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invadingpolandin69/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:57 AM
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I'll start off with the rational male, the side bar is a bit daunting to be honest with so much information.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:51 PM
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One thing that i can extrapolate from what you said was, you have to be the champ and continue being so, in order to retain and attract present or possible prospects. Moment you slip, and there she goes. AND moms are the best.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:48 PM
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Get new ones, discard damaged ones, got it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:38 PM
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I've already deleted and blocked her from all accounts. That rule is so on point.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:32 PM
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And she made one out of me.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:28 PM
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I messed up initially by not setting boundaries and going with the flow. Though I'm happy I'm out of the constant anxiety that used to loom atop my head while being in relationship, i sometimes wish i should've taken this step sooner. But better late than never. It hurts and it will keep hurting me more if i continue trying to run behind her. Stopping, breathing, and reassessing my priorities might just do the trick.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:27 PM
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How can she not care after all that we've been through. I was with her the entire time when her parents were having problems in their marital life, helped her write her post grad thesis, created a healthy environment for her and her sister to mend their relationship. And after all this, I'd still have to move on, as she doesn't owe me anything for all this.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:21 PM
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How do I filter though, in the initial days of a relationship, every girl behaves and acts in a way that'll put oscar winners to shame. Do i wait, till she starts acting up or are there othet kinds of filtration techniques that could help me from the get go with someone.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:10 PM
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Deleted. Blocked. This woman has ceased to exist for me, i don't care if I have to write it down a million times on a piece of paper, but I'll bolt this fact in my head, that we're done.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:06 PM
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How do you propose, one maintain that level of attraction then, one could only work on themselves but how to keep the other party constantly interested in you.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:00 PM
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I was young and stupid back when it was happening, didn't enforce boundaries properly and in a way let her chip me away piece by piece. This doesn't mean that I'm not young and stupid now, it's just that I'll be more vigilant towards this gling forward.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:55 PM
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Thank you for your words, I'll start working on myself
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:04 PM
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Dude, it was my first relationship, and it was a net positive if i remove the last few months
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:03 PM
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I am my only true LTR, not my family, not my friends coz all of them won't be there with me at all points in my life, nicely put.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:02 PM
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Will just take it as a learning lesson then but man does it hurt.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:00 PM
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I'm not entirely sure, but maybe i want her because she's familiar, you could call it codependency. I do read books, will start gling out more once the pandemic subsides.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:59 PM
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No contact from my side
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:57 PM
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All of them have a vagina, i want someone with a bit of brains to someone with whom I can have mentally stimulating thought provoking conversations with. But i get your point, eyes up for something better.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:56 PM
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Things weren't good from quite some time atleast from my perspective. Honestly it dragged for so long so maybe i didn't have the guts to end it sooner.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:54 PM
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Let's say for arguments sake that she was indeed cheating, why the fuck did she not break up then.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:53 PM
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Can't even remember when wad the last time I gamed, feels like she neutered my balls or something during the entire relationship,slowly and steadily molding me the way she wanted and then getting bored with her own creation. Will have to rewire myself or just factory restore everything.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:52 PM
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That is true, but it's not gonna be easy replacing her. What if i become a judgemental asshole who starts comparing every nrw chick with her. I don't wanna be that kind of person
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:49 PM
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I guess I'll just concentrate on me now. Thanks though
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:48 PM
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One month aftet the break up, she did say, that let's just focus on ourselves and our careers for now and we'll see after two years. As for the suggestions, I'll do all 6 of them, not all at once but I'd definitely try to do as many of them as possible. And NO CALLING. Thank you
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:47 PM
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There were times even befote when i wanted to walk away but didn't, i guess 5 months ago, she mama'd her last mia and i was done. I'm just trying to take it one breath at a time, smaller time frame so much easier for me.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:44 PM
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How is me contavying her validating her reasons.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:43 PM
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Whenever I think back, I'm only able to remember our good times, it's like somehow the bad times weren't even there. I also feel that maybe it's so hard because of the sunk cost, i literally spent 1/3rd of my life with her. As for fucking one girl for one month ,she's the only woman that I've ever fucked. I got many opportunities during college parties but always declined. I guess few of those gurls only eanted to have sex with me coz they knew i was in a LTR and wanted to see if I'd cheat.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:42 PM
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I WILL NOT CALL HER , i think I'll start drawing again. Have a doubt though, what if she calls me, do i talk to her do i disconnect. Coz blocking seems a bit extreme and honestly a bit childish
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:37 PM
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Since i don't have any solid proof and probably never will, I'm gonna give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she just lost interest in me. I'm a firm believer of the idea that all the problems can be solved by communicating, she just stopped. I'm a fairly confident guy, never had problem in striking or carrying a conversation with anyone and have a decent face. I have a job that doesn't totally suck plus pays good and i actually like my colleagues. Despite all this ever since we broke up, …
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:35 PM
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It was a bit shocking for sure, it somehow seemed like, she had already thought of what i was about to say, or maybe she had already mentally checked herself out.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:24 PM
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I was a track athlete when we started dating and used to practice judo, was a pretty lean guy, i wanted to put on some muscles, but she told me she likes me the way i am and she hates muscular guys (turns out she doesn't), her attraction towards me obviously dropped and i could feel that as well, but whenever I used to ask her about this, she always said, it's all good.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:22 PM
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We are a group of close friends, and cutting off with the really close mutual friend's is something I'll never do, just coz we broke up doesn't mean i betray my friendship with others, I'll go no contact with her.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:19 PM
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Probably, what's worse is I'll never know for sure.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:17 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:51 PM
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What kind of fuck wittery is this. This is why we need basic financial education in our country, and boy do I wish I had some land over there
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/20 01:13 PM
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Wait, go back, who's selling land and getting rich overnight?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/20 09:42 AM
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I have heard pretty insane stories in the country that I live, one should never underestimate how low someone can stoop. I'll tell you a story, so a girl (nobody likes her) in my housing society accused the security guard of attempting to rape her, when the only thing he did was refuse to bring her cigarettes. So yeah, I stand by my point of not risking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:06 AM
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Coz even if they are, they don't wanna risk the possibility of being called a creep or having a case against them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:41 AM
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They will however have the opportunity to create a scene and defame you in that moment, though it's unlikely that a sane person would do it, but still wouldn't risk it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:35 AM
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Thank you keywest, very cool
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/20 02:20 AM
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The difference is, when women say "i don't need a man" but they still do, they say it when it's convenient for them and when they need shit done, they ask men to do it. MGTOW on the other hand doesn't say that they don't need a woman, they tried having relationships or whatever and didn't like what they were getting out of it compared to how much they were investing in it. I personally am not a MGTOW, not yet atleast but i respect their personal choice and honestly speaking, some of them do look…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:55 AM
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mind explaining it a bit more
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:55 PM
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whoever is reading this, you're an amazing piece of shit, keep on keeping on and hope you drown in pussy for the rest of your life
/r/MensRights12/07/19 04:46 PM
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Generalizing an entire gender is bad, but it also depends on the person, on how they cope with things, or how do they want to protect themselves. I don't fully agree with all of their ideologies, i've been cheated on before but i know that everyone is different, it depends on their moral compass, how were they raised, what was the environment they were raised in, blah blah blah and thus not hate every woman i meet. That said, i also respect their choice of trying to avoid women as much as possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:54 PM
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From what I've noticed in a week or two lurking in that subreddit is that, most of them have had bad experiences with women and have given up on the notion that any woman has the potential to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:29 AM
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i second the second advice
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:21 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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