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I was in a similar boat - though got soaked and had to start over. With a child I had custody of. Some states have funny laws about who gets what, if there is a large disparity between incomes. It won't hurt to get a mediator, who can help prepare a plan the judge will likely approve. OTOH, I know people who did it on their own and sailed through. Nevertheless, I'm grateful I used a mediator. On the social side a very similar story to yours. I made a goal to meet one new person a month for six m…
/r/MGTOW202/09/19 11:47 PM
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Mgtow isnt a movement. Neither is a BBQ. Theres no organization, no group, no leadership. Unless it's this subreddit?.Where you need to have a login ID, can join the subreddit, and there are moderators.
/r/MGTOW201/09/19 02:11 AM
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You just contradicted yourself, but that rabbit hole isn't worth the journey. Good luck.
/r/MGTOW228/08/19 05:21 PM
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We speak the same language 😊 It is hard to go wrong maintaining a positivist outlook on life. Sorry ... bad joke, but heh.
/r/MGTOW228/08/19 05:20 PM
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It's funny how people have emotional reactions to the idea of natural law or order. Seems to me an observant six-year will begin to grasp natural order or law with the change of seasons, weather patterns, sun, moon, and so on.
/r/MGTOW228/08/19 02:52 PM
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It's tough, admittedly. I take pride in staying on the sidelines - keeping out of the emotional turbulence that feels like middle- or high-school. One thing I've started to do is analyze what I hear, because sometimes you can't ignore it. I try to figure out the emotional deficit these people have, which I think is part of why they seem to create so much drama. Still, it can't be entirely ignored. Like you won't be unaffected by the rain if you live in a rainy place. You just adapt - the right c…
/r/MGTOW226/08/19 01:34 AM
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condescending benevolence Well said.
/r/MGTOW225/08/19 08:27 PM
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There have been two very important activities I have ditched in the last two years because they felt hostile. I tend to pay little attention to the social milieu because it doesn't interest me. But, in both cases, I was the last man standing when I left. The infighting and indecency they displayed, as a group of women, horrified and scared me. I either felt judged or tolerated. And these are places preaching tolerance and openness. I don't have answer to your question, but I'll be watching this …
/r/MGTOW225/08/19 07:42 PM
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Yup to all of the above. The CDC just announced my city is in the top 10 for STDs. I often think about when walking around town. Half the girls are Stacys. The other half are morbidly obese or so covered in tattoos and piercings they barely look human. And then there's the crowd whose gender or sex I can't deduce, because they want to appear androgynous. To each his/her own, but I can't imagine their mindsets. I knew the world offered little to me well before MGTOW. Still, it's nice to see men c…
/r/MGTOW210/08/19 04:06 AM
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I suppose, in your hierarchy, I'm somewhere between "Transcendence" and "Freedom and Independence". But as u/30203forever points out, sexual desire isn't something that Western tradition makes easy to disavow. I'm assuming there are some Eastern monks that don't think about sex. Maybe mystics in the West, who knows. I'm closer to death than birth, assuming I live an average age. I still have desires. But I can transcend the desire and not act on it. If anything I'd suggest "Transcendence" is, we…
/r/MGTOW210/08/19 03:11 AM
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They always pander to advertising dollars.
/r/MGTOW208/08/19 06:06 PM
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It's useful for gaining agreement, and hence reassuring for the speaker. Pretty damn manipulative when you think about it.
/r/MGTOW231/07/19 04:22 PM
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I was going to say just this - but read the comments first. This kid's MGTOW already :-)
/r/MGTOW228/07/19 12:50 PM
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I've travelled a fair amount, though not to Asia, India, or the Middle-east. Though for those places I have travelled, I've been amazed at how much men go out of their way to avoid anger and anxiety on the part of their girlfriend or wife. That's understandable - who wants to be the brunt of that. But what was remarkable was how women, in all the cultures I have visited, seem to nail their boyfriend or husband for the same stuff. Travel, more than anything, has convinced me staying single is the…
/r/MGTOW226/07/19 01:25 AM
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I did this and applaud your decision to take a solo vacation. I went to the tropics. Bought a fistful of cigars and just enjoyed myself. Something I didn't expect, though, shocked me. The number of times I heard women shrieking at their husbands or boyfriends. The heat. The food. His insensitivity. The prices. Something he should have know without her telling him. One woman opened her suitcase in the town and threw it, scattering her stuff. Then she demanded a divorce. Her wedding was two days p…
/r/MGTOW225/07/19 12:56 PM
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A needed correction. Reading his title with "loose" as a verb ... wrong sub!
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 10:32 PM
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+1 — well said.
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 02:36 PM
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Body Language: Your body language shows others how you feel, and also tells them your social status, strength, and vulnerability. This is a good reminder. As a MGTOW Introvert Of The Highest Degree my posture reflects this. I truly don't care what most people think about me - the list scarcely needs all ten fingers to count them. And if everyone else thinks I'm not worth engaging with ... then I automatically level up or something. However, it can make someone a mark with anyone who has a need o…
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 02:30 AM
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> Nevertheless, every now and then I feel conflicted about my own identity. Like, sometimes I contemplate whether it'd be okay to test the waters for a relationship just for the hell of it. But then I think about who I am as an individual and question the validity of this sentiment. If you weren't like this you'd be one arrogant son-of-a-bitch. Growth should lead to introspection that leads us to question where we are. You may be in a place you didn't expect, but the point is you got to where yo…
/r/MGTOW222/07/19 12:57 AM
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Why break away from introversion? Frankly most of the shit we enjoy today was created by introverted men. If they weren't introverted they would not have toiled away for hours inventing cool stuff like computers, automobiles, books, you name it. I suppose my answer to your question is ask yourself why you want to 'break away from introversion'. I may have something to say about that, but as an award winning introvert bachelor I can't offer an answer to breaking away from that.
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 04:09 PM
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I don't know what to say about that. I've never experienced that, and folks whose resumes had a gap like always had a reason. Of course, they could have just made the reason up, I don't know.
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 01:34 PM
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I've been reading resumes for 20 years, and deciding who to bring in for interviews. Different industry, but a resume is a resume. Standard advice here applies: make your resume special. There's got to be a reason your resume will attract the attention of the person reading it. So don't expect to have just one. You may have several, depending upon the specifics of the job. I could usually spot a fabrication quickly - so this isn't encouragement to lie. Rather, the things you put at the top will …
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 02:28 AM
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Thanks for letting me know that :-)
/r/MGTOW210/07/19 10:05 PM
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I simplified my life to no pet, no car, no mortage, and a mostly vegetarian diet - to make things cheap. With no debt I have only three recurring expenses: a transit pass, mobile phone service, and rent. That immediately meant I could save 1/2 of what I made without breaking a sweat. Then I switched to contracting work. So while I am in a corporation, I am not of it. I can leave at any time. I can look for contract jobs anywhere my agency places people. And with no attachments - outside of perso…
/r/MGTOW208/07/19 09:19 PM
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Once is enough.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 10:05 PM
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If you're MGTOW you don't care about someone else's impression of how you to choose to live.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 03:32 PM
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I would start by saying being masculine probably means not asking how to be masculine. That's not a challenge or put-down. Nor is it meant to question your masculinity. In my experience (half a century) the men who are admired and, hence, remembered, are those that went their own way. That is probably a great place start. But the path is entirely yours.
/r/MGTOW229/06/19 09:04 PM
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I don't know what you mean by "proper voting", but in 15 years I have not voted there was never once an election that was tied. Which means vote, or lack of a vote, had no impact on the election's outcome. This is in the US and for municipal, county, state, and national elections. Even on the national my lack of a ballot didn't tip the electoral college count for my state. I think, at the end of the day, governments can do whatever they want. In the US the federal government can force men to go …
/r/MGTOW224/06/19 10:11 PM
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Nice. Mine is "I don't care." If I can't influence it, or don't want to, it goes into that giant heap of don't-give-a-fucks piling up behind me :-)
/r/MGTOW218/06/19 01:29 AM
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only content. Truth, in less than a sentence :-) I suspect happiness is found at the end of path of contentment.
/r/MGTOW217/06/19 11:08 PM
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Well done. I'd likely be in a van or small (Class C) RV if I wasn't planning on moving to a climate where that's not sensible. The timeline on that is short enough I can't justify the vehicle, registration, insurance, etc. - though I pay a ridiculous amount in rent. But if my plans to move change and it's a more temperate climate I'll likely do a van or small RV. Being a minimalist is so freeing. Nice job doing it your way :-)
/r/MGTOW216/06/19 02:31 AM
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Yup. My apartment (an unmoving van with no wheels or engine) is just a tad over 400 square feet. No car. Three pairs of pants. Five short-sleeve shirts and five long-sleeved shirts. You know, so I don't have to laundry to get through a work week :-) My kitchen is my former backpacking and camping equipment: plates, bowls, cutlery. I can fit everything I own into a small pickup, for when it's time to GTFO. Talk about your van, if you don't mind. I've been watching that community online for severa…
/r/MGTOW215/06/19 09:11 PM
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just pick a bunch of feelings, and guess which one it might be. It's emotional roulette. And you're trying to guess which number's coming up.
/r/MGTOW207/06/19 08:16 PM
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What's UT?
/r/MGTOW207/06/19 05:37 PM
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The bottom line is, I won't judge anyone for doing what works for them as long as they're not hurting others. This cuddlist thing works for me, but I'm not demanding that anyone else do it. How you live is up to you. Well said. My intrigue doesn't come from you finding solace in that. Rather, my intrigue comes from us living in a time where this is a business opportunity. I care little for the world I live in - not because there are people working for or partaking of cuddlists. Rather, because t…
/r/MGTOW207/06/19 05:36 PM
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There's something existentially creepy about this. Though first and foremost I'm not judging the guy or his decision to do this. It's his life, he can fill it anyway he desires, assuming he's not hurting anyone. But to live in a time where this is a viable business? It's a strange world.
/r/MGTOW207/06/19 01:51 PM
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You suck. How many of you hire people based on their political beliefs? No - that's a sound hiring practice.
/r/MGTOW201/06/19 12:56 AM
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Now the freedoms of Fem3.0 and the lack of societal controls on basic female nature has led to this downward spiral. I think this hits the nail on the head, in my experience. I'm old enough to have vague memories of feminism's so-called First Wave. Then the Second Wave, where I started to be blamed for being a man. As if ... Anyway, the 'Third Wave' toppled what remained of my carefully built sand castle. I've since moved on and have learned to embrace being divorced and single. The men who have…
/r/MGTOW231/05/19 12:59 AM
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I can't speak to the problems you're experiencing - it's best to not presume to understand someone else's experience. Though I can relate to something chronic. In my case they're old injuries that come screaming back with a vengeance, reminding me my former adventures have multiple gifts that keep on giving :-) I manage with yoga, meditation, and a diet low in foods that are often inflammatory. None of that is advice - just how I learned to cope. The result of that - deciding to modify my behavi…
/r/MGTOW226/05/19 02:50 PM
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I doubt I'd ever do that, because I don't crave human touch; though if you've found something that works for you on your terms that's all that matters. Good for you. Out of curiosity how does a professional cuddlist compare to the cost of a massage?
/r/MGTOW218/05/19 12:09 AM
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OK - that's funny. The wording needs a little work, but you nail the sentiment, even if the wording needs some work.
/r/MGTOW218/05/19 12:07 AM
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I go to an old school barber every two weeks. Like clock work. And I tip - so they remember me now and I get everything but a massage, which they don't offer. Straight razors, scissors, Bay Rum, talcum powder, neck shave. As a bonus the barbers are Jewish men, which means in the last 18 months there's only been women in there two or three times, getting their boys' hair cuts. Of course, that rules out Saturday haircuts :-/ The conversations we have in there are red pilled. Every single time. I l…
/r/MGTOW216/05/19 11:27 PM
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If you assume (rightly, I think), most of what people say and do is about them, then why do the self-reliant get noticed for accomplishing more than a team? Because individuals tend to get more done than committees. And the motivation for bullying successful individuals is about group members feeling inadequate. Yes - I think you're right to question their authenticity. And absolutely question their motivation.
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 11:32 PM
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I'm not doing it to get chicks, I have no energy for that nonsense, but rather I'm doing it for my long term health. And this is why you'll likely succeed - you're doing it for yourself. There's no dieting advice I can give here that hasn't already been stated, and everyone's body responds differently. If you keep looking you'll find your stride, and then refine it, until it becomes your practice. Check back in here with updates, sluggothebold.
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 02:33 AM
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