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| 1 | It doesnt matter how much you drop your gendered expectations of women, women wont drop theirs and will still hold you to their gendered expectations of men, not matter how much blue haired progressives say otherwiseWell for me it's just a new kind of value set I'm not use to. I tend to go for more femme men with a more flexible understanding of gender and sexuality. I just never really had much interaction with these really "masculine" types especially in regards to a dating context. It has very much affirmed the type of partner I need long term. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/06/23 03:11 AM |
| 0 | It doesnt matter how much you drop your gendered expectations of women, women wont drop theirs and will still hold you to their gendered expectations of men, not matter how much blue haired progressives say otherwiseThe reality is probably not something that you'd like to hear or would probably just disagree with anyway. The issue at least for the vast majority of women I've encountered that have issues dating men, is that they will not pull their weight in regards to household work, childcare and emotional labour. It's not really money that's needed, it's something a lot more intangible that men have had a harder time really come around towards. I've actually seen this a lot more recently as I have started… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | It doesnt matter how much you drop your gendered expectations of women, women wont drop theirs and will still hold you to their gendered expectations of men, not matter how much blue haired progressives say otherwiseAs a so-called "blue haired progressive," I think we're at a weird time for gender expectations that makes it very difficult to navigate. The expectations surrounding women have utterly shifted. For example, it is considered desirable to be educated, necessary to be employed, and relatively self-sufficient. This is the expectations in my community. However, it may not be the case elsewhere. For men, expectations have both doubled down and are largely resistant to moving. This is causing issues w… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/06/23 02:13 PM |
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