intlcrew Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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44	Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over time That is a fairly superficial understanding of a complex topic - no doubt true in some cases. However it is fairly optimistic to assume that this explains all or even the majority of relationships. A few additional points to consider - - It is not a "low sex drive" but "low sex drive for the partner" including for the reasons mentioned above. Just as often the case with men than it is with women, and for just as many reasons. - The madonna-whore complex is real. There is a significant number of w…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/25 11:38 AM
39	How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text? Pick up the phone, and talk to her the old fashioned way. Depending on intimate history, don't just keep the talk sexual. Mix in a bit of romance and de-escalation. Make sure that she has a happy ending, but leave her wanting more. Voice tonality is crucial, and if it's a video call, body language.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 09:06 PM
68	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? That's a pretty good list. That said, I think many of the comments here are trying to reason or explain (and in some cases, blame) - which IMO is often a flawed approach. Experiences in the last few months: Preppy 30's wife, on holiday from out of town - met at art exhibit, flirted at various points in the evening, and made out when walking out from the event. Am surprised when she whips out a picture of her husband & three kids back home to show me. I say "We should definitely stop", but we con…	/r/seduction	14/03/25 08:01 PM
2	How do I make the first move on a guy? Wear the right outfit.	/r/seduction	05/03/25 10:53 AM
1	Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women? These are good points. A charismatic, fun man only need offer his attention and time, but she'll need to "buy" it from him. they will probably get shitty about pulling other women right in front of them. Depends on how you make jealousy undertones play out. As often as men fall into the scarcity mindset trap, it tends to entrap women much much more.	/r/seduction	20/09/24 02:06 PM
2	Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women? As you sow,so shall ye reap. If your circle is filled with paid for "karaoke girls", you'll mostly attract other karaoke girls. If you shell out for table service with club chix, you'll be surrounded by clubbers expecting the bloke to pay for the table. First figure out what your type is (and their natural habitat), and chances are you might not need a loaded wallet. You are better off passport bro’ing doing this in CR or the DR would be more fun. 100%. The planet is one giant playground, and a …	/r/seduction	20/09/24 01:47 PM
3	The two "secret" questions to have a lot of threesomes Keep in mind that with MFM, it's often the case that you don't even need to pose the question, and if both the M's are equally adept at game, the escalation to sex can happen much more quickly and effortlessly than with typical one-one dates. As much as many guys have a fantasy of a FMF, almost as many girls have a fantasy these days of a MFM even if many won't verbally admit to it (but love it when "it just happened that one time") The frame however, is typically casual flirting or initial stag…	/r/seduction	11/09/24 10:06 PM
14	The two "secret" questions to have a lot of threesomes Vaguely recollect that passage, though if memory serves me right, it also pointed out the significant odds against success if at least one of the girls is not already in a relationship with you, and you haven't done the adequate groundwork with her prior (the other girl needs groundwork too, but not nearly as much). Having said that, just a couple of weeks ago had a 4-handed full body massage with two girls who happened to be close friends with each other but hadn't been sexually intimate with e…	/r/seduction	11/09/24 09:37 PM
2	Talking to girls on vacation vs talking to girls in my own city Almost all the other comments this thread have pointed out that you've likely chained yourself to self-limiting beliefs even though you seem reluctant to buy into it. Like almost all of the other commenters, can also attest to knowing men of all types, sizes, ages and personalities run good game and be successful both at home and on holiday. Would suggest working on your inner game first before trying to pin the blame on outer game factors. And if you encounter a woman that screams and jumps bac…	/r/seduction	11/09/24 09:24 PM
1	Not liking second dates. How to solve this? What you describe is not an unusual trait. Have categorized SNL on the first date or encounter into three mindsets (broadly speaking) that women have towards intimacy and sexuality on the first date assuming other elements of game (incl. mutual attraction, value, comfort/trust, qualification,logistics, etc.) have been accomplished perfectly: Type 1: Sex/Intimacy is "my power over the guy", and needs to be kept stricttly controlled. (Typically their mental maps rationalize this with their logic t…	/r/seduction	11/09/24 09:07 PM
1	Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a review What’s the easy lay ability vs safety. Like my safety Would suggest a wing for almost all countries in Latam for both reasons. Preferably a local, but the odds of you finding a local taking a gringo under his wing to babysit is exceedingly low. Someone traveling with you and experienced with game, preferably in spanish/portuguese, is the next best option.	/r/seduction	06/09/24 05:53 AM
3	Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a review I was deciding on Buenos Aires or Medellin for my first trip to LATAM (I'm British), but you've given me more options. Keep in mind that both towns are filled with gringos fueled by tales of easydates and a player lifestyle. The reality of game and relationships with locals can vary significantly depending on both the city, and your luck with who you meet and the ground reality at the time. TL;DR - LATAM is easy mode, but some places are easier than others. As most folk will realize, you cannot …	/r/seduction	06/09/24 05:46 AM
2	An interesting experience I had This situation is extremely common, and experience will enable categorization of the patterns. Roughly half of these scenarios can be toxic or might become toxic over time. Yeah, I'm staying away. Your coworker will be having sex with someone besides her husband soon, if she isin't already. It's not clear from your post whether it is, or could turn, toxic. Given that it is someone you will see everyday, there are many hazards, but further context is necessary to know for certain. I'll find other…	/r/seduction	06/09/24 05:23 AM