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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | The most common mistakes guys make in the field(1) Writing “The Field” like some goddamn cringe lord smh | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareBro you wild 😂 | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareA man cares too much about a woman’s opinion if he hides his emotions to “hold his frame”. Your advice is completely ridiculous. Yes, don’t get too emotional if you want to bang some girl you met at the club, but if you want anything other than a surface level quick fuck you must be able to share your emotions. Where you are confused at is you think any form of sharing emotion is one and the same when that’s false. There are mature, honest ways of expressing yourself and there’s lame attention g… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeI’ve fucked plenty of girls off tinder idk what this guys talking about | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 03:57 PM |
| -1 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityThis is a double edged sword though. Telling guys on the internet to go make approached is sending socially awkward kids off to try and talk to hot chicks. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.This is kinda weird. I routinely pull 7’s and 8’s on tinder which is the same group I get irl. What does that make me? | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 06:28 AM |
| 19 | How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work?Look at your dating market. Are sexual values more liberal or more conservative? I split my time between Idaho and Cali and let me tell ya that shit is night and day. In San Francisco I can get a tinder date home in an hour having sex with her but in Idaho you have to wait till the 3rdish date. | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 21 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...In general, our society confuses a humble demeanor with self-flagellation. You should absolutely be humble, but beating yourself up as being "unworthy" is ridiculous and unhealthy. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Venues for daygame questionIt's going to be tough. At some point there are factors outside of your control and demographics is one of them. Try moving to a bigger/hipper city. If that's not an option right now, consider focusing on yourself for a bit. That way if you do move to a place with better demographics you are popping in more attractive from the get go. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Post-getting her numberAsk to meet sooner, it's more masculine than constant chit chat. Either that or turn the convo sexual with sexting. It's going to happen. Seduction is a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 09:59 PM |
| 4 | My looks are the real reason I can’t get laid. It’s nothing else.Good, life gave you a hard challenge so it's going to be so much sweeter when you're porking hotties later. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?Part of it is that people only really notice people they are, at least, partially attracted to from the opposite sex. Women that say stuff like “men need to be nicer” are talking about the ultra alpha dicks that really do need to be nicer, not the already nice guys that need to be more empowered. Since these women are attracted to these alpha dicks, they are the ones they actually notice where as the nice guys don’t even pop on their radar. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How to finally turn Alpha after being a lifelong beta?Well first of all you identify as a beta so your ego will do whatever it takes to defend this identification even if it is self sabotaging. Scientifically speaking, there are no alphas or betas in human society. My understanding is that the alpha and beta dynamic is hardwired into certain animals and they are, of course, unconscious to it. A beta wolf doesn’t really ponder why he is a beta, he just does beta shit. You certainly have the ability, as you are doing now, to logically and rationally … | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | I’m constantly seeking validation from others. It’s getting disgusting. What to do about it?Start volunteering. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the book Art of Seduction by Robert GreeneRead Robert Greene with the knowledge that he is a very pessimistic dude. He isn’t condoning the behavior he lists, he’s just making the point that people that succeed in seduction often follow the rules he prescribes. He looks at seduction from a very academic sense and i don’t think it is really practical for your average guy living at this current moment. Be that as it may, he does provide great insight into some of the ways people manipulate other people. Don’t read to act on what he describ… | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 12:05 AM |
| 14 | I'm ready to be the girl who has game.Solid, Greek Life is the perfect place to get laid. Make sure you pick a sorority that has good relations with a fraternity you like. Find with frat you think is the hottest and figure out which sorority they party with the most. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Here’s a tip from a ProQuality shitpost | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How to start at 24? Very confusedA. See a therapist about your strict upbringing. B. Read “What Women Want” by Tucker Max. Best guide I’ve ever read. C. Listen to the “Mating Grounds” podcast. Sounds like you’re starting out well by having a generally good attitude about things. The three things I mentioned are just small starts to a long journey. Im rooting for ya bro 👍 | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl randomly adds me on snapchat 3 weeks after a partyShe’s either into you or you popped up on her suggested friends list. Only one way to find out. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Want basic study material!Read What Women Want by Tucker Max | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is she (21f) leading me (19m) on or playing games?I just listened to a podcast with this guy David Buss who said that women have an evolutionary advantage if they can have one guys whose pretty nice and decent looking on the back burner while they go on the hunt for someone whose maybe more exciting or more their type. Not sure how true it is but just a thought. He basically explained it by saying that if you are all in a hunter gatherer tribe she might be really after this tall badass mofo who is a leader type, but if this badass mofo gets kil… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:53 PM |
| 4 | How to find slutty girl in a bar or club?A: women aren’t slutty for wanting short term sex. B: women that are into short term sex will probably be trying to show off their best assets. Look for clothes that show off their ass or cleavage plus jewelry that brings attention to their cleavage. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do girls need 'game' and if so, how do you characterize it?Women basically just need looks for short term mating. Long term dating is another ballpark. Holding onto a guy whose higher than an 8 is really, really tough for young women because those guys are horny and have access to more short term mating options which is most guys’s dream situation. If you want to keep a lock on a guy that’s good enough with girls to have a variety of options than I would suggest learning how to use push pull. If you don’t know what that is look it up, you will find lots… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:39 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls not like me, even though I’ve got big muscles?This is like a high school football player asking an experienced NFL pro bowler why he isn’t as good as the pro bowler if they are the same size. A LOT goes into attracting women. Read What Women Want by Tucker Max, that will give you a good start. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:09 PM |
| 6 | weird hook up story, what just happened?She’s trying to cover up some emotional issues she has with sex and you were there. Be polite but drop away from her, she needs a therapist and you need someone better. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 7 | What is a creep?The most obviously apparent forms of creepiness are when: Someone is poorly dress, dirty, shaggy, generally gross. Make sure to brush your teeth, do your hair, wear clean clothes, smell nice. Do this and this level of creepiness shouldn't be an issues. When you are obviously trying to obscure true motives behind an easily seen through facade. Remember in Revenge of the Sith when Palpatine is trying to influence Anikan and it's creepy as fuck? That's because we all know Palpatine is acting nice a… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:23 PM |
| 39 | Why is confidence so attractive to women?Confidence is mentally healthier and suggests general competence. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 4 | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?Okay you’re going to want to show interest but selectively. Do you know what push pull is? Learn about that, because you are going to want to send signals but make guys also fight for your bit. Don’t fuck them right away but keep them teased by progressively doing more and more with them. Make out maybe at bar. BJ after second date. Fuck on fourth maybe. If you give too much too soon guys will dump you after they fuck you (probably, there are certainly exceptions). This behavior isn’t even consc… | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?Are you looking for a short term one night stand or potential bf material? | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Girls Ghosting When Things Are Seemingly Going GreatThank you for your reply! It's difficult to describe because I feel like inner game wise things are seemingly pretty solid. I've verb through a lot of therapy as a result of some un-related issues in my childhood which has helped me be very aware of my current confidence level, anxiety, etc etc. Everything feels at the same solid level as what usually got me laid/dates. Right now it feels like things are maybe more cultural? For instance, this evening my roommates (female) were supposed to go to… | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 07:36 AM |
| 1 | I feel like when a girl says 'I want a guy who has his shit together' what she's really saying is 'I want a guy who makes a shit ton of money'...Do you guys think it's possible to fill in this "have shit together box" if you have everything put together but are following an artistic dream? I would consider myself very mature and put together but I am pursuing jobs in the film industry, which can be every fickle. When I tell a girl this is she going to think I'm an impossible dreamer? Or if everything else in my life is stable will she give me the benefit of the doubt? | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | A message to all the younger guys out there.Random question, but if life ever comes to it what is your advice for having a clean, not messy divorce? | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond if a girl is giving me hard IOI's and yet she rejects my kiss?I go in for the kiss and they pull back, but coyly. If I had to guess, I would say about half aren't quite comfortable yet and the other half just are playing games for attention, but I'm not quite sure yet. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 01:56 AM |
| 6 | How To Pick Up Girls & Get A Girlfriend - Fundamentals Every Man Needs To Know! (two hours)It's gone private, any other links? | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Learned two important lessons today I'd like to share.I think you should definetly extend yourself as much as possible, but not in fruitless endeavors. If I'm not attracted to someone, either in a sexual sense or just a deeper human bonding sense, I don't think there is a point in spending half n hour like a did talking to someone just to pass the time, at the pojnt I think it ceases to be practice and just becomes pointless chatter. But that's just my opinion and I'm open to differing ones. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Learned two important lessons today I'd like to share.I think you should definetly extend yourself as much as possible, but not in fruitless endeavors. If I'm not attracted to someone, either in a sexual sense or just a deeper human bonding sense, I don't think there is a point in spending half n hour like a did talking to someone just to pass the time, at the pojnt I think it ceases to be practice and just becomes pointless chatter. But that's just my opinion and I'm open to differing ones. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Learned two important lessons today I'd like to share.I think it comes down more to state of mind. My point was don't approach out of neediness, but I think in a sense you can think of almost any daily interaction as an "approach". I always try and make an interaction memorable in some way, but I think it's important to not extend yourself in unnecessary ways, have boundaries. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls love being approached"I ask for the date instead of the phone number. To me, it is more manly and less playerish to ask for the date. It shows your intent, and displays that you are there to take her out, not to chat on the phone." Good shit. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Aye-o! | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 04:37 PM |
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