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1

if it was easy, everyone would do it
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:32 PM
1

ask him for a spot and things will go from there.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:11 AM
2

dont be that guy at the gym, there’s already way too many
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:49 AM
2

dodged a bullet!
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:35 AM
6

find her father and trade him a cow and two chickens for her hand in marriage
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:19 PM
1

no
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:57 PM
1

this sub is in shambles
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:44 PM
2

once you stop for awhile you realize how fucking disgusting it is. smoked cigs for 3 years straight, now the smell repulses me.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:21 PM
-9

hey stranger
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:23 PM
11

ones you find attractive, it's not rocket science
/r/seduction06/06/21 06:52 PM
1

what the fuck man
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:55 PM
1

deload instead of a week off
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:38 AM
1

you're standing out from other guys
/r/seduction30/05/21 06:21 PM
14

no more mr. nice guy
/r/seduction30/05/21 02:33 PM
1

joining a gym will build his social circle, ultimately introducing him to more women. dont b the creep @ the gym who hits on every cute girl there
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:34 PM
1

"hey bb want sum fk?"
/r/seduction29/05/21 11:32 AM
3

join a gym
/r/seduction29/05/21 10:31 AM
36

so does "hehe" but who are we to judge
/r/seduction24/05/21 06:42 AM
1

always be friends so you can meet and hook up with their hotter friends
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:33 AM
1

go and if you’re not enjoying yourself then leave. pretty simple man
/r/seduction17/05/21 03:21 AM
1

the gym
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:05 PM
10

listen to understand, not to respond
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:41 PM
3

sorry ladies
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:37 PM
1

wear airpods and play EDM
/r/seduction11/05/21 10:14 AM
78

rather, don't waste your time on dating apps. this is like 95% of interactions online
/r/seduction11/05/21 10:12 AM
4

eventually you won't even think about it
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:51 AM
2

your nice body seems so interesting to me
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:38 PM
5

dont put all your eggs in one basket. let them bring up commitment. if you have other options you wont become as needy and dependent to jump into a relationship
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:37 PM
3

she only wants to your attention when she’s bored. stop texting her like the other guy said and pursue other women
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:35 PM
2

stop texting so much and ask them to meet up
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:25 PM
1

"sorry i keep doing it because I can't handle myself when i'm intoxicated" real charmer
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:09 AM
1

if you dont like yourself, then why the fuck would she like you
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:36 PM
1

they're not interested man
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:02 AM
2

Always put yourself first Don't believe women are inferior creatures who always need our help If you're just a genuinely kind person and you treat men and women the same then stay true to yourself and eventually you will find someone
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:12 AM
1

If you don't already know this, then you have been fighting a losing battle lol
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:30 AM
0

you can lack confidence and still be approachable. smile, being nice, open body posture, etc.
/r/seduction24/04/21 05:42 PM
10

also probably best to jerk off when you catch yourself acting nuts, it'll calm you down.
/r/seduction21/04/21 08:44 PM
2

Hit her up on IG to work on homework, or ask her a question about something in class, or comment about something that happened that was funny. This takes the pressure off you but make sure you get to know her. It's easier to get into a relationship with someone you have rapport with, especially in high school.
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:59 PM
2

???
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:41 AM
14

Not only does it produce the obviously overstated (muscles = attractive/more confidence) but personally my favorite thing about working out is just being able to focus on something that I enjoy for hours each day. It helps me alleviate stress, look better, and feel better.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:48 PM
2

stds
/r/seduction11/04/21 03:24 PM
174

lifting is probably one of the best things anyone can do for their mental health. gains just make you feel so good
/r/seduction11/04/21 03:17 PM
1

tell her to leave lol
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:24 PM
57

just do all this op and you’re good 🙃
/r/seduction06/04/21 10:29 AM
1

“4-5 bullets” proceeds to write 3 paragraphs -practice what you preach -keep it short and sweet -bruh
/r/seduction03/04/21 06:23 PM
4

I think one shot to loosen up is fine but I was really referring to having to be drunk to socialize and approach. That being said, I can speak on things I've heard that may help with what you asked. -Practice (obviously) - the more you do something, the more natural it will become. -Being in a group/listening intently/shifting the focus to someone else (spotlight effect) -Meditation (not for everyone but heard good things, seems to ease anxiety and stress including social anxiety/fear of approac…
/r/seduction27/03/21 01:19 PM
14

keep trying no alcohol, it can be a crutch for a lot of people going through a similar trouble that you are facing. eventually it really hinders your social progression and physical health because you become so reliant on it. good job
/r/seduction27/03/21 10:19 AM
19

She's an hour away you say? Shoot your shot and fuck around; say whatever you want. You're already not getting anywhere (physically), so you have nothing to lose. There will be more, use this experience to learn what works and what doesn't.
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:26 AM
17

Great advice for men looking for more than just hookups
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:24 AM
7

so true if you try it, that shit will crash and burn right in your face and it'll be your fault for playing stupid ass games
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:43 PM
10

rip a legend
/r/seduction23/03/21 11:29 AM
1

Great post
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:56 AM
2

lol you’re both gamers playing games with each other
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:47 AM
13

my god, it is not rocket science. just be genuine.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:27 PM
0

super simple. Write down your number on a slip of paper Go to pizza place Give paper to her "Hey I think you're cute, text me."
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:31 AM
1

Step 1: Stop needing to be liked by everyone and anyone.
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:28 AM
3

you’re probably too nice. don’t be afraid to lose a potential friendship if you are hoping for a relationship with someone. some relationships start as friends but not most. don’t be a pushover nice guy who just waits for something he might not eventually get. if you see someone you’re attracted to, ask em out.
/r/seduction17/03/21 09:07 PM
19

So wise.
/r/seduction17/03/21 06:04 PM
1

you wont know until you do it
/r/seduction16/03/21 05:44 AM
1

You can only control yourself.
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:07 PM
-8

Wrong sub
/r/seduction10/03/21 11:12 PM
1

If she acts this way while she has a boyfriend, she’s gonna act this way if you two end up dating. You’ve been warned, but proceed with your dick and learn a life lesson. 👍🏻
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:49 PM
1

Be someone you would want to date. ​ A simple way to do this is to sculpt your own physique to one that you can admire. Another example is that if you admire outgoing and confident men, strive to be those things. You can pretty much turn yourself into anyone you want to be if you put in the work.
/r/seduction09/03/21 11:11 AM
5

Any reply is just going to be pure speculation. We don't have enough info and they could also be outliers. I feel like if you ask yourself and be honest then you can figure this out on your own.
/r/seduction09/03/21 11:09 AM
6

lol
/r/seduction09/03/21 10:13 AM
2

i personally wouldn't put her on the spot. I would slide in DMs and get # or work on assignments together.
/r/seduction09/03/21 10:03 AM
11

wear heels
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:45 AM
13

You're overthinking it. You don't need their opinion on everything. Women like men who take initiative. Also, the whole point of wine/drinking together is to let loose and relax which seems it might do you some good. ​ Go over there and have fun. If she's giving you signals then escalate.
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:41 AM
6

bring the wine
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:27 AM
24

Just go to have FUN. Surely, you can do this even if you don't get laid on the trip. Also, ditch the pessimistic attitude nobody is attracted to that shit. Talk to all of them but throw feelers and find the one that digs you the most. Then isolate and escalate.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:46 AM
15

if you click, you click. everyone is different and offers a unique experience lol some of you here overthink the simplest things, this shit is way too dank
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:41 AM
7

She invited you over on the first date to her place, that's pretty much the simplest invitation to escalate man. MAKE A MOVE
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:13 AM
1

She was most likely was just being polite. Don't waste your time being that guy who can't take rejection. Get over it and move on.
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:10 AM
6

Send one and I’ll tell you
/r/seduction06/03/21 06:01 AM
3

cringe rant
/r/seduction06/03/21 03:39 AM
3

Your fragility and inability to take criticism will be the death of you. Good luck man.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:43 PM
0

Seems you're just overthinking it. Imo "Chad" is just someone who is good with chicks. I would consider the types of men you listed as more than capable of getting someone you deem as a 10, but they have other priorities/values they are more keen on.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:39 PM
1

Your hostility at sincere attempts to offer thoughtful advice, in not only my reply but the others as well, displays that you have bigger problems than finding companionship. The fact that you're offended and immediately jump to impulsive aggression because of trigger words and phrases (ex: incel), displays you have a very low chance at ever finding companionship unless it's by a complete moron who has no self-value. Honestly, it's clear your lack of social experience is seriously confining your…
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:28 PM
2

Your bulleted list is filled with Chads.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:02 PM
1

Your entire post reeks of desperation which you're probably emitting subconsciously in these interactions. Make sure you don't give off that vibe, especially when you're alone with a woman. I would recommend changing the intent in which you seek female companionship. You whine about being "unloved", but really you're complaining about not having sex which isn't the same thing. This mentality is going to hurt your relationships down the line because it can lead to very manipulative behavior. For …
/r/seduction05/03/21 09:59 PM
7

What the fuck are you talking about
/r/seduction05/03/21 05:56 AM
2

After u get some in your DMs you’ll learn the diff pretty quickly
/r/seduction05/03/21 05:54 AM
1

Odds are that you are at least one of those things. However, if you're boring or like every other joe schmo in their DMs they're going to dry up/ghost/ignore/unmatch/etc. Online is just a numbers game so try different openers/approaches and see what works best for you. If you're already having no success, then you have nothing to lose by cutting loose and having more fun with it.
/r/seduction05/03/21 05:14 AM
1

be unique, charming, funny and/or attractive.
/r/seduction05/03/21 05:01 AM
-2

posting here instead of your DMs Hi
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:03 PM
3

everyone posting advice bangs 15 women a week bro
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:18 PM
7

less bitching, more doing
/r/seduction02/03/21 10:27 PM
1

they're no different than anyone else, don't put them on a pedestal. They have massive diarrhea shits like me and you.
/r/seduction28/02/21 03:31 PM
8

Be confident. If you’re nervous and your voice is shaky it will definitely not help her feel safe. Also respect boundaries while escalating.
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:03 PM
2

make sure to end it with a smile and a wink ;)
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:57 PM
43

Their loss. It’s kinda like a job opportunity. You might really want the job, it’s your dream job, you think it would be perfect. There are unfortunately a lot of other candidates who also want the job. You might get it or you might not. However, if you don’t get it, that doesn’t mean you should stop applying to jobs. Just keep going and you’ll eventually find one you really like or one you can tolerate until you find a better one lol.
/r/seduction24/02/21 05:31 PM
3

You’re thinking of gold digging whores
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:28 AM
2

Not true, unless you’re ugly
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:22 AM
1

???
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:14 AM
1

Can't hurt
/r/seduction22/02/21 04:40 AM
2

literally half the replies on this fucking sub LMAO
/r/seduction22/02/21 04:27 AM
0

Be confident. Don’t fuck off until they ask or leave themselves.
/r/seduction20/02/21 08:26 AM
12

Don’t act your age, match their level of maturity. Brush off/tease back if they comment about your age. Pretty sure most older guys steer clear from younger women because they don’t know what they want, are insecure, imature, you get my point.
/r/seduction20/02/21 08:21 AM
18

Carry yourself at the same level they do. Dont put them on a pedestal or you’ll always be viewed as inferior.
/r/seduction20/02/21 08:15 AM
0

Fake it until you make it. Also, the more you do it the easier it will get; you’ll stop overanalyzing everything.
/r/seduction20/02/21 08:13 AM
93

It’s cringe to wait ‘x’ long to respond. However, the whole point is to be busy doing other things making it authentic. It displays you’re interesting, mysterious, busy, and/or not desperate.
/r/seduction18/02/21 11:12 AM
8

hey bb want sum fuk?
/r/seduction17/02/21 05:27 PM
2

There was most likely another guy that it didnt work out with
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:47 PM
1

Focus on yourself first, always. Next, develop relationships with women that you think will improve your life.
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:58 PM
1

well you can start by not putting all your self-worth on validation from women. ​ Topics: Building confidence, handling rejection, improving self-esteem and self-image
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:49 PM
2

Wipe the slate clean and start with a fresh, positive attitude. You will make mistakes. Learn from them. Keep practicing and putting yourself out there until something sticks. There’s only so much you can read about this stuff. Most importantly: Don’t get discouraged. Not everyone is going to like you, but many people will.
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:26 PM
28

It was a joke but the point is there is an endless sea of good information that is free to you. Dating coaches are waste of $ imo
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:19 PM
1

horrible idea. go to her place or out to a movie/dinner/literally anywhere else but your driveway
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:30 PM
85

Why pay for a dating coach when you have the TOP educators on r/seduction
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:22 PM
24

tl;dr - just do it
/r/seduction14/02/21 09:34 AM
219

Great job now get off your phone and close!
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:03 PM
1

Flirt more with the girls you're interested in.
/r/seduction13/02/21 01:03 PM
2

With the very little and ominous details you had in your original post I just assumed she was not interested. Hit her up on snap and ask to setup a date
/r/seduction13/02/21 12:44 PM
1

Yep this is most likely what happened. Best you can do is learn from it and move on. Don't dwell on this and attempt to rekindle anything, much easier to attract someone new.
/r/seduction13/02/21 12:00 PM
1

You should seek professional help to work through your depression and find ways to gain confidence without a crutch (alcohol, drugs, etc.)
/r/seduction13/02/21 11:58 AM
6

no point chasing someone who isn't interested in you anymore. Wasting your time and delaying meeting someone who actually wants you. Move on
/r/seduction13/02/21 11:56 AM
43

Any man, as the way you described, does not think about any of the questions you asked. It's normal for him.
/r/seduction13/02/21 11:53 AM
5

yay more shitposts
/r/seduction13/02/21 08:22 AM
1

Best advice on this entire thread. If it’s that big of a deal that you havent kissed anyone, dont be picky.
/r/seduction11/02/21 11:17 AM
1

“You miss all the shots you don’t take. -Wayne Gretzky” -Michael Scott
/r/seduction10/02/21 04:36 PM
7

do it but dont turn into that creep who hits on all the girls at the gym lmao
/r/seduction10/02/21 06:05 AM
7

but there's nothing to do... except move on. she's not into u man sorry
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:16 AM
3

"Hey I think you're really cute, here's my number"
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:16 AM
1

I’ve spent more time with her via calls and texting than i have in person now. Be busy. "Hey i'm busy right now but i'd love to catch up over (insert any activity here)" This allows you to gauge her interest level. If she accepts/offers an alternative then she's interested, if she doesn't then she's most likely just seeking attention/a friend/safety net.
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:15 AM
20

​ i txted her to tell her how i felt and she said she sees me as a friend. she is still in a relationship. she wants attention for whatever reason. you're getting strung along like a little puppy.
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:07 AM
5

primo tinder is a scam unless you're attractive. ​ if u really wanna pay to get laid, just get an escort.
/r/seduction04/02/21 06:59 AM
2

I've tried to chase one girl for two years already this is where you went wrong
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:39 PM
1

live and learn, don't dwell too much on this one. on to the next one bro
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:37 PM
1

be your own wingman. "Hey have you met... me?"
/r/seduction03/02/21 03:13 AM
1

better chances if you approach in person, makes you stand out from the others
/r/seduction31/01/21 11:00 AM
2

if you get multiple IOIs then go for it
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:51 AM
1

personally i think it's pointless to message on ig/snap cus you're 1 of hundreds and definitely don't mention the doordash delivery because it just comes off as creepy ​ sorry i can't offer any positive advice, good luck
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:49 AM
8

just give them your number. i did this the other day, simply wrote my number on a piece of paper before. i said "hey i think you're cute, here's my number. text me if you're interested" bam got a text when she got off. takes the pressure off them and you'll know they're interested if they msg u
/r/seduction31/01/21 08:39 AM
1

you'd be surprised how quickly the rest comes after you fix those things
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:51 AM
2

The longer you live in the past, the less future you have to enjoy. ​ Stop the self-pity and get your priorities in check. You need to get your shit together before you even think about a relationship or it's just going to eventually ruin any chance you have at one. ​ Focus on getting a job. After that focus on your mental health. Exercise, eat better, sleep enough. A relationship will not save you from yourself.
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:46 AM
1

overthinking about it will definitely ruin any shot you have. just chill out and wait for her to message you. don't bring it up at work or if she gets back to you. play it cool and relax, like u have other options. if you freak out you're gonna scare her off.
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:15 AM
1

if you're going to spend money on this type of thing just go through reviews and get a hands on coach
/r/seduction31/01/21 07:08 AM
2

what's scarier, getting rejected or being alone forever?
/r/seduction28/01/21 09:37 PM
1

like most things, depends on the girl
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:31 PM
1

like most things, depends on the girl
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:30 PM
5

but also be self-aware to realize if you are creepy
/r/seduction25/01/21 11:36 PM
3

browse erotica for new ideas
/r/seduction25/01/21 03:39 AM
1

I always think it's best to make your intentions known at the beginning. That way nobody is wasting anybody's time or leading them on in a devious way. You're also making it clear upfront so you don't get backlash when you make a move later on. I've heard "oh so that's the only reason why you befriended me?" too many times. Just stuff to think about. ​ Try it out and report back!
/r/seduction24/01/21 12:02 PM
1

Imo the whole point of a date is to see if you vibe together. It's really as simple as just asking them on a date. If you don't want to do that then keep doing things the way you've been doing them. Personally, it sounds like you're scared and just making excuses. You're waiting to ask someone out in the perfect and most polite way after they check all your boxes but that just isn't realistic. I suggest just going for it. Worst they can do is say no. ​ Good luck
/r/seduction24/01/21 08:58 AM
1

"Hey I think you're cute and I was wondering if you wanted to do _ _ _ _ _ " You're getting right to the point and not wasting any time. Sometimes it is acceptable to build rapport if you have never met them before but honestly the longer you wait the bigger hole you are digging for yourself. It's not chess. You don't have to think 10 steps ahead. If she's interested, she'll say yes or offer an alternative, if she's not then she will say no. No point wasting time thinking long-term before you ev…
/r/seduction24/01/21 08:08 AM
3

LMAO but srsly op just go knock and ask to hang out
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:45 AM
1

take a fap break for a week
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:45 AM
13

if you tried escalating and she didn't reciprocate then surely you know that she's most likely not into you. best to move on imo
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:42 AM
2

you're wayyyyy overthinking this. simply ask her out if you're interested and if she says no then you can move on.
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:38 AM
2

you take things too seriously. it's supposed to be fun
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:35 AM
1

Smile whenever you catch someone's eye
/r/seduction24/01/21 05:25 AM
1

I answered the question from personal experience and further in the comment chain i recommended against doing this, twice. Lol
/r/seduction23/01/21 05:41 PM
108

"hey i like your mask"
/r/seduction23/01/21 07:24 AM
1

best i can explain it is being so tired you're on autopilot just drifting through the day. I'm too tired to realize i'm hungry, i'm too tired to think about what i'm saying. ​ Again, i don't recommend this. I suggest just working out or something to gain confidence to just be yourself no matter who you are talking to.
/r/seduction23/01/21 07:21 AM
1

maybe after corona you will have better luck finding someone to go to bars and clubs
/r/seduction23/01/21 07:07 AM
0

after 24 hours, im a different person and i love it. You're basically so tired that you can't even subconsciously put a social filter up. ​ If this seems too much for you then you can take a shot or two to chill out and calm the nerves but I honestly don't recommend either of these. Both are a crutch for a bigger problem.
/r/seduction23/01/21 06:54 AM
-1

stay up for countless hours to lower my inhibition and be myself
/r/seduction23/01/21 06:39 AM
9

Avoid dating apps and dms or you will continue to hide behind a screen (read as safety net). It's a lot harder to approach in person, but also a lot sexier (display of confidence) and different. Women are so used to getting messaged everyday, because it's easier. Be different. Stand out. ​ The way I see it is that you have to just go for it. Go into it knowing you are going to bomb, it's how you gain experience. Bomb until you don't get nervous and it becomes fun for you. If you still can't chan…
/r/seduction22/01/21 08:37 AM
3

I can't really give any specific questions, but the entire point of a date is to learn more about the person. Ask questions in which YOU are curious about.
/r/seduction22/01/21 02:46 AM
12

shoot your shot or live with regret. nobody cares if you go for it unless you push after any type of "no"
/r/seduction21/01/21 07:17 AM
1

Idk man, try to get to know them? You are putting them on this insanely high pedestal. You dont always have to be engaging or interesting, they should bring some of that too. If you think like this, it’s doomed. Just be yourself and talk about things you’re interested in sharing with her or learning about her.
/r/seduction20/01/21 08:29 PM
3

Become better looking than them
/r/seduction19/01/21 07:39 AM
1

It’s over if you define yourself by meaningless statistics such as this
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:39 PM
5

Tl;dr chill.
/r/seduction06/01/21 11:48 PM
15

Honestly if you’re not willing to walk away from a oneitis you met on tinder of all places then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. If you cant trust em, dont be with em
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:37 AM
4

I feel like most funny people have charisma, confidence or both, which based off the first paragraph it seems you are lacking. Once you build that confidence and self-esteem back up then I believe the "funny" part will come back naturally. I'd work on improving those things first because you're probably subconsciously filtering yourself due to those self-image issues.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:30 AM
1

I am currently in this exact situation so I can offer my experience and thoughts. Honestly, it seems like you are too comfortable. How are you challenging yourself? How are you improving? It's easy to isolate and ghost everyone but that doesn't mean that it's good for you. You will definitely miss out on opportunities and relationships. Not to mention your social skills/game will begin to deteriorate very quickly. Right now I have no motivation to go for girls or build any relationships outside …
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:26 AM
3

Do it if you feel like doing it lol. Its a favor, so dont expect anything in return
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:49 PM
1

It is what it is. There will be lots of opportunities in the future if you dont end up dwelling over this shit
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:47 AM
1

Realistically even if you block her, I would assume based off this post you will just unblock her later. Start talking to other chicks and better yourself every day, then eventually you will be too busy too look or you won’t give a fuck anymore.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:45 AM
1

Sorry i thought this was a troll post
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:18 PM
-1

start with “Hi” and go from there. :)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:24 PM
5

Self-fulfilling prophecy. Your insecurities are going to lead to the demise of your relationship. But it sounds like you’re already there so
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:04 PM
2

Underrated comment
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:44 PM
1

Have some respect for yourself and get this shit off the sub
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:41 PM
3

Its a big decision. I made an attempt cuz of oneitis, note and everything. Fortunately it didnt work but give it 6 months and I think you will reconsider.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:27 AM
5

Just dont say anything lol
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:21 AM
2

Anything we say, you’re just going to put off. Help yourself.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:24 PM
1

Me more women and have more interactions. It’s really that simple. Practice -> Good at something -> Confidence
/r/seduction10/12/20 12:56 PM
1

Stop looking for validation to text her some dumb shit. It’s over bro, start moving on and don’t look back.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 12:46 PM
1

Glad you learned after 2 years bud
/r/seduction10/12/20 01:02 AM
3

Are you serious?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:05 AM
13

Its okay bud. There will be lots of girls that do this. Hopefully you learned some lessons
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:28 AM
84

Oneitis for a girl you’ve never met who played you while talking to multiple dudes. Snap out of it bro
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:26 AM
3

Don’t give them a single thing, be indifferent, it’ll drive them fucking nuts
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:43 AM
3

Fuck her and if you enjoy her company then invite her to do shit. Really as simple as that...
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:05 PM
12

Just remember you did it for a reason. Don’t ever go back. All the best man
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:14 AM
2

#1. Time #2. Lifting #3. Hobbies/friends
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:59 AM
2

You’re going to burnout after a few weeks if you try to sprint there.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:26 AM
6

Underrated comment
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:28 AM
1

Good advice
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:49 PM
1

Send her back to the streets and vet better in the future
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:51 AM
4

Literally baiting you to hamster LOL
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:51 AM
2

Could you kindly elaborate? Not OP but i had similar feelings toward the end of my last LTR.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:50 AM
11

Spend more time on hobbies and socializing, lift until physical exhaustion at least 3 times a week. Continue meeting and plating other women. Hardest part is realizing and accepting the fact that she is an ex for a reason and she is not a part of your life. Didnt work out, time to move on for better opportunities.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:59 AM
2

You’re probably feeling “blocked” because your self-esteem is low and you’re self conscious how people will view you. Practice socializing more, even just a simple “Hello”.
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:08 PM
0

Bring dates to the gym and lift heavy as fuck.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:55 AM
1

No
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:00 PM
12

I always look forward to Uncle Vasiliy posting unique knowledge. Simply brilliant.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:09 PM
13

Don’t waste your time teaching her what is right. Do what you will but you know what she is.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:20 AM
1

Ego
/r/askTRP10/10/20 06:58 AM
1

Sure working on dread is good, but why do you care so much about what she’s doing? You fucked and then she was doing boring shit on her phone. Go find something fun to do or simply do things you would normally do. It doesn’t have to involve her just because she is there.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:27 PM
6

She’s just saying what she thinks you want to hear. Been down the same road 3 times with one girl, not worth it. Next. Plate if you want but remain detached cus all the bad shit will come back.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:12 AM
5

Might just take some time man. 3 years is a long time
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:58 AM
5

Wrap this comment around your mindset op.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:49 AM
27

Stop making it about her. She’s probably feeling pressure to cum, just make it fun
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:26 AM
1

Why do you care what hoes are up to?
/r/askTRP14/09/20 07:32 PM
1

You’re trying to hard. Let it flow naturally. Keep busy and dont force conversation.
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:27 AM
1

Literally gone through the same thing. Never again. Hard fucking next brother, and dont ever go back.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:35 AM
1

If you’re stalking her, you should honestly ghost for the betterment of yourself.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:41 AM
3

Abandoned by her Father as a child. Constant need for validation and attention.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:51 PM
2

Keep this mentality forever and go do something instead of venting on reddit.
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:10 PM
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