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Forethought always turns out to be the best friend. So happy for you & hope you're doing okay now still. Ruddy expensive £3K, though a good example and still less than the Lernaean Hydra rearing its ugly head/s without spending it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:28 AM
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-Potential-. That's key. I've seen it with my own, well, not blood, family. Everything is amicable to let your gaurd down until the signing. Please gather your information and put key people in their respective fields into place. The money you spend on doing this, will probably save you money in the long run. No one needs to know. Just have it as your very strong and ready backup. Only you can decide.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 08:14 AM
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I've seen this backfire so many times is it not just better to have a lawyer to guide you through this. I've seen it turn on people so many times.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 07:23 AM
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Instead of celebrating you. Good on you for your choices.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 09:35 AM
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Also though, women are often expected, yes even today, to take their husband's name and thus, for argument's sake in this case, 3 children were carried right under mother's heart for 9 months. Naturally circumstances are unknown pertaining to the divorce, but having carried those children, one might say, they should all change to mother's maiden name if father says she can no longer have his family name. (btw your daughters are very blessed to have a parent such as you "g_n_c_tu"),
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 05:17 PM
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Eleven
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 04:44 PM
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So seemingly "guru", waits until you, in your emotional state, let your guard down. This, that it isn't even about -trust-, it's just, your guard is down and then you furnish details asked of you e.g. your email address and that's where the -penny- is asked for, under the premise of further helping you. So no one here would know. It is in -private-, that money is asked for. So Saw -SCAMMERS- in your title and dove in immediately because it was under divorce. ... Unctuous to use vulnerabilities l…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 04:23 PM
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It is indeed sad. Would hope that my brother could come here if he were going through this & vent. Hope only to see him comforted or at least to know that he is understood among others. A social one he is, so I imagine this is where I would refer him to. A full tummy, lotsss of exercise, more than 8,000km / 5000miles flight away from where he lives, he can learn to be alone on walks here with my 3 paws while he rebuilds his body. This is all I can offer him while I encourage him to come here, to…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 09:37 PM
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It is not about disrespect, it is about how to human. I do not feel any right to age, race or gender. These don't quite enter my mind and my father and brothers cousins and nephews do feel safe with me, but I respect that others may not feel that way. I'm sorry for you that you allow social cages in your own life and are not happy with something that may have happened to you in your life. I'm truly sorry about that, but you are the only one that has mentioned entitlement, while I don't bother so…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 06:22 PM
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"WIJRA", if I may, men are commenting in women's space also and I cannot understand why they shouldn't, though to be fair, I also didn't know this was a men's space (like I've been told the old bars in the 70s were 😁), I thought this was r/divorce however, what may I ask, was bad about my comment? The wishing them well part😶.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 05:31 PM
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Let me try this again, ladies Op's situation can happen in reverse, so if you're going to be marrying again after divorce, am wishing you the same. I wish OP well for his marriage to somebody whom his children already accepting of, like & can spend time with. Am sure he has spent enough time alone after his divorce & having met this woman has every right to marry her after the time that he has spent with her & there is no indication in this post that she is an AP, rather it seems he met her late…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 05:01 PM
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Because he wants to and prenups exist. The question isn't about getting married it is about telling the ex about it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 01:59 PM
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He can also marry since he's happy with her. He has approval from his children for this woman as it is.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 01:57 PM
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Cheaters benefits. A crime in and of itself. This is even worse.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 08:00 AM
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It sucks. Don't let this be a pit that swallows you Tom. Only give this hurt & self blame increments of time. Its a hurt that needs to ooze out slowly, dry up with time, leaving a little mark to remember the learning you received. The meds thank heavens atleast will help with that. The sucky part is part of allowing our minds to file sort. Am so, so sorry its so very hard right now.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 11:31 PM
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Ah, I understand now & thank you for taking the time to explain. Just a side not: Not certain of your diagnosis, but it would be interesting to see what you think of Chase Hughes approach to his, that might be of use, even though it is a different situation, as the treatment can be used across some boards. He started going to a Dr. John Lieurance who administers methylene blue & melatonin amongst other things, because Chase's medication was worsening his situation. I know you probably won't look…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 10:19 PM
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Ok, so perhaps you've had previous indiscretions, so too your wife, am not certain what you mean by not being perfect, however you both worked raising these children as well as building a life together. Indiscretions do not not equate to you giving everything away that you work/ed just as hard for. It's 50/50, children assets, finances etc. The engine of a car runs better with all 4 its wheels no? Your children spend 50/50 time with you and their Ma'. As you were referring to "Death Do Us Part",…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 09:34 PM
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Well 😶, but why?😯Just, why don't you love yourself enough to see the abuse in all of this ? Your kids are seeing this. They see how her cheating has no repercussions, (they'll find out, if not that now then later), her behaviour is deemed ok by your lapping it up & coming back for more. How all her demands are met by you, while you have nothing, out of an entire marriage, this ... this is how they/your 3, will either -abuse- (like their Ma's abuse of you in the entirety of this situation & your …
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 05:14 PM
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NGL, had to consume that & am still gratefully sitting with it for a while. Your increments of digesting the whole thing in this way, are already a good sign of how you're going to handle this forward. Hurt never leaves the body as it reminds caution, though it can be slowly numbed through methods like this/yours. So many could learn from it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/26 11:18 AM
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The generator, possibly a welcome destraction, keeping away from the DARVO that'd be fed to you whilst a cheater lays avoidantly comfortable in the comfort of their own selfishness. The threats? As stealth as they(she & he), play their game of destruction in a myriad of unscrupulous choices they make so to do, you could rather be working unobtrusively towards finding out what it would entail legally to devorce from their disregard of you This, so WW doesn't get to walk away from your dedication …
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/26 10:33 AM
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Seeing reddit, strangers from across the world's posts & then a post like this & without fail, the feeling of being punched in the stomach when somebody finds out they've been cheated on, in no matter which way they have found out. That nauseating empathic feeling that sits in one's throat & lingers in the chest for a while afterwards. Then pulling back, learning to center, hoping for them to navigate calmly, quietly, meticulously towards their own best outcome. My heart goes out to you big fell…
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/26 09:16 AM
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Don't you just love how divorce on account of cheating allows the cheating spouse to have/get anything at all out of the divorce🤨. Is it just me?🤔 Why are there no cheating laws when they entail so much, including therapy for the ptsd it causes the spouse that was cheated on, not to mention the children, (if they're privileged enough to have had any). About finding somebody after 40? Building yourself up right now for you & your children is priority, but do remember this, at 40 not being an embr…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 07:57 AM
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Oh wow! The attorney / lawyer consult should have happened ages ago. She's playing you. Have a heart ... for yourself. Get the attorney going as soon as and have them do the paperwork to evict her in 60d. Godspeed.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 05:26 PM
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So then, mods are not employed by Reddit?
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 06:27 PM
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If she didn't order an STD test because she suspected you (sussss🤔 dead marriage bed), then it is because she has been sexually active, because a woman -does- have discharge just by the body's acidity levels being imbalanced. Nutrition, stress, intimate wash, normal soap can change the body's dynamic which was why I was raised never to use soap. Only carbonated water even after every 🚾porcelain visit, balances the pH for only good bacteria allows the possibility of never having unpleasant discha…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 11:58 AM
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😄 was kicked out of r/marriage because I hadn't realised reddit would, make it possible to make a comment, but then kick you out because it was an old Post. If you're not allowed to comment why aren't they -disabling- comments on the post🤦🏻‍♀️ Makes no sense🤷‍♀️.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 11:38 AM
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Oh wow! That's got to be awful.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 11:32 AM
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Whyyy would you be down-voted🤯 Gosh, was down-voted for using a little leet speak by an insurmountable clutch of little minion bots that needed a target, only did it out of consideration for readers💁🏻‍♀️. So sorry that happened to you. The STD test? Would recommend it to all couples, even married😣, because could nobody imagines cheating in relationships😖. Suspicion, even has some using condoms😫🙇‍♀️, esp with dead bedroom. Like, but why right🤷‍♀️. Don't understand why people can't first be single…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 07:55 AM
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Loved this post. Having the fondest chuckles sometimes, with people I've never even met here on reddit. SO, about that finger up the bum: it's your prostate. Did you know or am I being an idiot to think that you might not have. The wonderful thing about it is, ... we women, get to stick our fingers up a man's bum and caress a kind of walnut, ... gently but lovingly. Unlike when one has to stop a dog fight and do the same. Yes it works even if one has to carry disinfectant gel around. My cousin w…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 07:35 PM
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Oh no, that's awful! Do you lease in both ur names? Do you own in both ur names? Is it a rental in both ur names? Actually, either way, she can't just do that by law. How long have you been married? Even common law has laws for that FG. Ugh this is horrible.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 09:08 AM
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Oh wow, this is beyond. Did she not agree with you on when exactly you'd be leaving?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 11:14 PM
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Yes, a family therapist will be able to guide him and make him realise that this is between you and your wife to sort the divorce logistics and feelings out. You don't want your children to suffer the same thing with their partners in life, or allow their partners to devalue and disregard them in the same way when they grow up. All this that this lad is carrying in his head, my heart breaks. He is still a child, your child and it is not his responsibility to deal with the adults. So precious. If…
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 02:44 PM
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May we know if this is an update of a previous post? Am dreadfully sorry you had to go through this, you, your children mostly, but also extended family. Am so sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 08:12 PM
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When someone has a tickle they are millions of ways to sort it without going out of the marriage. She really has no excuses for having done that. Never thought of the social media and angle and OP doesn't even have to lie, when so many goblins on social media manipulate the truth. Good on you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 12:25 PM
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Did she book this with your shared marital bank account. Could also work against her infidelity would be caused for abandonment of you and your little girl.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 12:20 PM
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This is why I mentioned the home cameras. If she tries to show bruises or cuts that she's given herself and say that's abuse, it's on camera. To her you can say that you've heard of a friend having had a Robbery, (find one that has, to base it on yruth), so you just want to take care of the family. In court you can say that you were concerned for her mental health and the safety of your child.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 12:17 PM
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This is awful. It sounds like a familial conspiracy against you. Do better than you? Compared to what? Someone who basically trashed their family for some ¿fun? Cheaters are not only woman. Cheeters are people, men and women. Don't let her spoil your chance for meeting a wonderful, glorious woman. Just remember to look in the mirror once in a while and realize all you have achieved and all you have learned from life's pitfalls has made you deserving of good things, good people. In time you won't…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 12:10 PM
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Oh wow, how awful for you. Perhaps also keep a track of financials as this always helps track things and see any devious behavior through it also. Maybe a forensic detective could help through this part, for evidence. Oh gosh, I'm just thinking of the DNA Assault on your body, by her sleeping with somebody else and bringing it home to you. You didn't consent to that entering your body and it should be charged as rape. DNA rape/ DNA assault to your person. Why do countries not make these laws. Pl…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 11:47 AM
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One party consent then, though house cams, ring for instance? Perhaps most that she doesn't know of with a lawyer consultation on that? Thus claim concern that you have anyway, of your wife and daughter is needed the live feed to make sure she wasn't spiraling or having episodes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 11:04 AM
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