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She's not comfortable. That's it. Instead of looking for a counter find out why you're getting that statement in the first place. You should be leading with the 'getting to know' small talk; "What have you been up to lately?" "Really, I always wanted to do x..." You have to build a little comfort online, first, not be too sexually forward and always push for the meet.
/r/seduction25/01/25 09:34 PM
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I have an Instagram and I'm not very active (last post to my feed was 2020), however, I have had at least 7 girls in the past year opened, cold, from my stories. I've also DM'ed girls first and those girls later came to say 'hi' when they saw me IRL. I will admit I came to the thread looking for actual tips on posting engaging content, pictures, etc as outside is getting expensive and very repetitive (same cliques and same girls). We're all here to learn and not everything would be applicable to…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/22 11:51 AM
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The caricature alpha you have in your head is loud, primal, multiple women-type of alpha male. You can be quiet and still set boundaries of the women and people around you. You can be a 'Regular Joe' and still offer a sense of security to your friends and family. You can never go to clubs and bars and still be the most exciting and fun person your peer group knows. You can be exclusive, and your partner doesn't feel like they got a loser nobody wants.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/22 10:50 AM
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Not all advice has to be relevant to you. Part of the reason why that advice is out there is because a lot of people coming to the community never been with a girl before and get caught up on the first one, obsessively, at the first sign of attention. Also, when you're starting something new you will fail. Volume is just a way to get lots of practice. You don't need to spin plates. You can make a genuine connection with just one girl.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:41 AM
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If you're referencing old school pick-up it's: Money, self explanatory Leader of men, having a good social circle of friends, being a boss figure, able to lead a conversation, etc. Pre-selection, being seen with women or known to have women.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:27 AM
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This was my sticking point for a while, I believe the hesitation comes from not wanting to do something that seems "creepy" or the obvious... fear of rejection. Here's what helped me improve. Hugging. Always hug the girl when you meet up (full body two handed hug). It sounds, simple, but I wasn't doing it. Once you start hugging girls at the beginning of dates/meet-up any touching after just feels regular and not forced. Get her (and you) comfortable with touching each early on instead of trying…
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:14 AM
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From first hand experience, not condoning the behavior, you pick up a woman in a relationship just as you would do normally but some discretion would be in play. It's better to illustrate with a brief scenario: You approach or meet a girl and start talking. It reaches the point where you ask for her number, however, she mentions she has a boyfriend/husband -- but gives you anyway. You text/call her regularly, never acknowledging her SO or being too sexually upfront but she should have no doubt i…
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:45 AM
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This is dumb if you date models or girls getting actual sponsored for this.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:04 PM
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That crossed my mind. This could just be a play for attention to see if she "still got it" to keep a guys attention, other than her man. Aside from the minimal time investment there is no real drawback. If I fuck we both win.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:03 PM
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It's the plan. The engagement threw me off. I wrote this down for two reasons; one to critically look at the situation and two to get some different point of views or an angle I'm not even considering. I'm acting like I didn't even see it.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:15 PM
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After me telling her that we exchanged numbers, and we spoke for a little bit. I texted her teasingly "that I was bad for her" she said "once it's not all bad" I said "like 95%". This is along a 8 day timeline. I didn't go sexual right away until the day 2 meet up. Instead I teased her like that and avoided too much fluff via text. One day she randomly text about having a clone she could send out to do stuff and she'll feel everything that it did. It's stupid but I play off that. I sometimes tel…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:10 PM
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Did you get that "endorsed contributor" badge to just flex or do you actually contribute to the conversations on here?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:23 PM
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Nah. That's not it. The initial approach was direct. I told her upfront I was into her. On the day two, even though brief, there was escalation to makeout -- which was the furthest I could have taken it at that time, logistically. Maybe I can't "text to keep attraction" but I definitely use it to stay sexual.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:57 PM
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Nothing stands out as being bad, however, assume that she's having conversation with others then this one isn't really going anywhere. Biographical type questions can be saved for later or reworded so they sound less like an interview. You both been to [x-place]. Capture her interest so she'd want to continue the conversation; "When I left [x-place] I said I'd never go back", as an example. That would more likely open up a fun conversation that someone would like to partake.
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:34 PM
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Why exactly are you trying to minimize contact? The first couple days/months at the beginning of the relationship are the best and it won't always be like this. So if you enjoy talking to her then... TALK to her. Don't overthink it. She's shown you her cards; she's interested. If you like her don't make her feel dumb that she's chasing you. This advice is valid when there has been no sex and no escalating things forward, on the guys part, and just mundane texting back and forth -- so you become …
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:09 PM
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Being in experienced (not just sexually), whether you told her or not, could have been where you dropped the ball --If you're looking for an answer. I must commend you for not being needy and showing your willingness to walk away. Always trust your gut. Edit: really proud of this post, good job OP.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:01 PM
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Stop trying to frame it as wanting to come over. Instead pick a weekend or day that you're both off and say "let's spend the day together." if you can cook tell her you can cook for her too. Have other activities other than just being at her place the entire day ; come to her place she gets ready you guys leave, spend the day together and go back to her place, spend some more time and escalate to fucking. Girls know why you want to come over however they don't want it to be their fault you had s…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:01 PM
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I was in the same boat as you, i.e. above average looking, have a lot of SMV shit like being the face of a popular night club, but I wasn't getting results as I know I should. Here are my top tips that made me improve. As a man your role is to take action. It's all on you to move things forward. This includes approaching! I'm still working on my cold approaches, but once you approach this game is fucking easy but it has to be you. Girls shoot their shot by existing, they don't do shit. Have a st…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 07:38 PM
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Bro, check your diet. You're doing something wrong if you don't have energy to be active for at least 12 hours in the day.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:57 AM
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Don't overthink it. In future drop threads like this immediately. No politics, religion, etc. They do nothing for attraction and/or emotional connection.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:32 AM
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I think you're correct on your assumption of it being ASD. She might think you just want to finish where you left off and that's ONLY what's on your mind. It's just like having a ONS girls automatically think "this is what he sees me as" and they start wondering if they're perceived as 'easy'. You have to re-frame the interaction. Setup a day 2 but don't make it about late night drinks/clubbing. Make it "we're spending the day together" and on that day 2 you do just that. Do two to three venues/…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:25 AM
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What you suspected was the right answer. Just acknowledge them as you'd do old classmates.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:21 PM
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Yes. Sometimes you have an image of someone that you've built up then they open their mouths and you realize they're not remotely close to what you envisioned.
/r/seduction15/07/19 07:15 PM
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Completely agree. I've always had issues with sexual agressive girls similar to OP. The answer I've found to work consistently is taking the lead as you're suggesting. Girls will shoot their shot, and when they do its your turn to take over confidently.
/r/seduction15/07/19 07:01 PM
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Sorry you're not that short. All the stuff you're saying here doesn't make sense. There is essential information which is being omitted to frame this story. People like Tyler or Luke (RSD) is getting laid out here.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 11:58 PM
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What you're saying is actually experience and internalization that's happening. Remember when you had to learn to drive, learned a new sport, skill or even a game? You're so focused on that task and improving it almost seems like it will always be that way; how could you use your turn signal, brake, check your blind-spots in such a short time? Now it's on auto pilot, you could drive 10 miles completely zoned out. It doesn't mean the lessons you learned was useless. It was all part of the journey…
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:56 PM
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Can confirm the files are legit, with SD or HD and mp3 versions of each course. Whether or not it's good content or just another circle jerk remained to be seen.
/r/seduction12/06/19 07:59 PM
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I know a lot of "rats". I've been doing game for years and still some of these guys go home with girls on nights when I don't because even after all this time I get into my head; I'll think to myself that I'm way above approaching these girls. I have everything! Meanwhile "Rats" are putting in the work. Even when you've gotten to the point where your social circle is handing you pussy never drop the core game. You still have to put in work, always.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 07:39 PM
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Trust your gut. You know it doesn't feel right. The guy is investing his time because he wants to hit, your girl is investing her time because she is interested. It's black and white like that sometimes. People don't spend 8 hours together unless they like each other's company or they're getting paid to.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:55 PM
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It is ridiculous. I remember at one point I brought a baseball cap, nothing special -- just a regular black baseball cap. I went out to join some friends and the new ones who knew me for less than six or so month didn't care, the old ones started laughing and making comments of who I looked like etc. I just kept wearing it and now they've 'accepted it'. You will need to go through a similar process anytime you make a change and you have old friends lying around. It's just how it is sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:59 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. You can't be too subtle because at some point a girl might think you're not interested. If we've been talking for a while or been out together I like saying "You know I'm really into you, right?". That usually does the trick of conveying my interesting without being too 'vulnerable'. To girls that I've just met and been vibing with for an hour or so I love saying "Do you want to hear a secret?", they come closer, I path their hair and I kiss them on the ear. It's di…
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:40 AM
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I'm more intelligent than most of the people I encounter I was waiting for this line in your initial post and scroll just because I knew it was coming. Here's a tip. Get rid of that mindset because it comes through every time you interact with someone. I could have tell you felt that way through text, so I imagine your body language and the way you speak to people being even worst. You may not see it but people can, I guarantee this! If you're trying to get better or can't pin point your stickin…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:07 PM
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Social proof works when women see other women ATTRACTED to you. If you're just sitting with them and you're not a sexual option then you're just 'one of the gals'. That's not social proof.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:50 PM
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Your name is going to get called and you're going to be involved. Just be aware of that.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:44 PM
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This is an extreme example but it's a lesson I learned myself; when you hesitate on meeting a girl you risk the chance of loosing -- usually to someone else. Most girls don't stay single and looking very long, don't loose your chance.
/r/seduction23/08/17 01:45 AM
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That's the trick! That's the mindset to make you take women "off the pedestal" (I really hate that phrase/saying but it's relevant here. What's experience gives you is that generally women have nothing really to offer, I really enjoy the company of girls -- I think they're amazing, but relationship-wise you get to realize that generally they're basically doing the same thing following the same patterns but they just have different faces.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 02:43 PM
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Here's a pro-tip guys. Once you've begun dating/fucking a woman start dropping lil' sound-bites like "I just wanted to take you right on the spot when I saw you in that dress, tonight" and once in a while do that, make plans to go somewhere and fuck her in her tight dress before you leave the house.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 02:22 PM
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What is your game plan to getting her back to your place? I usually say something along the lines of "you have to meet my dog" or "I'm going to go home, smoke the hookah and watch a movie, come keep me company". I've never failed at it but I'll admit sometimes I do freeze up. Any other tips?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:26 PM
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For those just starting out on dirty talk in the bed room "Tell me to fuck you harder." is a great start. There are somethings I believe you can say that'll be taken as going too far -- however, we're all grown and should have an idea how to calibrate.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:34 PM
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If you're looking for further reading "The Red Queen" is a great follow-up on this topic. A general guideline to know when a girl is ovulating is her wearing red, ie: red dress, very red lipstick (if they don't usually do) or just generally more revealing clothing than usual. If you're in an LTR and you see these signs be extra dominant to her in this stage. Ravage sex, biting her lips, grabbing her neck when kissing, etc. This isn't a fool proof plan to stop your girl from cheating but it's bet…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:03 PM
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A lot of this fear comes down to not knowing what to say. I'm not saying go out and get openers or pick up lines but sometimes just a "hi" would suffice. In my case "hi" with "I don't think I've met you yet" as the follow up works. It's simple, nuetral, and non threatening. It's always on the tip of my tongue whenever I'm in any social situation. This is how I solve my fear of approaching. Edited to explain further. I understand that "hi" by itself leaves you standing there with your dick in you…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:44 AM
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women don’t know anything except how to be passive receivers of men’s advances Yes, always be leading the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:05 AM
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So you guys are just out here raw dogging? I barely want to do that with my past LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 10:42 PM
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A lot of times when you're new at something and getting a lot of information you tend to want to verbalize it. Back in the PUA days this was rule number one; don't verbalize interactions, it doesn't show you're smart, all it does is show you're socially incompetent as a socially-competent person would not do that.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:36 AM
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Join the army.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:49 AM
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Tell her you noted her feelings and totally get what she's trying to say, but let's take things slow and see how it goes. In regards to the other guy, have her know it's cool if she wants to see him and if they get serious and that affects your relationship then that's fine hopefully you can still be friends. That is if you don't want to plate or be in a relationship with her. However, if you genuinely like this girl and not coming from a place of neediness, i.e. you don't want the next guy to h…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:42 PM
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Yes. Always games being played.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:32 AM
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Recently acquired a new plate; she's doesn't go clubbing at all, she very pretty, hardly wears make up, very smart (is actually a chemist for a brewery) and overall totally LTR material. I actually have a LTR-CRUSH on her! What's the catch? She's has a "boyfriend" new guy she's dating. The reason I brought this up is guys will assume that if you played a slow game and waited 3 dates or 3 months for intimacy it means the girl is worth it. A girl will give the appearance of who she thinks you want…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/ta15bv3Vojc?t=18s Step by step.
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:00 AM
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I think we're getting a bit out of hand, here. If someone doesn't pick-up on a call or answer immediately on a text then all bets are off 'delete-contact'? Really? People are busy doing life. Think about how many times your mom called in the past and missed you because you were busy doing shit. You weren't doing dread game on your mom, you weren't playing phone games you just missed the call because something else was happening. Be reasonable.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:30 AM
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Haha. What? She's never even been there. Her mom is mixed so she has some Indian in her. I mentioned "Indian or something" because she told me a little about herself...
/r/seduction03/08/16 12:45 PM
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Yes. I wouldn't use this if I didn't believe some attraction was there (however I will try with new girls). If you haven't been through the stages with a girl she can shut you down (just like she would normally, just indirectly) with something like "maybe she's not into you" or "maybe she has a boyfriend". However there is still a lot of information to be had from any response that will give you an indication of her interest. If she responds "idk" then you're most likely not even on her radar an…
/r/seduction03/08/16 06:11 AM
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The rest of the conversation with the promo girl. You can follow-up with a take-away or just being playful. Screenshot.
/r/seduction03/08/16 01:48 AM
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I'm doing a quick reply from my phone so bare with me if my points are concise. In my experience these girls have 0 consequences. I've seen this played out from start to finish many many times. I work at a night club for 6 years, we have a big turn over of 18-25 year olds and these girls hook up all the time with customers, staff and dudes they meet in day to day life. There was this one girl in particular that is a over the top example of this scenario; She'd fuck you in the bathroom, was const…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 10:23 PM
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"I like the way you carry yourself".
/r/seduction28/06/16 03:46 AM
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Foreplay, and fingering first. If it still hurts try a different position.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 03:19 AM
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Have you ever ran into an old friend and automatically you reverted to behaving like you did back then? That's the issue. It's not that people don't change they just get accustom to treating you or behaving a certain way that's why the advice usually giving for these type of situations is GET NEW FRIENDS.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 02:32 AM
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To put it in relationship terms you can pick up little behavioral changes, subtle changes -- but changes in the behavior of people you're around often. Example; Your LTR might kiss you off to work every morning but that last time was just a little too quick or less sincere. Seemingly she did it the same way like she normally does but something just felt off. That's your gut. Your co-workers seem different today, they all said "good morning" like they normally do, but their eye contact is brief o…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 02:20 AM
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Once you've fucked a girl, let her constantly know how bad you are for her and watch her keep coming back.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 06:26 PM
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When a woman is attracted to you you can do/say basically anything. Beta behavior is not set in stone; it's about the way it's framed. I can reply to a "wyd?" text with "just home jacking off" to a girl that is attracted to me and get a whitty/flirty response. In contrast a low SMV person doing this will come off as a creep or 'why is he so weird?'. From time to time I'll send/say to girls "Just woke up and you're all that's on my mind. Wow!" or "I just realized you're really important to me" or…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 06:16 PM
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This community has a scorn for pick-up culture but a lot of the issues I've seen here can be applied from things figured out by these guys in 2004. But I digress. Sticking Point 1 - Group Interrupts. Solution: Become Part of the Group. If you're gaming a girl and her friends interrupt you must join the group by simply saying "Introduce me to your friends" or directly going up to each one and doing it yourself -- the first one is more powerful. Next, since you're all cool, you say something along…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 05:13 PM
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Have your boy talk to her. Message him now. Girls know girls; she may not have a best friend, but I'm sure she's made friends/aquaintances where she's at. Let him know the truth; you want to come because you'd like to get out of the house -- you don't mind hanging out with them but there's somethings you'd be left out of. You don't want to be standing round bored. Ask does she know anyone that she can bring and make it clear you're not trying to make a date (which is awkward pressure on both of …
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:46 AM
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"You'll go only if she brings a friend, too." If that happens then as soon as you see the friend make sure you get introduced by one of them the ice will be broken almost immediately. It doesn't have to be a pick-up; you don't have to close or escalate this girl but you have the possibility of doing any of those things. Worst case scenario you get a friend out of it.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:26 AM
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/u/projectself "Cheater's Script" also can give you some really good insight on your situation.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:16 AM
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I strongly suggest reading the 6 stages for breaking up by /u/JackGetsIt. It will cue you in on behaviors, you may have missed, that are red-flags and have a clear understanding of how to proceed. I genuinely believe you'll come to a better conclusion after reading than any of us can give you with the tidbit of information you shared.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:59 PM
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Because my tattoos which are easily identifiable I won't post pictures from this account as I'd like to keep it anonymous. I'd say I'm around 7% body fat, I'm naturally really skinny. The program/work-out routine I follow is Jeff Seid's work-out which is the look I'm going for. *Scroll down to "Training". If you try to make things too complicated you'll hesitate to start. Save the Training routine as a pdf and keep it on your phone; if you can't super-set then don't but stick to the work-outs. F…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:12 AM
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Girls will down right objectify you IRL when you're shredded. A couple of days ago my trainer wanted to see my progress for competition (beach body category). A Zumba class was just starting in the room we were in. I had my shirt off when the women walked in and I felt like a million bucks. Girls were straight up whistling and giggling -- there were audible WOWs and OH MYs. What a great fucking feeling. Get fit. On an unrelated note. One weird interaction came from this that was a bit confusing;…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:44 AM
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Here's some advice. Open up notepad and ask yourself what is your end-game with this girl and list them, i.e.; LTR One Night Stand Petty Revenge FB/Plate Then you'll have a clearer understanding of the path to take. There are a few times I did this and concluded that I don't even like the girl -- sometimes your ego will push you to do it just because we could. Your time is valuable don't waste it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:14 AM
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Part of this confusion comes from the meme; hit the gym, lawyer up, delete Facebook. "Delete Facebook" is meant to be; "stop wasting time online, your life is falling apart -- get up and get your shit together!". If you're killing it on Facebook or other social media then continue. Girls liking your pictures or commenting 😍😍😍 IS dread game, in itself. There is nothing wrong with being on social media if it exposes you to new or gives potential options a means to interact with you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:25 AM
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I remember the day when I reclaimed my life after a 5 year LTR. I laid on my bed and had the biggest shit eating grin on my face; "I have a 19 year old, she's absolutely gorgeous and wants nothing to do but fuck and leave nude selfies on my phone". That was my first plate.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:51 AM
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Worst thing to do is call her out OP. Don't send a long text rant, don't loose your frame. I know this was some hours ago but a text rant WILL NOT get you closer to getting laid with this girl, she already showed she's not interested. Being salty would not help. How to move forward? Do not initiate conversations, do not block on social media, just have her fade out. If she hits you up, don't reply let her know you read it, though.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:38 AM
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I really just conform to his ways to make him happy, I don’t even know if I’am myself anymore. About you, then about him. I’ll be working out, being pretty, and making myself the girl you wanted me to be... *A woman would do anything for the man she's currently more attracted to. Thanks for sharing this information OP. I will say that the handful of girls I've had an affair with dub me 'bestie' or variation of that at some point, even though I haven't really done anything to get that title. Anyo…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:32 PM
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If you do use "It'll cost you every-time you touch" or any variation of that you will get more (playful) touching. For pretty ones; use the line get more touching, smile, keep-frame and open like you USUALLY would if you'd like to continue the conversation. For ugly ones: look in their direction, smile then continue doing what you were doing. You're not being rude, you're just not interested. Groups are tricky, because they'll objectify the fuck out of you. The trick is to keep frame, if there i…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 02:57 PM
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I said NOT more than, it doesn't mean you should do 3. Just not exceed it. An example of how a 3 day stay might happen is Friday night, Saturday, Sunday, i.e. she spent the weekend with you.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:24 AM
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Keep her in "plate-land" by not having her stay-over more than 3 days a week. You must insist or convey that she doesn't leave things behind. *Eg: convey you don't want her leaving a toothbrush by having cheap disposables which she can use (this also conveys that you're catering for other people as well -- explained below). Keep her attracted by doing "boyfriend" things. Boyfriend things can be a simple text in the morning "GM, baby girl. Have a good day today", some phone talk-time during the w…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:43 PM
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Be as wild as you want but don't be racist. It will attract a lot of negative attention/judgement and by default it conveys poor social awareness, which translates to "he doesn't get out much". Sure "IDGAF" but it's not about you, it's about respecting people. Respect will go a long way in the long run, don't start stupid.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:22 PM
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The 'ownership presence' starts when you enter the room. You must first SMILE. Get in the habit of smiling when you've enter a venue, pass through a door or just go into the next room, smile like you have good news for everyone, smile like you own the place! ... Proximity is real. I think most of us are aware of it on a gut level but we're too scared to make the approach. You wonder whether to go direct or indirect then you get into your head and rationalize that maybe it's just by coincidence s…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:52 PM
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I have a co-worker that is shacked up with a girl from the Philippines. I've never been there but I know, based on culture, that these women are very submissive. However, like any woman, they will fill in the gap left by the man. Often times I'll catch her giving him the stink-eye when he speaks up. She even flown in her child which I doubt he knew about in their initial courtship. I was trying to get them to take over my lease at one point and walked in on a conversation they were having; she w…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:53 PM
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The most infuriating thing you can do with a woman after a break up is ignore her. If you don't hear from her you'll hear from her friends.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 04:21 AM
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Exactly as you describe. It always blows my mind how nonchalant a woman would go from saying I love you to her boyfriend, over the phone, while undressing in your bed-room. Makes you think how many times in the past you were on the receiving end.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 03:53 AM
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I was actually thinking about this just this morning. I've been in the game some time now and I still believe i have major work to do, but then I look and see girls who I've fucked/dated with just some regular dudes; pale, pot bellies, poorly groomed, etc. I'm not judging these men, I don't know them, but you can't help but ask yourself is it worth it -- all of this we're doing. Yesterday a girl said to me, "you seem to have me all figured out, I'm glad. I don't even have me figured out." And th…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 03:06 PM
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Gain happiness from within, not external things.
/r/MGTOW21/05/16 01:59 AM
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If you haven't fucked you shouldn't be texting too often because you run the risk of becoming a 'text-buddy', like you said. Why? It's hard to keep that burning I-want-to-fuck-him-attraction going when you're pinging back and forth for 12 hours, everyday for a week. You stale out. You also run the risk of getting to be 'just some guy I text sometime'. Get her on the phone, get her out, fuck hur. Once I've fucked I text her when the fuck I like; and the most mundane shit too.
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:43 AM
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As someone who've had affairs with multiple women and my current plate set is 2 committed women out of 3 plates I'd like to give some insight on the mindset of my two committed plates and some general observations from other casual encounters; *P.S. I love this sub, where else you can you open up about something like this! They are really into the guys they're dating/married to. It's not always 'out-of-love' senarios. My plate has a boyfriend with a boat! They go island hoping spontaneously. She…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 08:59 PM
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Nice direct approach. Stated your intentions straight of the bat and kept things comfortable. She basically says how well you doing when she started doing the breakdown of who you were. A+
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:51 PM
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Instead of asking if she has a boyfriend I usually say "Is there any reason I shouldn't chat you up right now?" before I transition into point 5. I give her the option to say it, otherwise I continue.
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:35 PM
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"Be what she WANTS, not what she needs." I said that the other day in a reply to another thread and came back to a bunch of down-votes. Thank you for further clarifying this mindset. A few years ago a car got you laid, now I see more females than males behind the wheel. They have money, they have apartments and all that. They don't need us for materialistic things, like that, anymore. ~ Dudes are trying to provide for her, make her lust for you. Don't just get shredded. Wear good fitted clothes.…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:56 AM
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Be what she WANTS, not what she needs.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 10:44 PM
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Can confirm, Mystery credited this to David D.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:07 AM
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Pay attention to her reaction with him texting first. Too many guys are playing phone games. Once you've hung out with a girl, the first thing you do the next morning is text her 'good morning it was fun hanging out/getting to know you', it doesn't need to be more than that. Stop playing the 3 wait phone game or waiting for her to text first, you're not giving up your power or making you look thirsty you're showing her that you're interested -- it's a small reward.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 12:08 AM
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This video demonstrates an old school seduction tactic that I've never seen mentioned here. This would get you solid and repeated lays and the best way I've found to keep stacking plates. Invite the girl out, but have her come up to your place for "only a sec -- don't worry nothing is going to happen my roommate is home" or "I just need to feed my dog before we go out". What this does is gets her familiar with your place. *Pro-tip; tell her leave (x-item) behind, she'll get it later. Do a solid …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:52 PM
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Keep the first point in the back of your mind and it will be so easy to approach. Most women think you have your shit together, because generally they don't. *Just don't say anything to ruin that.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 10:59 PM
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I still use Mystery's Question game. It still a very efficient way, from a cold approach, to get a girl asking outright "do you want to fuck?". There are guys doing everything on the alpha checklist and still not getting laid because a girl can would go from 100 to 0 because you didn't know what to say. A lot of us fail to realize that we internalized some of these principles or fucked up so much we learned a lot through trial and error (naturals), but there are a lot of guys out there who haven…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 07:57 PM
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Can confirm, I fucked a girl this weekend who was in the country for 3 days. We exchanged numbers got together and fucked again the last day she was there. She mentioned her boyfriend multiple times, to which I dodged the topic gracefully. But the most interesting part was she had "happy birthday, boo" accompanied by the some text as her what's app status.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:34 AM
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I know you posted this some hours ago, but can you break it down? Failing is one thing but we want to fail and analyze where we went wrong. You said "she didn't react nicely", do you think this was the way you approached? Did you fumbled your opener? What do you think you could have do better to get a better response?
/r/seduction31/01/16 02:43 AM
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Step 1: Be doing something, anyway. Don't make plans around a girl. If she flakes you'd still be doing what you were going to do. Forget making dates, you should be doing something and tell her she can come keep you company. Also, I know the majority of responses are she's playing you but her response can actually be a lack of comfort. Again, don't bring her into a high pressure situation as a dinner date. Start with something more casual.
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:06 PM
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This was an actual sticking point for me. Girls will gang-up on me, sexually or be way too sexually aggressive and I end up looking and feeling awkward. As a result it felt like they had the upper hand in the interaction, which they did. You need to re-frame the interaction. My go to line was; "Hey, I'm not a piece of meat, you need to wine me and dine me first". In your situation, I'd go with "are we going to continue flirting from a distance?" and transition into your routine.
/r/seduction17/01/16 03:08 AM
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