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iscream22/r/seduction19/01/15 03:19 PM
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iscream22/r/seduction31/10/14 03:07 PM
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So much of the stuff here is pseudo cultish crap and its why i don't take most of it seriously or browse this subreddit often anymore. No doubt some of the info on this sub is good for beginners who have never been out on a date or don't know how to be comfortable with women. But those of us who have been with a decent amount of women and have been in multiple relationships, i cant help but think a lot of us roll our eyes at this. There is no one secret technique. Just have confidence, take care…
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:50 PM
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I think half of it is bullshit and people trying to sell products or a service and the other half is decent useful advice. I got into it maybe 5 or 6 years ago mainly to build my confidence. I've had a handful of girlfriends and a decent amount of hookups with some really beautiful and fun women over the past 5 or 6 years. Recently I got out of an almost 3 year monogomous relationship so it's been a while since I've been flirty with other women. I want to eventually look for someone serious over…
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:53 AM
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Not trying to be THAT guy but the grammar in this article is shiite.
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:04 PM
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And better yet keep them by the bed so you dont have to make a run to the bathroom or wherever. Its not a bad idea to keep some lube within reach as well. I keep both condoms and lube in my drawer on my nightstand by my bed. So if a girl walks in my room condoms and lube arent clearly visable yet they're within reach.
/r/seduction14/06/17 04:24 PM
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I was kinda socially awkward and new a few years ago myself and am having much better luck nowadays. Most of the highly upvoted posts on here have decent info. If you're lookin for a decent book about being a dude and dating nowadays this book is a good spot to start. I heard about it on here on this subreddit and it has a lot of useful information. https://www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty/dp/1463750358/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1497457215&sr=8-1&keywords=Mark+manson+models
/r/seduction14/06/17 04:21 PM
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That definitely doesn't work on all women though. For me it's less a horrible comment but more brutal honesty, being direct and demonstrating that you have a good sense of humor. Be bold and stand out from the crowd of regular joes and the friend requests start coming in.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:53 PM
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Same
/r/seduction07/12/16 06:31 PM
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I know what you mean man. Quality is a lot better than quantity. Im single now so i currently date and hook up here and there but id much rather have a good relationship. Its so nice when you find someone you click with and you truly appreciate them. That shit is the best. I have no trouble getting dates but a lot of the women i date arent really my type currently and my standards are pretty high as I've had some great girlfriends.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:50 PM
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Online dating is a numbers game. Most halfway attractive looking women have their inboxes filled with messages from tons of guys so its normal to not get a bunch of responses. If you are going to do the online dating thing you have to a bit more charming/original and stand out from your average Joe when you send a message. But don't beat yourself up about it dude, its not you its just the nature of online dating. Just work on flirting with women in person and keep doing the online thing as well,…
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:16 PM
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For me cutting back on booze helps a lot as well. Helps the skin, increases testosterone and i have better workouts. I strongly disagree with not enjoying the taste of food thats a crock of shiite. I eat keto/healthy most of the time but some occasional pizza/junk food and trying new types of tasty cuisine is the shit yo. Also the whole "don't do cardio" thing is crap as well. I like the endorphin rush I get from cardio and I play sports so it's kind of important to have good cardio and not just…
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:44 AM
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I guess it depends on the relationship. Ive been in monogomous relationships with girls where we'd comment on whether or not someone was attractive. I'd always talk about wantin to bang Scarlett Johanssen and she'd agree saying shes hot. We used to walk around in public ranking peoples asses from a 1-10 scale and she'd point out a dude claiming hes a cutie and id be like MEH he's ok and point to some lardass and be like "that guy, i'd have him sit on my face" and we'd joke about it. Just because…
/r/seduction04/08/16 04:29 PM
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Only time I did that was when I was having a long dryspell and feeling desperate to get laid. She wasn't horribly ugly by any means but just below my usual criteria for attractiveness and I found her personality kind of annoying. The chick was a freak in bed and was into some really rough sex but she started blowing my phone up constantly, calling me babe all the time and was telling her friends i'm her bf. It made for an interesting sexual experience I suppose but it was really awkward for me t…
/r/seduction29/06/16 08:24 PM
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I live outside of DC and don't have any plans to be there this weekend but this spot is usually a good place to meet interesting people/chicks in their 20s-30s. There's usually a fair amount of single ladies there. It's a dance night and only $10 to get in. http://www.blackcatdc.com/shows/mousetrap.html
/r/seduction29/06/16 07:53 PM
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Like other people have said, it's your thought process dude. I was overweight and socially awkward as shit until a few years ago. I lost 70 pounds and stopped being so outcome dependent. If this girl says no, whoop-dee shit on to the next one. I'm still a bit awkward, have a receding hairline and have weird bug-eyes but i'm quite confident and generally am a pretty fun dude to be around and i regularly date/hook up with chicks who I consider 9's and 10's. It's not a matter of whether you are wor…
/r/seduction24/06/16 07:50 PM
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Booty shakin hiphop club music or EDM? Nah, but when i go to a punk or metal show i'm always down to get my groove on.
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:52 PM
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It's possible. I was 270 pounds and would get lucky occasionally but like everyone else is saying it gets so much easier when you lose the weight. After i shed the weight I was regularly talking to around 5 women simultaneously and getting laid constantly for a whole summer. It was fun and all but it left me feeling sort of empty and I desired more than just sex. I'm much more of a relationship guy now and am dating a pretty cool chick currently. If you need help losing weight I suggest low carb…
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:23 PM
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Don't worry about being overly masculine or acting like a alpha male or tough guy. If you want to be a better man just work on what aspects of yourself you're slacking in. Work out, get your shit together, learn to be good with your finances, take care of yourself, try to dress a little bit better, try to be more social, if you drink too much or use substances very often maybe consider cutting back a bit, educate yourself on a variety of topics, watch less tv, read more, don't be afraid to try n…
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:10 PM
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I don't do it because I just wouldn't want to get involved in any drama and I morally feel weird doing it. The only time I did that was after I already slept with a chick and her boyfriend was texting her right after we got done bangin. If i had known she had a bf I wouldn't have done it, there's plenty of other fish in the sea.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:55 PM
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Im 29 I do much better now than when i was 21 because i was socially awkward, then I lost some weight and I've gained a ton more experience talking/dating/hooking up with women just by going out and being more social instead of being content by myself and wanking.
/r/seduction13/01/16 03:36 PM
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I cannot confirm that bitches love that shit. I got kicked out of a party for that. It was 10 years ago when i was 18 and on booze and xanax. Was awkward as shit, but hey man that kinda shit happens when you mix pills and booze.
/r/seduction18/12/15 08:49 PM
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Don't ever give up. I consider myself a fairly shallow person, i tend to date on looks a lot of time but one night i went to a bonfire and met this woman Kelly. She was definitely a larger woman and suffered from clinical depression but I found her weird, nerdy, hilarious and she had a good personality and i enjoyed myself that night i met her. We ended up in a relationship for 6 months and it was awesome until i found out she was a chronic liar and she cheated on me. But point is, don't give up…
/r/seduction09/10/15 02:35 PM
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Mainly hiking, gym, reading, going to see punk rock/stand up comedy shows. Trying to pick up the guitar but currently pretty busy with working full time/school
/r/seduction10/09/15 04:17 PM
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It seems to be that way with me. I've always had luck with the cute artsy, weird/nerdy chicks. I've gone on dates and hit on other types of chicks (blonde beach bums, party girls etc) and i rarely ever have any chemistry with them and would rather be doing something else.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:32 PM
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I have a majorly receding hairline myself, and have struggled with confidence myself in the past. But the best thing to do is just own it and don't give a damn. I do alright with women and i'm just in average shape and fairly average looking so don't think that being bald/balding is game over, there's plenty of women who don't mind it. Just keep trying and dont feel that you arent worthy and try improving yourself in other ways. Perhaps try working on your confidence more by starting more conver…
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:31 PM
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I definitely will I thought it over and it's just not worth it. I'll move on the next one
/r/seduction11/08/15 07:36 PM
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Yeah it seems to be much easier in person for me too. Its much easier to read and communicate with them. Ive had some success on OKCupid but not much luck with Tinder yet.
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:42 PM
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I think just getting out there and talking up more women and being more social helps. Definately dont wanna reek of desperation, i gotta keep that in mind, just wanna have fun and keep trying til i get a women worth talking to/getting laid with. I just broke up with my ex last week so i'm trying not to be in a dry spell myself. I'll be fine for a while but ima really be itchin for some within a few weeks-a month lol But my ex says we'd be better off as friends so i might have A FWB thing for a b…
/r/seduction11/08/15 02:46 PM
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I feel the same way aside from the anger aspect. I got laid twice at 21 and didn't start regularly having girlfriends/hookups until i was 26. Im now 28 and have had 10. Feel like i'm catching up a bit. But the thing is when you regularly have sex it doesn't seem like that big a deal but when i'm not getting laid it drives me nuts.
/r/seduction11/08/15 02:24 PM
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I get complements on Kenneth Cole Reaction all the time. Great scent, problem is it doesn't last too long
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:33 PM
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Im 28, only been doing for 2 years, but ive had far more success since I started. In a committed relationship for the past few months, but still like lurking on here to keep up with things.
/r/seduction24/07/15 04:49 PM
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Yup, i tried this the other night at a bonfire kegger party. There was music blasting and there was one other person dancing out there i didn't know. Got out there danced high energy and didn't give a fuck. Immediately 2 women were like "Hey... look at him go" and started talking to me. The key is to just dance and have fun and not give a shit.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:33 PM
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Exactly. I started with pickup about a year ago. And in that last year i've been with more women than all of my previous years combined. Had 2 relationships and hooked up with a decent amount of women in between the relationships and am in another relationship now. I've failed at the 2 relationships because i keep making mistakes and haven't worked on myself enough. The first one i was overly affectionate and the woman had too much power and ended up cheating on me. And the next relationship I w…
/r/seduction04/06/15 02:54 PM
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Be careful with TRP. Theres a lot of great information on there as far as self improvement and displaying value/giving off that vibe that you dont give a damn etc but theres a decent amount of info that could make you despise all women like I did. I ruined a good previous relationship because TRP made me think so paranoid and I treated my gf like a piece of crap when she didnt do anything wrong.
/r/seduction28/05/15 12:52 PM
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Sucked your duck?
/r/seduction21/04/15 06:49 PM
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You can text her a bit just don't do it all day and don't send another text until she's responded to you. Also don't respond to her immediately, make her wait a little bit and then respond to her. Save the long conversations for when you're in person with her, you won't gain rapport with her as much with texts than you will in person.
/r/seduction10/02/15 08:01 PM
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Sounds like me too dude, I do alright with getting laid/meeting women but i often fall head over heels in love with them when im relationships and almost always become pussywhipped. I'm reading Robert Glovers book No More Mr Nice Guy right now and it's making a lot of sense to me. Trying to implement the knowledge i'm learning from the book into my life. I was recently dumped by the girl that i thought i loved and am just trying to work on myself right now/hook up with girls for a bit before jum…
/r/seduction03/02/15 05:28 PM
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Kava kava is awesome, love that stuff! Not quite the buzz of alcohol, but it's certainly calming/relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 09:38 PM
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I'm also getting over a recent breakup myself, its very difficult to manage your emotions/feel well especially when you truly loved them. My only advice is keep living one day at a time and get through it and like others have said DON'T get back with her. In my experience if she went fooling around on you before, she will do it again, and you don't want to set yourself up for further heartbreak. Don't contact her again. Try focusing on taking care of yourself first and foremost. Hang out with go…
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:57 PM
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I've had the same problem myself, i've gotten better but i still have to remember "Dont come off as a clingy bitch!" when the urge arises. The vast majority of women can't stand that.
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:39 PM
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Honestly you look fine dude, id say just work on your confidence and don't be afraid of rejection.
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:25 PM
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Shut the fuck up, some people can play games in moderation. I play games MAYBE for a total of 2 hours a week and it doesn't affect my relationships at all. I could see if youre glued to Warcraft every night. Theres definately some good information on TRP but theres certainly some BS too.I agree with demoneyes905 a lot of people tend to jump to extremes on here.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:55 PM
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Dont know of the article. But my advice is delete her number/block her on social media. DO NOT CONTACT HER. And try to surround yourself with friends and family for a while if you can. Dwelling on pain and sadness/drinking your pain away/isolating yourself is only gonna make shit worse. Then after a lil while if you feel better/ready start trying to meet other women.
/r/seduction19/11/14 03:33 PM
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My advice is dont overthink it and just try to have fun and dont be stiff. I got invited to an Indian rave a few months ago. Ive never been to any kind of rave and was worried id look stupid but i had a few beers just moved around like others were doing and had a blast. You'll be ok man, just watch what other people are doing and try to have a good time.
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:14 PM
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Definitely move on. You're wasting your time with this one. There are other fish in the sea
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:48 PM
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I agree, it really depends on the girl and your level of interest in her. Personally in the beginning I keep texts short and sweet and to the point/try to set up dates. But if I get closer with a girl and it looks like its becoming more than casual dating/developing into a relationship I dont mind getting occasional texts throughout the day/responding.
/r/seduction13/10/14 04:59 PM
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Same here man, im head over heels over this one chick. Im regularly getting laid and hangin out with her. But i need to cut back and chill out on kissing her ass/complementing/trying too hard so much. Thanks for this post. I couldnt have seen it at a better time and forget this sometimes.
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:30 PM
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Ive gotten a few dates on OkCupid, but i wasn't really interested in the women ive met on there. I do so much better in person at parties/social situations
/r/seduction26/09/14 07:41 PM
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Try it out! That's honestly the best way to get better with women. Practice practice practice. The worst that will happen is you get turned down, but you dont know these women or have any connections to them yet so who cares. It's better to try to talk and hit on women than to not try at all and be home alone every Friday night, know what i mean? Ultimately be yourself and don't lie but also try to be interesting and engaging in conversation, look nice/smell nice/dont come off as creepy and im s…
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:21 PM
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I was in a similar situation man. Im 27 now didn't start dating & getting with a lot of women until two years ago when i started losing weight and getting more confidence. For me i just faked that i had confidence at first but after a while I gained real confidence and was no longer nervous around chicks. Be cocky and let them know you're interested right from the start. Flirt with them but try not to be clingy or needy that's a huge turnoff for chicks. Keep losing the weight and practice talkin…
/r/seduction26/09/14 12:23 PM
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Good job dude
/r/seduction25/09/14 07:52 PM
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Most of us have been there bro. Read up on more material here and on the sidebar and make sure she knows you're interested the moment you meet her. Use kino and hit on her right from the beginning and don't mess around. With practice you'll get better at this.
/r/seduction22/09/14 08:21 PM
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hahaha
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:30 PM
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Just be honest and direct from the get go
/r/seduction25/08/14 08:25 PM
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I agree parties are where its at if youre underage
/r/seduction22/08/14 03:44 PM
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It shouldnt be a dealbreaker, especially if she's in decent shape now. In my personal experience women who carry or have carried extra weight in the past try harder to please me in bed.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:07 PM
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Mutual friends/acquaintences has always been the best way for me
/r/seduction07/08/14 03:28 PM
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Yup! Reminds me of my ex. She brought up that she was ok with a threesome (if i wanted to bring in another chick) and then a few weeks later she mentioned if i was interested in seeing someone else, i said no. A couple weeks later i caught her texting a guy who i know had a thing for her before we started dating and immediately broke it off with her. Hung out and banged her friend, go drunk with her and she admitted that she was cheatin on me the past month with the guy she was texting. I knew i…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:22 PM
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No, most of the time i'm fine. Generally it seems to be the first time i invite them back to my place for dinner and im cooking a meal and trying to make everything perfect and i just wanna chill out and be smooth. Once i get to know someone a little better im a lot more comfortable and don't need to take it
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:27 PM
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I take some kava it seems to help with the anxiety a bit. But i think the main thing that helps is practice get used to talking to women and making eye contact and get comfortable with them. I've gotten better at it but still struggle sometimes if i'm hitting on a really attractive woman.
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:23 PM
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Im ADD myself and unmedicated. I was on ritalin for 20 years since i was a little kid, tried a few other prescriptions, but i dislike stimulants and the way they make me feel. My main problem is retaining information when im listening to them, they can kind of take offense when you forget things. I don't have any particular advice as im in the same struggle but keep lurking here as theres plenty of useful info. Also try reading the book Models by Mark Manson. LOTS of info there as well. The thin…
/r/seduction10/07/14 08:27 PM
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Thanks, will listen to this after lunch
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:59 PM
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Personally I hate online dating. I do best in real social situations at parties, meeting girls who are friends of friends, bars etc. But in online dating it seems too impersonal and tedious. I don't like coming up with a introductory paragraph trying to please all these women I don't know, it seems to be a lot easier in real life.
/r/seduction05/07/14 12:15 PM
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Its def been a while. I got laid the other night by a cute redhead but apparently she only wanted sex, not that im complaining but a bit of a letdown as i REALLY was into her. Talkin to another girl now, but keepin my options open.
/r/seduction30/06/14 08:26 PM
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Maybe he recently got out of a relationship like myself
/r/seduction30/06/14 07:54 PM
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I met Diaz a year ago in DC hes such a badass in person too. Really cool genuinely nice guy
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:52 PM
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Yup male friends are great for that. I just got out of a yearlong relationship with a girl that i was deeply in love with. Had 1 or 2 days of total depression and it was my male friends that came to my rescue. Now 2 weeks later im hittin the gym again hardcore, am not depressed in the least and have got 4 different girls numbers, one of whom is a cute redhead i'm seeing tonight :) My mom is good to vent to and share feelings with but i totally agree good male friends will get you back on your fe…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:44 PM
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