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| 5 | Red pill and attractiveness | Question For Men | intsel_bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Reason for debate | intsel_bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:11 PM | |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill? | intsel_bingo | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 08:13 AM |
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| 1 | Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex?I havent been in this sub for a while and now revisiting it - oh boy. It is worse that I thought if people are unironically saying "oh, making only you wait and not the previous nor future BF-s has nothing to do with you" :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Starting out as friends and then datingYes, and that experience can only come from the positive reinforcement good looks can give. I act alpha and get good results. A fat dude acts alpha and gets ridiculed for it let alone a short guy - then it is Napoleon complex :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Starting out as friends and then datingI know, it is all.about the looks boiii. But some people (men mostly) are under the illusion if they show their alpha side or their game quick enough then that saves them from.friend zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Starting out as friends and then dating"I’m gonna be honest with you the friend zone is totally real. I’d say a solid 90% of the time I know upon meeting whether I see you as a friend or dating, and it’s extremely hard to move out once that is made, but it’s definitely possible." Isnt this the opposite of friend zone though? Because I am under the impression is that friendzone is something you could fall into if you dont make your move fast enough. But deciding if there is some sexual attraction upon meeting is not far away form blac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:43 AM |
| -1 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.A lot of them are, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.BB are mostly cuckolds raising another mans children. Or even if she doesnt have children, she is probably used goods anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.Why would you want to raise another mans children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: How did the covid lockdowns / restrictions impact your love life and mental health?Oh okay, I get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How did the covid lockdowns / restrictions impact your love life and mental health?I am.not appealing, I dont care about that bureaucracy:D I am just asking you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.So, umm. This is what I said though. Introverted people tend to not like "party" situatuons which basically mean striking up random convos with random people pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.No, they like interesting people with who you can have interesting conversations with. Not someone who "tickles their senses" with some spontaneous and reckless behavior or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Why would some introverted guy want to date some wild party chick? Wouldnt they like some modest "waifu"-s or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:13 AM |
| 9 | Tall women, particularly those 5’7” or taller, here’s an interesting question.They dont get rejected but just not approached the same way as some hot Stacys are not. Men are just afraid of being rejected themselves. I have seen a lot of taller women require a man to be around 6'3 in height whereas with a shorter woman you can get away with being only 5'10-5'11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Men and women working together post-#MeToo movement – thoughts?How would that be harassment? Women usually dont report chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Men and women working together post-#MeToo movement – thoughts?What if they share a workplace but just do not interact (like no smalltalk etc, work.related talking is obviosly needed) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 5 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyThe statistics look nice though. Most men are in relationships, getting married in their 30s etc. This is what blue pillers press on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.I think traditional men are fine with a scenario where they bring in the money but woman a housewife. Or nontrad men want woman who is also working but those men are also willing to contribute in housework. But those "double standards" as you described are very common in women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | If hot guys it's fine for hot guys to settle on ugly girls for sex, then it should be fine for girls to settle on ugly guys for relationships.I think it is because ugly men lose in the settling scenario but ugly girls dont when hot guys are settling for them for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?So by getting someone over your league, then you are actually settling with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.I mean yeah, but why would she do that? Men are more prone to criminality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.How is it the same risk? Woman cant overpower a man as a general rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 8 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.How about the situations OP described? Womans "safety switch" kicks in when a situation is safe and it is disabled in a strange location with a masculine chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.There could be, yes. But most cases are quite clear cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 13 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.Do you believe all this "safety vetting" that women talk about is actually nonsense and they dont even do that? I tend to think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 08:40 AM |
| 9 | When is ‘confidence’ actually confidence and when is it arrogance or fake?It's all about the looks boiii. An asshole chad is a confident go-getter who knows what he wants. A confident not attractive man is too arrogant and cocky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 08:16 AM |
| 18 | Women assuming you're a creep or a pervert are completely valid and not the problem. We're terrorized by men all the time, so you have to earn our trustI love how weak nerdy harmless beta boys have to jump through loops to earn trust of a woman or otherwise he is a creep. But clearly agressive and dominant alpha chad can get to sleep with right away because he is not creepy. No building trust needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misogynist"? What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misandrist"?Yeah, that makes sense. It is a shame that men dont have a #notAllMen movement to debunk that nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 5 | What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misogynist"? What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misandrist"?The correlation is.obvious and logical. What is your experience then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that young men under 30 will begin seeing sex workers more often due to "The Stats"?200-300 is pretty brutal. Even with high american salaries, you cant afford that too much. Better investment than spending that on a date though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 07:31 AM |
| 5 | What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misogynist"? What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misandrist"?Rape and murder are so uncommon though. Why hate men for it? Seems ridiculous. I didnt ascribe to all women. To be fair, even most could be inaccurate (which I doubt) but it is certainly common enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that young men under 30 will begin seeing sex workers more often due to "The Stats"?50 euro is pretty good price, especially considering the high salaries germans earn. In Estonia 50 euro is where prices start and even that is usually after haggling. And we have over 2 times smaller salaries :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 10 | What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misogynist"? What are the typical reasons that lead someone to become a "misandrist"?Misogyny - men seeing how most women behave. The CC in 20s and "I dont want to party anymore" in 30s. Misandry - the apex fallacy. Women getting pump n dumped by masculine chads and then accusing all men for this behavior. Even though most men are not doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 11:11 PM |
| 19 | Do you think that young men under 30 will begin seeing sex workers more often due to "The Stats"?Having sex with a real woman is still different and more real than jerking off to porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that young men under 30 will begin seeing sex workers more often due to "The Stats"?Omg, where do you live then? :D hookers are quite expensive in most parts of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Escorts and porn is like using cheat codes in a video gameDepending on the game. If you are a chad then "playing the game" itself would also be enjoyable. Like some cool war game or GTA. But for average man, the process of getting a woman is as hard as those tedious 80s Nintendo games that AVGN reviews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Red pill and attractivenessYeah, I agree. Why is your tag RP feminist? What is that about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and attractivenessYeah, I agree. I personally find selling this "oh, improveve yourself, hold frame" rhetoric to 3/10 people quite harming because it is not working for them. It is, as you said, for the socially awkward average guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Red pill and attractivenessReally good that you brought up the halo effect. A lot of people dont acknowledge it but is the reasom why some people are seen as charismatic players when all they have is good looks pretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Yeah, I agree. But what do you think, are those men having ONS, turning it to FWB or relationship doing that because that is easier way to get (regular) sex or because they think it is better than having "regular" ONS-s. I am wondering because I think there could be some sour grapes men who pretend to be in group 1 - they can have some casual sex and say they dont want more. They would rather have a relationship. WITHOUT acknowledging or admitting that they are really in group 2 in which men thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?What do you think, how often is this "fair share"? Once a month? Once every couple months? Couple times a year? For a social being who is having casual sex only few times a year, that already seems like casual sex would be very difficult to get which means he would also be in the second group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?How do you know you are not a chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and attractivenessGood way to put it, I agree. Green are the Chads, Red are the sub-5 men but who are the yellow? Starting from a 5 in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Red pill and attractivenessHow did those women on the street who gave you their numbers notice your confidence? Isnt it about looks at that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Red pill and attractivenessExactly, I think that men who are self improving and still having bad results are even more "red pilled" about womens trur attractions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Really good take, surprising coming from a woman tbh. Social circles really are the key. Only thing I would take issue with is that you still have to be above average, starting from a 6 or so, to live that active lifestyle and get women. Men under that can sure be social but they are more like jesters there only entertaining people and making jokes. Very few women would actually want to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Okay, lets accept that. Now tell me why the first group doesnt understand the second? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Oh yeah, of course I would. I think everyone would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?First group is alpha chads and women. They are an attractive group. Second group is regular men. They are not attractive group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 10:56 AM |
| 0 | Do you feel pressure from society/family/friends to give "good guys" a chance?Seeking an attractive BF above all else is the dedinition of black pill, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 09:42 AM |
| 0 | What would a matriarchy be like?Women would just select men to do the difficult ruling just like they do now by electing masculine men leaders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 12:49 AM |
| 13 | Ironically, it’s men who have low opinions of short men and good men, not women.You can substitute Tinder with any online dating app. 5'4 with 5'6 and 6'4 with 6'2. Results will be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 22 | Ironically, it’s men who have low opinions of short men and good men, not women.I really love those "scientific" studies that can be debunked by couple hours of catfishing on Tinder as a 5'4 and 6'4 man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Low n count for women is like 5 which is actually still a lot compared to beta men who were problably virgins or had only one previous GF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?No, I dont think it will change. These are the settle down beta buxx. Women in their youth have fun with big n count masculine chad bulls but settle down with low n count betas and then gaslight us about that is what they really want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 7 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Does anyone believe those "no, I dont care" answers in a world where male virginity is stigmatized and made fun of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Oh yeah, sorry, I will reply to automod :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Do you regret not living the life script?It is way harder in later years and it will not be the same. Pure young love is something he will never have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?So, men cant comment? I didnt answer the question, I just commented | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceYeah, it can be seen that way. My bad I guess. I personally view it more as calling out a bad actor when I describe a case and I get some response that doest take my comment into account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceYou are delusional in a sense that think women have hard time finding someone in a context where they have hundreds of options. Talk for every guy couple hours to get to know him or something if that is really that hard to find someone. But as most men know, women will make close to zero effort contacting anyone, responding etc. So how can you explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceSo, why would you even want a relationship with someone who just wants to pump&dump? I was meaning that women can easily find good men with who they can live together happily etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:31 PM |
| 16 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceMake a Tinder account and see that is exactly the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 27 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceI think that hitting the wall means when women dont have the incredibly crazy upper hand in dating world. Like, they will always have better position but just in their 20s, they can get any chad they want, any relationship they want. But in 30s they have to settle for unattractive beta males. They dont have hundreds of men lining up for their attention. They have only few of them now. So it is not the mgtow red pill revenge fantasy of noone wants them. But their SMV definately takes a hit after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 10:56 AM |
| -1 | My Battle with the Red PillI think you can totally be partly red pilled and partly have your own ideology. A lot of red pilled stuff is just straight up true so no need to be in that exclusive community to discuss those truths. I think since you are only 20 then you need time to form your own world view. Check that couple after a year, are they still together? Who inituated the breakup and for what reason? Ofc you can do that with couples you know not random people on the street :) | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I always knew redpill was toxicIsnt red pill more "oh, just act alpha and cold approach women with your day game" rather than what you just told. If red pill really says what you described then props to it, I guess :) But yeah, it is very hard if not impossible. Probably the accusations are coming how you are shallow if you befriend women for ulterior motives of having romantic interest in them. At the same time you get suggestions of joining some hobby group where it is obvious that women dont want to get hit on so this "fri… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/21 06:54 AM |
| 7 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Yeah, I also think that but beta males dont have much options or that knowledge for most part. It is either starfish sex once a month or be an incel jerkoff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?This comment is so naive that it is actually adorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 17 | What goes through your mind when you see very mismatched couples? (hot person with ugly person)I have pretty much never saw those mismatched couples in real life. I think more common is hot girl and uglier man but in those cases, the man is always tall which can be even more attractive than good face to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:15 AM |
| 4 | How do women get over the conditioning that looks and youth are everything?Seems you have a lot going on :) I was just wondering why you dont plan to get married/have kids? I think it is because of lack of time and other things going on rather than being afraid to fall into the same tradwife pit your mother is in? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:00 AM |
| 3 | How do women get over the conditioning that looks and youth are everything?What brings you happiness in your life? Do you have any life goals? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 10:34 PM |
| -1 | How to prevent myself from getting sucked into the red pill, MGTOW?Well, what is the reason you are/might be attracted to them at the first place? Because they are anti women (it seems that you have a bad view of women because of those toxic FDS subs)? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what is the pink pill?Is it the FDS "only use men for their resources" red pill or is it know mens true nature kind of red pill? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Online dating/relationship forums are too radicalI actually get the radical incel part. In incels.co forum, they are talking about putting women into prisons for breeding etc. I personally follow wholesome incels like FaceandLMS and IWH sub here (which got shut down unfortunately). So I am biased of not thinking them.as radicals. TRP could turn you into a robot but unfortunately qfter swallowing the red pill, nothing is ever the same. So you cant avoid it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 01:10 AM |
| 18 | Having low standards doesn't make you any less shallow."preferences are not shallow" "men are shallow because they prefer young women" k bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Online dating/relationship forums are too radicalYeah, I agree that FDS is radical but lets leave that out of it. They are just bad people. But what is radical about incels and red pill? I didnt quite get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 12:51 AM |
| -1 | Why is this sub called exrepill when most of the commentators are women?That is a good point. One woman attacking me here told me that women dont like bad boy heartbreakers. Since she was giving me FDS (toxic subforum here) vibes I wanted to check it from her account. And what did I find, she has had her heart broken numerous times by bad boys in her youth and has been alone ever since. So she is the embodiment of what drives men to red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/21 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?I mean, yeah, sure. Everything is not so black and white. But in most cases, it is not husband cheating or beating the wife. It is just "growing apart". So, that was just the response of you saying "oh, what is the relevance of you saying that?" | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/21 01:58 AM |
| -2 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenWhat do you mean by that? Was it mother or father? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/21 01:40 AM |
| -4 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenI am on the fence. What are you doing here if you are a woman (havent ever been redpilled)? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 09:40 PM |
| -2 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?The one filing the divorce is the one responsible for the divorce | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 09:16 PM |
| -1 | Why is this sub called exrepill when most of the commentators are women?Yeah, I know. This is why people are not reverting back to it :) I first thought maybe it would be a black pilled sub but it isnt | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 02:00 PM |
| -1 | Why is this sub called exrepill when most of the commentators are women?Because there are not too many men who have swallowed the red pill and realized the truth to then revert back to bluepilled thinking | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 01:28 PM |
| -5 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenWhy would those men have no chance with hot girls? Is it because hot girls like hot guys? Is attraction based on the looks then? And I personally totally recognize the wholesome chads OP mentioned so I am not blinded. Nice and exciting. But when choice is between a loser bad boy and a nice guy, girls tend to choose the bad boy heartbreaker. I wonder why that is 🤔 | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 01:08 PM |
| -7 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenSo are you saying that (only) hot girls are attracted to bad boys? I am here to have good coversations about red pill. Some of it is true and some of it seems toxic. And I want to see different perspectives. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 11:57 AM |
| -11 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenSo, first of all, OP is only 20 years old. And during that time, most relationships I also witnessed were women with the bad boy heartbreakers. And I also heard the line "oh, you are so nice, you will definately find someone" etc from girls. And my mom told me to treat women well (she was a single mom with an abusive BF). That is another similarity I had with the OP. So, if you had those experiences, then being an entitled nice guy makes sense. I personally discovered the red pill (and the volde… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 11:18 AM |
| -4 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?If a man wants to be together with a woman forever and woman will be like "Oh, Brian, I feel like we have grown apart" then that is bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenA long post that is actually nice to read. Well done. It is exactly the reason for the "nice guy entitlement". How is this exredpill though not just redpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 09:45 AM |
| -3 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?Yes, it is. Women initiate divorce most times, they often are either not working or working for less money so they will win more in case of a 50/50 split. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomI dont know. Life is all about human relations in my opinion even though I am also an intoverted person. But I agree that if you want to go to MGTOW route then red pill is doing a good job opening your eyes about women true nature. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 05:25 AM |
| -6 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomI think once you swallowed the red pill, nothing is ever the same. Why would that beta boy want to be himself when he was loser? Now at least there is something going for him even though, he probably wants a nice blue pilled trad relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.So, in what enviromment would that be acceptable then? Clearly not work environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.Well, I dont know, how do relationships form then? Everyone is not just cold approaching. If you are together with someone for some amout of time, you feel comfortable with each other and you can move from there. Edit: together as in same school, work etc not together as couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This sub is full of people mistakenly universalizing their specific experiencesWhy are my universalings done "mistakenly" if it is gathered from years of personal experience with me and other people I have observed? How big "sample size" do I need for them to be valid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.I have never complained about not having enough friends if that is what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Yeah, I agree. So OP statement is even more stupid when she is comparing relstionships to friendships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 89 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.I think having a relationship is like having a super good friend. And I value that. But I dont care too much about random friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How many "options" do you personally have?I doubt that a landwhale looksmaxx would call her a landwhale. But if you are okay looking, good body, healthy lifestyle, then being with a landwhale would be settling for worse and I think those are the incels calling them landwhales | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:48 AM |
| 3 | How many "options" do you personally have?Do you think they go around calling them landwhales? And if I am struggling as an average man, I totally get how incels would get nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 3 | How many "options" do you personally have?The incel groups I ak familiar with (FaceandLMS, 5'4, pygmy etc cant get even a burn victim landwhale). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 19 | How many "options" do you personally have?So much for femcels if a 2/10 can have sex within an hour and relationship within a week :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 2 | MRM AND violenceHow is this exredpill? Isnt noticing double standards in society a part of redpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingOkay, so if maturity is a bonus then the more you have it, the better it is. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?What do you mean? Are you really questioning if gay men have tons of sex? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Heh, I dont know. I have everything covered but I am still struggling. And so is 30% of young men. But it is easy to hide behind "I dont know you 100% so I cant even give general aswers" okay | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingYou still dont adress the fact why are women attracted to men couple years older in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Umm, okay. I didnt mean partership socialism, I meant that it would just make sense for everyone to have a partner because there is roughly the same amount of men and women. By advocating for loneliness for men and having robot waifus, you accept the 80/20 distribution where most women are attracted to top 20% of men :D | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Yes, I know that they have tons of sex and it is easy for them from personal experience. Relationship part I qlready adressed | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Why were you asking that then? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?What do you mean? I want to know that increase my chances not "do XYZ and you will 100% get it". It is not the same thing | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?What do you mean? That gay men are not having tons of sex? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?But why is it only affecting men though? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Well, you thought it was similar because to me saying "men want submissive wives " (the opposote of dominant) you answered "oh, they dont want confident wifes, really?" | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Gays have very different situation where sex is very easy for them but relationships super hard because a lot of men fucking them are closeted gays or BI sexual. And their society would disown them if they came out. The solution would be everyone having a partner because there is roughly 50/50 gender spilt. Having a pet robot for company is just sad coping | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Yes, even the Chad here I was talking with liked more submissive women. It is true. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?What does the economy have to do with it? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?How is that ignorant? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?I dont want "do XYZ to get GF automatically" answer. I just want some guidelines what to do to get a GF answer. What are the steps that could get me a GF | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Yeah, I got that thing covered long ago :) I had Chad friends in HS and later who told me that advice and I tried it. The difference is that an average guy needs a bit more oomph to his game in addition to just being a well dressed good talker to get results as Chad does. And this is how red pill has helped me (a bit). And this is why I find red pill sympathetic to me even though a lot of it is BS | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?If even nerdy shy guys get laid, then why are there so many incels/virgins? 30% of young men claim to be sexless in last year (older study from 2019 or so dont blaim corona lockdown) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Well, our life experiences are very different then and I am not /cant be convinced that easily if all I have seen in life are some patterns. But again, you cant be convinced of patterns if your life experiences are different | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Yes, but there is still a big share of those men preferring submissive women. I would say it is 50/50 or even more tilted towards. So you cant claim that it is just a people thing when women prefer dominant men. I like CRP, he is funny and winning in life if he, as a average looking man in his 50s, is having a hot slavic GF. I am personally more black pilled but I see value in red pill as well (because, me as an average looking man, will not just give up on women). | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?I agree with both but regarding partners, I know a lot of men (including myself) really want a more shy and introverted girl. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Damn, coming from the blue pilled mindset of "women like nice guys who gives them flowers" then even that is something I had to learn from red pill :D But I generally agree, yes :) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Most women that I have talked to and most women whos lives I have observed (what kind of BF-s they have, who they have rejected etc). I am in my late 20s but I have talked with women from late teens to early 60s. And I didnt change the rule, I just specified it. I felt that I didnt have to caveat it with "most" or "there are exceptions" when talking about what women tend to like in a friendly conversation | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?Men are not I think. A lot of them want a nice submissive wife. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?There are clear trends though what women like. You make it seem as it is all in some equal spectrum. That some women like masculine jocks, some women like nerdy shy guys etc. When in reality, pretty much noone likes nerdy shy guys | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?How is that different from the red pill? :D Or are these the good aspects of the red pill? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?They just want some answers I imagine. Not "oh, it depends, everyone is different" etc | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Gay people are having tons of sex. It is really easy for them. And having relationships is still important. It is like having friends. Very hard to live without friends. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?I mean what most women tend to like. Confidence, assertiveness, dominance etc | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?What are the different answers then? Or are there no answers? I think just thinking there are no answers (and therefore, no hope) will not attract redpill refugees tbh | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?So, are you saying those men are just lucky who have many women? Or it is some combination of traits? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?What most women want then. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill or black pill?Yes, we are talking about the west. I didnt say it is womens fault. But it just is a fact that men have it worse and less choice. And if you have little choice, your options are limited and choosing a bad partner is more understandable. Yes, this is why MGTOW movement is good. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 11:57 AM |
| -3 | Blue pill or black pill?What is the secret to success to dating then? How some men can have casual sex easily and other men havent even kissed a girl in their late 20s? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?I like the way you put it, red pills red pill :) But as it seems me to, you are saying that red pill holds a lot of truth. It is just with some things they are going overboard. Am I correct? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 10:33 AM |
| -3 | Blue pill or black pill?Well, it is in mans nature to think with peepee sometimes a little too much and we all acknowledge it. So I hope we can also talk about womans nature. Women are in position of power when choosing a partner. Men are not really choosing anything. They try to find someone and settle for the first woman that likes them back. But women have choice and therefore, making bad decisions is o them more. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingYes, a few years older but still older. So there is definately attraction to older men. So I find it weird if 5 years older man is masculine and tough but 10 years older is saggy and wrinkled all of a sudden :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:02 AM |
| -2 | Blue pill or black pill?Oh okay, I get it then. Hmm... Or at least your point because I kinda disagree a bit. I think one of those 2 has to be correct still. If women like the nice guy with flowers then women are good. If they would rather be with a pump&dump badboy then they are bad. So where does "they are just humans" fit here? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 09:49 AM |
| -6 | Blue pill or black pill?But what pill to swallow then? The black pill? These men need some other home after leaving the red pill | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 09:17 AM |
| -5 | Blue pill or black pill?Well, I dont see how red and blue pill can be wrong at the same time tbh | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill or black pill?You cant throw female nature out the window unless you are blue pilled. Pretty much everyone agrees that women like dominant, confident, extroverted men. Some more, some less. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 09:16 AM |
| -1 | WHAT IS AN ALTERNATIVE?Be a proud black piller boiii | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingWomen have plenty of options in the west. So why most of them date men few years older rather than their age or few years younger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingSo, why do women date men few years older than them rather than few years younger? And even you are the proof that women date men 10 years older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingIt is a hard one because red pillers wont acknowledge it "hey, they are just gold diggers" and black pillers wont acknowledge it "oh, they are just good looking" But god dammit, all things equal, the older man will have benefit over the younger one. So I dont know what pill it is but it is true. The truth pill :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingLook what women do not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Women Liking Older Men Has Little to do With Gold DiggingIf you are good looking, then sure :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What are your standards?For me, she doesnt have to be even warm but I want body to be still flexible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature"."Tinder is not real life" meme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Why, it is pretty legit advice. Noone wants to be lonely :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 24 | What are your standards?"Men only want stacys" Meanwhile reading the comments: "I want her to have a pulse" :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have more admiration for the guy failing college going into min-wage job but has a lot of casual sex, or a guy with educational and career success who's only had one or two LTRs? Which guy would you rather be?So, basically, alpha fucks and beta bucks. And most people here choose to be betas. The state of PPD :D Obviously nr 1 is correct. Having fun in your youth, not worrying about your life, chilling and having no regrets when you are older. This is the life, man. One more thing. For this example I didnt consider it, but in real life, chad would get a good job from his frat friends who probably have dads in good positions. Social connections are everything in job market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success.Well, the blue pilled teachings of "it is all about your personality" have taught men that looks are not so important. So ofc it would be surprising then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Probably both, there is dominance aspect but why not have other humuliating things without sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Heh, good point :D I have no idea I believe that women only want masculine chads but general population doesnt seem to understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 11:58 AM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Yeah bro, just look at porn videos and romance movies and see how ugly men van have pretty girls. You are so delusional but hey, this is blue pilled perspective for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | What is the future relationship between men and women?In europe, it is legal and men still get married and have relationships. Men dont want transactions for sex mostly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 0 | What is the future relationship between men and women?No, not necessarily. Men want human contact. Prisoners raping each other are often straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Yeah, I get it. It is just that a lot of men think women want them (because men want women). And there is a myth circling around that women want sex as much or even more than men which is also a lie.this is where this perspective comes from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?That was OP-s statement but I tend to agree with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?We are worrying about state of society here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Good point, but I still think that the more women enter casual sex market, the more they choose masculine chads not random normie long term FWB-s. Maybe women would think it is okay to include top 30% of men instead of top 20 though. That I could agree on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 7 | What is the future relationship between men and women?I dont know man, some sissy boys can be pretty good ;) But if you prefer loneliness then who am I to judge :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:40 PM |
| 8 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Give it some time. After years of no physical touch, you would want a tranny to suck you off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 23 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Casual sex has been losing its stigma for decades but men are having less and less sex. Women want only top 20% of masculine alphas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Even now a lot of straight men are having gay sex because they cant women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.It is funny how women have a firm brake pedal when denying sex to a beta provider but when a masculine chad "raped" them then it is "oh, women have been conditioned to pleasure the man and it is hard to deny sex to someone stronger" etc :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesMy Last comment got lost I think. Anyway, yes, we agree that it is 30%. And women can have sex with attractive chads all they want. Just framing men who dont have sex in college as "some freakin weirdos" doesnt seem accurate since it is 30% :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesIt is like 30% of men though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesIt is not but someone who is 6/10, height makes all the difference. Short 6 would get little but a tall one would be slayer with same looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Percentage of women and men having sex in colleges"Only 30% of men are not having sex" Pretty big number for "only" :D And I think there is other 30-40% having sex once a month or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesYes, they should organize their own sausage parties :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:09 PM |
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