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I feel ya bro. I'm 27 now. I met the perfect girl when I was 19 but I was too young and dumb to realize she was a keeper. I left her because I wanted to bang hotties and I did. Lots of them. Nobody compares to the emotional connection I had with my ex. Banging hotties is fun but there's no fulfillment in it bro trust me
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:32 AM
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My bad I misjudged your level
/r/seduction15/08/25 12:44 AM
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Women will fake IOI's too to bait you in and see if you chase. That's probably a bit more advanced though
/r/seduction14/08/25 11:09 PM
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Holy smokes brother you have so much to learn. I'd recommend reading the mystery method before you do anything. Mystery build the foundation that all of pick up is based on. Many of his acronyms and his terminology are still being used today.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:33 AM
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You make a great point and that is exactly the reason so many modern dating coaches are against it as well. However, canned openers and routines do offer great benefits. Mystery goes over them in his book
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:21 PM
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And to add on to what you're saying, you can control the convo by changing the topics, setting the rhythm, the pace, the energy, and ultimately consuming her into your reality entirely. I've had luck with questions too but I've really had to be in a good mindset to offer value with them.
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:21 AM
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Coach Kyle is coming into the game real hot! He's growing quick
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:15 AM
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My best advice would be to practice free association or as they called it back in the day "the million dollar mouth piece"
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:15 AM
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These are all pretty good canned openers! Where'd you get them?
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:13 AM
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I assume familiarity and just start talking to the girl voicing my thoughts. Has to be natural. If she senses an agenda, it'll be a hard open
/r/seduction07/08/25 04:00 AM
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The openers with the highest success rate for me are the ones with the most situational relevance. They could be a question or an observation or a compliment, but I typically stay away from compliments and questions because they can leach value and they're often asking for too much compliance too early.
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:12 PM
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Like Erik von markovik said, "hi".
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:10 PM
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The burden of proof is on the person making the claim. Site your sources. Prove me wrong. I'd love to know how to get laid more 😂
/r/seduction04/08/25 07:46 PM
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Can't argue with results buddy. I've slept with 3 life times of women in my early twenties alone (from the mystery method). But please enlighten me and elaborate on how capitalizing on physical attributes and escalating is the bread and butter of courtship. Sounds to me like you're projecting some personal insecurities to justify your shortcomings in the dating realm.
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:57 AM
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Leader of men, protector of loved ones, willingness to take bold risk, offering value through the vibe, confidence... you gotta go back to the basics dude. I mean this in the most respectful way. You don't know the first thing about attraction. Looks are a small portion of this. Men are more visual. Women are attracted more to the content of your character.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:15 AM
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Bro you're literally in a seduction forum. Are you forgetting that women have an attraction circuitry with universal attraction levers you can flip?
/r/seduction04/08/25 03:57 AM
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Do you feel sexual tension when you make eye contact?
/r/seduction01/08/25 05:46 AM
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I have the hot seat at home program. Which part goes over the getting out of a downward spiral?
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:39 PM
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Interesting. I'd assume he isn't highly expressive in the state he's in. I wonder what's pulling women towards him
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:00 PM
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Please elaborate on that. To my knowledge, women are attracted to the value you give in your energy. What's your take?
/r/seduction31/07/25 06:58 PM
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Couldn't agree more.
/r/seduction31/07/25 06:52 PM
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Bro you are so right and I've been focusing on everything you said. The annoying part about my case is I have bipolar 2 so my depression is unconditional. I don't really have anything to sort out.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:15 PM
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I went from losing my virginity to sleeping with 9 chicks the same year after I read the mystery method. My best advice would be to learn what to do then stop thinking and start doing.
/r/seduction01/01/25 07:51 AM
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Well let’s saying you aren’t that good looking. Wouldn’t you want to optimize your social skills to increase your success rate and compensate for your appearance?
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:48 PM
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Frame control. Period.
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:42 AM
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No I’m there to lift
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:40 AM
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Nicest chin? Homie that’s weird. Please start recognizing where your behavior and words put people off. Tune into the social cues
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:39 AM
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It’s because you are weird. I recommend reading the mystery method. It will tell you how your behaviors are demonstrations of lower value. You should also consider the book “the like switch”. It will teach you how to be like able. It sounds to me like you’re lacking the fundamental prerequisites of attraction which are basic forms of communication.
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:36 AM
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You give some solid advice brutha. I would’ve said the exact same thing
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:56 PM
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All you gotta do is know how to fluently maintain a conversation and just don’t be weird. You don’t even have to use any game and half the times they’ll be attracted to you anyways.
/r/seduction26/04/23 02:56 AM
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When I first started, trying to implement attractive behaviors came off really cringe until I internalized them because people could sense the lack of congruence. When I first started “trying to be attractive” was repulsive. Now, I am attractive. I don’t have to try because I’ve internalized all those qualities. Now I get success without trying because I am a new person.
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:00 AM
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My first dates never take too long. I always close the deal first because It puts me in the higher power position. If I’m just hovering around like I have nothing better to do I lose value.
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:33 AM
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I was diagnosed with Asperger’s too. I too used to struggle keeping a woman after the first date. I later went on to find out my problem wasnt attraction or seduction… I simply wasn’t socially intuitive enough! I lacked the ability to communicate properly in general! Years and years went by. I worked on my charisma, I learned how to project my voice, I started journaling and recognizing the nuances in communication. I started implementing and internalizing new behavioral traits like decisiveness…
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:31 AM
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I am hot, I’m fit, and I’m 6’6 and I can tell you I’ve had horrible success with women until I put an effort in that area of my life to fix it. If my genetics alone determined my success I wouldn’t have had to put in any work. Your argument is absurd.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:51 AM
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With that mentality you’re not getting anywhere. Just keeping it real dude
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:51 PM
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Yes don’t over do flirting or you’ll seem too interested and lose attraction. Flirt just enough to keep it man to woman. Is just saying to take action
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:04 AM
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It’s all a numbers game. Just work through a lot of women.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:10 PM
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I never got around to reading the game but the mystery method worked amazingly for me. I didn’t really know why it worked at the time. I just did what the book said and I got laid.
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:45 AM
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It started my senior year of high school. I was a virgin and wanted to change that so I read the mystery method. After I lost my virginity I got on a role and slept with 8 more that year. I kind of earned myself a bad rep but then we all graduated and went our separate ways.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:42 AM
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Whatever you do don’t put yourself in the frame of trying harder than her.
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:41 AM
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It’s a precursor to seduction. You need to attract and build comfort first. By flirting you’re setting the frame (man to woman). By avoiding awkwardness you’re getting out of your own way and paving the path towards what you want.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:48 PM
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It’s easy when you know what to do.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:45 PM
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Substitute bad behaviors with good ones.
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:14 AM
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If the title is false for you it sounds like you need to get to work (:
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:10 AM
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Dude great comment 👊
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:07 AM
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I meet them at venues I visit often. That includes hole in the wall Mexican restaurants and chipotle. That also includes local bars and get together places.
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:03 AM
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Sure, say you’re at chipotle and you see a girl in her workout clothes. There you to. Strike up a conversation about weight training, gyms in the area, etc. You say whatever seems to be most fitting in the situation but that might be something like: “you just getting off of the gym”? Boom go from there. She says, “yeah I go to gym xyz” you say “oh cool my buddy goes there… and so on”
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:26 PM
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Okay so broaden your knowledge so you’re relatable to more people. I like theology, psychology, Christian apology, thermodynamics, nuclear physics, acoustic science, anthropology, and evolution. I weld, wood work, I juggle, I’m a hair dresser, gun enthusiast, off-roader, I play several different sports. What do you do? Or if you don’t have motivation, what have you done your whole life? Surely there’s some element of relatability to you.
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:44 AM
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Because those men are weak.
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:08 AM
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Anxiety is your inability to deal with stress. Find out what stresses you out and think of what you can say back to properly deal with it. Next: social skills are developed through time and experience. It’s called social intuition. Pick up some books and start learning how to socialize and start going out.
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:50 AM
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99% of my opening lines are situational openers. Then there’s observational openers, then the compliment opener, and finally last on the list the dreaded value leaching question opener. What better way to communicate to a woman that you want her to answer than by literally asking her to lol. I always use situational and observational. Basic superficial nonsense like “hey there” isn’t open ended and does nothing to compel the woman to want to talk to you.
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:03 AM
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My bad at work
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:52 AM
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Dude I’ve had tons of those. Nothing but a waste of time. There’s still a couple like that I’m talking to only cuz they’re super hot but I’m not expecting it to go anywhere.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:12 AM
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Well make yourself worth it then
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:10 AM
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True
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:52 PM
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I couldn’t agree with this more
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:51 PM
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I agree. I never “talk dirty” with a girl unless we’re already having sex. Doing too much over the phone leads to buyers remorse
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:51 PM
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By first move I mean making yourself known
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:48 PM
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Talk dirty. Be clever and be smooth. Don’t say anything weird.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:20 AM
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Playful teasing, sexual implications, intensity through your eyes, indirect compliments. Be clever.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:17 AM
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I broke it down for someone else further up. It’s all about saying things with social, situational, emotional, and contextual relevance. You need to build your social intuition and the only way to do that is to go out and make sure to journal so you don’t forget everything
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:10 AM
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Everybody can get laid. Depends on how low you wanna swing. If you’re a 3 you deserve a 3.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:07 AM
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How to win friends and influence people (book) will tell you the most interesting man is the one that’s the most interested in you. Real social dynamics will tell you to speak with conviction because it’s captivating. Saying things that have relevance to the woman will automatically make you interesting because it pertains to her.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:06 AM
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Yessir 100%! Be your own uniqueness. Remember, attraction is universal. You can have any personality you like. The important part is that you also have the qualities women love.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:03 AM
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Practice makes permanent. 1. Implement desired behavior 2. Practice 3. Internalize Time is the only variable you can’t control. You can work anything out and anything in.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:01 AM
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Discrepancy my friend. That’s all you need to know. Loyalty seems to be becoming a thing of the past lol
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:59 AM
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Yep. What’s the only type of person that cares about a woman’s approval that he’s not even attracted to? Answer: a PUA.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:47 AM
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As long as you make the first move. Usually you have to.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:45 AM
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It’s very hard. You’re literally working against years of deep rooted behaviors hardwired into your subconscious. Practice make permanent. The goal is to keep practicing the right thing until it’s internalized.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:43 AM
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Couldn’t agree with you more
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:42 AM
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Let me ask you something. What do you think women care about?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:39 AM
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Which part exactly? You know where to find them and you know what to say to them.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:38 AM
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Yes julien blanc, Andrew tate, Neil Strauss, mystery, what do these guys all have in common? They’re incredibly manipulative. They have rock solid frames and impose their views. They understand the psychology of women and they work it. Basically the exact opposite of chivalrous, gentlemanly, polite, considerate. It’s not that it’s attractive to be inconsiderate and an asshole, it’s the behaviors linked to that behavior that is. Decisiveness Assertiveness Leadership Independence Certainty
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:16 PM
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Thank you! They’ll even teach you in psychology at college one of the key defining characteristics between men and women (masculine & feminine) is that men are independent and women are codependent.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:10 PM
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My looks and height help in the approach yes. I can tell you from first hand experience you need to rely on your personality from there
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:08 PM
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I once had a therapist tell me that anxiety is your inability to deal with stress. So contrary to some people that say, “minimize your time of reaction and just do the approach, stop thinking just do” my philosophy is, “know what to do so you don’t stress yourself out”. I still get anxiety when an AMOG enters the set lol. I get anxiety when a woman gives me more attention than I’m used to handling. I get anxiety when I know I should do an approach but don’t know what to say. The answer to all of…
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:03 PM
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Is it hard for you to relate to people? Do you not know what to say? Is there situations where you can freely socialize with people at ease?
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:49 PM
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It’s like riding a bike
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:47 PM
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Because most guys have a lot of blockages. Depression, fear of rejection, anxiety, etc. In nature animals don’t have to learn how to attract females, it happens naturally. The problem isn’t what to do it’s what’s getting in your way
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:30 PM
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If you’re introverted try relaxing your brain through meditation. If you’re socially awkward journal all the weird things you do and learn to micromanage your behavior until you weed them out of your brain.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:27 PM
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Looks mainly help in the approach. IMO, only 30% of women wouldn’t be interested in seeing you from your looks alone. (Assuming you’re not hideous)
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:25 PM
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There’s a reason a woman wouldn’t be interested in furthering the conversation with you. For me that reason was awkwardness. You need to find your reason.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:23 PM
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I have had that. My entire life in fact. I get rejected A LOT. But I also talk to a lot of women. I’m far from the best. I’m just consistent.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:23 PM
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It’s all about mindset. Look at Owen cook the short balding ginger and how much success he has. Look at Andrew Tate the bald aggressive asshole. Even look at Neil Strauss from The Game. That dude gets the cake for ugly with a bonus nasally voice. Looks are good for first impressions but most of the times they don’t matter too much after that.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:19 PM
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I meet them at venues I visit often and from friends
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:15 PM
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100% brother. Just let nature run it’s course. The guys that are struggling just have mental blockages. Whether it’s childhood trauma, fear of rejection, anxiety, depression, who knows. My dad ruined me mentally at a young age and that’s what my problem was and might even linger til I die who knows! Luckily I’ve managed to work a lot of my BS out that’s been getting in the way all my life
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:17 AM
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6’6
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:56 AM
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I’m on here because I’m trying to learn like everyone else lol and this is very over simplified yes but there’s no way I can tell you everything you need to know in one post even if I knew it
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:44 AM
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Most of the women I meet are from friends or venues I visit frequently
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:42 AM
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You make a good point. Being awkward is something I have struggled with a lot. In order to not be awkward, you need to say and do things that don’t fall outside of societies standards in communication. The only way to do that is through social intuition which takes time and experience to develop. For example, I can’t tell you how much to the left you have to lean over before you start falling. That’s just a feel you develop through time and experience of walking. Im gonna try to simplify a littl…
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:40 AM
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Light tension, flirting, and allowing your masculine polarity to resonate with her feminine nature.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:25 AM
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I’ve had girls do the work before too but it’s a less consistent path for success. When I take action I really accelerate things.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:22 AM
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What’s holding you back?
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:20 AM
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Sure, say you guys are getting smoothies and she says that hers is really sweet. Your response to that could be, “I bet your lips taste even better now”. Also as a side note, I wouldn’t say anything like that unless I’ve already kissed her.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:17 AM
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Hey man I’m working my way up. We’re all in this together lol
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:10 AM
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This would apply assuming she is
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:07 AM
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Free associate Plow until something hits (a conversational topic) Find commonalities Make future projection Get phone number Set up a date
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:16 PM
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Abundance bro. Don’t get hung up on one. More options = less bullshit. Don’t value one chick more than the other. I personally never message girls for that long because my investment goes to high. I’d much rather work volume.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:19 PM
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Solid
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:14 PM
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As a newbie you’re inexperienced and very vulnerable to being pushed around. It’s more important than ever to hold your frame. Stand your ground. Impose your beliefs and be ready to fight. Your behaviors can be seen a low value and people may disrespect you so if it comes to it, quit joking around for a minute be a little more serious so people don’t treat you like you’re a joke.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:11 PM
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I love your mentality bro. You’re fully aware of the fact that you will have to go through the journey of talking to many women before you settle down. There’s so many people that don’t understand that.
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:45 AM
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Calling a woman, “adorable” would he a disqualifier but cute usually isn’t in my opinion
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:19 PM
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100% I’ve been doing this for years. Trying to implement new behaviors might be seen as incongruence which can lose attraction. Nature is simple. One sex is attracted to the opposite sex.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:16 PM
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