interspeciesMama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should I talk to my wife about amicable separation, or should I serve her with divorce papers? Forethought always turns out to be the best friend. So happy for you & hope you're doing okay now still. Ruddy expensive £3K, though a good example and still less than the Lernaean Hydra rearing its ugly head/s without spending it.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/26 08:28 AM
3	Should I talk to my wife about amicable separation, or should I serve her with divorce papers? -Potential-. That's key. I've seen it with my own, well, not blood, family. Everything is amicable to let your gaurd down until the signing. Please gather your information and put key people in their respective fields into place. The money you spend on doing this, will probably save you money in the long run. No one needs to know. Just have it as your very strong and ready backup. Only you can decide.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/26 08:14 AM
4	Should I talk to my wife about amicable separation, or should I serve her with divorce papers? I've seen this backfire so many times is it not just better to have a lawyer to guide you through this. I've seen it turn on people so many times.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/26 07:23 AM
2	Told my ex I was going for my PhD she said they don't make much. Instead of celebrating you. Good on you for your choices.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 09:35 AM
3	Want a divorce but want to keep the last name of the husband Also though, women are often expected, yes even today, to take their husband's name and thus, for argument's sake in this case, 3 children were carried right under mother's heart for 9 months. Naturally circumstances are unknown pertaining to the divorce, but having carried those children, one might say, they should all change to mother's maiden name if father says she can no longer have his family name. (btw your daughters are very blessed to have a parent such as you "g_n_c_tu"),	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/26 05:17 PM
2	This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry again Eleven	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/26 04:44 PM
0	BEWARE OF SCAMMERS HERE: Redditors posting here for your business. So seemingly "guru", waits until you, in your emotional state, let your guard down. This, that it isn't even about -trust-, it's just, your guard is down and then you furnish details asked of you e.g. your email address and that's where the -penny- is asked for, under the premise of further helping you. So no one here would know. It is in -private-, that money is asked for. So Saw -SCAMMERS- in your title and dove in immediately because it was under divorce. ... Unctuous to use vulnerabilities l…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 04:23 PM
1	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next "BsBR", there've been times where a post is ai generated & vigilant readers like "badskiier", where everybody is unknowingly served a favour by such a one checking the profile of the post, which often gives away whether it is, or is not a dinkum post or, ai generated / just somebody farming for karma, which sadly seems to matter to some & therefore propagates once again, abusers of the system. The old posts also serve to give more perspective to the post one is reading. Am sure you know all this…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/26 07:19 AM
1	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next You are right & in this very post comment section there is another woman. Have not read her comment yet & shall, as I have not read all, though I do learn when I have happened upon a post & may or may not see which subreddit it is, since as mentioned, I look at posts, rather than actual subreddits. Here I have learnt things, as I come from a family predominant with males. It also helps me better understand their thinking, as well as simply the thinking of individual people. Am far & away from fa…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/26 12:01 PM
1	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next It is indeed sad. Would hope that my brother could come here if he were going through this & vent. Hope only to see him comforted or at least to know that he is understood among others. A social one he is, so I imagine this is where I would refer him to. A full tummy, lotsss of exercise, more than 8,000km / 5000miles flight away from where he lives, he can learn to be alone on walks here with my 3 paws while he rebuilds his body. This is all I can offer him while I encourage him to come here, to…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 09:37 PM
1	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next 😁 I do everything I can not to attend them, but I don't mind sharing whatever meals are make with my neighbors. Eat well 🌼	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 06:27 PM
0	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next It is not about disrespect, it is about how to human. I do not feel any right to age, race or gender. These don't quite enter my mind and my father and brothers cousins and nephews do feel safe with me, but I respect that others may not feel that way. I'm sorry for you that you allow social cages in your own life and are not happy with something that may have happened to you in your life. I'm truly sorry about that, but you are the only one that has mentioned entitlement, while I don't bother so…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 06:22 PM
-5	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next "WIJRA", if I may, men are commenting in women's space also and I cannot understand why they shouldn't, though to be fair, I also didn't know this was a men's space (like I've been told the old bars in the 70s were 😁), I thought this was r/divorce however, what may I ask, was bad about my comment? The wishing them well part😶.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 05:31 PM
-2	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next Let me try this again, ladies Op's situation can happen in reverse, so if you're going to be marrying again after divorce, am wishing you the same. I wish OP well for his marriage to somebody whom his children already accepting of, like & can spend time with. Am sure he has spent enough time alone after his divorce & having met this woman has every right to marry her after the time that he has spent with her & there is no indication in this post that she is an AP, rather it seems he met her late…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 05:01 PM
2	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next Because he wants to and prenups exist. The question isn't about getting married it is about telling the ex about it.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 01:59 PM
1	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next He can also marry since he's happy with her. He has approval from his children for this woman as it is.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 01:57 PM
-3	I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is next If you're ready as a couple, there is nothing more to say on the matter. I'm sure you spent some time alone after the divorce, before you went into a new relationship, so learning to be with you and loving you, (huge part, especially if you come out of a difficult relationship), has been handled as well. Congratulations on your choices. If you believe that your ex might have something harsh to say about it, or there is a potential that she plays the innocent minds of your children, remember that…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 07:05 AM
4	Hello dear Redit family. Cheaters benefits. A crime in and of itself. This is even worse.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 08:00 AM
1	For any dad going through divorce who knows he really tried Thank you AC for your prayer. (Btw, hope your Air BnB worked out & that you've sorted an insurance out for it in this difficult time). Dogs (1 of them in spirit), & a tux kitty here👋😁, have given me oxygen 24/7. I'm so glad to see people here and yourself have this. The comfort they give me in bed at night, (warm🤲paws that reach out to push on me as I go to sleep or change position in my slumber), just means changing the sheets every day, has been my True rescue, my oxygen. Stay healthy AC. Your…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 09:13 AM
1	Opinion/ 2 cents It sucks. Don't let this be a pit that swallows you Tom. Only give this hurt & self blame increments of time. Its a hurt that needs to ooze out slowly, dry up with time, leaving a little mark to remember the learning you received. The meds thank heavens atleast will help with that. The sucky part is part of allowing our minds to file sort. Am so, so sorry its so very hard right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/26 11:31 PM
1	Opinion/ 2 cents https://youtu.be/W4tXqcXeHHM?si=ZxrlD8H0Helhs1ct	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/26 10:19 PM
1	Opinion/ 2 cents Ah, I understand now & thank you for taking the time to explain. Just a side not: Not certain of your diagnosis, but it would be interesting to see what you think of Chase Hughes approach to his, that might be of use, even though it is a different situation, as the treatment can be used across some boards. He started going to a Dr. John Lieurance who administers methylene blue & melatonin amongst other things, because Chase's medication was worsening his situation. I know you probably won't look…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/26 10:19 PM
1	Opinion/ 2 cents Ok, so perhaps you've had previous indiscretions, so too your wife, am not certain what you mean by not being perfect, however you both worked raising these children as well as building a life together. Indiscretions do not not equate to you giving everything away that you work/ed just as hard for. It's 50/50, children assets, finances etc. The engine of a car runs better with all 4 its wheels no? Your children spend 50/50 time with you and their Ma'. As you were referring to "Death Do Us Part",…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/26 09:34 PM
4	Opinion/ 2 cents Well 😶, but why?😯Just, why don't you love yourself enough to see the abuse in all of this ? Your kids are seeing this. They see how her cheating has no repercussions, (they'll find out, if not that now then later), her behaviour is deemed ok by your lapping it up & coming back for more. How all her demands are met by you, while you have nothing, out of an entire marriage, this ... this is how they/your 3, will either -abuse- (like their Ma's abuse of you in the entirety of this situation & your …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/26 05:14 PM
1	Caught C-R, I'm feeling a sit a bit guilty for taking up so much space with all of my responses so I shall delete them in a few hours for others comments to be more easily available. Please try to get out of the house & do something physical off-site here and there, just to get out of the heavy home mood as often used you can as a processes.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 01:26 PM
1	Caught There-in lies the anomaly that may be your trajectory towards a whole new different life that could be embraced. 🌠🙃	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 11:33 AM
1	Caught NGL, had to consume that & am still gratefully sitting with it for a while. Your increments of digesting the whole thing in this way, are already a good sign of how you're going to handle this forward. Hurt never leaves the body as it reminds caution, though it can be slowly numbed through methods like this/yours. So many could learn from it.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 11:18 AM
1	Caught The generator, possibly a welcome destraction, keeping away from the DARVO that'd be fed to you whilst a cheater lays avoidantly comfortable in the comfort of their own selfishness. The threats? As stealth as they(she & he), play their game of destruction in a myriad of unscrupulous choices they make so to do, you could rather be working unobtrusively towards finding out what it would entail legally to devorce from their disregard of you This, so WW doesn't get to walk away from your dedication …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 10:33 AM
9	Caught Seeing reddit, strangers from across the world's posts & then a post like this & without fail, the feeling of being punched in the stomach when somebody finds out they've been cheated on, in no matter which way they have found out. That nauseating empathic feeling that sits in one's throat & lingers in the chest for a while afterwards. Then pulling back, learning to center, hoping for them to navigate calmly, quietly, meticulously towards their own best outcome. My heart goes out to you big fell…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 09:16 AM
2	Co-sleeping with children It is unbelievable how spouses have sometimes deranged this & it is often believed because of the way this sick world has been exposed through media & then weaponised in divorce. I'd put a security camera in said room that ensures all is monitored & safe for everybody. When the kids are there, wearing full pajamas, (long legged cuts in summer fabrics for summer), this for all of you is advisable. Please understand, this has nothing to do with what you are doing now, it is only to have timelined …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 02:07 PM
3	How do you move on Don't you just love how divorce on account of cheating allows the cheating spouse to have/get anything at all out of the divorce🤨. Is it just me?🤔 Why are there no cheating laws when they entail so much, including therapy for the ptsd it causes the spouse that was cheated on, not to mention the children, (if they're privileged enough to have had any). About finding somebody after 40? Building yourself up right now for you & your children is priority, but do remember this, at 40 not being an embr…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:57 AM
3	I finally broke last night Oh wow! The attorney / lawyer consult should have happened ages ago. She's playing you. Have a heart ... for yourself. Get the attorney going as soon as and have them do the paperwork to evict her in 60d. Godspeed.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/26 05:26 PM
1	Today is going to be tough Parenting apps 🤳 Dads & Lads parties in this case, either alone with your lads, & sometimes with their friends and friends' Dads. Been around it distantly, seeing it, slipped the blank envelopes, (though not much, a gesture), into post boxes or under windscreen wipers, even if only for the yearning of not having my own children, so yes, selfishly to be fair. In future, your lads can get to have a little dirt under their fingernals and maybe the privilege of some Wild Earth under their feet with …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/26 09:16 AM
6	Today is going to be tough I've a knot in my stomach just reading through your post. You wrote this so well that your readers feel this that you feel. The being around people who support a couple bonded by their deceptions, is harsh enough, though then again, cheaters usually lose them how they get them. It's the boys though. When this day, your son's 7th birthday (Happy 7th Birthday 🎂big boy 🤹‍♀️), has come and gone, a good daily dose of home and wilderness fitness, with a healthy nutritious schedule, would prove you get…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/26 07:50 PM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. So sad. There're so many ways they could rather realise their worth instead.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:12 PM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. So then, mods are not employed by Reddit?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 06:27 PM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. You grow🌱? Am zoned to 7 - 8 zone here in the valley? Do you have a YT channel? If I may.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 04:19 PM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. Yeah, I write it off to the world having become such a lonely place from people cocooning, that they develop a tribe mentality to feel any sort of closeness and pick on people in some situations. They bully them. How sad for them. Oh, am a woman, but just saw that happening to a guy in a recent post. Have also been subjected to it. So counterproductive 😏	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 02:36 PM
1	My story This is so cruel. Soooo sorry this happened to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 01:29 PM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. A marriage🤔, 🤨how in a marriage, is there no open device policy one wonders. Why wouldn't devices be open to each other?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 12:17 PM
2	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. If she didn't order an STD test because she suspected you (sussss🤔 dead marriage bed), then it is because she has been sexually active, because a woman -does- have discharge just by the body's acidity levels being imbalanced. Nutrition, stress, intimate wash, normal soap can change the body's dynamic which was why I was raised never to use soap. Only carbonated water even after every 🚾porcelain visit, balances the pH for only good bacteria allows the possibility of never having unpleasant discha…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:58 AM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. It's the deceit, the lies, the gaslighting for me. I'm so sorry mate.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:43 AM
2	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. 😄 was kicked out of r/marriage because I hadn't realised reddit would, make it possible to make a comment, but then kick you out because it was an old Post. If you're not allowed to comment why aren't they -disabling- comments on the post🤦🏻‍♀️ Makes no sense🤷‍♀️.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:38 AM
5	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. Oh wow! That's got to be awful.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:32 AM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. People/Cheaters do lie, but not all do. Wouldn't want a tarnish his heart, (or she wins), as there're those that wouldn't do this that deserve to be with him. You're right to say that he shouldn't consider her his wife though, as she's not the person he married. She now, is a whole different person all together.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:31 AM
1	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. Yeah, dead bed, but this person was maybe sharing and dipped into by how many or how many times. Don't get it and why risk bringing any DNA let alone an STD home. Can't people just be single before they do this to their families. Again one never knows, it may never have happened.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:26 AM
2	Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home. Whyyy would you be down-voted🤯 Gosh, was down-voted for using a little leet speak by an insurmountable clutch of little minion bots that needed a target, only did it out of consideration for readers💁🏻‍♀️. So sorry that happened to you. The STD test? Would recommend it to all couples, even married😣, because could nobody imagines cheating in relationships😖. Suspicion, even has some using condoms😫🙇‍♀️, esp with dead bedroom. Like, but why right🤷‍♀️. Don't understand why people can't first be single…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 07:55 AM
2	The closest I’ve been to another human since my divorce. I am not in the medical field I just want to say but here is how I've reached success so far. The vid I replied with gives some idea. Its possible for him to anal douche if he prefers, using warm water, distilled water from the pharmacy (where they may have something you can douche with, using warm water you don't want to disturb the good bacteria), can be better and you can look up anal douching on YouTube, though you only need the first little cavity i.e. rectum to be clean if you both prefer …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 11:07 PM
1	The closest I’ve been to another human since my divorce. https://youtu.be/x3HfwZZ111I?si=0HMAjHsNyho2LYzx	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 10:40 PM
1	The closest I’ve been to another human since my divorce. Ultimate guide to prostate pleasure By Charlie Glickman 😉	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 09:58 PM
6	The closest I’ve been to another human since my divorce. Loved this post. Having the fondest chuckles sometimes, with people I've never even met here on reddit. SO, about that finger up the bum: it's your prostate. Did you know or am I being an idiot to think that you might not have. The wonderful thing about it is, ... we women, get to stick our fingers up a man's bum and caress a kind of walnut, ... gently but lovingly. Unlike when one has to stop a dog fight and do the same. Yes it works even if one has to carry disinfectant gel around. My cousin w…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 07:35 PM
1	Ex-Wife has brought new boyfriend into our house and refuses to make him leave; Can I do anything? Oh no, that's awful! Do you lease in both ur names? Do you own in both ur names? Is it a rental in both ur names? Actually, either way, she can't just do that by law. How long have you been married? Even common law has laws for that FG. Ugh this is horrible.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 09:08 AM
2	Ex-Wife has brought new boyfriend into our house and refuses to make him leave; Can I do anything? Oh wow, this is beyond. Did she not agree with you on when exactly you'd be leaving?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/26 11:14 PM
3	It’s done Yes, a family therapist will be able to guide him and make him realise that this is between you and your wife to sort the divorce logistics and feelings out. You don't want your children to suffer the same thing with their partners in life, or allow their partners to devalue and disregard them in the same way when they grow up. All this that this lad is carrying in his head, my heart breaks. He is still a child, your child and it is not his responsibility to deal with the adults. So precious. If…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 02:44 PM
3	It’s done May we know if this is an update of a previous post? Am dreadfully sorry you had to go through this, you, your children mostly, but also extended family. Am so sorry.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 08:12 PM
3	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. When someone has a tickle they are millions of ways to sort it without going out of the marriage. She really has no excuses for having done that. Never thought of the social media and angle and OP doesn't even have to lie, when so many goblins on social media manipulate the truth. Good on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 12:25 PM
3	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. Did she book this with your shared marital bank account. Could also work against her infidelity would be caused for abandonment of you and your little girl.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 12:20 PM
1	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. This is why I mentioned the home cameras. If she tries to show bruises or cuts that she's given herself and say that's abuse, it's on camera. To her you can say that you've heard of a friend having had a Robbery, (find one that has, to base it on yruth), so you just want to take care of the family. In court you can say that you were concerned for her mental health and the safety of your child.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 12:17 PM
2	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. This is awful. It sounds like a familial conspiracy against you. Do better than you? Compared to what? Someone who basically trashed their family for some ¿fun? Cheaters are not only woman. Cheeters are people, men and women. Don't let her spoil your chance for meeting a wonderful, glorious woman. Just remember to look in the mirror once in a while and realize all you have achieved and all you have learned from life's pitfalls has made you deserving of good things, good people. In time you won't…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 12:10 PM
4	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. Oh wow, how awful for you. Perhaps also keep a track of financials as this always helps track things and see any devious behavior through it also. Maybe a forensic detective could help through this part, for evidence. Oh gosh, I'm just thinking of the DNA Assault on your body, by her sleeping with somebody else and bringing it home to you. You didn't consent to that entering your body and it should be charged as rape. DNA rape/ DNA assault to your person. Why do countries not make these laws. Pl…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 11:47 AM
2	I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing. One party consent then, though house cams, ring for instance? Perhaps most that she doesn't know of with a lawyer consultation on that? Thus claim concern that you have anyway, of your wife and daughter is needed the live feed to make sure she wasn't spiraling or having episodes.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/25 11:04 AM