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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Whats your biggest fear about talking to women?I’m ok with rejection, I’m ok with putting my foot in my mouth on occasion. My biggest fear is misreading a situation in a very bad way. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 09:11 AM |
| 2 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Most bars I’ve gone too women aren’t wearing masks | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 20 | You ever say such a good flirty line that even you’re shocked by it?Honestly I feel myself to be in the zone a lot, however just because I’m in the zone doesn’t mean it’s appreciated. You already have to be seen as attractive, otherwise it comes off as smooth with a side of undesired creepy. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Is what my brother said indicative of redpill thinking?It’s pretty bad, but not the worst thing. I’d argue that pretty privilege does exist and it’s an east perspective to have if you’ve been highly unsuccessful with dating. Tbh I still think that most people need to find each other attractive In order for to find themselves willing to build that intellectual connection with each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Question: Who has it easier in finding relationships/casual dating Women or Men?Tbh when I think of topics like this I still find myself to be on a red pill mindset where women have more options then men, while not necessarily having easy access to what is considered quality men. One thing I hear in both sides of the spectrum is that women hold the keys to sex while men hold the keys to a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Do women genuinely believe that all of their friends are catches? Why do women seem to feel this way, but not men?I’d say the same is true form men in some circumstances. A lot of times when men struggle with girls, either their female friends will try to prop them up as husband material, or their guy friends try to have them hang out with other girls they know, in a situation where their friend can show off his positive guy traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 5 | For you guys out there who are highly successful with women, what are some of the steps you take on the early dates to ensure high sexual tension between you and the woman is building?I’d say where the large. And if you still have some flab or a belly then maybe where a jacket. As a bigger dude myself, I know that wearing clothes that are form fitting is a lot better then trying to hide in a parachute. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Anyone have extreme trust issue after leaving the redpill?Tbh I’ve had trust issues before the red pill but now I’d say it’s safe to say that they’re amplified | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like the effort isn't worth it?Honestly yeah. It’s better to go out to have a good time for yourself and with your friends and if a girls comes along that’s cool. I’d say it’s usually more effort than it’s worth to go out solely to meet women. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 03:48 AM |
| 9 | Whats the truth about money and attracting women?It’s not so much money that attracts women. I think when it comes to long term partners, it’s the idea of financial security, or the feeling like you have a job and not a man child. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | alpha m teaches me how to be a bad boyWell most of his idea of masculinity or bad boy stuff is supposed to be taken as mostly satire. If you check out his earlier videos he does cover how his idea of being alpha isn’t really about anything near the content that redpill media produces. And even the products he sells, while might not be for everyone, in my opinion aren’t bad either. I think the one thing he pushes the most is Tiege Hanley and tbh if your a guy who doesn’t know anything about skin care which most guys don’t. It’s actua… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | For the men in this group, what was the turning point in making you leave the redpill? When did you wake up and how long did it take?I’m still on that sub, and sometimes I comment on them. Tbh even in the beginning I had a bad taste with it. I think for any type of idea to exist there has to be some semblance of truth. I think that some of the generic stuff is true when it comes to TRP but there’s a lot of women hate, and they still seem to put women on a pedestal but it’s now one with negative connotation. I think another thing that turned me off was how it tries to force people into an idea where you should never have LTR a… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Stop taking the fun out of gameA lot of times what I do to get in a creative mood is listen to music or watch funny videos on YouTube or TikTok one thing that can help is watching stand up comedy. Find a couple different comedians you like and try to see if you like their timing. I wouldn’t copy there jokes but look to see how they tell their jokes. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedTLDR I think people want moderation. Honestly I think the memes are kinda stupid. What I think most guys want myself included is a girl who is fun and adventurous but not someone who is promiscuous. I think the reason of why virginity is seen as a loved and hated thing is that the ideal that people have is you find that one person who makes you comfortable enough so that they are willing to try many things. But what often times happens is that most people get into relationship where they try to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Being honest and vulnerableI suggest being honest with her. Tell her that your really into her but your not feeling like she is reciprocating enough. And you would like to know that if she is on the same level as you. It’ll be hard but if she gets turned off then maybe she’s not for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/21 11:54 PM |
| -4 | QuestionSo the main argument I hear about single moms is that they tend to be a bad investment financially also it gets to the concern of what home life is going to be like. Will the step father have permission to discipline the kids. As to the idea of getting someone out of that mindset tbh it’s very hard they need to learn for themselves and you can’t really show them because they’ll be in the head space that you are wrong. It’s quite fickle like most things you become so open minded that later you be… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.Just to add to your hypothesis. It’s also true for average to ugly women. A lot of people are incentivized to have a great personality and force them selves to become better people and others may get bitter and decide to shut out the world and become a person who creates nothing but negativity. I’d say the same is also true for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 17 | Stop taking the fun out of gameYou could literally say anything. One time In college I asked a few girls if they liked turtles, and they would say “yeah why” then I would respond with “because their a fucking menace” then I would explain how the ninja turtles were horrible for the city and give different examples as to why. It would be different every time also I wouldn’t directly say ninja turtles, unless it flew over their heads. But it would be fun and a bit quirky. Some girls would give me weird looks and others would lau… | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | She said lets be friends, I said byeDude don’t doubt yourself and don’t beat your self up either. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much?Honestly I’ve been feeling this so much, it’s getting to the point where it feels like I’m trying to solve a math problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Female Perspective On Online DatingI can see and understand that what is considered the quality of guys might not be perceived as the greatest, but your also assuming that the girls who message back are of great quality, the truth is that the quality that men receive is just as low as what women receive. At the end of the day women live with an abundance of options for dating. Your friend just doesn’t like these options, because the guys are either ugly, poor, only into hookups, or they rate high on a lot of other aspects, but th… | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?I’m 23 and started losing my hair. My dermatologist said it’s mild and decided to have me take some blood tests to see what’s up. Tbh my hair still has the appearance of being thick as it was when I was 17, I started using rogain and will probably go on propecia depending on the results of the test. My dads bald but he didn’t start losing it till his 30s in regards to dating I’m trying to not let it bother me. I’m probably not gonna try to mention it on the first date but if asked my attitude is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?I’m from California, so still US my friends and I have agreed that since places are opening up we’ve felt more forward and outgoing, but not the type to be super handsy. Before the pandemic we weren’t the most boisterous or outgoing, mostly introverted, but now that bars are open we’ve been looking for almost every excuse to go out, be loud, and have a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you react when another guy steals the focus of a girl away from you?A lot of people here are saying you need to look good and be in shape. Tbh that’s only surface level. I’ll tell you I’ve never gotten to get a girl to be interested in me over other guys just based on looks. (I’m not ugly but definitely not the most attractive) tbh girls will care if you’re more put together and come off as well rounded. Style and aesthetic are important to get attention but wit and charm is what keeps and maintains it. Even if this guy just has a greater comedic ability doesn’t… | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Why do I always wait for someone to text me first?If anything you’re maybe a little immature.bit seems your desire to feel special or in control might stem from something in your life you have no control over it. However the truth is your giving the guy control on whether there should be engagement. I can see how you can get the feeling of having the option to continue or not. But let’s say the guy doesn’t text you first, now where’s your power or control over that. It’s true that if you text first then the other person has the perceived power … | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 47 | Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it?Generally I think you get a better chance to talk to them if you met them irl before hand. I think that to be effective if you’re charming enough irl and then dm her a day later you can probably get her to respond. You just need to have a goal in mind and be charming in her dms. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?Well I think it would depend on how often the side effects occurred, and see how else i reacted. In my previous relationship my gf was on the pill and never complained about any side effects. When I asked her about it, she said when she first got on it there was some difficulty, but after a while she felt better and her periods didn’t hurt as much. I know that’s not true with everybody, so again it depends. Tbh even if a woman is on the pill it’s still a good idea to use a condom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 12:26 PM |
| 3 | The key to BOUNDARIES!Bro there’s so much stuff to dissect. I don’t know you or your situation but just the way it’s coming off sound like it could belong on r/niceguys especially towards the end. It’s good that you recognized that you didn’t have fun in the beginning and that you should’ve called it off. First in the part where you talked about opening up I’d try to question if maybe you were doing too much too soon. When you say real and vulnerable, like what does that mean. Did you tell her your tragic anime backs… | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 03:09 AM |
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