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I'm not sure about where you're at but where I live WhatsApp is the prevalent messaging app for day-to-day comms. WiFi with an IPad touch haha, what about a brand new smart phone with a 4G connection?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:21 AM
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Good to hear. If they ask why you aren't replying (from my experience plates will eventually ask you about this due to their hamster firing on all cylinders), I use one of the following responses: 1) Texting is not my thing 2) I'm old school, I prefer to talk in person 3) I opened your text on my way to a meeting and totally forgot you had texted me If you use 1 or 2, in my experience, they accept that's the way you are - I use these if a plate quizzes me on the subject more than once (which is …
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:26 AM
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On WhatsApp when a user has "read" a message sent to them it appears with blue ticks beside it to the sender, and so they know you have opened the message.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:19 AM
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Apples and oranges really. The effect is the same. I have last seen off, but blue ticks on.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:19 AM
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Only reply when you want to meet, even if there's a significant gap since they sent the message. I blue tick these messages and reply when I wanna hook up saying something like - "Great day (or week). Come over for drinks this Friday" or whatever. This always drives them crazy: 1) They start to think you've ghosted and are pleasanty surprised when you finally hit them back 2) They conclude you are not like 80-90% of guys who entertain their small talk and have fuck all to do but shoot shit 3) Th…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:43 PM
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My first thought...a huge over exaggeration
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:24 PM
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"Is your chat (or banter) as bang on as your intuition?"
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:37 PM
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"Can you keep a secret?" "yes" "I ask for online dating script advice from the manosphere and get real mad when the users skit on me, let's fuck"
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:22 PM
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Red Pill Reality: The thorough understanding of various principles which dictate intersexual dynamics with a crucial recognition that there are many aspects of these fundamental principles which are universal truths and cannot be manipulated/influenced while also being aware that there are certain elements of the male paradigm which are within our control and thus can be utilised to improve our standing within the gendernomics hierarchy. What is crucial to the reality is true and real outcome in…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:03 AM
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If you really want to give up it is very very easy. It is largely a mental habitual crutch and is much easier to kick than cigarettes, alcohol or any Class As. My biggest issue was sleep, I had severe sleep problems after giving up but noticed no other issues. I had tried to give up previously many many times (but was faking it!) so I struggled with sleep and anxiety issues in those previous cases due to the inner cognitive dissonance I was wrestling with (two cats fighting in my brain)!!
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:23 AM
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The anxiety was while high. But I was always high! Yep just stop man. It's not worth getting in a hole.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:15 AM
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I smoked weed heavily every day for 5 years (previous years were more mild but there was always a gradual increase in amounts at play) For the majority of that time I was high functioning and a socialite however as time went by my tolerance to it grew and thus my intake increased correspondingly and exponentially. At my worst I was smoking 7-10g per day. Eventually it took it's toll and I noticed increasing social anxiety and paranoia. It affects everyone differently but if you are ALREADY feeli…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:07 AM
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Drunken minds speak sober hearts. She's trying to keep you in check. She's being manipulative. It always comes out when they're drunk.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:27 PM
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The six pack and the flock of women you speak of are two convenient and enthusiastically welcomed by-products of the natural and inevitable results of the hard work which both creates and maintains the five percenter male. Of course, while a thorough understanding of intersexual dynamics is fundamental to a wholesome life it is merely but one aspect of TRP. TRP has to be multifaceted to be a catalyst in the creation of a five percenter.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:21 AM
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Early-mid thirties. However it is based on the hard work, learning and self-improvement foundation you have built in your twenties throughout various aspects of your life. Health, physical appearance, education, career, money, social status etc. Rome wasn't built in a day and neither is a five percenter male.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:04 PM
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Absolutely right. I wish you all the best.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:44 PM
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A very strong and objective perspective to take in an extremely subjectively harmful situation. Intelligent, cunning with just the right amount of spite. Nothing less than a snake deserves; scheme in the shadows until you are ready to let her suffer in the light of day. Much respect.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:38 PM
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The Red Pill isn't purporting to be THE universal truth. It is intending to be the optimal current understanding, from a masculine perspective, of intersexual dynamics in modern society based largely on evolutionary biology, psychology and gendernomics while also considering the modern environment in which the aforementioned disciplines currently operate. Fortunately for us, it works. It works in the sense that it enables men to focus on self improvement in a variety of facets while having a sob…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:55 PM
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Man, you need to do this face-to-face. I am giving you the optimal advice. Good luck :)
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:28 PM
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It's your choice. Nothing that is worth doing is easy to do. It will be in your benefit going forward to get some practical experience and approach her. Get over your fear now or it will become more and more difficult every time. As you get older this will make more sense to you. Listen to me. Wait until Monday and talk to her. You won't regret it!!
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:23 PM
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If you were truly "cocky as fuck" you wouldn't be trying to justify why it is ok for you to DM her. You would already be dating her. Look, you're young. You have a lot to learn. Start putting yourself in difficult/uncomfortable situations now, it will be to your benefit in the long term. Do what you want, but you know I'm right. I know you know I'm right because you wouldn't be trying to justify your self and hamster your way to DMing if you thought it was the alpha thing to do.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:15 PM
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Why post at all if you aren't going to listen to advice? If you can't approach a girl you're not a confident male. You're just another beta cowardly DMing her because you lack the balls to look her in the eyes and ask her out.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:01 PM
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If you want her to think you're a confident man who gets what he wants DO NOT DM HER. Grow a pair and approach her on Monday. DMs are for men who fear failure and need to hide behind their keyboard.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:44 PM
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Of course you can break a promise. Who said you can't? Where is your self-respect?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:23 PM
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If she suggests another date, wait for a day or two and reply with a location, time and day. No verbal foreplay or "how are you" bullshit. If she texts to talk or for anything other than a date she is trying to place you in orbit. I would just blue tick her and go no response in this case. BUT continue to be civil and smiley in person otherwise you will come across butthurt. Without saying it you are implicating you aren't bothered with her flakes and you have outcome independence (sidebar). You…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:35 PM
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Say hello, smile, be yourself. But no more investment or effort on your end in this gal's case. Keep it to a friendly greeting and that's it. Otherwise you become a permanent orbiter that she will not respect.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:02 PM
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Leave it there. If she is interested she will re-engage.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:58 AM
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You have to be submissive at the beginning as the new guy. Know your place and do not outshine your master. Slowly get a grip of the workplace interrelationships. Take your time, three years is pretty long in the corporate world nowadays. Be observant and identify people of influence in the hierarchy (they aren't just the managers). Befriend those of influence so that you can learn the operational side of the business quicker. In return be willing to help with their workload and do mundane tasks…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:40 AM
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I'm not entirely sure myself!
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:49 PM
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I respect privacy and expect other's to respect mine. I think a man needing to have access to his girl's phone is a man who is not in control, who is insecure and needs constant reassurance that his girl is being faithful. It is blue pill behaviour. What a turn off! On the other hand, a strong willed man who knows he is the prize does not need this reassurance or validation. Outcome independent, aware of his value and knows his worth. Much more attractive. It is dysfunctional for the reasons abo…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:47 PM
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It isn't about little things affecting me. It is about being aware of what I am willing or not willing to accept in my life or from those I choose to spend my life with. Being intolerant of deceit is neither emotional nor fearful. It is simply a standard that I believe we should have. This girl is engaging in deceitful behaviours, therefore eject and don't look back. What about this is oveely subjective and Emotional? Do you really think that ejecting from this relatioinship is rash when she is …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:39 PM
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You fail to realise that your conclusion that my advice is based upon fear of rejection/humiliation is an assumption itself. Knowing where your tolerance for certain behaviours begin and end is crucial. OPs example is one which I would not tolerate. i would not delete messages and make a bullshit excuse for it. Be honest or get out of my life. Life is too short for lying to hide insecurities or to hide the truth of a guilty mind. I genuinely do not believe a self respecting male would require a …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:19 PM
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You are trying to pool me together with a group I am not part of. At the end of the day I personally would not tolerate a girl doing this with me. I would not do this to someone else. I agree on the indifference part as a general observation. Ending a relationship because you won't tolerate a serious red flag does not equate to being disillusioned with the opposite sex. That is taking a huge jump. It is about having standards, knowing what they are and where your tolerance begins and ends. Fear …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:58 PM
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Please enlighten me as to how I do not understand what we are discussing on a conceptual level. I am all ears. If we can agree that she is indeed hiding something then you shouldn't even be coming at me with all of this. As aforementioned (which you failed to address in your previous reply) the reason is not so important. However, thee act and behaviour is crucial. Anyway, 80% chance she's taking someone else's dick, 20% chance she's talking to dudes while entertaining the idea of another dick. …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:45 PM
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It is impossible for you to know where my mentality comes from. It doesn't come from fear. It comes from logic and realism. If I shred sensitive documents on the basis I need to save space the likelihood is I'm hiding something. The excuse shes using is bullshit? How can you fail to see that? Do you disagree with this assertion? This isn't rocket science. My post said: Get the fuck out, this is a serious red flag. You believe further investigation is required like a hamstering beta male. It's in…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:41 PM
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You aren't certain. You have no clue. If you won't next a bitch until you find her with someone else's dick in her you don't respect yourself enough. It's a serious red flag. End of.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:01 PM
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This is funny. You don't know how I got here. You have absolutely zero context to assert any thing about me or my journey. At least OP has given us some background to work off. You have nothing. Make certain of the circumstances before you spout drivel, friend. Contradiction central.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:16 PM
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Fear would be trying to hamster this scenario. Fear would be staying with a bitch when she purposely covers tracks. Oneitis and lack of abundance. A man with confidence and integrity would drop this girl like a hat for such questionable behaviour. It is dysfunctional that she gives him her password. More so that he needs it for peace of mind. Reasoning accordingly would be to understand there's no smoke without a fire. /end
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:54 PM
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Hit the eject button and don't look back. Nobody starts cleaning up unless there's a mess. Serious red flag.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:15 AM
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Well that's two minutes of speed reading I will never get back. What a load of drivel..
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 10:49 AM
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Frame is not about winning arguments/debates. it's about having too much on your plate to even get into them. It's about knowing it's a waste of your time debating with others. It's about always being in control and never letting your emotions/passions override your rationality. Getting involved in debating who's right or wrong is a total loss of frame. It's a loss of control. If you know the truth and you are confident in your beliefs you do not need to convince anybody. Solid, solid frame.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:00 PM
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I would either reschedule for Thursday. Tell her the Gypsy owes you a round..act like you don't care and it's amusing. Water off a duck's back OR say something has come up Thurs and reschedule on my own terms. This would depend on context of how I know her etc.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:24 PM
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https://gainweightjournal.com/insights-on-leadership-from-chimp-alpha-male-behavior/ Another point worth considering is how modern dictators/leaders tend to be smaller men. "Small man syndrome" As the world develops/modernises less and less emphasis is placed on brute force and aggressiveness when it comes to power and control in society.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:50 AM
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Abundance mentality. An aura of "I won't chase you" most likely exuded from your bro. If you're going to game and put some effort in (which I think you should in any case) at some point you need to balance this with some scarcity to display abundance and outcome independence. It sounds like this is the difference between you and your mate. Aside from the above, withdrawing your attention from her during the night will also give you a great calibration of her interest level, thus avoiding you was…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 11:42 AM
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Don't go. Fade out wait for her to re-engage in the future if she desires.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 09:22 PM
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Words will not create interest. It is either already there or it isn't, no matter what you say. Fade out, game other girls, work on SMV.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 09:19 PM
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I am using this. Well played sir. Well played.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:10 AM
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Meet for coffee in the evening and turn into drinks if you're getting IOIs.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:52 PM
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You have to consider would she react/behave the same way if she thought you were sought after, in demand, a hot product. 10/10 times the answer is no. The rule doesn't have to be taken so literally. The thought process is "would she do that to a ten?" The answer will inevitably be that she wouldn't and you fade out. The rule is there to sober you up and move you away from oneitis. It might even teach her a lesson and she could come full circle but you have to respect yourself enough to fade out …
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:46 PM
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No matter whether you tell a plate it's sex only or not...They eventually catch feels. AWALT
/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:54 PM
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Agreed! Once the follow up/double text is witty and implies a lack of investment/care I don't see any issue going for it once after a few days but that has to be the last attempt!
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:36 PM
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They might take a while to get back to you but they'll never forget if they're genuinely interested. If a girl I'm into texts me when I'm hungover or busy in work I will not reply quickly, but I will eventually reply. I won't forget or go no contact if it's worth my while!
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:20 PM
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