| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 138 | What happens to the “cool girls”. | NAH, SIS | iruoma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 17 | What happens to the “cool girls”.glad you’re done with that. disrespectful af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 19 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.i just know he’s the type who’s always tweeting about his business mindset. the “lols” are passive aggressive and he already sounds condescending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 45 | What happens to the “cool girls”.completely. i read it as her trying to convince herself that he’s miserable without her as she’s the only one who truly gets him 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 117 | What happens to the “cool girls”.the ‘cool girl’ Hollywood trope tells women we’ll be rewarded if we doormat long enough. it’s sad to see her totally disregarding her own boundaries to be this guy’s emotional support animal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 12 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?love your mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 39 | Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄did not know that was a thing until this.... still wish i didn’t 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 20 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?sex! i thought i was doing it for myself because i was still super traumatized from a previous coercive relationship & thought that’s how fast relationships had to go. lived & learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 20 | Am I doing this right?you make your text sound like a question when you already know the answer. be more assertive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:59 PM |
| 49 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unreadposts like these cause me physical pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 65 | This is why we should never play housewife (especially besides a job)nagging wife trope. he’s made her into his mother (that he gets to have sex with) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:25 PM |
| 14 | "Mostly all of the other girls I dated did xyz" what is this manipulation called?i don’t know, but god i hate this so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:47 AM |
| 46 | Pick Me Of The Decade Got Me Banned From Dating Over 30 For Putting Her In Her Place After She Came At Me & Lied About Having A Boyfriend When I advised A Recently Pumped & Dumped OP Woman To Withhold Sex Until Commitment If That Is What She Wanted-5th Similar Type Of Post On The Sub This Weekwhen you don’t think your presence is of any value you get angry at people who do & are willing to ask for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:40 AM |
| 24 | What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP?love the song, love megan, hate cardi w/ offset but who’s worrying about him? 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:38 AM |
| 36 | "My fiancé infantilizes me and is generally unsympathetic towards my issues. Also, we have two kids together and we aren't married."it’s so draining and unlikable. i’ve taken to calling them out when i notice it. a straight-faced “you know talking fast doesn’t make your point stronger, right?” or “if i wanted to debate like i’m in high school again i’d join a club, either we talk respectfully or i’m done with this conversation.” goes far for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 32 | Can you imagine coming home to that? Why would you want a guy who seems pissed of 24/7i agree. i’m mad he got any of my attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | For some reason, casual dating makes me feel worse than being single, anyone else?you sound like a pick me. live for yourself, not for how men will see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 110 | "My fiancé infantilizes me and is generally unsympathetic towards my issues. Also, we have two kids together and we aren't married."also, i’m sure the reason she categorizes him as inquisitive and intelligent is because she doesn’t/no longer has strong friendships outside of him. he sounds like a ben shapiro-esque debate asshole who gets credit for intelligence when it’s really being an exhausting person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Being creeped out is perfectly validliterally. i just watched a tiktok of a girl screaming at a man in a subway train car to stop grabbing his dick and sexually harassing a woman who was also on the train. as soon as she said “sexually harassing” the guy goes “woah woah don’t use that word”. they hate accountability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 9 | Being a woman is worse than being a pedo/sdifferent? yes. less racist? impossible. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:25 PM |
| 17 | Being a woman is worse than being a pedo/swhat....Britain is the grandfather of American racism & global white supremacy. there’s no way you can argue the colonial master of the world is less racist than one of its wayward children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Yep.i completely agree. i was more speaking to wanting a “caring” child and that ensuring your child is a caring person is shouldn’t be an issue of gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 59 | Yep.that’s honestly embarrassing. he can’t just raise his son to be the same way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:46 AM |
| 8 | I'm thinking I didn't miss much....“Intimacy!” 😭😭 lmfaooooooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:09 AM |
| 70 | Exactly! You can never make LVM see "what you bring to the table", when they already feel entitled it.Now that men identify this behavior in other men as ‘simping’, it’s a lot easier for me to weed out who I would and wouldn’t date. This behavior is what makes all my female friendships so rewarding, I’d be insane to date someone who doesn’t know how to emotionally invest and support me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:42 AM |
| 24 | I see no liesthe emotional labor is the mental load of remembering and executing the tasks by yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 82 | I'm curious how life is for other women dating childfree! Please share your stories/goals/dreams with mei don’t plan on ever giving birth because our medical system fails black women daily and even if i survive, post-birth depression (can’t remember the medical term for this) would kill me 🥺. if i’m with someone i trust completely & we decide we want children, i’ll strongly consider adopting one of the many children in this world who are already born and need a loving home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:28 AM |
| 11 | The reason these are statements women need to practice is because men don't get patronized for saying these things. A woman is called bitchy and cold if she says the same exact things a man says. These same men will tell a woman she wasn't promoted/was harassed, because she wasn't aggressive enough.yep. nothing like an flat stare to help the message land. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:15 AM |
| 3 | I have no words. It makes me so sad this shit is happening- who would assume a virgin would want rough sex for their first time!well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 15 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themsimple evolution baby! im doing my descendants a favor by not investing resources into men whose traits shouldn’t be passed on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 48 | "Real feminists" discuss how we are fake feminists enforcing patriarchy...meanwhile they have a post history of pushing financial abortion, being poly and blaming a woman with PPD for her husband watching porn. I'll stay here, thanks.i always wonder how many libfems actually read feminist theory when i see stuff like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 14 | I just... I’m speechless. I know some of you can make a proper comment, I’ll leave that to you. 🤢🤢🤢hi, i'm also black. my first bf was black and he still was way too rough without us ever communicating about it. what i wish i'd known then is i deserved a conversation about boundaries/likes beforehand, and i should/can say no at any moment anything feels slightly off. finding someone who allows you total control is key, even if they're also black. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 35 | I have no words. It makes me so sad this shit is happening- who would assume a virgin would want rough sex for their first time!i disagree with this, a lot of porn involving black women tends to be rough/hard. yes, that exists for all races but there’s an absence of “soft” porn so rough is almost all there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with being alone and taking time for yourself!thank you! i’m new but my interest is piqued, i’ll check him out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:45 AM |
| 4 | There’s nothing wrong with being alone and taking time for yourself!who is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 14 | Truly abhorrent. Okay Sis 🤡she thinks agreeing means he’s not actually disrespecting her which is sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Good advice!this is so trash. my ex took me to a garden one time and i was wearing a dress and didn’t notice how badly i was being bitten so we went to cvs to pick up anti itch cream. he paid for all our dates but i felt uncomfortable asking for anything so i tried to get in line to pay for the cream, and he literally called out “what are you doing?!!” from across the store when he saw me lol miss that kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated methat is terrifying. i’m glad you’re (physically) safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverTracee Ellis Ross is my carefree child-free inspo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so obsessed with women’s age?i’m excited to get older. more income, more freedom, less of a care given, and when my natural hair goes white it’s going to look amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:08 PM |
| 37 | Treating us with respect and like humans should be normalized & standard.I have no interest in a partner who’s not a simp for me lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Don’t. Even. Think. About. It.me three, not any longer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:18 PM |
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