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| 18 | How did you get over your approach anxiety? | ip_g_chodder | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 10:29 PM | |
| 2 | What is Vulnerability? | ip_g_chodder | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:20 AM |
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| 1 | It’s not about youTHis is just an excuse to be a shitty person. I’m ugly af, like literally I will walk around my city for two years and a girl won’t even smile at me. But if I start talking them up I can sometimes form a connection. You’re either not trying hard enough or your methodology is wrong. All your comments sound like you’ve given up but that doesn’t change how the world actually operates. Ugly dudes been getting their dicks wet for millennia, it’s why you exist | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | The Real Toxin is HERYes, exactly. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/11/20 11:35 PM |
| -9 | The Real Toxin is HERThey're not, this is an outlier | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/11/20 11:43 AM |
| -14 | The Real Toxin is HERWhat's so wrong about wanting your date to be above a certain height? Everyone has things they're attracted to | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/11/20 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To ItIt used to be. now it's full of dudes who aren't even trying and giving up in the comment sections. Why are these dudes even here if they're just going to moan about women? That defeats the entire purpose of this sub | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Completely ignoredThat one's good. I also like when they roll their eyes and just shrug | /r/seduction | 09/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I got seducedhe ran the knife across my body and then tossed it aside and that’s when I knew I was his The start of a healthy relationship | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | F28 seeking constructive adviceThe answer is yes, I'd love it and I think a lot of other guys would too. However, you should do it because you want to, not because you're afraid of losing him. If you start doing things because you think he's losing interest in you then you're not being true to yourself, which will manifest itself in your relationship. Initiate because you want to, because you're not afraid of his reaction. If he comes over to your place or invites you over, he already wants sex and you might as well get the e… | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | F28 seeking constructive adviceWell mechanically the guy has to do most of the work anyways unless he's already hard and you're both naked. The only time I've had a girly truly fully initiate is when she pulled the car over and unzipped my pants and just started sucking me off. It didn't lead to sex at that moment but I was pretty freaking satisfied. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | If I’m outcome independent, why would I be approaching her in the first place? I clearly have a desired outcome if I’m hitting on a girl.I think your paradox is a result of having the wrong definition for outcome independence. Outcome independent mindset doesn't mean you don't care about the consequences of an action, it means the consequence does not affect your psyche. Otherwise why drink water or eat food, the outcome of starving to death is inconsequential. You approach a girl because you're interested, but if she says no your psyche is fine because you know another girl will say yes. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | F28 seeking constructive adviceGuys go through their whole lives initiating sex. The most a girl does is make a suggestion or position herself in a way to make it obvious she wants it, but never actually does the initiating. So when a girl does do it, it's incredibly sexy and it might even be a fantasy. If you two haven't had sex yet, though, he might be lacking confidence himself. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 12:47 PM |
| 5 | If you're nervous to approach certain girls are those the ones you should approach the most?He means being open and being vulnerable. Your balls are valuable yet incredibly prone to damage, and just hanging there outside of the body. Carrying your balls means you're not afraid to get hurt. Fortune favors the bold. Take a chance regardless of the outcomes. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Younger womenI'm in my mid 30s and I've dated girls 20-31 in the past year or so. It's tough to connect with someone in their early 20s, you can have fun but the emotional maturity is just too vast. Some might think you're a "creep", but there's plenty of girls that age that are attracted to older men. You just need to decide what you actually want, because there's some things you just won't get from a college aged chick. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How bad is infidelity?If she is unwilling to go to therapy it seems she's unwilling to address the problems in your marriage. You'll have to be the one to make the tough decisions and move things forward | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Indirect Game Vs Direct Game (Infield)Man I would have definitely picked red shirt over her friend, good work being direct tho, huge time saver | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Approaching a girl at the gymYou definitely missed your "best" chance since she was ready for you to talk to her. Now she might be thinking you're not interested or something so she might not be as emotionally invested in an approach. You still have nothing to lose tho, so might as well talk to her at a different opportunity. As far as "what" to talk about I'm not sure I can be much help. I usually try to learn about the girl and I'm less interested in micro elements like her workout routine and stuff. The share a machine i… | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 11 | Approaching a girl at the gymSounds like she was giving you clear signals to approach. "How" to approach without making it awkward isn't the right question to ask. Just introduce yourself, it doesn't matter if it's awkward. If you follow a script where you're saying XYZ then it's not genuine, which is even worse. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Found a girl but I feel like I can do betterWhy did you even commit to her then? Seems like you're using her. | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 7 | How do you over come whisky dick?Stop jerking off so much | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | How to meet and hookup with girls during quarantine?Nature trails and the gym are the only two places people aren't wearing masks around here. Also if you can do some volunteer work (Covid related or not) you can meet girls through that | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym?That's not what I'm saying. A girl telling you bluntly that she's not interested is not her being rude, it's her being honest. I added the caveat that that level of honesty is something you rarely even get from people you know | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym?Saying no I don't want your number is not rude at all. Most people would kill for that level of honesty from people they already know deeply | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Women like when you have hoesI'm not sure how that's disagreeing with me | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | If you're naturally shy how do you pick up women?If you suffer from anxiety have you tried therapy? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Women like when you have hoesWhen it rains it pours. Just gotta get one first | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Women like when you have hoesLying is for the insecure who are afraid of the truth. Why start a potential relationship off with lies? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Women like when you have hoesThere is no need to talk to multiple people at a time. Time is a valuable commodity. If you date ten girls at once and end up with the one you like it's more efficient than x amount of girls in sequence. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 13 | I performed my first Cold Approach and it was a success!So I was at the store (btw I put a cork in my dick and haven't cum in weeks) and they're out of mascara. This is some Hemingway level writing | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 12:20 PM |
| 3 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?It's not included. Football games are incredibly taxing physically which is why you only play one a week. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 12:01 PM |
| 7 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?you just proved to your team that you aren't able to make the shot Hard disagree. There's a reason NBA, MLB, NHL, etc playoff games aren't best of 1s. You're not going to make every shot because no one is perfect, but you can be "able" to make most of them because you're damn good or even great. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 11:12 AM |
| 2 | This isn’t for meI'm early 30s with a great job and in great shape. I was pretty much a fat bum when I was 21. Now I'm dating girls in their 20s so you really have no excuse. | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | How to not be needyIt's so easy for 20-something girls to be non-needy because they have tons of options Most of those options suck tho, which is why perfectly normal and attractive women are needy themselves | /r/seduction | 15/07/20 09:32 AM |
| 4 | Saved by the bellSorry this is bullshit. This is the same thing as saying all white people are racist because they don't denounce the KKK. When really they were just never involved with each other in the first place so why even dignify it with attention. | /r/seduction | 15/07/20 09:24 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone ever “Let you Know?”I wouldn't bank on it. In my experience if someone wants to hang out with you they'll make the time. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone ever “Let you Know?”I'd consider that rejection. If you bump into someone you vaguely know from high school and they're like "we should hang out!" and you respond, "yea I'll let you know", its obvious no hanging out will be done. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 02:16 PM |
| 15 | This sub in a nutshellGenetics don't overcome the laws of thermodynamics. Excess body weight can only be achieved from excessive eating | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Double standardsYou need me to prove the laws of thermodynamics? You provided a scientific study with no citations, am I supposed to assume what you're reading in that article? I'm not sure you even understand what burden of proof is conceptually. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Double standardsYour assumption of what my impression is is what is incorrect. I never made such a claim. Furthermore I'm not sure you read the study you linked. "Our study has revealed that rats fed human nutrient-poor foods develop severe metabolic syndrome" Perhaps you can tell me how that overcomes my argument? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Double standardsAnecdotal evidence doesn't overcome the laws of thermodynamics. Your calorie intake is lower than your calorie expedenture despite what you think you're eating | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Double standardsAnecdotal evidence doesn't overcome the laws of thermodynamics. A variance of 200 calories in your sister's diet, everyday, would be enough to move her to a surplus of energy and it adds up over time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/20 02:52 PM |
| 14 | Double standardsIt's actually your comment that's the misconception. Physics doesnt care about your genetics. Your body turns food into energy. If you eat too much and make energy you dont burn off then your body stores it as fat. Fat weighs something due to gravity. You have complete control over how much you weigh based on how much you eat and how much you burn. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Buzzfeed Women go day gaming"Sup" | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 04:50 PM |
| 15 | He has a very special nameProbably going to have to leave your basement for that one | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/12/19 03:03 AM |
| 14 | He has a very special nameThere are plenty of normal respectable women out there. This is far from standard | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/12/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Swallow this.That's what I would tell people if I went to anime conventions too | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:06 AM |
| 0 | What if men go on a sex strike?The claim that close to 99% of healthcare is done by nurses is a claim that would require substantive evidence, which is why I said that. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | What if men go on a sex strike?Personal experience as a paramedic for the past 20 years. That's called anecdote. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Lying and seductionLying is a method, that comes from weakness, to avoid confrontation. The bold will tell the truth and face the harsher repercussions. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 06:10 PM |
| 15 | "I don't think you would hook up with girls if you were single"Maybe he wants to fuck you | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 01:00 PM |
| 4 | I have a girl coming over to a party I am hosting. I know she has the intention to fuck me. How do I close the deal?Get her alone as much as possible throughout the evening, but not so much it's weird for all others who are at your place. Make out with her when possible, don't drink too much. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Nobody Owes You AnythingEven if you did explicitly agree on something you are still not owed anything. People renege and go back on their word constantly, the only thing you can truly trust in is yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Girls love athletes, so even if you're not killing it right now you'll have plenty of opportunities when you're playing for a college (I'm guessing that's what you mean by D1 and D2). You're here because you care too much, I'm sure you already know that. You're invested in how other people perceive you, which is why you're overvaluing looks and critiquing yourself. Personal investment will get you over that. Learning a new musical instrument, a new language, or getting involved with something li… | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:55 PM |
| 14 | Did I emasculate myself by cleaning up after a party?Let me guess, you over analyze everything? | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 06:16 PM |
| 3 | I like my instructor - She close to my age (28)After a lesson I'd just ask her out, maybe to something quick like a drink or coffee. No need for mind games. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Possible As A Woman To Give Feedback When A Guy Approaches You?A lot (maybe even most) people are not open to criticism, especially on something they're probably already insecure about. Definitely just politely decline their advances and move on, most of the time guys know what they did wrong anyways if they're already introspective, which means whatever advice you give them would just be redundant. | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 05:56 PM |
| 5 | What is wrong with my body?go see a doctor, perhaps a neurologist | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 03:50 PM |
| 7 | [OC] My Dating Success over 7 Months (Tinder, Bumble, & Real Life)So did you bang your Ex's sister or what | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Tinder TechniqueI deserve a fair chance, like everyone. No one deserves anything. You only acquire what you've individually attained. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 01:38 PM |
| 10 | “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?”so you actually do have an answer for it | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Weird, unique experience I have - I have ZERO problems making eye contact, but women AVOID eye contact with meI could tell you you're not ugly but you've heard it before and it really doesn't matter since you've already convinced yourself you are. That being said, hot chicks bang and date ugly guys ALL THE TIME. Looks matter but only if you literally have nothing else going for yourself. Pursue your passions in life and you'll be a more interesting person and girls eat that shit up. And keep smiling like you do in the first pic, it's disarming enough if you maintain it. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | how/where to hang outgo to a coffee shop and get tea | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl i see around but have never talked to followed me on insta, how should i approach her?Put yourself in her shoes. There's this cute guy at the gym you've been eye fucking for months but he hasn't made a move. You stalk the hell out of this guy to the point you find his instagram and you make the first move (Even though it's a safe-as-fuck move) and follow his account. You pray to the vagina gods that he picks up the hint and finally talks to you. Now she's at the gym. Here's the cute guy again, I'll just work out and hopefully he mans up and talks to me. Oh shit he's coming up and… | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl i see around but have never talked to followed me on insta, how should i approach her?Why is it hard*? | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl i see around but have never talked to followed me on insta, how should i approach her?Walk up to her and say "Hi", it's only awkward if you're awkward. And even if you're awkward she might like you anyways | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How important is social statusHot girls have dated losers since I've been alive so there's always hope for you, bro. Or you could stop being a loser. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 02:52 PM |
| 5 | 23 almost 24 and still a virgin (in fact I've never even gone on a date before, I know it's pretty pathetic). Need some advice on steps I can take to improve my situation.Girls are status chasers Close-mindedness is very unattractive. You don't seem experienced enough in the happenings of this planet to jump to such concrete conclusions. Everyone's different, there's plenty of girls dating shy quiet guys. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 06:12 PM |
| 7 | 23 almost 24 and still a virgin (in fact I've never even gone on a date before, I know it's pretty pathetic). Need some advice on steps I can take to improve my situation.You probably don't know enough about them to jump to that conclusion. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | 23 almost 24 and still a virgin (in fact I've never even gone on a date before, I know it's pretty pathetic). Need some advice on steps I can take to improve my situation.Once you've demonstrated value it's easier to maintain it. If you're seen around with a different girl every week then other girls already see you as valuable. If you're always by yourself and slouching and being an introvert then you have no demonstrated value and have nothing to currently maintain. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 06:05 PM |
| 14 | 23 almost 24 and still a virgin (in fact I've never even gone on a date before, I know it's pretty pathetic). Need some advice on steps I can take to improve my situation.Once you get that body and you realize women don't give a shit what you look like if you're an insecure weirdo then you can take steps to resolving your personality issues. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What real feminism isYou well and truly believe that in countries like the US, NOBODY in any position of authority thinks a woman's job is to be secondary to a man? Or do you think that isn't a bad thing? So the thoughts that people have in their heads are what feminism needs to fight? One can easily point to the freaking President of the US who has had a well documented history of womanizing, sexual assault, and essentially swapping out wives for a younger, more attractive woman when he gets tired of his current wi… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/18 02:33 PM |
| 9 | If a random girl online asks a guy out, should the guy pay for just his food/drinks, or hers too?I feel like since I do not know this girl very well and we are basically just meeting in person after briefly bullshitting on some app that I should not pay for hers. There ya go | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How is there still the expectation that men approach, when unwanted advances these days are 'sexual harassment'?Online dating is a joke. I went three months without a single match on both tinder and bumble. But I'll go out to the bar and chat up a girl and take her home that night. Look at all this shit you're saying: It just don't receive the signals a lot of dudes do Women don't find me sexually attractive dude vast difference in how I'm treated compared to more normal, even average looking dudes) Women have almost zero sexual attraction to me Should I kinda 'know my place', so to speak as a low-quality… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Being physically attractive but having no confidence/game is the absolute worst.You can fix your personality. You can't fix your face. Don't know if you have it "the absolute worst" but you're def a good victim. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Girl not responding to text after dateIt was clear she didn't want me to make any moves as she put a pillow between us. Nigga I would move a brick wall for some action wtf about a pillow | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Severe mood swingsNo one on this sub is a therapist. Make an appointment with a psychologist because for serious issues you need to consult a professional. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | These girls have revealed to the general public what sedditors have long knownA person is more than just one tweet they send. Who among us has never said something stupid? | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 01:13 AM |
| 2 | 23M on Tinder - serious girls?My friend just married a girl he met off Tinder. So your answer is "yes". | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Are there any advantages to being a guy in the dating world that I'm just not seeing?The investment of sex being higher for women could be categorized as a social norm at this point in time but it stems from a biological investment. You got to be picky when you're going to bang a dude in his cave and then be pregnant with his offspring for 9 months then have to raise the little bastard for over a decade while dad is out hunting buffalo and doing more cave banging. Old habits die hard and we haven't been in this modern-industrial era for long (relatively). | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be confident in new or unknown situations?Being nervous is normal. You can be nervous when approaching a stranger, being in a new situation (as you are), or when faced with a difficult or dangerous circumstance. While being nervous you can trust in yourself (i.e., be confident) to handle the situation as it arises. The two are not analogous. The best way to have confidence in school or work is to excel. There's plenty of A students that are nervous about the next test, but most of them are confident that they have the abilities to pass … | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, I'm thinking of asking her again?Your definition of a 'hard no' and a girl's definition are different. In her eyes she already gave you a hard no. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Starting to sit with a girl and her friend during breaks at work.Just ask her out but make it explicit or implicit that it's just you two. Start with coffee if you haven't talked much. If you've talked much just straight up ask her out to dinner. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | 28 years old female virginquite happy othrewise So you admit you're not completely happy. What am I going to tell my therapist? "I can get laid". I don't really know how a therapist would help. Tell your therapist that you have a problem with intimacy, which it seems like you do. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 11:54 PM |
| 6 | I'm so insecure about my lack of relationships and experience that it sabotages me from getting anyShe brought up her exes and how theyre like the definitions of sucessful alpha guys (sleep with girls every weekend, silver tongued, rich) and it hit me hard. Every girl thinks this of every guy at the time of banging. Are there a bunch of perfect chiseled Chads out there? No. Most dudes are just normal and boring. You don't have to sleep with a thousand women to have one girl think you have. Just by being confident and successful with her and not telling either any lies or any truths about your… | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness in 5 stepsI'm also a fan of "silence or breaks in conversation allow you to reflect on how awesome you are" | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | 40[M] going through a major dry spell - what can I do???A few things I'm going to address separately but I think when taken as a whole they explain a dormant problem. It's not all bad....I just sometimes feel lost and regret throwing things away. Living in the past causes depression. Not only that, it builds negative expectations of the future. In order to live in the present, which equates to happiness since you have zero expectations of shit you want to occur, you should practice mindfulness. I suggest meditation. I'm not ugly...girls that are take… | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How can I deal with the fact that guys are intimidated by me?Even my new FWB, who is from India, thinks I’m sleeping with him only for his money and his engineering degree he’ll earn soon. Tell him if you wanted to sleep someone because of their money you wouldn't have chosen an engineer. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 2 | 23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any Situation"I wouldn't want to be in a guy anyways" | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | (M30) I lost my virginity at 27 with my ex we were together 2 and a half year and I haven't try to talk to another girl since she broke up with me almost a year agoThere's a bunch of inner game stuff in the sidebar. That is what you need to work on. Once you are self-validated and confident you'll have no problem saying whatever the fuck you want and people will love you for it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | ShynessRemove females from the face of the planet and there is no need for sex. Are you confident now? What do you spend your days doing? Can you hold a long conversation with men? Confidence comes from self validation/affirmation. If you already lead an interesting life and love what you do then perhaps you need to see a therapist. Just because one therapist sucks doesn't mean they all do. If you're in the US a psychologist is a specific type of therapist. You should pick a female psychologist and go … | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 01:37 PM |
| 6 | How to not be boring when you are actually not boring on paper?It sounds like you're trying to be the 'entertainer' in your conversations. You might be funny and the life of the party and all that shit, but if you don't relax and try to actually learn something about someone you're speaking with than you'll be spending more time in your head trying to "think of the next funny thing to say". Thats also a disingenuous way to hold a conversation. Tldr stop trying to entertain people | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 06:18 PM |
| 16 | Stop being scared, you might regret it one day (X-Post from r/GetMotivated)Yea, but imagine for a moment you're an 80 year old man. You're looking back at your life at all the moments you regret. Then all of a sudden, BOOM, you're back in those moments ready to relive them again. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Whale gets triggered over human kissing at restaurant, gets sent back to Pacific OceanThat's sexist that men can't be in that team. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/17 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Girls if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser.Bullying is a sign of insecurity. Perhaps you've adopted this persona to hide your own vulnerability. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/17 05:51 PM |
| 3 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guyYou'd be surprised the shit some chumps come up with for dates. I hear some really cringe-inducing shit from girls I'm with and platonic female friends, like guys bringing their friends during the middle of dates, of calling their parents, and other truly ridiculous shit. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How should you act around people you don't like?Honest. | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 02:48 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 18m here, I went to a street party and I met my mum's stupidly hot friend there, (45, total milf)I don't know where any seduction or 'game' took place at any part of this story. This older female was doting on you as you did nothing. As awesome as that is, doing nothing and getting the girl isn't seduction, it's just happenstance. | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Here's some of my Tinder conversations from the last couple daysCalling women sluts and judging them for being promiscuous is part of the reason why you're unattractive. | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Here's some of my Tinder conversations from the last couple daysI'm awful at texting and great in real life. It's annoying if I had to describe it. I get as many blocks on tinder as I do dates. | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 12:32 PM |
| 3 | How to get back into the game after a rough breakup?If you are dependent on cold approaches to establish who you are or be comfortable with yourself then there is an underlying issue you're not addressing. Why aren't you confident? Why are you always caring what people think? What's the worst opinion someone could have of you and why does that effect you? Answer those questions. If your endgame is a long-term, loving, and fruitful relationship (which it seems to be) then you need to be able to be a confident and independent man while in such a re… | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 25 years in field: Pickup in a plane with the girl next to meIt's because his entire persona is fake so you feel embarrassed for him. | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Every girl that I have dated successfully has told me the same two things...I don't think it's rude, I just never answer it because it drives them up the wall. | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Every girl that I have dated successfully has told me the same two things...I get "I hate you" and "how many girls have you slept with?" Hate in a good way tho. | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 04:40 PM |
| 3 | How to respond when girls escalate and then say things like "if you say so"?Why escalate over text when you can do it in person, where you can actually benefit from the results? | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | A Compilation of the Best Techniques to Overcome Approach AnxietyI got a buddy who's a natural with women. He'd chase a girl down if she's in a group of 10 with no fear. Always admired that. | /r/seduction | 20/03/16 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Where has this community gone from the beginning?I was at the bar once with this really attractive girl I hadn't banged yet. Some guy came up and started opening her with shit that reminded me of something I read in Strauss's book (some value displaying mental puzzle). When he finished with that she turned to me and said, "that was cool!" And tried it on me. Then i went home with her. I think the gimmicks and tricks are done because self-improvement and a strive for personal perfection is unmatchable. Come up with all the psychology you want b… | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 11:38 AM |
| 1 | "PUA" fucks random girl while browsing the web, sharing it with hundreds of guys. (video-link inside)If someone's caught on tape beating a child, who cares what the rest of their life consists of? | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Now dating an NFL cheerleaderTrue, tinder is barrenless for me (I won't even post statistics) but in person I'm on point. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Anywhere. I live in a big city with a lot of young professionals and there's no shortage of attractive women just walking to/from work or lunch or anything. Grocery stores and outdoors during the day would be where I'd most like to get comfortable with approaching. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Yea but I don't want to drink at noon on a Wednesday. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 11:29 AM |
| 2 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Definitely have this issue and I've been working on being more mindful at other times so I'll try to incorporate it in this. So you just hush that voice than head to her direction and it handles itself? | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 11:28 AM |
| 5 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Yea I'm pretty confident in my ability to build attraction, but I feel like cold approaches would not only open me up to a ridiculously larger amount of women but just help me improve as a person and reduce my general inhibitions. The club idea sounds perfect, sort of a median between cold and warm approaches. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34."fucked her for the next two hours" What? | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl I was a virgin. She walked out.I guess I just wasn't born a sex god like you | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 10:22 PM |
| 6 | My emotional state is largely governed by the people around meYou're outcomes dependent and.not very self-validated. This life improvement you're talking about might not be enough, or perhaps "in my spare time" isn't enough. Do you have some high-focus career that demands much of your attention? Are you taking care of a sick or incapacitated loved one? What external force are you using as an excuse not to devote more time to self improvement? | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl I was a virgin. She walked out.Dude, if anything, just tell the girl it's been a while. Your first time is gonna suck but who cares, this is about you and not her. If a girl likes you enough she'll put up with shitty sex for a few weeks and let you get some experience in anyways. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:06 PM |
| 12 | Reverse roles: Got one night standed by a chick. Didn't realize until I thought about it a few days later.This isn't seduction. This is just fucking a chick who already wants it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Old friend on FacebookMaybe make a comment based upon a recent picture? Like if she went on vacation or something? I don't really know, this is the type of situation where you just don't bother and go meet other chicks. | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 02:10 PM |
| 2 | The Female Orgasm: What Men Need To Know"Most places want something from you [to teach you about the female orgasm]. " Sign up below for Part II!" | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 01:48 PM |
| 14 | A Deep Look Into Why You Are Afraid of ApproachingI put the sensual in non-consensual. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 04:08 PM |
| 10 | Why you should be very careful of certain types of people in the "community".There are shitty people in all aspects of life. School, business, athletics, and every other fucking hobby on the planet, not just pick up. The quickest way to find out if you can trust someone is to trust them. | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:11 PM |
| 5 | so, i performed an experiment, with some unexpected results.."the next "contact", i was raped." ... What? | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 04:01 PM |
| 2 | From the “Other” Side – Could Pickup Arts Have Stopped Elliot Roger From His Rampage?Vagina doesn't cure crazy | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 08:11 PM |
| 0 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.Well of course, you can't take care of others until you've taken care of yourself. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.Because you're a generally good person and being the intelligent, healthy, and caring individual you are you help those around you no matter how fresh your relationship is with them. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 04:07 PM |
| 26 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.She's already attracted to you and she just lost someone she was in a relationship with and is obviously very emotional. So instead of coming to a forum based on slaying chicks why not just console her and be there for her and when she's ready she'll probably fuck your brains out. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 12:54 PM |
| 2 | The best opener I've ever heardI'd argue that perhaps the 'AFC losers' are not hung up on what was said and rather understand that how you say something is much more powerful. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 01:27 PM |
| 148 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?It's a handshake... usually it's the less autistic of the two that initiates it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 11:05 AM |
| 5 | 3 tips before you dieI just tell him a story. There are two bulls, a father bull and a son bull, on top of a hill overlooking a prairie full of cows. The son comes up to his father and says, "Dad, let's run down there and fuck one of those cows." The father bull looks to his son and says, "Son, let's walk down there and fuck them all." | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 02:10 PM |
| 38 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveFor the love of god don't just live with a girl to live with a girl. Treat her like you would a potential male roommate to make sure you both have similar living styles before you jump in and make an awful situation for all parties involved. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 04:46 PM |
| 3 | [FR] California GirlsThey'll melt your popsicle | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 06:53 PM |
| 11 | I like how she took the first step to the next levelI don't know what this has to do with seduction. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 03:11 PM |
| 20 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderWhat's classy to you? A nun locked up in a convent with a vagina drier than the Sahara? There's nothing wrong with a girl just in it for sex, she could turn around and throw on a business suit and manage a consulting company. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 01:47 PM |
| 16 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisWhat am I doing wrong? All they ever stare at is my bulge. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseAnyone ever take a seminar like this? Are they worth it? | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 02:51 AM |
| 43 | The art of persuasion in 59 Seconds.So I'll just offer to put a quarter of my penis in a girl, then I'll follow up with her later. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Could use some advice (oneitis)Keep going to therapy. Seduction doesn't solve everything. | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 12:35 PM |
| 13 | Tried to put what I've learned to work and blew it.The first time I approached a girl with the strict intention of hitting on her I stuttered, began sweating profusely, and said nothing noteworthy at all. I felt fucking great afterwards. | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 02:44 AM |
| 2 | A belief system we've ALL had that is holding YOU back!"I'm going to put my penis somewhere, but that location has yet to be decided." | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A Hack For Sex on The First DateNow I just got to get my roommates out of the house. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 04:35 AM |
| 15 | A Hack For Sex on The First DateI wouldn't pay for drinks if I met a chick at a bar, but if I invited her on a 'date', then yes I'm paying for all that shit. I don't see how being a gentleman or a "provider" is unattractive. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 04:35 AM |
| 4 | You Look Like A Guy Who Wants to Buy A Pretty Lady A DrinkI always just bought two drinks, chugged one, and walked away with the other. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/11 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Woman who has dated 15 millionaires admits she only wanted their money...and now she's teaching her 11-year-old daughter how to be a gold-diggerNot necessarily, some people just love money. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Woman who has dated 15 millionaires admits she only wanted their money...and now she's teaching her 11-year-old daughter how to be a gold-diggerThere's nothing wrong with this. I wouldn't date her, but some guys are lonely and desperate. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 09:51 PM |
| -3 | HB says "You're sexy", you say ....?i think i'll use this one | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How my life as a man was turned upside down by being raped.You're story definitely changed how I view this topic. Sickening to see the double standard here. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/11 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How my life as a man was turned upside down by being raped.Someone explain this to me. Is this real or is this our (men's) attempt to get back at women for all their false rape allegations? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/11 07:15 PM |
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