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i only recently discovered RPW which was shortly before my fiancé proposed, so dating the bum was wayyyy before that. asked to live with me without paying rent and that’s where i drew the line. and i am into masculine men, but i love feminine women. i bounce between “do i want to be like her or fuck her” pretty much. i just like RPW bc it helps me relive some of the solipsism that i struggle with in relating to my fiancé’s personal life/struggles and that all perceived slights aren’t actually as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 05:42 PM
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being on RPW and being engaged to a man doesn’t mean i’m not bisexual. and haven’t all women dated bums in the past? i’m still getting into all the trenches of RPW but i do like the fact that the women there have a “make it work but don’t take abuse” mentality instead of a “perfect man automatically” mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 05:31 PM
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i mean i’m on RPW and you’re on FDS, so obviously we have disagreements in terms of dating, that’s all i meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 05:22 PM
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i’m a woman who is engaged to a man, so yeah i’ve seen men expect me to cater to them financially and emotionally. doesn’t mean i feel the need to warn women away from a dude that has “good vibes” on his Tindr profile. but we have fundamental disagreements on dating and relationship values, so i’m pretty much fine leaving it at that. there’s nothing wrong with being picky, but i disagree with the toxicity of some of the women on FDS. just my thing, tho. i was simply saying, once again “credit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:54 PM
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If you are, in fact, a woman imagine thinking a woman who doesn’t agree with you isn’t a woman. sorry for not knowing you were married(you see? that’s how you come back from making an incorrect statement) i scrolled down to one of your posts about 30 ish days ago talking about swiping left on men. i respect any human being who doesn’t cheat..... does that mean i’ll give them a cookie? no. means respect. bc considering how cheating is constantly coming to the surface nowadays, yeah i respect a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:26 PM
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okay, once again, props is credit. maybe use google before you come for me with incorrect info. we’re both women, so..... yeah i’d say i’m respectful to women. i mean, you’re lashing out at something you MISUNDERSTOOD so maybe take it down a few pegs and read the room. good luck to you and your hypergamous bullshit, babe. come back in 10 years and tell me how it went 🥴🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:15 PM
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first off turd, in the situation i gave where a “married man propositioned by opposite sex” i said props. “prize” was no given it was simply “good on this hypothetical non-cheating man” i’d say props to a married woman propositioned by the opposite sex as well. stop trying to put words in my mouth, sweetie, bc you’re clearly reaching 😘😘😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:06 PM
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i just feel like it varies from person to person too much for most BPs to be able to take statistics factually. “Well, my experience is...” so, i have a higher sex drive than my fiancé, i’m sure there’s a man out there with a higher sex drive. it’s just hard to picture it across the board(solipsism-i’m very guilty of it and working on it) feminism is probably is what caused women to lash out at anything a man would say, “I can do anything you can better” etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 12:31 AM
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some women actively pursue men they know have wives/gfs. those women are usually the ones who “anonymous leak” that prove the man was cheating and ends up costing the side piece more than the man. men proven to be providers will be targeted. props to a man who is happy enough with what he has at home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 12:26 AM
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i don’t see a problem with TRP in general, bc it’s a dating strategy. but twisting the game of “women gatekeep sex, men gatekeep relationships” as in convincing women you want them as a relationship then just start spinning plates on them is a little shitty. i wouldn’t date a player. bc how will i know i’m not a plate? a man wants to spin plates, he can spin plates but don’t come after me expecting me to be okay with being part of the rotation. i think(hope) that’s the reason women say things li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:11 PM
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i’m up front about my interests IE - i like keeping tarantulas, spiders, centipedes and i like snakes and lizards bam. boom. only thing i can think of that would possibly be a “no you can’t do that if we’re married” thing a guy would potentially say. if that’s their opinion on the matter? he can go. and it’s not like he doesn’t know they exist. i like talking about the cool science fact i learned about them or i tell him what my dumbest tarantula did the other day(she freaked out and crawled in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:40 PM
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yeah it was just the difference in approach to life i guess. i mean i got a full time job after high school and got my own apartment etc he was in college on a football scholarship and wanted to be a rapper. so that was just a big no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 04:28 AM
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a) open book to him. other people don’t need to know b) i mean he’s like 10 years older than me so he’s seen a hell of a lot more than i have c) huge BDSM type. Domination kink, slap me, choke me, etc. i keep that in the bedroom specifically. no jokes, no sharing. no one but my partner’s business d) losing virginity at 14 to a 23 yr old. not too happy about that being in my repertoire
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:52 PM
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i doubt tall is a biological factor. it’s more of a cultural factor, just like body size for women. different cultures put different stock in height and weight. and i’m not policing anyone’s desire on this, i’m sorry it came off that way, i was just stating that masculinity and femininity in the extreme are toxic just like eating to the extreme is unhealthy, or just like drinking to the extreme. everything is good in moderation (:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 04:26 PM
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Oh, i’m sorry for not being clearer in my statement. I find nothing wrong with masculinity or femininity. I meant that in extreme cases like “Short men can die/men don’t need a therapist/man up” are negative and allow men who don’t fit the strong/tall/dominant aspect to fall behind. a man can be strong and short, just like a tall man can be submissive. it’s not the masculinity that’s at fault, it’s the twisted nature we’ve taken these things. i hope that helps!! i’m sorry for not being clearer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:53 PM
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exactly. women claim that the “man up” idea is pure toxic masculinity, but it has ties in toxic femininity. which is something women absolutely refuse to even dare acknowledge??? women only liking a man who is strong/tall/dominant, is an aspect of toxic femininity(hard word to spell) as well as toxic masculinity. they go hand in hand. putting it solely on men to work through their problems, “Therapy is for women and pussies,” etc is everyone’s fault. like both genders are to blame for both of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:50 PM
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i do think standards are out of control, but i’ve yet to actually see hypergamy happening. it’s more Disney/romance movies that makes women feel like even though they’re spoiled, selfish brats they get a man who picks up after them and their mistakes. which is definitely shitty. some of the blame is on Body Positivity, not saying it’s a bad thing, i like anybody being happy with themselves, but denying health/actual dangers to themselves/other people is damaging. same with the Don’t Blame a Ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:46 PM
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i mean i’m a woman and was originally bluepilled/thought the “psychology” was bullshit but i’ve been reading RPW sub and the archive and it’s... pretty lit if i’m honest. Red Pill men aren’t for me, i’m not into being another plate, but i like the idea behind vetting Alpha/Beta traits and being more feminine in classical ways (:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:48 AM
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how can higher N count be compared to a cheat sheet? if anything, it’s more similar to studying ???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:41 PM
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they’ve been broken up for a couple weeks now and she’s blocked him on everything, except text messages/phone calls so he can see the kids. my fingers are crossed that she isn’t going to get back with him. i’m trying to call/FT her everyday to see how she’s doing. i offered to let her stay with me, but i only have a one bedroom and a 3 yr and a 6-7mo baby need more room. her babydaddy drove past my apartment complex to see if she was there with me. he didn’t remember my apt number tho and i was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:52 PM
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why isn’t he in prison for assault? that’s another one of those “shitty upbringing” things. her whole family is opposed to calling the police so she doesn’t do it. she thinks she can handle everything herself and that the police would just make it worse. i’ve met her mom once, and she’s a drug addict who dates other drug addicts. her dad has unmedicated schizophrenia so he’s a little... weird when he doesn’t sleep. but i met his new gf and she seems like she’s at least helping him take better ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:32 PM
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babydaddy is abusive as hell, she’s (hopefully) going to get him for Child Support soon. he hardly does anything for the kids, even when they were living together. in how far? too forgiving? kind of? it was more like she lost her virginity to him so she didn’t want anyone else. even tho he knocked out her tooth, spent all their money on drugs, neglected the kids. she couldn’t get idea of “happy ever after” out of her mind. she’s still selling fakes, but i actually drove to pick her up from his a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:16 PM
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she had a rlly shitty life. parents moved around a lot, were divorced so she passed between states, lived in hotels most of her life, etc. i love her to death, she’s a great person and beautiful, but she has a skewed idea of love/relationships. i met her in high school, freshman year. she dropped out before graduating. she got pregnant at 17, bf was 18-19 at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:02 PM
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i’ve gotta friend that sells fake nudes. she knows couples/girls that use OF. never met them personally. the friend that sells fake nudes has 2 kids and a body count of 3. her ex(babydaddy) pushed her to keep selling bc he couldn’t handle his money right. she wants to get a real job(like office work) but he wouldn’t let her. so she left him after 5 years together. she’s 21
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:27 PM
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definitely a fetish. just be careful and set boundaries(like safe words, things to avoid saying/doing, etc) the BDSM subreddit may offer some help so it’s all safe and consensual. attractive as fuck imo, i love that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:58 AM
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20f and N-count of 10 fiancé(e?) is a 29 yr old divorcee with an N-count of (i’m assuming??) 25-30. (could just be hyping himself up who knows)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:47 AM
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it’s not so much that. they’re addicted to the feeling of being attractive to someone. someone saying “i’d worship you and let you sit on my face” is an easier pill to swallow then “we can get married right out of highschool” it’s just FOMO in perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:34 AM
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have to agree. that “hoe phase” is more than just sowing her wild oats. it’s more solidifying her place in a world that(seemingly) demands women be sexy. mass media gives the view of low cut tops and mini skirts and sex for pay. it’s just easier to fall into that cycle surrounded by men who can say the perfect words to make a girl give it up(1st) and then after that heartbreak, it gets easier and easier to just let what happens happen. hard to break that cycle for most women till they hit the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:32 AM
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I’m the fun. yikes. 5 years ago and it’s still getting your panties in a twist? just virgins for you huh? have fun with that. i feel bad for every woman you meet. to be honest, i prefer men with a higher N count. means he knows how to give good head, knows how to make me orgasm, knows how to make sex not something horrible that i have to grit my teeth to get through. i would’ve assumed(?) it would be the same with men. but i guess not? i mean yeah you can try to teach a girl to give head, but is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:26 AM
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No, never had anybody ask. Mine’s(relatively) low but my current relationship is a man with a higher N count than me(he’s near 30 and i’m only 20). i don’t think it correlates that much, but it’s part of the vetting process. N count may raise flags for some, others prefer to see if there’s more Green lights than Stop signs i say “relatively” bc some people have said its low others have said high so its relative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:57 AM
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that’s a lot of words for “i don’t have any proof, just take my word for it” lmfao ok dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:23 PM
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that’s a personal issue. i’m young and taking it as i go. maybe for you oldies it’s more pressing, but i got time. if it turns out lifelong, great! if it doesn’t? alright, next??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:49 AM
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i mean? i think a relationship is successful with communication. sexual, emotional, and just plain verbal communication. so, idk i found someone i liked, okay? they fit all my standards - attractive(to me), things in common, etc after that? it’s just up to if they cheat, beat me, or become boring to me. boring as in no common interests, they stop being attractive to me, we drift apart. which happens. doesn’t mean that the body count, height, etc they had going into the relationship is what cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:40 AM
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oh eh i mean. those are kind of determined on where/how the girl grew up. if she grew up surrounded by men like that/her family in relationships with men like that it’s kinda hard to put all the blame on the woman. nature vs nurture and all that absolutely the girl can know better but at like 17-20 when most girls are either in community college/staying home it’s kinda just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:07 AM
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it’s not true it just makes them feel better about why women don’t want them. “oh she doesn’t like me? must be a slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:03 AM
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proof? where’s your proof? you have any definite sources for this? it’s absolutely 10000% proven that women with high n count are unable to pair-bond? i’d love to see this definite source? without any exceptions to the rule? i’d love to see it. please show me the brain of every single woman in the world and show me exactly why they are unable to pair bond? show me the proof????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 04:02 AM
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i agree, doesn’t make him a misogynist, but if he starts calling all women who don’t do exactly what he says, yeah he’s a misogynist. weird preferences, imo, also what is an “unwholesome man” like?? bad credit score what’re we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:52 AM
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still gross to say a man is better even if he’s a cheater. :/ but either way, i disagree with the fact that “promiscuity” causes infidelity. in either gender. it’s a shitty worldview that causes cheating and forgiveness of cheaters. y’all cheat on women and say shit “Well, I still love you, i just wanted to fuck her.” as if that’s anything better and not a giant betrayal of trust then follow it with “You need me, it’s not like you can leave me.” as if that’s not abusive as fuck. y’all tell on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:44 PM
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this was a lot of cheater apologist in this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:16 PM
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in worst case scenario i would say yes but in actuality girls can change their hair, they contour their faces, they can wear clothes to make them taller/slimmer/curvier i don’t look my actual weight bc i know how to dress. i’m chubby, but i “wear it well” aka i can still pull men IRL and OLD i think nose surgery is kind of pointless(you’re just passing on those genes to your kids ???) unless you have a severe deviation that inhibits breathing. because girls can make shit work for them way easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 10:25 PM
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i live in a smaller city but i grew up in a farm town north of the city, so driving is a necessity for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:12 PM
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1) yes i live in a smaller city, but i personally grew up in a farm town so driving is a necessity 2) i dated someone a year younger than(I was 19, he was 18) and he essentially treated me as a sugar momma. maybe when i get a little older like 22 it won’t be as big of a dealbreaker for me, but right now(20) 18-19 yr old dudes are not up to snuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:07 PM
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i didn’t reply to you, crybaby. why bother ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 06:10 AM
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pickme girls are absolutely toxic femininity. constant competition with other girls; anything for attention(selfharm/outbursts); low self worth(“it’s my fault he hit me/cheated”); no friendships with other women; extremely low maintenance(dating bums)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:31 AM
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it’s just the utter lack of outside human interaction that’s a dealbreaker for me. like idk dude can play online games with his dudes and go to work everyday to deal with strangers - he probably won’t be up my ass all the time bc he has a life outside of me. i hate being the center of somebody’s world. gotta be an us vs the real world not me vs the world he imagined
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:23 AM
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he said “intellectual dishonesty” when you give him a fucking source lemme go kms there’s no hope here 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:14 AM
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i don’t think i’ll ever listen to men like you. honestly - i grew up in a stable family home(two parents, one sister) with both my parents previously divorced. my grandparents probably would’ve agreed with most of you, specifically the tradcon aspect, but not the parents who raised me. men like you are men i avoid - and surprisingly! don’t touch with a 10 foot pole. now is that to say i’m horribly single and lonely and pathetic? no. just means i have a life outside Reddit and i understand that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:05 AM
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If i have to honest, as a woman, it’d be ugly women. women that don’t fit into the stereotype of small or pretty are left out. those women tend to go for the bottom of the barrel with men. as in - druggies, abusers, emotionally stunted, can’t have a friendship with a girl without being attracted to said girl kind of dudes. but if i’m honest, i don’t rlly buy into the whole “women gatekeep sex, men gatekeep relationships” because IRL i’ve never seen it that much. sure, i’ve “friendzoned” men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:22 PM
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Amber Heard was abusive. are you implying all high N women are abusive friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:17 PM
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it’s incredible how piggish some dudes on here are jesus lord have mercy.... has it-now hear me out on this- occurred to you that this woman ended the relationship herself? or did you forget to pull your head out of your ass ? happens a lot to dudes on here, so i’m understanding, i’ll give you some time to process this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:14 PM
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nah i mean, i only have like 2 friends and i’m fine not talking to them for days. but if a dude has literally ZERO friends and makes me his one human interaction every day, i’m gonna get tired of him quick. it just seems to lead to me being his GF/Mommy/Maid/Therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:47 PM
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men with a history of cheating, no car, no job, anger issues, belittles me/my interests, doesn’t respond well to criticism(don’t yell if i ask you to close the toilet lid, jesus), younger than me, bad family relationships, no friends, has to be around me/texting me 24/7, doesn’t like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:03 PM
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oh, well just for your reference friend in one of her songs, Motorsport(she’s a feature in this song, it’s by Migos) “I turn Offset on” so like she’s talking about her man. and honestly only Megan is talking about using men for money in WAP, Cardi just kinda talks about how she wants her man to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:19 AM
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she says her husband by name in her songs???????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:12 AM
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yeah no fr. i’m pretty sure the song is meant as a joke “I want you to park that big Mack truck Right in this little garage” it’s hilarious which is why i like it. doesn’t make me feel like getting my WAP on makes me feel like being a goof
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:10 AM
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troll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:26 PM
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.... i mean i’m not marrying someone i met at first sight? which is why i said “no red flags then yeah i’d marry them” a high N on anyone isn’t inherently a bad thing, just means they’ve had more sex. sex isn’t a bad thing. cheating is a bad thing. i gotta see the proof of them before i can right them off. like a dude with bad credit score, isn’t marriage material bc that’s a shitty thing for me to sign up for. same with women. N count and credit score are two entirely separate things. y’all goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:36 PM
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troll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:52 PM
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if i like the dude then yeah i’d be okay with marrying him. bc i like him as a person?????????? y’all.... aren’t getting this apparently personality trumps body count. i’m not considering a man “high risk of infidelity” unless he tells me he’s got a history of cheating. so if he has STR and LTR with no history of cheating then yeah i’d be fine with him. the things he did in the past that aren’t inherently wrong, don’t bother me. same with women, if a women has a high N and i like her personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:04 PM
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.... your confusing biology with culture ? your culture is what raises you to think something is bad. same with religion. Muslim countries think eating pork is a bad thing. does that mean not eating pork is ingrained in their biology ?????????? bad take
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:00 PM
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but i mean. it’s not a. fool proof thing. like you can’t look at a woman in church and be like “ah see there is a pure, Godly woman” bc you don’t know what she’s doing after church that Sunday evening. could be taking dick across town at the speed of light, but she’ll still turn up to church Sunday morning and you wouldn’t be able to know. but the same thing goes for seeing a woman at a party with all her friends drinking and dancing, that girls still dancing but she’s the designated driver bc s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:39 PM
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yikes you’re taking my words out of context, friend. i said, you’re allowed to have your personal preference, okay? it’s all well and good. nobody cares about you in your specific little world. problems happen when some hateful person of similar opinion(having the opinion doesn’t make you hateful, i think dudes who chew tobacco are gross for chewing tobacco, i won’t think the same dude is gross if i see him walking his dog) starts to say something like “Every single woman who has ever had sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:35 PM
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i’ve got two years under my belt in the adult world so technically yeah but i’ve also got a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:31 PM
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innate gut feeling that a high N woman is a risky proposition i have never heard of that. honestly? so y’all just. get the willies anytime a woman looks you? but it’s different when a different woman looks at you? you have a spidey-sense for high N? do you break out in hives when a sex worker walks past you in the mall? is it the same for men? do you go throw up when your friend introduces you to his new girlfriend? bet you can’t even stand to watch porn. i bet it makes you sick. fascinating. ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:22 PM
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i stated several times, i don’t care if it’s your personal preference. but the act of spreading a false narrative that women who have high N counts are bad people is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:08 PM
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but it comes down to both things. like why.... brag about it ? because that’ll cause all the buttfucks to come and call you a slut for doing what you want on your own time. it’s the same thing honestly. but in the same sense, why vocally shame it, that’ll cause the opposite to happen to you. it’s circle. everybody just stop talking about it and do what you want. i’m not sure why the amount of bodies has mattered. didn’t seem to matter to much of anybody. people’ve been shagging in the streets th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:27 PM
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i’m gonna be straight up - i’ve never had ANY man ask me about my body count. either on dates or online dating. first i ever even heard about “body count = bad” was here seen a couple like “body count = good” related posts, but that was weird as well. like it’s never been a thing for me. nobody asks, nobody cares. only ever spoken about it to my friends. if i wanted to complain about or something. never “omg i just fucked 4 dudes in one night now my N count is 1174” that...never happens i mean t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:11 PM
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he wore a condom...? do you- oh wait it’s an incel ofc it’s not having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:16 AM
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i’m gonna get hate for this, but gender dysphoria is a mental illness, and mental illness can be genetic :/ so. it’s absolutely possible my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:12 AM
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there was also..... the exact opposite. i hear you dude, but you’re placing sexual liberalism as the ultimate fallacy for failed religions/cultures. the babylonians had holy whores, and they were a huge threat in the Bible(genesis i believe, one of the first couple by Moses). The Greeks told multiple stories of Zeus’ infidelity and of Aphrodite’s infidelity. You’re seeing through rose-colored glasses about this, but sexual liberalism never caused a failure of a culture/religion. it was the abili…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:07 AM
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i genuinely can’t tell if you’re being a dick. i’ll be honest, my dating experience hasn’t been marred by being rejected bc of my weight. i think places like this enjoy thinking that their ideal for thinness is universal, but my real life dating experience hasn’t rlly been affected by that. even on dating apps, where it’s mainly face pics that garner attention, i have in my bio “i’m fat but cute” because ik not everybody is into my size and that’s okay. no skin off my nose if someone’s ideal doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:52 PM
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i’m short and chubby. think like a chubby hourglass, big hips, big tits, but still defined waist w a little bit of belly. but i’ve never had negative comments about my body, to my face at the very least. i wear clothes that fit my body right (nothing too small) and i know what colors look good on me, so i can kind of work around that negative aspect. like ugly girls do with makeup. sorry for late reply!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:13 PM
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it’s funny to watch men throw hissy fits about being 5’8 /s i enjoy watching the debate and the different perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:32 PM
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i don’t think i’ll ever be able to get used to a dude using “guys and females” just messes up my brain. oof
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:08 PM
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Physical - taller than me (5’1) built larger than me(muscular or husky) easy smile(nice is eh, don’t care about teeth as much as long as they aren’t rotting out, just easy to make smile bc i love positive attention) that’s for both STR and LTR STR - pretty easy for me, i’ve got a pretty face LTR - a little harder, i tend to have shitty pick in personalities so we usually end up clashing at some point irrevocably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:48 PM
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imo, exclusivity in FWB is lacking in romantic attraction, it’s just keeping both partners free of potential infections that would happen in a “free for all” FWB situation. GF/BF indicates romantic attraction and exclusivity. that’s the only difference imo, not weird at all to have an exclusive FWB, at least where I am (:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:07 PM
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FWB makes more sense in this situation. Thank you for clarifying. Rubs me the wrong way to call a gf “pussy on tap” but FWB is something i can understand in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:02 PM
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does she know you see her this way ? i mean idc how you see women as this doesn’t relate to me in anyway, but it seems counterintuitive to say “i don’t like women” but you have a gf ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:19 PM
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yeah i mean. my sister(4’11)‘s ex husband(5ft) had a son together. my parents (the child’s grandparents) have made jokes about him being a “little guy like his daddy” and “hope he doesn’t get a Napoleon complex too” bc the child will most likely be as short his parents. which sucks and is kinda mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:05 PM
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i’m 5’1 and i like climbing my 6’4 tree of a man. also when he’s the little spoon i feel like a backpack edit : for clarification - i never had “has to be 6 ft or taller” on any dating apps. i’ve met and dated men 5’5 and up. i have no preference for height it’s just he’s the one who stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:56 PM
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so is higher than 20 a high N count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:24 AM
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maybe a dumb question but is lower than 20 considered “low N count” i’ve seen many posts about it on PPD and y’all never.... clarify ?? it’s always “80+ N slut” or “0 N goddess” like ?? what is considered low here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:23 PM
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she never raped men. she drugged and robbed them. both crimes, but rape is so so so much worse than theft. deserves jail time, but she ever raped men.
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