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24

My abuser tried to absolve himself with gifts too, it would last until he got comfortable again and did it again. Good for you to get away!!! I was too stupid for too long, you did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:50 PM
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Ew, gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:02 AM
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That's what I was thinking too, that guy doesn't look safe for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:36 AM
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I've been on both sides of the fence and being single and self-sufficient is 23460987206420030533 times better than being in a crappy relationship or being dependent on someone else for your livelihood. I get intimacy when I feel like it, not as an obligation to anyone. Cheers to independence and liberation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:33 AM
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Wow this one hit home. I won.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 06:25 PM
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Absolute truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:13 PM
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I can’t shake the feeling subconsciously that something has to be wrong with me in the fact that I’m 19 and never have been in a relationship and that my time is ticking away. Girl you're out of your mind. You're super young, you have soooo much time. Relax, enjoy yourself, I think you're doing great. Everyone feels like others have it so much better put together but really we're all just faking it. Keep putting yourself first, you'll be ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:33 PM
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Nice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 04:54 PM
21

I had the same experience where I turned 40 and was getting hit on a ton more than I was when I was younger, and the 40s dating pool had ED everywhere. I wish someone had warned me of this... but now at least I expect it. I don't know who they're trying to fool by saying they get better with age LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:35 AM
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I'm living the life of the woman in the red dress and let me tell you, it's amazing. Take care of #1 ladies, and that's you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 04:48 PM
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What a story! And welcome to the team. Glad you're out of all of that and saw the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:37 PM
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This couple is sex on wheels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:28 PM
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For. Real. Omg. Go Keanu, she's beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:18 PM
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She's stunning. And there is absolutely no wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:16 PM
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This is brilliant lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:05 PM
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u/Liz_Lemondrop I fucking love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:54 PM
14

Addicts. Stay away from alcoholics, drug addicts, and throw porn/sex addiction in there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:43 AM
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Omg this should be #1. This is the shittiest tactic of them all and anyone who participates in it is a total garbage person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:41 AM
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I have this problem too, I have thought diarrhea or something. I have to remind myself that 1. it's soooo unattractive to be a frantic texter and 2. he likely doesn't care one single bit about the stupid stuff I'm telling him. I've taken it upon myself to just ping my girlfriends whenever I'm feeling like I have text mania coming on just to keep my dignity in tact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:37 AM
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Yes you have to keep them guessing. Never show your cards...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 12:00 PM
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NOOO don't respond!!!!! Don't let him know what you're thinking... but really well done on being your gorgeous self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 11:59 AM
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Do not engage with a narcissist. Maintain your boundaries. Never explain yourself, it just fuels them further and gives them ways to turn it back onto you. Just stick with "no, absolutely not." If they press you for reasons why, keep your answers short and something they can't argue with like "that's just how I feel, end of story." Don't get roped into any arguments with them. You don't owe him any explanations. Stay strong sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:24 AM
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I guess "don't accept a drink from a guy" extends to husbands now. Lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 09:30 PM
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Some helpful tips if you find yourself questioning your situation: Don’t allow alcohol or other substances to reduce your inhibitions or ability to communicate your wishes. Don’t yield to emotional pressure, nagging, and threats. Don’t assume a known aggressor will not take advantage of you again if you are in a vulnerable state. Don’t believe that your relationship status entitles someone to have sex with you. Don’t let shame and embarrassment keep you from reaching out for help. Don't resort t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:28 PM
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I got hundreds of matches with a bio that only said "I speak English"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 04:03 PM
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I think if unattractive men would just get a whip smart sense of humor, they'd probably be more successful with women. Sometimes a guy who can really make you laugh becomes pretty attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:42 PM
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Another example of how there is no wall, younger guy going after someone he considers a MILF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:40 PM
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That's one reason why it's very important to be discreet about your social media and to never engage in discussions about your sexual history. Also avoid telling men about the painful traumas of your past. That is what therapy and good girl friends are for. For sure, even my own shrink says this. Be careful who you open up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:29 PM
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🙌 Well done! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:15 PM
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it always ends with the guy continuing to be a low value man who does not respect the woman in question Too true. Just take those guys off the list completely. If he already has it in his head that he can easily work you, it's a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:14 PM
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Exactly. Wah wah wah she won't show me she loves me wah wah my love language wah I don't feel desired waaahhh she only wants vanilla... cry me a river DB assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:58 AM
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Maybe their primate brains can't fathom that we can have standards without hating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:49 AM
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This is good advice. It's a well known phenomenon that men will ask a woman for all kinds of bizarre kinky sex, but he is much less inclined to ask her for her hand in marriage after she degrades herself for him. There are also those that get married and then decide they want to get kinky and berate their wives for being too vanilla. Entitled over-pornified assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:37 AM
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Nice one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:11 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:15 PM
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This is great, high value women absolutely know how and when to say no. Practice if you need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:20 PM
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MGTOW = zero value moids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:18 PM
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Same here. I'd even save one of those hateful little trolls. Although afterward I'd keep him in a cage until he learned better ffs. I bet this boy's mother is so proud /s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:16 PM
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Me too! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 07:05 AM
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The one thing you have to understand is men are mentally feeble and emotionally fragile. This is so true of so many guys you would think are pretty tough. I was in a relationship with someone that was high school bully levels of asshole but one day I had enough and chewed his giant 6'4" ass out. He cowered and kissed the ground I walked on ever since that day. Then I dumped him. I imagine the guy who wrote this fanfic piece above is like that. As soon as you stand up to him, he'd crumble and be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:30 AM
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Can confirm, I tried slumming it but learned my lesson to stick with guys I'm actually attracted to. Being alone is better than dealing with a giant shitpile of insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:22 AM
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I think that a high value woman's priorities should be like this, the man should never be at the top of the list: Offspring if they exist Career Personal care and hobbies Relationship only if he's your husband/fiancé/father of offspring Friends & family Everything else Relationship if he's not #4 material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:11 AM
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As long as you're not the one who talks first you're all good ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:16 PM
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I’ve been told that I can give off this “I’m not interested” or “fuck off” vibe If you want a guy to approach you, here's a trick. You catch and maintain eye contact for slightly a little longer than a passing glance and a give him half a smile. That's it. I talked to a psychologist friend of mine about this once when we were discussing flirting, "whoever talks first loses," said the psychologist. So you have to get him to come to you, and that look-smile was how. I tried it out and it's been wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:57 PM
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Actually this also works if you just want to get better service while out shopping etc. No joke. I noticed because I had a client where I had to dress up, where my previous client was casual, and when I went out for lunch during the time of working for the new client I got treated so much better. So I always try to dress well not to impress guys, just to get treated better by the general public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:59 PM
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This guy is a tool who's using you for his narcissistic supply. If he needs so many compliments from you now, next thing you know he won't be able to feel love for you unless you're fucking him and he's on dead bedrooms crying about how he doesn't feel desired. Any douche who needs so many compliments is nothing but an insecure emotional vampire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:56 PM
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Definitely not ugly nor hurting for dates. Some of us just don't want to be doormats like we may have been in the past, and some of us are helping others learn the way of staying a high quality woman in order to stick with our own league of high quality men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:51 PM
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Dudes love bitches. Don't be afraid to be one. (I was always a doormat too and had to learn this the hard way... still learning...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:01 AM
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My opinion is that you just have to point out your own good things to her that she's not getting from her man and let her figure it out on her own. Like "my husband brought me breakfast in bed this morning" kind of stuff that you know her man won't do, and go on about how wonderful this is. She'll get it eventually. Or she won't. Some people don't know how to accept love that isn't abusive. Hopefully she will see the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:58 AM
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We are your Ali <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:50 AM
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There's no blanket statement for all guys love or hate Doc Martens... wear what you want and wear it proudly. Not to please the guy but because you're amazing on your own and he's lucky to be out with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:18 AM
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Yes, even if you're insecure, I'm totally with you that it's best to fake it till you make it. This works in your career too. Confident people go further in life. Also - dudes worship bitches. They have outright told me, a number of them. They say they don't know why but they get turned on when a woman is mean to them. So don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, they probably love it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:15 AM
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Ok I did have one date that was a three day trip through Belgium and France where he drove us through the beautiful countryside, stopped at a few sights, then we stayed in a quaint lovely B&B for one night and a fancy hotel the next. That's how to do a proper car date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:36 AM
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Hugs! Being single is awesome! So many choices... take care of yourself little sister, your life is just beginning :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:17 AM
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I used to take pride in being one of the guys and so chill to be with. Me too, until Gone Girl came out and I realized that I was one of those loathsome Cool Girls. Omg. Never again. I'm a girl's girl now, I'm all good for the sisterhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 09:32 AM
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Yes, look at the myth of “hitting a wall”. Men actually hit the wall the hardest, and if he has no resources by age 40 he is basically useless. They dream about reaching 35-40 and have 18 year old girls chasing them. In reality, those 18 year olds are creeped out by these old men. And 40 year old woman that takes care of herself can now easily go out with 25-35 year olds. Mgtow got it all backwards. This is truth. I would never have believed it myself until I hit 40. There is no wall ladies, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 09:05 AM
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"girl game is looking good and waiting to get picked" Oh barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:38 AM
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Watch him as he goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:54 AM
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Lol these guys are deluded. I had way more dates and got hit on once I hit 40 than I did at 20 by men of all ages. It's kind of weird and unexpected but I'm not the only woman I know that this has happened to. There's an entire porn demographic dedicated to us. Don't worry, there is no wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:18 PM
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I think a lot of women are looking for “closure.” There’s no such thing. This is really, really true ladies. You can feel like you get closure and then the wind blows and that stupid door is open all over again. The OP is right, don't send walls of text to him. It's humiliating. If you need to write it all out, do it and send it to one of your supportive girlfriends but never let him see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:38 AM
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This girl gets it. Living the dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 08:26 AM
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It's ideal if you're an older businesswoman who's financially successful on her own, for sure. Especially for some of us who already raised our kids and aren't looking for another family life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 05:08 PM
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I live near Amsterdam and dating internationally is not easy, each culture has its thing. Usually Dutch women do the initiating but that can come off as aggressive to an English dude. I'm American and grew up with cavemen, but the caveman attitude will not work with European guys. The Spaniards will fuck pretty much everything. Ok disclaimer not all do everything described here, this is just my personal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 10:48 AM
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Totally true, had to learn this one the hard way. Even when you're the 9 and he's the 3 in the relationship. Once you give in and show that you're enjoying it even a little, their ego gets out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:37 AM
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Because the ladies here are awesome, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 05:15 PM
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predators offer "help" like hello little child, come live with me. sick fucks WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 05:05 PM
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I'm Gen X and I have a couple guy friends who really believe that younger chicks are into them. I've tried telling them to stop humiliating themselves but they just don't get it. I told them about how when I was young I'd see gross old dudes at the club and be like eeeeewwwwww but they're convinced their dyed hair covering the greys will somehow cover their wrinkles and saggy balls too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 04:54 PM
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Movies are constantly being made by ugly dudes about ugly dudes getting with hot younger women. A couple examples: Seth Rogen in Pineapple Express is dating a high school student played by Amber Heard. Any Woody Allen movie. I actually think you're right that they're trying to brainwash us. Tell you what though ladies, I tried the ugly dude route and they're just as fucked up as hot dudes, may as well go for who you're attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 04:51 PM
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I've been in a couple of marriages and had a few boyfriends, single is soooo much better. No one nags me, no one asks me to pick up stupid shit from the store on the way home while nickel and diming me to death, no one gropes me after I tell them I'm not in the mood, less dishes to do, I'm over it. I'm very happily self-sufficient, I don't have any emotional voids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 04:11 PM
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Woo cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:01 AM
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It's a good feeling to know the top of their head better than their face amirite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 12:14 PM
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he asks a series of questions and one was “was I the biggest you had?” And I eventually answered after being hounded and said no. Crushed him. Same thing happened with my ex, I was in my early 20s and still learning, I had no idea guys were so enmeshed with their dicks at the time. It's like dude I know there are other women who have way greater tits or ass than I do because it's right there for everyone to see, why would you not being the biggest of them all bother you. This is something I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 11:32 AM
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My life became exponentially better after my divorce 🙌 Abso-fucking-lutely, same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:10 PM
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FWB often end up with someone catching feelings, just talk to him. I had a FWB situation once and neither of us wanted a relationship, but of course we developed feelings. Our friendship was good enough to acknowledge that and talk about it at least. It was all fine. But don't torture yourself by continuing like you are, I imagine that's not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:51 PM
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This is the kind of shit that infuriates me. Fuck this guy. We have to defend ourselves as a gender because we're always getting our boundaries crossed just due to being smaller and less physically powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 08:37 AM
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I laugh. Me too. It's the one reaction they can't handle. Edit: Only from a distance though - sometimes they REALLY can't handle it and you better run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 08:29 AM
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to any 18 year old girls, just know that the guy in his 20s hitting on you is probably doing so because he couldn’t get a girl his own age when he was 18, and is not a prize to women his own age now. Super true. p.s. My prime for dating has been my 40s, not my early years... to each their own :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 08:00 AM
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Men have a wall too. Yeah no one ever seems to mention andropause - the male version of menopause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:48 AM
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Get a vibrator if you don't already have one, it will change your life. Men really do think with their dicks. They are possessed by their dangly bits. Some are just better at self-control. Just assume that every single hetero penis in your life has at least thought about getting with you. They can't help it. Stand up straight - bad posture will kill your back later on in life. Keep lots of female friends and listen to them when they give you advice. Nurture your sisterhoods, you will cherish thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:42 AM
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OMG I'm in my 40s and guys my age and up are the worst with this stuff!!!! They are so gross hitting on younger women and thinking that either they look younger or that younger women find them sexy. They seem to lack the ability to read a room. Plus a lot of them still have old baby boomer type attitudes which have a major creep factor. I don't even want to date them but I'm not an old lady creeper on younger guys so there you have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:35 AM
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if we could look into his mind, we'd only find confusion That would be secondary to thoughts of his own penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:22 AM
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Azadi had joined a growing number of women in Iran who are electing to remain single, defying their parents’ expectations and the strict conventions of the Islamic Republic. Good for them, being single and financially independent is a great life to have! That said, that article's headline seems somewhat misleading, this sounds like it's about women's rights but the title makes it sound like man hating. WTF LA Times??? Edit: Ok maybe I should take that back, if a man can't handle an independent w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:17 AM
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I imagine their dream jobs are primary school teachers and daycare providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:22 AM
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I know a couple grown men who think that if they insult a woman, that she will want them more. It's a thing and it's really stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 08:55 PM
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Same here. I stay single because men are bitches with money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 06:33 PM
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I see you've met my ex-husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/19 12:33 PM
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That was a funny ep. I was also wondering if people were taking a comedy show this seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 06:46 AM
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Why do men get them and women don’t? Woman here, please tell this to my midlife crisis that's been going on for 10 or so years now. Maybe someday I'll know what I want to be when I grow up ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 06:44 AM
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Scary but true :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 06:32 AM
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