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OYS 30 I've been working on this for 3 weeks now..... I started and stopped my 30th post and didn't post it. No real reasons other than I'm really fuckin busy doing shit, and I haven't had much to say. Lifting is going right, benched 260x8 last night. Squats are starting to get tougher. Chocking that up to suboptimal preparation before my last couple of sessions (life ya know) Still hitting my base requirements and looking and feeling pretty good. I've bridged a huge gap from where i started, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/21 07:02 PM
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Want me to wipe your ass for you too? Sidebar bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 05:00 PM
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OYS 29 5-9, 185 Married, 3 kids. Lifting going well. Been rocking 531 for a few months now. This weeks lifts: (my 1+ sets) press 170x 3, squat 360x2 (had to bail out on a squat for the first time in years, came out of position slightly and had to dumps it, i definitely had another one in me), bench 255x8, deadlift 365x7. Doing well pn this front . Shit to own: I'll spare the play by play details. But in a moment of weakness, I failed to shut the fuck up. This led to a period of emotional distanc…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 04:21 AM
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Believe me, I know far too well about disliking my reflection. I've been at 15% and i saw a fat fuck in the mirror, and when i ripped to shreds for a physique competition, i saw a skinny small dude. My main point is your efforts are best spent building the biggest and best engine you can. THEN worry about the unveiling. Give yourself a solid year. I am of the opinion that you must hold onto your weight longer than you think before a cut. Whats the point of gaining 10 and losing 8? Id rather gain…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 06:50 PM
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5'7, 153.4 lbs 5-3-1 Working Maxes: OHP: 122x1, DL: 240x1, Bench: 185x1, Squat: 220.5x1 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 The goal is to hang out in the 147-150 lb range until I start to fail lifts. I’m gonna start hitting my neck twice a week consistently with the goal of adding 1” to my neck size. Having a thicker neck makes you look bigger and more masculine. Does not compute. You're the same as every skinny dude who is a "hardgainer" If you really looked that bad …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:13 PM
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You really showed her when you turned the lights on so she could see your "sexy boxers" and what was no doubt the countenance of a sad puppy. What's that one acronym? Oh yeah: STFU Which stands for SHUT THE FUCK UP. Lift, sidebar, STFU, and post oys if you want to not be a big floppy pussy lip.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 07:50 PM
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OYS 28 Busy AF this week. Training and lifting are on point. Over the last 7 days, i will have spent 15 hours of in ring training, in addition to 5 days in the gym lifting. Last week, I had an exchange with HOA which was very enlightening and helpful. I'm still trying to unpack it all, as my field testing opportunities were limited, and the few times I fucked there was no real resistance. Where i find myself is at not what I'd call an impasse, but an interesting position. I know I have the poten…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 07:33 PM
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"Your pussy doesn't lie." No shit. I'll definitely be stealing that line. Much obliged.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 08:05 PM
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Thanks man, I am definitely reading some of that as events have played out. I know it's more of a me issue than a her issue. I feel like I've just got my head above the surface of my own bullshit and baggage, and in doing so, I've seen glimmers of the possibilities. The feminine never ceases to amaze me,especially when there's a puddle on the sheet and she blames me for it. All kidding aside, I'll keep hammering. Always appreciate your feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 07:06 PM
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27 5'9" 190 lbs. Looking great, feeling pretty good, not much hurts which is huge. Lifting- deload last week, still hit it hard, just didn't do my big 4 lifts. Last night benched 230x9 for my last set, tonight my heaviest squat will be 330 x 5+. Shooting for 8-10 reps. Meat and potatoes- I skipped last week. I'm likely stickbwith biweekly posting unless something comes up. I've pulled away to hone my "skills" as it were. Trying to really internalize and implement what ive learned up to this poin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 06:15 PM
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"I'm working on my form.....for the last 2 years"
/r/askMRP20/05/21 02:52 PM
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If you like crossfit, do it. But do what the best crossfitters do and lift heavy. Why is it so hard to go to the "box" and flop through your wods and also make sure you squat, bench, press, and deadlift every week. The bigger picture here is some asshole on the internet gave you shit about your workouts and look what it did to you. More sidebar and STFU. What's your max squat? How many strict pullups can you do? These tell us infinitely more than your woody allen-esque- hand-wringing.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 09:24 PM
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Thanks again bro. Godspeed on your endeavors.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 02:54 PM
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I appreciate the warning flair.The positive feedback I got was in person from a fan after the show. One thing I'm working on is ACCEPTING praise/compliments. As far as troll comments, meh. I've already been called all there is and more. Social media is gay AF, but you gotta play the game to get noticed . Thanks for looking out.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 03:00 AM
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OYS 26 36 5-9 190 lbs, abs starting to show through, though i may need to include some cardio soon. Married long time, 3 kids 13 and under. I took a couple weeks off from OYS. Not because I backslid to phagville, but I needed to take some time for shit to coalesce and I was busy doing stuff. Lifting: benched 255x6, OHP 155x6, DL 340 x 6 (this felt great) Tonight I'll squat 350 for my 1+ set tonight. So part of the reason I took a break was because I didn't have anything really worthwhile to cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 08:03 PM
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OYS 25 Mid 30s, 5’9 180 something. Jacked. Married w/3 kids. Lifting and eating is going great. Taking a deload after 9 straight weeks of 531. Already itching to get back under a heavy bar. This week is mainly volume. The physical part of my life i have down. Gym is non-negotiable, sometimes I have to modify my schedule, but i am there 4 days a week minimum, usually 5. Cook and prep most of my food and it shows. I've had something of a shift over the last month or so. I think a lot has factored …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 07:08 PM
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But I have great kids and a relationship with my wife that has been good overall for the past 10 years; there is a foundation to build on, here. You're full of shit. You're still jealous about her EA, new beta orbiter, and you've been a weak piece of shit since conception. No on comes here because they have a "great relationship ". Stop trying to minimize how much of a faggot you are and get some god damned calluses on your hands. Oh, and shut the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 07:53 PM
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I struggle to handle general bitchiness. What is the guidance there? Shut. The. Fuck. Up. Bitches be bitchy sometimes. My wife acts bitchy all the time, but moods change and shift like the wind. Ignore, walk away, do something. Usually within 5 minutes it's like it never happened. You're still way too worried about her feelings and even more so her words. Here's a hint: at this stage, they mean fuck all. Worry about yourself and your responsibilities, that's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 07:28 PM
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OYS 24 Mid 30s, married, kids 5'9 180 something, after a nice long bulk, I'm trimming up for summer. Abs are starting to show, my very minor love handles are diminishing. I have trap veins. Lifting: Running 531 for my main lifts, on cycle 2 week 6. Military press hit 160x6, for squat 345x6 bench tomorrow and pull Friday. I do bodybuilding accessories and some bodyweight sprinkled in. Pushups, pullups, handstands, dips, ring work, plyometrics, etc. Eating: I've been decreasing my intake of dense …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 08:08 PM
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OYS 23 60 DoD lifting. I've been consistently in the gym since last summer aftet a couple month layoff at the start of corona-cation. Recently started 531 as i needed to implement some structure so as to prioritize my main lifts and not feel bad if I can't get as much volume in. Week 2 of second cycle, this week my top sets have been: Bench 230x11, Squat 325x10 Eating better/cleaner and drinking more water. 5'9, 185 ish On to the shit. I'm not going to puke my guts out this week since there's no…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 08:12 PM
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Hey thanks for the thought provoking reply. I'll do my best to dig in to this. First, for accuracy, the initial exchange included a bit more than playful banter. I was trying to avoid rule 9 and be concise. She complimented me, and displayed numerous nonverbal IOIs. We stood close, I held deep eye contact. And i was nervous as hell. But why? On the surface level because I've seen this girl around for months, and she never talks to anyone. Little bit deeper-because shit like this has NEVER happen…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 02:51 PM
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OYS 22 Traveling this week so I'll cut to the chase. So there's a woman at my gym I've noticed before who I'd rate around HB 8.5-9. If Tinkerbell had a body built with yoga and weights. Anyway, a few weeks ago, I was walking in and we had one of those awkward moments when we were almost bumping into each other. We never had any interaction before, but this has kicked off something. So the other day, I'm in the gym set up on a rack. I was supersetting so i was going back and forth. When i get bac…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 04:36 PM
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OYS 21 Mid 30s married, kids, 5'9 188lbs. Started cleaning up diet, after holding the highest weight ive ever been for as long as i have, its time to reveal the gainz. Nothing crazy, just going for better carb sources for now and will only eat out on the weekend. Been just over a week and already tightening up. (I started at about 170 in June 2020, got up to 195 by Christmas, now levelling out) looking to stick around 180 with better abdominal definition. 531 week 2 Squats- top set was 315x3+, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 11:37 AM
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It shouldn't be hard at all to get that much protein in. 2 scoops of whey protein is about 50g, 8 oz. of chicken breast is about 50g, even doing intermittent fasting it shouldn't be hard to have a shake and a couple of chicken breasts. Get after it bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 01:33 PM
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Bro, at 30%+ bodyfat, those macros are skewed. You don't need 50g/day of carbs, let alone 50%. Your back spasms are likely tied directly to your weight. If you have a huge gut, that's going to impact your posture and your movement patterns. If you lose the gut, it'll improve, but on the meantime, shoot for 150-200g of protein (1g per pound of lean bodymass-ish) Also, pick up a copy of "becoming a supple leopard " by Kelly Starrett to address the mobility issues. You can start addressing pain now…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 11:46 AM
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What are your physical stats? There are a lot of red flags in your post that tell me your life is an absolute shit show. Porn/sex addiction, procrastination, plate spinning, and sexually dysfunctional wife. And your workout sucks. I guarantee this is a trickle truth about how much of a fuck up you are. Then you wanna get snippy when a far more experienced poster calls you out for being a piece of shit? Get your shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 08:11 PM
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The only thing you should be tracking as meticulously as the amount of times you fogged your wife is the weight increases on your linear progression strength program and how many grams of protein you eat. What are your physical stats?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 07:42 PM
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Bruh, I was trying to find your OYS posts, but after scanning the last 2 weeks (which took long as fuck) I couldn't find shit. Maybe it has something to do with you doling out advice on various rp and related subs and your clear lack of posterior chain development. You're describing textbook nice-guy rage. Your wife breached your covert contract about "respect" because she's a woman trying to work the remote. Such an egregious infraction cannot go ignored. So you screamed at her and demonstrated…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 07:03 PM
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Yeah bro, you read that right.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/21 03:16 AM
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I basically need her to want to take better care of herself, dress better, get back in shape, get some work done or simply offer some sex appeal. The vibrancy is gone and I need to get it back or I'm going to become more resentful Says the guy who doesn't even lift. You should probably shut the fuck up about your wife's actions or appearance until you can squat 315, bench 225, and deadlift 405 for reps. How do you think she feels about the guy in the house who gained 20 lbs of body fat (realisti…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 06:43 PM
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OYS 20 Mid 30s, married w/ 3 kids, 5'9, 190lbs, probably 15% body fat (soft abs on top, little bit of fat around waist) After bulking since my gym opened up lasr summer (started at 170) I've been able to maintain this higjer bodyweight for a few months now. The last time i was shredded, i was arpund 160-165, looking forward to seeing what a shredded 175-180 looks like. Focusing on improving food quality over next few weeks, and start doing some cardio and carb cycling for 60 DoD. Lifting- curren…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 04:38 PM
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Hold up. You're running Test right now and you're not even lifting? You're the embodiment of everything wrong with humanity. Fuck you.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 02:45 PM
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You're the internet equivalent of a panhandler. You went to the effort of writing a cardboard sign, parked yourself on a busy corner to beg for spare change. People who believe in conspiracy theories are retards. Thank God for fa/ggots like you. There would be no one of "high value" without fuckwits like you to compare against.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 07:47 PM
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Sounds like a lot of ego. I can tell you really care about this kid, but do you honestly think your little talk put him in the hospital? Do you have telekinesis? Are you a voodoo practitioner? Witch? Sorcerer? Get over yourself. Blaming yourself for something you have absolutely no control over is one of the worst mental prisons you can construct. Be the uncle he needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 05:55 PM
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What's your rule of thumb? I read 1.5x bodyweight on squat/deadlift. There is no rule of thumb. A belt is a tool, nothing more. The intended purpose is to give you something to brace against. And like any tool, it takes skill to use it. Your squats should be pretty dialed in first, however, I habe found that belts can give instant feedback when position breaks, allowing much faster correction. I typically, I'll put the belt on loose one my last warm-up, then tighten it as i get to my heaviest se…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 05:15 PM
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That's cute. You literally wrote a wall of text hamstering why you don't want to work out as much. Sounds like the verbal diarrhea of excuses that fat people like to give for why they're fat. That whole thing could've been condensed into: "I have serious career goals and need to make some adjustments to my lifting schedule" If your goals are that important and aspirational, you can't afford not to lift. You brush your teeth? You wash your ass? Those are no-brainers. Lifting is in the same catego…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 06:47 PM
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OYS 19 Unleashing steamy ropes of reflective consciousness. Last week, I wrote about what I thought at the time was a "mini-main-event" situation. Really i was jist being an asshole. What was illuminting about that situation was how i was able to illicit a buffet of emotions from my wife. In the span of 30 or so minutes, I saw happiness, anger anxiety, frustration, sobbing tears, laughing, etc. After some of the feedback I got, as well as reading some material linked to another guy's OYS, it sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 06:27 PM
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Quit acting like a bitch and figure it out. Dudes in prison have been getting more jacked than you'll ever be with less than you've ever had. Look at male gymnasts, those barstarz guys, etc. If you can’t figure out how to improve your fitness without a gym membership, what does that say about your industriousness, self reliance, and overall character ?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/21 06:28 PM
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I was still reeling when I wrote this. After i got it out and in print, I realized what it actually was, and through the lens of hindsight, I was being a prick. Earlier that same night, I had a "verbal altercation " with someone at my kid's sports practice. I conducted myself professionally and with tact, but I was really fucking amped up about it. I know I was still carrying some of that with me when this whole thing happened . Right after posting this, I did read a few of J10's posts and it wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/21 03:02 PM
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Fuck, that J10 post / this guy's OYS / and your insights are what i needed to hear/read right now. It's like the mental tools i need are magically placed before me so I can stub my toes and trip over them before i bend down to pick them up and actually use them.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 06:59 PM
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OYS 18 I'll spare with the basic shit this week and get down to the shit. I'm finding myself at a crossroads after what i would consider to be a "mini-event" last night. I've seen this junction on the horizon for quite some time, but I sense I need to approach this process with a renewed sense of urgency. After years of financial insecurity and uncertainty, my wife and i are in a position where we can sell our house with some decent equity and make a significant move up. Part of me is excited ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 03:45 PM
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Ill say the same thing i said to some other guy. Books and bed. Too much screen time is absolutely horrible for little ones. My kids do not get video games during the school week, and limited TV/ screens during the week as well. My wife and i cultivated a nighttime routine of books and bed. We still read together, but mostly they get ready for bed and read on their own now. Do you want disney/Netflix/ YouTube raising your daughter or a capable man? Sugar can be a factor, but it's not the cause, …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 06:53 PM
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Bro..... I think you need to slow your fuckin roll. If you don't getvsome serious help for your addictive tendencies, you could at the very least jeopardize your relationship with your son. Instead of DV, your wife could decide to air out your dirty laundry and lose your parental rights. Worst case, you remain a somewhat functional addict and your increasingly erratic and risky behavior will eventually lead you to be dead or destitute, toothless and forgotten. Your rationalization reminds me of …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 05:50 PM
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The frame tests coming from Daughter are becoming harder as she grows. I had moments of weakness these last few days where she asks to watch some video before sleeping, I set my conditions to watch just one and sleeping right after and that's right in this moment I lose frame and it becomes an ordeal for her to finally fall asleep after a long time of requests and refusals. I've lost the leadership in the situation but already set a plan to turn things to my side again this week. Let's see how i…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 05:35 PM
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Those are great answers. Exogenous test will provide WAY more value to you if you maximize as much as you can without it. I try to add value where i can. Keep kicking ass bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 03:01 PM
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OYS 17 Lot of shit going on. Almost all good. Wrestling started last week, finally, after over a year I get to be back on the mat coaching. Things look different, but I am in a position where I can actually commit fully to the season and practice schedule. Also, eager to practice and develop leadership skills now that I have the endorsement of the head coach (I'm taking charge of the beginner program). Because of the schedule shake up, I had to skip arm day last week. This week on squats, I hit …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 08:52 PM
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Bro, you shouldn't even be thinking about TRT as such a noob lifter and your age. Are you a pro athlete? Competitive bodybuilder? Are you still making gainz? Do you what the approximate macros are of a meal by looking at it? Are your hands covered in rough calluses that starkly contrast the smooth skin of a woman? Instead of getting your T checked for no fucking reason you should be getting huge. You think you know better and that strength isn't important. Guess what? You're squandering your noo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 08:18 PM
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That's cute. Being open and vulnerable is what fucked my shit up in the first place. Also, this is MRP not TRP. In the few short months I've been here, my relationship with my wife is the best it's been in years. We are both happier. But maybe I should heed your advice. I'll stop working out, get fat, start sharing my feelings more, put her first, create covert contracts, start jerking off to porn again, be a weak lover that's full of resentment, and get butthurt because my wife only feels in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 03:13 PM
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Hard to pin down in exact terms what I meant there. A main event, an overt communication of my needs/wants/desires, a FMOFY type scenario? I don’t know yet, but I know there’s going to be something. I’m not in a position to initiate that yet. I’ve had improvements in my relationship and sex, but I’m not satisfied. Also these “younger women “ comments have really stretched my comfort zone, as in the past I would’ve worked really hard to supplicate and vehemently deny that possibility. But now, I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 06:40 PM
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She is a great tester and it does keep me very honest. I get great feedback. I have years of getting good feedback. I just didn't know that's what it was for the longest time. That is a great, concise summary of much my experience as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 04:35 AM
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OYS 16 Mid 30s, married, 3 kids. 5'9", 190, great shape. Squats this week: 135x10, 225x8, 275x6, 315x5, 340x4, 365x1, 205x22 This weeks OYS is a tough one. Usually, there's something top of mind that I want to include or just hash out in writing, but this was a solid week. Went skiing for the first time ever, it was awesome. On the relationship front, things are going pretty well. What I’ve been experiencing is repeated comments from my wife about me getting a younger woman. I usually sort of la…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 04:02 AM
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Good for you fatass. Except you haven't done shit about your weight in 10 weeks of OYS. Figure out how to stop eating your feelings. You started at 220 and have yoyo'd up and down. If you had a shred of discipline you could have easily been under 200 by now.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:35 PM
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Got back on the wagon by the end of the week. Or you could just make the decision and do it immediately. The only thing strong here is your fatlogic.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 12:50 PM
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Have you ever been punched in the face? Have you ever built anything with your hands? Have you ever destroyed anything? Have you ever done anything so hard that death or severe injury would have been a welcomed respite? Fucking do something, get some blisters on your hands so they will eventually become callused and strong, then you won't give a fuck about any of that other stuff. Don't stress your lifts. Consistency and persistence you'll start putting up numbers you can be proud of. Use these …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 07:31 PM
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OYS 15 Mid 30s, married long time, 3 kids 5'9, 190 lbs, in great shape/pretty jacked (since June I've gained 20 pounds without too much fat gain) Reading- I read some old post from J10 and Horns series about depressive and anxious wives. I also listened to make couple episodes of RP Christians YouTube channel. I got some tidbits that were helpful and some good perspectives. Fitness- decided to include some more details on this section to add some value to the discussion since I've extracted so m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 05:25 PM
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Stats pre-lockdown: No one gives a flying fuck about lifts you did over a year ago before you started stuffing your face and beating your dick every day. Why are you here? Because e-learning is hard and you'd rather jerk off to porn and eat hotpockets than bang your 20 year old hard body girlfriend? Nobody posts here because everything is cool in their relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 04:36 PM
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I hear you. You're reverse engineering; not chasing I was referring to chasing the Golden pussy as someone else pointed out to me. And yes, going in the wrong direction. I was trying too hard to understand and yes ended up in her frame, mind reading, and letting myself be emotionally affected by this particular situation. I appreciate all the feedback I've received.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/21 07:30 PM
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Thank you. I sometimes get lost in the weeds trying to figure out "why" and how things work. RE: ASD, that's a good point. Hadn't thought of that and it's entirely possible especially in the context of other noises that came out of her mouth. To your point though, it doesn't matter. I'm chasing too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 12:32 PM
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Ahhh. Thanks for that. I was asking a question, so it should have been simply "Is this a power struggle?" My fee-fees weren't in question, nor were they relevant to the statement at hand. I'll be aware next time around. Much obliged.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 12:57 PM
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Not to mention, the cholesterol is a chemical precursor to testosterone. Eat some yolks and steaks, butter too. That lack of essential fats is probably the reason vegans tend to be incorrigible.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 07:47 PM
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No doubt. Little by little, I'm deconstructing this conditioning. You know where the manipulation started? The pussy is on a pedestal, but I've also started to have what resembles a spine. I'm still weak but the dynamics are shifting. I'll keep focusing on myself and stop looking back. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:40 PM
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Thanks man. Not far off from what actually happened. I didn't push through, but I didn't crumble like a pussy and start jabbering on or starting a huge fight. No...I didn't say that it doesn't affect you. Just like approach anxiety...feel it...push through anyway. Then we can start talking about what to do about it. It's funny you mentioned this. I started really focusing on not flinching at the weather. Right now it's winter. Without thinking we often flinch at the weather. We scrunch our faces…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:29 PM
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Conceptually I understood that from the get go, but being confronted by it so blatantly and in such a way was a shock to me. I need to trust my gut more and my head less. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 12:42 PM
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OYS 14 Still married with children, still lifting 4-5 days/week. This week, I'll break it down with the good, bad, and ugly. Good- Organized a weekend getaway. Son had an athletic event at an out of state resort and we made a weekend out of it. Had a great time, wife and I had a hot bang in the hotel room just feet away from our sleeping children. Felt like teenagers again. Looking forward to future short trips like this. Bad- Shark week was last week, which since not caring about women's feelin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 08:59 PM
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OYS 13 Just when you think you're getting it, you realize that despite a modest increase in "IQ", you're still kind of retarded. 36, 5'9" 188, pretty jacked. Married many years, 3 kids. Hit the gym 5 days, feeling good here. Nothing hurts too bad despite everything I'm doing. After 6 months of "bulking " and gaining about 20 lbs, I'm beginning to re-comp. Plan is to minimize weight loss and decrease body fat. Basically I'm eating cleaner on non weight training days. So far so good. On other fron…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 04:44 PM
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5'9/150/vegan/bottom. Deficient in Iron in every facet of my life. The only frame I have is a picture of my mother. Severe kyphosis of the cervical spine prevents me from standing up straight or using hindsight. My ex-wifes cellulite, stretch marks, and fupa caused irreparable eye damage to my cornea, so looking in the mirror is out right now. Do my dreads need to be natural or can I get them put in the a salon? Is the levels of dreads how long they are? Help please
/r/askMRP25/01/21 07:47 PM
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I see your point, and most of my posts mention very little of my lifts/progress. I haven't felt compelled to post about that recently. But, make no mistake, my physical fitness is one of my top priorities. I bust my ass in the gym 4-5 days/week, eat well and look pretty damn good. In the last 6 months, ive gained about 20 pounds, can still see abs (soft 4) and this is the heaviest I've ever been at this level of leanness. I'm 5'9" and 190. I do this while also training and performing as a profes…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/21 04:49 PM
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OYS 12 Fresh off a 14 day ban for rule 13 violation. As @u/threekindsoflucky pointed out, " if you can imagine some sad middle aged man masturbating" to my amateur erotica, it's probably too much detail. Fair dinkum mate, I got a little excited. In all reality, it was a good reset for me. I feel like I put some undue pressure on myself to illustrate progress in these posts. For what or to whom? Doesn't really matter. I know I am progressing, I know my life and relationship is improving, and I KN…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 04:25 PM
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Jesus dude. You sure like to dish out a lot of advice over on asktrp. Shouldn't you be an expert by now? Maybe with all your valuable experience you should be a mod over here. I mean seriously, kick your wife out for some shit tests? OYS or GTFO phaggit.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 03:21 PM
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Finally 202o is over! Happy new year? Everything is supposed to be different now right? Who gives a fuck. I have however spent some time in reflection on where I was and how I got here and how much more there is to go. Go where exactly? I'm still trying to figure that out. I have my personal vision that I am laser focused on, I will not elaborate on it as I wish to preserve my anonymity for now. I may one day delete out, and if I do, its because I made a huge step towards that. (Like getting sig…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 09:00 PM
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I have set a goal of creating a workout routine for myself. Committing to this has caused a fair amount of mental resistance/anxiety. Your goal is bullshit, because it has nothing to do with ACTUALLY working out. At a bare minimum, working out is on par with brushing your teeth and cleaning your balls. They are compulsory physical maintenance activities. Squat, bench press, military, deadlifts. Pushup, pullup, dips, handstand pushups, rows, curls, abs, plyometrics. Get strong and stop being such…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 08:23 PM
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Very true, and i know its going to happen. This was a glimpse of what I'm striving for in mysel. A flash of competence " , a small taste of what my potential is. I know my fee fees might get some boo-boos, these will be the true tests. In the mean time, I'll revel in my moistened ball bag. Thanks for watching my 6.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:54 AM
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OYS 10 This past week was meh. Holidays and family stuff cut into gym time, which always fucks me up. Overall though, I held pretty steady. One area I am trying to understand better is the concept of polarity. I listened to TWOTSM a couple weeks back and dug through some of the archives here. A big part of that is embracing the parts of me I've felt I needed to hide for so long. I have lived in essence a double life, or at the very least an incongruent one. I've always been in great shape, a man…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 09:33 PM
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OYS 9 First off, I hit 190 lbs this week. Haven't been this heavy in years, and in the past, when I was this heavy or close to it, I did not look this good. I'm going to keep pushing until about February when I'll begin to shed some weight. Feeling good about this. I appreciate the feedback from some of you guys last week . I'm not here for you, but it also helps to know I'm not alone. Over the last few weeks I've really focused on trying to express myself authentically, not putting stuff throug…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 09:30 PM
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Yeah man, I remember reading the first part of NMMNG and my head about exploded when he describes dudes going into rage mode. Almost me to a T. I had literally zero tools to use in order to get a different result. Some Tony Robbins feel good bullshit helped temporarily, but in hindsight I ran my mouth about it how great it was, but as with everything like that, the initial enthusiasm waned and eventually none of it really stuck. This is the longest I've gone without running my mouth and saying "…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 09:49 PM
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It only took me 20 years to figure that out, and I had to get it on the internet cause my wife wouldn't touch my peepee.... I had one anger slip which I caught myself in mid stride. Still have lots of work to do. Thanks for your response.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 07:48 PM
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Good on you. I'm trying to find the right balance. Since learning what a shit test and comfort actually is, it was a huge breakthrough for me. Thankfully, I never had a problem with drinking, but I used to take every word out of my wife's mouth at face value. I would DEER, scream and yell, break stuff, etc. Therapy helped with some stuff, but in some ways it tried to make me a better nice guy. Forever, I've been almost autistic level STFU. I was embarrassed and ashamed to have needs. Yet the slo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 07:45 PM
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OYS 8 Late to the party but I'm here. This week I listened to TWOTSM while I drove. I feel it came at the perfect time for me. I know I'll need to re-read/listen to get more out of it, as it gave me lots of triggers which made me reflect on where I used to be. Some key takeaways I got were understanding more how/what being the prize is or as he puts it, giving your gifts. Through much of this (time since making the decision to improve my self), ive spent too long trying to fix my faults to the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 09:03 PM
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OYS 7 Last few weeks have been interesting. Nothing dramatic, ive had a few stumbles though. I've still felt myself getting angry and resentful towards my wife. These feelings are fleeting, as I'm quicker to catch myself and recalibrate. However, I still have a lot of work to do, as I have a scarcity mentality about sex. As I mentioned in one of my earlier OYS, it's like money. When you're broke, it's a constant worry. I KNOW I'm making progress, but I still care about it too much, still catch m…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 06:03 PM
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OYS 6 I skipped a week. Trying to keep this brief and relevant. I took a step back last week to evaluate my OYS posting. The livestream comments in regard to length, how much and what to include, as well as the recent post on the same subject made me realize I needed to separate the wheat from the chaff. Over the past few weeks, I have made some decent progression. It has helped to remind myself that I am a "novice MRPer". As a novice lifter is well served to follow a linear progression program …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 09:27 PM
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OYS 5 Mid 30’s, married, 3 kids under 13 5’9’’, 185 lbs., don’t know bf%, but 30 in waist, visible abs Physical-lifting 4-5 days/week. Goals for lifting are performance & aesthetics. I also train as a pro wrestler 1-2X/week, and perform in live matches on weekends a few times a month. No issues here except being proactive on mobility. I stretch alot, but the soft tissue/SMR, I am mostly reactive, as in I don’t do as much unless I have a reason too (pain). Reading-NMMNG, WISNIFG, rational male, p…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 09:31 PM
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Lol, I had to look up "self gloss". I thought it was some kind of tanning method.... Not trying to give myself a nickname, I'm in great shape but losing my sweet summer bronze.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 05:41 PM
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OYS 4 Mid 30s, low 180's, jacked and tannish. Married 16, together 20, wife mid 30s, 3 kids under 13. Gym good, hitting 4 days a week, nothing hurts too bad. Focussed on building volume for a bit before I push for heavy singles and doubles. So my last OYS was a shitshow. I was blown away with the responses I got. Some brief and blunt, others were more verbose, but I found value in all of them. I'm still trying to process what I've learned this week and still keep pushing forward AND get out of m…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 11:11 PM
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In reflection, I don't think boundary was correct. It was more like a pattern that has been repeated in our relationship. One where I would either fly off the handle or placate and smooth things over. I didn't do either of these things, but I spoke too much, and was being stubborn asshole. Did she cross any boundaries? No, woman is as woman does, especially given the history and what brought me here. I know I fumbled the ball on this play, still holding on to resentment and anger, which bounces …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/20 01:31 PM
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Hey man, thanks. I did read them. I knew I had a lot to process, so no responses. That, and the responses I did write, delete, re-write, delete, I was full of shit. I appreciate the thoughtful responses from everyone and I definitely see why this shit is so important. If anyone is still on the fence, or thinking they're not ready to post OYS, just fucking do it. Take care
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/20 02:03 PM
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I appreciate your feedback. I'm mid 30s, I've read NMMNG, WISNIFG, watched Rian Stone’s sidebar series, Rational male, listened to Book of Pook, Steel 's guide, and all the top posts. I read every day and I listen when I'm driving. Always been an avid reader, so I make sure to do some, even if only a little, daily. I know you wrestle, but do you get out of the house on your own time, doing your own thing? Not nearly enough, I get out socially maybe once or twice a month. I've got some hunting da…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 03:57 PM
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OYS 3 Get the standard business out of the way: Lifting 3 days last week, 2 days wrasslin, looking good, feeling OK (neck stiffness and shoulder bullshit last couple of weeks) I’m also down about 4 pounds, as I’ve yet to adapt my feeding schedule with my new job, but so far this week has been better, time to get that scale moving back up again. 5’9’’, 180, pretty jacked, 30 in waist, soft abdominal definition. Bench mid 200s, squat mid 300’s , OHP 170 strict, DL high 300’s. Shit I’m owning: Last…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 03:24 AM
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Fair enough, I will adjust accordingly. Thanks for taking the time out to read my shit, your insights over the last few weeks over the live streams have been very helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 03:23 PM
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OYS #2 It’s been a couple of weeks, life got in the way of posting on the internet. I also felt the need to step back and figure some shit out. My first OYS was super vague, generic, and in hindsight devoid of anything of substance. I was posed with the question of “what do you want?” I want financial stability, to be a man who smashes on the regular, and to be happy with the face I see in the mirror. I’m 2 weeks into a new job that I am really into. I see a lot of potential for upward movement …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:34 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I can see your points. Maybe you are already past that phase, but I just don't see the fire in you. I've been mad as hell for too long. I think it's starting to settle down though. I've also felt broken for a long time as well. I'm bouncing back and forth between the excitement that I can get what I want, the self loathing of how I got here, the anger at my wife for the long list of grievances I have (breach of covert contracts, sexual unavailability, etc), and the apath…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 04:37 PM
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OYS #1 This is my first OYS. I’m using this as an opportunity to start the habit of journaling, focus my efforts, and have some accountability to myself. Hope to give some value back to the group when appropriate. Intro: Not sure exactly when, but stumbled across this (mrp) a few months ago. Was in a reddit-rabbit hole of dead bedrooms, infidelity, and some really weird ass shit. Like many others, initial goal was improved sex life, quickly realizing that’s not THE end state, but a byproduct of …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 04:17 PM
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