature. It's more about what those men in those communities want vs female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:18 AM
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I think this myself on a daily basis. They need to stop pretending to listen to pod casts about female nature and find one to that explains male psychology. They are the least self aware group of people I have ever met. Not to mention they need to get together and decide on some common ground rules so they can stop contradicting one another on an hourly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:54 AM
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What is successful? Investing in your appearance, stop agreeing with every word a woman said in hopes she would sleep with you, that if you hit on 50 women one of them will eventually take the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:28 AM
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You are going to trigger them with your optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:50 AM
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I went on a couple dates with a married men. I didn't find out he was married till the 3rd date. I thought about it for a second...but then I realized I would hate this if it were done to me. Thinking back on it, i wish I would have told his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:10 AM
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Damn. I was thinking your were some Saudi Arabian prince. You ruined it with this reality speak!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:48 AM
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Mr. Right. I am a woman, so there is a good possibility that at least 2 of these dudes would want a mommy-wife. That's 2 two many. For me, Mr. IntersIn is Mr. Right. I did well!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:06 AM
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Wat?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:59 AM
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And on reddit people take the most common things and break them down in such way that they seem incredibly complicated because they're trying to find a success formula based on some normal. This sums up RP perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:06 AM
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I think it's a conscious act done by men and women who need to have an validation insurance policy if plan A doesn't work out. Never done it myself and I am not attracted to people who would. Makes me think they have no idea what they want - it's a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:49 AM
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About men, not really. About TRP - how they could possibly believe they are experts on female nature, when they know very little about themselves or their own innate flaws. They aren't capable of leading themselves, let alone anyone else, because they are still waiting on women to define them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:37 AM
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Say it isn't true!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:47 AM
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The problem here is that men don't actually want to put a whole lot of effort into it. They want the most sex they can have with the least amount of effort and they want women out of their league. The average man wants causal sex as well, but he is logical enough to realize that some effort is needed on his part and he isn't chasing women way out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:37 AM
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Most people date within the own class status. You date with who you see and interact with on a daily basis. If you have a degree and make decent money you want a partner similar to yourself. Birds of a feather and all that jazz. UMC dates within or close to their own class. Some UMC men will sext a women from the lower ranks, but it's just about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:56 AM
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Today at work, we were told to cancel all in person conference meetings and everyone is fist punching in lieu of shaking hands. I wasn't paranoid until I went to work. Now I am considering a trip to Target to stock up on water.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 06:08 AM
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It's easier to blame women for their problems, than make an effort to improve their own lives. They need women to define them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:17 AM
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Originally, I was only attracted to men who had the same coloring as myself. Dark hair, brown eyes, and a slightly darker skin tone. Do you have racial preferences when it comes to casual sex or/and LTR ? I would say white, but I find Puerto Rican, Israeli and Spanish men pretty damn hot. Do you see your race as an asset or as a disadvantage in dating ? Or is it neutral ? I am white, pretending that I don't have an advantage in the world, would be a lie. Your opinion on people with racial fetish…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:37 AM
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Didn't have a well defined type I was looking for when I was single. I did have a pretty good idea of what type of guy I didn't want. Wasn't into hipsters or artsy guys. They didn't seem to have a strong opinion about anything. I am a pretty grounded person, so these types always clashed with my personality. Nor did I want the guy who was looking for a mommy-wife or micro manager-wife. Looks wise - medium build, tall, hot, short hair, and around my age. Edited to say Had to have a decent sex dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:59 AM
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Is this still valid. It's says I don't have permission to view history of #waiting-room.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:22 AM
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Slut shaming comes from other women . What!? Have you not seen the number of slut shamming post and comments made by men on this subbredit. Manosphere sluts shame harder than any other group of people I have ever known. When it's done by women, it's directed at an individual woman. When it's done by the manosphere, it includes all women and it's non stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:58 AM
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For those who are adamant about wanting to be with a wholesome/chaste girl, it's more about their ego than anything else. It's an ego boost, if they were the first man to go where no man has gone before. On the other hand, it's a hit to their ego if he thinks too many men have had what he has now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:17 AM
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Women want him, want to beat out other women and GET him. Saw this a lot on the Jerry Springer show, couple times in highschool, but not a lot after that. We must run in very different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:26 AM
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Have you read the side bar? It's a debate forum, so they ask you not to downvote. If I wanted karma points, I certainly wouldn't be commenting over here. No woman commenting over here, is in it for the karma points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:15 AM
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Your the ones who downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:54 AM
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Nice downvote bud. My incoherent rant is much better than throwing a temper tantrum because some one disagreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:49 AM
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Women only want the alphas they can't have. No we want a guy who doesn't need constant validation from the opposite sex to prove he is the man. TRPs definition of Alpha is the guy we don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:44 AM
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Have you ever lived in the "ghetto"? I am guessing no. There are a lot of non gang members who live there as well. And these non gang members date who they associate with on a daily basis. Women aren't dating up or down, they are dating men in the same socio economic group as themselves, and the majority of these men/women are average. UMC pretends they don't exist and there are no church mice. The church mice don't even knock on their door asking them "have you found Jesus yet" Jesus doesn't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:37 AM
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She will NEVER be able to keep an alpha’s eyes from wandering. Even if she “succeeds”, it’s *always* temporary. According to TRP, Alphas are in the minority not the majority. Given this, most women will not meet, let alone marry Alpha dude. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:50 AM
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Yes, but how would you know you were a cunt if all the knowledgeable and well adjusted TRPers didn't tell you. Remember they are so knowledgeable about women, that they know how sex physical feels to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:59 AM
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I'm assuming that video porn addiction is low with women because that's not the typical use of porn with women. This is true, unless you watching it with your SO. The main complaint is, women in porn rarely cum. The sex is over after the man cums. It doesn't do much for us, if the sole premise is to watch a man cum. literotica is the choice of porn for many women. While it's not realistic, it has one huge distinction from porn...both genders get off. I can't even think of one book where only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:55 AM
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So what's with the contionus stigma against women with odd color hair and tattoos. I have seen this mentioned a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:34 AM
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Would be fair to say if you found satisfaction in yourself the attention from women would follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:26 AM
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Didn't say that. OP used the following in the beginning of his post. Honest Man PPD women. He potrayed TRP as honest men. Honest men ≠TRP. In fact they go out of their way to be Dishonest Men = TRP. It's hypocrisy at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:21 AM
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You would be surprised by the number of men who who are offended when their gf/wife uses toys, especially if they do it when they are not around. Hurts their ego maybe. Not entirely sure, but I have had that conversation enough in my life to know its a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:05 AM
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Are you calling TRP honest. Did the amoral part of TRP suddenly disappear?. Self awareness once again lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 02:07 AM
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Do she know that about your addiction. Husband can't say anything because he is a redditor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 12:50 AM
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Ditto. I have a tattoo and thumb rings. I wanted to put some blue in my hair. Love they way that looks on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 12:48 AM
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Don't do it for the taxes. 9 times out of 10 you get fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:32 AM
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You are going to get your woman. You won't even need to bash her over the head, throw her over your shoulder, and drag her back to your lair. I also sent you a friend a request on the discord. I am not very active, but if you disappear again I have another way to hunt track you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:23 AM
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I often wonder if my life would have been much easier if I was attracted to vagina myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:10 AM
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You think they are willing to claim him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:01 AM
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Still waiting on a woman to define them. That is the only thing I can think of that has a AWALT - we do need the guy in our life to truly be his own person. Not a meat robot a.k.a teenager. I know a few women in my own circle who haven't really gotten this either. Women we can over look other women for this because we don't need to be sexually attractive to them. I always think they are pissed off our sex drive isn't like theirs. Men don't need to much to turn them on. It takes a little extra so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:47 AM
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I see it a lot in my area. Lots of hipsters and hippie like ppl in my area. They even convinced me to wear them on occasion. I have two that were done by a really talented artist in Northern CA. Outside of my area, no I don't think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:40 AM
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😲😟 and so it begins. You will be gone for a couple days, then a week, then two, weeks turn into months, months turn into years. All so you can hang out with your normal well adjusted friends. potential girlfriend in my near-physical proximity. You go! A potential real life girlfriend is rare in these parts. If you were here, I would give you the bro fist bunch 👊. Or is the bro slap on the ass? I never understand how guys know when to do the slap vs the 👊.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:01 AM
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Dude, where you been. You showed up to the party late. How dare you have a life off Reddit. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:32 AM
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Yup. I am the chick who admired your below statement. reveals a side that most people wish to bury. And sometimes you have to get mad at people, so you can grasp and confront your own flaws. You told me to hang my bathroom. I actually just quoted what you said on a PPD post today. I gave you credit for it though. I thought about pretending it was mine. However, i made a comment prior to that, that put me one step closer to a spot in hell. No need to take two steps in one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:23 AM
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This week I learned a new way to identify a reformed slut...she wears thumb rings, has odd color hair, and tattoos/s. I am still stuck on the thumb ring one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:09 AM
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Now that you said this a lot of things make sense. Explains a lot of these posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:01 AM
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Also, with the amount of chinese semen that people drink nowadays I wouldn't be surprise when they eventually get infected. I am will frame and hang this one in my bathroom as well. My guest bathroom. I did drink Corona when I was young and dumb because I thought it was cool. Sometimes my grown up self looks back at my teenage self and cringes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:57 PM
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This works. I was worried for a second. We are all going to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:46 PM
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Problem is not all men, actually all people, are meant to be leaders, nor do they know how. Leadership sounds great and fun in theory, but its not an easy job. You never get to stop being a leader and if the man isn't meant to be a leader and believes his SO is a child, they are going to burn themselves out. Some people need a more equalterian realtionships. For those guys that do, RP feels like a chore, and they will attract a woman that doesn't fit their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:06 PM
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What she doesn't have kids to off. How is she going to prove he is the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:58 PM
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The other day u/darkseeker_mau, said something that I thought was really insightful It reveals a side that most people wish to bury. And sometimes you have to get mad at people, so you can grasp and confront your own flaws. I think if RP took the time to do just this they wouldn't be in this hate filled echo chamber. Instead of recognizing their mistakes in a prior realtionships, they blame it all on AWALT behavior. Even their self improvement is clouded in negative connotation. They didn't take…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:22 PM
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Yes I know. The guy I was speaking to used anal as his shit test to see if one of his plates would be good enough for his commitment. I wanted to know who would ever consider doing a sex act, they may not be into, for a FWB. Like dislike had nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:20 PM
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In our minds it sometimes feels like we truly did approached a guy, but we do generally leave it up to the guy to be the more forward one. Even the Chads. Actually if he is Chad they are even more subtle. I actually do believe there a few guys on here who do get laid. A very small select group. Comments are realistic and even if you do think he is a jack ass, you know he is dating women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:11 AM
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Porn fantasy. Most girls do exactly as you said. The hottest ones do even less. Direct eye contact a few times and a smile, but not much more than that. They might be more inclined to approach a guy if they are drunk, but again it's mostly a quick hi, and then they wait for the guy to take the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:50 AM
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Are they really though. I don't see that at all. Mostly it's a bunch of ugly hipsters dating average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:16 AM
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That's tough. I went through the same years ago. Luckily I did meet some decent people via work. I tried meet ups, but I am not an extravert, so they were mostly a bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:13 AM
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When I think of this hypothetical Stacy I think Danay García, Mila kunis, and jameela jamil. Meaning I don't think Stacy exists in every day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:03 AM
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Norway? And the only state I am aware of is CA and it was 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:37 AM
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No. No one hires a CEO based off some "quota" that isn't how it works, especially if they are a publicly traded company. Stock holders want high dividends, they could care less about the gender. In what industry are quotas the norm. It certainly isn't the case for fortune 500 companies in STEM. Stem is their core and the best of the best get hired. Gender be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:01 AM
2

Another words you were shit testing. Shit testing not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:46 AM
1

Talk to your bros then. A good portion of them went straight for the anal part. Edited to say Bros don't like me pointing out the truth given the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:36 AM
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So. Anal hijacked the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:33 AM
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It isn't a noteworthy discussion to make because no woman should be with a man that requires, or is shit testing to see if she will, painful sexual acts to prove he is special or an Alpha. That's not a man worth dating let alone going out of your way to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:28 AM
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That was my point though. I can't imagine why a woman would want to do anal, if she is not into it, with a FWB. They are just that. Nothing more nothing less. Never really was emotionally invested in my FWB, so if we didn't continue the realtionship I would be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:08 AM
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Does that include a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:46 AM
1

What do Stacies look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:44 AM
1

Bay area is filled with average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:41 AM
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Two days from now they are going to make a post about it. Anal and everything thing else they saw on porn hub, will no longer be enough to prove their Alpha status. If she is not willing to off the kids, she just isn't that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:38 AM
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I feel like I got it all as well. A great paying job that I enjoy, no kids and no regrets, and a husband that I want to go the distance with. Not to mention, that I finally have the time to tackle some home improvement tasks. Biggest problem I have is deciding on what color I want to paint the walls and what type of flooring I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:29 AM
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Huge red flag for me. Why would any woman want to be with a guy who needs a sex act, that's she is not into, to prove he is special. Especially not a FWB. I don't know anyone who is that invested in their FWB. A mutually shared kink, yes I get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:17 AM
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Why would a FWB do anal?. They aren't anything special or worth trying hard to please. It's usually a mutually beneficial realtionship. You like them well enough, but not someone you would go out of your way for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:25 AM
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I met 2 really good friends on a pub with my husband and another one from volunteering at the VA hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 09:38 PM
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Yes, but there is a balance. Certain things I don't talk to my husband about because it's girl talk and it's reserved for my female friends. But he is my favorite person to be with. I have had the most fun with my husband than I have ever had with anyone else and he is the person I have the most trust in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 09:05 PM
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Yes, I think a lot of the men here do. I would take it a step further and say some of them even wanted the wife to take responsibility for who they are. Letting the wife micro manage their behavior and their decisions. In other words, they became the oldest teenager in the house. What caused this? Some men want the best realtionship than can get with the least amount of work. Just as TRP wants the most sex they can get, with the least amount of work. For some of them, I think they married a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:43 AM
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It reveals a side that most people wish to bury. And sometimes you have to get mad at people, so you can grasp and confront your own flaws. Damn this is good. I want to frame this and hang in somewhere in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:27 AM
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Are you happier than when you were "blue pulled" I read some of these guys comments and I always feel like, damn do they ever get to take a break. Do they ever get a chance to be themselves. Or are they always on? Investing in yourself is definitely needed, but shouldn't both genders do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 02:54 AM
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It's more like u/Sherbet said vs assertive/aggressive. Plus it was more PC than I was used to. I just had a hard time deciphering what people believed vs what people thought they should believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:20 AM
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That's cuz you are not an ahole, so you don't count 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:40 AM
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I say **girls life revolve around socializing and dating way more than guys** do So all these idealogies TRP/MRP, PU were created to teach men how to hang out and have better realtionships with their bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:55 AM
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I would say trading in for a newer model is still a bumb in social class status. Other men would be envious or want to be, the older dude who married a young hot woman. Or they would be envious of the guy who was married, but was still able to pull off cheating with either one or more woman. Of course this bumb wouldn't necessarily include monetary gains, it just means his peers would think he was the ultimate Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:35 AM
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Dating in the Bay Area, in CA in general, was tough for me as well. The men were really different than the guys I dated back home (NY). They weren't as assertive, and I had a hard time understanding their social cues(are they just being friendly or are they trying to get into my panties). Not to mention the whole "keeping up with the Joneses thing". That isn't gender specific though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:22 AM
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In other words, you are okay with male hypergamy just not female hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:54 AM
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Dating easier or harder in Oz?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:40 AM
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This is the one thing I never understood about the whole hypergamy thing. Isn't the male version of hypergamy, looks. Pretty much for the time women hit puberty we are told men are visual creatures. We still told this. Apparently we are only beautiful from the ages of 15-25 and men trade in older models for newer models all the time. If woman's hypergamy is status and money, than male hypergamy is young and beautiful. I grew up an Italian family and was told a gazillion times that men like prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:24 AM
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Fair enough, if that's something that's important to you, than that's something that's important to you. As to why someone would want to be with you vs a person who had a lot of partners....you bring something to the table that the others didn't or you figured out how to prefect the one sexual thing the others didn't. I know my husband had more partners than me, (no clue what the number is), but I think it's up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:42 AM
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TBH, if someone I was interested in dating asked me something like this..it would be a slight red flag. I definitely think people should disclose the following: I am divorced, I am married, I have debt, children, a pshyo stalker, was in jail, and have and incurable STD. These are things someone has a right to know. How many men or type of sex I had in the past, aren't indicators of "good realtionship material vs bad realtionship material. Unless this is stuff 20 something now do. Then again I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:47 AM
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Ok. But realistically speaking do people really give the person they are seeing/sleeping with a rap sheet listing past sexual escapades, and n count? The only people who I have ever encountered who did something like this, either were still stuck on an ex, trying to make someone jealous, or wasn't quite ready for adulting in a realtionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:18 AM
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For more than sex or a blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:04 AM
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Chubby, big boned, curvy, etc, but obese. I didn't see that one a lot. Unless something changed since I lived in/near those communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:55 PM
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Those guys are chubby chasers and I would call those guys the minority not the majority. Ever lurk over on all those realtionship subbredits. Tons guys admitting they don't find their wife's body attractive anymore after childbirth. They complain about stretch marks, cellulite, or the added weight (and they even admit it's not a lot of weight), then you have the ones who have swear their wife's vagina is "too lose".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:56 PM
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For large number of women waiting to have sex has more to do with filtering out men who just want sex vs a realtionship. If your are dating a woman who wants a relationship handing her your I am clean health record, doesn't mean she should have sex with you 5 mins later. That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 08:59 PM
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Any chance I can purchase one of these men via Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:34 AM
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Sex. Is not enough for commitment. Men aren't entitled to sex and women aren't entiled to commitment. Both genders need to make sure they bring something to the table. Which requires work from both genders. It's not a matter of who works harder it's a matter of finding the one who compliments you the best. A committed relationship contingent on sex=commitment is going to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:12 AM
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People aren't even getting married till they hit their 30s. Why would they be waiting for the ones to get divorced if most of them haven't even married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:53 AM
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This is my experience as well. You date from the class you associate with on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:11 AM
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Men need to learn how to pick up on women’s signals better and women need to learn how to be more obvious but let the man ask the woman out. Problem is neither gender is getting better at this. Thanks to OLD i say both have gotten worse. OLD isn't giving either of them a chance to learn and understand potential romantic social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:32 AM
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Is the definition of high tier men - only extremely hot men? Does the everyday Chad look like Chris Hemsworth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:00 AM
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Yesterday they were even saying it was a waste of time to socialize with women, which boggles me. And then chastise women for thinking that is possible to have male friends that don't want to sleep with us. The post right after that one, had a bunch of men admitting that they did indeed have platonic friendship - sans chastising.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 01:34 AM
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The only thing I cared about is that I found a partner who didn't want to live pay check to pay check. They would be smart and logical when it came to planning, investing, and saving. He didn't necessarily need to make more than me, he just had enough foresight to plan and save for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:28 AM
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This is helpful. Our house is fairly small, but we live in CA and even small homes cost way more than they should. I generally go for a monochrome look, and then use asscories to add a splash of color. Our bedroom furniture is maghonary and I like the idea of a teal color, but you are right I need to do the floors first. I just got a whole lot of floor samples. I am going to lay them around the room and see what color looks best in daylight as well as artificial light. I want to do one color, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:35 PM
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Previously society was at an equilibrium that as an average man you would find yourself an average wife who was (ideally) dedicated to you and you would support each other in your journey through this mortal coil. This type of relationship might have been the case for women who were part of the disposable income suburbia. This was not the case for women who lived in lower income working class parts of the US. A world where women married, took care of the house, raise the children, all while work…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:30 PM
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We have to replace the carpets. We are going to get hardwood floors (probably not real hardwood) and once again there are a million color types. Any tips? Have you done something likes this in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:13 PM
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Ironic that the next post after this one is a bunch of men actually admitting that they have platonic female friends. 🤔. College, we were co partners for a business project. Which would have been fine if we hadn't been grouped together for the next business project. It was so freaking awkward. We had to work with each other on a daily basis too. I spent 5 weeks trying to figure out, is it best to keep the small talk to the bare minimum or should I act like it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:45 AM
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Nice. Edited to say. Perfect YouTube video.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:58 AM
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Amen. You need to stop commenting over here with all this realistic logic. First time I saw some of your comments, you confused me. I thought who is this reasonable logical dude and what the heck is he doing over here. By the way what country are you from. I saw your comment posted on "what do Marriage vows mean to you".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:41 AM
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Kind of like men, who want the most sex they can have with the least amount of work..and when that doesn't happen they throw a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:18 AM
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Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:29 AM
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Only when nice guy means I being nice to you cuz I want sex. Doesn't mean "nice' is a bad thing. I do nice things for my husband because I want to and it makes him happy. I don't expect anything in return. And he does the same. Nice soley for the purpose of getting sex, isn't nice. It's true men can not negotiate sex. That's not how our sex drive works. Harmless, not entirely sure what that means, but if it means you have to be an alpha all the time... seems kind of sad, a lot of work, or that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:45 AM
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all guys everywhere want to fuck you at any given moment" is the message "nobody likes a stuck up bitch who thinks she's hot shit everyone wants to fuck, men are people capable of platonic friendship idiot." Spot on. You are a bitch if you do and your bitch if you don't. Sometimes it easy to tell, so you do distance yourself, but sometimes it's a guessing game. Once I got it right and once I got it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:58 AM
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Divorce is raw deal for everyone, but at some point these guys are going to need to take responsibility for their own innate flaws. All men want to get away with as little as they can in a realtionship. Just like "men want the most sex, with the least amount of work". How many times have you seen guys on this subbredit say, I want a nuturing and agreeable (low maintenance) woman. Aka, some to take care of them and won't require a lot of emotional work. It just depends on the man and how much he …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:47 PM
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Most men want a drama free realtionship what they don't realize is that an excessive drama free realtionship equates to being viewed as a push over. In their minds is easier to give in to their wives vs making a stand. Coasting is easy. In turn, women get bored and then lose sexul attraction. Feels like they are in a realtionship with a mallable teenager. Men get bored too, but some men rather cheat than go through the hassle of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:28 PM
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Male larping as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:42 PM
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Nice straw man there. Charles Manson was 5'2 and all of 150 lbs. By your stereotypical idealogy of what attracts women, no woman have wanted him, but they did. Fat women are unattractive yet a significant amount of men are sexualy aroused by them. Each gender has a sexual taste that most of the population doesn't understand. Women who like convicts and men who like fat women. Get off the pedestal stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:16 AM
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This. If your sole purpose is to make money to attract women, this equates to you needing a women to validate you. It's not attractive. You being your own person with your own likes and dislikes is what attracts most women. I will take a man who doesn't need my validation or my approval for who he is, over a man who makes a shit ton of money. I don't need his money I have my own. OP 5'10 is not short, I don't know a single women irl who would consider this short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:59 AM
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Haven't you and I already has this conversation. Both gender likes good looking people...both genders. Tons of men would give their left nut to sleep with angelina jolie or whoever is the new it girl is. As to liking convicts...well I have no idea why Chubby chasers like fat women, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:42 AM
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I took your advice about the cold pressed boards and I am about to go nuts with my samples. I have narrowed it down to 8 colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:33 AM
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Women now also do go to vacations alone but that's also a slut tell. This manosphere stereo type is dead wrong. I did extensive travel/vacations through a lot countries and I started off doing it alone. As did thousands of other people. To do this, you have to carefully map out a budget (saving and planning), prioritize your goals, and understand what materialistic items are want vs need. This takes work. You don't put that amount of effort into something to slut your way through insert country.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:46 PM
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addressed this in the first line of my post. True, but I felt the need to reiterate it. but men approach you aswell. Also true, but if they didn't have my preferences I didn't date/sleep with them. lmao what did he say. I didn't tell him until after we had been dating for a bit. Although the arrogant bastard says he knew I was all hot for him and had he not been a "gentleman," he would have easily sexed me up that night. I said we would have to agree to disagree here. 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:02 PM
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Women are not a monolithic in their taste in men, what is considered ugly to one woman is not ugly to another woman. So how do you feel when a guy who looks unattractive acts attractively? Caveat - I would not approach a man who I didn't think was somewhat attractive. I am attracted to men who are tall, have dark features, and darker skin tone - think Italian. In the past, anyone I dated or had sex with fit this description. However, I married a man who has light brown hair, blue eyes and burns …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:37 PM
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I knew it! I couldn't risk the chance because I am saving my virginity for my second husband/s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:42 PM
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Nah, getting the chance to travel wasn't a problem. It took a lot of saving, planning and prioritizing my goals to achieve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:35 AM
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Nice downvote there bud. Angry much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:31 AM
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Not about to click on any links posted from a username I don't know on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:18 AM
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Hate to tell you this, but a lot of what you described is what young 20 year old girls do. Because it's fun and why the hell shouldn't they. This does not make them sluts, it makes them 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:02 AM
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She’s travelled the globe. Especially Australia, NZ, Britain, Southeast Asia (Thailand), and Europe. Free license to do anything and no social repercussions at home. Have to tell the hubby he married a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:58 AM
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Good grief..are you dating teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:55 AM
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No you don't. Tell him it's wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:23 AM
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What's this shannigans...I love wine and sex. I only complain about sex when the hubby goes our of town, because I am not getting any. Your gonna give me a bad rep with these statements!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:21 AM
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TRP solisphosim at its best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:50 AM
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Why is this here. There should be a question over at Ihavesex or anyone of the other realtionship subbredits. What does this have to do with any of the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:32 AM
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Listen, I don't care for your sexual past if I am dating you (I am not an idiot, there are numerous indicators of how many partners you might have roughly had) What indicators. Does she give you a running list, carries pictures of past men in purse, smell different, looks at you from across dinner with 1000 cock stare. You could be filtering out a potential good girlfriend if you are projecting your definition of slut onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:17 AM
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She could just be taking it slow. Doesn't want to read too much into it just yet. Or she is an a hole who stumbled on TRP for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:47 AM
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I didn't know what "good flags" looked like either. I was suspicious of men who didn't display red flags early on. I just kept waiting for the other shoe to drop. My old stance was, better to be suspicious and mistrustful than be treated poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:07 AM
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All of the things you described are experienced by men and I imagine it happens at similar rates as well. And what are you doing about this. Not feminist, not the media, not women. You Men just complain less and are less likely to generalize along gender lines. I take it you haven't been to any of the manosphere subbredits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:23 AM
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Have you used this color in your house?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:52 PM
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Husband left for the week to do some nature stuff in Colorado. I am going to paint the office, but can't decide on a color. Home Depot has too many neutral colors and I can't decide. They have a magenta color I like, but the husband may object.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:39 PM
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Of course, women played a part. They accepted this behavior and chose to ignore the signs. Some had to ignore the signs because they were financially dependent and some because they couldn't find the strength to leave. The former I understand, the latter is on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:22 PM
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In the past, I did look only for red flags. This was a "learned behavior". I did not want to be the woman who was too weak or too afraid to leave a bad realtionship. I lacked emphany for them, as well as men. I won't be a hypocrite and rationalize or excuse my past behavior. I had to grow up and admit that what I learned, did not apply to AMALT and AWALT. I witnessed this myself when I met my husband's family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:57 PM
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How do you think we got here. Do you think a bunch of women just suddenly woke up one day and said, well we should tell a bunch of women not to trust/believe that men will lead the family for the greater good, will be loyal and committed. It didn't just happen over night. For every one good example of men talking care of the family, we know 5 other examples where this didn't happen. We know women who have been cheated on, we know men who walked out and left the childcare up to the wife, or disca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:29 PM
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is an exaggerated lie because you hear these women say shit like "the husband would be able to get away with treating his wife badly (perhaps not necessarily at an abusive level" and you go, what the fuck is she smoking? You are looking at this from a romanticize view. There are quite a few women observed and experienced this very thing. We are not a small majority either. It's a case of watch what men do, not what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:40 PM
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Because we each think we are right and feel the need to tell others how right we are. And no one can afford therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:06 AM
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Are they being rejected. The wall age seems to be a moving variable. Some days it's 30, some days it's 35, other days it's 25, ( many have said the height of beauty is between the ages of 15-25). Women are not being rejected at any of these ages. Who are these "women" that are being rejected in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:41 AM
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Redpilled. Italian descent living in a low income NY. A lot of disdain for low income area - think we are lazy and not worth much. Society treated me better because I was a woman, but still consider low class or that I would be slutty. Society treated my male counterparts worse. In the neighborhood I was treated worse or thought of less than, than my male counterparts. Either way low income life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:33 AM
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They are all the same. Use same vernuclar, same views on women, and filled with pissed/insecure men who blame women for their inadequacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:21 AM
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I agree. But this seems to be a common thought among those who have work hard for their degree and six figure job. I know this was how my husband felt and I felt the same about him. Those six figures jobs don't just land in our laps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:31 AM
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Most women who were raised in a natural redpill look at manosphere definition of female nature as more male nature vs female. Quite frankly they got the best of both worlds. It was the wife responsibility to care of the children, cooked, cleaned, meet all their husbands needs, and still worked a low level job. Women were taught to look the other way when husband cheated because it was part of their nature and their was nothing they could do about it. They didn't raise the kids, they came home sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:08 PM
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Cool story. Don't give a shit which movies were successful and which ones weren't. Nor do I care about representing or not representing the BDSM community. In other words, this is a illogical rant that neither proves or disproves my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:19 AM
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Don't know anyone who has openly admited to being in the BDSM realm and I refuse to believe 50 shades of grey is a true representation of this community. I will have to take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:29 AM
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So from then on accepted that people treat you with respect if you are either cute, attractive, or have money and status. Unfortunately, I have witnessed this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:06 AM
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I just wrote a comment about this very thing tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:58 AM
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So, you get mad at woman for not telling you the truth... "don't ask women about women because they never tell you the truth". A daily complaint on this subbredit. Then when they do, a whole lot men throw a temper tantrum. I don't consider things like negs and emotional spikes to be manipulation because they're designed to entertain women (this may be a point of contention). Negs are back handed compliments meant to make a hot woman out of your league insecure to sleep with you. Dread is putting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:34 AM
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If the pedistal stool is getting to hard to sit on, buy a pillow to place ontop of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:48 AM
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hypergamy is a made up word by the manosphere. It's was designed to rationalize pushing women off the pedestal stool, so they could climb up there themselves. Men find another women faster than woman find another man after a break up. Not to mention that men have cheated more than women did for eons. It's only lately that they are actually catching up to men. No gender should be on a pedestal stool. Nice downvote - was that you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:17 AM
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Of course not, because there isn't a negative aspect to it. It doesn't follow the man good woman bad rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 03:26 AM
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And here it is... manosphere hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:22 AM
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Most men will always try to get the most attractive woman they can - and they always aim higher than their looksmatch. Unless they drunk and don't give a shit. Same way a men will apply for job that he is not qualified for. Most women won't do this - in our minds it's unrealistic. Men here have told us, frequently, that they are a solid 5, but are getting women who are 7, 8, 9s. Is this a lie? Women want the whole package when they marry, because they are thinking long term, but they manosphere …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:52 AM
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I think both genders can do some serious damage to one another due to their innate nature. If either gender isn't aware of their own flaws than they risk the chance of hurting each other. Women can be manipulative and men can be selfish. Put them together and you have a receipe for diaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:13 PM
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world where hard work, loyalty, solidarity, and honor meant something. I agree to extent here. Lots of people get married and as soon as there is a bump in the road they bolt. This isn't gender specific. However, people tend to forget how this loss of loyalty, solidarity, and honor came to be in terms of marriage. Anyone who comes from a natural redpilled background can tell you that the men did not follow this interms of realtions with their wives. Men were allow to cheat while the women were t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:58 PM
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There’s plenty of time for the guy to change behavior and up their game before all attraction is lost, but once it’s gone, it’s gone forever. Spot on. Once we run out chances we given you to be our partner vs someone who needs us to take care of them. We are done. While a great deal of men from, the manosphere, rationalize this away as "women being children" easily bored, lack of commitment, branch swinging, can't resist there basic nature, they conviently forgotten that chances were given over …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:44 PM
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Anyone from the manosphere is the world's undesirables. You filter yourselves out for us. Big thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:52 AM
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No. Nothing at all. In fact, I think men should just stop pretending to want us and chase each other. It be a big happy gay world, where all men would dress well, have fashionable homes with really big TV's. Hypergamy would end and world peace would be a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:22 AM
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Have you met any women engineers working in fortune 500 companies. My company's core competencies is STEM. Anyone who gets hired went through an intense interview process and they require a lot more than just passing behavioral questions. The person is an expect, or has the potential to be an expert. Women are not handed a job because of their gender. They are there because they want that job. They will lay your off if you are in the bottom 10 percent. Gender be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:46 PM
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CEO-type providers, or are out to prove how they can do everything that men can do. You don't take on a CEO position to prove you can do everything a man can do. If that were their intention they would fail. A publicly traded company has shareholders and anyone who has stock in their own company wants the best person for the job. Man or women, if they can do the job and make the company money, nobody cares about their gender. I would like to retire before I am 80 and we have a lot stock in our c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:21 PM
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This is where the hypocrisy of MRP/TRP and lack of self awareness comes into play. Their SO resented the fact that she felt more like a care taker than their wife. Needing their wife/gf's attention all of the time, leaving the everyday stuff to her, letting her make all the decisions, waiting for her to tell them what to do. This made the women feel like they had an extra responsibility to take care of. In a realtionship you need to have some respect for your SO, which means being your own perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:27 PM
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Im not trying to put moral judgements on this nor trying to opress women.I think that we need genetic engineering to recreate male tens enmasse and then have women be forced to not divorce rape,cheat and so on by restrictive laws.... patriarchy creates strong societies and general welfare of all so women should take one for the team? Just to be clear - your are not trying to opress women. Because this feels a lot like oppression and no different than the world has been and still is, for women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:11 AM
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Can't imagine why men who follow redpill or having issues getting woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:33 AM
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This is a very oversimplified and stereotypical view of what people think of when they think Italian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:52 AM
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I am not black. I am Italian, and I can assure you that the woman I grew up with certainly did not verbally abuse or talk back to any of the men in the family or community. Sons were not redpilled by their mothers they were redpilled by their fathers, uncles, friends, associates, and grandfathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:39 AM
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TRP for the first time was just like ‘how is this revolutionary at all? ? Don’t all men behave this way?’ This was my reaction as well. I got lucky because I knew enough men outside of the ones I grew up with to know it's not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:30 AM
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Agreed. I feel if they got a real up inclose view of what a true redpilled environment looked and acted like, they would not want to be associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:07 AM
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I made a comment to someone on here that I was purple irl, but when I am on this subbredit I feel myself turning bright neon blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:53 AM
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Yup figured that out once I traveled through Asia. Although, as American my life was still a hell of a lot easier than those who live in 2nd and 3rd world countries. When you see that you stop your "woe is me" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:48 AM
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The best advice I ever got about men came from both my MIL and FIL. Husbands family is very traditional, but they are a great family. My MIL gave me some great tid bits - dated but good. My FIL also told me some things about men. Some I knew, but my version was slighty twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:33 AM
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I was definitely raised as redpilled myself. Low-income from a surrounding NY borough. Hit my 20s with a lot of distrust in men and a dislike for your own genders "weakness" for staying/putting up with it. I was very blue because of it. As I got older I came to a few realizations and gradually turned purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:25 AM
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I haven't met a person yet who hasn't dated an ahole a time or two. I have also come across men who are dating bitches, but continue to do so because they are hot. Dating the wrong people in your 20s is almost like a rite of passage. If they are dating aholes in their 30s, it's now an insecurity issue. Either they don't think they can get better or they need the hot guy to validate themselves. Freaking ghetto is full of women like this. I don't get it either, but I know it happens. I do think da…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 03:57 AM
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And anal. Not a man till the gf/wife begs for anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:30 AM
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I have done it. However, I felt the sex was better when I was in a committed relationship. More trust allowed me to be comfortable and willing to try the more risque stuff. I think causal sex is good for people who do really enjoy sex and want a little variety prior to marriage. You don't want to feel like you wished you did a little more dating prior to marriage. Plus it's a good way to start to figure out what you would want in a committed relationship and what you don't want. That being said …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:37 AM
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Lol. I was just thinking about your food analogy the other day. You will need to keep me posted if you come up with another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:15 AM
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Of all the men I met, he was the one I respected and admired the most. He was handsome, not in a classical way, a dominant extravert who had no problems talking to either gender and I learned a great deal from watching him interact with his employees. My own career improved because I observed and mimicked his social cues. He made me laugh and I enjoyed his family. Not to mention consistent access to sex with someone I trusted and was attracted to and he keeps himself in excellent shape. Have gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 11:20 PM
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Dry vajayjay or wet vajayjay - which would men prefer. The latter doesn't just happen. Maybe in the next go around The Man behind the Curtain, will create one big spontaneous race. Until then we got to go with what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:24 PM
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A lot of the women I know past the age of 30 are trying to get their shit together and it has nothing to do with daddy/childhood issues. A career with a steady income, no college loans, knowing what you want and don't want - things needed to make sure you are your own person prior to marriage. Marriage should be about complimenting one another not about filling in some emotional gap. It upsets a lot of these guys because women are getting their shit together a lot earlier than them and are bypas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:03 PM
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I was thinking more along the lines of....we need something to kick it off. Read a romance book before the husband came home and now we're are in the mood. Men like morning sex more than woman because they wake up in the mood, women rarely just wake up in the mood. If we do, it's because we were thinking of something sexy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:33 PM
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They also tell them to stop treating their wife like their mom. If you see a dirty dish pick it up, don't wait for the wife to do it. Half the reason a deadbedroom occurs is because their husbands left a lot of the mundane crap up to the wife. Wife feels like their mom. It isn't sexy and then loses attraction to their husbands. I have to wonder...if wife would have gotten over the "need for security" and practiced a little dread herself, husband would have nipped this in bud before it became a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:23 PM
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In my first LTR, sex was great in the beginning, then it died out. I have a high libido, so I didn't understand why it suddenly went into hiding. It all made sense after i read an article about spontaneous vs reactive. How did you learn about it. Article, word of mouth, TRP? Too bad they don't teach this in sex Ed class. Conservatives would go "all righteous" if they did though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:08 PM
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I paired with this comment as well You will need to suck my clit and make me cum? I won't engulf your cock until you do. He said : stop shit testing my masculinity and walked away. 3 seconds later walked back into the living room and said "Engulf"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:25 PM
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Sex is great, but a lot of men on here want our sex drive to be the same as theirs - spontaneous vs reactive. We generally don't just want sex, we need to be "seduced" . Flirting/foreplay and, if married, a sexy wife vs unsexy care taker. Reactive sex drive requires effort. These men are looking for the most sex they can get with the least amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:52 PM
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You want to cum? Not until I've been on top and cummed several times first. I am going to say this to my husband tonight. I am trying to imagine his reaction to this little tidy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:01 AM
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Yes, of course there is. There are more RP than BP here, it's just the BPers comment for a bit feel like they are talking to brick walls, get fed up and leave. Take the the post yesterday about unrealistic porn sex. RP literally jumped all over it saying we were lying. Men do not know how sex feels for a woman. By the way my comment already got downvoted. Ask BP again why they stop commenting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:00 AM
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They do participate, but they see a lot of the stuff TRPers say as just plain common sense, that every relationship book or blog has been saying for years. The difference is the books/blogs didn't feel the need to paint it as, men vs women - or women bad men good. I would call myself a purple pill woman until I get on here, then I feel like I am bright neon blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:49 AM
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Ahh okay. My app (Joey for Android) does things slightly different than the Reddit app.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:21 AM
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To date what's the most downvoted comment you have had on hear. One of mine was -20. I call it a badge of honor! Edited to say: I take that back comments was at -15.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:14 AM
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No. They broke my trust and my respect for the marriage. You can't control what another person does, but at least have enough respect for SO to divorce them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:08 PM
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When I was single I did just fine on my own. However, once I trusted and cared for the guy, I do/did actually need it in my relationships. I understand how devastating a deadbedroom can be, it's like your SO has rejected you on a fundamental level. Even if there are legit reasons for it- it stills feels like your SO has rejected you. Not sex, you as a person. Every time your advances get rejected, it's like a sucker punch to your gut. I certainly don't speak for all women. I just know in my marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:00 PM
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My husband loves cinnamon rolls and chocolate chip cookies. He raves about his mom's chocolate chip cookies. After I gave my "pledge of secrecy" my MIL told me she uses the receipe on the back of the Nestle toll House chocolate chips. Pretty sure FIL and my husband both know, but won't out themselves. Outing themselves could result in no more cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:39 AM
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Lol. Good grief what the heck did I just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:48 AM
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Sometimes I look at them and think, I don't get it there just boobs. Nothing magical about them. I am women though, so I doubt I will ever understand why some men are so fascinated by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:07 AM
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As one big boobed woman to another...cheers I have these two ridiculously low cut v neck t-shirts I wear with a cute "doesn't function as a real bra" when I want to grab my husbands attention. Works like a charm everytime. Husbands a boob man, so he is pretty easy to charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:26 AM
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Ok. I am a woman so, I will follow this rule for post tagged "questions for men"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:47 AM
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Got it. Question about the rules for post tagged as "question for women". Do I need to email the mods my question or can I ask you via a "reply"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:28 AM
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