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Discussioniseeyouxo_/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:38 PM
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Question For Meniseeyouxo_/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:13 PM
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Discussioniseeyouxo_/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:14 PM
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No idea how I keep attracting them but I've started to set hard rules about tolerating any indication they're in that head-space because it quickly gets frustrating and confusing. Lol same here. So having proper boundaries is definitely needed. For example "we just broke up a few months ago but I'm totally over my ex," has, on more than one occasion, reared its ugly head weeks into dating. I think this issue stems differently than not knowing her career goals. Not knowing where she is emotionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:20 AM
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Interesting. Those are more things I have encountered with men. But obviously I'm a woman so our perspective is different. I don't know how much this matters to you - but I do feel if she isnt leaning on your for financial support, has some sort of savings and is figuring herself out while still being present dating - I think it wouldn't be beneficial to next her because she's not "all put together" life definitely happens. Ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:47 AM
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Oh those other things just seems like a mess lol or someone who doesn't know what she wants at all. So you would hard pass her if she has those things figured out but her career (due to lay off, due to factors outside her control) is something she is working on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:36 AM
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Know what you want in life and be brave enough to ask for it, seek it out, and filter for it. Can't tell you how many times I've moved on from a woman who was stuck "figuring things out" about her life. We're adults now. Have the skills to know your directions or I'll just keep moving on to find someone who does. What do you mean "figuring things out" ? As in what she wants to do with her life? Her goals? Her career?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:44 AM
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Oh is that why you complain about women 24/7 on here. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:01 AM
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Agreed. That's the reason why half these people are the way they are. If human actions could be defined like a math or business equation there would be no need for psychology. Human nature at its core is complex but they don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 02:47 AM
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It's unfortunate that you can't see a side of something without shaming it but whatever. That's a main difference in behaviours taught to women then by men. Women are taught to "read the room" to "engage others" to be polite, not rude or too blunt. If you are those three things you are not "lady like" or you are rude or a bitch. You will notice a HUGE difference when you see children growing up with this in mind and how children are taught to communicate that ends up transferring to adulthood an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:21 PM
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Lol men just don't want to because they think they will become her beta and she won't do all the freaky things with them that they did with others. That's really it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:13 PM
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I agree with this. To the people who very sociable outside of the internet and have experiences are basically not allowed in this sub. Because your experiences don't equal the stats that they pull. It's pretty disheartening. I could tell my life story and it will never be accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:43 AM
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The issue of FDS is it teaches them to not settle, but everyone does eventually. They're teaching a fairytale delusion Isn't this a reality that the TRP warns about and is a core basis of their ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:05 PM
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Red pill is an ideology for men who don't want to get married, no longer trust women and just want to fuck. Strategies to get women to just fuck. How many times on here do you here ppl saying "a high N woman for casual fucking, virgin or low for marriage" FDS is taking the implications of men and also using it to their advantage to score the best person they want to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:48 PM
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K. I'm talking about the picture and the depiction of a full black child to a white mother. Where is your reading comprehension?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:18 PM
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That didn't respond to anything I said. Your ignorance to disregard it shows your stupidity and inherited racism. You're disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:45 PM
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Look at the comment you are replying to and you are egging it on. It's disgusting. The child does not show a "mulatto" child - it shows a FULL black kid, skin colour and hair. Shows how prevalent the "one drop" rule is, especially to others who look at mixed kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:13 PM
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Why is the kid black ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:34 PM
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The racists are coming out lol. Fucking hilarious. Wonder why you're not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:32 PM
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This girl is 10yrs older than you .... Why are you obsessing... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:47 AM
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If you "insist and make it clear" you're going in raw - they don't have to lie to about anything. You're making the decision to go unprotected bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:40 AM
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Well you're just as gross as those 30 women. No one can "baby trap you" if you make it clear you're going to raw lol wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:24 AM
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Anyway. The number of partners should not matter in terms of getting a test. Get a test with a new partner no matter what. Don't trust a "low" person because you think you can. It's a new body that you have no idea about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:36 AM
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Most people that I know who engage in casual sex are the cleanest ones as the trust you build is not there so they are more weary about being knocked up by a dude or catching something from a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:26 AM
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A women sleeping with 15+ partners most likely engages in safe sex if she is doing it often enough and may even get checked more regularly for tests. Either way - everyone should. Everyone should be "extra careful" with everyone. Someone who slept with one person could get herpes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:12 AM
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Yea, don't be proud of it. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:56 AM
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Tbf I have gotten drunk and spit in her face and told her I find her being a worthless slut disgusting and she had no right to give away her body as it belongs to me. I've done a lot worse stuff though. Um you sound abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:52 AM
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You should be doing that with everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:49 AM
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I completely agree! From both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:25 AM
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Yea .. throw the whole comment away. That was weak. Try again next time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:15 PM
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So why try to use the "lack not having one" an insult ? Lol dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:12 PM
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Oh nice. Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:51 PM
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Mm I suppose. I guess it's normal to me as most of my bf have been Asian lol Haha my first kiss - stupid 14yr old relationships for like 2 weeks was with an Indian guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:46 PM
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GOOD!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:42 PM
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I have a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:42 PM
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Yeah np - Jamaican, chinese and Ghanian. So in short black lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:41 PM
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Short comings? Sweety I didn't even know you were white. And - I suppose any black person writing on here is "angry and black" Like i said your racism is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:20 PM
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Maybe it's a surprise to me, as most of my relationships have been with Asian men since forever. But I guess it's an equal amount of people on each side. And thats awesome. Happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:12 PM
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Interesting majority of the black girls I know would be open to dating other races and it's the other races who don't want to date black. And wow your wife must be a beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:06 PM
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Did I say everything was white people's fault? Now you're just showing your racism even more sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:05 PM
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Mmm interesting. Have you been in the same area for your entire life ? I'm really just thinking of ways to help you so don't mind all the questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:02 PM
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Nah you're not. Just probably racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:00 PM
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Well I don't like abs/muscles or pretty boys. Men who people here believe are "Alpha gods" are guys I probably wouldn't find attractive in real life, or if I find them attractive that's cool but I wouldn't want to date them if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:00 PM
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It's a post? Do you feel the need to ask majority of the people who post why they are posting what they post and ask why they are fulfilling a racial stereotype? So I can't just post for the sake of being human posting about an issue. If you think because I'm black i am embracing a stereotype you're fucked. Sure you would say the same thing if a different race posted this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:57 PM
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Well let's see. I'm 5'8 and not fat. First bf: Chinese 5'9 chubby Second bf: Filipino 5'11, chubby Third bf: Black 6'1, skinny af Fourth bf: Chinese 6'0 dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:54 PM
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Congrats. IT - I do not want to be stereotypical so I apologize I'm just trying to get more info - are you indian, black or asian? Personality does matter. What type of woman are you hoping for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:52 PM
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I thought he actually despised the fact that he was half Asian? And thought that was the downfall in why he couldn't attain a white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:50 PM
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It's purge week and this sub hates talking about race You annoying sexless fucks complain so much about women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:49 PM
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But I'm dating .. Look the racists are coming out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:47 PM
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Where is line drawn between preference and racism? Would you date someone who wasn't your preference? Would it be a complete last resort?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:46 PM
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What do you do for work? How young are you? What do you bring to the table (relationship wise) as in your personality? Have you ever had a girlfriend? So many men I work with who I thought "doesn't have a gf" are married or dating someone. These are below average men, who don't dress well and are nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:45 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:43 PM
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Are you very, very, ugly ? Do you have social skills? Do you dress properly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:41 PM
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What do you like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:40 PM
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Underlying premise of someone not wanting then fuels the same hate and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:40 PM
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Idk how old you are. But most early 20's are not swiping on 35+ old men. From what I gather from being a 20yr old girl once and brig surrounded by many. Like you guys say all the time, the exception is not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:20 PM
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I'm 26 lol and just stated dating my current guy. We met online. Yea and there are age filters - majority of the time girls alter those ages. It's mostly guys that probably don't care about it. But girls 100% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:40 PM
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I'm a woman. If a man who is double the age hitting on me - I would think he was creepy. That he is trying to satisfy something he couldn't achieve when he younger, why he is interested in me when I'm a college student JUST becoming an adult. Is he trying to be with me because women his age don't want him - and that right there is a red flag within itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:17 PM
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A 40 year old man who could be his daughter, is who he is choosing to want to have a sexual relationship with. Sure, some could work. Majority of the time - it won't. There are life stages for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:49 PM
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A man should feel like a creep hitting on a 20 yr old girl. What are they going to talk about? Aside the fact that he's attracted to her. Most girls are not dating dudes +15/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 01:17 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:09 PM
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Make this into a post!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:13 PM
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People who are in college / university are not usually dating people 5+ years older than them. Where are they going to meet while she is in full time studies and hanging out with her friends her age? Majority of the college/uni educated women are dating within the same age group. My best friend is married to someone 15 years older, but he was her boss. Our friend group didn't welcome him with open arms. They were sketched out and told her to be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:01 PM
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I think there has to be equal effort on both ends, Jesus. Both keep sex spicy, both keep up appearances and both fucking pay for meals. Exactly! I just paid for dinner last night for my partner of 4 years and I’m the woman. All the women haters here need to dip out. It’s so sad that some of those incel dudes are demanding to be worshipped yet assuming women all want to be “worshipped”.. Preach please, because the way these guys are typing are as if they have never been in relationships and are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:34 PM
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Okay ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:23 PM
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Imagine being 30 and still blaming lack of relationship experience in women. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:00 PM
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Is this going to allowed to stay up? Or should I just close it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:51 PM
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Cool, so you would date black, brown, Asian, white ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:47 PM
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As in them only liking a certain one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:46 PM
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My ignorance? When it's written and proven. And who's a victim - the fact that I'm explaining your uneducated assumption? Go off sir, enjoy your day. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:26 PM
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Lol because of your race ? And something that grows naturally out of your body? Ok. Again. Your ignorance is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:20 PM
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Yikes. Your ignorance to history and standard beauty is showing. People couldn't get jobs, most wouldn't be hired or accepted if they had their hair in a natural state and protective styles. It was seen as unprofessional, dirty, childlike and unkept. So relaxer came into effect and almost every black woman did that for generations to assimilate into white society by chemically straightening the hair. Beauty/products/attractiveness was dominated by European standards. Other races could pass as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:16 PM
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Exactly. I find it funny on my thread they were saying that women were narsasstic attention whores who couldn't make themselves happy and needed men to pony show. Yet here they are blaming their attitudes and non accomplishments on woman that didn't show them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:08 PM
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A complex about their hair because their natural hair would be rejected. You do know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:05 PM
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Now black women want white hair Lol. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:07 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:04 PM
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Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:00 PM
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If someone is good at picking up social cues and mimicking other people than how autistic can they really be? This is my theory. Whether we want to believe it or not men and women at a young age interact in the world and to their peers very differently. Making them be put in different social situations and circumstances and learning different things. Boys aren't necessarily forced to socialize. Whether it's family gatherings, friends, etc. Boys can assert their independence and keep busy. Parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:52 PM
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They don't see it as bad because they aren't trying to have sex with other men. They could be bullied into oblivion but a few women rejecting them is soul crushing. They place most of their own value on sex and getting attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:35 PM
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And life isn't fair. News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:29 PM
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Desensitized?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:33 PM
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Yea then that entire argument you're having is based off your idea of what a female orgasm is, is the first place. Your points aren't valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:01 PM
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If you're not being sarcastic. You should probably stop trying to argue with the girl then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:58 PM
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You know an orgasm is not a woman initially getting "wet" / aroused right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:55 PM
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Pick one - you're there to make the other feel good, or because you feel good? Bro, you're with somebody for both. Am I saying that it takes ONLY that one person to make you happy? So you're basically saying that nobody in the world can ever upset you. Your parents cannot upset you, your SO cannot upset you? You would get into a fight with your gf, do something shady, then tell her its "her fault for getting upset - she had the choice to be mad or not" lol If you dont think actions of others tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:01 PM
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I mean if you are saying sometimes men are shit then ok? But that's like me saying some people are bad? You really think people dont know this? Um clearly not. If it took you that long to realize. Considering that children, work, and other commitments start becoming an aspect of life? Did women really think their would be courting 24/7? Does that make sense or less exaggerated, courting would occur as frequently as the beginning? It doesnt even make sense Did you read anything I said. Did I say …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:20 AM
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A relationship should make one another feel good. Why the fuck am I I'm a relationship, to feel like shit? You take care of your partner by taking care of yourself. You give love, you take love. It's reciprocating. Am I going to make sure I stay fit and sexy for my bf? Fuck yes. Do I expect him to love me "no matter what size I am and gain 100lbs because of feels" and he is no longer attracted to me? No. Am I going to make sure I treat with respect, take care of him and let him know he is apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:10 AM
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I'm no where close to being blue pilled and I barley believe in Feminism. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:03 AM
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Lol don't be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:59 AM
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Maybe I have an optimistic pov. Even though I have been through some terrible things in terms of relationships. It has to do with luck and I understand it's hard. But I do feel it's worth it. But if u don't that's ok and I won't try to convince you otherwise. Goodluck !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:33 AM
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Do you try to get with an attractive woman because you want her to be your best friend and roommate for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:26 AM
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You're just clearly extremely pessimistic. And you have engulfed yourself into feminist propaganda and clearly only seek out women who meet those. Yes people fake who they are to a certain extent. The point is not bending your character to the point where you're putting on a show in order to impress someone. If someone like designer things and you don't care about it - end the date. Again if someone wants you to pay for EVERYTHING and does not offer or even do it, then don't date them. Once you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:20 PM
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Nope, I don't because I doubt you are referring to being nice. You are referring to worship and obeying. The good old head nodding. That's your assumption. Where did I say worshiping or obeying? Im talking about dates, getting drunk together, game nights, quality time, smacking her ass, calling her beautiful, appreciating her, etc. Both partners realizing their partners love language and taking that extra effort to ensure the person feels valued. If your man isn't nice don't be with him, the nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:25 PM
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Doesn't mean your fake and pretend to be someone you're not. As for a girl who refuses to go out if you don’t pay, regardless of the times the expectation is for men to pay. Yea yea I get that women reach for their purse and offer but in 99.9% of the time that is a shit test. If you're with a girl who doesn't insist to pay for the next one or take turns you shouldn't continue to date her. Me and my bf take turns to the point he tells me to put my card away and stop. First date he paid, second da…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:02 PM
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Ok I guess every man just never listens never does anything for the women, she is always taking the man out to dinner, buys him gifts, and acts romantic. Men are just all incompetent and unsympathetic. Did I say this? Stop putting words into my mouth and answer my question. It has to be a two way street - majority of the time it men doing those things in the beginning to get the girl. He pursues her, makes her feel special and loved, dates, attention, time, appreciation. In doing so, he achieves…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:59 PM
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It is MEN who complain the most when he doesn't get sex. Does he ever think about maybe why he is no longer getting sex? Does he think it falls from the sky in abundance for him existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:44 PM
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Why would you ever want that? Why on earth would any person not want their partner to be turned on? The platonic nature of blue pill relationships is fuckin depressing. If I want a friend I go to the bar or get a puppy. I don't want a woman to be my roomate. Okay, so tell that to the men who think the relationship is over once they get their partner. You do realize im talking about those men who think their wives are going to be turned on by them just for the simple sake of existing. Same thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:52 PM
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This is not about me... My relationship is fine both sexually and emotionally. It's about situations that men and women constantly find themselves in. Men who think it's unrealistic to keep up with beginning phases that locked the girl in - yet expect sex to stay the same even when they are not showing an ounce of attention, appreciation or care for their partner. Relationships are a two way street. It's impossible for it not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:37 PM
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I said this to another person who had a very reasonable comment. If you couldn't be yourself or you''re trying to impress outside your means/comfort to an extent - then you should not continue to date them. If you meet a girl and she refuses to go out with you unless you pay for all the dates, never offers to pay, only wants to go to fancy restaurants, wears designer clothes. If you don't like that lifestyle or cannot afford it, but are only pretending to lock her in... What do you think is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:57 PM
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Then you should date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:51 PM
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Constant pandering and attention. Is not what I'm saying. Taking her out once a week? Having alone quality time? Smacking her ass, saying I love you, kissing, flowers, showing appreciation and attraction - is fucking lunacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:48 PM
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f you are in a long term relationship with someone, what the fuck is this incessant need to feel appreciated? I mean he already committed to you. What more do you fucking want? Exactly my point. Men think that once you get her its over. You don't think a relationship then requires effort and maintenance? Back to my original question. If your wife is refusing to have sex with you for months, would you not think she is unattractive to you? No longer cares for you? Wouldnt it be considered a dead b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:43 PM
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And why do you appreciate your wife. For simply "being" If she was an uncaring, ungrateful, rude bitch - you would love her all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:35 PM
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But men are still committing and wanting monogamy. They can break pretend RP is about that, but most are using it to try and vet their next SO. Where is the hissy fit? I told you I don't care about your no want to be in a relationship. Your examples you have shown me to attain what you want while staying out of monogamy is good for you. Like I said, do you. You don't have to justify yourself which you did, I didn't ask for it lol. Seems like you're trying to prove your own point to yourself abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:34 PM
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Lol if you look at the comments of what majority of these woman are saying it's about. Making her feel appreciated, spending time, making her feel loved, cared for, etc. And this goes both ways for the man as well but right now I'm talking about MEN who think it's not worth it. A relationship is about compromise. It's unrealistic for a woman to expect every single day to do be a honey moon, real life happens. I'm getting to the point of men agreeing that is unrealistic yet still would expect sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:30 PM
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Most men think it's "lazy af" but wonder why sex declines. That is the point of this. They have no problem complaining about the lack of sex while they also think maintaining a relationship is not worth it. This is purple pill debate not your therapist's office This does not apply to me, my relationship is sexually and emotionally fulfilling. So don't get triggered. Relax your emotions. Take a breather bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:24 PM
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Who said that I felt pressured to do anything? The point of this is men realizing a possible reason as to why sex has died down in their relationship, since it is usually them that take about sex duty, sex maintaining, but do not discuss what they may have done to contribute to that decline. Many women talk to their partner. They don't listen. Then they wonder why their wife is filing for divorce, or doesn't want to have any longer. Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men show…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:17 PM
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Meaning that you think relationships are boring. You can have a fulfilling relationship if you put the effort into it. Some men get that, others do not. Which is why it takes work. So you're basically saying men do not want to work to maintain what they have. To your second paragraph - If you don't want a relationship - don't have one. You clearly don't care about your kid, if you're going to purposely "knock up a bar whore, pay child support and see your kid" Great that you have that kind of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:08 PM
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Right now you are putting your beliefs of what you think woman want. What to you is jumping through hoops in terms of keeping a relationship. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:59 PM
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Boring af to you. There will come a time when you want a kid, someone to grow old with and share experiences when you can no longer chase pussy. Men are not immuned to age, loneliness and a want of a deeper connection. But if you want that for the rest of your life, I really don't care. Do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:47 PM
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Makes 0 sense for a man who doesn't want a relationship. If you want a relationship, it's a myth that somehow it's "low effort pussy" that's why men who have this mind set, get married then divorced then end up on TRP or MGTOW. So thanks for proving my point. If you don't want a relationship then leave women alone who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:40 PM
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You are misinterpreting "effort" to jumping through hoops. Who said it consisted of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:21 PM
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So basically you're saying that your wife is replaceable lol. Nothing about her sticks out and nothing about her made you feel good or felt she was a good match to you and your life that you will want in the future. Any woman that wanted you - would of fulfilled this need since you didn't choose her, she chose you. You should go tell her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:55 PM
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If seeing your partner happy which in turns makes you happy and all you need to do is is show her you care, appreciate and love her us being a trained monkey, a long term relationship is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:48 PM
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And that's all folks. She got it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:46 PM
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This is for a relationship. Not casual sex. Just know you will fail then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:42 PM
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The thing is because of the decline in sexual morals couples do all their dating before marriage and think that once married that’s it, when really dating is supposed to be for marriage. Interesting perspective. Hm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:31 PM
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There is obviously a level of comfort that comes to a relationship. I have never denied that. Most the those very successful relationships maintain a level at which both parties have compromised and are happy. Go ask their husbands and ask them if they have completely stopped trying in it. My married friends get baby sitters to go on dates, they cook together, they drink together, my friend will make him a grand meal a few times in the months, he will buy her flowers, etc. When both people put e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:27 PM
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the only reason I want a woman to have sex with me or anyone is because they want to, because they are turned on and they desire their partner. Ok and if you stop doing things to turn her on and stop her from desiring you - wtf do you think is going to happen? Everything else is just prostitution with different currencies. That is what you are asking for when you argue "appreciation" for pussy. Be proud of yourself... You are admitting there is nothing worth respecting or appreciating about you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:16 PM
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Can happen, but its a two way streeet. Its not that Man stops detail > pussy dries up. Its generally a more complex interaction of pyschological distance happening for a myriad of reasons inherent to the couple itself and the circumstances around the couple. This is obvious. I'm talking about when men stop maintaining effort in the relationship. This can and definitely will start a domino effect. Is it always the man? No. But judging on how many men think it's unrealistic and unreasonable you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:06 PM
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Sexual relationships are more situational I believe, as it has to with feelings of both parties to enjoy sex. Both people are having their feelings/needs met in their relationship therefore can engage in enjoyable, guilt free, unforced sex. Relationships of all kind are in a way modestly transactional to an extent but not in a tit for tat type of way, counting everything, ensuring its all 50/50 and holding tabs on eachother. Are you going to give all of yourself to someone with genuinely wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:24 AM
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Hmm maybe because it was on my mind? This is a huge conversation between alot of women. Why not bring it light to men in my free time? You know in a sub that talks about these things. Got laid last night. Your conclusion is false lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:10 AM
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Don't make things personal then I won't. You got triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:02 AM
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Being in relationships where this has happened and it's a shared experience of women, this is one example of why a relationship could go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:02 AM
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My sex life is great... Never better actually. This must of hurt you in the feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:01 AM
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Seeing how you have bombarded this post time and time again. You are the one that needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:54 AM
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Did I say everyone? Did I say every single man on this planet earth is in this particular situation in their relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:54 AM
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So if you feel it's normal to go months and months without keeping up with what you did in the beginning - why do you expect women to give you sex like it was in the beginning as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:50 AM
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He starts acting that way because he constantly has to prove his love to you in order to get starfish sex, while the handsome guy didn't have to do anything and you gave him way better sex for free. First mistake. I do not have starfish sex. He starts acting that way because he constantly has to prove his love to you in order to get starfish sex, while the handsome guy didn't have to do anything and you gave him way better sex for free. Who are you talking about? Because that doesn't relate to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:47 AM
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New thoughts to what? What new thoughts have you provided?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:41 AM
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You simply do not understand the give and take of relationships and the maintenance of a long relationship and you'll may find yourself in a dead bedroom because of this. Did I say they need to be ON all the time? So men do not want to. You're proving my point that men do think it's unrealistic to continue emotional effort but yet think it's unreasonable for women to feel unappreciated by this and in turn no longer get wet by you doing nothing and getting comfortable because you "got her". Sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:23 AM
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That's a huge discrepancy in your argument by stating that there is no difference. She's putting out because her needs are also being met which makes her want to have sex. They are definitely fucking because she wants to fuck. You actually think there's no difference in sex between a woman who wants to fuck and a women who does not want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:18 AM
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According to the responses here - majority of men don't understand relationships in terms of give and take, nor do they understand what a long term relationship needs to last. So. Who are the idiots?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:03 AM
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There are very physical differences. If she is doing simply as a "chore" she will not be wet, enthusiastic or excited. If you haven't realized alot of women's arousal around sex is how the man makes her feel. If she is doing it to make you happy which in turn makes her happy to please you, she will get more turned on and excited from you. If you don't think there is a difference between the two types of "duty" sex being that she wants to do it therefore it maintains the relationship as a result …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:41 AM
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"in my world" Read my comments again before you try and put words into my mouth. A woman should take care of her appearance not only herself but for her partner. Of course there are some things that for a period of time is out of her control - pregnancy weight gain and losing it takes time. But I don't think men should love a woman "at every size and a man should love me for who I am" Both parties should be taking care of one another, that also means taking care of themselves. If a woman doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:27 AM
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Most men do get comfortable or no longer see a need. Take a look at this thread. Most men think it's ridiculous to continue effort and deem it as narsasstic behavior and feeding an entitled bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:20 AM
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It's about maintaining a relationship. Which from what I've noticed and seen - men usually drop the ball first. As you put it "Men are expected to chase a woman and put her on a pedistal, and then continue chasing her for another 60 years just to keep a relationship" If you don't want to maintain a relationship or think it's comes easy with no effort don't get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:18 AM
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Again. Tell me where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:16 AM
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Who said it's either sunshine or rainbows or its enemies to the the bitter end? Specify where I said it needs to be perfect all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:15 AM
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As for sex, I mean you're just assuming that the woman is putting in some great effort in the beginning, which is unlikely because if she was they wouldn't be in a position in which dates were necessary. LOL I laugh at you in long term relationship. So it's unrealistic for men to provide romance or try to maintain but it's unimaginable that women won't have the feels/desire for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:13 AM
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Enlighten me then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:53 AM
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Do you feel like you know everything there is to know about your partner? Create a bucket list of new things to try with her ? (Both your inputs) Game nights? (If you guys are into that) Hotel stays? Getting drunk again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:53 AM
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. You are just assuming that it must be the men who are in the wrong, and if the woman is doing wrong, well "she's not really doing wrong because the man started it". When did I say that? I'm asking specifically. Do you think it's unrealistic for women to expect MEN to keep up some sort of spark/enthusiasm in a relationship with them from time to time throughout the years of being together, like how it was in the beginning. Do you think that's too much work? Do you think it's exhausting and stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:47 AM
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No. I'm not saying these things lead to duty sex. I'm saying that LACK of these things lead to duty sex, resentment then eventually no sex at all. Half of these dudes here feel like maintaining the emotional side of the relationship is exhausting hard work, do you really think these guys were actually doing it? I don't. Most men do not. Which is why when a girl breaks up with him or divorces him he thinks it's "out of blue" nah, it literally never is in most cases. I'm not talking about doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:45 AM
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I've heard this from many friends in my social circles and experienced it first hand (with BF's) Most men do not feel the need to maintain or try in a relationship once they get what they wanted. It's "exhausting and transactional" like half the men here are saying. Just goes to show my point even more. And thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:17 AM
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So you think telling your partner you love them, spending quality time with them, going on dates, taking care of yourself, getting her flowers (if she likes that) is beyond exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:15 AM
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If a man doesn't maintain the relationship why should she feel any sense of romance or sex towards him? Given that he did it before and he has just become lazy or feels it is no longer important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:13 AM
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This is after getting the girl and maintaining the relationship. Meaning her being attracted to you from the beginning was a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:12 AM
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It could go that way. But I'm talking about the way that I hear most women gradually start feel less attracted to their partner. Hearing the responses of most men here - it seems like it's true. As they feel it's ridiculous that woman want to feel wanted after he got her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:10 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:08 AM
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Definitely not true. Maybe for men who are trying to GET into a relationship with someone that is not attracted to him in the first place. But those things are wanted/needed when in a relationship to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:51 PM
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Yes I agree with 100% I've experienced it and most of my gf's have to. To tell a woman to lower her standards and then she would be treated like a princess is such bs. It's only desperate men on here that believe it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:49 PM
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Women equally take their spouse for granted too, it’s just ok for HER to ignore all the male typical efforts he puts in. Who says it's okay? Also, it’s important to remember that emotional support didn’t get him laid in the first place. Of course it did along with her being attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:48 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:23 PM
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Enjoy a deadbedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:19 PM
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Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:44 PM
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For example, I give a lot of utility to my children with no expectation of the return of utility because I actually love them and therefore don’t view my relationship with them as being based in an exchange of utility. I'm not talking about a love of a child and parent. Did you not think you needed to GIVE yourself to your partner in order to GET your partner and vice versa? Did you not have to look at qualities of your partner to deem that she was a good match for you? Hence how she made you fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:39 PM
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This is exactly what I don't understand... It's not necessarily transactional, but do you really expect something when you're not doing anything? (Not you)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:31 PM
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No, I simply mean opening up your legs up to a man that is not making you feel loved and appreciated. You know most times in a relationship woman do that right? If you don't want duty sex - a woman has to WANT to want you in order to feel like she is not being used for her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:30 PM
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For men who think it's unrealistic to keep up effort in the relationship why does he expect a woman to keep the sex up too? On the flip side, show me a failing relationship with their wife fucks her husband and clearly communicates her needs. My best friends before they went to counselling. He dismissed her. She would beg him for sex, he wasnt in the mood, he would watch porn instead. This would happen during her pregnancy and after she lost the weight, etc. She is also 15 years younger than him…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:27 PM
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Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship. In turn it will want the woman to be closer to her partner emotionally and physically Also - I'm asking the men who think it's unrealistic (which is most) to upkeep romance and emotional effort in the relationship but think it's realistic that woman would keep up sex like it was ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:18 PM
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If a woman chooses you for what you do for her (inclusive of how you make her feel) as opposed to choosing you for who you are (without regard to your utility to herself), you’re in a shite relationship. In what world do people recieve something for doing absolutely nothing at all? Sometimes what you do, shows who you are. How can you show somebody who are without doing anything ? And don't say "this world if you're a woman" because thats not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:17 PM
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I'm actually impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:20 PM
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If a woman doesn't care of herself, if a woman is a bitch - a literal bitch that treats her man like a doormat and expects to be treated like a princess, if a woman complains about having sex with her partner (not because of what I said but because she is using it as manipulation from the beginning and never was attracted to him in the beginning) and of a woman does not understand a give and take in a relationship and in turn not treating him like a man while he is treating her as a woman - then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:18 PM
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A woman should take care of her appearance not only herself but for her partner. Of course there are some things that for a period of time is out of her control - pregnancy weight gain and losing it takes time. But I don't think men should love a woman "at every size and a man should love me for who I am" Both parties should be taking care of one another, that also means taking care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:12 PM
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Answer my questions then I'll answer yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:02 PM
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Most men stop putting in effort emotionally once they get the girl. Why are they surprised when the sex dies too? Because I am talking about the man's side of not keeping up the relationship. Which is very often and something alot of women complain about. A relationship is a feedback loop like you said, everyone needs to feel appreciated. Im talking to the men who think the honeymoon phase is only a phase and no longer needs to do anything but expects women to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:55 PM
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Is that from the side of men or women? From the friends that I know in relationships and marriage - the man stopped trying, he stopped taking care of himself and he stop maintaining effort in a relationship. The romance was gone. With the romance being gone, those small things that may have no mattered to her THAT much before is starting to get on her nerves .. she is no longer seeing him as a partner. Just another child to raise who wants a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:29 PM
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Lol then they wonder why their not having sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:21 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:20 PM
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Not at all times, but a level on consistency and romance still needs to be sparked throughout the relationship. Do you expect sex all times? Do you consider months and months without sex is a dead bedroom? Would you complain about not being sexually satisfied if your partner doesn't want to put out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:19 PM
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Well I think that would be obvious that if a man doesn't take care of himself, he would no longer be attractive. Yes you've added points but you can dismiss the fact that a man who doesn't keep up the emotional side of the relationship will also get women feeling resentful and less valued. This is for men who believe woman should still be putting out like in the beginning yet are appalled at the fact that they should ever continue some sort of consistency like in the beginning. If you listen to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:13 PM
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Lol. Go ahead enlighten me about what you didn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:07 PM
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You're so angry. Being a woman I know what makes me horny and makes me want to feel close to my partner and what turns me off and makes me no longer want to have sex. Do you think a woman is going to continue putting out if she feels underappreciated? Would you continue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:07 PM
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Sex doesn't usually get cut off like a switch. She does end up telling him. Most men consider it nagging tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:04 PM
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I'm definitely not asexual. That is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:02 PM
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And when did I say it was a one way street?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:29 PM
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Maybe she wasn't ready for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:28 PM
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It's not a payment. Do you not think a relationship is based on feeling and effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:27 PM
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Where did you see take take take? Did you read my post or glance? Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship. In turn it will want the woman to be closer to her partner emotionally and physically Men have to constantly try to make her "feel special", even after years of relationship you end up spending $10,000 to buy her a ring so she'll be happy. Then don't. You'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:18 PM
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Maybe that's who you're attracting? Idk. Is this first dates or relationships? I have planned and pay for dates w. my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:12 PM
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It's weird that women think that the honeymoon will be forever, over and over again. But you want sex alot forever, over and over and over again? Whereas with sex, it's mutual. If she thinks that she is trading sex for affection is normal... You don't understand relationships and feels then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:04 PM
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First what you call "emotional efforts" isn't attractivity and, if girls like these efforts, it's not something that make them wanting sex. This is going without saying he is physically attractive to her. So yes all these things are attractive in her eyes to want a relationship with him. Did you read? Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship. In turn it will want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:02 PM
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In some cases sure - but then you break up with the person. Don't complain about the lack of sex from a subpar partner that didn't meet your expectations then still want to her put out 24/7 when she did feel your interest in her. With your example - a woman could simply be not having sex with her partner anymore because he is not worth it then but doesn't break up with him. You think that's fair ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:57 PM
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Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship. In turn it will want the woman to be closer to her partner emotionally and physically Pinpointing a give and take relationship. Did I say women didn't have to do anything and only receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:51 PM
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He wants somebody to continue giving out something he wants when he is no longer giving out what somebody wants. But wants to complain about how unfair it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:50 PM
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What does this have to do with my post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:47 PM
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I agree, hence Especially an emotional connection, this is kept up by men showing her she is important, putting in effort this will ensure she will do her part maintaining the relationship. In turn it will want the woman to be closer to her partner emotionally and physically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:45 PM
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So if they think she is no longer worth the effort - especially in a marriage and relationship he's a hypocrite and a user for complaining about it. Basically an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:43 PM
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So why is he still wanting sex then and complaining about a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:41 PM
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You forget poor ppl don't have money or a safety net from mommy and daddy when they get into trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:31 PM
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Thin also doesn't mean skin and bones. Thicc has become synonymous with basically fat, so I'm not that either. Like I said - I'm healthy. If I were to weight 130 I would literally be skin and bones, I obviously know what I look like and how weight my weight distributes. You should go search up women on Google and see what they look like. Go outside and see real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:55 PM
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What are you babbling about? Womens body distribute weight differently than men. I hope you knew that - where fat primarily gets distributed to breasts, ass and hips. I already looked it up.. it's my own body. That doesn't take into account body types and how weight is distributed. Somebody can be 5'7 and be 155lbs but have a long torso, short legs, and no chest. Hence their weight would go mostly to their stomach. They could have a pear shape, triangle shape, or hour glass and it LOOKS very dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:33 PM
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Where is that study? And I still call bs. Go outside and you'll see majority of men with their lookmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:10 PM
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Probably because they are low average. There are many average men dating. Youre telling me majority of men in relationships are only Chad's?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:08 PM
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Yea because every woman that doesnt marry a Chad in a man's eyes - is a beta provider. People need to go outside for a change and stop stalking their insta famous crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:07 PM
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Maybe they didn't know how to talk to girls or flirt or attract that opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:35 AM
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Considering that majority of men are walking around with gf's that are not Chad's - then I'd have to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:58 AM
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Average men can still get it. It's men who do not want to participate and then there are men who are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:38 AM
1

Clearly you don't have an ass and breasts, nor a body that distributes weight properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:15 PM
1

Are you a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:02 PM
0

No. In a relationship that's a necessity for a healthy one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:21 PM
0

Nice guys don't equal doing chores. That's being a decent adult person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:30 PM
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It's not a turn on - as it's his house so he should be sharing the home life workload. But it is one of those things that if he doesn't do it - it's a turn off and definitely a relationship/sex killer. No one wants to be a maid for a grown ass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:28 PM
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Fuck and have a steady relationship. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:00 PM
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Might not be everything but it's a great addition, if you want a proper life with a partner. Also the whole income thing becomes important if your relationship has progressed to a point where you are contemplating living together. People who are dating are hoping to find someone to be making moves with in the future. So it still ends up being important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:57 PM
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She isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:39 PM
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Thin in the right places and fuller the right places. Many actually say I look healthy and fit. I did sports in highschool. I am not skin and bone but I am not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:38 PM
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No. My friend is just like this actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:02 PM
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Men care about $ and education to an extent. If he is an average guy it's not like he's making 100k + that he can support her and him if they are together. Having a partner that brings in half of what you make, equal or a bit more is definitely important in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:02 PM
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Lol, I'm 5'7 at about 155 It might "sound" heavy but you need to remember women carry their weight in different areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:59 PM
1

Ah I see, that makes sense. Do you usually bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:16 PM
1

So you dont ask the girl you be your gf you both just kind of assume from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:03 PM
5

So what is your point? Why are you shocked that most women cannot orgasm from anything else other than oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:05 AM
1

Yeap. Felt like my ex used me for social points. Having a hot girl on his arm but not really wanting to know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:03 AM
2

What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:34 AM
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Balls slapping against a clit is not the same nor does it give a orgasm. People with your mindset are why women for a long period of time never really enjoyed sex as her getting off was "not" important to the male. The same nerve endings that you have on a penis is the same as a clit. Can you cum by having the head of your dick only slapped ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:29 AM
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Personally I don't like huge, hung, over grown dicks. They scare me and do not turn me on. If a guy showed up with a huge dick I would actually run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:26 PM
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But it's in their favour. They can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:46 PM
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Just like not having access to abortion changed the lives of men and woman everywhere. But nevertheless it's unfortunate for your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:25 PM
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Higher sense of responsibility how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:49 AM
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Well unfortunately that won't happen. Pregnancy requires much more than a financial pay check. if it ever does happen we can join the conservative countries where the men marry the woman he knocked up. Would you still be complaining then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:49 AM
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If you don't think it's fair - don't put yourself in the situation where you are at the mercy of others until the law becomes fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:43 AM
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involuntarily enslaved for 18 years to labor to his maximum capacity on penalty of prison. He volunteered when he had sex and nutted inside of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:40 AM
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She wouldn't be pregnant and he wouldn't be a father. They both fucked up. Knowing the odds are against him once he cums inside of her why is he doing it? Are you are all just throwing a temper tantrum because it's not fair? If you dont think it's fair, protect yourself. Women have an out. You don't. Just like how you guys claim women with high n's shouldn't sleep around if they want a HVM, just fuck with without protection if you don't want a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:40 AM
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Not everyone believes in abortion. They can suffer emotional trauma so it's not the best method for some. If she keeps the child she is suffering the consequences of having unprotected sex. You're telling me the guy shouldn't ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:57 AM
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They hear it all the time... ? It's a consequence and she is suffering it whether she keeps the kid or not. Don't act like abortion is not beneficial for both the man and the woman. Are you denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:55 AM
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And she is suffering the consequences by getting pregnant. You think the guy shouldn't have responsibility ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:35 AM
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Aw now someone has resorted to getting personal. So cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:02 AM
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Nah you didn't want to talk about it. So continue you're deluded victim claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:53 AM
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"pretty sure it got in" you would know if it got in or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:52 AM
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Manhood and the act of taking responsibility applies. But good to know you're not open for discussion. We are done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:29 AM
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And in more conservative countries where abortion is not legal - the man would usually take part of the responsibility by "manning up" and would marry the girl he impregnated. Would you rather marry the girl you decided to fuck raw or pay ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:26 AM
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Knowing he has little rights he shouldn't have. Knowing your actions will leave you powerless and at someone's will, why the fuck would you do it? So you can complain you're a victim to the law and women are irresponsible. Wrap it the fuck up If you want to be a worthless father keep up the ill logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:17 AM
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And the man's responsibility is where? He is not suppose to have any right even tho he nutted in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:12 AM
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It's not irrelevant it's the reason he's in the situation. Holy mother of God. Common sense really is not so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:08 AM
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If he took care of the pre, there wouldn't be a post. So you stating the pre is not the issue shows that you should probably not have sex yet. There are consequences Idk what you don't understand about that. Don't give her a choice begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:04 AM
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So what's your issue - That's it's not fair men to have pay? Suck it up and don't fuck raw until the laws change. What do you not understand? It's the rule bud but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:02 AM
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If he took his precautions during pre conception there wouldn't be a post conception.... And stop downvoting. It's not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:56 PM
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Once the pregnancy occurs men are told "too bad, you consented to become a parent the moment you couldn't keep it in your pants." Yes. Knowing he had no way out other than to disappear or be a dead beat father he should of kept it in his pants. He should hold accountability for the decision he made, knowing it was out of his hands after. Which alot of men seem to have no issue doing. But when you try to say the same thing in a debate on abortion and tell a women "you consented to be a parent the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:31 PM
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that doesn't justify forcing men to pay for women's choices. It was his choice to fuck raw and not take care of himself. It's a consequence. If he doesn't want them then do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:17 PM
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She wouldn't have a choice if he didn't impregnate her. It's not fair but it's happening so until then protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:02 PM
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.... You're actually the one thinking nature is offensive. "Men have no rights to a kid" obviously - women fucking carry it. Anything you say after this will further embrass yourself and I wont entertain it. wrap it up bud !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:47 PM
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Coming from the guy complaining about unfair laws LOL What a projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:43 PM
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Great come back!!! I'm so offended! Esp when youre the one who is blaming your situation on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:40 PM
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Shucks. I see logic and you are not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:36 PM
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I'm no where close to a feminist. I'm for personal accountability, stop blaming others for your problems when it's something YOU could have prevented knowing how the world is. Don't be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:34 PM
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How? You HOLD the condom, you OPEN the condom. And pull out even if you have a condom. It's not rocket science. Stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:29 PM
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How can they baby trap you? Bring your condoms ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:24 PM
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It's not fair but it's in the world we live in. So men want to continue cumming in woman then throwing a bitch fit when they know the laws aren't in their favour ? Just wear a fucking condom and protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:22 PM
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The woman has the power once she gets knocked up. It's not fair but it's life. Why enter a race knowing the rules then complain when it doesn't go in your favour? It's stupid. Women have tons of birth control and options. If she doesn't want to have kids she can go on bc, if she wants to have kids she could come off, if she gets pregnant she can have an abortion if wants to keep it she can. Men literally have to wear a condom or not or get a vasectomy if he doesn't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:11 PM
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If he doesn't want children he should get a vasectomy and not finish inside a girl. If a woman gets pregnant and she keeps the child it's his responsibility - shouldn't have gave her the choice to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:08 PM
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He shouldn't have left that decision in her hands knowing the laws. She wouldn't be giving birth if he wrapped it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:02 PM
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I see it, in obvious cases such as sugar daddies or a woman who is with someone unbelievable low looks wise. But because I have broken up with my two of my bf's who were very wealthy - i couldn't be with someone just for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:03 PM
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From my experience people who seen their parents go through a divorce have more trust issues and feel no need for marriage or love. Isn't that damaging to their 'pairbonding"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:54 PM
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I guess I can understand. Though I think I have more partners than my bf my "experience is limited" and we are both open to trying new things with eachother. I also don't hold my past baggage against my new partner. If I dealt with it I should be over it and if I'm not I shouldn't be dating and I treat them as a blank slate. Maybe my intentions have been different so I truly do not see woman letting go of all their standards just to not be lonely. I place too much importance on sex and attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:45 PM
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No. Both my last ex's were not hook ups. We started off as friends first. You can argue the pair bonding myth but I deny it. Unless the woman has some sort of trauma due to her encounters or past then it might have an impact on future partners. Would you date someone from a single parent home? Divorced parents or someone who was abused in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:42 PM
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It matters to you you can't seem to understand that people have a difference in opinion on what constitutes a good relationship. If he asked me, yes. But he wouldnt because we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:36 PM
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Read the chain, then comment. Your response doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:34 PM
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Im sure you thought that were love, this is what i am saying, pair bonding is a very important thing that is missed up by having a lot of sexual partners. No. It was. How are you going to tell me that I didn't love the person I dated for 2 years and for 4 years was not love? He is the best you ever had, do you wonder what he has that all those other guys didn't have? That's right, pair bonding love it makes the difference from casual sex and hookups. No because we get along on all fronts and our…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:34 PM
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We both had a conversation about this and he told me he doesn't care for the details, I told him neither do I. We again talked about relationship experience and our past relationships. Why do you think u can tell me how much I care about my relationship on a thing that both my bf and I don't care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:28 PM
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So why did you comment on our conversation? Did you just see my comment and ask if I was asking for his approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:23 PM
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Had the ability to just hookup with a man, but you never felt loved or any intimate and amazing feelings, and now with your boyfriend he makes you feel like you have no weight or that he truly loves you, which makes the sex feel better and amazing to feel right No. Like I said before I had LT relationships before and felt love. This has nothing to do with "me never feeling it before"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:22 PM
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No. We have never talked about SEXUAL counts. I don't think it will change his perception of me, we both DONT CARE about a SPECIFIC number. Why are you acting like you have to ask the amount ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:20 PM
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No because he purposely used high numbers to disregard my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:19 PM
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Well this means that you had a very merry happy relationship but have avoided the sexual partners question like the plague, That is your right but it means to me that something was missing in that questions of past relationships, the sexual partners number, the dreaded question of a lot of women don't want to tell their boyfriends. No. We both never asked. Why is that so hard for you to believe? By virginity i am sure you mean that he has made the lovemaking special and intimate and not like a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:18 PM
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If you know what you want you go and look for what you want. People in general barley know what they want. Takes a while to figure this out. If a woman was interested in the kind of man I was in my youth she would have looked for those men, even if they were not in her social circle. So because her 25+ yr old self doesn't line up with her highschool self she should be judged on that ? I think a big problem is that it seems like many mens sexual preferences do not change over time. Men; you see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:15 PM
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No... Because it was never discussed and we both didn't bring it up. There was no lying or concealing. We asked questions based on LT relationship experience, what we have done and things we are willing to try. What we have learned, our family backgrounds, our friends, our hobbies, our book we read, our interests, cultures, comedy, philosophy, etc. Even though I've had more sexual encounters than him I think, he has took my "virginity" on many things that he was also new to. He's hands down the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:52 PM
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We don't talk about past sexual encounters. I don't know how many ppl he has been with and idc. There is no way on earth someone would look at me and think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:43 PM
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And if I had 30 ? What would you say then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:36 PM
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So you don't ever think men let go of themselves and stop trying ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:35 PM
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I actually find conversation one of the least reliable ways to learn about somebody I gather all the information I want and need to know from my partners without asking these questions. I honestly do not care about the amount of ppl he had sex with. We talked about past relationships, break ups, what we learned, etc and got into deep conversations with those. Why do I care about Samantha that he hooked up with while drunk? We are both very honest to each other, esp with what is deemed important …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:34 PM
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If she is having casual sex for the case of securing commitment from men then it would hurt her. If she's having it for fun, then no. I don't agree with pair bonding. I've had casual sex and can still bond perfectly fine with my bf. Even cry during it as the emotions of him are so overwhelming in a good way. If I'm going to go along with your "pair bonding" it seems RP have the most issues with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:28 PM
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Then we can just agree to disagree. I don't usually like to dive too deep into someone else's past. The main points are covered through conversation but I don't need to know the details. That will give me a good indication of their mental and emotional state of mind. I don't care what my bf did when he was single in terms of hooking up with other girls. We never talked about it. We both know we learned alot and bonded through the wisdom and life experience we individually shared and can apply to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:20 PM
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If the person you want to date has no relationship experience and only ONS and hook ups are past the age of 25, then I would question it. They don't know a relationship therefore there might be some issues. If someone has their fair amount of hook ups and actual LTR relationships, the LTR behaviour should take precedence over single behaviour. And there should be no reason why single behaviour actions should be a deciding factor on how she will act in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:07 PM
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I've had casual sex. The guys I've had casual sex with were never "Chad's" they were all average. Some I look back and actually think wtf was I was doing? (I was extremely insecure back then. Needed attention) I never liked Chad's. I always went for the kind of awkward, nerdy, types as I'm not one for the mainstream media. Guess what? They weren't lining up to start a relationship with me, they weren't begging for me, average guys can 100% have casual sex and act like nothing happened after once…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:52 PM
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You're only seeing things from the outside. What if to you he's average but to her he is sexy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:37 PM
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Unless those social circles are separated by countries that is not an excuse. Lol what? Social circles are a huge factor in relationships and knowing people Not an excuse. If you know what you want you go and get it. That applies to women too. Lol I guess you guys really don't think people change over time. If you were a 19yr old shy, quiet, good looking but introverted guy you wanted women to flock to you? Alot of men/women develop confidence over time. Women and men are attracted to confidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:35 PM
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Oh god you are young. That was sarcasm if you couldn't get the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:25 PM
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You're assuming that there's a hard and fast division between "single" behavior and "relationship" behavior Single behaviour you live and do things that only you want. You can be selfish. You can be a slob. You can make decisions for yourself and yourself only. Relationship behaviour there is now another person you are considering. That is a huge hard and fast division between the two. You are now no longer making decisions for your benefit, you are factoring in someone, you become a team. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:23 PM
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Yeap bc I'm not in a relationship right now, sure bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:16 PM
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No. You want to figure out how she will be in a relationship. Why are you looking at her actions while she was single? Single behaviour and relationship behavior are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:15 PM
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Rejecting girls you don't like doesn't mean anything. You don't like them. Like I said i'm sure the girls who are refusing to fuck you now won't be lining up to fuck in the future. Aka the girls who dont like you now that you like, won't like you in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:13 PM
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Maybe because those guys weren't in the same social circles? Maybe those guys were too shy to make a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:08 PM
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I'm a girl. And I'm sure the girls who are refusing to fuck you now won't be lining up to fuck in the future. 19 and you're like this? Yikes. Youre already starting a sad life, you poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:06 PM
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Aw shucks. I guess I hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:05 PM
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So why don't you compare her past relationship actions not her single ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:00 PM
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Do you really think its lack of attraction in terms of looks as to why these men aren't getting fucked by their wives or is it because he's a lazy ass husband therefore he no longer turns his wife on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:53 PM
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Where is this revenge fantasy where all men who were rejected in their 20's now have line ups of women begging for them? Guaranteed if you weren't having sex then - and that was your goal, you probably still don't have as options now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:51 PM
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Lol so on top of getting mad at women that call men who care about this so much, insecure - you also believe the only men who will date the woman are gay / beta losers lol. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:49 PM
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Um I'm commenting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:55 PM
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Because men do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:40 PM
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Yea probably until they already like her and accept it. But how many men glorify "roast beef" vagina's? Alot talk about it in a negative light first and foremost. I'm sure when you think of a vagina it isn't that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:39 PM
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You start to learn about sexual reproduction at 11-12 You start having crushes on the opposite sex before that Most of the boys in my Catholic elementary school at age 9-10 were going around slapping girls asses. Boys sometimes start to masturbate before they can even produce semen, meaning before the reach puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:30 PM
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But you didn't have sex.. And did you continue to constantly get sexual attention and experiences after that ? Did your 13/14/15yr old relationships contain sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:16 AM
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Sexual curiosity is not 15. People start touching themselves at a WAY younger age than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:11 AM
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It isn't. But you said always available. Having your own life, not sitting and waiting around for your partner to msg you isn't ideal. Full life and making time for your partner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:01 PM
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Ok you do realize that you said "you like women who are always available" With the list you stated you were not always available. You were having your own life, your life was full, you weren't making your gf your life. Could you imagine a girl wanting to talk to you all the time throughout the day while you were trying to manage your own business, work full time, etc? She would become a burden. You MADE time, you didn't have the open available time. So you just proved my point you said is nonsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:29 PM
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Ok you do realize that you said "you like women who are always available" With the list you stated you were not always available. You were having your own life, your life was full, you weren't making your gf your life. Could you imagine a girl wanting to talk to you all the time throughout the day while you were trying to manage your own business, work full time, etc? She would become a burden. You MADE time, you didn't have the open available time. So you just proved my point you said is nonsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:28 PM
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No. I am fine lol you're now getting emotional to defend yourself not being emotional. It's quite hilarious actually. Real pity you can't see it. My assumptions I have made, like I have said before - can I really believe you? You could be making it up. The way you have been representing yourself during this interaction is still very questionable. I asked you a question if your were autistic - now you're very triggered and wanted to prove me so wrong that you're still begging me to agree with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:59 PM
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"women lose their attraction by having sex" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:10 PM
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Because a person needs a life outside of their relationships. A relationship is an addition to your happiness it shouldn't be everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:04 PM
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Because I'm the one who went on a rant about men and i am the one who is basically begging for someone to agree to something .... you're entire posts have been riddled with emotion. If not I wouldn't have known that you gave up on love and women. I asked you this before so follow along if you can answer - what point did you make that I initially opposed but I am "agreeing" to now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:02 PM
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Nah... There is no way to ask someone questions around their count without asking specifics. If you're asking her about individual encounters or ",how many times did u do this" is just cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:54 PM
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LOL you just went on a whole tangent about women.... Generalizing majority of negative attributes you feel all women do. Yes. You are being very emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:59 AM
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Like what? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:58 AM
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I don't know what kind of girls you guys are dating that is specifically talking about her past casual hook ups enough for you to assume a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:38 AM
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How would they even find this out tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:27 AM
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This is how I know you aren't logical lol. Getting emotional. And I have no problem admiting I am wrong. When I am wrong. But you trying hard to prove that I am is cute and also further proves my points of you. Yeah .. just like how men who cheat, lie, etc shift blame to the woman? No. Youre using that example for specific behaviour that you believe only applies to woman. What do you want to agree on? The fact that relationships have attraction and strategies to develop - I already said that. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:08 PM
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You're point didn't state whether or not she was on the pill in the first place. There are people who have unprotected sex knowing the girl is not on BC and still don't use a condom. Why is he placing his life into someone else's hands? Why isn't he taking the necessary precautions for HIMSELF to ensure no pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:10 PM
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So you admit making assumptions based on just 1 or 2 comments is what made you incorrect yet you still do it? Youd think youd learn your lesson then that making snap judgements means you will almost always be wrong and yet you continue to do it. Interesting how you dont learn from the very excuse you use. You clearly live up to your name. Yes. Just because you said it doesn't make it a fact. You could be lying and the way you are talking shows there is a disconnect somewhere. Obviously you were …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:06 PM
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Ill say it again. The way you showed yourself was someone who was inexperienced and the way you answered my post made it more prevalent. I asked if you were autistic based on the interactions we briefly had because it didn't seem like you understand relationships or attraction. Why should I admit I was wrong when you were exhibiting a false sense of experience or plainly acting dumb to something you already knew? (If u actually do know it) No I don't care about flairs. Its uses to bait people, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:11 PM
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That was my point youre not. You were wrong about me having no sexual experience with women. Do you want a cookie for having casual sex? The way you have been showing yourself is someone with no experience, you also speak like it. For all I know you could be making it up? Am I going to press you and say you're lying? No. I don't care enough for that. I moved on. To Now youre saying ive had no positive experiences eith women. This. And you clearly do not perceive these interactions with woman as …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:50 PM
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Where am I admitting I was wrong about anything ? Because I'm still behind my points and haven't backed down from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:42 PM
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But you do generalize men. In fact theres an entire movement called feminism dedicated to talking about mens behaviour as a whole. Sexual harassment, cat calling, rape, violence, etc etc Ok but am I a feminist? How come its socially acceptable for women to talk about mens behaviour as a gender but if I talk about womens behaviour all of a sudden its incorrect and every woman is magically unique? As a gender of course there are things that over lap. Women nature and Male nature. That would be stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:32 PM
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If the women gets pregnant when their never talked about it Then it was a mistake on both their parts. The man should also be held accountable. He has the dick that is spitting the sperm. Or when the man clearly said he doesn't want kids Why didn't he get vasectomy and why is he still going inside raw? when the relationship starts breaking off and she does it because she thinks she can keep him with the child then it's absolutely her fault. For the woman who do this. I agree it's stupid. Most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:03 PM
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I think men have the most issues with pride and one heart break could literally be the end of the world for them. It's funny because most RP guys talk about pair bonding when it's them that have the most trauma. But in doing so I lost respect for women. Its sad when you realise this stuff works on the majority of them. Negging, shit tests, escalating touch, ignoring, social value etc et So you lost respect for woman and now no longer believe in love. Lol. You need to go through some more hardshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:56 PM
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If a woman fucks a man who is clearly not interested in a relationship or kids at all and then complains that he doesn't stick around afterwards, she is either really really stupid & naive or just looking for an easy excuse as for why she couldn't lure the badboy into a relationship by getting pregnant. If their in a relationship it's their boyfriend. So they clearly are interested in that Do you think all outcomes of single motherhood are obvious factors at the time the woman got pregnant and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:44 PM
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Do you think most single mothers are caused by one night stands ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:40 PM
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Lol. So where is your stance on abortion ? If the mother knows the father will be horrible, should she and only she have the right the terminate it without his consent or knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:39 PM
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Nah that's fine. I'm not that invested in wondering why you aren't successful in casual sex. And I asked you a question. Why are you offended? The way you are perceiving information is questionable so it's only fair to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:36 PM
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You seem like you have a hard time understanding relationships, attractive and how to be a human. This is a serious question and I'm not trying to be rude - are you autistic or show signs of it? Nobody can tell you who you are attractive to. Even tho I am girl, does it mean that every single man is going to find me attractive ? No. We are talking about two different things then - relationships and sex - for a relationship woman definitely need to put in some work in their own regard for a man to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:02 PM
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There is not "a one fits all" type of man. The type of guys I like, I'm sure my girlfriend's wouldn't like them. They are usually quirky and attractive to me. There are things we ALL do that we are unaware of that makes us attractive. The amount of things my bf told me that made me really like me were things I was not conscious I was doing. Whether it was bringing up a random ass topic, the way I stand in the kitchen, the way I look at him, or cuddle. There is no "manual" natural quirks along wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:07 PM
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Hair cut and style goes a long way for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:05 PM
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No. It's called being normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:21 AM
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Meaning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:25 PM
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What is low n count behavior ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:44 PM
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Ok. How many women are you "turning" down now because they wouldn't have liked you when you were younger? Because I personally don't believe this being beneficial in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:14 PM
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My man handles me and throws me around just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:12 PM
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So you don't think women can have the same type of change toward men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:12 AM
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Lol. Wow. Are you the same person you were when you were 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:35 PM
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Nice way to keep it classy bud. If you can't have a logical debate and discussion without trying to use low blows then this conversation is done. What do you not understand? The idea of putting ones self first is dependent on the situation. There are some situations where a man would chose to put himself first when a woman wouldn't and vice versa. Like I said. You don't have to understand since you clearly don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:58 PM
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No. The guy I am seeing now is normal. Normal as in, not fat and not skinny that is what I mean as "naturally toned" Has a belly and is soft but it doesn't hang over his pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:23 PM
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Of course they do - at the end of the day we are human and I am a woman, not a man. There are certain situations where self preservation is lowered compared to men and women. If you deny that, then you simply do not want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:14 PM
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Sometimes alot of women are worried about the after effects of saying "no" to a guy. Especially when things have gone far enough, in terms of where you guys are and the intimacy that you have already reached. To pull back and say no to a guy who is already in the heat of the moment could end up being a dangerous outcome or unpleasant. To not forget that parents teach their children differently and society has a different expectation of the genders. To a man, he has grown up to not be wishy washy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:41 PM
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Sometimes alot of women are worri d about the after effects of saying "no" to a guy. Especially when things have gone far enough, in terms of where you guys are and the intimacy that you have already reached To pull back and say no to a guy who is already in the heat of the moment could end up being a dangerous outcome or unpleasant. Sometimes women just say yes - to MANY things to simply please the people they are surrounded with and deals with the mental effects later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:34 PM
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Do you think men who describe women as used up cars should ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:28 PM
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I don't like muscular men either. Give me a natural toned healthy body, with a bit of belly - abs and huge muscles are not fun to cuddle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:26 PM
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Definitely. There are people who are still successful and want to achieve climbing up the corporate ladder. Majority of the time though, people know others have negative stereotypes of a tattoo filled person (I'm talking visible like hand tattoos, neck - things that can't be covered up by just regular attire)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:34 AM
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Honestly. They are taking the most extreme cases and placing it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:28 PM
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The "stereotypical" out of the box girl - yes. Majority of women are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:55 PM
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A tattoo is something that is marked on your body for all public to see. For someone young wanting to acquire a certain career position or goal they know it won't be seen as socially acceptable. Humans are visual. We all know that. The amount of people you sleep with is not a physical mark for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:50 PM
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To continue to love is a choice everyday - she is choosing her husband. It would be unrealistic to say that nobody finds anyone else attractive ever but you can admire at a distance and still value your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:31 PM
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But that is what I'm saying lol. Specifically for me, there is no reason for me to talk about my casual sex encounters in enough detail. I don't talk about them. I don't even talk about them to my friends. Sex with my ex's is different as it goes into "things you've done" and I have never done something with someone casual that I haven't done with a partner. I'm pretty vanilla actually. The person I'm seeing now, is the first person I've tried a multitude of things with for the first time. Him t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:57 PM
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If he finds out... What? I think you're coming from an angel of people lying about a specific number. Like I said, I don't have to bring up a number to talk about my experiences ... I can say I've had casual sex before and relationships before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:51 PM
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But to go to the extreme of death or break up.. lol for not talking about it It's not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:46 PM
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"nasty bits" so I assume your gay? And what is changing about them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:40 PM
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Why is this so extreme? Why do you guys think a relationship is always highly focused on the past. What type of relationships are you having to constantly bring up sex with ppl in your past with someone you're dating .... It's sounds so immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:38 PM
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I guess my approach is different. I don't talk about a number or willingly give information and the only experiences I talk about are with my ex's. In terms of LTR, obviously I count those. But casual encounters.. nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:35 PM
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So I've heard. Debating if ill get a c section 😂 But aside from that. Some average sized dicks won't do much. I mean know you every woman looks different down there right? Some lips are bigger, clits are different etc. Even if she is virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:33 PM
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Unless I'm a pyschopath, I don't discuss my casual experiences in terms of sex. Why should I? There is nothing memorable about them. I've talked about dates I've been on with weird people or sex and things I've done in my actual long term relationships. And I don't ask about their past in terms of casually either. I really don't care to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:31 PM
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Probably not because of regular sex. Maybe some huge ass dildos or very extreme play. A babies head is made to come out of it. a HEAD. A few normal girthy dicks won't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:28 PM
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If it's a question that is asked once - why would it become unbearable or impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:24 PM
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Why do you think having alot of sex changes the way a physical vagina looks? How old are you? Have you had sex before? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:23 PM
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Don't tell her she's wrong or what she should of done. You will never know her relationships or how she will bond with her future partner. Cut the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:22 PM
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"exhausting to live a life forever" It's not like this person is hiding a double life with another man and kids LOL. If your having enjoyable sex and a great relationship with your partner there is no way she's sitting back thinking of all her old dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:20 PM
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Men wonder why women think so highly of themselves and see themselves as a prize. Men are they ones to objectify women into "used goods" as if she is on sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:17 PM
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Tbh I agree that it boils down into insecurity. Are you finding our her count before or after you slept with her? Are you finding this out before you build up an emotional connection with her? Past patterns of what? Casual sex outside of a relationship. If you want to know how she will treat you, why don't you ask her about her monogamous past relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:07 AM
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These are average guys that are saying they wouldn't date a girl taller. There are many people who state their preferences and men and women who would reject someone not within it even though they are a good match. Or people who state their preferences and they wind up not with that person at all. This transcends height, weight, and race especially. Unless I'm freakishly surrounded by outliers - my old manager is 6'1 dating a man who is 5'8, my aunt is 5'7 and married a man who was 5'4, my best …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:37 PM
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I have heard men say they won't date a girl taller than them. The insecurity portion can go both ways. I can argue that women can look at a short guy and admit he is cute/attractive but not her type. She can have an insecurity about social norms around dating a man shorter than her, or her being taller than him in heels and not feeling feminine. Men can admit they are attracted but the tall girl is just not his preference, which I have heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:47 PM
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As a tallish girl - this is a lie. Had ex's ask me to not where heels so I wouldn't be taller than them and im only 5'7-5'8. The depiction of men being attracted to small dainty girls that they can easily pick up is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:50 PM
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Did I say ALL girls ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:29 AM
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It's sickening ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:48 PM
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Do you know how fucked you sound ? Stop replying to me. You're sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:32 PM
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Rape does not have consent. Idiot. Rough sex, rape fantasy is not rape. Like I said - socially stunted idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:28 PM
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People who stay inside will survive corona. Has nothing to do with living in your mom's basement. So try again. You're actually sick and deserve to not socialize with others, not like you could because your probably socially stunted. You'd probably be a fucking rapist if you could be. Piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:23 PM
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You're disgusting and deserve to be alone. Which is why you're on here anyway. Enjoy your mom's basement loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:18 PM
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I'm not even a feminist. Which is the funniest thing. The amount of women I know who have been raped as young children and young adolescents is far too many. And the rapist was let go. Then you think those rapists just stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:14 PM
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Yah because REAL rape cases are barley recorded and extremely difficult to prove. Statistics only show what is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:52 PM
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You do know that this fear / discomfort is taught to women right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:30 PM
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Real rape never happens? You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:27 PM
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Short good looking guys still get it in. Women don't want to date poor guys because she doesn't want to be a mother to a grown ass man, if she is well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:22 PM
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You can fantasize about Chad but not want to spend a moment in his company. You know what right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:21 PM
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So if you're white - you should give space to black women too. Many black women feel uncomfortable around whites in a secluded area, while they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:13 PM
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Just like men's paranoid schizophrenia about every woman wanting to divorce rape? Yah ok. You know this in inherently TAUGHT to women right? By men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:12 PM
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idk you are siding with me or being sarcastic tbh and directing the last part of your sentence to the person i replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:22 PM
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Because what he is saying is a joke and i laughed. Again, this is a fantasy you guys make up. How many women are TRULY going back to their former boyfriends or people who liked them and they didn't like and begging for commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:45 PM
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Lol u guys and your statistics. Which report shows that the direct cause for break ups is specifically because of how many people the girl slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:55 PM
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Like I said you brought up race. Whether or not you said what yours was the topic was brought up for me to say something. As my point stands, you have to bring it up somehow whether it's going to be direct or not. Who knows you could of looked through my history which is very public and some of my recent comments are about natural black hair. You're acting like it's not knowledge that is there for everyone to see. Obviously the conversations are not limited to those. You have shown me 0 examples…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:09 AM
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My race wasn't being concealed.. it's like you're saying you robbed a bank when the money was left for the public to take. You keep stating that you "find out" there is no way the conversations do not get sexual or past is indirectly brought up without you asking a question pertaining to it. Just like your "indirect" question of my race saying "I only date people outside my race" you brought up race into the indirect question. You can't ask a girl a question about her favorite fruits then find o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:59 AM
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And this is how I figure out her N count in the end... because she relaxes and starts talking... then talks more.... over time, she says the truth without me asking. I was able to figure out your race in what? 1 hour? What if I talked 2 months with a woman, how much more could I figure out? But I'm not trying to conceal it .. if I was, it would be a complete different story. Im saying that if a woman wanted to keep it from you, she would. And how many people sit together and talk about hook ups?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:49 AM
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Well then you're dating strange women. I have never heard of women trying to one up on her man in terms of how many people the slept with. Idk if it's because you're a black guy and they are trying to impress you but that's sad really for those women, tbh. Strange behaviour. Well sure - this is my lazy speaking. I'm not trying to be proper of you are linking that to sounding black. Read my university essays and work emails and you'd beg to differ. People have many hats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:19 AM
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No. I truly believe if a grown ass man is getting daily sex from his girl and she is treating him well, there is no reason to ask the question. Which most relationships start off doing. If he is not in that type of relationship from the beginning he shouldn't submit to not getting what he wants/needs. The only time that should be an inquiry in a grown up relationship is if he is unhappy. And or if he highly religious. If not, everyone on the dating market knows you have sex prior to meeting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:11 AM
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I'm not trying to conceal anything from you though because like I said I'm not dating you lol. Ive commented on many black related things and follow black topics so it's nothing I was trying to hide... And like I said before, a woman who is trying to date you would know what not to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:08 AM
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K so you're black? That's awesome. I only date outside my race too so 👍🏾 good for us. Lol okay whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:02 AM
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I mean you guys are pointing out the most basic "traits" so it's not really a radar, even woman could point it out. I'm saying that if a woman wanted to conceal her N count she could and would be successful. You guys would never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:01 AM
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Grown ass men wouldn't try to find ways to "ask the question" You're not picking on a very small detail. At the end of the day you're still trying to fish to find the same information as if you can - directly or indirectly. Unless the girl is a straight up "basic bitch" you'd have an extremely hard time finding out the the truth. Again... Lack of experience men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:53 AM
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You're triggered that you're a grown ass man asking the question. Im not dating you so idc what you think of me lol. In my experience anyone who asked that question they have all proved to be little immature shits so join the flock of inexperienced men. It's okay, you too proved my point very well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:39 AM
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Then that's just stupid assumption as BC doesn't protect against STD's. Getting pregnant is not the biggest threat of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:26 AM
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If you're finding ways to be stupidly petty... Try again. I understand English just fine. You said "young men" may have problems. I stated grown ass men wouldn't ask that question anyway. You're stating that you would ghost her like you'd have the upper hand, I'm stating the grown ass women would ghost you. Whatever methods you think you have, you're wrong. If you think a woman would be 100% honest with any sexually driven questions to expose herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:24 AM
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You have just explained the most "basic bitch" that is plastered on Instagram and showing me that you guys think a girl with a high N is the most stereotypical girl. You know girls are on birth control for medical reasons right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:21 AM
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Grown ass men wouldn't be asking a question about N count. If he is, I'm sure that grown ass women would ghost him as it shows his lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:18 AM
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Nah lol A man that is a player flaunts it. Majority of women do not flaunt that behavior to a guy she just met and wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:14 AM
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This probably sounds right in theory, but will never work in real life if you think you can "sum up a calculation" by asking indirect questions of an N count. As if like I said - a woman will be honest about her experiences. You can ask all the questions you want. If she is not honest what are you basing it on? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:13 AM
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Ya'll are weird if you think every woman is sexually open with her past to a new guy she wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:08 AM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:07 AM
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Lol like I asked someone. How would you even know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:04 AM
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But I mean how would you even know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:58 AM
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And what is she attained all those things on her own already and she sleeps with men while she is single ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:20 PM
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So men just compare himself to a ghost lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:19 PM
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Lol until she realizes she "missed out" and wants to divorce you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:17 PM
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Question, why do you think it's degrading ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:14 PM
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Definitely tell him to start eating some fruits lol or change his diet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:11 PM
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That's because they think it's emasculation lol. Not with a smell. A healthy vagina smell shouldn't be unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:10 PM
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You should make a post about this. It's spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 01:13 PM
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You guys live in a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 12:46 PM
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Lol where are these tons of 22 year old women sneaking off with these old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 08:09 AM
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If by 35 a woman does not have a child or plan to marry, then like the OP stated they would rather be alone. Lol - so you want women dependant on you? While in the same breathe say men value youth and sex. And a woman is suppose to feel secure knowing that when she gets older you'll just jump on the next hot thing and leave her? That's the reason why women becoming self sufficient is a thing. Being dependant on someone fully is no good. A woman should have at least finished college or university…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:21 PM
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You forget that women are always a wanted commodity. Whether they are fat or old. There is a demographic of men that will always want women. The same cannot be said for men. The older the man gets, his age preferance will incline with that. A 50 yr old man and a 35-40 year old woman that works. A 50 year old with a 20 -25 year old? No. Also, the older men get just as women the smaller their dating pool becomes. You think most women in their mid twenties are going for men half their age and going…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:15 PM
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No, knowing who you are as a person. At this time they are done school and in their careers - like men. I'm so sure if any well educated man looks at a 30yr old woman who is fit, dresses well and knows what she wants - he will pick her over a 20yr old with multicolored highlights in her hair that is obsessed with Instagram and seflies and is in their first year of college lol. All you men who are out here chasing pussy only will definitely never find a proper partner lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:48 PM
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There are also plenty well off single women in their 30's that don't need a man to survive and are okay with being single if it means she doesn't not have to settle with some 35-40 year old balding guy who believes he is at his prime. You guys always have this "catch" who exactly are you talking about? Because there has never been any woman that I know that completely ignored someone and tried to hit them back up once they reached 30+. There may be some women who do this but it's VERY rare. I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:03 PM
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I'm not thinking of women as the prize. If I did I wouldnt specify a man wanting an competent partner. Key words are the last two. You guys are the ones making it seem like a hot young vagina is the prize - and something you can attain more and deserve once you build your self up. I didn't say women marrying young men too, is true. But at that point like OP stated they would prefer to just be single then deal with any kind of man. "Men are marrying young women" ok you guys use that until your bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:06 PM
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How young are we talking? The amount of successful men who have gained what she stated will want a competent partner and someone on some what of the same mental state as them if they want to settle. There are some men who don't care about that but I'm sure they are the ones not wanting LTR anyways. Yah sure he can bang some early 20 year olds - if they like him, but he has to try much harder to impressive an actual quality young girl that doesn't want him simply for his money. It's interesting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 02:33 PM
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I would think that he learned his lesson - judging that they are no longer together and didn't want to rush into something and make the same mistakes. I wouldn't think there is something inherently wrong with me. That's insecurity talking trying to sound like logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:23 PM
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Well, why did you continue on the date anyway and beside it going horrible during the dinner date, you paid and went back to her place ? Was this girl hot? Nice body? Nice face? Wouldn't you rather hard pass on sometime showing their true colours then to get sucked it and realize after she is a mess ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:57 PM
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Who told you you're not suppose to be attractive to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:55 PM
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I disagree with your point that creating the sub is basically a tit for tat because of RP - when all of female dating advice boils down to ensuring youre going to be with a good partner. From the dawn of time women have been told to stay away from men the RP is trying to create. They are polar opposites; one is about sealing commitment the other is about fucking as many people as you can. Obviously red pill men are triggered by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:34 PM
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You know they also think a LVM is somebody who doesn't want to take time to invest in another human to just use them for a quick fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:31 PM
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Yes that's why I said to discuss like minded experiences, which in this case has been negative experiences with men. It's to reiterate and discuss it. What are you not understanding? Even if you go on dating advice, relationship advice, ask women etc - you'll find alot of the same information just delivered in a different tone. So it hasn't been a secret. It's just one place for people to openly discuss their bad choices/experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:28 PM
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Because they can ..? It's a discussion form to vent about like minded experiences, like every other sub Reddit on Reddit... Do you think ask men or ask women or anything in relation to the opposite gender was created in retaliation to one another? If you think that - the subreddit called REDPILLWOMEN would fit your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:16 PM
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I agree with you but avoiding and differentiating LVM and HVM has been what it's all about. It's just now that LVM have public knowledge to what women actually talk about and think about them. Before they were just avoided and didn't know why. Now they do, so it's seeming like it's a backlash. When it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:00 PM
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Yah but I don't think it's a response to it. It's literally just public knowledge that is being reiterated now. Every girl growing up probably hears things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:45 PM
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Yet RP wants women to give it up to them easily, not prove anything, have sex on the first date and if she doesn't you're comparing yourself to an unknown ghost of her past which makes you feel insecure. So once you get sex, you drop her and continue fucking as many women as you want to - repeating the cycle. Then wonder why women are weary about giving it up when they are considering something serious. If all parties want casual, they get casual. RP is primarily about fucking women and hoping y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:23 PM
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Tbh I don't think so. Majority of what I read has been what women and men have been saying to years for women to protect themselves to find a quality partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:17 PM
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Yeap by her one and only husband. Still more times than you. Sad story. Youre pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:31 PM
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She was You are honestly fucked. Stop responding to me and go make peace with your right hand. The only attention you'll be ever getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:29 PM
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Yup she was. Ya.. it doesn't fit your RP narrative right? bc there is something called the real world. You guys need to go the fuck outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:26 PM
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She was a virgin LOL What the fuck is wrong you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:20 PM
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Mine is average I guess but I've never had crazy sex or tried new things with anyone. So in a way I'm still inexperienced. The guy I am dating now, we tried more things than I have ever done before. So even if he has slept with less people than me we are basically at the same level and experimenting things for the first time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:18 PM
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Not really. He was already had a failed marriage and other relationships. He wanted a family and a wife again. Figuring that within a few months of being together he proposed, got married a few months after, he asked her to stop taking BC and she got pregnant within 3 months of getting married. From a young age, she was told she wasn't able to have kids. She let him know this, so he even volunteered to freeze her eggs when they start trying or to figure something out. She was against marriage an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:11 PM
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Yes I agree. That's why with these RP tips for these men it comes off so rehearsed and unnatural. I remember he asked me how many people I slept with while I was at work on my lunch break on the phone with him .... I'm like wtf? Thank you :) you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:24 PM
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It's funny you ask that - because I believe he was. The relationship felt so empty and one sided. He would also show signs of someone being on the spectrum, in terms of his behaviours, sensitivity to smell/lights. Very awkward in social situations and wouldn't want to go. One time when we went to visit his home country, I caught him just laying down and starring at the fan go around and around eyes flickering. So from there I did research. Relationships with someone on the spectrum and it was ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:06 PM
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Not active on the sub but would read it often. He may have been active before he met me. But he was definitely red pilled in terms of how he views relationships and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:43 PM
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Because it's more complex than just your measly 4 points. That's relationships for you, if you understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:15 AM
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She was 20* And ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:45 AM
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I just said it was both.. ask him to fucking pick a side. Do you have reading comprehension problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:44 AM
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Yah. It was an incredibly dark time for her. Much more complicated than just a yes/no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:40 AM
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It was always on and off with them. So there were times he would before she got pregnant.But pregnancy made it stronger when he would not do it. After wards it was again on and off she just stopped initiating. If she didn't - he wouldn't. When he did, rare occasions. So. No. Not a huge detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:02 AM
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Um no. Dealing with a man who is 15 years older than her while she barley has life experience. You can read my other comments about this situation. But like I said, be mad at men then. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:36 AM
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It was him that decided to date her. So don't go trying to blame women. Blame men. And it didn't come without hardships on her part either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:31 AM
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Well she was pregnant. Some men actually don't feel comfortable having sex during the last trimester, but that's when women are sometimes the horniest. So they had to get over that. Even know it's not as constant. But he would say he is tired from work - sometimes worked 16-17hr days etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:30 AM
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Lol right. But it didn't come without really tough times. She was thinking to divorce him after their baby. He was extremely condescending, being a lawyer able to spin words and situations. She felt she was on trial every argument. It was mentally draining her. He was controling. After he closed his office, she didn't work and was a SAHW and shortly after SAHM - he controlled all the money basically since they started dating he was essentially paying her He didn't want sex with her, she would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:40 PM
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Asking about experiences in terms of what they like and asking how many people they slept is - is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:16 PM
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That's your own narrative. Idk if you're a guy or a girl bit if you're a guy you sound like somebody who would ask. And if you're a girl - why do you care and why do you feel the authority to speak about men saying "why would a guy want to be with someone who slept with 15+ guys?" Maybe because he likes her ? Or he will never ask how many people she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:14 PM
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My best friend. Applied for a job as a secretary at a law firm. Got the job then her boss aka lawyer asked her out on a date. He was 15 years older than her, he was 35 and she was 20 at the time. She didn't finished post secondary yet Now 5 years later, they are married and have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:01 PM
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Haha love it. Congrats on the new man!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:28 PM
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I'm black.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:27 PM
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Not really, I'm sure I've had sexual encounters with all races before Yes my last ex boyfriend was the only black guy I ever dated or did anything with actually - but he was Hispanic in the Caribbean. Other serious relationships - they have been Asian I honestly don't really find white men attractive. I wouldn't be able to LTR or date a white guy. Neutral. I'm black - Carribean with a small about asian roots and African. I never really had a step back from my race. If I did, I was never into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:23 PM
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Omg is he the guy you posted about going on a first date with !?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:17 PM
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Out of my relationships only one guy was black (Dominican with basically white skin so not even really black) Other 3 were Asian lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:15 PM
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Yup. Two of my ex boyfriends. We were 18, he asked me first. That was that. My last ex - I was 23 he was 25. I felt so strange that he asked me that question - but low and behold he was "RP" and just a total shit show. Both people were insecure, manipulative, immature and non experienced in all aspects of the relationships. Being 26 now, if someone ever asked me this question id laugh it off and not speak to them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:09 PM
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You used crying as an example of being weak and pathetic. You only clarified after that you find men who cry attractive just not as much as you And that's where I disagree that their choices are superior. They aren't. You do thinks its negative. Thats why you think they are superior because they chose women despite these "flaws"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 12:36 AM
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You gave me examples of reasons you think you're weak and pathetic about crying on someone over the news or 5hrs - not because of what he did to you. So you took out men who cry with your example. With your reasoning now I understand but idk why you have to call yourself weak and pathetic for doing that. having an actual issue calling myself weak and pathetic makes me feel way more actually weak and pathetic. Like I'm afraid of taking on those labels. You're not using it as an empowering label. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:46 PM
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Oh shit. Okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:28 PM
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As a woman, I prefer a man who I can look up to in ways of life and someone I can hopefully get advice from. Being wise is sexy to me. Someone who I can trust to lead. I am mature, I can lead but I dont want to all the time. I am submissive by nature and I have had relationships like that and unfortunately I have lost respect for them as a person who cannot make their own decisions. But - I do not think of myself as weak and pathetic since I know what I am capable of and I know where I can build…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:26 PM
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Lol because of hypergamy. Are you actually a woman? How about because you don't want to be with a deadbeat. So you actually think they won't find qualities in you that are better than them ? You want someone better than you in all ways ? Any man who is falling for someone who they would describe as weak and pathetic has issues and is probably abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:08 PM
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He has to be able to provide for himself. If he is leaning on me for financial support before commitment (marriage) is made - no. He doesn't have to provide for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:03 PM
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Yeah. Its just the term of "lowering" themselves that I disagree with. Meaning they are somehow better about choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:58 PM
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So why is it when women think of themselves first - aka not being with a man who does not show these abilities to take care of himself, or show that is capable of taking care of his family, lowering her standards? You wouldn't want a woman who doesn't give a fuck about her life right? That would be a person with all kinds of mental illness right ? So what if it's self serving to raise her values ? They are making sure their life would hopefully be equal and assuring. They are helping men in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:42 PM
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You guys take this and spin this in such a corrupted way. Everybody wants a good partner for themselves and this is ingrained in roles. You make men seem mighty and so self giving because he doesn't look for status in a partner. Men are taught to be providers and to take care of the family. You can say some men are turned off by women who are their equals or more dominant than them because it makes his place in the relationship weak. So men finding a girl "lower" than him can be satisfying to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:35 PM
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Yah. It makes no sense. Most women do not fuck a guy all her friends slept with then talk about it with those friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:29 PM
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Men dislike known sluts. If you're a girl with a high N that fucks smart and not people in the same circle - you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:26 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:24 PM
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Lol I love this. By men stating they are repulsed by women who have alot of sex yet hold the double standard of wanting to fuck alot of women but defending that it makes women less attractive - they are constantly reinforcing that women are wonderful, pure - yet that is a "lie told by society and RP is needed to open their eyes that women are not" while they still hold this true. A true alpha man, knows as much sex he is receiving from the giver, the giver is probably giving to others. He just k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:22 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:32 AM
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Lol without any head touching of the penis? I'm sorry I don't believe you. And I'm one of the few that can cum from PIV and clit, luckily. But they are entirely different senestions / levels of cumming. There will be no practice of trying to experience a clitoris orgasm from PIV. It's not possible. Everyone is different but like I said - don't tell ppl it's because their headspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 11:31 PM
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Anatomy. Obviously, I am woman and I know that it is extremely emotional. But do not try and tell women that they can't orgasm from PIV because of their "headspace" The clit is the main focus of how women cum. It's basically like the head of your penis - probably more sensitive. So no. In terms of why women aren't getting orgasms from PIV only is not because of a lack of foreplay and dirty talk. That's the stupidest thing I've heard today. Can you cum from getting your balls rubbed and licked ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:36 PM
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It's not about head space. It's about the literal anatomy ** of a woman. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:03 PM
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Lol and you're sure they are not lying to you? Woman barley cum from PIV, the spot is the clitoris and even if they have cum from PIV it's a very different cum they have reached. Feel bad for those women. Probably don't even know what a orgasms is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:02 PM
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Dated one before he became like that but FWB while he was? Lol My first boyfriend ever in grade 10. We were so sweet and innocent. Broke up after 6months. Didn't stay in contact too much, he has a kid, been to jail, etc. He would reach out to me every couple of years to catch up but I had a LTR relationship at those times. Was finally single when he reached out again, we caught up. Mind you it's been .. 11 years since we even barley dated. One thing lead to another, we'd call eachother when we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:53 PM
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Girl! RP is the most toxic thing for women to get into when they are trying to figure out the man mind when they are unsure of themselves and have no confidence. I got so wrapped up in believing I was an example of the horrible women making men's life hell, so I followed their unsolicited advice lol. Ended up with my ex who did not deserve me at all. I see you pretty much went through the same but atleast now they are our ex's. Yes you're right dating a loser is enough reason why women just pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:11 AM
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Convenient excuses ... lol Its called human nature, life, experiences and lessons. Yea, do you think everyone shows you their bad traits on the first meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:04 AM
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Slow progress is still progress. If we got everywhere we needed to be with minimal trying there wouldn't be growth cycles. But you're starting, so that's good. But it is still frustrating. What exactly are you trying? And how are you learning? (Friends, YouTube, role models) I'll tell you though, this sub isn't a place for progress if you're not comfortable with yourself yet. Neither is RP. It just circle jerks and brings you to a community of like minded men who are mostly negative. Just like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:31 AM
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He wasn't hot at all to me. But he had an ex girlfriend - who we would argue about, back in his home country absolutely obsessed with him. Love letters she would send to him, YouTube channel dedicated to him, public playlists and videos it was fucked lol. Don't feel down pal. There is someone for everyone. I'm not familiar with recovery for anorexia but are you in treatment ? And can you afford braces, if the crooked teeth really bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:25 AM
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I don't date people because of their height. I'm looking back and thinking of what was good quality about him that I could narrow down. Majority of these things don't come into light until the person starts to reveal themselves. Obviously when we first started dating he was putting on his best behaviour. His outfits were not on point but some guys just don't have great fashion sense. I was single for a bit and also into reading alot of Red Pill so I internalized it as "maybe my standards are too…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:06 PM
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Okay well then that is good. Keep the hostility to a low in person so at least you have that down. Yah that's what I mean. Even though you can say youre wearing polos and buttons up, if they don't fit you properly it defeats the purpose and looks sloppy. Wearing formal/dress up tops that are not your size looks worse than wearing jeans and a hoodie, in my honest opinion. If you're going to commit to something do it right, and not half assed. A lesson I needed to learn myself as I was so into DIY…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:17 PM
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Okay that's good. Are these well fitting button ups/polos or "I'm a medium but I'll wear large and roll up the sleeves and throw a hoodie over this" Do you have certain colours that you know will look good on you or are you wearing random plaid shirts? The guy I am currently dating is so well groomed. When wearing a button up, the lines of the shoulders must line up exactly where his shoulder ends - Shirt is ironed, tucked in and a belt. Clean shoes and well fitting pants and hair is styled. Dai…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:46 PM
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Sorry added more to my comment so I deleted this one. Well, how do you look ? How do you present yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:28 PM
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He wasn't hot, at all. At all Only thing going for him when I look back was his height at 6'2. Which I don't care about because I dated guys 5'6 - 5'9 and I'm 5'7. He had yellow teeth due to growing up outside of Canada, man boobs, wasn't fit but was skinny, and his dick game wasn't even good. I knew once I started to ask outsider opinions of my sister's "do you think he's attractive" I wasn't into his looks either. Crazy how insecurity could blind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:26 PM
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Agree. I dated one. It was "take me as I am, I change for nobody" Ok. But the pants you wear show your ass crack, your beard grows in patches but you refuse to shave, you don't put on colonge, youre trying to be a Rasta and don't maintain your hair so no bro, bye. Getting him to iron a shirt before he went to an interview was almost a fight. I still can't believe I dated him. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:45 PM
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Let me get this straight because I may have misunderstood. Are you saying that you don't care how many other people she easily fucked - as long as you are not amoung the people she has decided to "limit" her choices on ? So all in all, you wouldn't care about her past as long as she is giving you no limits ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:26 PM
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I think if a woman doesn’t want to get pumped and dumped or fall for an abusive guy, she should be more selective. However, I would like women to be less selective with me (assuming I was single) and fuck easily. I asked you why you said "because I'm me" Because you're you - to a woman is not enough if she has the mindset of being very picky and very selective. What are you offering her that she just cannot absolutely turn down? If you're willing to jump through hoops to prove that, then sure. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:23 PM
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And how many "because I'm me" has she met? Lol You guys are hilarious. Are you willing to jump through hoops and dance to prove that to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:47 PM
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And what makes you different from the all the guys the she was selective for ? Unless you're going to do some monkey dance for her and jump through hoops to show her you are different. But these RP men don't want to do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:48 PM
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Yeah it's probably the reason why some women lie about their count. I think guys have an over active imagination in terms of the quality of sex or sexual acts women do when it's only a casual hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:42 PM
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Yes, I guess what some people don't realize is that some women can acquire a high N from the dating (depending on how much is depends on the person) i said before and that can be how she got into a long term relationship with somebody. So she can have both. But I do understand the red flags when somebody has never ever had a relationship before but only slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:26 PM
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it's a catch-22 because a man doesn't know her intentions. He doesn't know that she's realized the better way to start a relationship, or that she's not that passionate about him and would break her new rules for a man she really likes. Yeah exactly, because if she doesn't have her guard up then she doesn't know his intentions and she would of slept with him and hoped for more but he didn't want anything. that's a valid point. and even though that makes sense, the male brain still finds the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:16 PM
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Maybe she was looking for a relationship and ended up sleeping with the guys she was interested in and didn't want to play the games of "making them wait" - this is basically where OP's point of the post comes in. If she's not accumulating it by just random one night stands with a guy who didnt know her name, but men who she thought had potential and didn't make them wait - it is now being used against her for not being picky enough but if she is picky after realizing sex isn't the best way to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:56 AM
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Tbh but I can only be speaking for myself and my past sexual encounters but I know it's the case of many women - but casual sex doesn't = best sex. Some of the best sex I had was with a bf, not with a casual date. It's usually someone who you had an emotional connection with that you remember how they made you feel during sex as oppose to how good they were. So using that - wouldn't it be men comparing sex with their woman's ex boyfriends compared to the casual ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:32 AM
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Lol can't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:02 AM
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I can see that then and agree. I would be pissed if I found out my husband was not attracted to me. But how many women are actually like that? Most people (that I know of) date how I explained. So using something like finding her her N count is meaningless. If she isn't giving you sex and looks disgusted by you then you leave, as any self respecting person should in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:02 AM
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It's still going to back to my point, as your answer brought up "promiscuous" women. So yes. Back to how people end up being labeled as promiscuous and how they racked up the count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:50 AM
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K so back to my point about how it's racked up. Do you think a woman whos end goal was to find a relationship but racked up a count because of those situations not working out - does not "deserve" a relationship? Or are you only saying this for women who fuck men then consciously decide to "settle" for someone she is not attracted to. I have a feeling it's the last - as if she engaged in casual sex with you and didn't make you wait you wouldn't even bother to ask how many people she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:47 AM
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I'm saying that you're telling people who have high N's that they don't deserve a relationship. Why do you think that's your place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:54 AM
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Do you not think some girls rack up high N from not waiting and seeing if her hook ups will end up becoming relationships? I mean the dating scene now, that's fairly what it is. Go out with a guy, maybe you're intention is a relationship, have sex, realized you guys aren't relationship compatible then on the the next. Not everyone racks it up by going to a club, refusing relationships and wanting to fuck only. Most people who engage in casual dating end up fucking someone and they both liked eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:18 AM
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K. You clearly have a complex and hate towards woman. I'm not saying I'm right because I'm a woman. You sound like the male version of women who try and and call out "mansplaining' which is very idiotic to me. Fix that or you'll be miserable forever, but seems like you already are. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:58 PM
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So be mad at Chad, not women ... That's why I don't get it. If you know you want to be something so bad, try to be it but don't go trying to put down the people who are attracted to what you want to become lol. It's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:14 PM
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K but you want to understand why it's being used so we are answering. How you view GAY men is how women view UGLY men What can you not understand? The reason it's used is because so many men advocate they will fuck anything if she puts out. So comparing an ugly women to an ugly man is something you won't understand. Men getting attention from women is seen as special since women never make the first move, they would be "grateful and decline" Since mens standards on attaining sex is much lower th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:10 PM
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No. Men here repeatedly say that biologically they are programmed to "spread their seed" it doesn't say with what type of quality women. Ugly women will still have thirsty men after them - and some men don't give a fuck as long as they are getting a wet hole to have sex with. It's definitely not the same with women. Just like how you may be repulsed by a gay guy wanting to fuck you in the ass or wanting him to fuck you, is the same feeling a woman feels disgusted by a ugly guy (to her) fucking h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:41 PM
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Who are we to judge on it? If they think they deserve more and they don't obtain it, they won't ever be satisfied with a man below that anyway so why are men complaining about it? If they are better off wanting to be alone, then they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:33 PM
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You’re basically saying women view sub-8/10 men how homophobes view gay people. Not really a good look. You're using numbers. She didn't. Guys I am not attracted to that continue to pursue me, I am very off put by it. Attraction most times = what is fuckable. Would you want to fuck a guy? no. Would a women want to fuck a man that she thinks is ugly? no. Would you be annoyed by a man who continues to pursue you even tho you told him you are straight? Yes. Same thing with women. The issue of men l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:28 PM
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Agreed. I dated a guy who was into TRP and fucking worst relationship I have ever been in. He was disgustingly immature and emotionally closed off. He was just odd and had a very concerning complex with pride and ego. I always told him he had an ego / pride problem but he never understood what it meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:46 PM
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I mean you all know you sound women defending FDS right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:25 PM
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Why do you think they are single black mom's ..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:04 AM
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Clearly you are with your rants and assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:12 PM
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Did I say that? If I did, where did I say it? We are talking about men and women who did not have equal opportunities to become the backbone throughout history. Are you denying that? Yes or no. Answer the question and leave your rant for another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:10 PM
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Lol nice edit. Stick by your words and don't back peddle bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:53 PM
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Are you talking about then or now? And are you going to have a conversation or assume I'm "triggered" because now you just look stupid. You spoke about the "back bone" that is regarding the past. If you are denying that men and women did not have equal opportunities for growth then you're an idiot. I also said don't forget that men were pushed much harder than women to meet a certain standard so of course they are going to be the ones who created. How natural are "natural gender roles" If people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:33 PM
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Why do you think they were the back bone of history .. they had access to education and don't forget that men were pushed much harder than women to meet a certain standard so of course they are going to be the ones who created.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:42 PM
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"why should I have to suffer speaking to a guy who's even as ugly as me" Such a mood LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:09 PM
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never mentioned casual sex. That was all on you. I'm not judging. I think that it does reveal a bit of a Freudian slip, but I want no fights here. Not a slip. Whenever the conversation of sexual history is brought up here, it always has to do with the amount of partners. So it was my interpretation as men here are obsessed with the constant asking of sexual history and placing women in groups by how many people she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:10 AM
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Of course I understood it and I do agree. To lie about relationship pasts and experiences is not a meaningful way to start and continue in a relationship. Within the specifics that's where I do not want to know nor do I care to know how many people or what your ex girlfriend liked and didn't like. The most I care about is what you learned from your experience, what you have come to conclude that you like and don't like and we take off from there. I feel someone asking these questions is normal o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:10 PM
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Lol no they don't simply do that to point on the double standard. Most believe it, at least the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:51 PM
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Idk why you type like that, but it's annoying. You're saying alot to get to a simple point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:50 PM
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Everything you said sounds great and all - but this question I would assume - is not being asked while there is gap in the sex life. I'm pretty sure most of these guys are asking as a way to vet a "hoe from wife"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:15 PM
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Personally I'm not offended by the question but I would be put off as to why it would matter to them in the first place because I would never ask because I don't see why I would need to know or care to know. In matters of sex, I do not feel that that tells me the type of person I am dealing with. What people did while they were single is what they did when they were single ... For me what is the basis of a relationship is asking about past long term relationships. That will give me the basis of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:13 PM
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I personally don't see the importance. I would never ask my partner how many people he had sex with. I don't care. We can discuss things we have done or tried but it's not relevant to add who it was or how many times. You ask a general question not details. I don't care about the details. Have you had casual sex? Yes. Ok. That's it. What's your turn on? What's your favourite position? What do you dislike? Etc Do you tell your new manager the names and nitty gritty details on your work experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:26 PM
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Anyone who claims they don't care about their partner's sexual history is a liar I would never ask my partner how many people he had sex with. I don't care. We can discuss things we have done or tried but it's not relevant to add who it was or how many times. You ask a general question not details. I don't care about the details. When you're past the age of 25, these conversations are childish unless you are very, very, inexperienced and want to make sure she is on your level. I could not imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:20 PM
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What do you think the men say here about women who end up in these situations ??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:09 PM
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All she is saying is that men treat women's issues just like this. When women end up being with abusers, cheating, men isnt your narrative to say just wanted Chad's dick? In all seriousness though I don't agree with abuse by anyone - but why can't the same be said for this situation? Did he not leave his older wife for a hot young woman "Stacy" and now is facing the consequences for his choice to run after pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:08 PM
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Yas girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:52 AM
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I don't think "American" men are forced to liked anything. Taking into consideration the vase majority of minorities that are in the West and cultures that are naturally curvy where a 00 is not the norm, broadens mens attraction to different body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:55 AM
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You don't think a women with D cups could be attractive... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:51 AM
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So they didn't try hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:06 AM
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And are men unsuccessful with women because their expectations are too high and they aren't trying hard enough ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:33 PM
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That was a fucking headache to read. Apparently we as women can't reply to a question about women using our own lived experiences. Yet these men create TRP based off of their lived experiences and collect data that backs up their claims and it's proved as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:33 PM
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Just like I've seen too many average looking guys fucking over pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:10 PM
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So you don't think women are humans with human problems because they have a vagina. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:06 PM
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Because the response sounded like someone who doesn't have sex and puts it on a pedestal. So if u agree with that - do u get upset when some women adopt the same view and go for men they are not attracted to because she thinks he will treat her better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:38 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:31 PM
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This is from personal experience along with experience of majority of the women I know. It takes one woman to like you for you to become her "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:30 PM
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So you think people who get constantly approached by unwanted behavior don't have problems ? You think women don't go through abuse, abandonment issues or shitty childhoods? You think women who were raised in a western country but have immigrant parents with patriarchal views on women don't suffer? Do you think rich people problems are bull shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:22 PM
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Of course they do. They could fall out of love, get tired of her shit, waste her time without wanting to get married, break up with her, or treat her badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:18 PM
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Because she liked him? And what makes you think all women give in to the men orbiting around her and keep them as back up? Honestly - what kind of women do you know? That's so not true. Unless me, my friends, the women in my family, random women I meet have all been exceptions to the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:16 PM
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I feel bad for the real Chad's out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:12 PM
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My bad, I was trying to get to a point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:12 PM
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Because you feel average men feel so privileged to be having sex that they still are not/ won't be shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:11 PM
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My bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:55 PM
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Do you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:54 PM
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Like I said in my OP. The amount of girls who look back on their ex's and think "wtf was I thinking. How did I let him treat me like that" is a large amount - so if a guy was already successful in their relationship, he has the ability to fuck her over. You're coming from am angle that you believe average men don't have standards for themselves. And you believe women have an all-time high of self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:54 PM
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Nah. I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:50 PM
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You guys really think alot of girls have high self esteem or know their worth that much to not tolerate shit? There are alot who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:50 PM
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Yes, they do. If he already successful in dating her - and she liked him, she would give him leeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:48 PM
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As we have said now about 10 billion times, below average to a women is a chadlite. Bs. You're telling me when you go outside you don't see average and below average males having girlfriends? Or are you only talking about 18-22 year old white people in college? When you look at minorities this is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:48 PM
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It seems like every story men hear it's about some Chad. When it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:43 PM
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Women get whipped by these average men as well and will take him back. Why do you think this is not relevant to average looking men who were already successful in their relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:42 PM
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But they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:40 PM
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Men think that every girl who shares her story about a bad break up or a guy cheating or being treated unwell was a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:37 PM
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Np
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:45 PM
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I'm saying as guys who believe that a woman who doesn't put out is using him. Which is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:40 PM
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No not ruining women's lives. But allowing a woman to experience the real world of dating, yes. The fact that you truly believe that is where the disconnect of womens dating experiences begin. You will never understand that an average guy has the absolute power to be a dick. If he doesn't realize this - he is probably going for women that are above his match and wants to do everything and anything to keep her. Average people break up, average people cheat, average people divorce. If you think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:02 PM
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That is where you guys are mistaken. Not every single guy who puts a girl through situations like these are Chad's or very attractive. That is where men's self worth falls short - thinking an ugly guy would never hurt a girl because he is internally so desperate. Not true. Also thinking that if the girl is getting hurt by an ugly guy that she is ugly, again not true. FDS is equivalent and equal to TRP. Your example is just like how men talk on trp. How do u not see that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:01 PM
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Lol. Just like how a woman not sleeping with you in the first - third indicates you are low value or she is using you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:31 PM
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FDS - is definitely for normal women. There isn't one thing on there that a woman has not experienced in her life time in the dating world. Pin point one thing you think is uncommon. You guys really think once a woman is born she doesn't experience heart break, encounter assholes, get used or rejected. apparently to you guys if that happens to her it's because she picked a Chad over some quality nice guy. A vagina doesn't give you a gold pass for dating experiences. I mean don't u guys see this …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:27 PM
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Nope. I barley use social media so it would be a relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:48 AM
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Keep living up to your 40yr old "friends" With your logic, you're going to end up like Michael from the office at the club LOL Goodluck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:12 AM
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Good. You can stop talking because your point you have tried to prove has failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:09 AM
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And like I said - sure some try and it doesn't mean they are successful. My point that you tried to say is wrong is still true. Women will stay desirable to men older than her. The men who are not pinning after 20yr olds are pursuing women their age or a little bit younger. Don't like act like 15+ age gaps are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:05 AM
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Like I said, they are lucky. There are some men who have no issues. But majority do. Idk why you can't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:56 AM
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unless they are completely oblivious to social ques and understand where they are in the sex market to women who could be their daughters. But clearly I guess you're one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:50 AM
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Doesn't matter. It's still a preference. Like I said - women will continue being wanted and pursued by men older than her. Men who are in touch with reality and understand that they are not going to be successful with women 15yrs younger than him. If they are they are lucky to find one that is not grossed out or creeped out by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:42 AM
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Preference is not reality. Availability trumps preference almost, always. Sure they could prefer a 23 yr old woman over a 40yr old - just like women could prefer a better looking and more successful man. But does it mean they are doing to get it? No. Women look great at that age... I'm sure women judging women physically would agree with that too ..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:29 AM
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Which is why women at any age will always be revelent to men older than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:44 AM
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I never said women didn't like it. Obviously if this conversation is taking place like you said, "who've talked about anal the first time" it seems like they brought it up? Why would a women who doesn't like anal bring up the fact about not wanting to do anal? Unless the guy asked her about it. This whole conversation OP is talking about is women who do like it and men are asking her about it ... What do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:35 AM
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I find it really hard to believe you don’t understand the concept that people generally want their serious partners to share in something intimate with them that they’ve never shared with anyone else. Who said I didn't understand this concept? This is not talking about something that partners have never done with eachother, this is talking about something a person tried and specifically doesn't like. No HVM is going to pout and complain about his gf asking to do anal and she says no, she doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:12 AM
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You don't lol. You're young so you clearly don't understand the pleasure that comes with giving and receiving oral. Like I said - you have NO idea what your boys do with girls lol. Younger men think of oral as disgusting and slimy and gross. Many men do not.. because they are straight af and want to drown in pussy LOL. But if you think vaginas are gross - you aren't old enough to be having sex lol. Dw young one. Let's see where you're at when you're 26-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:36 AM
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Lol because men are going to openly discuss how much they love eating their gf's pussy to guys they know don't like it. You don't know your boys when they are having sex. The only guys I've ever encountered about not wanting to eat pussy was when I was I early 20's and my ex bf thought he was too cool for that. Years later, he's getting pleasure from it and begging me to get a taste some days. Everything you just explained are reasons why men enjoy it. I enjoy giving oral to my man because he li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:28 PM
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Eating that shit up like it's the last supper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:24 PM
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What if they wanted to try to see if she doesn't like it? Are you going to hold it above her head that she atleast "tried" with someone else? If someone doesn't like a finger up their ass when they tried it the first time, they won't want to try it again. What if her ex was smaller than you so she felt more comfortable at the very thought of her ass not getting torn apart ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:15 PM
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What does her being 10cm have to do with anything ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:13 PM
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Says a very small minority of straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:09 PM
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Only know a small amount straight guy not wanting to eat pussy. But your age sounds about right to someone who would hold those viewpoints of pleasure. I'm 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:45 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:38 PM
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Interesting. Goodluck young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:08 PM
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What makes you think you will know if she had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:01 PM
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What makes you think she will string you along? What if she ends up having sex with u on the first date bc you guys hit it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:03 PM
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Your key words are staring. Obviously women check out men, I don't think you have any women deny that. Many men stare and are very obvious about it even though they think they aren't. Which is why you'll get females complaining of their men checking out other women infront of her. Women, for the most part glance. Men check out to hopefully get the attention of a woman to then find out if she is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:34 PM
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I don't understand how "self control" = sleeping with people less. Self Control is something that you need when you know you're not suppose to have it. So framing casual sex to a single person as low self control is wrong since she wants to do it as a single woman You are associating single behavior to relationship behavior. If you take a group of past cheaters and compare to how many of them still cheated in their partners then you can have some leeway. This makes 0 sense. If you are a low n co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:16 PM
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If you really think you can seperate bad people and good people by how many people they slept with, you have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:40 AM
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Divorce courts are also filled with people who felt they stayed with their partner due to "comfort" being "highschool sweethearts" "because they been together for so long, might as well marry them and stay with them" until they came to terms that they don't like them, also filled with people who got married because of pregnancy. High N is not a leading causation of divorce. That is where your argument fails. Find me a divorced man or women who states the reason for their divorce is a past partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:00 AM
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What is the problem with a woman knowing what she wants to in bed? What is a problem with a women knowing what type of men she likes and doesn't ? It sounds like you are just lazy and insecure and you want someone who is easy to manipulate. Why preach to a room of educated people when you can win over the minds of naive highschool students. Is what you sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:35 PM
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So you want your woman / women in general to be naive to sex and relationships so you can continue to do the bare minimum and ensure she is pleased with that - as she doesn't know what else is out there. That is my take on your essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:13 PM
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So you think she will be more inclined to cheat or want more if you don't satisfy her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:51 PM
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What point are you trying to get at here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:35 PM
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Just the women in that study has 2, is also likely to divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:34 PM
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Exactly. This is always a question 1. Before I meet them in person or if that didn't happen, it would during the first date as casual conversation. Esp with online hook up presumptions it's better to know before they think you're going home with them on date 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:41 PM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:32 PM
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If you think men didn't have an advantage over women years ago, you are dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:32 PM
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Periodt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:32 PM
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Women are more likely to suffer from things like depression, bipolar disorder, borderline disorder, schizoaffective disorder, etc. Where are the stats? Isn't it men who commit suicide more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:46 PM
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And before these laws were put into place - was is not men who were taking advantage of women in many instances? I think you guys forget why feminism begun in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:44 PM
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Exactly this. I am on dating apps and I put my ages from 32-41. Just to see. The amount of men who are balding, fat, have no sense of style - clothes that fit/looks nice on them is probably 90%. RP holds on the 10% and tries to represent them as the rule. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you'll age gracefully or that you'll somehow turn into a Chad because you have money. Majority of the women who will going after you for your money, are not hot young 22yr old virgins you guys are hoping w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:49 PM
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This is not completely false. Just like a woman who keeps herself fit, she will have men her age and older flocking to her. Men experience balding, gaining weight, and aging - if you don't keep care of yourself you will end up hitting your own wall. And let's face it. The amount of men and women who properly take care of themselves is not alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:40 PM
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Toronto friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:35 PM
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I hope you're joking.... Wtf ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:17 PM
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I guess I'm asking the "what kind" Women usually say that haven't felt an orgasm. Most orgasms for women are done via foreplay so wondering how much guys enjoy it. Or if it's a quick thing, then they get to business
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:51 PM
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I just changed the beginning. I don't want people getting stuck on that aspect lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:38 PM
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Honesty, so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 01:51 PM
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Yah once we talked about that, he would still back peddle and say things like "well, would you make sure to wear it" or " you talk about trust, so would you trust me to not look at it in a stalker way and use it for only safety purposes"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:39 PM
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Do you understand that the bulk of this happened in a span of less than 1 week? Saturday. Monday. Wednesday. These things didn't start coming into light in more detail until the 2/4 date when it wasn't just him making comments that could be misinterpreted over text. And do you want me to be those girls who use men for dinner by having dates lined up back to back? I have a full time job and a life. Dating is not my hobby and i try to show some decency when casually going on dates with multiple pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:46 PM
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Lol a Chad. You funny. If he was a Chad he would of tried to get me in bed already. And like I said, CASUALLY dating. You guys can't read can you? Does this mean I'm exclusively dating him? No. I'm obviously seeing other people to. And majority of these things came out after like 2-3 dates in. The fourth date was literally two days ago when we had full discussions on things and he opened up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:09 PM
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If you think this is my full life details you have some issues. This is a guy I have met four times in two weeks. I have had this account for 8months and posted twice. You're acting like a post my daily struggles on it. Like I said continue lurking or shut up and stop reading into the details of people lives that clearly bring you entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:25 PM
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I can also say he is shorter than me too. So idk if that has anything to do it with. I asked him if he ever tracked his ex's and he said no, never felt the need to because their relationships were just whatever. But if he is getting married to someone he would want to. When we spoke again, and k brougjt it up he put it down to "well only if we are out of the city and going away for work. But yah, I don't see the need if we live together or are in the same city" Which is bs to me because why woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:20 PM
1

That last sentence sends shivers down my spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:13 PM
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Only for science.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:12 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:12 PM
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When I asked how his ex's were... He said "obidenent" I was likehuh? He explained that they were very fob Asian girls who didn't really have much of an input. Always went along with what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:12 PM
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Exactly! He brought it up as a family friends grandfather uses it to track his wife because she has Alzheimer's and walks around and gets lost sometimes. He took that idea and fixated that on a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:11 PM
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You think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:09 PM
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Yea we aren't exclusive at all - and exactly. Literally on the second date he brought up the idea of it when he's married and has a SO. He's already talking about kids. Also has asked me a few time on whether or not my mom/friends know about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:07 PM
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I am a little confused by this. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:04 PM
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lmao - no aside from this stuff before things got weird, we had good conversation, our long term goals seemed to aligned, he is not about hooking up, neither am I, we over all would have good times and enjoy the company of each other - when these conversations are not brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:56 PM
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Very, very true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:55 PM
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I don't have a SO. That is where your attempt at sarcasm falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:51 PM
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"To promote her own biased pov" What biased pov am I promoting? When I am literally writing everything we talked about and his word for word responses ....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:43 PM
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nah, im not going to re-read your bs reply. You have some weird defensive tone for me writing something online, as if I haven't already had talks about it and picked his brain more - I wrote it on this sub as he basically goes against everything that is spewed here. Again - you are acting like I can't get out and im deeply involved and he is my one and only option. Do yourself a favour and stay lurking. Your comments hold no substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:41 PM
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Yeah, im going to break it off today - he told me to let him know if i find another guy or if im just not feeling it. So I will for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:35 PM
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Learn to take responsability and deal with the consequences from your actions/choices. You poorly invested your time and energy in some weird good looking dude and is now trying to rationalise the classic sunken cost fallacy. Who said I didn't take responsibility ? It takes a little while to get to know a person and people don't show their red flags until later on. You're acting like im in the relationship with the dude and I can't get out. I will emphasis again - casual dating. And I find it na…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:30 PM
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First. This is NOT a relationship. Second, I do have options. We are casually dating as in getting to know eachother. This does not stop the cycle of going on dates with other people. The reason I wrote this is because I have been conflicted. He is a very good looking guy, aside from these topics we get one, we have a great time. If I didn't like him and thought he was completely crazy I wouldn't have gone on 4 dates with him. I'm bringing this is strangers because I thought IF all these things …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:32 PM
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Thats why I semi agreed with him, esp with the phone thing. But then he said "clothes no, you always take it off and I'll have to put it back on. Phones can get stolen/forgotten so it would be a necklace where I know you will have it on at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:02 PM
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I asked him just that - if he thinks I'm going to cheat BC I like watching porn, because he kept talking about men, giving me examples and why he doesn't watch it. He said to me, he can give a bit more leeway for women because he believes once women fall in love, they mentally lock down on their man. So he doesn't care about the past, as long as the person is with him now and is dedicated to him, he can look past it. But men are different and decent men don't watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:59 AM
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I asked him about the tracking. He said his friends grandfather track his grandma with a necklace with a device inside as she has Alzheimer's and walks around. I asked him if he would track his kids, he said he would consider it but would stop after a certain age and ask his kids if they still wanted him to. Hed respect any decision. Then I said how can you view that and not that any about your SO and not knowing there is one. He explains that kids are kids and once they grow up they will begin …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:06 AM
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Thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:52 AM
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Always weirder my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:51 AM
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Yah he almost embraces it. He feels it's nothing to be ashamed about ..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:51 AM
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Mmmmmmm wow. Very very interesting. Thanks for the insight Really? Why is it not surprising? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:39 AM
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It's crazy because he actually is very good looking. Like very good looking. I need to do that personality test, let's see lol. The first two - were alright let's see how this goes. The third one was where I wanted to bring up what was said in date two, once things got weird. The fourth was to again open his mind a bit and understand why. Mind you, date 2-4 happened within Saturday, Monday and Wednesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:29 AM
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Sorry I wrote this somewhere else a few days ago before shit got weird and we had more in depth. I didn't edit that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:26 AM
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My exact narrated thoughts in my head as he explain each point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:25 AM
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Yes very - and the crazy thing is that he seems to get visibly upset when I don't 100% agree with him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:24 AM
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I don't believe it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:21 AM
1

Yes. I am very sure I had these discussions with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:20 AM
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I'm Canadian. He's Canadian / Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:17 AM
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Pls no, not my boyfriend. Nothing is official.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:15 AM
1

Very x4
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:13 AM
2

Exactly 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:13 AM
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Exactly. After one of our talks / dates, I ended up driving around to think about wtf we just talked about. I told him I'm just digesting what was said. On our next one he was like "damn, you're thinking about every word I say - that's scary girl. Putting alot of thought into it"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:13 AM
1

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:11 AM
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Hopefully not ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:55 AM
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I wish I was.. this is why I posted this to hear input.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:26 AM
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I did talk with him. This is what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:15 AM
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I wish I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:35 AM
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This guy sounds like a willing door mat, does he stay in shape? He does. He has allowed himself to be in situations where the woman is choosing him and he is doing everything he can to continue pursuing her until she chooses him or doesn't. He said so himself. And yeah, he is in shape. Sex once a month will not be enough in your mid 30s. If he wants kids, I hope he financially is in a position to pay the 285,000 dollars over 18 years that they each individually cost. That doesn't count the sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:33 PM
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He is Asian - Vietnamese. The whole money aspect is what is worrisome. He isn't rich. The reasons he told me his ex broke up with him was because her family didnt think he was in a good position to take care of their daughter. Right now he works at the same place, I believe his parents work at. As a forklift driver - makes about 40k. I am in the telecommunications industry and make around 65k and my salary will only go up from here. He is quite firm in staying where he is as his job history is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:24 PM
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Sorry I am going to edit this. I wrote this in a different way a few days ago when I hightlighted all the things that he would do to try to prove that he is 'different' or a pick me guys before we got into the in-depth explanations of topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:26 PM
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I just read your other one and I'm going to reply, just leaving work now. But yes. Esp when during the second date he joked about adapting to his ex gf's fob English also that he had no friends outside of his last relationship only his ex and it's kinda why he stuck around. His parents told him to never waste a girls youth, so he was going to just stay in the relationship for the sake of staying even if his needs were last - since he told her he would be there. It was her that broke it off becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:25 PM
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I don't have a problem moving on .. Its interesting coming across someone like this that holds so many values but in such a twisted way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:20 PM
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This is why I'm writing this because this is insane to me!!!!! Esp when we haven't even had sex yet and you're telling me 1. You don't value it 2. If I get with you we won't be doing it alot. Omg I almost forgot. When I asked him, how his ex girlfriends were the first thing he said was "obidenent" The more I'm writing this out the crazier I feel accepting more than 2 dates with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:16 PM
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So just now he called me and he's like "you need to stop over thinking girl, the more you think in the beginning the more barriers you put up and the harder it is for me to get to your heart, hahaha" I said, well I need to. I don't agree with you on alot He goes "wow so this whole time you were nodding your head it was just taking in what I said saying? Well maybe next time we meet up let me know what you don't agree with and I'll see if I can come up to a compromise and maybe start thinking the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:08 PM
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Uhhhh.. I'm not LOL Do you really think only ugly girls have problems ? Smfh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:06 PM
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Even just now he called me and he's like "you need to stop over thinking girl, the more you think in the beginning the more barriers you put up and the harder it is for me to get to your heart, hahaha" I said, well I need to. I don't agree with you on alot He goes "wow so this whole time you were nodding your head it was just taking in what I said saying? Well maybe next time we meet up let me know what you don't agree with and I'll see if I can come up to a compromise and maybe start thinking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:04 PM
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Yep, I agree. Porn ruins men, the more they watch the more it messes them up. Fair. But do you think it causes cheating? I pay for everything for anyone I date and even my friends when we go out. IMHO it's bad form to ask someone to do something with you then make them pay, unless it's been explicitly agreed beforehand. Also, I make more money than most of the people in my social circle He said the same. When we went into careers and whatnot I make atleast 15-20k more than him Awkward or low T. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:01 PM
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You are right. I wanted to figure out what made him tick and if I could find out the underlying causes to it through conversation to see if it would make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:50 PM
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I really needed to! because other than this (which I know is a fuckload and serious) we have decent conversations and jokes. Pretty good times but this can't be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:49 PM
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Not love advice, but more so opinions a a guy like this because is very different for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:42 PM
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You may be onto something. He told me he doesn't watch porn because he doesn't see the sexyness of a woman who would degrade herself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:40 PM
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Explain more plssss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:39 PM
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You're so right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:00 PM
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You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:56 PM
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I am about to put on my shoes and run.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:54 PM
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He grew up in Cali, so he has a bit of a urban twang to his voice. But .. He told me his last ex was Japanese and he would find himself speaking English sometimes like a fob because he was around them so often. I am black, so I wonder if this is how is trying to relate to me... But I don't like speak like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:53 PM
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He is honestly, a very good, looking Asian guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:46 PM
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My thoughts exactly. That was only after I met him once. But I thought he was playing until we saw eachother in person and started to get into the talks. One thing too is that, I was telling him I had stomach problems to dairy. He insists that it is all in my head and I need to warm up to it. We went for lunch, and he wanted to order an avocado smoothie. I told him he could, but I won't have any. After a while he's like "I really want you to try it. If I buy it can you take a sip?" I said ok I'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:43 PM
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Me neither ..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:36 PM
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Girl, when I said at least once a week he looked flabbergasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:34 PM
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Pls be sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:33 PM
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When I told him that a LTR that has sex is healthy. He looked so off put by it. Saying that sex shouldn't be the one thing. I said no, its not but a woman is going to feel unwanted. Then he said "well if the man is taking care of her, she shouldn't let that dictate the relationship. Women shouldn't be letting a man focus on that one thing. I'm trying to show you the difference between a decent man and a fuck boy" And I completely understand the location thing which is why I told him I get it whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:31 PM
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LOL I know sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:26 PM
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My thoughts too. That he feels a need to seperate himself from them. He keeps telling me that he is telling me these things to help me understand men. He looked visibly upset when I told him I watched porn and that I don't agree with his premise. Starting going into that men are like wild beasts and someone who watches porn cannot be tamed with he has the opportunity to unleash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:25 PM
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I asked you what you want WOMEN to do to show MEN empathy. You're telling me what men already do. So you want women to date and court guys. That's how you feel you will acquire empathy from women. What a joke. Yah this conversation is done because you want something from women that you yourself can't even pinpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:03 PM
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You have not given me examples how yet. You want something done and you can't even explain what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 08:32 PM
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I am asking you, HOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:05 PM
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QTF? ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:15 PM
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But you didnt answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:45 AM
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People on here who are asking for empathy, seem to despise women. So let's start here with these people. How do you expect women on here to show empathy to men that will then transcend into real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:45 AM
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And what does this to? Some men show it by taking action during a situation where women are helpless. What action do you want women to take? How r u going to know that women are empathizing with you? It's hard to emphasize with a group of people who hate you for being a woman already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:56 PM
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And how do you want women to emphasize with strangers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:03 PM
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So do men want pity from women? Do men want women to pity fuck them until they are happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:27 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:37 PM
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But why would she do that - what does accomplish? So do average men want pity from women? If the average guy is not able to get a gf, and he is not fat, he is educated, there is something wrong with his personality. Sorry. I see average couples together all the time. Why should an average women who has been rejected from a date not feel sad, yet say others have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:30 PM
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Who is they? Be specific when you're speaking to me. The point is, there are many girls who suffer from self esteem issues and they are fucking guys who are average. There are women who are average and fucking average men. If you're not getting laid, you're below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:58 PM
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This here is projecting your wants and you need in life to women. Just because a women attains these things doesn't mean she wants it. What you value and what she values is different. Why should she be happy for something that causes her unhappiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:55 PM
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Lies. I have slept with average guys. No where near the 20% It was also when I had 0 self esteem and thought sex would get me a relationships because I "needed one" so I may have purposely down graded thinking I'd secure someone. Made those guys lives tho I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:34 PM
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You CAN release sexual frustration through getting a one night stand. Men don't really have that option. No. You never know what quality sex you'll be getting from a one night stand. Just because for guys, sex = busting a nut doesn't mean the same for a girl. And if we are being honest, one night stands aren't too enjoyable esp if the guy doesn't know your body or want to do certain things. Not many men are open for oral to a girl they just met. The sexual market is in favour of women. So if a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:32 PM
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I mean, look at the men here. They had poor judgement in women, they got burned and turned into women hating assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:58 PM
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Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:32 AM
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